Episode 4 - Happy UN-Valentine's Day!

Day of Event: February 14, 2024 aka Valentine's Day!

A lover's holiday spent loving myself and my cherished loved ones!!

My kids, my family...  and psychic readings.  what?  lol, yes, a little psychic "muscle" flex- we all possess this gift and while some flex it and work it out like a body builder, some let it atrophy and that's okay.  This was just a mild, occasional workout, lol.

An amazing interaction with my daughter I'll always cherish... I'm a lucky mommie!!

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

email: FutureSingleLady@gmail.com

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Reality bites. Reality check. Reality TV. This is real life and this is my life. I'm the future single lady. My name is Scarlett Davis and I decided to try to peacefully separate from my husband. I wanted to be a family unit with him and our two almost grown children. I just didn't want to be married to him anymore. I wasn't happy. Obviously neither was he and I just felt like it was time to rip off the Band Aid. Well, it didn't work. Things didn't go as smoothly as I thought. This is my story. I'd love for you to hang out with me. Just know that no matter what I say, whatever advice I kind of sort of give, because let's face it, I'm, I'm a woman. I'm a hairstylist. I'm also a massage therapist, but I, I say a lot of things and people will take it as advice, but I am not qualified other than life experience and some certifications that really in the end don't matter. I am not legally, um, certified, qualified or anything to give medical advice, nutritional advice, legal advice. I'm just a woman here spilling her shit. Hoping that it provides some kind of entertainment for you. Maybe some companionship along the way. And it would be great if, if, It offered some insight into situations for people so that they did better down the road or that you bonded together better or something. I don't know. This is just me spilling my guts and I'm glad you're here. I hope you enjoy. I hope you find some kind of entertainment out of this. Okay, so here we go again. Um, we're doing a wrap on these six weeks and that brings us to February 14th, Valentine's Day. I did not make an entry that morning. I was only in the afternoon, and it's about three pages long, and so I'm just gonna continue on like I did yesterday, and hopefully it goes as smooth as it did yesterday. So it says, ah, sweet Valentine's Day. I spoke to my, to my aunt after my son left for school. She had messaged that my husband put it on Facebook, and I read it. It was nicely done. Basically, it said something to the effect of, well, after almost 19 years, we're calling it quits. Kind of thing, which I think it's funny that he published on Facebook because when we almost divorced about six or seven years earlier in 2017, um, I had put out on Facebook. Does anyone know a good divorce lawyer? And People started commenting and they said well, hopefully it's not for you And I said well sadly it is and then everybody started commenting So I didn't I didn't actually put it out there to put it out there and to spill the tea You It was because I was seriously asking for advice. If anybody could recommend a good divorce lawyer and that we will just say that it, that it caused a lot of issues. And even my all knowing brother looked down through the top of his furrowed eyebrows at me about how some people put too much information out there. Fuck you. Number one, I wasn't putting it out there as an announcement. I was literally asking for help. So fuck off anybody who thinks otherwise. Moving on. So he put it out there on Facebook. He, he wanted to spill the tea. He wanted the attention. Narcissist. So she and I spoke until I had to run out the door, uh, for my client that day for today, I was going to do the taxes expeditiously, but lawyer called and it was great. Both kids came home hours earlier than usual due to culinary early release. And cause they were in the culinary team where my son was assisting the culinary team of which my daughter was a participant. Uh, Yeah, and each scared the crap out of me, lol. But I got to talk to each of them individually, and I've learned that I truly treasure this time with them even more than usual. They seem clearer, brighter, and more level headed and astute than ever before. They really are some remarkable kids, and I did a couple of heart sunshine emojis. Um, that's what I call them. It's my own little I am so blessed that I get to call these sweet babies mine. Let this be the excerpt that is read at that special time for each of my babies as often as they desire and also when they need it most. I am such a lucky mommy. The kids were surprised with Valentine's treats on their beds. They were in their rooms on their beds so that the kids wouldn't be confused that, um, if the gifts were in a common area and also because a certain someone wouldn't have to see them and draw the wrong conclusions. So my kids got the treats like they normally would. And it's just that it was for mommy and it was in their rooms instead of in a common area. Both were genuinely surprised and very appreciative. My son is excited that he's lost more weight than he expected. The last two weeks, yay, got, hopefully, the necessary cardio info from the, that the recruiter needed, or at least got the ball rolling, if that wasn't enough, but I hope it was all, I hope it was all else being equal, all for the greatest good. My daughter and I also got to have a few great moments. My son made it a point to tell me not to go too far away when I go, because he will drive to come see me. Made me cry, and he's so full of hugs, my sweet baby. Happy face heart heart sunshine emoji my daughter after her forever long spiel about valentine's gifts um something apologizing or all Uploading or whatever talking about all of her her her track and culinary all of her friends Uh, she