Epidsode #6 🌙 Overthinking Everything? A Shaman’s Guide to Dropping Into Your Inner Knowing

Are you constantly second-guessing yourself? Wondering if it's intuition or just anxiety? In this episode, we sit down with Andye Murphy, a modern-day shaman and illuminator, to uncover how to break free from overthinking and start trusting your inner knowing. 💫

We dive into:
🔮 What a shaman actually does and how they work with energy
💫 How to tell the difference between fear, trauma, and true intuition
👁️ Spirit guides—who they are and how to start connecting with them
🌀 Why overthinking blocks your clarity (and how to shift out of it)
💖 How to awaken your feminine energy and step into confidence

If you’re feeling stuck, unsure, or just way too in your head, this episode will help you tap into your intuition, move forward with trust, and feel more aligned in your daily life. ✨

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Transcript

Hello and welcome back to Let's Get the Neighbors Talking. Hello everybody. I'm Courtney. I'm Lauren. And we are... And Andy! Andy, was going to introduce you. Andy Murphy is our beloved shaman and illuminator. We are so excited that Andy has agreed to join us on this podcast. Andy has worked with over 13,000...

Andye Murphy (00:07)
I'm Andy.



Andye works with her clients, guiding them to a greater purpose, clarity, and more bliss. And you know what we love about Andi? Her mission, okay? Her mission is to lead people through awakening to remind us all that joy is power. Woo! Welcome, Andi. Welcome. Hi.


Joy is power. Joy is power. Thanks. Hi y'all. Hi y'all. And even

as you say joy is power, like, I don't know what version of me you're reading from, but I'm like, that's good.


Yeah.

Yeah, that's you. That's on Andy's website. You guys, we will list that in the podcast notes so that you guys can reach out to her with questions. You can also follow her on Instagram. But Andy, you are a force. Totally. I was thinking the same word. Right? Yes. Yeah.

I think in that way, like I don't try to be, but I think the more that we are authentically ourselves moving through joy and love, like that's the effect. So I'm not a force. Everybody's a damn force. So yeah, let's get the neighbors talking, shall we?


Yes. Okay,

so we're gonna, I want to start off too. You are a shaman. What is a shaman?


A shaman is one who works in the invisible worlds, easiest way of understanding it. Every culture will have their own nomenclature and their own lineages of what a shaman is. But really it's kind of the wise men and women who aren't just working in this level of reality. So if we have an ailment, it's not necessarily like this causes this. We understand that there are other forces that are working. We understand a realm of spirit and we work with nature.

So it's really understanding and working within a very multifaceted reality in order to get to the root of what's going on, which we know is always going to be emotional, being able to get to those things. But then if we get into weirder stuff like curses, past lives, those are things that we can also... We gain the tools, we gain the powers to be able to go and deal with those things and clean them up on behalf of whomever we're working.


yes, clean it up, clean it up.

Andye Murphy (02:41)
Yeah, but it has to be done with love. Like that's the thing,

right? There's some other sides of this that it can be a little more sorcery-like, but I think certainly the way that I do it, like you have to love the client, you have to move from love, you have to be working in a loving universe where we all have access to divine consciousness. And that to me allows things to move a lot quicker.

Lauren Lauterbach (03:06)
Yeah.

Andye Murphy (03:06)
and allows

us to bring somebody back to their divinity. So if I say like, what's my goal for every client, every session, every coaching session that I do, I want to bring you back to your own divinity. want that experience of reality to come back on.

Lauren Lauterbach (03:21)
What do you mean by divinity when you say bring you back to your own divinity? What do you mean by that?

Andye Murphy (03:25)
Well,

we can call it God, can call it source, we can call it great creator. But all like we're not just here as human beings, we're not just here as worker bees, we're here with some greater purpose, we're here to remember a greater access to love to access higher states of consciousness. So sometimes we get a little lost in this maze of reality and think that this is real. My job is to get to out of that and remind you what is real.

Lauren Lauterbach (03:53)
I have chills. Andy, how did you discover your talent? mean, this is something is it and I guess you can expand on that afterwards. Like, is this something that is gifted to you that you came here to do?

