{"version":"1.0.0","segments":[{"startTime":1.2,"endTime":4.41,"body":"Welcome to Real World Peaceful"},{"startTime":1.2,"endTime":4.41,"body":"Parenting, a podcast for parents"},{"startTime":4.41,"endTime":7.08,"body":"that are tired of yelling,"},{"startTime":4.41,"endTime":7.08,"body":"threatening, and punishing their kids."},{"startTime":7.62,"endTime":11.76,"body":"Join mom and master certified parent"},{"startTime":7.62,"endTime":11.76,"body":"coach Lisa Smith as she gives you"},{"startTime":11.76,"endTime":15.15,"body":"actionable step-by-step strategies"},{"startTime":11.76,"endTime":15.15,"body":"that'll help you transform your"},{"startTime":15.15,"endTime":17.4,"body":"household from chaos to cooperation."},{"startTime":17.82,"endTime":18.36,"body":"Let's dive in."},{"startTime":22.5,"endTime":26.91,"body":"Welcome, welcome, welcome,"},{"startTime":22.5,"endTime":26.91,"body":"welcome to today's episode."},{"startTime":28.08,"endTime":33.3,"body":"I am really excited to be 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