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Two for the Culture
The Gym, Dating, and Shannon Sharpe Drama
And we are back with another episode of Two for the Culture. I'm Justin Devante, I'm Steven Ray. Yes, sir, and we're back. How you feeling, how you doing.
Speaker 2:I feel good For some reason every time, like we'll be talking regular before we start, we'll be talking regular before we start recording, and as soon as you say and we're back, it's just I can't help but to smile. I don't know what it is oh okay. Yeah, but so we did two days today. Yeah, yeah, all right, I'm gonna, I'm gonna keep that going for sure.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm gonna buy a little set from walmart. I saw one today. Oh, instead of what? Um dumbbells, some dumbbells, it go up to like 50. You can interchange it on one of them. Oh, yeah, yeah, hell yeah, I'm gonna get that um and and and kind of start that just to make sure like it'll get done, instead of like going back and forth all the way I mean all the time to the gym oh okay, so do like a home workout.
Speaker 1:I see you've been working the dumbbells oh, yeah, yeah yeah, but I don't even know how much weight. How much weight is that? That's gotta be like 30 maybe, yeah, I would, I would figure it's only one. So it's like, yeah, you gotta. Just there should be a long ass workout.
Speaker 2:It's silly but, uh, no, I feel super good. I feel super good. It it's a different feeling. It's like it's like locked in all day, but like that locked in feeling not just up, but just like all right. Next, like the like the whole time, the whole time we were there. Uh, the second time it was nothing but, um, this, this millionaire audio book, um, I forgot the name of it the mindset of a millionaire, something, something like that. And then I'm just, I'm just like locked in, bro, like the whole time. I'm seeing people come by back and forth and all this.
Speaker 1:And then in my head it's like I'm better you don't uh pay attention when you say locked in, you don't pay attention to any girl you find attractive there I was gonna text you.
Speaker 2:I was gonna text you. As soon as we got in. There was a. There was a little white girl in front of us that definitely had a little something on her well, because you was in on the treadmill, so you're probably seeing something. No, she was in front of you too. She was helping somebody and I was like, was that the?
Speaker 1:first session or the second?
Speaker 2:I think the second, oh, okay, the second session yeah. But, do I pay attention to it? I mean it's I don't know, it's not like I don't know. Would you say that there's like a crazy amount of great looking people there? I?
Speaker 1:think there's. Yeah, I would say, I mean a crazy amount. I mean like it's a this is.
Speaker 2:This is like a small percentage of um, I mean, shout out to the people that go there, but yeah, yeah um, yeah, it's not necessarily like oh my god, every like two seconds.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, not everybody gonna be bad, yeah, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, For sure, Because I mean some people are on a journey too.
Speaker 2:Yeah, right, yeah, yeah, give them a couple months.
Speaker 1:And some people just like swole as hell. Like okay, you clearly ain't doing this for a man.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, no, no, no, yeah, yeah, yeah, you have a competition coming up Exactly yeah, different walks of life. I saw somebody the other day. I mean it wasn't nothing crazy. I think the only time I do remember seeing somebody and she looked like a Disney princess or something.
Speaker 1:It was that one time.
Speaker 2:I never saw her again. I don't think I'd approach. I don't think she's like my type, what you mean. I don't like pretty I don't know, have you ever seen somebody who could be like pretty? But you know that holding a conversation with them and all that might not be relatable.
Speaker 1:I see what you mean. I wouldn't know that until I speak with them. Yeah, she's pretty, but intellectually it's not going to go no farther than where it stands. Yeah, yeah, because she's just like you know, she's not, she's just thinking I don't know, I don't want to say stupid.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you're going that route. That's not the word I'm trying to use.
Speaker 1:Different type of lifestyle, yeah, yeah yeah, I always say it like different, that's not the word I'm trying to use Different type of lifestyle. Yeah, yeah, it's like her maturity level is just not high. Yeah, yeah, is that?
Speaker 2:something you go through often. What or have gone through often, Like if you're way too ditzy for me then it's not.
Speaker 1:I got to be around you and it's annoyance level, yeah, yeah. And I was like, yeah, it's not going to get me there.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. So there has to be some type of like you don't have to be the smartest person in the room by any means which you have to kind of understand like comprehend like be self aware.
Speaker 2:Have you ever uh, uh like started to date someone and then eventually that showed?
Speaker 1:started to date someone and then eventually that showed uh, I think I've dated somebody who was I don't want to. She was ditzy and how she moved, but she was intelligent and it was a play it was uh yeah, yeah, like she. She could maneuver and be that ditzy person and act ignorant and but she very much knew what was happening oh okay, so it's like a personality thing uh, I think that is a defense mechanism the defense mechanism?
Speaker 2:yeah, is it like the police pull up?