Andye Murphy (04:08)
Perhaps. So

let me say a couple of ways, right? I'm certainly here with great purpose. I'm certainly here with lifetimes of training to be able to lead through this time of humanity. But the gifts that I have is what we all have. Mine just seem to come through a little bit stronger because I've trusted them for 30 something years, because I have really developed and paid attention to them.

But I don't think that what I do and my skill set is special in that way. I think these are all our ability to have psychic abilities or intuition. We all have this and we just forgot. Yeah. So for me, I was a psychic kid. So for me, it really did start very early and being a psychic kid, well, it may sound super cool.

It was really quite challenging in the 80s when these things weren't so accepted. So much easier now, the paradigm that we live in now where it's even cool at times, this would be much easier, but that wasn't my experience.

Lauren Lauterbach (05:05)
Yeah.

So when you were a child, did visions come to you or sounds or feelings? Okay.

Andye Murphy (05:18)
I have never done visions, so that psychic

ability, clairvoyance is what it might be called, that's not my gift. I could feel things. And because I could feel everything, I didn't know what was mine, I didn't know what was real, I didn't know where it was coming from. So yeah, mine is much more one of claircognizance. I can feel everything. It's annoying. But as a kid, don't

Lauren Lauterbach (05:26)
Okay.

Just a know, like a knowing and a feeling, a knowing.

Andye Murphy (05:44)
know that what you know is what other people don't know.

Lauren Lauterbach (05:49)
Very confusing, right? Was it scary as a kid?

Andye Murphy (05:53)
not scary, isolating. Because I would think that what I was experiencing was what other people were experiencing and then I would share it and then I would lose friends pretty quick. Or, you know, there's, we all have this witch wound. Any of us who are engaged in this were like, they're gonna think I'm crazy. They're gonna think I'm crazy. So that was more teenage years. They're gonna think I'm crazy. Or maybe I am crazy. That was teenage years.

Lauren Lauterbach (06:18)
Hmm,

yeah. Okay, that's tough. I mean, a of teenagers feel that way, but then imagine having these thoughts, these feelings and these thoughts about, I'm assuming not only yourself, but other people as well.

Andye Murphy (06:31)
no.

Yeah, mostly about other people. I think the ability to recognize it for self, that comes through our self work, right? That's still something where I can't see my own shadows, I can't see my own stuff. So it was usually about other people. And then I would say things. And I was considered rude or tactless for saying something that was so true to me, right? I would see what the wound was, wouldn't know it was a wound, I would say it, and then people would be greatly...

Lauren Lauterbach (06:38)
Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

Andye Murphy (07:00)
offended. That took some time to find a finesse with.

Lauren Lauterbach (07:07)
I wonder if over time that helped build your confidence maybe. don't, I don't, I don't.

Andye Murphy (07:12)
Well,

I think it's okay for us to need proof, right? No matter what phase of our awakening or gifted experience we're on, we need proof, we need signs, we need affirmation because it is such an individualized, isolating... I don't know if I'm right. And so I still move very much from that place of lot of innocence. I don't know if I'm right. And sometimes the things that come out of my mouth, wow, I wish I was not right.

Lauren Lauterbach (07:32)
Mm-hmm.

Andye Murphy (07:41)
So I can't attach the rightness to it. I can attach the feeling and try to help unravel that to bring us back to love.

Lauren Lauterbach (07:51)
And I bet you people feel the same when, I mean, I know I do, like when listening to your intuition, like, is this right? Is this my, like, is this my intuition? Is it not like, should I, you know, or is this anxiety? Like what, what, what is this trauma? Like I often having trauma in my past think, is this my trauma speaking or is this my intuition speaking? Is this my anxiety speaking? I have it when I get on an airplane. Is this going to go down? Like, I just really know this?

Andye Murphy (08:01)
My makeup. Yep.

You know what I do every time I get on a plane, this plane's not going

down because I'm on it. I got big things to do. It's not going down.

Lauren Lauterbach (08:25)
Okay, I think that this is why we feel that you are such a force. Your confident energy is so high. And I freaking love that. You better watch out next time we get on a plane.

