Skibidi? Cringe? Gag Me with a Spoon! | Michelle the Dink Shrink | Big Dink Energy Podcast

What do Gen Z slang, paddle throwing, and OnlyFans all have in common? Apparently, this episode.

We kick things off with a generational slang trivia battle—Boomers to Gen Alpha—where words like “mid,” “skibidi,” and “gag me with a spoon” cause complete chaos. ("Wait… yacht means big booty now?!")

Then we’re joined by Michelle, aka The Dink Shrink—a 5.0 pickleball player and licensed therapist—who breaks down what your court rage really says about you, how to survive “divorce alley,” and why pickleball might just be the best therapy on the planet.

🔥 In this episode:

• The OnlyFans pickleball reality show that has us nervously laughing
• Mental health and pickleball: how they intersect
• Relationship red flags spotted on the court
• MLP jerseys, face paint, and full sports cosplay—dink or destroy?

Whether you're a rec play regular or just here for the therapy tea, this is one episode you don’t want to miss.

Chapters

• 0:44 Sponsor Ad
• 2:29 Kitchen Talk - Hot takes, weird news, and what’s on our minds this week
• 8:07 Just The Tip - Pickleball Wisdom
• 9:09 Pickle Pals - Deep Dive with a Pickleball Court, Club or Influencer
• 23:51 Dink or Destroy- This-or-that debate: Love it or trash it?
• 31:51 News You Can Use
• 41:07 Wrap-Up & CTA - Final thoughts, shoutouts, and how to engage with us

Transcript

Speaker 4 (00:00.492)
Let's try that again.

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then we can't talk.

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Speaker 3 (00:45.838)
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full rhinestone.

Speaker 3 (01:39.948)
I would love it. Love it. All right. So for our kitchen talk, I got something fun for us today. Yes. And I think those of you that are listening to the podcast right now, I want you to play along in your car or while you're folding laundry.

Get on BDEpodcast.com or go on the socials and find us and get into this one. This one's gonna be.

Yeah, so we're going to do a little trivia between Paddle Princess and Guy.

I'm horrible at trivia, so.

We're going to talk about generational terms or words. So between boomers, Gen X, millennial, Gen Z, and then Gen Alpha. Do you guys want me to tell you the years? Okay, well, baby boomers are 1946 to 1964. Gen X is 1965 to 1981-ish, if you're me.

Speaker 2 (02:14.606)
generation.

Speaker 4 (02:19.918)
think we have a general idea.

Speaker 3 (02:30.944)
Millennials are 1981 to 1996. That's you. Yes, I'm an elder millennial too. You're not. Yes, I am. When was you born?

I'm an elder millennial.

Speaker 2 (02:41.678)
When was you born? When was you born, girl? Girl, when was you born?

You're like an 85, aren't you?

Around there, yes? I'm not a 96!

You're just a millennial. You're a millennial.

Gen Z is 1997 to 2012. Gross. And then Gen Alpha is born to now pretty much. Born 2013 to now. I have a Gen Alpha in my home. You have a Gen Alpha in your home too. Can. So. And a boomer. Are we ready? Yes. So you guys should be good.

Speaker 2 (03:00.876)
Who cares?

Speaker 2 (03:05.602)
Listen.

Speaker 2 (03:11.246)
So.

Okay.

Speaker 2 (03:19.116)
How do we ring in? Do we ring in with our name?

No, just shout it. okay. Shout it from the rooftops, y'all. That's... I want to have a buzzer. have a buzzer. Okay, are we ready? Ready. Okay. Cringe.

don't have oil through my head though.

Speaker 2 (03:32.27)
I'm

Shen... Is it real?

Guy for the win. Eww. That was horrible. Alright. What? That is correct. Okay, gag me with the spoon. Guy.

is millennial.

Speaker 2 (03:46.862)
That's Gen X.

Gen X so to for guy

I never claimed to be good at this game. The hell is that? that undies? Boomers! I said it first.

Just say it is boom. He rang it. That's how we're playing, but we're not saying our names. If you have the answer, you just say it. Okay. Here we go. And play along. Are we ready? Yes. Okay. Here we go. The word is rad.

I ring Dan.

Speaker 4 (04:05.07)
It'll give you to say your name.

Speaker 4 (04:10.05)
You shout.

I'm a Jenna

Guy is ready

Boom.

Gen X.

