Healing After Divorce—A Mother & Son's Journey Through Trauma and Therapy – Episode 24

In Episode 24 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston sit down with Carolyn Bishop and her son Matthew Wright, two guests whose personal stories offer an extraordinary window into the lasting effects of divorce, abuse, and recovery. What makes this episode particularly special? Both Carolyn and Matthew have turned their past trauma into purpose: they are now therapists helping others work through their own emotional challenges.

This deep and emotional conversation is paired with a summery Peach Sangria, made with tequila, peach liqueur, dry rosé, agave, and fresh fruit.

From Survival to Service

Carolyn recounts her experience leaving an abusive marriage, one marked by emotional control and isolation, and how she planned her escape with the help of friends and family. After a harrowing departure that involved crossing state lines with her children, she faced criminal threats and a long custody battle. Though she initially lost primary possession of her children, her persistence and eventual legal action helped restore custody and begin the healing process.

Matthew, then a child, later chose to live with his father during his teenage years. It was a decision rooted in unresolved anger, confusion, and the promise of fewer rules. Eventually, that choice exposed him to neglect and reinforced the emotional scars left from earlier years. By age 17, after seeing his father's true character and reconciling with his mom, he moved back and began his own healing journey.

The Power of Therapy (and the Long Road There)

Carolyn and Matthew both emphasize that healing is never linear. Carolyn credits her transformation to years of therapy, supportive relationships, and specific modalities like Internal Family Systems (IFS) and sand tray therapy. Matthew discusses how giving himself permission to feel anger was a turning point, leading to deep introspection and self-growth.

Their dynamic as mother and son is open and honest. They share how boundaries, forgiveness, and mutual growth have reshaped their relationship in powerful ways.

Final Thoughts

This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. From fleeing an abusive household to walking the road of recovery together, Carolyn and Matthew show that it is possible not only to survive trauma but also to thrive beyond it.

Their story resonates with anyone who's experienced the emotional aftermath of divorce or family conflict. If you or someone you know is struggling with similar challenges, know that help is out there, and healing is possible.

🎧 Listen to Episode 24 now for an intimate, inspiring journey of recovery and hope.