Tea Talk with Darya

How to Come Back to Your Goals (Without the Guilt)

Darya Season 3 Episode 13

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We’ve all been there—you start strong on a goal, life gets busy (or messy), and suddenly weeks have turned into months since you last showed up for it. And then the guilt creeps in.

In this episode, I share my own story of falling off track with something I love—playing the piano—and how I’m easing my way back in after more than a year away. You’ll hear the exact process I use for myself and my clients to re-engage with goals in a way that feels light, sustainable, and actually exciting.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

  • Why falling off track doesn’t mean you’ve failed


  • How guilt keeps you stuck (and what to replace it with)


  • The 4-step “gentle recommitment” method


  • How to build momentum without burnout


  • Why starting small is the secret to lasting progress

💡 Helpful Resource:
If you’re looking for a visual way to track your wins, I recommend trying a habit tracker app like Habit Tracker or Habitica. Seeing your progress builds belief—and belief fuels consistency.

📌 Free Download: Want to make sure your goals align with what truly matters to you? Grab my Core Values Self-Audit to get clear on your values so you can set goals that stick.