Speaker 3 (04:22.68)
Gen X is correct. All right. So one for guy. No. Four for guy. That was trial. That was teaching you how to not say your name before the thing. All right. Here we go. Are you ready? Yes. Skibbity.

Really?

That's like three or four.

Speaker 2 (04:33.486)
I just want to buzz.

Speaker 4 (04:37.582)
What's the Gen Z's? The Gen Alphas? I don't understand any of that language.

Alpha.

Toilet.

All right, here we go. leak.

That's millennial.

Speaker 4 (04:50.094)
Yeah, I want to say it is.

Guy is up to 100 points? Yes. my gosh, don't be a mall rat.

Right. Next question worth a...

mole rat that's gotta be yeah gen x

An X. All right, are we gonna get tougher? that young whippersnapper.

Speaker 4 (05:03.95)
Kids these days go to

Boomer.

greatest generation.

boomer that is correct hey go over there and turn on the tube there she's getting the boomers good job

Boomer. Boomer.

Speaker 4 (05:18.165)
with two of

those questions only worth half a point

Hey, when you call, make sure you leave a message on the answering machine. Boomer. X. Ooh. What is it? Gen X. is Gen X. Yeah. Very good. Okay, Slay!

Which one

Speaker 4 (05:33.422)
Ew, that's... Oh, that's millennial, isn't it? Gen Z?

That is

Z. Dead. yeah, you're Delulu.

Stop it right now. That's Jen Alpha.

Gen Z. Gen Z is to 2012.

Speaker 4 (05:49.55)
which is our youngest.

Yeah, it's kind of sus, right?

Speaker 3 (05:56.59)
Alpha, yes. Yacht. Yacht. still can't say that word right. It's like, is it a yacht like we're swimming on it or is it a yacht? I don't know. don't know how to, it's just. That means big booty. Really? Big booty? That's what yacht is.

I either.

Speaker 4 (06:09.848)
To me it's just gibberish.

Speaker 4 (06:15.613)
I thought it was like my gosh like Okay, I should not try to use

No, it's the butt. Don't use it. Don't call anybody a big back either. What's big back guys? Big back, what generation? That's alpha. Yeah. What's it mean? You gotta a lot. You're fat. You're fat. It means fat, really. Okay, how about mid? Alpha. Alpha. Gen Z.

I have no idea what

Speaker 4 (06:33.164)
Big Boaty.

You gotta...

It's beyond thick.

Speaker 3 (06:45.326)
No way yes you guys that's our teenagers. alpha alpha is our youngest And then Gen Z is our oldest. Yeah, so they're the ones saying mid no cap. No No, what does no cap mean like?

got you.

Speaker 2 (06:57.038)
No cap.

I don't

That's Alpha.

For real, for real.

Actually, no cap is Gen Z. And it means not lying. All right. Want one more? I can't even. I used to say that. Clueless. I can't even.

Speaker 4 (07:10.755)
Let's go.

Speaker 2 (07:16.194)
Lens

Can't even.

That was definitely in the movie Clueless.

You know, it's not made, it's our podcast, so go find us on Instagram.

And be on our MySpace Top 8.

Speaker 4 (07:30.445)
Cap on the...

Removed.

Check in.

That used to be the tea in the day.

Y'all did pretty good. Take a chill pill. I want to know what other people say.

Speaker 4 (07:42.894)
I also want to hear if you use Gen Alpha slang and you use it wrong. Because I think that that's really fun. I do it all the time. My kids look at me like I'm insane. So I think it'd be fun to hear other people do that.

Yeah, let us know some words from your generation that date you or some things that you say or even words that you may have made up. Go find us on Instagram, hit us up over there, or you can go to BDEpodcast.com and leave us a voicemail. If that's your generational thing, please do that and let us know what you think.

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Speaker 2 (09:10.247)
It's time for Pickle Pounds!

Speaker 2 (09:16.502)
love our Pickle Pal segment, the people and the places that surround Pickleball. And this is another interview that I'm just really ready to get into. This is with Michelle, affectionately known, I'm gonna guess affectionately known as the Dink Shrink, and we'll get into why that name is there. Michelle, thank you so much for spending some time with us today on the Big Dink Energy podcast. So I've got to start off with the name, the Dink Shrink. So mental health, Pickleball.

Yeah, thanks for having me.

Speaker 2 (09:44.98)
And a name like the Dink Shrink, who hurts you?

