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Stereotypes Exposed: The Real Talk They Don’t Want You to Have

October 12, 2025 • UNC & TheArya | AIO Real & Authentic • Season 2 • Episode 1

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Are you living your life, or are you performing a role someone else wrote for you? 🎭 In the Season 2 opener of AIO, UNC and Arya dive deep into the stereotypes that box us in and the radical authenticity required to break out.

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Welcome to All in one, ladies and gentlemen.

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This is the podcast where we keep it real, we keep it authentic.

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Tonight we're going to jump right into the subject.

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We're talking about stereotypes, so let's get right to it.

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All right., so

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I would say like, there

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are definitely a lot of different

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stereotypes, even within our own community community.

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Like even if we don't think about other communities, like in the black communities

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from my experience, there are just so

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many stereotypes that I grew up watching

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that I didn't even realize was a thing until as I got older and

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people would be like, we're taking your black card away.

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I don't even think I own a black black card anymore.

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So it's

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been taken away so many times because I don't

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get so many references.

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But then I like go online and I watch videos and

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I'm like, but I understand that.

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You know, like coming home, you know, with the street lights on.

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Like, I get that.

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I was in that, in that roomm.

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And I don't know if that's a like

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a black thing or a white thing or it

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was just like, this is what we were doing in the 70s and the 80s and 90s, you know.

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And then all of that just went away with this new generation.

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So I did that.

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I do, I do know,

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like, one, especially being,

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especially marrying, like, into

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a white culture family

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Like my my culture is pretty much mixed,

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but when you go diving directly

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into that type of family, one thing that I I

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know notice so much of is like the closeness

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of a black family versus a white family.

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I'm like, y'all don't don't have family reunions.

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Like, why you'all don't have no family reunions?

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And like, I' was like, y'all don't love each other.

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Like, it's literally, it's just the

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immediate family when it comes to a lot of white families that I've encountered with.

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Even my white friends.

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Like, it's just

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them.

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Like, there's, they, it's like they don't have a cousin.

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Like, how do you want to have a cousin cousin?

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Like, where are your cousins there?

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Because where I grew up, cousins were everywhere.

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Your cousin lived down the street.

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You got a cousin up the street, around the corner.

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You always at your cousin's house.

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Like, that's what it was.

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It was like, oh, where are you?

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I'm going to my cousin's house.

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Oh, what y'all doing this weekend?

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Are we going to be at my cousin's house?

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Like, it was just that.

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You played with your cousin.

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You were always hanging out with your cousins, and y'all have family reunions.

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Like, I don't understand why white people don't have cousins.

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Like, y'all ain't got no sisters

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and brothers that had babies.

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And then y'all was related.

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Like, Dudeo's people not exist.

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Like, I'm literally trying to figure that out.

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I don't know why.

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It's just so weird to me that, you know, that dynamic.

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I literally, the guy I'm like talking to or whatever

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he was like, oh, I'm hanging out with my cousins.

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I was like, oh, y'all got a cousin?

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You got a cousin?

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For real?

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Like,

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I was like, really shocked.

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Because like ain't never, ever, ever, ever, ever

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heard white people talk about cousins because they don't exist.

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They just don't exist.

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Right.

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And I think about it in our culture is like, like you said, our

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cousins are, hell, our first friends.

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like, those are the ones that you, you come up around,

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you play with, you fight with, the whole nine yards, you know what I'm saying?

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It's like,

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at least for me, my cousins, man, or everything for

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me growing up, you know, like, the

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jokes and everything, you know, like I said, we called it cracking back in the day, you know what I'm saying

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And now you're roasting, folks

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or whatever the case, but it's like, same thing.

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We grew up with that.

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The family, like quit comebacks.

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So it's like, my whole family, if you do not, if you're sensitive,

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we ain't the ones that you want to start joking with.

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like, we would go deep and we're going to cut.

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We're going to cut deep.

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And it's going to be funny as hell.

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And.

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So, yeah, that's one of our stereotypes.

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I know for certain, like, with us

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For me, you know, I grew up my profession.

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Let's do it that way.

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So my profession was in cybersecurity, MIT.

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And the buildings and some of the places

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that I worked in were, you know, I literally was the minority.

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and everybody knows how to do your job better than you

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I remember going over one time and I was helping

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somebody else with an issue that they were having,

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they couldn't log into a system for whatever reasons, whatever the case, right?

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So I go over, I look at

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the computer and everything and I look at it and I'm like, hey, ah, shit, you don't need me.

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You just need to change it to the clock.

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And then somebody from behind me

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is like, I don't think that's going to work.

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So, you know, I'm leaking at everybody

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knows how to do your job better than you.

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So, and I'm talking like we were going

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back and forth to the point where I literally

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just got tired of it and just started going in on this person

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like jabs, though.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, I was like, oh, are you signal?

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You know how to do IT?

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It's like, no, but I got a master's degree.

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Yeah, me too.

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With a 4.0 GPA.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Did he taste more some other crazy shit?

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Actually, what he said to me was like, nah

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I'm not IT, but I use a computer every day.

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I'm like, I drive a car every day, but that doesn't make me a mechanic.

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Now does it

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You know, like my comeback's real quick.

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But it kept going from there.

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It's like the dude wouldn't let up.

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So then he came

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out to the point where he was talking about he has a master's degree.

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And I'm like, hell, me too with a 4.0 GPA

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You know what I'm saying?

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As if to say, you're not smarter than me.

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Stop it.

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But everybody knows your job

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better than you, especially if you're black and OT.

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They just naturally assume you don't know anything.

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And it came to the point where I told that motherfucker that, look,

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bro, I'm certain I've forgotten more about IT than you actually fucking

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know.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, you keep coming at me, like, stop.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, I'm telling you how to fix it.

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Toe to do what to do.

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And then he's telling me it's not going to work.

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And of course, dude does what I tell him to do

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And you know me.

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And I got to stick it in a twist on you.

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And this is why I do IT and you do

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whatever the fuck it is that you do.

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And I walked on.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Because it's it'd be those type of situations where it's like,

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and I and I'm imagining that you're having those same type of issues being an educator

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you know, where other

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teachers may feel that they know more or whatever the case or that

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your style of teaching is not adequate or whatever the case.

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I mean, however it may be.

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So, I mean, when I'm playing for right now will come back around for a circle on it, though.

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I think too, like, there

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are just some, there are some negative stereotypes

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that carry out, especially for like,

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black women when it comes to specific subjects.

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And science is one of those

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you know, and it's almost,

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it's almost like, oh, you teach science.

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Like, why are you into science?

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And like, how'd you get into science?

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That's weird.

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You know, it's like, no, actually, it's not weird, you know.

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It's just like any other person with any other, you know, idea.

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We have women that are doing all kinds

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black women specifically, are doing all kinds of jobs now.

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We have black women that are astronauts.

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We have black women that are scientists.

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We have black women that are veterinarians and biologists

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and in every realm of science.

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it's like, what do you mean?

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Where have you?

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My question would be, where have you been?

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Like, that you didn't know that there were black women out here that are doing this?

