Men Actually Love Harder Than Women

In this episode of the Elite Level Status Podcast, I sit down with my friend Ty for a raw conversation about modern dating and relationships from a male perspective.

We discuss why modern dating feels so transactional today, why a lot of men feel like relationships can quickly become one-sided, and why boundaries and self-respect matter so much if you don’t want to get ran over. Ty gives an unfiltered perspective on the pressure men feel, how easily a man can get thrown off emotionally by the woman he loves, and why honesty matters more than anything.

We also get into what makes a man take a woman seriously, why respect and peace at home matter so much, and why outside influences from friends, trends, and constant comparison can quietly damage relationships. Ty also shares his thoughts on why men actually love harder than women and he gives his number 1 rule that everyone in a relationship should follow.

This episode is for anyone who wants a real, unfiltered male perspective on modern relationships, emotional loyalty, social media, accountability, and what it takes to keep peace in a relationship.

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SPEAKER_00 1:47

Um, I feel like nowadays people's not really dating. Okay, explain that. I feel like people just, I feel like women nowadays is with a man for what they can do. Because the minute you don't get it, they gonna go run to the next man with it. And then you cannot have nothing, and then you can be having a lot and do a lot for your woman. The minute you can't do nothing, she won't you accept that she finna go get it from another man. And then she can bash you and talk to you like nothing because you ain't got it. Imagine being with a woman who have money, but you don't. You live with her.

SPEAKER_02 2:26

Right.

SPEAKER_00 2:27

She can do whatever she wants to do.

SPEAKER_02 2:29

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 2:29

What you gonna do? You ain't got nowhere to go. You ain't she feed you.

SPEAKER_01 2:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 2:33

So a lot of men get stuck in that, but you can't be weak.

SPEAKER_01 2:36

Right.

SPEAKER_00 2:36

You have to, you gotta put your foot on that blacktop and let her know this ain't going like that. Set boundaries. You know, you gotta set boundaries because if you don't do that, it's not gonna go in your favor. That's why a lot of women run over a lot of men because they like the men in the relationship.

SPEAKER_02 2:54

Okay. You make a great point there. So, how how can men nowadays set boundaries for themselves so that they don't get ran over?

SPEAKER_00 3:04

Just don't put your woman in your business. If you broke, don't tell her you broke. If you ain't got something, don't tell her you ain't got it. Yeah. If you broke, make make it seem like you got money. Don't never put no woman in your business because that's your weak spot. The minute y'all get into it, she's gonna throw it in your face. Don't never put no woman in your business and always just, you know, just play, treat people how you wanna be treated.

SPEAKER_01 3:28

Right.

SPEAKER_00 3:29

So if a woman treats you wrong, treat her wrong respectfully, though.

SPEAKER_01 3:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 3:36

You get what I'm saying? You ain't gotta outdo yourself or try to go get up with one of her friends. No, just treat some, treat people how you want to be treated. Right. That's how it's supposed to go. Right. But people don't do that because you got a lot of men out here. I'm not gonna say tender because everybody tender. Right. Like if I love somebody, I'll do something that I don't supposed to do for them. Like I'll go out my way. I didn't, uh, you talking to the everybody do that. Uh, people gonna sit on here on this camera. I'm not tender. Like, bro, everybody is. Everybody do that about a woman they love is life. You know what I'm saying? It's the reaction, but you can't buy love. Right. People buy love, bro.

SPEAKER_02 4:12

I I always say, in order to create genuine attraction from a woman, you can never lead with money. That's that's not that's not gonna work.

SPEAKER_00 4:21

Yeah, I don't attract them type of women.

SPEAKER_02 4:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 4:24

Because I don't come in, a lot of men meet women. Oh, let me buy you this. Let me buy you do let me do this for you. Exactly. So a woman gonna hold you accountable for that. Like, I thought you said you're gonna do this. I I don't attract them type of women. That ain't my type of style.

SPEAKER_01 4:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 4:37

The type of women that I attract that I ever mess with or dated, that's not the type of women. I don't attract them type at all.