You know, I became obsessed with pickleball and I also had to work and you know, when you get really obsessed with pickleball, you have to make a decision of, am I going to be able to afford this? Because I want to play pickleball all the time, but I also need to work. And so I wanted to figure out a way that I can combine what I do, which is mental health therapy and my practice with also playing pickleball and

And not only that, I'm a couples therapist and I see a lot of couples dynamics on the court that play out that I see in my sessions. And so there's a lot of like links between the mental health on the court and what I see in my clients every single day.

Yeah, that's awesome. You know, I tell people all the time, I'm a 1.5 moving to a two duper with a work problem. Work gets in the way of all my, you know, mediocre pickleball play. Exactly. That's right. That absolutely is. And you know, we talked a little bit early about this and this is really something that has resonated with me. People who may not know, I'm still a police officer here in the great state of Texas and

of self-care.

Speaker 2 (10:55.254)
There there's such over the years, you know back when I started we didn't have mental health. That was nothing that you you're a crybaby and you put some dirt on and you walked away and that was it and that now we have peer support. We have so much support going on in the mental health realm for what we deal with on a day to day and what we see on a day to day and so I can see a correlation or a parallel between mental health and pickleball. I'd use it as therapy. It's great, you know to get out and.

Outdoor court, indoor court, doesn't matter, but just playing the sport and connecting with other people. So I absolutely love that. I'm sure you see a lot of that.

I see a lot of clients that have anxiety and depression. And one of the big things is that they lack community and they lack getting outside in the sun and doing something active. And so every once in a while, like every two or three months, I'll throw together like a, hey, if you want to show up on these courts, I'll teach you some pickleball. And some of my clients come out and they meet each other, you know, not knowing that I'm their therapist, but they meet each other and they start playing this sport that they've never played before.

And it's such a different sport. I've played volleyball, basketball, all sorts of team sports, but this is just totally different in the sense that the ease of picking it up, the challenge and the steps that you take to keep growing, it's just every single day you could come up with something that you want to work on, is something that your mental health needs. You need some purpose to work towards, but also the community aspect of it. You could go and stop at a park and just jump in with people.

No matter what, there's a community of pickleball players anywhere you go.

Speaker 2 (12:32.162)
Yeah, yeah. And that's the great thing that we talk about often on the podcast is just a community. there's really no gatekeeping. We found the fives, the six, the sevens, the eights, they don't care if you've played for a long time or a little time. And they're so open to training while they play with you. We do paddle stacking and stuff like that. You're getting on the court sometimes, sometimes the...

arenas or the pickleball places will be broken up by different sections of various levels. But when you get a chance to play with the upper levels, it's just like playing with anybody else and maybe even more so because they're so willing to just engage and train and lead you and show you tips and tricks. it's so, so awesome and amazing. And that is, it's such great therapy.

Yeah, yeah, I love it. I'm at a 5.0 level now, but I remember the grind at 3.5. It's just you're wanting to be a part of those upper levels so bad, but you feel so nervous to do it. now that I'm at this level and I see young, you know, earlier, not younger, but newer players, I really spend time trying to teach them the fundamentals and like, really hone, if I could go back, I would spend most of my first year.

just drilling and not playing rec. So I always tell them, as much as you can, just drill, don't play rec, because you're going to build bad habits that you're going have to undo. But it's one of my favorite things. I used to coach JV in varsity volleyball, basketball, is to take that newer player and just give them those aha moments where they're like, oh, I did it. I made it. But when you get to the upper levels, it's just about honing things. There's not as much growth. So I just love that three out of four or five level growth. It's so fun.

And where are you located in California?

Speaker 1 (14:23.032)
I'm in Long Beach and my home court right now is called Los Caballeros. They're called Los Cab for short. It's one of the biggest facilities in Southern California. It's huge. We always have PPA events there. There's a lot of pros that practice there. It's massive. There's I think over 50 courts there.

Yeah, and so you had a choice. It was either pickleball or surfing, is that right? And so you also have some physical challenges too that you're overcoming.

not a water person.

Speaker 1 (14:51.274)
Yeah, I got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2017, so I've had it almost eight years. It has been, I consider it the biggest blessing in my life because it made me change my eating habits, my sleeping habits, and my movement habits. I've always been an athlete, but I've never really honed in like I have my, I basically eat paleo, nothing inflammatory. I lost 60 pounds off the, you know, within six months.