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And it's always

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like, oh, I'm always like, you know, what do you want me to do?

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What do you think I'm supposed to do?

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Like, I want to know what is the average black woman, quote unquote, job is?

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Like, explain to me what that is, you know, because I would love to know.

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You think I'm supposed to be walking around doing hair all day?

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Is that what you think?

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I'm supposed to be in cocontology

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or I'm supposed to be home there foot and pregnant?

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Like, is that what I'm supposed to do?

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You know?

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And so some of those I don't like.

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Some of those I don't like.

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Right.

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I'm with you on that one.

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So my ex, she actually had a PhD

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And one of the things for her is like she would always put a title on anything.

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It didn't matter what it was.

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She could have ordered a pizza.

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And this has actually happened once, you know what I'm saying?

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Like

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Oh, my God.

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She ordered a pizza, it came to the house.

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There was this elderly Caucasian

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woman that was delivering the pizza.

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And then she's like, well, I'm looking for doctor

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song-so-so, right?

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And I'm like, and then she's like, is this the location?

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I was like, yo, this is it.

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And she's looking around like, well, where's Dr. So-so-so?

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You looking for somebody else.

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Like, so then I called my ex,

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Like, you know what I'm saying?

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Like, come to the door because apparently she doesn't believe this pizza

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is for this black person.

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And, you know what I'm saying with the title of Doctor.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, I guess if we're a doctor, we're Dr. Dre or Dr. Pepper or some type shit, you know what I'm saying?

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It's like

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like, we can't have education too.

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We we can't, I mean, let's be real, you know,

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it's not, and I'm not trying to turn this into a race thing or anything at that nature.

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I'm just saying that these types of stereotypes actually happen.

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and they fall on deaf ears and eyes sometimes, you know, blind eyes.

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And it's like, we can't be this

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naive that we don't seem to think that people people can ascend or get passion

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things.

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Another stereotype for me is Kool-Aid.

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Oh, my goodness.

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So, um.

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And it's not just the flavored drink.

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It's more or less the quote that goes along with it.

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You need to drink the Kool-Aid.

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Ooh, that got on my skin in certain environments.

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Because, you know, it's like of

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all the racist ass shit you could have said to me.

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So for me, personally, I don't drink Kool-Aid.

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I don't drink coffee, but you know what I'm saying?

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It's like, for whatever reasons

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that phrase, you know what I'm saying?

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Like when somebody's trying to get you to manipulate you and to

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get you to buy into something that they're actually doing, they tell you that you need to drink and poule.

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And, man, I don't know why.

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I do not know why.

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it triggered me to the point where,

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you know, it was just, I would have to say something.

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Right.

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It's like, and that's just been one of the things I'm vocal.

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Yeah.

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But also another thing is

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like black people with attitudes and things of that nature.

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Oh, man, I have so many stories.

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This right here could go on forever.

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That one.

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But I remember being in Virginia,

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actually, and I was at the grocery store.

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I'm coming down one way.

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and I'm not going to call out her name, but this lady was coming down

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from the other side with her cart.

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I got a little basket.

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You know what I'm saying?

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I'm only picking up a couple things.

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So as you see me get ready to turn onto

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this aisle, you decided to speed up,

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cut me off, and then walk maybe

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three, four feet into the aisle and then just stop.

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Literally just stop.

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Just like, I guess I was in your way.

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I, you know what I'm saying?

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Technically, I have to write away.

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But at the same time, it's like, and I was on the phone at the time.

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And this is one of the things that came out for me at this point

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It's like people are quick to judge other

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people based upon a reaction that happened, but they never take

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into account their action

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had you not speeded up to cut me

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off, I would have made that turn and kept going.

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But instead, you turned and stopped in front of

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me, and of course, people come to the other direction. direction.

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So now I'm sitting here waiting and I'm mad

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not mad, mad, upset, mad, but mad enough that I'm going to say something.

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I'm not, I'm passive aggressive at this point.

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I'm already on the phone.

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It's like, boy, people always talk about

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how, you know what I'm saying, Black people are always doing this and that, and they quit the anger.

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They never take into account their actions.

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But if I say something, then I'm the angry black man.

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Mm hmm.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Not that you' the privileged person that just had to cut me off, even though you saw me coming.

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You couldn't wait three seconds for me to turn and then go, but

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it's my fault because I said something, not your acc. that you cut me off and then stopped.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, it'd be stuff like that and just kind of get onto my skin.

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It's like, can we all just get a loan?

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we just treat people with the same dignity

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and respect, then that wouldn't be so much turmoil in the world.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like people can get along

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Another thing that I was just talking to one of my homeboys

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day before yesterday, actually.

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And we were talking about, we're all military.

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So we were talking about being in certain environments

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and how certain people tell certain jokes

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and those jokes are inappropriate.

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And then he told me the joke.

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And I started laughing.

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He was like, wait, man, you can't be laughing at that.

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I'm like, why not?

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This shit was funny.

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He was like, nah, it was racist.

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It had a sense of racism on it, but then I brought it back full circle.

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So basically, he was saying that

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there was this Asian person in the office and

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they had children in the office with him.

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I mind you, military, no don't have children in the office

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So somebody, one of the officers that was in charge came

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out of the office and started asking who kids these were.

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And then somebody said something, and then

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he was like, oh, I thought you was about to start up a sweatshop or something.

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Like they was working in your basement type shit.

333
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Oh.

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Get in now.

335
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I still laughing.

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The shit's funny to me.

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You know what I'm saying?

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And then he's like, bro, that shit was insensitive.

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You can't do that.

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And I was like, bruh, I'm thinking back about Dave Chappelle and

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and the little things that he had and he was talking about, I think it

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was an episode where he was talking about he got with Oprah or something

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and he started talking about his shoes and everything like that everybody talking about these shoes, just that the third.

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Like, nah, I got my own sweatsh.

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And then he opened up.

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You know what I'm saying?

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These Asian women in that work, this shit was funny.

348
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You know what I'm saying?

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I laugh at things that are funny.

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I get it.

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I can understand that it is offensive to other people.

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You know what I'm saying?

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And then from that, that turned into the conversation about how

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I follow these guys on TikTok.

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Black guy, white guy.

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Funny as hell.

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You know what I'm saying?

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You can tell they've been best friends all their life.

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So it's one of those, my best friend is black.

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Of course he's late to, you know what I'm saying?

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You know what I'm saying?

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Whatever he saying.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, my, you know what I'm saying?

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My friend is white, da, da, da.

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And then some of the things like, for instance, one of the jokes I

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was told was my best friend is black.

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Of course she stood in the line for hours to get a new pair of shoes

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And then the black guy was like, I still in the line for you.

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He was like, yeah, but you still still in there.

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That's funny.

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Right.

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That's's funny.

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You know what I'm saying?

375
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It's comedy.

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You know what I'm saying?

377
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I just feel like some people just get uptight real quick about, you know what I'm saying?

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Things that could just be easily brushed off.

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But again, I get it.

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It's

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we got certain things because if you drop an end bomb,

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the whole situation just changed, especially if I don't know, especially if I don't know you like that.