Speaker 1:I don't know what's going on exactly well, who else wouldn't do that? Yeah I don't know what's going on but she, she played on it because she was a white girl, you know, I mean and so she could easily. But yeah, you can, you don't not. Everybody doesn't play the ditsy role I'm confused, but yes, so she'll how she did thing. I was like, okay, you're very smart to how you lead yourself to be yeah because you wouldn't know that unless you really knew her.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, oh, okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, I don't think I've, I don't think I've dated any yeah.
Speaker 1:But I mean, if I was to say her name, you'll probably know who I was talking about, because she's been around.
Speaker 2:She's actually been around. She's been around us. Was it when you had the white car? Yeah?
Speaker 1:Bro, bro, you hated her. I remember one time we pulled up somewhere to get liquor I didn't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2:Yeah, she did some with the radio. Yeah, yeah, I just remember from that moment. Are you? You did not.
Speaker 1:No, I know what you're talking about. She lied for like no reason at all, because it it was. Like you know, the radio had a like you had to move in a certain way to use an aux cord.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:And she plugged it in and did something and just lied about it and I was like I know how this works. What's the point of lying? But it was amongst other things, and now, as I grow up, I feel bad about how I handled that relationship because um I went harder than what it, what she was what I should have uh yeah, yeah, and she actually really liked me a lot and I didn't treat her well yeah okay, because I did go hard but, yeah, yeah, but, as this is, part of the learning situation.
Speaker 1:And there's still a lot of me in that. You know what I mean, Because I don't like the. You know. I think it's like a what I'm seeing in a lot of traits that women have. It's like they're always treated when you talk about princesseses they're growing up treated like a princess. You want your daughter to be a princess. You know that she plays with dolls, thinks, idolize and things like that, and that very much leads to that personality growing up. Yeah, so it's. It's hard for me to deal with that because it's a.
Speaker 1:They're more selfish than what a man is yes yeah, yeah, so I know how I am and I wanted them to share that equally. It's like I know how selfless I am. We all gonna have selfish tendencies, but it's like you should be at least trying to be as giving.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and that's just hard for me to wrap my head around that there a lot of people who I've dated are not always there with that that is a thing that I have realized too with women, that that that it's almost like the better the father, it's like, the more princessy the girl is exactly which is crazy yeah, I mean it's a great life, it's a great relationship with the father, but it's also like you're not gonna do this for me.
Speaker 1:My daddy would always do this yeah, yeah yeah exactly, I think that you you have that. You have, when they're pretty, the entitlement oh my god, you're always getting what you want and things uh-huh and um they're all. People are always willing to go that extra mile for a pretty woman, um so, and you don't? You always have insecurities, but it's not like everybody else yeah yeah, because so many people have been going after you and been showing their like you in different ways, so you have that as well.
Speaker 2:And I don't well.
Speaker 1:So it's a part, a part of me feels I'm maybe using it wrong, but it feels right. When I say the word tear down, it's like, hey, bro, we if this, I ain't going to be the one that just went on your hand and foot, because I have different priorities too.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:And my life ain't your life. You know what?
Speaker 2:I mean.
Speaker 1:Like you, can only put me in your environment for so much. Yeah, I can't. Just I can't, I can't. You know, wait on you with the red carpet. I got things to do there's. You know, I have obligations and I feel like that becomes an issue and they don't psychologically realize that because they've always had something similar to that.
Speaker 2:I feel like the prettier they are, the easier it is to just be like okay, I'll just find another nigga that'll do it.
Speaker 1:And then in my head, that's your prerogative in your decision. Yeah, that okay cool, all right. I feel good with myself that I'm gonna find somebody else too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and if that's your personality, that's surely not what I want so right, I, we can split Emily.
Speaker 2:Yeah. No that definitely makes sense. I'm way more on that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but it's just when the lies start to happen. What lies I feel like? When you have that? Okay, like I've seen. So I don't want to just put this on women or just all women in the hole, but I've seen to where it's like. They're like I can find another man.
Speaker 1:It typically doesn't really go that way. Yeah, it typically they're sneaking, they're, yeah, they're doing little things that you're not aware of. So when it all comes to the forefront, he's like I wish you would have just gave it to me straight, because now I'm, I'm thinking you're in it, but you're not yeah, that happens yeah, I think it goes back on something else we was talking about another time, where they've already broken up in their head and then they start doing that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, the, the opening up the second life yes, exactly so when.
Speaker 1:So it's like all right, we could, we had. I didn't know this was as big of an issue as you made it seem um so that's so. That's when it's like yeah, I'm cool if you give it to me straight, like that, and we just look amicably. But when you're actually, you know economy, I feel and I feel scammed, I feel used and abused. Now that's where the scars.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean or the wounds happen and um, and then we all take that into our next relationship, you know, because we're all skeptical, worried, there's a lot of damaged and it takes a lot to heal that. But yeah, yeah, and you know, I think I've been somewhat good because I'm the type I probably mentioned it here, I'll mention it again I'm the type of person who I trust you until you show me a reason not to trust you. Yeah, yeah. And then you don't want to be on the opposite side where I don't trust you until you show me a reason not to trust you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. And then you don't want to be on the opposite side where I don't trust you, right?