I lost 60 pounds and changing everything and movement really has been the best part of keeping all my symptoms at bay. I think the biggest symptom I feel is I can't feel from my waist down sometimes. And my left side is weaker than my right side. So I really have to hone in on like strength and doing strength exercises and flexibility. do Pilates every other day. So it is a harder life, but at the same time, it has been the biggest.

smack in the face of reality of mortality in that as soon as I got diagnosed, I had no idea what it could do to me. And I was like, I'm not gonna live small, I'm gonna live big. And so as soon as I found Pickleball, I immediately said, I wanna try to go as far as I can with it because I don't know how long my body will work. And I've just been on the grind ever since and tried to push my way up to five and here I am.

So if therapy had a pickleball drill, what do you think it would be?

I would say one of my favorite things is, know, if you're comfortable, you're not growing. there's this thing called the acceptance paradox in therapy. And it's two truths at the same time that are two completely opposite. And it is, I am good enough as I am, and I want more for myself. And I think that that is probably the hardest thing in pickleball is accepting where you're at and being proud of where you're at and being proud of the growth that you have accomplished.

Speaker 1 (16:44.28)
but at the same time not getting complacent and pushing yourself and saying, want more. then as soon as you, but there's a lot of people who lean too hard in the, I want more side of it. So they're super anxious and nervous. Like I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough. That's when you got to lean back into that other side of I am enough in where I am right now and accepting where I am right now. So that is like, I constantly keep that in my mind of when I lean too hard one side and the other.

Either you're going to be anxious or depressed if you're leaning too hard into one side or the other. So you got to keep those sides balanced.

Yeah, that's absolutely true. mean, there's, I think, you I can see in my profession, especially we see some upper limiting, you know, where, yeah, I'm not allowed to grow beyond this right here. So I'm gonna mentally, I'm gonna talk myself down from growth. And then we struggle with a little bit of imposter syndrome too. So, and that's why I just love the pickleball side of it for the mental health therapy is because, you know,

A lot of times that side of your brain gets shut down, right? And you're just, I'm just out here enjoying this, the whole atmosphere, the people, we're laughing and I just absolutely love it. you do a little bit of couples counseling too. How many of those come from the court because they just can't play together?

Man, you know real quick. I'll throw out four things. There are four killers in relationships and they go like this There's criticism there's defensiveness. There's contempt and then there's what's called stow-malling and and they're in every single relationship and if you look on the court you'll find that though the couples that The partners that eventually break up start having these four killers in there. They start criticizing each other. They get defensive with each other

Speaker 1 (18:29.422)
then it turns into contempt, which is the number one killer because you're just, you know, you're thinking about them off the court and you're like, you're eye rolling with disgust, you know? And then you have stonewalling, which is that fight, flight, freeze, fawn, where you're just in a pair, you're in a sympathetic nervous system state where you're just getting adrenaline and cortisol every time you're around each other because you just piss each other off. So, you know, those people that you play with that puts you in a parasympathetic nervous system state, the ones who keep you cool and calm and

regulated, that's really kind of the key identifier in being a good partner is if they make you feel that resting, kind of like I'm at ease kind of feeling. The ones that put you on, you can feel it as soon as you get with them, you tap paddles and you're like, hey, you know, playing with them for the first time or the 50th. You could feel that nervous energy. And when your body is in that fight flight state, trying to play pickleball, which you're supposed to be in a fight flight state to play, but you're getting extra from the partner who's supposed to be on your team.

It's not a good partnership.

Yeah, and then we don't help it at all because we call the middle of the court divorce alley, right? Exactly.

Exactly. Yeah, and communication, know, part of it is, yeah, you just got to have a good presence, but the other part is you got to communicate well, you got to receive feedback and give feedback in a certain way. And, know, that's all I do every day with these couples is just teaching them how to deliver a message in a different way. It's not that you can't criticism, it's that you've got to learn how to say it in a respectable tone with the right words, because words do matter the way they come out.

Speaker 2 (20:03.82)
Yeah, that's absolutely right. So I would imagine in your playing, you've seen some of the inner child come out and you've seen some tantrums out there on the court, anything that just really stands out to you, like a massive paddle throw or something like that.

But yeah, paddle throwing, I mean, even just like when you're tapping your own partner's paddles and you kind of slam it, you don't have that awareness. Like that is a $250 paddle you're slamming. Like there's just, when you're that much out of your mind and you're not aware, that is the inner child. That is the little toddler tantruming. You know, just like a four-year-old doesn't care about material things. They break everything. And anytime you see like a person acting like a four-year-old, is...

that inner child, the wounds that come out that are not healed. mean, man, I see so many inner child wounds on the court pop out. And I have to like turn off my therapist side and just be like, that's their stuff, you know, because I'm not on.

