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Calling All Women
Hosted by Dr. Jaap, a board-certified psychiatrist with over 30 years of experience, this podcast is your guide to achieving maximum abundance, vibrant health, and true harmony. Drawing on decades of clinical practice and a profound exploration of complementary therapies, Dr. Jaap shares transformative insights into healing, self-discovery, and personal empowerment.
From reconnecting with your inner child to understanding the power of energy work, EMDR, and the mind-body connection, each episode dives deep into the barriers that hold you back and the tools to break through them. Blending modern psychiatry with holistic practices, Dr. Jaap invites you on a journey to rediscover your voice, embrace your authentic self, and unlock your full potential.
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Calling All Women
12. Part 5: Boarding School as Normalized Neglect
In this episode, we continues our deep dive into the psychological and generational impact of the British boarding school system in Northern India. We explore how normalized neglect and privileged abandonment within these institutions shape the emotional landscapes of former students—particularly men—and how those unresolved traumas ripple into their marriages and parenting. Dr. Jaap unpacks how this emotional inheritance often manifests in control, emotional distance, and unconscious reenactments of early trauma, especially within intimate relationships. Drawing from her decades of psychiatric practice, she offers validation, hope, and practical steps toward healing.
Tune in to hear:
-Why the trauma of boarding school is often buried beneath privilege and silence
-How unprocessed childhood trauma shows up in marriage and parenting
-The emotional and psychological patterns of boarding school alums in adult relationships
-Why wives and children often bear the emotional burden of unresolved trauma
-The contrast between the alum's public persona and private emotional struggles
-How societal expectations and cultural norms trap both husband and wife in painful cycles
-Signs that your partner’s emotional patterns may be rooted in institutional trauma
-Hope for healing through awareness, therapy (like EMDR), and spiritual practices
-How shifting one person’s awareness can ripple healing through a whole family system
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