Women on Men: Exploring Masculinity

The Flirting Crisis Killing Men's Dating Lives | Marni Kinrys

Rafael Gomez

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Marni Kinrys is the founder of the Wing Girl Method and one of the most trusted voices in this space. She was the first woman to run a business inside the original pickup artist world, she's coached millions of men over 23 years, and she has interviewed over 10,000 women on what they actually respond to.

We covered:

What the flirting crisis is and why men are wearing a friend mask instead of flirting
 The OSHA method for starting conversations anywhere (observe, share, ask)
 Why online dating is where women shop for ideals and real life is where attraction actually happens
 The story of how she met her husband and why she wasn't attracted until the third meeting
 Why people pleasing and being an asshole are two sides of the same insecure coin
 The Robert Glover blurt it out lesson from No More Mr. Nice Guy
 The small intentions approach to taking pressure off cold approaches
 The playful assumption texting framework with real examples
 Her response to the "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish" line
 The heart rate monitor analogy for what women actually want in a long term relationship

If you've never been taught how to flirt, this episode is the unlock.

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