Yeah, that's right. Yeah. Hey, that was really cool. You threw that paddle like Thor's hammer, but it didn't come back, buddy. Now you got to go chase it and talk to yourself as you go pick up your paddle.

Are line calls like calling bad lines and like cheating in that way or? Yeah. know, being pissed if somebody else calls your ball out, you know, like that is all inner child wounds right there. Just not being seen or heard or valued.

Speaker 2 (21:22.422)
Yeah, yeah, no kidding. I'm sure you see a ton of that on the court and it's probably got to be tough to pull back and be like, okay, buddy, maybe leave your card somewhere they might walk past and find it, find it organically.

Yeah, I'm like, yeah, I know a good, I say this a lot when I see couples fighting when they're playing on the other side, know, spouses playing together. And I'm like, I know a good couples therapist.

Yeah, that's right. So one of the questions we ask every guest and it just, maybe this is talking to your inner child or just gonna tell us your mental health. What is, if you had a walk-on song, if you were like going into a tournament and they said, yeah, we're gonna play a walk-on song for you. What's the song you would pick?

I've played so many tournaments over the past three years and my tournament song that I drive up to the tournament to has shifted. It used to be Sia, Unstoppable, which, you that was like my three, five, four, four, five kind of a song. Cause it just got me all pumped up. You're going to laugh at my song now. My tournament song now is Hot Stuff by Donna Summer. I mean, it kind of loosens me up. You you get that kind of disco feel.

Right?

Speaker 3 (22:31.138)
Yes!

I love it. I love it. That's great. And so it you in the mood and you're ready to go crush some people and then give them therapy after when they cry. Exactly. Yeah. Awesome. So how can people get ahold of you? How can they find you? Let's give out all the socials that you have so people can find you. And maybe if they're California, they can get some therapy.

Yeah, so my pickleball meets psychology site is the Dink Shrink on Instagram. And then if you wanna follow along on my pickleball journey, have Dink Lady is my other Instagram account where I post my medals and my journey of playing. I practice in California, it's called Perfectly Imperfectly, which I specifically picked because I want people to feel comfortable in their imperfections and be perfect in that imperfect way.

That's awesome. So go find Michelle, the Dink Shrink out there. Listen, if you're finding yourself in divorce alley too much, or you're just getting crushed on the court and you need some therapy, please find our friend Michelle out there in California and you can go find her in Long Beach and maybe she can crush you on the court as well and then console you afterwards. So Michelle, thank you so much for being here on the Big Dink Energy podcast. We absolutely loved it.

Yeah, thanks for having me.

Speaker 4 (23:53.262)
you

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Rocking MLP, so Major League Pickleball, swag, like your court side at the Super Bowl. So jerseys, hats, face paint. Are we reppin' like true fans or is it giving pickleball cosplay? Ooh.

Can we expand this to all team jerseys? like not just MLP, like Major League Pickleball, which we were volunteers at this past weekend. it was, I loved it.

And it was super.

Speaker 4 (24:51.064)
favorite part.

So from the MLP, think watching the players, like they were so good. And you think, and like in your head, you think you play good. And then you watch them and you're like, I am not at that level. But we did talk about a little toxic trait that I have.

And you can see him in person.

Speaker 4 (25:06.05)
level.

Speaker 2 (25:13.122)
Yeah, my toxic trait is I think I can be out there with them.

You can't walk across the living room.

So that's my toxic trait too. I'm like watching, like, I mean, I can do that. And then I was looking, was like, okay, so what does it take to train? then like by the end, I feel like I could be in the LOP. I don't even have a duper score.

Do it. Do it. So are we gonna get Stephanie Beveridge shirts now? Yeah. I mean, I think I already have like.

It depends what

Speaker 3 (25:38.254)
So, I mean, if we want to talk about all jerseys, but I mean,

related.

Speaker 2 (25:42.286)
I want to expand it because I have heavy thoughts on this stuff. But it came from, it was born out of the MLP journey we had, Seeing everybody out there in all their swag, so to speak.

Okay, let's hear your thoughts.

Speaker 3 (25:57.166)
Shout out to Texas Rangers.

Yeah. We, man, that was so awesome just to watch them. swept it against the, against the Florida. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So love them. Shout out to you guys. Now I just think like, so when I see people wearing it, I feel like they're trying to be the ambassador for the whole team and, they're wearing it in such a way. Like, man, I used to play on this team. You know what I mean? Like people who wear college shirts of the college they went to.