Speaker 2:Because that's not even the one.
Speaker 1:I like to live free in my. I've always talked about. I like peace, I like to live free in my head. So if I'm worried, then there's no point of us being together, because this is this relationship is taking too much of a toll on me mentally yeah, it can ruin everything.
Speaker 1:Yes, exactly. So that's why I'd rather split, if this is what it's going to be, because otherwise, what are we doing? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We're living miserable lives with each other. We might as well go our separate ways and try to figure out with somebody else, ourselves or whatever, because it's just not working yeah, no, that that makes sense.
Speaker 2:I've seen that, uh more than a few times with people and hearing about it from other people as well. So, yeah, I think I think more men should just like leave early. Yeah, yeah, and it's random that I say that, because I was scrolling I saw carrie hilton talk about her and some some some dude that she was with.
Speaker 2:He was a basketball player sergey bucka maybe, uh, uh, they started with an s, so maybe that's him. Yeah, yeah. Well, she said that I wish I would have left sooner, and I feel like more men should do that. Like, yeah, like cut her off.
Speaker 1:Yes, but it's also not. It's hard, I mean absolutely.
Speaker 2:No, I'm definitely one of the the people that. It's a reason why I say that, because I have experienced certain things where I like give you an open idea or try to see the human in somebody and be like you know what me, as I'm a work in progress, because there are things that I in in certain relationships, there are things that I wanted to improve on in myself that I didn't really know how to. So I would kind of like give somebody else that grace too, and it always did not work out well. So, yeah, I just felt like I don't know, men should definitely just end that shit way sooner than you know, before it gets to certain things. And then the man is hurt, because I always feel like when the man is hurt, it's way worse. It's way worse, it's statistically.
Speaker 1:What do you mean?
Speaker 2:It is Men deal with breakups in a harder way. Yeah, so I just feel like, with that being said, I feel like men should definitely be the ones to be like nah and of course I'm talking about men who are like good guys and you, you know, deal with women that have these tendencies that can kind of throw a relationship off. Not necessarily just anybody.
Speaker 1:But yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I didn't take my, my breakup Well, well, like not in front of her, like I wasn't like breaking down in front of her. Yeah, I have too much pride, yeah. Yeah, yeah but mentally it was a lot like. For sure, I think I may have mentioned it here. I talk so much openly.
Speaker 1:Who knows where I say things, but it was one, Well, two things One time. She. She gave me I don't. I honestly, I just try to protect the person, so I don't say a lot, but I'm freely open to talk about things but I was like, yeah, that's some of their stuff and I don't want to just open it up but, uh, but I'm saying that to say there was sometimes she broke news or was going to break news to me and throw over text was like I gotta tell you something.
Speaker 1:I hate that when you don't, you gotta tell me something, but you don't and then I was in. I was in class. I couldn't hear anything. The teacher was saying yeah I couldn't hear anything.
Speaker 1:Anybody was telling me it was like it was. Whatever is in my head, it was just that like it was just like noise was just blocked. Yeah, um, so, uh, and then got the news it was, it was hurtful yeah yeah. And then, um, I remember one time it was, uh, we already went through the breakup, whatever. And then I was like in my head, I was, what did I say? I was like I can't wait for the day I don't think about her every day.
Speaker 1:Uh-huh uh-huh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like I know that day's going to come, but I know it's not going to be any time soon.
Speaker 2:Because I think about her constantly. Yeah, after it was over. Yeah, yeah, yeah, how long did it take.
Speaker 1:I didn't. You don't know until you don't know, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2:Oh right, Like, oh shit, I haven't thought about yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm like dang, I haven't thought about her in a long time. I'm like oh, I'm finally here, yeah yeah, yeah. But that was. It was months after I realized. Yeah, because she's not on my mind anymore. That makes sense, get outside yeah, yeah, yeah, I I've maybe tried that, but also I didn't it does. I don't have the same confidence I do in myself now that I did then. So uh-huh yeah, yeah. So it's like when I get outside, there was no holes to run to. There, was it?
Speaker 1:yeah yeah, yeah, because it was, and we, being a girl, broke up so often that the girl that I liked just knew I was gonna go back to her anyway oh yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2:So what you doing, thinking about my ex, what you doing?
Speaker 1:so I was like yeah, we done, like y'all be back next week, so it never really yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah damn yeah, yeah, so, yeah, but yeah, so I and I did yeah, so I didn't have that confidence. Like bruh, I'm about to go to broadway and you know yeah even there was. No, that wasn't, probably, wasn't even a thing, but for real. So I was just kind of stuck yeah, yeah, yeah with my feelings yeah, yeah, yeah, if my head was like uh, you know, I know plenty of going to be in that.
Speaker 2:You know what I mean if my head is like uh, you know, I know, plenty is gonna be in that. You know what I mean? Damn, yeah, yeah, you gotta go outside, that's that's.