Andye Murphy (08:40)
Yeah, y'all are fine. But

in that, Lauren, that took years and years to build because, know, Courtney and I share a birthday, sensitive little cancers. It took years to gain the confidence to walk in that. That's been a lifelong journey. That wasn't just something that like showed up. And it could have been so super scary if it was, right? If I just walked around like, and I know about you and I know about you. No, that's not.

Lauren Lauterbach (08:47)
Mm-hmm.

Andye Murphy (09:08)
We needed to learn boundaries and to trust it and for it to be mine. So yeah, after this long journey with my intuition, I'll trust it. I got it.

Lauren Lauterbach (09:18)
Yeah.

You trust it. do you, when you're working with other people, you're trusting yourself. And I guess what I love about it is you are also encouraging them to find their own power and trust. like you're never just telling somebody, and I think this is the difference between maybe a psychic and a shaman. I don't really know. Oh, that's a good question. But is it that you're not telling somebody

their future or what's in front of them. You are empowering them and showing them how to listen to themselves.

Andye Murphy (09:56)
because as soon as you trust what somebody else has told you, you've given away your power. That's a dangerous place to be no matter what. So being able to guide people and I had a young man the other day who I was talking to and he's like, but, but and I'm like, I don't know, ask, ask yourself. So my way is always to bring you back to you, bring you back to your own empowerment because as soon as you default to this person told me and so therefore it's true, you don't really know if it's true. You don't know that it's yours.

Lauren Lauterbach (10:01)
Mmm. Mm-hmm.

Totally. Wow. mean, have, we, Lauren and I both had sessions with you and have found them so helpful. I also need to call you. think I need another one. But how do you, how can working with a shaman help somebody who's feeling lost? Let's just say.

Andye Murphy (10:48)
in every way.

So the shaman is going to, again, play with what's not being seen. So you can go to a doctor with an ailment and the doctor is going to do all of these tests and be like, do, do, do, do, Even with a Reiki professional, right? There's a protocol. There's a way, there's a structure, there's a format. Do this, do this, do this. The shaman is art. So in that way, we find where the knot is.

I can usually feel where that is in somebody's body. can ask them to find that in their body as well. And I want to unravel the knot. So we're very good at puzzles, and we're very good at being able to take what can't be comprehended, right? There is very little in this world that means anything. And in this current reality, the mental can't be trusted, your perceptions can't be trusted. We've got to go deeper than that. And sometimes that is past lives, and sometimes that is ancestral, and sometimes that is

Lauren Lauterbach (11:28)
Yeah.

Andye Murphy (11:43)
childhood traumas. So a really good shaman is going to be able to look at it from a very big perspective to get to the thing, to move the thing. So in the case of life purpose, we all have great purpose. We're all here to do something really freaking cool. Nobody else's is like anyone else's. So being able to bring you back to that, to find the joy of that, to begin to facilitate the confidence and trust with that, that's my sweet spot.

Lauren Lauterbach (12:11)
I mean, you, I'll never forget when we had one of our calls and I was in, I was just stuck. Like I was in such a stuck spot and I couldn't figure out why. And I, I had been doing all of my meditations and working with my crystals and, and I just was like, I could feel something. And when I worked with Andy, we actually went back to one of my past lives and

met with the with my past life and I don't want say met with them but like Andy you know did her thing and did her magic and allowed Ray who was a past life of mine to detach from my current life. I think I'm saying this correctly but when we asked him to detach I finally felt lifted. Wow! It was crazy like absolutely crazy so it feels like

Andye Murphy (12:59)
Wow.

Lauren Lauterbach (13:05)
like that holds in us like energetically big time. And it's hard to comprehend it, but like that's why I love where she can see the unseen. Like I wouldn't have been able to figure that out. It may be with like a ton of like meditation and past, you know, past life work.

Andye Murphy (13:22)
maybe that's what I want to speak to, right? A shaman's gonna catalyze it. We'll be able to get to it quicker. And so in that way, even working with a really gifted shaman... And when I say gifted, right? All shamans have skills, powers. I really like the ones who come from love, the ones who know how to laugh, the ones who know how to be in this world and don't hold themselves above anything. We want to help you feel better.