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Oh my God.

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I just saw a video with the guy that did that,

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set up the whole like inword

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like back and forth with his friend.

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And it said, when you hire your black friend

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to use the N-word, so it was a white guy and

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a black guy there' having a conversation, but then there's a black guy standing next to the

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white guy and the black guy was like, you owe me money.

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When you going to pay me back?

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And he was like, well, when you going to pay me back?

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And then the black guy says the N word.

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And he just kept going back and forth.

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I was dying.

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I was like, oh my God, that is so funny, You know?

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And it's like, I understand that.

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Like that kind of, that kind of thing for me is comedy.

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Like it's, it's funny. to me.

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I know how it can be offensive or whatever.

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I personally don't use the word, you know,

402
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but it in the sense of like,

403
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when it's comedians or when it's in a like comedy or

404
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comedic session or whatever

405
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to me, I mean, I just laugh about it sometimes, you know?

406
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Right.

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And I mean, that's what it's there for.

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You know what I'm saying?

409
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It's like, get together and laugh.

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I saw one of the funniest things, the Mean.

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All right.

412
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So they had all the Power Rangers in these boxes, right?

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And then

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so, obviously they started with like green, blue, yellow, red.

415
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And of course, the black and the white guy was at the end.

416
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Okay.

417
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So it's green power, red power, yellow power.

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It.

419
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The black guy's in front of the white guy.

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It's like, he better not.

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And so of the end for the white guy, for the white ranger, it's like, hi.

422
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You know what I'm saying?

423
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It's like, I'm not even saying, to me, that's funny.

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Yeah.

425
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Some people would get offended by that.

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But to me, that was funny.

427
00:19:23,416 --> 00:19:26,958
You know, so it's like, it's certain stuff that, you know what I'm saying?

428
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,000
I don't get offended by it.

429
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Like on that same episode where I was talking about the black guy, and the white guy being friends, it's like,

430
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one of the stereotypes.

431
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Black people smoke detectors.

432
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Batteries, you know what I'm saying?

433
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The batteries get low, they beat forever.

434
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Let me tell you, I hate that so much.

435
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That annoys me.

436
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I'm like, I was talking to this guy once.

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The crazy thing is, this is supposed to be like a professional setting.

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Like, he's supposed to be talking to me about like a professional thing.

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Like, we're talking about doing business together, whatever.

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And

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he's, he's black and he's like just going on and on.

442
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And I'm like, what, what?

443
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Wait a minute.

444
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Did I just hear

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your smoke detector go off?

446
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We're in a Zoom meeting.

447
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And he's like, what?

448
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And I'm like, I'm pretty sure I heard your smoke detector.

449
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And he was like, I don't know.

450
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So went off again.

451
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And I heard it.

452
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I just heard it again.

453
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And He was like, I don't know where you're talking about.

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I said, bro, do you want me to go to the dollar store for you?

455
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Because you know, you could just go to the Dollar Tree now and put a battery in there.

456
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Trust me, I got them in all six of mine in my house

457
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and I've had them in there since

458
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like January, January, February.

459
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And they still going?

460
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Do you hear any beefing in my house off

461
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of a dollar tree, $1.25

462
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battery?

463
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Do you hear anything.

464
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You must have got that expensive pack of rail Vax.

465
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No.

466
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I paid $1 $11.25 for

467
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these cheap Dollar Tree batteries.

468
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And I put them in all six of mine.

469
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And you don't hear it beeping.

470
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Not yet yet.

471
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Give it about another week or so.

472
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Yeah, okay.

473
00:21:33,041 --> 00:21:34,666
That is not.

474
00:21:34,666 --> 00:21:37,333
And even still, like I said, I got it in like January.

475
00:21:37,375 --> 00:21:39,375
Like I got it at the beginning of the year.

476
00:21:39,375 --> 00:21:43,541
So here it is September and they still good.

477
00:21:43,541 --> 00:21:47,041
And I'm just like, it's my point is like, it's

478
00:21:47,083 --> 00:21:49,333
such a small thing to do.

479
00:21:49,375 --> 00:21:52,166
But it's like black people don't even hear it it.

480
00:21:52,166 --> 00:21:54,166
Like,

481
00:21:54,166 --> 00:21:55,541
I was, I could not sleep.

482
00:21:55,541 --> 00:21:58,541
I literally, I literally could not sleep

483
00:21:58,541 --> 00:22:00,791
because I kept waking up.

484
00:22:00,833 --> 00:22:04,041
Like when I heard, when I

485
00:22:04,041 --> 00:22:06,666
was, I was at a friend house or something.

486
00:22:06,708 --> 00:22:08,708
I spent the night

487
00:22:08,708 --> 00:22:12,083
and I kept waking up and her alarm kept going off.

488
00:22:12,083 --> 00:22:14,208
And I was, are you freaking getting me?

489
00:22:14,250 --> 00:22:16,500
You' like, we just need to go to the store.

490
00:22:16,541 --> 00:22:18,541
We need to unplug them or something.

491
00:22:18,541 --> 00:22:21,166
Like black people just sleep through it.

492
00:22:21,166 --> 00:22:23,166
I can't I can't sleep through it.

493
00:22:23,166 --> 00:22:24,833
That is so annoying to me.

494
00:22:25,250 --> 00:22:27,250
chir.

495
00:22:27,375 --> 00:22:29,375
Black people don't hear white noise.

496
00:22:29,375 --> 00:22:31,333
Right.

497
00:22:31,333 --> 00:22:33,208
And that's exactly what the smoke detector is.

498
00:22:33,250 --> 00:22:35,250
It's white.

499
00:22:35,250 --> 00:22:35,708
That's exactly.

500
00:22:35,708 --> 00:22:38,458
That's exactly what it is, because they sleep through it.

501
00:22:38,500 --> 00:22:41,583
They just running through their home,

502
00:22:41,625 --> 00:22:44,125
have no clue that the thing is going off

503
00:22:44,833 --> 00:22:48,291
And then, like, I'm pointing it out to the guy and

504
00:22:48,291 --> 00:22:50,750
he was like, oh, that's is that what that is?

505
00:22:50,750 --> 00:22:54,208
Bro, you don't even know if

506
00:22:54,250 --> 00:22:57,583
that's what that sound means, is that your battery is

507
00:22:57,583 --> 00:23:00,125
dead and it's telling you to replace it.

508
00:23:00,583 --> 00:23:02,583
Gosh.

509
00:23:02,583 --> 00:23:06,166
I don't I don't even know what to say.

510
00:23:06,166 --> 00:23:08,625
Okay.

511
00:23:08,625 --> 00:23:11,666
Yeah, it's crazy, because like I said, we do it.

512
00:23:11,708 --> 00:23:13,708
I've been guilty of it.

513
00:23:13,708 --> 00:23:15,083
It's been about three days.

514
00:23:15,083 --> 00:23:16,916
It went off about three days.

515
00:23:16,916 --> 00:23:18,583
And before I actually got

516
00:23:19,333 --> 00:23:22,541
because, you know, you don't have the batters and it's like, all right, I got to get battes.