SPEAKER_02 4:44

So, so to summarize, you you really you you think that modern dating is very, would you say transactional?

SPEAKER_00 4:52

Man, bro. It's like the women you think good, they got a mask on. They ain't good. Yeah. It'll it'll mess your head. I can cuss. Yeah, yeah. It'll fuck your head up.

SPEAKER_01 5:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 5:05

When you find out some shit, you won't know. Because, bro, it's just scary, bro. It's you it you got people, you got people who just messing it up for us.

SPEAKER_01 5:14

Right.

SPEAKER_00 5:15

Honestly, you got men out here, bro. I know men who literally, if you got a girl, they'll see your girl. Hey, let me buy you this, let me do this for you. Yeah. What girl ain't gonna offer that?

SPEAKER_01 5:27

Right.

SPEAKER_00 5:28

We don't get that. Right. Uh, you ain't uh you ain't running into no women and saying, let me pay your bill, let me do this, let me do that. No. Women got it easy. They can just sit back and do this. Man, we can't do that, man.

SPEAKER_01 5:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 5:40

They're gonna say you a bum, man. You just sit on your ass all day, but women can do it.

SPEAKER_01 5:44

Right.

SPEAKER_00 5:44

But when we do it, we using somebody, we trying to take advantage of them, but they do it to us.

SPEAKER_02 5:50

And that is that is something about the male experience that you know women would have no idea about, but it it is a fight for us that we do have to work through. What do you think women most misunderstand about men in the modern dating market?

SPEAKER_00 6:06

I feel like women misunderstand men really love more than women. That's how I feel. Men really, men really be in their feelings, bro. A woman can really throw a man off, bro. A woman, a man can be this high at the top of the stairs, bro. I promise you, bro. When a woman do something, he's gonna jump to the bottom of the stairs, bro. Yeah. Like for real, bro. No matter what you're doing, you can be working out. Your women get to text in you, you're just gonna stop. They're gonna distract you because it's you can't help what you love, bro. You can't, no matter what a person do. You know what I'm saying? I see people all the time. I'm dumb, well, I ain't fucking with no man. Whatever, nigga. You're gonna be right back in the bed with her tonight. Right. I ain't gonna judge him. Cause I'm gonna be back in the bed with my lady tonight, too. Right. I can forgive a person for anything. Right. Just don't lie to me.

SPEAKER_01 6:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 6:53

You know what I'm saying? Yeah. If you'll lie to me, you'll kill me.

SPEAKER_01 6:57

Right.

SPEAKER_00 6:57

That's how I feel. As long as you tell me the truth, what I'm gonna do. I'm not finna go home and be mad and cry about it. You told me already. I don't give a fuck. You love him? Yeah, I love him. Okay. What you want me to say? Yeah. You fucked him? Yeah, I fucked him. Okay, was it good? Okay. On to the next day. I don't live in the past. I live for the moment in the day that we present in.

SPEAKER_02 7:18

Yeah, that's that's great advice. That's great advice. Um, okay, with that said, what does a woman need to show for you to take her seriously?

SPEAKER_00 7:28

Um, first off, a woman needs to, for me to take a woman seriously, I'm speaking for me. And I don't know if a lot of men can relate, because a lot of men look for different things. Me, I don't like women overly showing themselves. If I like I don't I don't want my girl to be overly showing herself. Okay. Not even just on the weird stuff, but just come. Does that mean on social media, in person, or both? Everything. Everything. Just why you gotta do that?

SPEAKER_02 7:57

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 7:57

Why you gotta post on Instagram half naked? Like who you trying to, you know what I'm saying? Right. But on another note, I feel like uh for me to take a woman seriously, I just want a woman to be focused, have their own stuff going on, and just on the right path. That's all, really. Because if I meet somebody, I don't really know them for real.

SPEAKER_02 8:19

Exactly.