Lauren Lauterbach (13:26)
Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

Andye Murphy (13:50)
I want

to help you feel better." And so even as you're saying this, Lauren, I'm like, my God, we did what? So I love that I have no memory of it. But when I'm working with you in that way, for me, it's kind of like, we need to pay attention to this. And I don't know why we need to pay attention to that. And so for me, it comes as a question of like, well, what about this thing that seems to kind of almost be the Pandora's box that unravels and unlocks it? So in that place of stuckness and what you said was you couldn't understand. We can't understand anything. We can't figure anything out.

Lauren Lauterbach (14:16)
Mm-hmm.

Andye Murphy (14:20)
because we are no longer just in this realm of mental and understanding, we're gaining entire consciousness and in our spiritual experience and the divine coming closer, this is the time of humanity that we're in that's really cool. But as soon as we go to a mental to try to figure it out, we're screwed. You can't figure anything out anymore. It's not there.

Lauren Lauterbach (14:39)
When, no, I love

that you said that. When you are working with somebody, and I don't remember from our first session, but when you're working with somebody, do you ask them a bunch of questions to start or do you start from?

Andye Murphy (14:50)
a little bit. I can usually tap in and

feel things. I'm usually, as soon as I get on, like I know maybe what needs to be done, right? My goal is always going to be to get the light of this person back on in its full radiance, but I'll have a little bit of a clue. And so in that way, like I have to, I'll feel it in my body and I'm like, okay, we need to go there. Tell me what's going on here. Tell me what happens when you're 13. So I asked the questions just to kind of get us to the destination.

Lauren Lauterbach (15:04)
So long.

Andye Murphy (15:20)
And then I'm going to ask, like, let's say that it's your 14 year old self. What does a 14 year old self want to share, want to say? So I do engage in a lot of questions, but not so much of who I'm working with, but like, what's this energy? What's this not that we don't understand so that it can begin to unravel and we aren't bound by it anymore.

Lauren Lauterbach (15:40)
It sounds like you get right to it. How many sessions do people usually do with you?

Andye Murphy (15:42)
idea.

Well, I don't know how to answer that question. I people who have worked with me for, you know, 16, 17 years now, but it's not a consistent thing. I feel like one good session is gonna fricking change everything for a person.

Lauren Lauterbach (15:59)
I can attest to that. Wow. Yeah.

Andye Murphy (16:00)
I mean,

yeah, one session could change your entire life. And what's the value of that? What's the purpose? I don't, I don't know.

Lauren Lauterbach (16:09)
There is no,

that you can't put a value, I mean, you can't put a price tag or a value on.

Andye Murphy (16:14)
Now it's

interesting and you know, if we want to put it as a business model, it's an interesting business model. If I only have one client one time for forever, have a pretty big database of people, which is why we get to the 13,000 number, right? This is...

Lauren Lauterbach (16:27)
Now,

I wonder does somebody is there a certain mindset that somebody has to come into when working with a shaman? Like, what if I am skeptical? What if like, will that affect anything that that yeah.

Andye Murphy (16:44)
Sure, because

you could just revert right after the session. So if your fear is so big, if your belief is so big that this isn't going to work, no matter what the shaman does, you're just going to go right back to your old paradigm. So for me, it's about shifting that paradigm so that you can now live in a different vibration, different frequency of you. And I think if you're really skeptical, you don't want change, you just want somebody to make it better. So you're already giving away your power. So for me, I don't.

Lauren Lauterbach (17:03)
Mm-hmm.

Andye Murphy (17:13)
work with anybody who's in a victim mindset. I really need people to be past that and having dealt with the traumas, faced some of the shadows for us to be able to like, right, illuminator, right, is what I have on my website. I'm much better now at like bringing you from like this state up to this one. Let's make it all better. But if you're in these initial phases of I'm stuck, I don't feel good, I have all of this trauma, I have all of this pain.

Lauren Lauterbach (17:26)
What?

