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Season 2, Episode 3: Belonging isn't Seasonal

Season 2 Episode 3

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In this episode we wander through the strange, joyful and exhausting corners of modern girlhood and womanhood. We talk about the invisible weight of the Christmas mental load, the odd rituals of sleepovers and school plays, and the tiny cultural artefacts... Fisher Price little people, inclusive nativities, online followers... that tell us who gets to belong and who gets left out.

Threaded through it all is a conversation about community and inclusion. How we shape it, how we protect it, and how easily it can be undone.

We recorded this before the sad news that Girlguiding has decided to ban trans girls from its spaces. That decision stands in sharp contrast to the spirit of this episode, where we explore what it means to build communities that are expansive, safe and genuinely welcoming. The timing makes this conversation feel even more important.

The episode lands in a place of hope - that we can do better, and that we can keep rewriting the rules of belonging together.