SPEAKER_00 8:19

You know what I'm saying? So I really don't know. So it takes me time to get to know you, but when you first meet somebody, everything looks good. Everything looks great. Love at first sight. That's why when you get in tune with your lady, they be like, oh, we wasn't how we was when we first met. Duh, it's not gonna be like that because we know each other now. When we first met, it was loves and cuddles all day long, but it's not gonna be like that no more because we know each other. But I just looking for a woman to treat me right. Yeah, that's all. I'm a man, bro. I go through a lot. I have emotions, I have ups and downs. I think about stuff. Some I be mad, I be sad, I be happy. I just wanted the woman to be, it's okay, baby. I'm with you. Just chill, baby. I I got you, baby. You hungry? Come on, let's do that. Like, it's okay, baby. He don't worry about her, baby. Just talk to me. Make me feel good. You know, that's just make me feel good. I don't ask for no, you don't gotta bat me nothing. You don't gotta take care of me. Yep. Like I'm an elite player. I'm on the court, I'm shooting from half court, and I'm hitting the bucket. We ain't we ain't worried about no finance over here. That ain't even a I'm not even thinking about that. Yeah. I just want you to treat me good. As long as you treat me good, we're gonna live good. Because as long as that energy circles around us, everything gonna be good.

SPEAKER_02 9:32

I couldn't agree with you more. That that is so well said. And I I think that that gets lost a lot of times where it's like, this is why I wanted to have have this show. Because what you just said, I think most men, I know you're speaking for yourself. I think most men would agree with that. Just treat me well. Yeah. Respect me and treat me well. You do that for me, I'm gonna make sure you're good. I'm gonna make sure we're both good. But I think that that gets lost sometimes, and and women tend to think that men are asking for all this stuff where it's like, if if you treat us well and respect us, there there are no limits to what we will do for you.

SPEAKER_00 10:11

Yeah, but some men, they not, they a men, some men never treat a woman good. Some men never saw their mama get treated good.

SPEAKER_01 10:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 10:20

So they don't know how to treat a woman good.

SPEAKER_01 10:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 10:22

Some girls never saw their mom treat a man good. So they don't know how to treat a man good. It all started in the household. So every day I'm every day I'm just imagine I'm in the house with my mama every day. She got new niggas coming in every day. I'ma just, I'm gonna be, I'ma feel like that's what's going on.

SPEAKER_01 10:40

Right.

SPEAKER_00 10:40

You know what I'm saying? I'm a kid, I'm gonna feel like that's what's going on. So I'm gonna feel like that's cool. But in reality, that's fucked up.

SPEAKER_01 10:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 10:46

So a lot of women, a lot of women, 90% of women don't have a father in their life.

SPEAKER_02 10:50

In their life. And they they don't, like you said, they don't know what it looks like for a woman to say.

SPEAKER_00 10:54

90% of women don't have a father in their life. Yeah. 90% of women, they be in tour with their mom.

SPEAKER_01 11:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:02

A mom can't teach a woman how to be, a mom can't teach a woman something a man can. You got some women out here strong. Yeah. My mama's strong. You know what I'm saying? But a lot of women, a lot of women not strong. You know what I'm saying? To tell a person what not to do, what to do. Uh it's about what you show your child. Yeah. You can't be, nowadays, bro, you meet a girl, they'll let you meet your day, baby the first day.

unknown 11:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:26

Yeah, where you at? Come see me. Where you at? Pull up. It's a newborn in the car. Damn.

SPEAKER_01 11:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:31

Like, yeah. They don't care, bro.

SPEAKER_01 11:33

Right.

SPEAKER_00 11:33

It all starts in the household, bro. A lot of women ain't got their fathers, bro. That's why it's important to have a relationship with your father. And if you don't have a relationship with your father, you have to build your own just self-respect for yourself, your own volume. That's why a lot of men can run over women. If you got a dead, no, don't do that. Sit your ass down. Take them clothes off. But you don't wear that shit outside. That's too tight. You being fast. Yeah. So they know that. Yeah. Nah, they don't care. Women just go outside anyway, because they don't got no daddy in layouts. They see their mama wearing it. So they're gonna do it.