Andye Murphy (17:39)
I'm not so interested right now because there's other work that you need to do on your own before we can do much.

Lauren Lauterbach (17:45)
What would that work look like for somebody if they were in it right now and wanted to work towards, you know, work towards their higher self?

Andye Murphy (17:54)
Yep,

I think great therapists are amazing. think trauma, understanding the trauma that we've experienced and being able to tend that, so that looks like shadow work at times. The most important thing in this reality right now, our nervous system. Holy Jesus, we need to know our nervous system and to know how to feel safe in this body and to recognize for me as a psychic kid, like I would hop out of my body all the time. Who wants to be here?

Lauren Lauterbach (17:57)
Mm-hmm.

Andye Murphy (18:20)
So being able to gain some of that foundation of understanding, healing, compassion with a therapist, with a good Reiki practitioner, with wherever you want to begin, you have to begin unraveling the inside.

Lauren Lauterbach (18:36)
And that's where I love like, when like how crystals come into play because you are doing this, you are, you know, working with a therapist, you're doing your meditation. This is stress and trauma that stored energy. You use, you know, certain crystals to help pull that energy out. that. mean, I feel like that's why we change our lives.

Andye Murphy (18:42)
Yeah.

And crystals are so,

they're such good allies because they don't have a goal, they don't have an agenda, they don't have words. Like they're just our friends. They just wanna love us. They just wanna make it better. Yeah, it's benign in that way, but super powerful because it does like give us the tools, give us the courage, give us the confidence, give us the clarity. yeah.

Lauren Lauterbach (19:04)
I know.

Right, I think it also when you are meditating or when you're doing any past life work, the crystals, they kind of, for me, they brightened everything or made things a little bit more powerful, kind of taking it up a notch. Like if I'm working and I've got to clear courts, it's just gonna magnify my experience a little bit more. Yeah.

Andye Murphy (19:42)
lovely. you know, and

I have lots of I mean, yeah, I can look around some from y'all some from other like, I have lots that I've worked with over the years. And I really do consider them friends. And I think in the spiritual realm with spirit guides or with crystals or with ancestors, I want to be in relationship with them. I don't want to just ask for help. I want to get to know them and create a relationship that is built upon trust.

Lauren Lauterbach (20:04)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Andye Murphy (20:12)
Because

again, even if I have like a great, great aunt who's telling me something, if I don't trust you, it doesn't matter at all. So for me, with all tools, there's a relationship that's built and it's really intimate, really sweet, and we get great allies in those ways.

Lauren Lauterbach (20:27)
It's a give and take.

It's a give and take with nature and these powers, I'm sure, in general. does it is that is that true of your psychic or your shamanic powers that there has to be a little bit of giving back to the universe in order to receive information?

Andye Murphy (20:39)
yeah. yeah.

interesting.

I want to say with spirit guides in particular, there is no giving back. They are here to support us.

Lauren Lauterbach (20:53)
Can you

tell us a little bit real quick about Spirit Guides?

Andye Murphy (20:56)
I think spirit guides is a great place to start

because with spirit guides we need to know that there are things outside of us that love us. Not all of us can go through a paradigm of God to get to that. So when we begin to work with spirit guides we're like, my God, I've got a hawk here and I've got ISIS over here. Like we gain a team of love that supports us. And with spirit guides, rather than it being the give and take, they may offer something.

I'm gonna learn to trust it and then eventually I'm gonna act upon it. So the acting upon it is what I would say is like the black belt of things that I don't need to doubt it anymore. I'm gonna hear this at this current reality. I will feel it in my nervous system. It will allow me to relax. When I have that relaxation, I then have the ability to trust it and take action upon it. So now where I'm at and where maybe a lot of y'all are as well,

we want to pay attention to what it does in a body because we can't trust our minds, right? The mind is going to be like, might be, we don't know, we don't know. How does it feel in my body? that feels good. Then I want to act upon it. So.

Lauren Lauterbach (22:05)
Mm.

That

was going to be my question. How do you know if you're hearing something from a spirit guide or you're just thinking it, but what you're saying actually eliminates all of that because I don't need to think about it at all. You feel it.

