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Outgrowing People: When Healing Costs You Relationships (And Peace Is Worth the Price)

Unfiltered Growth Co Episode 19

No one talks about this part of healing.
The part where you start shrinking yourself just to keep the peace in relationships you’ve outgrown.
The part where you stop feeling safe to be fully seen by people who used to feel like home.
The part where you have to choose between your expansion… or their comfort.

This episode is for the ones secretly grieving the people they’re no longer aligned with.
 For the ones wondering if they’re the problem.
 For the ones who feel like they’re walking away from everything they used to be — and feeling both guilt and peace at the same time.

We’re unpacking:

  • What “outgrowing” relationships really looks like (it’s not what you think)
  • Why we stay in connections that deplete us
  • The invisible identity crisis of expansion
  • What happens when you hang on too long
  • And how to release people without making them the villain

This is the raw, honest truth about why healing often costs you relationships — and why that’s not a failure.