517
00:23:22,541 --> 00:23:25,875
And then you'll go out and you'll forget the battery.

518
00:23:25,916 --> 00:23:29,000
And then you get back and like, I forgot to get the battery.

519
00:23:29,041 --> 00:23:31,041
I get it next time I go out.

520
00:23:31,041 --> 00:23:34,041
And then, like I said, that went on for like three days for me.

521
00:23:34,083 --> 00:23:36,416
And, yeah, so, yeah, you got to do that

522
00:23:37,125 --> 00:23:40,166
Definitely got to change those batteries out

523
00:23:40,208 --> 00:23:44,791
because it's annoying to everybody else around you, except for the people that live in the house, apparently.

524
00:23:44,833 --> 00:23:46,833
Nobody.

525
00:23:46,833 --> 00:23:48,375
Yeah, definitely annoying.

526
00:23:48,375 --> 00:23:52,500
Like, it's funny because too, like, just other thinking about

527
00:23:52,541 --> 00:23:54,541
stereotypes.

528
00:23:54,541 --> 00:23:56,875
I'm like, when you were talking about being late and stuff like that.

529
00:23:56,916 --> 00:23:58,208
I'm like, you know what?

530
00:23:58,208 --> 00:24:01,833
It used to just be CP time, but but

531
00:24:01,833 --> 00:24:05,333
now it's like, or it's BP time and CP time.

532
00:24:05,375 --> 00:24:08,125
So black people time and color people time.

533
00:24:08,166 --> 00:24:12,416
Because they all do the same thing. don't't matter if you're Hispanic,

534
00:24:12,416 --> 00:24:16,458
black, whatever y'all late, all the freaking time.

535
00:24:16,500 --> 00:24:19,041
What is going on with people being late?

536
00:24:19,083 --> 00:24:21,083
I have to tell my mother

537
00:24:21,333 --> 00:24:23,333
if she's listening.

538
00:24:23,333 --> 00:24:25,166
You know I'm telling the truth.

539
00:24:25,166 --> 00:24:28,458
I got to lie to the lady and be like, oh,

540
00:24:28,500 --> 00:24:32,791
instead of us having dinner at seven, we're having dinner at five.

541
00:24:32,791 --> 00:24:34,791
It's at seven.

542
00:24:34,791 --> 00:24:37,000
I'm not going to tell her it's at seven.

543
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,000
I'm going to tell her it's at five because she's not going to be

544
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,875
ready until like 6.37 o'clock.

545
00:24:42,875 --> 00:24:45,208
But that's fine because that's when dinner starts

546
00:24:45,666 --> 00:24:47,666
So...

547
00:24:47,666 --> 00:24:48,666
Yo.

548
00:24:48,666 --> 00:24:50,666
So I lie.

549
00:24:50,666 --> 00:24:52,625
I lied to everyone.

550
00:24:52,625 --> 00:24:55,500
I'd be like, Lordord, forgive me, but I'm

551
00:24:55,500 --> 00:24:59,875
not telling nobody to come to my house on time.

552
00:24:59,875 --> 00:25:01,875
That's.

553
00:25:01,875 --> 00:25:02,750
Nobody.

554
00:25:02,750 --> 00:25:03,291
I'm not, we're not meeting up on time

555
00:25:03,708 --> 00:25:05,708
We're not going nowhere on time.

556
00:25:05,708 --> 00:25:08,333
If I tell you, we going somewhere, I'm going to lie to you.

557
00:25:08,333 --> 00:25:10,333
You got to know your people.

558
00:25:10,333 --> 00:25:12,000
That's crazy.

559
00:25:12,041 --> 00:25:14,041
Now, that's a stereotype, but that's true, though.

560
00:25:14,041 --> 00:25:15,958
That one is true.

561
00:25:15,958 --> 00:25:17,791
Yo, I saw this shit on TikTok.

562
00:25:17,791 --> 00:25:20,166
I think I might have shared it with y'all.

563
00:25:20,583 --> 00:25:23,750
One of them one was like, uh, hey, we're

564
00:25:23,750 --> 00:25:26,000
going to have a barbecue. barbecue star at six.

565
00:25:26,041 --> 00:25:30,875
And then you had that one, the black card, the dude that got his black card pull.

566
00:25:30,875 --> 00:25:34,083
It was like, and so, dude, like.

567
00:25:34,708 --> 00:25:36,708
open the door.

568
00:25:36,708 --> 00:25:37,875
Like, what you doing?

569
00:25:37,875 --> 00:25:40,125
Yeah, yeah,

570
00:25:42,125 --> 00:25:46,541
like, well, you said, it was you said the boy keep started at six.

571
00:25:46,541 --> 00:25:50,375
The next thing a know bro was on the phone, you know, on the phone.

572
00:25:50,375 --> 00:25:52,375
He't even got the food or nothing.

573
00:25:52,375 --> 00:25:56,083
Not The shit that tripped me out was the grill was still covered.

574
00:25:56,083 --> 00:25:59,125
He still had the cover of the grill, bro.

575
00:25:59,166 --> 00:26:01,166
And he's talking shit to everybody.

576
00:26:01,166 --> 00:26:02,666
I was like, yeah, man, the food actually showed up.

577
00:26:02,666 --> 00:26:04,500
That's it.

578
00:26:04,500 --> 00:26:05,041
Really, he got here is 559.

579
00:26:05,041 --> 00:26:06,666
You know what I'm saying?

580
00:26:06,666 --> 00:26:07,625
It's off, bro.

581
00:26:08,166 --> 00:26:11,083
It's funny because I'm the complete opposite.

582
00:26:11,083 --> 00:26:14,166
So whatever you tell me that I'm

583
00:26:14,208 --> 00:26:17,125
going to be there around that time or a little bit early.

584
00:26:17,166 --> 00:26:22,083
Like, I have friends, I have some friends who are always late all the time.

585
00:26:22,083 --> 00:26:24,083
They're

586
00:26:24,083 --> 00:26:26,416
well, they're a mixed couple because the husband is

587
00:26:26,458 --> 00:26:29,250
black and white and then the white is Puerto Rican.

588
00:26:29,250 --> 00:26:32,958
And let me tell you, these people are always late.

589
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,916
And they threw a party one day

590
00:26:36,583 --> 00:26:39,375
and they were still setting it up.

591
00:26:39,416 --> 00:26:41,416
It was at a building or whatever.

592
00:26:41,416 --> 00:26:44,250
And I came on time.

593
00:26:44,250 --> 00:26:47,250
So someone can't, someone comes

594
00:26:47,250 --> 00:26:50,166
over to the front who was helping them set up and stuff.

595
00:26:50,208 --> 00:26:52,208
And they were like,, um

596
00:26:52,375 --> 00:26:54,458
somebody's here.

597
00:26:54,458 --> 00:26:57,875
You know, in the background,

598
00:26:57,875 --> 00:27:00,791
they're like, oh, it's just probably Aria.

599
00:27:02,083 --> 00:27:05,083
That's fucked up.

