Rediscovering Faith

Overcome Evil with Good

Rev. Evan Ryder Season 5 Episode 17

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Discover the powerful two-step antidote to enmity in this challenging episode about trusting God and serving those who wronged you. Based on Romans 12:17-21, we learn that the antidote to enmity in our relationships is found in two steps: First, trusting God to be just. Second, serving those who we are in the midst of tense relationships with. Continuing to untangle from enmity, today we address how to break the cycle of evil instead of perpetuating it.

What You'll Learn:

  • The two-step antidote to enmity: trust God's justice and serve those who wronged you
  • Why releasing vengeance to God is essential for your freedom
  • What it means that "vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord"
  • Why we struggle to release the right to get even
  • A practical untangle moment to release vengeance and choose service

Step One: Trust God to Be Just: Paul says "Never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.'" This is hard because when someone wrongs you, you want justice, want them to face consequences, want them to hurt the way they hurt you. But Paul says vengeance belongs to God, not you. 

Why We Struggle to Release Vengeance: Releasing vengeance feels like letting them off the hook: "If I don't hold onto this, they'll get away with it." But that's not true—you're not letting them off the hook, you're putting them in God's hands, and God is a far better judge than you are. 

Step Two: Serve Those Who Wronged You: Paul says "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink." This is radical. Not only are you supposed to not get even, you're supposed to actively do good to them. 

Overcome Evil with Good: Paul's conclusion: "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." When someone wrongs you, you have a choice. You can be overcome by the evil—consumed by bitterness, controlled by anger, trapped in enmity. Or you can overcome the evil with good—trust God with justice and choose to serve anyway. 

Your Untangle Moment: Identify one person you're in conflict with, then practice untangling by releasing vengeance to God and choosing one act of service toward them. 

Perfect for anyone holding grudges, struggling to forgive, wanting revenge, or learning to trust God's justice while extending grace to those who wronged them.

Scripture Focus: Romans 12:17-21 Series: Untangle Week Theme: Untangle from Enmity

Learn to overcome evil with good by trusting God's justice and choosing to serve those who wronged you.