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You Don’t Want Peace—You Want Control- Hidden Truth About Healing Part 2
You say you want peace.
But the second life starts feeling calm, your nervous system short-circuits and suddenly you’re spiraling, stress-planning, overcommitting, and micromanaging your way right back into chaos. Why? Because peace feels unsafe when you’ve been addicted to control.
In this raw and unfiltered episode, I’m exposing the sneaky ways control masks itself as “healing,” “consistency,” or “getting your life together” — when really, it’s just a trauma loop dressed up in spiritual language. We’ll break down:
- How control is keeping you from real rest
- Why peace feels awkward AF when you’re first learning it
- Where this need for control actually started
- And what to do when you’re ready to choose something softer
This one’s for the hyper-independent girls, the burnout queens, and the high-functioning perfectionists who are finally ready to unclench.