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Intimacy & the Anxious-Avoidant Cycle in Gay Men, With Michael Pezzullo, LMFT
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🎙️ Love Psycho – Season 2, Episode 3
Intimacy & the Anxious-Avoidant Cycle in Gay Men
With Michael Pezzullo, LMFT
🧠Episode Overview
In this episode, we break down the anxious-avoidant cycle—why one person craves closeness while the other pulls away, and why that dynamic can feel so intense.
Joined by therapist Michael Pezzullo, LMFT, we also get into his personal journey, his practice, and why he chose to focus on working with gay men. Together, we explore how intimacy shows up in our relationships—and what gets in the way of building something real and secure.
🔥 What We Cover
- The push-pull dynamic between anxious & avoidant partners
- Why this cycle feels so addictive
- Michael’s work with gay men & his approach to therapy
- Barriers to intimacy and emotional availability
- Practical ways to build healthier, more secure connections
đź’ˇ Key Takeaways
- Intensity isn’t the same as intimacy
- You shouldn’t have to earn consistency
- Secure connection feels calm, not confusing
đź”— Connect with Michael Pezzullo
Website: https://www.michaelpezzullo.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelpezzullolmft/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Therapy-for-Gay-Men
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