Speaker 1:That's one thing I realized. I'm made to break up. You gotta go outside.
Speaker 2:It's not gonna do that.
Speaker 1:Help you at all, I didn't go outside.
Speaker 2:Okay, yeah, so like it it well, I eventually, eventually, yeah, it did help a little bit. Yeah, it did help a little bit. It's not gonna stop it when um, it's not gonna stop it when you know it's silent you know, but it definitely helps.
Speaker 2:it definitely helps because you know outside can be many things. It could be like you taking yourself to I don't know, just enjoying yourself somewhere, or like go hoot with a bunch of niggas. You're not finna be thinking about your ex while a nigga's trying to cross you over. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Like you know what I'm saying. She broke my ankles like she broke my arm.
Speaker 2:Don't don't invite that pussy. But um, yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to get out. That's one thing I definitely realize. Um, you got to get outside, man, but you know that that shit is not ever going to but you still gotta lay your head at night.
Speaker 2:You know what I mean yeah, it can speed up the process is what I'm saying. You still gotta go through it. That's like. That's like you got a infection or a common cold or something. You can take something to speed up the process of this thing, but you still gotta go through that shit, yeah. So, yeah, that that's. That's something different, but I do. I do think still like men should men should be the breaker uppers more often yeah and then uh, to that point.
Speaker 1:You know it's hard to break up like you don't want to see. You know your girl, your ex, you're crying in front of you wanting to make it work and you'd be like, nah, you know like that's extremely tough. That is a hard decision to do everything gets better with time you whisper it in like what's that? The gorilla dude? Gorilla dude playing the apes Caesar? Yeah, exactly. You whisper it in the Planet of the Apes Caesar? Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2:Every ball $20? Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1:And you whisper that thing Everything heals with time, everything heals with time.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I get it, cause I'm a, I definitely love love. However, like I said, man, I am slowly getting to the point of just like looking things dead on. I'm not even texting women anymore.
Speaker 1:Oh, wow.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I just take straight niggas now. It just sounded. It sounded like that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I knew when you was going with it.
Speaker 2:I knew exactly what you mean, that was too funny, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:So where are you at? Like I don't.
Speaker 2:Bro, is it a comfortable feeling Like?
Speaker 1:It's like For somebody who loves love. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2:Man, it's like I just see it for what it is.
Speaker 2:It's like some of these friendships and stuff. I do understand women like to get hit up and all that, but like I don't know, I don't deal with people who don't, I don't know. It could be a girl that likes me, but I could, just, I just know what it is. It's just like if you have a certain quality about you that I know I'm not going to get with you, the conversation fades off and then now it's to the point where I'm. It's just crazy, except like I'm so focused on myself that I don't need sometimes I don't even text back. I don't even I don't know.
Speaker 2:Like the other day you asked me like was I lonely? And I was like no, I'm not. I just I thought I would be, though, like if I didn't have any conversation and not cause I'm a uh, I guess I'm like kind of reserved, but to people that I talk to and stuff, like I do like talking and yeah, it's just weird. It's just like after I kind of like stepped away from all the my vices and like all the things that were kind of taking me off of my game, like my game elevated yeah and it just it kind of like knocked off everything else that I didn't truly care about for real, and a lot of it is just conversations with women it's just like yeah.
Speaker 2:One girl said I told you now it don't take nothing for me to just like, yeah. One girl said one girl said something. I told you now I don't take nothing for me to just like oh, all right like I say, you cut off women quickly. I don't cut. I mean, I just stopped talking to him.
Speaker 2:You know one girl said one girl said um, she said yeah is crazy. And I was like yeah, I mean, you just gotta pick better niggas and she said bye. I haven't talked to her since okay, well, yeah, yeah, no she said like it was funny, and then she thought I was gonna reply and I just like all right, cool, like bye, I'll never talk to you again why, uh why, did you lean in that direction? That was very direct yeah, I, yeah, I took it directly.
Speaker 1:But all right. No, I'm just saying like, yeah, you need to pick better. It's like why'd you lean to that? Because that, because she does?
Speaker 2:okay, yeah she was like. She texted me this uh, like I'd be hating this, I'd be hating this with girls. Like they'll say something like these, only a certain type of women. But it'll say something like um, oh yeah, um, yeah, we should hang out, and all this. I'm like, all right, cool, cool, cool. Then a day later I find out you got a nigga. Then I'm like I mean, what? Why?
Speaker 1:And.
Speaker 2:I'm thinking about the type of girls I would want for me.