SPEAKER_01 12:08

Right. Right.

SPEAKER_00 12:09

Oh, you think that's cute because you got a motherfucking thong going in the bro. That ain't cute.

SPEAKER_01 12:14

Right.

SPEAKER_00 12:15

You look nice though. You look nice for us to get on hard and want to do something to you, but we ain't trying to really take you home and cuddle with you. We just trying to, you know, do that thing.

SPEAKER_02 12:26

Yeah. And I think that the lack of a male figure in their life, uh, yeah, a lot of their influence is what they see on social media, their mom or their friends.

SPEAKER_00 12:36

Bro, inf the social media is, bro. I just every day I wake up and I just say, I hope Instagram just crash. Like, I just hope it just crashed. Every day I wake up, I be gonna phone my homies. I just be like, damn, man, I hope this shit just crashed, bro. Like, bro, it's just crazy.

SPEAKER_02 12:55

You you think social media is causing more harm than good?

SPEAKER_00 12:58

Yes, because you can be in a relationship with a girl, bro, and they can just see a girl Valentine's Day, anything. I ain't got no money for Valentine's Day. My girl wake up, she opens her phone, everybody can get some Valentine's Day. Now she got a fucking attitude with me because I ain't getting none. Because she's looking at all these um celebrities, motherfuckers, and all these people or their friends.

SPEAKER_02 13:23

Or their friends getting flowers after dinner and all that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:26

Like, bro, social media is crazy, but like you can't let that. That's why I respect girls who don't really put their business on social media.

SPEAKER_01 13:35

On social media.

SPEAKER_00 13:36

Uh, a lot of women mess up about a lot of women. This they problem. A lot of women tell their friends they business about their men.

SPEAKER_01 13:46

About their man, yep.

SPEAKER_00 13:47

And they go bare from now.

SPEAKER_01 13:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:49

Oh, you gotta that's why females don't tell your don't tell your friend nothing.

SPEAKER_01 13:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:53

As a woman, girl, what's up with you and your nigga? No, we great.

SPEAKER_01 13:56

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:57

We just chilling everything good. Yeah. And your mind ain't shit good. Yeah. Just tell them that. Because the minute you tell them your business, they're gonna get out the car and be like, girl, yeah, this nigga Calvin cheating on her dumb ass girl. We're talking about her. And then soon y'all get into it. Right. They gonna spill a beans, tell all your business. And then they gonna go fuck with your nigga. Yeah. Because all they gonna do is call your nigga. Yeah, she was doing this and she gonna doing that. And then that's gonna make y'all crash. That's how I do. It's so fucked up now out here. Man, it's so crazy. I don't even want to meet no girlfriends. That's how crazy it is. Because the minute they get into it, they're gonna want to do something with you or tell what your lady did. But man, bro, it's it's social media. It's bad. Yeah. Because all the girls do is follow trends. They see a new bag. Oh, I want a new bag. They see Turk and Oh, this girl did that.

SPEAKER_02 14:44

And it's it's bad. Yeah. Yeah, that is that is uh a very good point. And I I I do feel feel that it's there's a lot of external factors that you don't know what's on her feed, you don't know what she's gonna see. And I I feel like as as men out here working, you know, we we definitely strive to keep the outside noise, the outside noise and focus on what's in front of us. I feel like sometimes that's that's harder for for women. So they're more susceptible to everything you just said, they're friends, a TikTok trend, and once that starts filtering into your relationship, it can it can be a battle. So I I definitely understand what you're saying.

SPEAKER_00 15:26

Yeah, you'll get in tool with your girl, baby. Take that down off your page. She'll get in tool with you, just take it down.

SPEAKER_02 15:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 15:32

Like it ain't just, baby, my friends follow you on Instagram. I don't want to, your pussy print showing, baby. You baby, just take that down.

SPEAKER_02 15:40

But if if your woman truly respects you, and and you say it like that, you you you come to her respectfully and ask for that. If your woman respects you, she'll take it down.