600
00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:07,166
They already know you going to be on time, buddy.

601
00:27:09,291 --> 00:27:12,750
And so she lets me in, I go in,

602
00:27:12,750 --> 00:27:15,666
and I was like, oh, yeah, I knew it was me.

603
00:27:15,708 --> 00:27:19,166
It's like, look, you know all they want that show up on time.

604
00:27:20,208 --> 00:27:24,583
And meanwhile, a party doesn't start for like an hour and a half later.

605
00:27:24,583 --> 00:27:27,125
A whole hour and a half later.

606
00:27:27,166 --> 00:27:30,375
See, I learn to stop doing that because when you show up on time,

607
00:27:30,416 --> 00:27:32,666
you end up setting up and all that stuff there.

608
00:27:32,708 --> 00:27:34,708
That is true.

609
00:27:34,708 --> 00:27:38,125
Well, they didn't ask me to set up because they had hired somebody to do that, but

610
00:27:38,458 --> 00:27:40,791
I was like, is there anything I can do to help?

611
00:27:40,791 --> 00:27:42,791
Because I'm sitting here.

612
00:27:42,791 --> 00:27:43,750
I'm just like, I got nothing to do.

613
00:27:43,791 --> 00:27:47,666
I'm just sitting here waiting for this party to start.it.

614
00:27:47,708 --> 00:27:49,708
If I want them.

615
00:27:49,708 --> 00:27:52,208
I would be like, shit, I't I'm not hiring nobody next time.

616
00:27:52,250 --> 00:27:54,250
I know her ass going to be here on time.

617
00:27:54,250 --> 00:27:55,916
I got three to

618
00:27:56,083 --> 00:27:59,500
No, for real.

619
00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:02,500
Because I'm just like, don't tell me 6 o'clock

620
00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:06,375
because I'm going to be there probably like around 530.

621
00:28:07,375 --> 00:28:10,375
6 o'clock 8, 830.

622
00:28:10,375 --> 00:28:12,375
Yeah.

623
00:28:12,375 --> 00:28:13,916
You know that, right?

624
00:28:13,916 --> 00:28:14,708
6 o'clock me like 8, 830.

625
00:28:15,875 --> 00:28:19,708
To me, 6 o'clock is 6 o'clock. start

626
00:28:19,708 --> 00:28:23,333
until like 10. 10,30, 11 o'clock.

627
00:28:23,375 --> 00:28:26,458
But I have I have learned,

628
00:28:26,500 --> 00:28:30,916
and that's why now, even if I make an invitation for a party

629
00:28:31,666 --> 00:28:35,250
like my um, like my graduation party,

630
00:28:35,250 --> 00:28:39,000
I literally wrote on the invitation five o'clock.

631
00:28:39,041 --> 00:28:42,041
I didn't want nobody here at five o'clock.

632
00:28:42,041 --> 00:28:45,041
But then I was like, oh, I forgot to remind my

633
00:28:45,041 --> 00:28:47,125
other friend, who is just like me

634
00:28:47,708 --> 00:28:50,333
And she's Arabic, though.

635
00:28:50,333 --> 00:28:53,958
So got the same mindset, though.

636
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,000
You got to be on time for stuff.

637
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,916
So she came on time time

638
00:28:58,916 --> 00:29:02,083
and I was like, oh, my God, I forgot when the doorbell

639
00:29:02,083 --> 00:29:06,208
wrong, I literally was like, I

640
00:29:06,208 --> 00:29:08,666
already know this is.

641
00:29:08,708 --> 00:29:10,916
I already knew what it is.

642
00:29:10,916 --> 00:29:13,166
I was like, oh, my God.

643
00:29:13,208 --> 00:29:15,208
And then I opened up the door.

644
00:29:15,208 --> 00:29:17,125
Sure enough, I'm like

645
00:29:17,125 --> 00:29:19,833
And what's funny is I called it

646
00:29:19,833 --> 00:29:23,125
in the morning, because when I woke up, it was the

647
00:29:23,166 --> 00:29:25,291
very first thing that I thought about.

648
00:29:25,291 --> 00:29:29,041
And I was like, oh my goodness, I forgot to tell somebody

649
00:29:29,875 --> 00:29:32,541
that they shouldn't come on time.

650
00:29:32,583 --> 00:29:36,083
And I was like, oh, well, maybe she won't.

651
00:29:36,125 --> 00:29:38,791
And I'm like, but she usually always does.

652
00:29:38,791 --> 00:29:41,791
And then I thought about calling her and it

653
00:29:41,791 --> 00:29:45,291
slipped my mind because I had so many things to do or whatever.

654
00:29:45,333 --> 00:29:47,333
And

655
00:29:47,333 --> 00:29:48,583
I forgot to call her.

656
00:29:48,583 --> 00:29:52,708
And then, sure enough, rings the doorbell.

657
00:29:52,708 --> 00:29:56,875
And I'm like, oh my God, I know that's who that is. y, it was her.

658
00:29:56,916 --> 00:29:59,125
I was like, my bad.

659
00:29:59,166 --> 00:30:02,250
I said, so, you know, give yourself like two hour grace

660
00:30:02,708 --> 00:30:06,041
the next time you get an invitation to

661
00:30:06,041 --> 00:30:10,833
anything that I do do, two hours from whatever time that is.

662
00:30:10,833 --> 00:30:13,625
So if it says five, it really means seven.

663
00:30:13,666 --> 00:30:15,666
Right.

664
00:30:15,666 --> 00:30:17,166
Right.

665
00:30:17,166 --> 00:30:18,416
That part.

666
00:30:18,416 --> 00:30:19,458
Like, do not show show up on time.

667
00:30:19,500 --> 00:30:21,500
Why are you here?

668
00:30:21,500 --> 00:30:23,916
I know, and it sucks because she ended up having to leave early

669
00:30:24,416 --> 00:30:26,416
because she came early.

670
00:30:26,458 --> 00:30:28,458
Well, that was the whole point.

671
00:30:28,458 --> 00:30:31,000
I'm going to get here early so I can go early.

672
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,000
And if I show up to anything early, that means I

673
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,083
really planned on spending about 15 minutes.

674
00:30:36,125 --> 00:30:38,875
If you got me in that 30 to 45 minutes, you did good.

675
00:30:39,666 --> 00:30:43,250
Hey, look, at this age now, I

676
00:30:43,250 --> 00:30:46,750
would literally get dressed, go somewhere.

677
00:30:46,791 --> 00:30:50,791
Walk in this motherfucker, spin the room and get the fuck out.

678
00:30:50,791 --> 00:30:52,791
Like, I show my face.

679
00:30:52,791 --> 00:30:57,166
That's all I came to do, and I'm gone, because I don't, I don't know, that.

680
00:30:57,166 --> 00:30:59,166
It's just, I don't know.

681
00:30:59,166 --> 00:31:00,416
No, I get it.

682
00:31:00,416 --> 00:31:01,625
I've been there.

683
00:31:01,625 --> 00:31:03,833
Like, sometimes I call myself an MDvert

684
00:31:03,833 --> 00:31:06,750
because I'm more like really in the middle.