Andye Murphy (22:23)
You don't need

to think, you can't think about it. As soon as you think about it, you've lost it. As soon as we bring it up to a mental field, as soon as we bring it up to the mind, the mind's like, well, how can you believe this? Well, what if it's something bad? What if you're just making it, like as soon as we bring it to a mental, in trouble. So in that way, we wanna bring it, for women, often it's gonna go down into womb, but it's gonna go into this belly, right? Second chakra type of energy. We relax when we feel it, and then we can act upon it.

we can't trust the mind anymore.

Lauren Lauterbach (22:56)
That makes me feel good. Same. Same. Such a relief.

Andye Murphy (22:58)
It should! It really should because it's easier. And I know that one of your questions

was like, yeah, how do we begin? It's so easy. It's so easy. And our brains have just been trained over and over and over not to trust it. Or if you say this, you're going to be in trouble. Or how do you know that you're not? We don't have to go through that anymore. We get to feel it in our body. We get to know that this is something natural. And in the case of spirit guides, in this case of most of these loving beings.

They aren't going to tell you something that misleads you. Your intuition is going to tell you something that's going to bring you down a dark path. That's not how this works. It's always there in love. And in the case where we're told information that's maybe, don't want to hear, have to act upon something that feels scary, it's still to bring you to destiny. It's to bring you to purpose. It's not to mess with you. It's not to take you off track. So all of the spirit guides, all of the tools, the best of healers, shamans,

wise teachers, they're gonna bring you to the place that you were your very best.

Lauren Lauterbach (24:03)
And I love that you keep saying this, but I love that you keep focusing on that this is going to be a loving experience. Because I think some people are, you know, some people are scared of psychics. They're scared of shamans. They're scared they're going to hear something they don't want to hear. They're scared of meeting their spirit guides. And it is, if it comes out of fear, if there's this fear and this, then I have been taught to believe in that.

That's your mind. That's not... Yeah.

Andye Murphy (24:33)
Totally the fears in you the fears not

outside world fears in you over and over and over and so if you are in that space where these things still feel scary cool go and ask why why does it feel scary who told you to be scared of it does it make your nervous system quake but the fear doesn't exist out there the fear is really ours that we get to learn through love through 10 through.

Lauren Lauterbach (24:44)
Mm.

Wow, I'm just, I'm a little bit lost for words because I'm taking in so much today. I have been personally since, I don't know, in the new year trying to work on my own psychic abilities and just kind of trusting, tapping in a little bit more, working in some moments of subconscious to, I guess, and I do kind of see things when my eyes are closed, but I think that

Andye Murphy (25:00)
Yeah, I haven't worked with the spirit guide.

Lauren Lauterbach (25:28)
You're reminding me that I have to drop down deeper and stop trying so hard and like reading books and I'm journaling and I'm doing meditations and all of these things, but.

Andye Murphy (25:31)
You have to drop down deeper. Yep.

Nope. Nope.

And if we have that fear, we can't really meditate well either, right? The mental is going to mess with so much. And I really do think 25, 26, 27, where we're at right now, the mental, we have to deprogram the mental in some ways. But I also want to remind you, Courtney, intuition is the first. So the first feeling that you have, the first thought that you have, that's intuition. And then you're going to take that intuition, you're going to garble it all up.

Lauren Lauterbach (26:07)
it's the first thought. Okay. Very good info. That's very good. Okay.

Andye Murphy (26:09)
It's the first.

It's the easiest, it's the cleanest,

it's the clearest. It's the first thing.

Lauren Lauterbach (26:18)
Hmm. Makes me think when we were chatting over the weekend and I had a thought pop in and I was like, maybe this is it. right. And it was the first thought that popped in. Okay. Okay. Yeah. and then we dissect it.

Andye Murphy (26:30)
And then we garble it all up by trying to understand it, by trying to unravel the meaning, by looking

at resources, by trying to read. And I'm also very much of that mindset knowingness. I don't want to Google it first. I want to have the first and then ask myself, ask my guides, ask my inner guidance. What do I do with this?

Lauren Lauterbach (26:51)
I'm the queen of garbling information.

