Episode 14 - A Wedding, A Dress, A Dream, and Some Education

Date of Events:  February 24, 2024  02242024

A beautiful bride, wedding and location, Hope for my family unit being in cooperation, a track meet and a brunch, cat pee and laundry, continuing education and an extensive "to do" list

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

email: FutureSingleLady@gmail.com

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What is it about someone else's drama that gets us so on the edge of our seats? Why is it that we want to listen, that we feel sometimes so emotionally or, um, illogically sometimes invested in the outcome of somebody else's situation? Are we living vicariously through them? Are we saying, Oh, dear God, thank you that that's not my life and showing gratitude for what is our life? Are we saying, Oh, wow, that would be a really amazing thing to do or be or experience. I wish I could do that. I would love it if that were my life. All of these different comparisons and things and reasons that, that we do, why do, why do we really do it? I realized that it's not always the same reason, not for every person and not for every situation. I don't know why you're here listening to mine, but I, I'm so glad that you are. This is my life as the future single lady. I'm Scarlett Davis and this is the chronicle of my life over the past year and for however long it continues for me claiming my freedom for me claiming the life that I want and for setting my boundaries and deciding what I will and will not have in my life for what I'm willing to tolerate and what I'm not. I'm the future single lady. This podcast, I hope you find it entertaining because Well, it's really just for entertainment purposes only. I'm not qualified to give any advice about anything and any, well, I am qualified to give advice about some things, but that's not really what we're talking about here. So as far as you're concerned, I'm not giving any advice. I'm just telling a story. So if you follow anything that I do, if you do anything that I say or anything that I said I did, I have no liability on anything because your life is yours, my life is mine, and this is just my story. Thanks for listening, and thanks for hanging out, my friend. February 24th, 2024. This is a little bit of a long one. My friend's wedding. Wow. She was gorgeous. I couldn't help but cry. I tried not to blubber. Thinking of how much she has always wanted to start a family and her high standards. So happy for her. From her dude to her husband. Smiley face. She, whenever she was dating, she didn't ever know what label to put on a guy. Boyfriend or what have you because people have certain thoughts and energies attached to certain labels. So she would just call him her dude My dude, I always thought that was cute and funny All the kids running around were an absolute delight Happy face emoji, heart sign emoji. I give thanks and praise for her cousin, for her cousin's wife. She did like I do and pulled me into the conversation. It made me feel welcome and at home. Many of her family did a 97 year old man and his wife, a great aunt in her eighties. I pray for her daughter, and her future accomplishments. And also her cousin's mother, all absolutely wonderful people. The bartender did a great job and totally worth the 20 tip. Double tequila, pineapple, and grenadine. Happy face. Cake was delicious. The drive home was nice and chill, all relaxing. I managed to get a dress outfit less than two hours before the wedding and was surprised how many random compliments I got. Nice! Before I left for the wedding, husband gave me three cashier's checks for the bills in my name. He declined to go to breakfast the next day with my son and I and, and my family after our daughter's race. Son later said that he wasn't going with me either so he could sleep. Sad, but I get it. Hoping he'll still come to brunch. I dreamed a little last night something about husband coming up to me and proposing that he and That or that we both take his truck to conserve gas Exclamation mark and heart sunshine emoji. Even my dreams are manifesting a change of heart for him Thank you, Lord. I Think I'm gonna stop saying what all kind of emojis that I have cuz like the heart sunshine one and the star blast and next Whatever. I don't know if I'm gonna keep saying those those things or not, but I I Love you put these things all through my journal because These are exemplifying how I feel and these are my own kind of little emojis that I write out for myself Trait of the day relaxed yet productive good because I have two loads of laundry to do and my sheets need washing bad Lord, please help me get rid of the cat pee smell help my Bed have whatever minimal scent it has to be to be pleasantly fragrant I'm, so looking forward to my daughter's race. Oh, lol By the way now Husband cares about his health and is walking 20 000 steps a day and he's making his bed Double question mark lol Excellent for him happy face. I'm looking forward to stretching and yoga daily now that I have organized floor spaced God, I have tons of papers around this room that need sorting. Please help. And stuff to sell, that needs, that needs to be a priority. Can I get husband to store and, or get rid of this mattress so I can use the one my friend has for me and have greater floor space? Things I'd like to accomplish by Monday at 11am. Papers permanently sorted. Vision board completed, all laundry done and put away properly, combs cleaned, and response given to attorney, and husband having a change of heart that shifts towards peace. Happy face. And Bellieu and Heller work caught up, especially made to do this. Probably can do that during jury duty lunch. Happy face. Hope we can get a MEPS date soon. God my son's life and future are in your hands. Please help. I know that you will you do and I have faith I just feel obliged to ask happy face. I know you got this So, please see oh, I'm so proud to see my son working on plan B a little bit of explanations here I think my friend's wedding is pretty self explanatory But so obviously I was attending this this wedding alone And it was so, one, the venue was amazing. I was so completely just wowed by this, this venue. It's, and it's not what you would expect. Maybe I'll put a