685
00:31:06,750 --> 00:31:08,750
I kind of

686
00:31:08,750 --> 00:31:12,166
I'm super extrovert when I'm around people that I love

687
00:31:12,166 --> 00:31:17,083
being around and that literally feed me with good energy.

688
00:31:17,083 --> 00:31:20,375
But then there's like some people I'm just like,

689
00:31:20,375 --> 00:31:22,833
I don't know what she was she about.

690
00:31:22,833 --> 00:31:24,833
So

691
00:31:24,833 --> 00:31:28,166
if I don't feel like doing something and I said I was going to do it

692
00:31:28,458 --> 00:31:32,833
What I do is I'm going to keep my word.

693
00:31:32,833 --> 00:31:35,875
I'm going to show up I'm going tiptoe

694
00:31:35,875 --> 00:31:38,958
into the water and you ain't gonna see me.

695
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,000
I'm going to sneak out so fast.

696
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,000
You won't even notice that I'm gone.

697
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,000
Right.

698
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,125
Like, hey, man, I'm finna go out here and smoke.

699
00:31:46,458 --> 00:31:48,541
I got a phone call.

700
00:31:48,541 --> 00:31:50,541
I got to go take.

701
00:31:50,541 --> 00:31:52,083
I don't even be doing that.

702
00:31:52,125 --> 00:31:57,333
Sometimes I just be like, you know, it's other people here that can take up the time.

703
00:31:57,375 --> 00:31:59,375
And it's funny because I'll get a text message.

704
00:31:59,416 --> 00:32:01,416
Oh, where'd you go?

705
00:32:01,416 --> 00:32:04,041
Oh, man, I, I would be, I went home

706
00:32:04,458 --> 00:32:06,458
I'm tired.

707
00:32:06,458 --> 00:32:09,208
They were like, they'd been like, oh, you left?

708
00:32:09,250 --> 00:32:11,250
When did you leave?

709
00:32:11,250 --> 00:32:13,791
The fact that you didn't even know that I left.

710
00:32:13,791 --> 00:32:17,833
just shows you how many people you

711
00:32:17,875 --> 00:32:21,208
got here and everything that you got going on was

712
00:32:21,250 --> 00:32:24,125
enough for you and too much for me.

713
00:32:24,666 --> 00:32:27,958
So what do you think about the stereotype

714
00:32:27,958 --> 00:32:32,541
or where they're talking about certain classes or certain races can't drive?

715
00:32:33,958 --> 00:32:38,541
So...

716
00:32:38,583 --> 00:32:42,291
First of all, I'm going to say in

717
00:32:42,291 --> 00:32:46,250
the state that I live in, in Florida,

718
00:32:46,958 --> 00:32:51,458
There's a lot of women that can't drive.

719
00:32:51,458 --> 00:32:54,458
And like,

720
00:32:54,458 --> 00:32:58,291
in any race, I see women all the time.

721
00:32:58,291 --> 00:33:03,125
Like, it's so weird because I'm always like, especially

722
00:33:03,875 --> 00:33:07,041
especially when I see women doing

723
00:33:07,083 --> 00:33:11,916
makeup, I'm like, what are you thinking?

724
00:33:11,916 --> 00:33:14,958
Like, what's really going through your head that you're driving

725
00:33:15,875 --> 00:33:17,875
and you're doing makeup?

726
00:33:17,875 --> 00:33:21,250
Like, I would be terrified of

727
00:33:21,291 --> 00:33:25,666
poking my eyes out or like, anything.

728
00:33:25,666 --> 00:33:27,666
Like, that's just so weird to me.

729
00:33:27,666 --> 00:33:29,583
And I see women do it all the time.

730
00:33:29,583 --> 00:33:31,458
And I see women like,

731
00:33:31,625 --> 00:33:36,541
you know, I think there's two different drivers when it comes to men and women.

732
00:33:36,541 --> 00:33:41,750
So women, I think they are very easily distracted.

733
00:33:41,750 --> 00:33:44,750
I think that's what their main issue is.

734
00:33:44,750 --> 00:33:47,416
And it's because that women try to multitask everything

735
00:33:48,166 --> 00:33:50,166
I don't know why.

736
00:33:50,166 --> 00:33:52,541
I think it's just maybe genetics, you know, it's

737
00:33:52,541 --> 00:33:55,291
in our DNA to always be on the go.

738
00:33:55,291 --> 00:33:57,291
Men

739
00:33:58,083 --> 00:34:01,250
are bad drivers because they feel like they

740
00:34:01,250 --> 00:34:06,375
need to go 100 plus miles an hour to get anywhere.

741
00:34:06,416 --> 00:34:08,416
Like, everywhere.

742
00:34:08,416 --> 00:34:10,083
I'm like, bro, slow down.

743
00:34:10,083 --> 00:34:11,833
Where are you in a rush to go?

744
00:34:11,833 --> 00:34:13,625
Like, literally,

745
00:34:13,625 --> 00:34:16,500
it's always the men.

746
00:34:16,541 --> 00:34:19,958
It's always the men that's driving really fast and speeding

747
00:34:19,958 --> 00:34:22,708
and swerving through lanes.

748
00:34:22,708 --> 00:34:24,708
Yeah.

749
00:34:24,708 --> 00:34:28,041
Here, in Florida, I beg to differ.

750
00:34:28,083 --> 00:34:30,083
I begged to differ.

751
00:34:30,083 --> 00:34:31,250
I lived in Florida for a couple of years.

752
00:34:31,250 --> 00:34:33,125
I know better.

753
00:34:33,125 --> 00:34:34,166
Yeah.

754
00:34:34,166 --> 00:34:35,166
They be balling out here.

755
00:34:35,208 --> 00:34:37,333
And I'd be like, where are you going?

756
00:34:37,375 --> 00:34:39,375
Like, where are you speeding

757
00:34:39,375 --> 00:34:44,083
And then they get mad at you if you're not going just as fast.

758
00:34:44,083 --> 00:34:47,291
And I'd be like, bro, I'm going 10 over.

759
00:34:47,333 --> 00:34:50,333
How much faster do you want me to go?

760
00:34:50,333 --> 00:34:52,416
See, I'm the opposite.

761
00:34:52,416 --> 00:34:55,833
I will get in a slow lane and I will do the speed limit.

762
00:34:55,833 --> 00:34:57,833
I've gotten enough tickets in my best

763
00:34:57,833 --> 00:34:59,833
that I don't want anymore, right?

764
00:34:59,833 --> 00:35:02,625
But I notice that

765
00:35:02,625 --> 00:35:06,250
if I'm doing the speed limit, and let's say I'm in the right lane, the

766
00:35:06,291 --> 00:35:09,583
far right lane, I got people that will be in the left lane or

767
00:35:09,583 --> 00:35:12,666
the middle lane, and they'll want to ride up and cut

768
00:35:12,708 --> 00:35:14,708
right in front of you and then keep going.

769
00:35:14,750 --> 00:35:16,750
It's like

770
00:35:16,750 --> 00:35:17,833
like, I'm holding up track.