finally made a comment about needing gas, but would would wait until payday. She didn't need it that bad Talking about gas in her car. Um I asked how much it normally costs to, to fill up and she said about 20 bucks. I told her, I told her I'd pay for her gas and to take my card. She was appreciative, but then looked up at me and asked, I got to describe this really quick. So she was sitting at the kitchen table and I was standing by the bar and she looked at me because she knew that her dad had had stopped all the money coming to me and basically all I had was what was in the bank already because his name was. was not on most of the accounts because he was not good with money. I was always the one who was trusted to make sure the bills got paid. That was my job. I was the CFO of the household, basically. Um, so she knew that his bills paid all the money or his money paid all the bills, but it came into my accounts and, uh, I sent the money out. She, she, she was like, she was very appreciative and she was like, thanks mom. And then she, I guess then it really hit her and then she goes, wait a minute. Are you sure? She was concerned about me financially. I nodded my head and reminded myself of my mother as I said this, Yes, I'm sure. I may not be sure what my finances will be in the future, but I can afford this right now. And I smiled. As my eyes watered, And I cried. She got up out of the chair and she came to give me a hug. My daughter, who shows, who shows little deep emotion, hugged me tight and thanked me. I told her that I'd always take care of her and that the more we give, the more there is to give. She thanked me again, and I think even again, and It felt so good to be so generous. I don't recall if it was before or after, but I found the gift card to the sporting goods store I had and sent it with her to replace, uh, she had a calf compression sleeve because of her shin splints and somebody stole it. So I sent her with the gift card that I had to the sporting goods store and I told her to replace it. I gave, I gave her the, the, the gift card and my card to pay for the rest. They didn't have it, nor did the other box store. Turns out, but, but everything was okay. I came inside the house to find her taking pictures of her bouquet of irises, which were gifts for me, with a rose from her boyfriend in the middle. She was so happy, and she loves them so much, and she went to hide the chocolates, as she went to hide them in her closet. From herself, so she didn't eat them until after her, her race tomorrow. She was, she was, uh, I think it was track. Glad she loves them and trust that I did a good job. Oh, and that I did a good job. The attorney's retainer was more than I had expected, but it's okay because I know it's going to be, it's going to be free. I was expecting attorney's fees to be paid since he was the one who wanted attorneys. I wanted a mediator. We'll talk about that later. And I embraced this particular blessing. I was trying to manifest there. I received message after message of affirmation that the universe has my back. 838 Uh, basically I give a list of symbols and signs that I've seen that whenever I looked at their interpretations and their meanings, it's just so many affirmations that I was doing exactly what it was supposed to be. Um, I love how Corona, that's the cat, is loving, okay, I'm just going to say this cat, He was wild and crazy and um, I had to bottle feed him at first. He was almost kind of feral. Um, but he, unlike the other cat that I bottle fed, he was much more aggressive and independent and definitely wanted things his way. He tried to be dominant and I set things straight with animals from the get go. No, you're not the boss. I am. I'm the alpha. Well, he didn't like it. And even though it was years later, this was, uh, um, He was just starting to warm up to me. I, I, whatever. But as soon as this all went down, he was much more nicer, much nicer to me. So, I love how Corona is loving and appreciative, appreciates, appreciative to me now, and how NeNe, that's my sister's dog, little weenie dog, goes nuts for me. Thank you, universe. I receive these blessings. I receive these blessings. And then here's a quote, the weight of a feather must be heavy on the scale of justice. I don't know where I got that quote from but, uh, I took, I wrote in here, I take this as an almighty angel feather and I thank, thank God so much. So many of the messages are about my future and I'm so excited. These lights being shown are obliterating the dark and I am grateful. I came up with some, some great ones today. And okay, so I'm just going to go ahead and say that I have this wonderful idea that I feel like could be explosive as far as t shirts and, and everything, but it's about changing words. And here's an example. So I think we've probably all seen this one where somebody takes the word impossible and changes it to I'm possible. Well, the first one that I have is Here that had come up a few days earlier was in joy Well, not and joy. I want to be in joy And I feel like when we are enjoying something that typically realistically we are in Joy, and so I would love to see that plastered on t shirts or okay. I want to trademark this Okay, so just don't don't take my ideas. It's it's on record now that it's mine um But capital I capital in joy So enjoy what you do. And then my little heart sunshine thing, I, I have a whole lot of these, these things and I would, I would love to do this. Um, I feel like I, I ask every day that to be guided by my best future self and that she knows how to get me from here to her. Following the signs and being played like a puppet by her. The best future me. So nice and so easily things were played out. Oh, I diverted and went over to my mom's house and that was the place to be for Valentine's. It was so good. The dinner, the company, oh, the readings. So, yes, the readings. So, I'm going to stop