Speaker 1:Yeah, right, right. And it's like, yeah, that's very, yeah, it's weird, yeah, it's slimy.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's like you're trying to dress this up in your head. And then, as soon as she said, yeah, I got a nigga, it's the same girl. And she said I got a nigga Basically, nigga, it's the same girl. And she said I got a nigga basically. And then I was like, oh well, shit, uh. So I said something on the lines of well, I gotta watch out, or something. I said something like basically addressing that she has a man. And then she hit me back with I thought we was friends. And then I'm like yep, and then she said the next day she's like oh, I guess I'm single now. He broke up with me and then I was like, oh, what happened? Niggas is crazy. I was like you need to pick better. And then she said bye, laugh out loud, I was out yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, and that's one that probably together.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, that's probably, she probably moved on yeah, probably like that yeah yeah, I don't know, I didn't, it's just like certain things, was she fat. What would you say? Her 1 out of 10? 1 out of 10.
Speaker 1:She was like 6.7. So she was very middish.
Speaker 2:She was. Yeah, you can say, I never met her.
Speaker 1:So I don't know in real life. How quick are you to FaceTime somebody if you meet them online? Man.
Speaker 2:I need to do that first.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:I need to do that first, not quick, because I feel like that's awkward. I feel like that's awkward, I feel like for I'll be giving folks the benefit of the doubt because I'm me, like, I'm actually what's on there, yeah so I just automatically know you know what I look like and I know what you look like, yeah, yeah, but um, yeah, somebody had tricked me. I, that's what I told you about. I had a conversation, it was cool, we had a long conversation, and then we FaceTimed and I was like that ain't the photos.
Speaker 2:That's not the pictures. And I'm like damn. We had a real good conversation. It was a long conversation and I was like damn she, cool as hell. And then when the FaceTime cut off, I was like damn, cool as hell. And then when the FaceTime cut off. I was like damn, she got my ass and I was like, damn, I should really FaceTime these people, but I don't want to be. The first thing that I do is just FaceTime somebody.
Speaker 1:That's so weird what was that link between when y'all first exchanged numbers to the FaceTime?
Speaker 2:what was the?
Speaker 1:link, link, like a week was a week apart.
Speaker 2:A couple days uh to when we facetimed yeah, from the time you got her number, from the time y'all facetime how many days apart was that, uh, it was like a day okay, so that wasn't that long then yeah, no, but like we just had an initial, our initial conversation on the phone lasted way longer than normal because it was like a great conversation. And then at the end of that conversation she was like I'm about to do something and she just said, like she suggested to facetime okay so and I was like I mean all right. And then I did, and I was like damn yeah, you was very disappointed I was.
Speaker 2:I just I don't understand. Yeah, yeah, like, why? Yeah, that, I don't like that. I don't like that. Yeah, I don't like that. Yeah, and she had a lot of pictures. That's what fucked, mia, oh okay. I'm like you ain't had just three, you had about 50.
Speaker 1:Yeah, how did you fool me?
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:But yeah, women can do makeup really well and it's literally simple things that people can do to where it enhances your beauty.
Speaker 2:One thing I realized, though check to see if they smile in their pictures okay that needs to go down in history somewhere.
Speaker 2:Okay, check to see if they smile in their photos that's rule number one that there are a lot of I don't know what rule that is, but that is a big one. That is a big one. Check to see that. Because that was a thing when she yeah, because every time, like she laughed and all that then it was a couple. It was like it was her and it was another girl. This is, this is over a period of time, like a long period of time, but it was another girl and then she smiled and she was. She was insecure about her smile and she would kind of get off of the FaceTime a little bit every time that she would smile and you can clearly see like while she's getting off she has a gap in it like I give a fuck, but like she did.
Speaker 1:And then I was like damn.
Speaker 2:Like I didn't know you were insecure. But, I'm just saying like and I would have never known that either, because she didn't smile in the photos.
Speaker 1:I'm just saying I forgot it because you mentioned you. Oh, my question I remember now it was what do you know what you want in a woman?
Speaker 2:now, yes, for the most part I do, because I'm still growing. I don't know which way I'm gonna go. I do know which way I'm gonna go, but I also don't, because I didn't pop yet you didn't pop. I didn't pop yet you didn't pop. I didn't pop Like right so silly.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, I didn't know Like.
Speaker 2:I'm the no. No, I didn't pop yet, so I don't know what that life is about. You know what I'm saying? Like that could change. It's going to change. I don't know what. That's going to be, okay, so I don't know what that's going to be. So I'm saying I know for the most part I want a woman who works out, who is close to God and can like it's a little loose, like, not just like super strict.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying? Go to the bars and have drinks, yeah, okay, like some Knows, how to twerk.
Speaker 2:I mean that's fine, okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Do you think you want her to be reserved or she can be the life of the party?
Speaker 2:Does that matter to you? No, I've had, I've had both before. I like both, I like both. I I do like I don't know, it's like the. The other stuff can be kind of like up and down because, you know, I, I do like a girl who's all over me and stuff, but at the the same time not just all over me but like has a big personality, just like has a big personality, because then I'm laughing, I do like to laugh. That is big for me. But let's say, if you tone that aspect down, but you turn up, gives massages, cooks all the time, I can deal with that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, wait, wait, yeah, so like yeah, all the other stuff could deal with that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, right, right, yeah, so like, yeah, all the other stuff is just kind of like fine tuning and it's case by case basis, but I do know that that's mainly what I want and, of course, somebody who's like extremely like, interested in me well, she meets all that but has a big body count.
