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LAT but not least: An interview with Vicki Larson

September 14, 2025 • Lisa Finkelstein and Kurt Kraiger

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We are so honored and excited to bring you an interview with award-winning journalist and author of the book LATtitude: How you can make a live apart together relationship work. In our lively conversation, Vicki shares many of her well-researched insights from her book on LAT (Living Apart Together) relationships, including her findings on:

- Who tends to be most attracted to LAT.

- The role of trust in LAT.

- Perceptions of the stigma of LAT.

- The meaning of realness in relationships.

- Changing attitudes about LAT.

- The rules of LAT: Practical conversations and advice for successful LAT.

We know you will enjoy this spirited and enlightening conversation!

You can find a link to Vicki’s book here and follow her on Instagram

Thanks for listening!

Original Indepartners theme song composed by David W.K. Johnson.

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