SPEAKER_00 15:50

Facts. But I let women be women. Like, go ahead, show yourself, baby, have fun. Yeah. But it's if it's some shit that is just too much, because it's a lot of crab in a bucket as niggas, bro. Niggas is crabs. Yeah. Like, a nigga, bro, trust me, these crabs, you know what I'm saying? Like, if it's just too much, I don't care. I'm not bashing no women. Go ahead, look pretty, have fun. That's what y'all, that's what y'all made for. To look nice and show y'all's body, that's cool. Just don't overdo it. That's all I'm saying. You ever watch a girl page, and then they be recording. You see, some girls just be like, like, shot down, be really do too much. Yeah. That's smooth. But all that bouncing, like hydraulic and doing all that, man. What you doing all that for? Relax.

unknown 16:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 16:35

Because all of that's why I be saying, post a picture of your face. Look, this your face, this your butt, this 10,000 likes, this a hundred likes.

SPEAKER_01 16:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 16:46

They wanna fuck that butt.

SPEAKER_01 16:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 16:48

Man, her face ain't nothing.

SPEAKER_01 16:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 16:50

That face don't get no attention.

SPEAKER_01 16:51

Right.

SPEAKER_00 16:52

Niggas gonna like that. They gonna click that like when they see that butt. Yeah. Know what that means.

SPEAKER_01 16:56

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_00 16:58

But that's what they like though. That's what. But it's some bro, it's great women out here. It's great women out here that treat men good, bro. And you know, they behind their men a hundred percent. Like they, like, you know, I didn't build my homies. They didn't try to talk to some girls. No, I'm cool. I got a man. Right. You can't get nothing.

SPEAKER_02 17:16

Right.

SPEAKER_00 17:16

My Instagram, no, it's great women out here, bro.

SPEAKER_02 17:18

It's it's respect, yeah. And I I and I totally agree with that too. Like, we we do have have to remember there are a lot of good people out there out here.

SPEAKER_00 17:26

Yeah, absolutely. Great women out here. Yeah. Treat you nice, be there for you, hold you down.

SPEAKER_01 17:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:32

Then a man fucked them over.

SPEAKER_01 17:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:35

Women, it's good men's out here. Yeah. Y'all mess up over. You ain't niggas be like, bro, I'm tired of this. I'm going to go cheat. I can't take it no more. Your homie will be like, you could be my brother. I can keep telling you, bro, my girl did this, bro. My girl did that. And I'm just stealing the house, not doing nothing. You're gonna be like, man, go do, man. Yeah. It's a it's really, it's not really get back because you doing it to make yourself feel better. For real. You ain't doing it to get back at her because you ain't gonna let her know you did it.

SPEAKER_01 18:02

Right.

SPEAKER_00 18:02

You just doing it to feel better. Right. Like, shit, I'm gonna go find somebody new, do something new.

SPEAKER_01 18:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 18:08

But when you do it, you the bad person. Yeah. You ain't shit, you ain't that. But when they do this, I'm sorry. I didn't know what to do. Okay. All right, don't give me hug. Yeah. Okay, you're acceptable for it. It's all cool.

SPEAKER_02 18:21

Do you think that people stay in bad relationships just because they don't want to see their partner with someone else?

SPEAKER_00 18:27

Yes, that's facts. But dating a bad woman and nowadays, you need an and steel stomach. Okay. Explain that. An steel stomach. Yeah. You know what iron steel is, right? Yeah. If you're gonna date somebody that's bad, look nice, yeah, be ready.