Speaker 1:Does that bother you? A big body count yeah, she's up for 50 men 50 men.
Speaker 2:I don't know, yeah, it's gonna, it's gonna you know. Yeah, I don't know, because that's, that's a life decision what if that's that's?
Speaker 1:that's a decision making skill. What if she has a low body count? She meets all that but has sex with one of your close friends but didn't date him. Counts she meets all that but had sex with one of your close friends, but didn't date him. So your homie was like yeah, I don't care if you, if you like that, it was just a one-time thing there's no energy behind it.
Speaker 2:You know, on paper it doesn't matter, but, but in real life, like I just had, I don't, I don't be wanting. That's like me, me showing up to the same function with you. We got the same shirt on. This is like it's cool, like why we got the same shirt on. It's like this awkward feeling like every time we see each other.
Speaker 1:I'm saying you like her a lot, it's not like. And then?
Speaker 2:yeah, I like this shirt a lot yeah yeah, yeah, but when I see you, like you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1:I don't know if I could do. Does it depend on the friend?
Speaker 2:I don't think it depends on the friend. I don't that if I could do it, does it depend on the friend? I don't think it depends on the friend. I don't that's kind of, and I have a friend. I have a friend who actually, like, has somebody who dealt with somebody else before. Not me but like another friend who has somebody else that dealt with somebody before, they're doing great, you know.
Speaker 1:And it's great's great. But yeah, I don't know you can do it.
Speaker 2:I don't, I don't know, I don't know if I could. I feel like it's awkward a little bit. What about you? You think you could do that?
Speaker 1:uh like he didn't care at all he didn't care at all and I found like because I usually don't strive if I I would have to like not knowingly go for that person you know, what I mean, like I can go into it knowing, because it's still a little weird. Yeah, yeah, yeah because then I know her through him for the most part oh yeah, kind of I can see it later.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. But if that's somebody I'm talking to for four months, then it's like oh, tate smashed. I would kind of live, yeah, yeah. And he was like bruh, I'm cool with it, yeah, I'm cool with it too. I just, I won't see it that way. Yeah, yeah, like even you Was like yeah, I was like Okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:I just I yeah. So there was a time when I was in a room With the girl I was dating and I was in the room With A friend who was dating A girl that I dated and say one more time I'm in a room with me and a girl I'm dating right now. Yeah, and also in the room is my homie, who is with a girl that I dated before, and we play a game. We're drinking and we play a game was that present?
Speaker 2:I don't know, just tell me if you remember, or not okay but we play. You were present in the car when we drove, yeah, you remember that one. So yeah, and then it was a never have I ever game. And then it was like then it got to a sexual standpoint, oh yeah, never have I ever did this. But in my head, like I went with you for a while yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:So you wanted to cut him out, but you knew not to no, it wasn't that.
Speaker 2:It was just like how awkward is this? Okay, yeah like even for my girl at that time, like listening and like never had, but like they did something and I'm in my head if something pops up that I did with her. Yeah, that's awkward as fuck, that's awkward yeah. So that alone, that that situation alone, it just like being with somebody who did something with somebody. It's like it could be cool, but certain instances make you be like why the fuck, yeah, am I even here?
Speaker 1:I'm just understood. That would be awkward and I would semi have a problem with that situation yeah but those are very one-offish oh god, one in a million yeah, like how? What are the odds at our age that we're playing never, ever, ever?
Speaker 2:oh god, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's so weird now. Oh yeah yeah yeah, so.
Speaker 1:So that would be like a weird situation and then, yeah, but that's, yeah, that's, that's not the normal, what I'm talking about. I'm talking about like a one-off yeah, not you dating somebody for years, and then oh yeah yeah, to where you know that person intimately uh-huh, yeah, yeah okay, because that yeah, so that's just a completely different situation I've seen it work.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I've seen it work.
Speaker 1:My mind, I don't know, I don't um, I don't like shit lingering for me I think, I think it would linger in my mind like I'm sure, yeah, yeah, but I also don't want to if they're fitting. I said fit all the qualities cooks well, hilarious. Everything I want in a woman then I'm not going to. Yeah and she has a low body count. For whatever, I'm not even the type of person to ever ask for my body count. Um, but I don't like to see a lot of people you dated, because then I'm going to just think you have a high body count it's like yeah, yeah so I never really had to, I guess well, nashville's small yeah, yeah, yeah and so
Speaker 1:um and then people be out and about a lot and then I know you be out like that.
Speaker 2:I don't really care for that uh-huh, I don't like a girl who goes out all the time yeah, well and Well, and me for me, I go um, and my sister kind of spotted it.
