Episode 15 - My Daughter's Spirit, H2O Crystals, Cooperation & Cat Piss

Date of Events:  February 25, 2024

So their dad tried to be "father of the year" and it backfired somewhat and made me look better and made our daughter feel better when she was down about something.  Granted, I didn't do it as a competition, I did what I did and said what I said because my daughter needed that perspective and guidance; I just happened to be the one who could see it and did it.

Did that process create beautiful crystals in the water in her body and spread and reflect the light inside of her so that her light can emanate outside of her, too?  that's a curious possibility...

Positive measures and cooperation in the family unit that helps everyone, especially our kids be happy and supported.

The cat is pissed off and so he pisses ON things to throw fits; did the almost ex know something about this??

Lots of signs and always a long "to do" list...

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

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Transcript

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What you gonna do today? What am I gonna do today? What does life have in store for me? You never know what the story's gonna be. I never know what the story's gonna be. Life is as it comes to me day by day, moment by moment. This is just a chronicle of my life and what I'm going through as I decided to make a huge major shift in my life. I hope you find it entertaining because That's all it's here for. It's entertainment purposes only. I'm Scarlett Davis. I'm the future single lady and this is the chronicle of my life as I declare my desire for freedom from the man that I'd been with for 20 years. I hope you find it enjoying. I'm not giving any advice on any topic about anything. This is just the chronicles of my experience and my perspectives on that. So thanks for being here. I hope you find it enjoying. Enjoyable. February 25th, 2024. Some of this I'm gonna, I'm gonna say and some of it I'm gonna kind of gloss over because it's, some of it's a little detailed that doesn't really matter to you. It's just the idea of what's going on and whatever. Thought about journaling last night, but let myself off Happy Face. Daughter got in late. I called around eight 30 or so to find out that they were just getting to the school long day. She didn't do well and was upset. Husband texted her to come to him so that, so she did that first and I heard a lot of what, what she said. Then she came to me. And my insight and delivery gave her a different perspective and it cheered her up and including laughing. Smiley face. Husband's TV went silent during this time. Happy face. She went to sleep happier. Happy face. I'm going to insert some commentary here. My children were taught by their father that whatever he said had to come first. It, it, Basically, he always insisted on being heard first, or most importantly, or the most loudly, or whatever. So, I know that this was premeditated in planning on his part, that he had reached out to her, and whether it was he, that he wanted to develop the habit in her, Or for her to see him as the person who cared the most or to get a dig in at me that she went to him first Because he reached out first or whatever blah blah blah Um, or maybe all of the above which was probably most likely the case. He would do these kinds of things So and his the room that he was in which was a spare room was the door The doors are completely right across the hall from each other basically his room and my room and The main bathroom that he used and the master bathroom that I used were, were basically perfect mirrors of each other. The only differences being that my room had two windows and his only had one and the closets are different. Other than that, and the size of the rooms, they're a total mirror of each other. So as was often the case, my way of presenting things or my perspective on things is more light hearted and I don't see my job as to fluff up my children with false niceness or anything like that, but just to provide a different insight to things, so that people don't look at things in such a dreary manner. Because our perspective creates our world, and it's funny that I'm saying this because there was a reel that came across my stuff today that I was reminded of that it was Dr. I think it's Emoto, which I think it's funny that his name sounds very much like emotion, or spelled like that, that he proved back in 1994 to his, so this, we're talking about over 30 years ago, that our words literally change the world around us. The experiment being that he had his students speak to jars of water. One of them received negative words and thoughts and emotions. Transcribed and another one received positive words, thoughts, and emotions. The jars of water were frozen and then when the water was examined later on, the crystalline structure of each of these jars was different. The one with the negative words was very chaotic and the one with the the nice words was beautiful, incredible, and our bodies are 80 percent water. Think about that. 80 percent water. I also, it occurs to me just this very second, about, so if I'm a positive Pollyanna, spreading niceness and joy wherever I go, a lighter disposition, glowing, all of these terms that we use to describe people who have a happier disposition, basically emitting light, the way light refracts through crystals, and this even happens in the movie Pollyanna, Where light is shown through a crystal, creating rainbows that people enjoy and creating further joy and happiness is that's what, is that what is happening inside of our bodies? And for the negative words that's causing the chaos and the disruption in the crystalline structure, is that what creates darkness? Things that break up, that. that, um, things