771
00:35:17,875 --> 00:35:19,875
No, I'm doing the speed limit.

772
00:35:19,875 --> 00:35:21,291
Right.

773
00:35:21,291 --> 00:35:22,875
You know, I think women get

774
00:35:22,916 --> 00:35:24,916
a bad rap for driving

775
00:35:26,166 --> 00:35:28,958
And I'm just going to say, to be honest with them.

776
00:35:28,958 --> 00:35:31,416
A lot of times they just can't see over the staring wheel.

777
00:35:31,416 --> 00:35:34,416
And if you can't see what's really in front of you,

778
00:35:34,416 --> 00:35:38,000
like you can see what's out, but you can't really see what's in front of the car.

779
00:35:38,041 --> 00:35:40,041
You know what I'm saying?

780
00:35:40,041 --> 00:35:40,875
So

781
00:35:40,875 --> 00:35:45,000
if you're in that type of situation, people tend to hit curves a little bit more.

782
00:35:45,041 --> 00:35:47,041
I notice that a scrape up.

783
00:35:47,041 --> 00:35:48,958
Now, that's one thing about me.

784
00:35:48,958 --> 00:35:51,041
If you if I ever let you drive my car.

785
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:56,416
If I come back and I got any scruff marks on my rims.

786
00:35:56,458 --> 00:35:59,000
So it.

787
00:35:59,041 --> 00:36:01,041
It's going to be a rough night.

788
00:36:01,041 --> 00:36:03,958
So let me tell you, I'm so mad because

789
00:36:03,958 --> 00:36:06,500
my brand new car

790
00:36:07,375 --> 00:36:09,375
I accidentally hit the curp.

791
00:36:09,375 --> 00:36:12,333
So they have a little, um, it's a weird dip or

792
00:36:12,333 --> 00:36:15,625
something like over here by my house.

793
00:36:15,666 --> 00:36:18,541
And I didn't even notice that it was there.

794
00:36:18,541 --> 00:36:21,833
But for some reason, like,

795
00:36:22,291 --> 00:36:25,375
the way that they made the drain,

796
00:36:25,416 --> 00:36:29,166
it's instead of it just being like a regular slope

797
00:36:29,208 --> 00:36:32,791
like most drains have, this one has a

798
00:36:32,791 --> 00:36:35,833
huge dip, like a huge one.

799
00:36:35,875 --> 00:36:37,958
And I didn't know because I never street park

800
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,041
I only did it this once because

801
00:36:42,041 --> 00:36:46,208
I actually had, you know, a lot of people come to my house.

802
00:36:46,250 --> 00:36:48,250
So I was like, you know what?

803
00:36:48,250 --> 00:36:51,750
I'll street park and I'll just let people fill up my driveway and

804
00:36:53,625 --> 00:36:55,625
you know, whatever.

805
00:36:55,625 --> 00:36:57,250
And then the rest of the people will have to street park.

806
00:36:57,291 --> 00:37:00,708
So I pulled my car out and

807
00:37:00,708 --> 00:37:03,333
then I also have, you know, the

808
00:37:04,625 --> 00:37:07,625
the guides or whatever like that, because

809
00:37:07,625 --> 00:37:10,291
most of these new cars, they have the guides or whatever like that.

810
00:37:10,291 --> 00:37:15,000
And so I can see the curb. and I can see where I'm driving.

811
00:37:15,041 --> 00:37:18,125
And I have like the green, I'm in the green.

812
00:37:18,166 --> 00:37:21,625
I'm not in the red or the yellow that's telling me I'm too close to something

813
00:37:22,250 --> 00:37:26,541
And if my tired and go in that dip thing

814
00:37:28,791 --> 00:37:31,833
and hit the side of the curb,

815
00:37:31,833 --> 00:37:34,750
I are you fucking kidding?

816
00:37:34,791 --> 00:37:38,416
I'm trying to help other people out,

817
00:37:38,458 --> 00:37:41,666
and I ended up getting my tire scuff.

818
00:37:41,666 --> 00:37:43,750
I was so pissed.

819
00:37:43,791 --> 00:37:45,791
So I never did it again.

820
00:37:45,791 --> 00:37:47,416
I never drove on the curb or whatever.

821
00:37:47,458 --> 00:37:50,791
And then I had a friend and

822
00:37:50,791 --> 00:37:53,791
he drove over to the house or whatever.

823
00:37:53,791 --> 00:37:56,875
And I don't know why he did

824
00:37:56,916 --> 00:38:01,583
not park in the driveway. because I had space in my driveway,

825
00:38:02,166 --> 00:38:05,625
but he decided to park on the side of the road.

826
00:38:05,625 --> 00:38:10,125
And he hit that same little, d.

827
00:38:10,125 --> 00:38:14,083
And he's like, he comes in the house and he's like, man', I'm so pissed.

828
00:38:14,083 --> 00:38:16,083
I'm so pissed.

829
00:38:16,083 --> 00:38:17,041
I'm like, what happened?

830
00:38:17,041 --> 00:38:19,166
He's like, man, I don't fucked up my rims.

831
00:38:19,541 --> 00:38:21,541
sticking whoops?

832
00:38:21,541 --> 00:38:23,416
He was like, he was like, yeah.

833
00:38:23,458 --> 00:38:27,041
He was like, he was like, you' you're a solidwalk.

834
00:38:27,041 --> 00:38:29,041
It's like a dip or something.

835
00:38:29,041 --> 00:38:32,291
And I was like, oh, dang, I should have warned you about that.

836
00:38:32,333 --> 00:38:34,333
I was like, why didn't you park on the driveway?

837
00:38:34,333 --> 00:38:36,166
He was like, I don't know.

838
00:38:36,166 --> 00:38:37,541
I just didn't to park in the driveway

839
00:38:38,041 --> 00:38:41,250
And I'm like, so I'm not the only one,

840
00:38:41,250 --> 00:38:44,416
but it's so weird how that dip is.

841
00:38:44,458 --> 00:38:48,333
And I'm just like, was this an afterthought?

842
00:38:48,333 --> 00:38:51,916
Like, was did John not like, think

843
00:38:51,958 --> 00:38:56,791
about how somebody's tire can actually slide in this wholeole?

844
00:38:56,791 --> 00:38:58,791
Because that's what it is.

845
00:38:58,791 --> 00:38:59,875
Forget it being a slope.

846
00:38:59,875 --> 00:39:01,583
It's a damn hole.

847
00:39:01,583 --> 00:39:03,625
I'm sure it didn't start out that way.

848
00:39:03,666 --> 00:39:05,666
You know what I'm saying?

849
00:39:05,666 --> 00:39:08,250
Like, erosion, water coming through, you know what I'm saying?

850
00:39:08,250 --> 00:39:10,916
The sink hole type thing, you know what I'm saying?

851
00:39:10,958 --> 00:39:15,666
All of a sudden stuff starts cracking off and then it's gone, Especially if it rains a lot.

852
00:39:15,708 --> 00:39:17,708
You know what I mean?