Nice!

Get it.

Speaker 2 (26:27.158)
I get it. You graduated from Harvard, Dartmouth, wherever you went. Get the whole thing. That's fine. Because you went there. You paid money. But when I see people on game day wearing football jerseys, and then they take it a little bit further, and they put their own name on the back of the jersey. Yes.

Okay, that's where it's crossing the line. It's like you didn't go to a draft. No. all you had was an embroidery machine at your house. So, I mean, I think supporting a team that you like, like wearing a Patriots jersey or a Patriots shirt or sweatshirt, because I think he got several, or anything like that is fine.

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:03.534)
shirt or a t-shirt. I'm not wearing the team jersey though. I'm on the, I'm on the, why do you have to, that's see that's.

That says like Dillard

Speaker 3 (27:11.635)
Cause you did have one.

I also think this is more of like a cultural thing or maybe just like in your household thing. In my household, we go all.

Speaker 4 (27:25.966)
Facebook, Face Paint, Cheese Heads.

Why are you face painting at your house?

It's a ball game. Why not? I put out a whole spread. I have specialized plates and platters.

And with the food and all that, but face painting? yeah.

Y'all should see paddle princesses spread. It's A charcuterie, what are you?

Speaker 3 (27:46.19)
God.

Yeah, I make a good trigger. But anyways, I'm all in. Go all in. Do the face paint. Get the spray hair glitter. Get the outfit. Like, make it a whole thing.

I don't know, so where were you on the jersey, if we pull it back a little bit and go back to just the MLP jerseys, where were you?

I'm not debating like jerseys. I'm debating like team spirit, like the shirts and the hats and wearing stuff that are, you're not a part of that team. Like you are not them folks. is it- I'm supporting them. Right. So is it still okay to wear all the gear? Absolutely. And I feel like, yes, I feel like you're supporting it. You're showing you're a fan. I love all that. mean, just-

I love to go see people out in public wearing big Dink Energy podcast shirts. Absolutely. Like that would just make it.

Speaker 3 (28:38.796)
You know why? Because what it does culturally is it gives you a connection. It does. I see someone across that's wearing a Texas ranchers. I'm like, my gosh, they like pickleball.

Bye.

Speaker 4 (28:50.582)
Right. And then you have a connection. You have a bridge to start talking and start communicating and then you end up best friends.

And I think that would be with any type of sport. You're a Patriots fan or whatever. You see somebody wearing a Patriot jersey and you're at the grocery store and you're like, oh, how'd the game go this weekend? And now you have a connection. I think that I like it for that. I don't like it when people are like, too in.

That's me.

Yeah, yeah, so yeah, like the cheeseheads, the face painting, all that.

You're going to a huge game? Great, but you don't need a cheese head up in Walmart.

Speaker 4 (29:25.386)
No, I wear it in my living room. have my cheese head, I have my cheese head koozie. We do face paint. We have full blown outfits that we wear for every game at our own house. I mean, we just, have a lot of fun with it. We just go all out and it's fun as a family. The kids like to join in and they have their special shirts and jerseys and even pants that they wear. It's just, it's fun for our family when it comes to.

sporting events, it brings us together. We make a big thing about it, either on the back porch or in the living room, depending on the weather. But we all go all out, even if it's baseball, football, I'm not really into basketball or hockey, but my husband and my son are. And we just, I mean, we

It's because we're not sports people.

Well, yeah, I mean, I love the Patriots. I love the Red Sox. But we're not sport I love the Celtics.

Like I'm gonna spend $400 on the NFL Sunday ticket

Speaker 2 (30:23.342)
If it's on free over the air, we'll sit down and watch.

We're not doing something else. Right, yeah. But maybe that's it. Maybe that's because we're not, so maybe.

But there's the other side too. There's the people that wear it everywhere. Like it's their whole identity to church, to funerals, to-

That is a perfect description because it's the identity. It's like there's other things to wear.

Say no regrets.

Speaker 2 (30:49.22)
Okay, great. You're a Cowboys fan. What have you won in the last?

He's into cultural because for me, I grew up a Cowboys fan. My husband is a Packers fan. But when he would go to church on Sunday and he would go to his Lutheran church, the pastor would be like, all right, Packers are on in 30. We got to wrap it up. Everybody out. And like, that's how their church service was. He would base his church service and his sermon on when the Packers were coming on. But the Packers are like, they're like a cult-like following. Like everybody is really, really deep into that.