Andye Murphy (26:54)
We have been taught to though and so in

that way that's where I also have a lot of innocence and a lot of compassion for myself first and then for others. We've been taught that the mental is the most important that your credentials right that your education that your intelligence is the most important thing so in that paradigm of reality. It's no longer serving us because we want to go to the google we want to go to the books we want to go and see like what somebody else is done and then we've already lost our own.

lived experience of it that could tell us everything if we just sat with it, deepened it, and asked.

Lauren Lauterbach (27:29)
It's a layer. mean, it's a huge layer of trust. Trusting.

Andye Murphy (27:33)
Kind of. It's relationship with self.

Lauren Lauterbach (27:36)
Yeah, yeah relationship with self

Andye Murphy (27:39)
Intuition is a relationship with self. That's how I treat it and try to share it with others. It is a relationship with self. Am I gonna doubt me or am gonna doubt this? I'd rather doubt the outer and trust the inner.

Lauren Lauterbach (27:43)
Yeah.

So what do you have to say about when I am kind of in my own head? I'm talking to somebody in my head. Who am I talking to?

Andye Murphy (28:02)
Well, your head's got all the program.

So who the hell knows who you're talking to, mama?

Lauren Lauterbach (28:06)
I just mean

like if I feel like I'm thinking and I'm talking to my I feel like often I'm talking to myself

Andye Murphy (28:14)
programs, telling you how you should be and what you should be doing. So in that program of here's how reality works, we're in trouble. When we can drop down into the deeper, into the nervous system, into the womb, into second chakra, then we get to the relationship with self. So rather than talking to self up here, right, and maybe even for you the next time it happens, ask where the voice is.

Lauren Lauterbach (28:39)
Okay. Okay.

Andye Murphy (28:41)
and see

what you can do to relax into it, to breathe into it, bring it down a little bit so it has a feel and it has a texture to it. For me, because I'm not visually psychic, I'm always asking for like, what's the texture? Does it feel cold? Does it feel hot? Does it feel smooth? Does it feel rough? Does it feel like grass? Does it feel like gravel? I call it my roulette wheel, trying to give context and texture.

Lauren Lauterbach (29:05)
Okay.

Andye Murphy (29:08)
to the things I can't see because I can't see it. But can, instead of just the thought, it's up here all the time. How's it feeling my body? Does it bring me comfort or does it bring me anxiety? And anxiety is never in the body, it's always in the head.

Lauren Lauterbach (29:12)
Okay, okay.

Sure is. Knock, knock, Lauren.

Andye Murphy (29:30)
It

sure is.

Lauren Lauterbach (29:33)
boy. I have a question. You are a really a true kind of goddess in your own right, but you do work with goddesses. You do work with a lot of feminine energy. And us being the girl, badass, boss babes that we are, we're just really interested in how you see this female divinity and working

with the universe right now. That wasn't on our page of questions, looking at the goddess behind you in the picture, which one is that again? Yeah, she comes to me sometimes too.

Andye Murphy (30:05)
Hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm

I love it. I don't need that.

That's a Hathor. That's a Hathor. That's a Hathor.

What we were talking about offline, that's her. That's her. She's still coming online. So let me say this. think, I don't think anything. I know us being able to come back into the feminine, most natural, most nurturing, into the safety of the feminine is what moves our world forward.

Lauren Lauterbach (30:24)
Got it. Okay.

Hmm.

Andye Murphy (30:45)
being able to do that in partnership with an awakening masculine is what changes our world. So I am very much like not about tearing down a patriarchy, not about hating men. I think that is very dangerous for us. It's going to be the awakened feminine with the awakened masculine that moves the world into a new place, what they get to create together. But what's occurring right now is for the women to be trusting of their own oracle, of their own knowing, of their own experiences.

to be able to come back into a womb and into a body in a way that is safe. That's the work right now. And in that, everyone's a goddess. Not everyone is a priestess, but we've all got this divinity within us. Can we trust it? Can we allow it to radiate without trying, without thinking about what it means? Because it means nothing. Can we embody? So this is where the feminine gift is right now is

Lauren Lauterbach (31:29)
Yeah.

