Cases & Cocktails
Cases & Cocktails is your go-to weekly podcast for raw, real, and revealing conversations about family law. Hosted by Bryan & Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm, this video and audio podcast brings you expert insights, firsthand experiences, and the untold stories behind high-stakes family law cases.
From judges and attorneys to former clients and industry experts, Cases & Cocktails invites a diverse lineup of guests to break down complex legal battles, parental alienation, child custody disputes, and high-conflict divorces—all over a cocktail (or two).
Whether you’re facing a legal challenge, working in the legal field, or just fascinated by the drama and dynamics of family law, this podcast serves up valuable insights with a personal touch.
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Cases & Cocktails
Unpacking Divorce - Ep 5
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In Episode 5, Bryan and Janice break down divorce in Texas, covering timelines, costs, and key decisions. They emphasize preparation and informed choices for the best outcomes.
Divorce in Texas: Two Paths
Divorce follows one of two routes:
- Agreement – Settled through mediation or informal negotiation.
- Litigation – Decided by a judge when agreements can't be reached.
Filing initiates a lawsuit, and litigation begins once the opposing party is served.
Mediation vs. Litigation
- Mediation – Encouraged as it keeps decision-making in the hands of both parties, allowing for flexibility and lower costs.
- Litigation – A last resort where a judge, unfamiliar with the family’s unique needs, makes decisions.
Timelines & Costs
Divorce can take six months to over a year, depending on:
- Agreement levels between parties.
- Complexity of assets and custody issues.
- Delays in drafting and reviewing agreements.
Rushing can lead to costly mistakes.
The Importance of Legal Representation
Hiring an experienced attorney prevents issues like fraudulent agreements or incomplete decrees, ensuring a legally sound resolution.
Practical Divorce Advice
- Prioritize What Matters – Focus on key issues and compromise on minor ones.
- Keep Records – Document agreements, communications, and incidents.
- Think Long-Term – Consider lasting impacts when making decisions.
- Avoid Unnecessary Battles – Don’t waste resources on trivial disputes.
Key Takeaway: Maintain Control
The best outcomes arise when individuals retain control over decisions, whether through mediation or careful litigation. Divorce is challenging, but with preparation and support, it can be a step toward a new beginning.