Cases & Cocktails
Cases & Cocktails is your go-to weekly podcast for raw, real, and revealing conversations about family law. Hosted by Bryan & Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm, this video and audio podcast brings you expert insights, firsthand experiences, and the untold stories behind high-stakes family law cases.
From judges and attorneys to former clients and industry experts, Cases & Cocktails invites a diverse lineup of guests to break down complex legal battles, parental alienation, child custody disputes, and high-conflict divorces—all over a cocktail (or two).
Whether you’re facing a legal challenge, working in the legal field, or just fascinated by the drama and dynamics of family law, this podcast serves up valuable insights with a personal touch.
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Cases & Cocktails
Family Advocacy & Overcoming Addiction with Howard Butt IV – Ep 16
In episode 16 of "Cases & Cocktails," Bryan and Janice Eggleston sit down with Howard Butt IV and Sandra Aguilar to discuss addiction, recovery, and its impact on family law cases. Howard, a recovery advocate, shares his personal journey and how it led to the creation of The Lumos Group, an intensive outpatient program designed to help individuals maintain sobriety while rebuilding their lives.
This conversation pairs perfectly with a Paloma cocktail, featuring grapefruit juice, tonic, blanco tequila, and a rosemary garnish—a bold choice for a powerful discussion.
Addiction’s Role in Family Law Cases
Addiction often plays a major role in custody disputes and parental fitness evaluations. Many fear that admitting to substance abuse will be used against them in court, but Sandra and Howard emphasize that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Courts are more likely to support a parent who takes responsibility and actively pursues recovery rather than one in denial.
How The Lumos Group Stands Out
Unlike traditional rehab programs, The Lumos Group offers personalized, concierge-style support, meeting clients where they are—both physically and emotionally. Their program includes:
✔️ Three-hour sessions, three times a week
✔️ One-on-one coaching for real-life challenges (court prep, job searches, parenting)
✔️ Accountability measures like drug testing and medication monitoring
✔️ Ongoing mentorship, even after formal treatment ends
Howard describes it as a “caddy system for life”, providing guidance without judgment, so individuals can build a lasting recovery.
Why Seeking Treatment Early Matters
Sandra highlights the dangers of ignoring addiction in family law cases:
📌 Short-Term Fear vs. Long-Term Impact – Parents who delay treatment risk losing custody, relapsing, or facing legal consequences.
📌 Children Notice Everything – Even if addiction isn’t mentioned in court, kids recognize instability and emotional distress.
📌 Judges Favor Proactive Parents – Courts prefer parents actively working on sobriety over those in denial.
Bryan emphasizes that The Eggleston Law Firm fights for parents committed to recovery, ensuring they have legal guidance while pursuing a healthier future.
Beyond Sobriety: The El Salvador Surf Retreat
Howard shares the inspiring story of his annual surf retreat in El Salvador, where individuals in their first year of sobriety take a transformative trip.
🌊 15 men with no prior experience learned to surf.
🌊 They built brotherhood, resilience, and confidence.
🌊 Many realized sobriety could be fulfilling, not just restrictive.
Howard stresses that recovery isn’t just about quitting substances—it’s about creating a meaningful, substance-free life.
Final Thoughts
Addiction is a major challenge in family law, but it doesn’t define your future. Whether you’re a parent fighting for custody or someone seeking a fresh start, resources like The Lumos Group provide the support needed to rebuild your life.
📅 Need Help? Visit TheLumosGroup.com for more information.
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