Andye Murphy (31:43)
being able to tap back into this most natural resource of us, because we do feel things. We do know things that don't exist here. When the feminine can do this safely, the world gets better because women get better, because women naturally want to make things more beautiful, more safe, take care of our children, make sure everybody's got food. The impulse for us as women is to make the world better place, to create things that are beautiful.

Lauren Lauterbach (32:09)
Mm-hmm. Yeah.

Andye Murphy (32:11)
make sure that everybody's needs are met. So this is the individual drive of it. And then coming together with the masculine who supports that, makes that safer for us, and knows their own truth and place and divineness of that. that's when things are gonna get really sexy. That's where things get really… I mean, that's the new that's coming to this planet. It's gonna be those two forces combined that are new.

Lauren Lauterbach (32:32)
I'm really ready for that. Yeah.

Andye Murphy (32:40)
But as long as we're an adversarial of needing to tear something down or destroy it, we aren't doing anything new. We're just messing up something in a different way. So I was talking with a young man this weekend and he's like, the patriarchy is the problem. I'm like, well, you don't remember that the pure matriarchy was too. We've forgotten that in our paradigm, but either of those as just one force or the other that's better, it never works. It's not ever going to work.

Lauren Lauterbach (33:11)
That is food for thought. That is, I would love to leave everybody with that, you know, that, well, would not only with that, yeah, with that thought, but also, you know, I do agree that we need to find some balance in this lifetime. And I have a feeling we are headed there. I think things are very hard for a lot of people right now, but I, growth will come from crumble. And I do believe we're headed there.

Andye Murphy (33:16)
Don't fuck the patriarchy.

Well, and I think the heart is unraveling

from what we thought reality was. So in that way, it's the alchemy and the unprogramming that is our work right now. We were told the world was this way. And as we see the world isn't, and we have our own anxieties and our own like places of pain that is gross, world's not what we thought it was. So let's find out what it is. And that's the inner work.

Lauren Lauterbach (33:42)
Mm.

Mm-hmm.

And that's like when you pull a little nut from somebody's soul and say, let's unravel this. The universe is trying to do that for us right now.

Andye Murphy (34:10)
universe is trying, thank you, not even trying, like every day I can see and I can't see all I can do is trust that whatever is going on in the world right now is to bring people back to themselves. You can't trust any of that outside of you, you can trust you, and once we all start doing that the world will be very different.

Lauren Lauterbach (34:21)
Yeah, I wish that.

Andy, you are amazing. I don't even think we got to part of this section of our questions. So I have one more question for you. Will you come back?

Andye Murphy (34:34)
I think.

Unquestionably, yes. I love y'all. You know that even when you get on your lives. like, I really am grateful to be here with you. I'm grateful for what you guys have done with such like people receive you. People respond to you. That is a gift in and of itself. So the light that you bring forward that does allow people, you know, entry points or deepening points.

Lauren Lauterbach (34:45)
Yay!

Andye Murphy (35:10)
Good work, mamas. Yes, I'm so happy to continue to co-create with you and to help remind people how easy this is.

Lauren Lauterbach (35:11)
Thank you.

Thank you. Amazing. Thank you so much. We're going to list all of Andy's information. Andy does private readings. Andy has a mystery school. Andy has a great website and information on it. A really cool spirit guide journal. I don't know if you still sell those, they are fantastic.

Andye Murphy (35:34)
do still sell those. Right now,

my work is with the priestesses. So if anybody's listening in that place, we do three-month coaching group programs and individual programs so that that inner priestess, that inner oracle, can be trusted. We can strengthen it so that who you are begins to bless the world more, and in turn, you are blessed. Yes.

Lauren Lauterbach (35:55)
Yes! Sign me up. Andy, thank you so much.

We are huge fans. I hope you have a wonderful day. We're both gonna walk away a little bit lighter and brighter after talking to you. So thank you. Yes! Yes. Thank you so much, Andy. Love you!

Andye Murphy (36:08)
May we all be lighter and brighter. May this be so much easier. Okay, I love you all.