link to it somewhere or I have some pictures or something. I don't know. Anyway, it was amazing how welcoming her family was. And how quick they were to, to chat and just, it was just, it was wonderful. I like that. I put in here the recipe for the drink that I had. I think I had like three of these. So double tequila, uh, pineapple and grenadine on top. Yes. Thank you. That was, that was good. I love that I put in here that even my dreams were manifesting things for me, for the person I was divorcing to, to, to. Be nice and kind and have a change of heart. My daughter had a track meet and I can't remember if it was in the town where my mother lived or if it was in our town. I don't recall. I was a little sad that my, my future ex husband and my son didn't, didn't want to do things. But that's, that's okay. I'm glad that the invitation was there. And That my family was still willing to be nice and kind and pleasant and to do things for the greater good So better that the that the offer was there And declined then for it never to existed to, to begin with. And so I'm grateful for that. It's embarrassing to talk about that half of my bed smelt like cat pee. And I don't know if I cover this later on, but I'm going to go ahead and, Oh no, I address it tomorrow. I think I do as I'm kind of, I'm kind of glancing, glancing head ahead. Anyway, we will just say that I found out why it, uh, there were such issues. Um, I'm really grateful for that, that at some point my bed was replaced. That me standing up for myself created a better situation for myself. That it caused people to fall in line because I set my boundaries. A lot of things to do. Oh, I had really high expectations for the things that I would like to get done. Uh, Bellieu is John Bellieu. The, I think I told you about the, the sound therapy at the, with tuning forks and Heller is Cathy Heller. With the Boldly Abundant program, and the Made to Do This was also her program. It's obvious that I pray a lot, and that I focus on the good. And, the reminder of the little thing that I created for myself. I'm a positive Pollyanna, I fart sunshine and spit rainbows, or whatever it was that I said. I just, even as I go through my day and I talk to people, I've realized just how much that really is me. And I can't, I can't help but wonder if, if some, some skilled person out there is going to draw a cartoon of a happy, a happy woman farting rainbows and spitting sunshine or whatever it is. This, uh, this causes me to chuckle. This is what goes on in my mind on a daily basis. I, as I read through these journals, I'm really grateful that things have happened exactly the way that they have, because it is, it is nice to be reminded of some of these really pleasant things that even though it was just one year ago, that I had forgotten it, it wasn't as important or it was, it was, um, shadowed. overshadowed by the other goings on. So it's nice to see these, these nice things in here to see signs of cooperation and just blessings. And it also reminds me of the things that I continue to pray about all for the greatest good, because man, my, my prayers are unceasing. I love everyone and everything. I believe that every issue is an opportunity. And basically an opportunity for growth. And I pray that everyone meets all of their opportunities. Uh, how do I say this? That everyone meets their opportunities with a good mindset. And, um, basically I want everybody to effectively and efficiently learn and apply and apply. What, whatever it is that we have to learn so that we can all advance at an exponential rate and that advancement I believe to be something towards, towards light, towards higher vibration, towards goodness, towards just amazing, wonderful, incredible things. And wouldn't it be amazing if we all got there at light speed? Wouldn't it? Why not push the easy button and make that happen? I believe that the way we push that easy button is by loving each other and lifting each other up. I believe that every person here who is an obstacle is actually an opportunity and they are here by divine planning to help me. Can any of us actually say that we would ever learn that 2 plus 2 equals 4 if we didn't have somebody there to teach us? That's, I know that that's a very simplistic attitude and mindset, but I really think that it is that simple. Would I have ever learned the Pythagorean theorem if there wasn't somebody there to teach me? Pretty sure that would not have happened. It's possible, everything exists as possibility. But whether it's probable, I don't think so. Very, very, very extremely, almost nil possibility or probability. So that's the mindset for, well, that's always my mindset, but that's the thought process for today. the things that I jotted down this day, one year ago. Tell me what you think. What are your thoughts? Are you thinking about, or do you know someone who you, who you might get to draw that picture for me? Have a positive Pollyanna. I would love to see that. I would love to hear what you're thinking. Please send me an email or reach out to me on the socials. future single lady at gmail. com or future single lady Facebook page Hopefully with more to come soon. I love you, my friend, and I'm so excited that you are here and Some of the answers to some of the questions that I have asked today Are coming soon, maybe of maybe even as early as tomorrow. So that's my story for today. It won't always be that way. Good, bad, or indifferent, it's always going to change. That's what we call progress, right? If life were to stay the same every day, day in and day out, well, that's a great recipe for stagnation. And these waters are not stagnant. These, these waters are sometimes turbulent, torrential. and just straight up crazy. So this is me. This is my story. Thanks for staying and hanging out to listen to it. Today will be a different day and the day after that will be another day. Every day is different and I look forward to each and every one of those days. I hope you do too. As always, I can be reached by email at futuresinglelady at gmail. com, and I also have a Facebook page, Future Single Lady. That's it. This is my story. I'm the one who's telling it, and I'd love to connect with you. I'd love to hear what your story is. Thank you. Love you Love you