Saying YES to Creativity in Life's Chaos: Finding Inner Safety in the Mess | Sam Horton

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When everything feels like it’s falling apart, choosing to create might feel like the last thing to do — but what if it’s the exact medicine your soul is asking for?

3 Powerful Reasons to Listen:

1. Discover why your creative expression is a lifeline during life’s most uncertain, painful moments
2. Learn how to use simple creative rituals to build emotional resilience and inner safety
3. Explore the power of creativity as a sacred act of self-witnessing and spiritual healing

✨ Key Takeaways:

• Why creativity is not a luxury in hard times, it’s a lifeline
• How small creative acts build deep emotional strength and self-trust
• The difference between creating to perform vs. creating to process
• How creative rituals calm your nervous system and restore inner safety
• Practical ways to start a soul-led creative practice when you feel lost, messy, or overwhelmed
• Why your creativity is not about being ‘good’, it’s about coming home to yourself
• How my own practice helped me navigate divorce, uncertainty, and personal transformation

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Chapters

• 0:00 Introduction and why to listen
• 2:44 Creativity is a bridge back to yourself
• 4:14 It’s not about fixing, it’s about feeling
• 5:30 Creative rituals create inner safety
• 8:18 You don’t need to feel ready, you just need to begin
• 10:01 The most empowered step forward? Meeting yourself here.
• 10:59 A gentle invitation to reflect

Transcript

Ep 72 Soul-led Creative Women

[00:00:00] If you're going through a hard season right now, if things feel uncertain, heavy, or like everything is falling apart, this episode is for you. In this episode, I share why leaning into creativity when life is unraveling. Might be the most empowering thing you can do, even if it makes no sense. In this episode, I cover why slowing down and leaning into creativity will help you build inner safety and strength and help you shift out of whatever you're in, more empowered and transformed.

We cover how to use simple creative rituals to process big emotions and life experiences as soul nourishment. And we'll cover the truth that you don't always need to be ready or inspired. You just have to begin exactly where you are. Let this episode be a reminder. Your creativity is not here to impress.

It's here to help you remember who you are. [00:01:00] Enjoy.

When life unravels, when grief is raw, when uncertainty weighs heavy, or when you feel like you've forgotten who you are. Creativity might be the last thing you think of reaching for. It can seem indulgent, unimportant, even pointless in the face of real problems. But what if I told you that choosing to create in the middle of your mess is not a luxury, it's a lifeline.

What if creativity isn't just about painting pretty pictures or writing inspiring words? What if creativity is a sacred act of remembering, reclaiming and rebuilding from the inside out? When the world outside feels chaotic, creativity can become this quiet ground beneath your feet. It offers something that external advice, productivity hacks, and to-do lists really can't because it offers a [00:02:00] direct connection to your inner voice.

Even if it's just five minutes of color on a page or scribbling down a ramble of words, emotions, and swirling thoughts that make no sense yet, leaning into these small moments of expression is an act of self-respect. It says, even now, especially now, I matter. My inner world is worth tending to. And I think this is really powerful because when everything else feels uncertain or out of our control, showing up creatively, even in small, gentle ways, reminds you that there is still something within you that is whole steady and alive.

And in this way, creativity can become a compass. Steering you back on course. Creativity becomes a kind of bridge between the part of you that's struggling and the part of you that is still wise, resilient, and deeply [00:03:00] grounded, even if you can't feel her clearly right now. And this bridge allows you to access not just relief, but a kind of soulful clarity that nothing else can give you.

 We often try to solve emotional pain with logic or distract ourselves from discomfort with busyness. But your soul doesn't want fixing it wants witnessing. It wants space to feel. Creative expression is a perfect vehicle for this.

It allows emotions to move without needing words, permission or explanation. It turns pain into paint, fear, into rhythm, confusion into color. It helps the body speak what the mind can't yet process, and that is profoundly healing. In a world that often asks us to be polished and productive, [00:04:00] creativity invites us to be raw, real, and present.