that block the creation and or the reflection of beautiful light. Is that what's going on? Basically what happens here is I look for the goodness in things and I share the goodness in things and whatever it was that I said to my daughter, it realigned her. So, where her father was consoling, presumably in the best way that he could be, about how she felt about her performance at her meet. It consoled her, yes. Thankfully, it was a good thing that she went to him first, because I got to put the icing on the cake. I got to make things better. I got to make things yummy for her. So, while it was hurtful in the beginning, it didn't succeed in the end. My daughter was happier. She wound up laughing and she went to bed happier because things had been reframed for her to see in a different way. I like that his TV went silent while I was speaking to her and while she was speaking to me because that tells me that The probability is extremely high that he was listening to our conversation. Maybe he learned something, and if he did, and he imitated how I do things, great. Because even if it is an imitation, and it's not the truest thing, fake it till you make it, right? So, that would be great. Next thing was basically one of my clients had come in and she, uh, she was known for selling a lot of jewelry or whatever. She brought in a bunch of stuff and I sold, I, she gave me something, I bought something and She brought some stuff in, gave me some stuff, and, uh, I kept it and I, and I sold some to, to some of my, my, my clients and friends. And so, and here I'll put to these people, I sold 165 and then I think that that makes 280 total. Happy face. Nice to have a friend. I have a jury duty on Tuesday. Oh, and the husband texted to see if I needed anything from the store. Nice. I told him that the cats would need food, uh, before the week was out, that they had enough for this week. And I could help right now, but I didn't know what will what the future held, etc So he went ahead and got four bags of the correct stuff and i'm gonna go ahead and have some commentary here He sent me a picture of some stuff that we used to use and we didn't anymore. I I would get some I got multiple kinds of cat food, same brand, but they had different focuses and I would mix it together. So the thing was that I had learned a long time ago, way before I ever met my husband, that it was very important to not just switch up a dog or cat's food, that they had to be adjusted a little bit. We'll, this is the post COVID era and. There were a lot more supply chain issues and disruptions and stuff, so I felt it pertinent to have a continual mix of stuff so that it was more easily acceptable by our, our cats so that their, their stomachs weren't disrupted, their digestive system didn't have issues and therefore give us issues. So, he put back the stuff that we, that we used to use, and then he got four bags of the correct stuff, so that was nice. Not only that, that he reached out to me to see if I needed anything, but also he provided for what was needed for the household, and that he got what I recommended. This was a really nice teamwork effort, and I was, and continue to be extremely appreciative of that. And it was a very clear indicator to me that we could work together and we could do it well. So, that was great. Happy face was all over the place. Dinner with friends didn't take too long. He was home around 8. Which is funny because he usually always got home a lot later than that. Anyway. This morning I remembered that, uh, it was Sunday and that I wanted to make chocolate gravy for the kids. Turns out my recipe in the book was totally not right, but their dad corrected me from the road. Happy face. Again, spirit of cooperation here. He was going out of, out of town for, um, he was going to the ranch. In the beginning when this first started, he actually probably spent I'm gonna say like 14 out of 18 days gone something like that. He was gone a lot So he corrected the recipe from the road and it turned out well son was very happy when he smelled it happy face I hope this message is that the kids will still get good food for mom happy face and family favorites happy face And then I go on talking about how Basically my battle with the cat pee with my bed smelling like cat pee and it's like what the heck is this issue? Well, then I figured it out the cat peed on my spot So we had had an issue with a cat peeing one time on the bed And we've done some things to to alleviate the issue But what I learned is it happened again So I'm gonna go ahead and if I document this later, uh, that's fine. I'm gonna go ahead and spoil it now so in this first week and a half of me asking for a divorce and the husband being at home and consistently Living in the spare room not just getting up in the middle of the night and going in there or whatever The cat threw a fit and I think the cat thought that I had kicked him out And was literally pissed off at me. So it pissed on the bed. Meanwhile, I'd been doing all these things, these protective measures, trying to put, you know, towels and chemicals and everything, whatever, just all, all these things to just, yeah. And I realized this was not an old issue. This was a new issue. Holy fricking cow. Also, this was not the only place that this happened. There was, there was a smell near the front door and I thought it was the outside cats, uh, but I, I realized that the, the, the doormat or whatever it is coming in the house had cat pee on it. So in addition to all these other things that I have going on, I'm suddenly battling a misbehaving cat. So that's just documentation of my issue. Daughter requested a sushi date before going to work. So, lol, minimal work on my room, but all is still great. More documentation about the bed. I don't want to keep my