SPEAKER_01 18:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 18:44

Be ready. You gotta have that tight stomach. Yeah, you Yes, I feel like people don't want to see their person with nobody else. That's absolutely right. I've been there before. I felt that way before. These is all facts. Yes, men, woo. I tell my homie the other day, this man been fucking all week. He goes through his girl phone, he sees something. Why you mad? You just been fucking every day. You mad when you see something at our phone, but you don't want to let her go though. Yeah. You don't want to see no other man with her. With your girl, yeah. That's how it is. I don't want to see no other man with my girl. Hell no. Yeah. Well, men wanna see their person with somebody else. Yeah. But it's bad though. Some people leave. Some people leave, bro. Yeah. But no, don't nobody want to see their person with somebody else. That's why a lot of people be in relationships so long, brother, and they not happy. Because they both attached to each other. She don't want to see, she don't want to see him with no other women. Right. He don't want to see her with no other men. Right. So they just really like this, but it ain't really there. But they can't, they can't, it's just hard to go them separate ways. It's hard to just slit like that.

SPEAKER_02 19:59

I I love what you said, an iron steel stomach. Like, yeah, you want to date a baddie, you have an iron steel stomach.

SPEAKER_00 20:06

My cousin Lou told me that. Hey, cuz oh, man, I'm gonna tell you something, man. Man, to date a bad bitch. Nah, you need an iron steel stomach. I say, what you mean? Should think about it. You need an iron steel stomach. You yo, you can't be weak. No. Boy. Your stomach gotta be like steel. You can't be weak. Yeah. Because they gonna do what they wanna do. Yeah. They gonna have the niggas in their embodies, the football players, basketball players, the niggas with money. You know what I'm saying? It ain't about money with me. I ain't I ain't coming in trying to, I'm gonna make you. I know if I want you, I'm gonna make you feel better than that nigga with that money.

SPEAKER_01 20:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 20:42

Because he got a he got a hundred women.

SPEAKER_01 20:44

Right.

SPEAKER_00 20:45

He got a hundred women. He might go, he gonna find somebody better than you by the end of the night. Right. It's just one of everybody.

SPEAKER_01 20:51

Right.

SPEAKER_00 20:51

It's just one of me. So yeah, you gotta have an iron steel stomach if you want to date now these days. You know what I'm saying? So that's why I just tell you, I just I just man, I just keep the pace ass going. Yeah. Tell my lady, just treat me how you want to be treated. Don't worry about, but but you did. We ain't talking about that. It's a new day. Just treat me how you want to be treated, baby, and everything gonna be working.

SPEAKER_01 21:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 21:17

I ain't look, I ain't gotta look for no other women. That's why men keep cheating on women. That's why it's a mattress. That's why niggas go get another woman because they not happy at home. You keep complaining when he comes here, you nagging with him all day, and then he go outside, and then the other bitch, you okay, baby? How you feeling? Yeah, have you ate what's wrong? That's why he keep fucking cheating on you. Because at home, you treating him like shit. You uh, I just can't do this no more. I'm this, I'm that. But then when he leaves, the other bitch tells him, You okay? How you feel? Baby, you hungry? Baby, you this? Damn, my girl can't even tell me that.

SPEAKER_01 21:53

Right.

SPEAKER_00 21:54

You get what I'm saying? That's why men cheat. That's why women cheat. That's why women leave from us and go fuck. Uh, the man, because you said, No, bitch, you uh you ain't nothing, man. You you this and that. You telling her she ain't this and that, but she gonna go with the other nigga. He gonna treat her like she a queen. She is. So you can't do that to your person, man. That's why my brother told me, he said, I made a rule on my girl. I said, What's that rule, brother? He said, No matter what, we never go to sleep mad at each other. Love that.

SPEAKER_01 22:25

Love that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 22:26

That makes a lot of sense. Yeah. Because if we go to sleep mad at each other, she's gonna turn right, I'm gonna turn left, and then we're gonna be mad. Nah, I don't care. I said, fuck you. I said I hate you. I said everything about you. But when I lay in this bed, baby, I love you. We let all that go. We can't go to sleep mad at each other. We a team. That's how it's supposed to be. A lot of girls can't do that. A lot of girls will let their friends talk to them like shit, steal from them, talk to their men, snake them, and forget them. How you can't forget your man? The person who's gonna be there for you, the person who holds you down, all your friends, temporary. Most of these girls' friends wanna fuck their men and end up doing it. Right. So no, people treat the wrong people right. Right, yeah. People treat the wrong people right. That's facts. People treat the wrong people right, yeah, but the people they treat wrong, they want them to treat right.