right here. My nephew and I were having a conversation and somehow tarot cards came up and he said that they always had bad messages for him. And that was like needle scratch off the record wet. Cause that's not the case. No, that never happens. And so basically I wondered, I questioned how they were being read. And my sister has, has three different sets of, some of them are Oracle cards, not exactly the same. Actually, I think maybe all of them anyway. And so I asked for, I asked him, I said, do you want me to do a reading for you? And he was like, okay. And I asked my sister if it was okay. She said, yeah, my mom was cooking and you could tell that she was like perked up. She's My mother is, is gifted. She is in tune, but she is not as in tu in tune, it turns out, as my sister and I are. I only found out a few years ago that my sister was into anything metaphysical. And, just to give you a note, I am more intuitive than anything. Um, I focus, and when it comes to cards, I'll go through my process, and I'll have people think about their, their stuff and pull their cards, and I will have somebody else read out what the meaning of the card is. So if I'm doing a reading on you, then whoever our third party friend is, I will have them actually read the, the meaning of that card. So, and then I will give my interpretation of the message that I'm getting. And so this turned out to be a really interesting night. The readings were amazing. Okay, my nephew's comment about that. It was basically, it was a door opened. I love it. Turns out that he had a hidden unfocused passion that needed to be followed. It was an incredible blessing to read and to inspire. My sister's request and blessed future endeavors. Well, she's, um, she's going to have some really blessed future endeavors. It's the things that I saw in the future for, for each, each person individually was absolutely amazing. But my mom, hers was the best. I am so excited and relieved for her. And, and, uh, And mine too, not a thorough interpretation, but enough and, and so good. Then I started, okay, sorry, this is how I do my journal because I journal for myself. My mom is reading was, it was long. There were probably at least 20 cards and it was so incredibly accurate. The cards laid down outlined her entire life. Um, at least from about high school on, uh, and what is held in her future. I'm, I'm still. Looking for those things to happen because whoo ee. Okay, then I started my period. I know that I half heartedly hoped that I'd start it as an excuse not to have sex with my husband, but that's so not necessary now, lol. I think I'll call, I think I'll call her the holiday period. Or exclamation mark, because she's always celebrating. Because Christmas Eve, my mother's birthday, now Valentine's, and I'm pretty sure Thanksgiving. Just wondering when the period blue moon is. April. Approximately 25 to 26 day cycle. April. Maybe May or both. I feel so happy and light and feel things are so right. Messages all reiterate. All is on my side so I can complete my sole mission to help the world and I'm so blessed with infinite abundance for the purpose of sharing blessing. So rewarding the messages say this outright. Thank you, thank you, thank you. And I noticed all kinds of twitches in random areas, talking about on my body. All these twitches in random areas and I feel like it's a release of old programming and reintegration slash awakening of new crystalline downloads. Basically, I'm just going to explain what I mean here. So, There are crystals all in the body and a crystal can hold an entire library of information, but we tend to program ourselves. Uh, you know, imagine if you had a computer that was, well, we'll say, we'll say you had a vehicle that was the equivalent of a Ferrari and you were using it like a go kart. That's basically how limiting we are in our beliefs and everything. There's, there's so much more out there, but we have programming that limits us. And. Some of it is inherited, some of it is learned, some of it we create, and you, you're starting to see this everywhere, where, uh, matter of fact, I heard it on a, on a, on a webinar earlier today, uh, about how somebody had a limiting belief that they had created when they were five years old, and a lot of this happens. We make judgments about things that we lack intelligence or information about. We create an assumption And a belief from that. And then we spend the rest of our lives limited by it and often passing it on to those around us, whether it's our friends, our family, our children, and then the cycle continues. So there are a lot of people who are all about breaking the cycle, breaking the limiting beliefs, getting rid of it. I've been working on that for some time now. So that's what I was referring to. Yes, please reprogram release and receive my nephew's gift of artistry tonight. His. Thank you Aunt Sissy was so rewarding, but even better was the, the dream interpretation. It opened a gateway for me to see his downloads. Of high authority, perspective, that kid knows stuff. And I'm so blessed to see it. Thank you, Lord. Today is such a great day. And the traits of her, my, my, my best self today, there were multiple. Successful, healthy, and generous. And productive. Well, it was all of those, and I received blessing after blessing after blessing. Smiley, face and heart, sunshine, inverted rebirth. That's a term I created just then because I don't need to be born again because I always was and always will be. I cannot hide who I am, but the old and no longer necessary will die and fall away. And if you listen long enough, you will hear. A memorial given for me. I loved that all were home and mostly in bed when I got home. But my son was waiting up, concerned and about to send me a text to He was about to send me a text to let him know whenever I got home. What a great son I got. Love it, love it, love it, love it all. Love the