door closed like husband does, but it may be necessary because I didn't even know that this thing had happened. And it's been at least a few days since it did happen. Question is, what made the husband be suspicious enough to start keeping his room closed? Did something happen? Did he see the corona? Did he see the cat come in here and do it? That's a really suspicious thing. And When I take into account things that happened over the next few months, it really makes me wonder. What did he see and what did he know that made him decide to protect his room from the cat? Because he kept his door closed every day. He made it known that if he wasn't there, he wanted his door closed so that the cat wouldn't go in there. Why? He loved that cat. That was his cat. Hmm And then I just go on to say that things about Wednesday should be a good a good day as far as having a lot Of money to deposit for my son and I needed to deposit cashier's checks and see if I could do that mobily in the future I Need to cook tomorrow. So I'll have lunch on Tuesday for jury duty and son has dinner before work Don't know if it'll be tonight or tomorrow that I cook Basically, I'm just planning food stuff to make sure that everybody is taken care of because it's me providing for the children and that's it. Vision board, bed, papers, legal response, Heller VIP videos, Facebook, excited to get things done, happy face. I have a list of numbers here that are all these double numbers and repeating patterns and everything that just it's incredible. I need to deposit cash for gasoline. Double numbers and double letters. Uh, for the whole day and half, half, dozens daily, I give, basically I'm just noting that I am overwhelmed with all of these signs, even if I don't know what they mean. And that I have dozens of them daily. And these are just a few that I wrote down. Um, I, I have a list of things that I need, I need a homework, I Homework book and this is what actually what I call my happiness homework, which was stuff for the divorce and a Notebook just for me to do this that I need to contact USAA become a member and below all this stuff More stuff about the bed how I'm going to handle that Son, and I want to do something together. Happy face looking forward to that. Happy face also, I robot What am I to get out of this? I've been called to it for a long time and it's on TV. Now, what do I see here? Feel or basically this movie and this, this happens with me a lot. There'll be a movie or song or something like that that just keeps popping up. And somewhere in there, there's a message for me, a reminder of something. And I robot had been popping up. A lot in my, in my mind and just things around me. Well, it was on TV right then. And this is, this is something that happens a lot. This is one of the synchronicities. And so I was wondering, what is it that I'm supposed to get out of this? Well, I, I wound up not watching it. So, I, I don't know what I was supposed to get out of that. I do think about that movie often though. And just some of the, some of the things that I feel like sometimes are warnings or guidance. But that's some of the stuff going on now. I, as I look ahead just a little bit, I see that, that the next day I did not do a journal entry. But I've also been thinking that, I'm documenting this stuff about, about how and why our marriage has ended. And, but I feel like it's also important to document a little bit about how things were in the beginning. And I don't know, maybe, maybe that'll be a thing for tomorrow. I don't know. We will see. Do you have any questions, my friend? This I am concerned, uh, well, I am acknowledging all through this that I was sleeping on a bed, thankfully a king sized one, so there was plenty of room. But it was a permanently damaged bed that I was trying really hard to save our investment in, and to protect, and It just wasn't working out that way. So even though there was a mattress protector on there that was supposed to be high quality and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. It just didn't work the way it was supposed to, sadly enough. And these were the things that I had to deal with. And of course I say that it smelled really bad of cat urine and, Supposedly women's noses are more sensitive and I particularly just have a distinct aversion to, to this. It doesn't matter. Um, I may be a fool. I may have been crazy for trying to fix something that couldn't be fixed, which I've realized Could also be Said for my marriage. I guess I'm a person who doesn't give up until I have made sure that I have tried hard enough that I feel that it's okay to give up. That I guess I try hard enough until I know for certain that yes, it is definitely time to give up. I guess that's a recurring theme in my life. Thank you for helping me have that vision and that understanding. of myself. Regardless, I um, I feel like you have some questions and I'd like to know what they are so that I can, I can address them. Cause I'd like to do that. I'd like to help you with your stuff and to pray for you too. So please give me some guidance on what it is that you'd like help with. You know how to reach me. And I look forward to chatting with you. Okay? Talk to you soon. Mhm. Wow, so that's the story for the day. I'm curious what you think about it. Are you stay willing to stay and listen to some more? Because as always, there's a lot more. I'm glad that you're here. I don't know what your reasons are for being here unless you take the time to tell me. I hope you do reach out and tell me that you tell me your story and how life is affecting you, how this podcast and how my story is affecting you, because I really want to know. So I hope you reach out and tell me future single lady. at gmail. com future single lady on Facebook. Thanks for being here, my friend.