SPEAKER_02 23:15

Right.

SPEAKER_00 23:16

Nah, it don't go like that. It don't work like that.

SPEAKER_02 23:18

Yeah. And I I love that too. You you gotta be able to put your ego to the side sometimes. I think that rule of never going to sleep mad, I think that would help a lot of people. I think that's great advice by you.

SPEAKER_00 23:29

Imagine. Just imagine that was just a rule in life.

SPEAKER_01 23:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 23:34

Like you had to do that. Like when the police keep behind you, you gotta pull over. Sure, you don't got to, but you gotta pull over. Yeah. Just imagine if we was put on this earth at night. Just imagine how much life would be better. At night, any problems you have with somebody just gotta go away.

SPEAKER_01 23:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 23:53

You gotta come to your agreement and let it go. Come on, bro.

SPEAKER_01 23:55

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 23:56

Bro, people be, bro, people be in relationships arguing about bullshit, bro. People break up about people make something this small, yeah, this big.

SPEAKER_01 24:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 24:06

How the fuck you make a grape an apple?

SPEAKER_01 24:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 24:10

I go from being a grape to an apple over a little situation.

SPEAKER_01 24:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 24:13

And then people don't know a lot of women can't take accountability.

SPEAKER_01 24:16

Right.

SPEAKER_00 24:16

Women can't take accountability. Yeah, bae. I did that, I'm wrong. Uh, women never's gonna say they're wrong, bro. Some women to tell you, yeah, I don't, yeah, what's up? I did that. Yeah. Oh, yeah, she gangsters. Some women ain't gonna do that, bro. Right. Because they put this mask on, they like they these the good women never take accountability. It's always the the, you know what I'm saying? The the the the girls who for everybody who tell you the truth. Yeah, that's why why you think men love hoes? That's what that's why they yeah, because the hoes tell you the truth. Yeah, I fucked your friend. They got sucked too. Yeah, I'm gonna suck yours too. Yeah, the good girl. I done talk to nobody. It's just me, man. Watch out with all that, man. Right. Like they don't take accountability for nothing. Right. Oh, you was with dude, what you was doing with dude. Men sit up here and act like they don't act. Oh, I'm not. Yes, you do. Everybody do this, man.

SPEAKER_01 25:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 25:06

When them doors close, everybody asked this type of shit. Yeah. So stop it. Everybody tender, like, what the fuck is being wrong with asking your woman was she talking to another man? Was you doing something with a man? That's what you're supposed to do. She your woman.

SPEAKER_01 25:20

Right.

SPEAKER_00 25:20

A girl supposed to check they men.

SPEAKER_01 25:23

Right.

SPEAKER_00 25:24

You don't go asking no other woman.

SPEAKER_01 25:26

Right.

SPEAKER_00 25:26

That's like a man come. I'm I'm done your girl. You gonna come hit me up? Oh man, I'm ignorant than a motherfucker. Right. Yo, you was talking to my girl. Yeah, I was talking to your girl, bro. Yeah. I love your girl, bro. Yeah. I just fucked your girl too. Man, people say all types of crazy stuff, man. They're lying too. Niggas a line on they on their thing too. But don't call nobody else's phone about your person. Just leave that over your person.

SPEAKER_01 25:53

Right.

SPEAKER_00 25:53

Because you don't want to do that. You don't want to embarrass yourself like that. Don't never get embarrassed about your person.

SPEAKER_01 25:58

Exactly.

SPEAKER_02 26:00

If you could change um one thing about modern dating, what would you change?

SPEAKER_00 26:07

Nothing. You can't change nothing.

unknown 26:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:12

I don't want to change nothing.

SPEAKER_01 26:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:14

Because it's some righteous people out here. And then it's just fucked up people out. That's how it's going to be. You can't change, man. You can't change a female from being a hoe. You can't change a nigga from being a hoe. You can't change nothing. No matter how good a person is, you don't change. When it's in you, it's in you. That's why when the men get with women and try to change them, and they can't.