So guess it's all about your culture and how deep you get into it.

Yeah, I guess you're right. I mean, it's a dink for me. Go ahead and wear whatever shit you want.

Dink for me.

Speaker 2 (31:31.366)
I'm gonna go dink too. think, yeah, I think so. Send it over the net. It's a dink for me. Thumbs up.

We're not sport people doesn't mean they can't.

And it does, it allows me to recognize mentally ill people when I cowboy jerseys out in the world. Yeah, so it's a dink for me. Three dinks.

All three dinks.

Speaker 3 (31:55.746)
News you can use.

Speaker 2 (32:00.942)
water cooler talk, the news you can use. First, before we get into news you can use, I want to tell you a couple of the reviews we got coming out. Yeah, and this is from Greg V1244. I don't know if that's your number. I don't know if that's your birthday, whatever that is, Greg. But Greg says, started listening to their podcast and it feels like I'm sitting in on a fun conversation on my commute every day. Stories about pickleball community and fun segments on the show. Thanks so much for that, Greg. That's awesome. Yeah, absolutely. Now I'm going to keep doing it.

It's exciting, I really appreciate it.

Speaker 4 (32:27.832)
warm.

Then we have crazy Korean 24 And the case for the crazy and the Korean awesome podcast that mixes in pickleball Entertainment with insight from industry folks absolutely love that So the news you can use little tips you can take in your every day put them in your pocket and use them whenever you can I wanted to tell you all do you know anything about cheddar cheese?

I know a decent amount seeing my husband is from Wisconsin. Mm. Cheddar cheese.

We talked about cheeseheads.

of shark.

Speaker 2 (33:03.63)
Is he from Somerset, England? Here we go.

No.

gosh, not England again.

We're back on the England topic. They're gonna hate us.

Yeah, get on your metric scale right now. Cheddar cheese is named after the village of Cheddar in Somerset, England. nice. This traditional cheese had been made since at least the 12th century and historically authentic cheddar cheese had to be made within 30 miles of Wells Cathedral near Cheddar Village to bear the name. I wonder if they consume a lot of cheese there in Cheddar Village. Is it a whole, I wonder if there's like a Cheddar train.

Speaker 4 (33:36.31)
over it.

I feel like they have those little miniature like Christmas ornaments like you have those little Christmas villages. yeah. Everybody knows about Cheddar Village

Yeah, Cheddar Village.

Speaker 2 (33:49.956)
my gosh. Holy moly with the cussing on this episode. We're so sorry if your kids are in the car right now. The reason I was thinking about this, cause I think about Scotch and Scotch is kind of the same way. whiskey named after Scotland, obviously where it has been distilled since at least the late 15th century to call Scotch the whiskey must be produced and matured in Scotland for a middle minimum of three years.

Do you want to send me a Christmas present?

Speaker 4 (33:55.598)
The first time is not going be the last.

Speaker 3 (34:17.867)
Yeah, well you know going back to the words cheddar. What does cheddar mean cash money? money give me that cheddar But I'm usually referring to cheese

Cash Money.

Speaker 2 (34:25.774)
Yeah, I just. Yeah, I'm I'm thinking of cheddar village now with the cheese slide, the cheesy go round.

She needs to go round.

Parmesan though, like it has to be made in the...

specific in parmigia

And I think there's Monster? ...pop-a-van...winkle. What?

Speaker 2 (34:47.181)
Pappy Van Winkle. Pappy Van Winkle. Oh, Pappy Van Winkle. comes around in between Thanksgiving and Christmas. In between Thanksgiving and Christmas, Pappy Van Winkle, comes around to the children. Cheddar Village. Oh, Pappy.

I'm

You will ski!

Speaker 3 (35:04.174)
Anyways, it has to be made in the certain vicinity too. Something like that. I know a whole lot about it. be honest, my sister and I did a whole research of like an hour on it I can't remember anything, even the name I couldn't even remember. Anyways, I'm just here for the cheddar. For cheddar. Okay, well I have some news.

Whiskeys like that as well.

sounds like you bring

Speaker 4 (35:21.646)
That's okay, Educate is Miss.

Speaker 2 (35:26.958)
We call it

Please.

Okay, I know you've all been waiting for this. Okay. know Guy, especially only fans is officially entering the pickleball scene with a reality competition series. with a new reality competition series called Smash City set to premiere on June 13th on OFTV, which you have a subscription to, I'm sure.