It says you don't have to have it all figured out, just bring what's true. the gift of this is subtle but sacred. As you create, you begin to feel your feelings instead of fearing them, you meet yourself with compassion instead of criticism. You learn that emotions are energy that want to move, and creativity gives them a place to land.

It's not just about making something beautiful. It's about what happens inside you. When you sit down to create. The ritual of showing up with gentle intention again and again becomes an anchor. It tells your nervous system. This is a safe space. It tells your heart. I'm listening. It tells your spirit, I haven't forgotten you.

And over time this practice builds something powerful, not just [00:05:00] emotional release, but inner safety, spiritual strength, and deep self-trust. Creating your own personal soul, nourishing creative rituals that support you in this season is the key. It doesn't have to be grand or complicated. Committing to a weekly practice for at least an hour is generally all that's needed.

And over time, that small act of showing up for this routine soul care will deliver big shifts.

What specifically inside your spiritual and creative practice is really up to you? But I know that following some structure and guidelines can be super helpful. Just like I teach in the Creative Soul ritual system 

within my soul led creative empowerment framework. But the specific creative activities that you pursue within your practice should light you up, keep you curious, excited, and ready to play. They should push you out of [00:06:00] your creative comfort zone from time to time, and ultimately, they're facilitating a deep conversation with your soul without you even realizing These creative rituals become more than just a creative practice. They become proof that expressing what lives inside you is necessary, important, and immensely freeing. You start to feel safe within your own being, even when the world outside feels unpredictable. And from that place of safety, you begin to move differently.

You make clearer decisions. You trust your timing. You create not from urgency, but from alignment,

and there is no perfect moment. In fact, the messiest moments often carry the deepest creative gold. You don't need a grand vision. You don't need to know where it's leading. All you need is a [00:07:00] willingness to pick up a pen, a paintbrush, your voice, and let it speak unpolished. And true. This isn't about becoming an artist.

This is about becoming more you. Because the truth is your creativity doesn't disappear in hard times. It hides quietly waiting for your permission to emerge. Often that creative spark is your soul's way of leading you through the dark, and I know this was true for me. My spiritual creative practice took on new meaning and new importance as I realized it was my rock as I was navigating the breakdown of my marriage.

Uh, it made no logical sense that when my life was falling apart, I should sit and paint instead of planning, packing, and preparing for my next chapter. And yet, that's exactly what I did, and it saved me. Now in reflection, I can clearly see that softening into my painting [00:08:00] practice help me gather inner strength and find my power, which then helped me take the brave, bold actions my soul had been craving for years.

Starting a spiritual creative practice doesn't have to be dramatic. You can begin in silence. You can begin messy, you can begin exhausted, confused, heartbroken. But the important thing is if you hear the whisper, if you feel the call, just begin.

Choosing to lean into creativity in hard times. It doesn't magically fix your life, but it does shift how you move through it. It reconnects you to your essence. It reminds you that you're not broken, you're becoming, you're evolving. It gives you something solid inside when everything else is uncertain.

It builds a quiet kind of confidence. Not a confidence that performs, but the kind that comes from knowing you can hold yourself through [00:09:00] anything, hold your shape, and this is how you build real inner strength, not by doing more, but by creating from within. This is how you rebuild your sense of self, not through perfection, but through presence.

This is how you move forward, not with force. But with faith in your own evolution. 

So if you're in a season that feels heavy, overwhelming, or unclear, I invite you to create, not because everything is okay, but because it's not. I invite you to create, not to perform, but to process. I invite you to create, not to escape, but to come home to yourself. Because sometimes the bravest thing you can do is put your hand on your heart, pick up a pen or a paintbrush and [00:10:00] begin.

 so as we finish this episode, I have some invitations for you to reflect. 

What emotions or truths have you been holding in that want to move through you creatively?

What might shift if you gave yourself permission to create without needing it to be useful or beautiful?

And what kind of creative ritual could support you this week, even if it's just for 10 minutes? Your creativity is not here to impress. It's here to help you remember who you are. Let it lead you home. Take care.