SPEAKER_01 26:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:39

Because this who this person is.

SPEAKER_02 26:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:42

I don't know what it's going to take.

SPEAKER_02 26:44

Yeah, it's like if you try to change your partner, then you pick the wrong partner. Like you can't try to change people, especially at this point. We're all adults. It's it's not gonna work out well.

SPEAKER_00 26:54

But what way and change? Because you can change people in different types of ways. Uh well, you can meet a girl, she might be heavy set. Baby, I want to change you and make you skinnier. And she might be cool with that. You know what I'm saying? So far as other stuff, I feel like it'll be hard. But some women work with you, bro.

SPEAKER_01 27:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:11

Some women will work with you and listen to their man, bro. Yeah. It's some women who never been treated like a man. Just imagine, bro. Every girl you ever went with just treated you like nothing. Dogged you, just cheated on you, made you feel less of a man.

SPEAKER_01 27:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:27

Every time. And then you get this girl, bro. She makes you feel like a king. Yeah. I'm talking about not looking at her, man. What you say to my man?

SPEAKER_01 27:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:34

Man, what you gonna do, bro? Yeah. You can't do nothing but fall back and man, you can't fall, just fall back like you getting baptized, man. Treat this lady good. Cause it's just like, damn, I never seen that before. I never had this happen to me, bro. This new to me.

SPEAKER_01 27:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:48

You know what I'm saying? When you run in something new, you just gotta, you know, that's why it's new, new, new. Yeah. Man. Yeah, it'll all work out.

SPEAKER_02 27:57

I love it, man. I love it. I I um appreciate you coming in, bro. Is there anything else, any other topics you want to touch on? Okay. Women with drugs.

SPEAKER_00 28:07

How you feel about women doing drugs?

SPEAKER_02 28:10

I would prefer my my girl not do any drugs. I would I would prefer that. Um that hasn't really been an issue in in my experiences, but that would probably be a deal breaker for me just because I'm uh I don't do drugs.

SPEAKER_00 28:24

So if if my girls 80% of women in this real doing Percocex, Xen X, X, and Ederaw. They taking them every day. They they the women have overjumped the male far as getting at it. Women get higher than men nowadays. Women get higher than men nowadays, and it sucks. Percocets make girls pussy dry. They gotta spit the star. Zen X bars put women to sleep and had them looking dumb.

SPEAKER_01 28:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:58

Adderall, keep them up all day, keep them geeked up. X, oh, you going to the moon.

SPEAKER_01 29:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 29:06

They might let their mama come in the bed with you. Shit, if they convince them. Drugs is really bad. Any women who out there who doing drugs, just please stop. People putting fake things in drugs. They handmade. I had a lot of people who die from drugs, and I'm just not with no women doing drugs at all. Just you can drink a little liquor. That's cool. You can't go to the liquor store and buy no liquor, and it's poisoning.

SPEAKER_01 29:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 29:33

Like drugs, handmade, people dying in their sleep. Just why do you want to? You can do anything else to make you feel better as a person than drugs. I just hate the drugs for women. I love y'all women. We need y'all women. I'm not bashing no women. This is all my opinion. It don't matter. Some might agree, some might not, but I love women.

SPEAKER_01 29:56

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 29:56

Every woman is great to a certain extent, but you got to get it together. You got to do better. Men, we have to do better too. We gotta learn how to treat women better and be more faithful to women. Maybe if we be faithful to women, they'll be faithful to us.

SPEAKER_01 30:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 30:11

You know what I'm saying? Because a man is gonna do what they're gonna do.

SPEAKER_02 30:14

Yeah, for sure. For sure. I love it, man. Um, a lot of a lot of great advice you you gave today, man. I again I appreciate you coming on, man. Yeah, for sure. And uh until next time, man, I'm I'm your host, Will Scott, Elite Level Status Podcast. Man, we'll see you guys next time.