Unapologetically Wild with Kadi Sonntag

Why High-Performing Women Struggle to Receive (And How to Change It)

Kadi Sonntag Season 1 Episode 48

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What if the thing holding you back isn’t what you’re doing… but what you’re not allowing yourself to receive?

In this episode of Unapologetically Wild, I dive into a pattern I see so often in high-performing women — the ability to give endlessly, but the struggle to truly receive.

Whether it’s support, compliments, opportunities, or even rest… so many of us have been conditioned to believe we have to do it all on our own. That independence equals strength. But the truth is, constantly giving without allowing yourself to receive leads to burnout, disconnection, and limitation.

In this conversation, I share my own journey — from my time in the military where I resisted support, to learning how powerful it is to actually let people in. I also explore how this shows up in business, relationships, and everyday life, and why shifting into a more balanced dynamic can completely change your capacity, creativity, and results.

We talk about community, vulnerability, and the deeper mindset shifts required to move from scarcity into abundance — because receiving isn’t weakness, it’s expansion.

Key Takeaways

  •  Why high-performing women struggle with receiving 
  •  How overgiving leads to burnout and disconnection 
  •  The link between receiving and abundance 
  •  How to shift your mindset around independence and support 
  •  Simple ways to start allowing more into your life 

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About Kadi

Meet Kadi Sonntag, the unapologetically wild woman leading the charge on living life boldly and breaking free from the limits society tries to set. Born in Maitland in 1992 and raised in Newcastle, Kadi’s love for sports (anything but school!) started early.

From swimming at a national level to competing in high jump at nationals and playing representative basketball, Kadi was always moving, growing, and pushing herself. In high school, she was the sports and school captain, proving leadership comes naturally.

At 19, Kadi took a leap and joined the army, starting as an admin clerk and eventually becoming an army physical training instructor in 2019. She’s served on peacekeeping missions in the Middle East, taken part in exercises in Asia, and now holds the rank of sergeant. Talk about resilience!

When she’s not leading in the military, Kadi’s got her sidekick—her dog Piper—and she’s all about empowering women to tap into their inner strength, unleash their wildest selves, and live unapologetically. Whether she’s playing for the Defence National Basketball Team or sharing her journey on Unapologetically Wild, Kadi is here to help women break free, find their power, and live on their own terms.

Connect with Kadi: @kadi_sonntag