unifers and their smiley faces and heart sunshine emojis everywhere. So my daughter was in bed. My husband was in bed in the spare room. My son was about to go to bed, but he was concerned about me because it was after dark. He didn't know where I was. And he wanted to make sure that he got notified when I got home because he cares. That was a really incredible thing for me. I received that. I received that. I received that. And no matter what else happens in the future, you think about and look on and reflect on moments like that. Moments like that. always kind of were. Both of my kids, I've given great examples tonight of how amazing my children are, how great our bond is, has always been. So when you hear the stories of what is coming, it's going to be pretty hard to believe. And you're likely to believe in the monstrosity of what a person has become and why I want it out and why I pray for my children's. Safety. Yeah. So that's that. I'm glad you're here. I hope you're reflecting on things. I hope that whatever I've shared with you tonight, whether it was any of the metaphysical stuff or the relationship that I've obviously always had with my kids or anything else, if it promotes you to Examine your relationships and Either to invest in them more Or to nourish what you already have to be grateful for what you have Or whatever that would be great Life is better when we love each other I can't wait to tell you about Actually, and maybe I should have done it already, but i'm trying to keep up with this whole calendar thing. So I'll get on that as quick as I can. Okay I'll now tell you how it actually went down the conversation of me wanting a divorce to be peacefully unmarried. I'm glad you're here. I'm glad you're on this journey with me and I know there were already some tears tonight. That's me. I'm not gonna stuff them down. You already know that I've had a childhood issue with being made to not cry as if somebody can really make themselves not cry. And then the sad thing was with the person who was my stepdaughter at the time, I was carrying on for, for a period of time, the same way I had been raised. And then I realized that I was behaving like a monster who had a significant impact on my life and I did not want to be in the same category as that person. So. To my former stepdaughter, I apologize. I so significantly and deeply, seriously apologize. I was continuing on a pattern that had been set for me. And this is one of many reasons that I, well, I've always tried to improve myself. I always felt like, and I told her many times, That we can't control the things that go on in our lives, but we can learn from them so Her life the timeline of her life and the thing in and mine are shockingly similar the ages that we were when parents got divorced and remarried and this and that and this and that and having Parents and step parents and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I told her one time that we can't control what other people do, but we can learn from it. And, you know, when you're young at that age, you can't make decisions. You kind of are stuck with what you get, but what you can do is remember. Remember the things that make you happy and why they make you happy. And also remember the things that make you sad. And why they make you sad. And one of these days when you're older and you have the power to influence someone or something or an environment or situation, if you have the power to make someone happy and it's reasonable to do so, do it. If you remember what it was like to feel that kind of happy, and you can do that, then do it. And if you have the power to prevent someone from being sad, You can't prevent all sadness. Sometimes you have to experience things, but if it's not necessary and you can prevent it and it's fair and reasonable for you to do so, then do it. Because who wants to be sad and who wants to be responsible for making someone sad? That's just not cool. So I said that to her one time and I know that she received it because Weeks or months later She was probably Six seven years old somewhere around there We're in the front yard, and she looks at me Makes eye contact with me, and she is I'm gonna remember this Huh Wow What what gratification to know that I actually reached someone And in a really good way Now that being said I will tell you that She and I have always loved each other But there has always been a strain on our relationship for a lot of different reasons and that's a whole other ball of wax But I confess to you that I engaged in patterns that had been set for me When Mine and her relationship, my marriage to her father, first started. I apologize. But I'm glad that I was able to recognize that I was following in someone else's footsteps, footsteps that I did not like, and I broke that chain. I love that my aunt calls me a chain breaker. And she recognizes it because she's one too We're powerful women and we stand up and we stand strong we've observed we've experienced and we've observed and we said no No, things are not gonna be like that. I decide that it's not gonna be like that. I Have the power to change things and I do So Whew. Kind of went off on a tangent there, didn't I? I am woman, hear me roar. Anyway, that's what this journey is going to be like. And this journey, should you choose to engage upon it, it's going to be full of ups, downs, and all arounds. There are going to be times where I congratulate myself for being a badass bitch. Ownin my shit. And then there are gonna be times that I fall down on my knees and I'm bawling and I'm crying and Cause I'm losing my shit. I can't handle my shit. I'm getting pummeled with shit. Lots and lots of shit. I apologize, I really didn't, didn't think that would be doing so much potty mouth. With this, but you know what? This is me. This is my life. I'm real. I'm authentic. And, um, this is unedited, so you're welcome. I'll see you down the road.