Speaker 1:It's like I'm a man like a chameleon, to where I can be in different places and somewhat fitted not maybe all the way, but um, but so I I know places where not to go, because that's somebody I used to date. You know what I mean yeah yeah, so so it that's not gonna be the same thing that happens to me yeah yeah, because I was like okay, this girl I talked to she works here, I'm not gonna go there, yeah, yeah no for a fact, that's just exactly, but yeah, you would think um so you ran into somebody who somebody dated before.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah yeah, yeah, damn, but but was it?
Speaker 2:was it a situation where, like they definitely could have avoided this?
Speaker 1:it's not so. It's not like it's an actual issue in that, in itself, like that one particular instance. I'm just saying, for example, an instance, but if it happens multiple times, then I'm like, alright bro. Like yeah, yeah, it's just weird. It's a feeling it's like alright, who am I dating? You know what I mean? Yeah, because you're very much. Yeah. Yeah, I feel like it's another part of you that I don't know, yeah, yeah, but they know, huh, of course they know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they know they're supposed to know themselves well, so I'm just so. That's why I was like, okay, it's like all right, who are you really for real? Yeah, yeah, yeah so.
Speaker 2:But we actually run up on time and there's a couple things that we can just because, uh, just, uh.
Speaker 1:So so the shannon sharp thing, um so the the biggest thing it's not the fact that he raped her. I think everybody's not had that discussion. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because that's what he's actually getting sued for and people are missing that. Yeah, yeah, so it's the. The conversation is about their age and discrepancy. Do you feel that as the issue?
Speaker 2:uh, I think that's alarming.
Speaker 2:It's a little I don't know if the word is alarming, but it just feels like I just don't understand.
Speaker 2:As of right now in my life, I don't really understand sitting down and talking to a 20-year-old woman yeah, yeah, even for me right now. Yeah, yeah, even for me right now like when it goes down to like 10 years, and then I can, I can hear it, I can sense it on them that they're younger and they think like differently, like not on the same uh level as I do. I can feel it, I can see it when they walk and talk, and so it's like to be 20 more years older and with that same type of person, uh, I, I just don't understand that right now. So that's that's kind of like my thing and it just makes me um now, so that's that's kind of like my thing and it just makes me um, wonder what that is. But, like you have said, uh one day about how you know, leonardo dicaprio uh, deals with super young women and um other people, other, a lot of other people. So I, I just don't understand it.
Speaker 1:So I asked a question in a different way. How do you feel when you're able to teach your girl something and they get extremely excited that? You gave them that information.
Speaker 2:So I get that. That I do get, because I dated someone who was like like 31, like a year younger than me, and then I dated someone who was like 28 and it was different and it was like I knew for a fact that I could say more to her and she would be more so not only receptive, but more so excited about the information.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because it seemed like I I am a very knowledgeable person yeah and with the other girl, who was like 30 something, I could tell that they're like I would have to go further to to surprise her. You know, of course she was smart to tell anyway. But yeah, there is definitely a difference. I will say that. Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and so I think that there's something about that too. I'm going to speak to Shannonannon like sports. Shannon is like he has that, because I mean, once she's that young, so there's a lot of things. There's what he beauty is in the eye beholder, so they talk about her looks and how she's average, in which I feel that way too but, also that's to the beholder, so that's kind of irrelevant.
Speaker 1:So you have that aspect of her, her fitness, her willing to have sex often, to keep going to keep up with his sexual appetite, and then for his, what I feel like the biggest thing of them all is for him to show her something.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and she gets excited. You know she's OnlyFans, you know probably not making a bunch because it's a very saturated market. And then you're able to give her thousands of dollars, be able to pay her rent, boy, would that get anybody excited? Yeah. Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah, now you have financial freedom that's what we all ask for yeah, oh, yeah, yeah because she said 25 000 for each sheet.
Speaker 1:First of all, she ain't, that wasn't a joke. She, she's very much whether she's trying to play it off and making a joke. She wants 50 000. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And maybe he he gots a lot of money. He got an. He said he got paid from that cat Williams interview three times what he made in the NFL in a year or something like that. Dang yeah. So he that's just one interview, he has multiple. Uh, a hundred, yeah, yeah, yeah, espn money, fox money, his NFL check um Nightcap.
Speaker 2:He got investments, I'm assuming yeah there's a lot of money that Shannon Sharp has, so he very much as easily gave her $50,000 or plus yeah, I mean, he knows I do agree with that, I do agree with that, uh, and again, like that's why I say I just don't necessarily understand right now, just because of that whole thing, but like I do get the whole submissive thing. It seems like it seems like it's more of a submissive relationship from the woman if the man is just very, very knowledgeable, and one way to for sure know that is if the age gap is, it's got a big age gap and um, my, not, uh, oh, because we we got a lot of things.
Speaker 1:One more thing to cover, but the point, not point. What I wanted to also add to that Shannon Sharp lawsuit is something don't feel right in this there's a lot of, is it? I don't know if it's maybe her just idea, but it don't feel that way Because the only reason why I'm really saying that is, if she's 21, $10 million for her to be doing something she's been doing with him.
