The Still Waters Podcast
This podcast is hosted by the counselors and coaches with The Still Waters. Teri, Rufus, Abrielle, and Julie bring their expertise to this platform to educate, encourage and enlighten the listener. Various topics will be discussed in the hopes of helping with healing or bringing awareness to culture and community.
The Still Waters Podcast
Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Physical Abuse in Relationships
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This Still Waters Podcast episode examines physical abuse as a means of power and control, often starting before visible injuries. Referencing Darby Strickland’s definition, it addresses both overt harm (hitting, slapping, choking) and subtler intimidation tactics (threats, breaking objects, blocking exits, restraint, reckless driving, sleep deprivation). Teri discusses the escalation cycle and warns against dismissing abusive behaviors. Highlighting Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, the episode notes red flags in teen relationships and distinguishes physical abuse from accidents, consensual roughhousing, or mutual aggression. Listeners are encouraged to seek support, local resources, and make a safety plan.
00:00 Introduction
00:47 Excuses & Early Warning Signs
01:54 Defining Physical Abuse: Power & Safety
03:12 Examples: Choking, Reckless Driving
04:34 Intimidation Without Contact
06:45 Breaking Objects & Blocking Exits
09:49 Non-Visible Abuse: Restraint, Sleep Loss
12:17 Abuse Escalation Cycle
15:17 Real-Life Cases & Anger in Scripture
17:39 “Once” Claims & Teen Dating Red Flags
19:22 What Doesn't Count as Physical Abuse
20:36 Closing: Trusting Yourself & Seeking Help
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