Finally awake

Speaker 3 (36:03.224)
So the show combines the rising popularity of pickleball with the entertainment flair OnlyFans is known for.

So you're just naked out there playing pick-up?

no, it's gonna be like, you know, the Kardashian, all that kind of playing up the social trendiness of pickleball, but why being all so crazy and... Yeah, and like, just leaning into the chaos and...

port flirty.

Speaker 2 (36:24.952)
Yeah, Dink Tank's on a different meaning on that, bet.

I think it's using pickleball as like a backdrop for drama and hot people just doing dumb stuff. finally. We're not. They call you guys to be on there. thought they.

We're finally away from me to quit my job.

I for OF seniors.

They your walker and said never mind. f

Speaker 3 (36:45.459)
I have Silverpaw. They called you for Cheddar Village.

It's weird.

What is happening? I have cheddar village.

All I have to do is I pour cheese on my feet.

That's right. The best. That's so gross. I think some players will love it. think purists will cringe about it, but...

Speaker 4 (37:05.71)
It immediately makes me cringe.

So we're going to be called purists.

I so. think I'll be watching it and probably roasting it because I like to roast. I don't think it's going to be like all the other trashy. You are the one that has been watching the I have been watching the Mormon Catholic people. So you're going to sit here and cringe about OnlyFans pickleball, but you're going to watch Mormon people marry each other and sleep around.

You watch it, highlights and-

Speaker 4 (37:25.934)
Good wives.

Speaker 4 (37:36.43)
In my defense, the only thing I know about OnlyFans is from what I hear on other social medias. I've never actually went to there and from what I understand, it's basically just you pay to watch porn. So I don't know. I don't... Pay to watch corn. I don't know.

we say porn?

Speaker 2 (37:59.374)
The amount of cackling on this episode

You should have been at my house on Saturday. I'm just...

I'm just saying, I think, I'm not an OnlyFans fan. don't even know, I don't even truly know what it is except for like what I've heard. But I don't think it's gonna be like that. I think it's gonna be the girls on trampolines. Like it's all been done a hundred times before, but now Pickleball's getting like a front stage.

I don't either.

me neither.

Speaker 4 (38:28.198)
So like if it's trashy drama with like real housewives and like stupid stuff like that even Kardashians is pushing it a little bit I cannot handle that but if it's like just fun brainless Drama then okay I can see that and then I see that it's bringing pickleball to the front of all those people that like it But if it's people naked

There's not going to be people naked, it's a TV network.

No, it's OnlyFansTV.

I don't think it's going to do that. It starts June 14th, so I'll research. We'll have a watch party. I mean, I'm just saying, I probably literally, it would not be something that I would tune into, but I think you can't diss it because everybody watches this crap.

to pay to watch it.

Speaker 4 (39:14.168)
I can this based off of the content.

But so think about it this way though, what other sports would really lend themselves to OnlyFans other than pickleball? Because you got paddles and you got balls. and you got nets.

Lord.

and feet.

and big dink energy.

Speaker 3 (39:31.648)
and the kid. And you could have it in cheddar fillet.

With your jersey on. Or off.

That's optional.

Hey, maybe it's a great opportunity for Dink Date to get involved. Dink Date, OnlyFans, Village.

Yeah, I don't

Speaker 4 (39:49.602)
What did we call? Bitty bitty bum bum. Maybe she can go have some fun and she can get find herself her little pickleball boyfriend. Yeah.

Happy.

Poppy Van Winkle just comes right before Christmas.

Anyway, so there's some news everybody go look it up June 13th on OFTV. I didn't even know there was an OFTV.

I need another subscription. That's what I No, I went gold membership. Yeah, when you're a model, get a free subscription. Go look up Sir Loin. That's what I go by on All right, so tell us what you think about Cheddar Village, what rides you would want to see. Tell us if you know who Poppy Van Winkle is.

Speaker 3 (40:15.022)
You had the three month light, right?

Speaker 4 (40:21.262)
You went platinum

Speaker 3 (40:28.524)
Like a cheddar billy.

Speaker 3 (40:36.032)
Is it Poppy or Pappy? It's Pappy, Damn it, I knew it too. good.

Winkle. Yeah, and tell us what you think about OnlyFans, I guess, and continue to send your pickleball tattoos, and we love seeing those.

Those were.

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Speaker 2 (41:22.606)
Keep the dink soft and the energy big.