Speaker 2:Are you saying for him to like already trying to shut it up?
Speaker 1:No. For her not to take that settlement seems very, very weird to me, because she she has to. When they making you an offer, you have to come back to your client with that. So tony busby is a lawyer, um, and he's he, he's the one giving guidance. So he's telling her no, we can get more, but just for some reason for her not to accept that feels like there's a lot of things going on.
Speaker 2:Like timing. He actually did do something.
Speaker 1:No, not really. I'm saying it feels a little bit more darker. In what way? I'll just plainly say what I'm saying. The Cat Williams interview disturbed a lot of people. Yeah, yeah, yeah so people once they get back, and Cat Williams was supposed to come again to his podcast to reveal whatever, yeah, to reveal whatever you know what I mean.
Speaker 1:Uh-huh People very much do not like Shannon Sharp For real, yeah, for sure. I mean. Yeah, that was his platform to reveal a lot that tore down people's houses and brands that they need to build back up. So I don't. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like there's more to play than what it just leads on. And I'm just using that as an example. I don't know what's behind the scenes, but it feels much more than just that.
Speaker 2:I do feel like if somebody said something crazy and I said, look, here's 10 million, I feel like I did something to even do that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but you okay because they're able to show you a recording of hey, this is what I have on you. We got a lot more. She could have been filming a lot of. She could have had a teddy bear on the camera and put camera and put his thumb up, her thumb up his butt, mm-hmm. Oh very revealing. Hey, we don't put this on Twitter. Yeah, yeah, so is so it could be anything, because she already talked about eating his ass in the text message oh, I didn't even see that I think I believe, I believe, so, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Or or vice versa uh-huh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:So it could be easily wilder shit I, I can, I can see that, yeah, yeah but there's another. Yeah, yeah, 50 million is a lot you think this is a ploy to take him down. I just didn't think. Usually, when stuff like that happens, it feels like that person is bigger, like Diddy big.
Speaker 1:But people very much want their get back. So, for example, what reminds meulk hogan is is big. Yeah, I mean you when you say somebody's bigger. The shannon sharp stuff is everywhere. It's not just a, just a a section in the black twitter.
Speaker 2:You know what I mean this is everywhere.
Speaker 1:Anybody who's talking about is getting a ton of views. It's a very much a huge thing so yeah, yeah. So this is like you know. I don't want to say this is america renowned information. Yeah, he's on espn, the worldwide leaders in sports.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he had the biggest interview in youtube history yeah, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah so he's a big one he's in the hall of fame from cry out lies. Used to be the best tight end, the best in his field, so he's, he's. I mean there's no, I don't know who. Yeah, diddy is a huge name, but shannon sharp's up there, yeah, yeah, so, um, so, yeah. And then, not only that, it don't if, if you're my, I my, I I'm going to take you down, regardless of how you you can, you tore down my shit.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm going to tear down your you tore down my brand Huh. What did he tear down by having Cat Williams?
Speaker 2:Cat Williams really just talked about black people for real.
Speaker 1:Okay, there's a lot of big names that he mentioned.
Speaker 2:Steve Harvey, sedgwick's Entertainer. What does Tony Busby care? It don't. I was thinking you was talking about corporations, that it seemed like it was just straight comedians.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, he can say a lot of things. Harvey Weinstein, he talked about a lot of things. I had an executive ask to suck my dick. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you're biting back on and you may say more yeah yeah, yeah, there's a lot of things, a lot of people, and not only that the people that you just named, those, those are big guys, big brands. So if they get an opportunity to tear somebody down I'm not saying they did, um, they could yeah and and they can use it through lawyers.
Speaker 1:They do things through lawyers all the time yeah, and that's very much what lawyers do, so so for her, for him to not take that 10 million dollars from gabriella tells me. There's a bigger play than that he knows he can get more.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and somebody's probably pushing him and paying him on the side to go further. Yeah, so they gave him a number that he couldn't, that they that they know he wouldn't refuse or that he was going to refuse, so they can make it a thing. That's why I feel like it's not yeah, yeah, because otherwise 10 million we. So, while I get 30, 40, 50 of that as a lawyer, that's easy money I'm done call it a day I got easy, easy bad, that's what I was, I didn't have to go further.
Speaker 1:I didn't have to put my name into this.
Speaker 2:You think they're trying to shut?
Speaker 1:them down.
Speaker 2:Huh, you think they're trying to shut them down.
Speaker 1:I think they're putting. I think they did what they wanted, they got what they wanted done. So whatever happens, happens, I don't think nothing happened, for real.
Speaker 2:He took a break from ESPN, or whatever.
Speaker 1:They can go further.
Speaker 2:I feel like the only thing they could go further with is it just being humiliating.
Speaker 1:It is very much humiliating, not like he raped somebody. We do got a close shot though.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Alright, this is two for the culture. We'll be back with another episode. Sorry for cutting it off so quickly. Absolutely Alright, peace.