OH-Kay, But Seriously
Hey, I’m Kwenama (Kay) Khuzwayo, and welcome to OH-Kay, But Seriously—a serious-not-so-serious podcast where we dive into all the big (and sometimes awkward) stuff: love, mental health, personal growth, and everything in between.
I’m a Specialist Wellness Counsellor and aspiring psychologist, but mostly, I’m just figuring it out like everyone else. Expect honest chats, unsolicited advice, lifestyle content, life lessons, and maybe a few laughs along the way. An open and raw conversation on... well... anything. From my comfort space to yours.
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OH-Kay, But Seriously
Episode 14 | The Cost Of Looking Like You’re “Winning”
OH-Kay, Let’s Talk About It - Being back home reminded me how simple life actually can be — and how far we’ve drifted from that. In the city, it’s so easy to start believing that your value comes from what you post, where you’re seen, who you know. You get caught in this cycle of chasing validation without even realising it. But being in eNqutu, where people live slow, grounded lives, where nobody’s rushing to show off their blessings online… it just hit different. It made me realise: so much of what we chase is noise. None of it touches your soul the way real peace does. And the scary part is, if you’re not careful, you’ll wake up one day performing a life you don’t even recognise — all because you were too busy trying to prove you were “making it.” The real flex is waking up with a quiet heart, not a curated feed.
Bible Verses
🤍 Ecclesiastes 1:2
🤍 Matthew 6:1
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