853
00:39:17,708 --> 00:39:18,708
So What is new?

854
00:39:18,708 --> 00:39:21,333
This whole community is not even a year old.

855
00:39:21,333 --> 00:39:23,333
Okay.

856
00:39:23,333 --> 00:39:25,458
I have nothing.

857
00:39:25,500 --> 00:39:28,791
I have nothing.

858
00:39:28,791 --> 00:39:33,625
They literally just killed a bunch of trees and put these houses up.

859
00:39:33,666 --> 00:39:35,666
Like I said, sinkholes.

860
00:39:35,666 --> 00:39:37,583
You never know.

861
00:39:37,583 --> 00:39:38,166
Florida is good for that one.

862
00:39:38,166 --> 00:39:39,291
No, that's true.

863
00:39:39,291 --> 00:39:40,875
Oh my gosh.

864
00:39:40,875 --> 00:39:41,916
My school has one now.

865
00:39:42,208 --> 00:39:45,416
It's funny because where

866
00:39:45,458 --> 00:39:48,458
I used to park, I was like, you know what?

867
00:39:48,458 --> 00:39:51,916
I'm not parking over there anymore because it's always hard for me to get out.

868
00:39:51,958 --> 00:39:56,500
I was like, I'm going to park at the front because all I have to do is pull out into the street or whatever.

869
00:39:57,041 --> 00:40:00,250
And so the new teacher that's

870
00:40:00,291 --> 00:40:05,083
there this year, she's parking where I was parked at.

871
00:40:05,083 --> 00:40:08,083
And like two, three weeks

872
00:40:08,083 --> 00:40:11,708
ago, whatever, we saw it and we, I

873
00:40:11,750 --> 00:40:16,041
called her and I told her, I was like, oh my God, did you see the sinkhole by your car?

874
00:40:16,083 --> 00:40:18,083
And she's like, what?

875
00:40:18,083 --> 00:40:19,458
So we went outside.

876
00:40:19,458 --> 00:40:20,958
I showed it to her

877
00:40:20,958 --> 00:40:23,750
And she was like, oh, oh no.

878
00:40:23,750 --> 00:40:25,750
You right.

879
00:40:25,750 --> 00:40:26,958
I'm not parking here again.

880
00:40:26,958 --> 00:40:29,041
I was like, yeah, girl, don't park your car.

881
00:40:29,083 --> 00:40:31,083
I was there.

882
00:40:31,083 --> 00:40:31,458
I was like, we be at school.

883
00:40:31,458 --> 00:40:35,250
My daughter own business, teaching our classes. and she come back out and her car not there.

884
00:40:35,250 --> 00:40:38,125
Right. 20 feet on the ground.

885
00:40:38,458 --> 00:40:40,458
or whatnot.

886
00:40:40,458 --> 00:40:41,208
I'm like, oh, my God.

887
00:40:41,208 --> 00:40:43,166
So they did report it.

888
00:40:43,166 --> 00:40:45,875
So hopefully they get that taken care of soon.

889
00:40:45,875 --> 00:40:48,875
But I'm like, I would not be

890
00:40:48,875 --> 00:40:51,375
parking there because if the sinkhole happened

891
00:40:52,500 --> 00:40:55,958
like I was in Miami and witnessed a

892
00:40:55,958 --> 00:40:59,041
whole building come down because of the sinkhole.

893
00:40:59,083 --> 00:41:01,083
Yeah.

894
00:41:01,083 --> 00:41:05,000
It sounded like a shot, like a shotgun or explosion or something.

895
00:41:05,041 --> 00:41:07,041
Like it was crazy.

896
00:41:07,041 --> 00:41:08,166
I was like, what the?

897
00:41:08,166 --> 00:41:09,375
And then people

898
00:41:09,375 --> 00:41:11,083
talking about a song, oh my God.

899
00:41:11,083 --> 00:41:13,083
It was like a LA fitness, too.

900
00:41:13,083 --> 00:41:17,250
So to bring this back full circle right now, right?

901
00:41:17,250 --> 00:41:19,250
Yeah.

902
00:41:19,250 --> 00:41:20,541
So we're talking about buildings and stuff that collapses.

903
00:41:20,583 --> 00:41:22,833
Because here's another stereotype.

904
00:41:23,458 --> 00:41:25,458
when we're talking about building stuff.

905
00:41:25,458 --> 00:41:28,250
Have you ever been guilty of saying that you

906
00:41:28,250 --> 00:41:34,041
was going to go over to the Home Depot to get contractors?

907
00:41:35,041 --> 00:41:38,916
You know, so I

908
00:41:38,916 --> 00:41:41,375
haven't, but I just thought it.

909
00:41:41,375 --> 00:41:44,541
I didn't say it out loud, but

910
00:41:44,583 --> 00:41:48,958
I thought it because I used to work at Home Depot, and I used to be there

911
00:41:49,708 --> 00:41:52,875
6 o'clock in the morning when it opened.

912
00:41:52,916 --> 00:41:57,583
And those people, they be ready.

913
00:41:57,583 --> 00:42:01,583
Four or five o'clock in the morning, you go out there,

914
00:42:01,625 --> 00:42:06,958
they are ready and they don't charge much of anything

915
00:42:07,708 --> 00:42:12,000
You know, you go out there, you can tell them, hey, I need this, this, that, and the third.

916
00:42:12,041 --> 00:42:14,125
And so with this new house,

917
00:42:15,833 --> 00:42:17,833
I've thought about it.

918
00:42:17,833 --> 00:42:19,583
I haven't mentioned it to anybody.

919
00:42:19,625 --> 00:42:21,625
I haven't said it.

920
00:42:21,625 --> 00:42:23,125
This is my first time actually saying it out loud.

921
00:42:24,666 --> 00:42:29,666
I'm not opposed.. need some stuff put up.

922
00:42:29,666 --> 00:42:33,125
And they are very good at what they do.

923
00:42:33,166 --> 00:42:35,166
So, you know what I'm saying?

924
00:42:35,166 --> 00:42:37,541
And the labor prices is affordable.

925
00:42:37,541 --> 00:42:39,541
Let's do it that way.

926
00:42:39,541 --> 00:42:40,916
You know what I'm saying?

927
00:42:40,916 --> 00:42:41,666
It's so I don't see a read.

928
00:42:41,666 --> 00:42:43,583
I mean, is it a stereotype?

929
00:42:43,583 --> 00:42:45,375
Yeah

930
00:42:45,375 --> 00:42:49,125
But at the same time, it's one of those ones that's kind of true.

931
00:42:49,125 --> 00:42:51,125
It's late.

932
00:42:51,125 --> 00:42:54,583
It's like black folks being late and having our smoke tack is going on.

933
00:42:54,583 --> 00:42:56,583
That shit true.

934
00:42:56,583 --> 00:42:57,625
I don't get mad at them that are true.

935
00:42:57,666 --> 00:42:59,666
You know what I'm saying?

936
00:42:59,666 --> 00:43:02,916
You have some great skill carpenters,

937
00:43:02,916 --> 00:43:07,458
people that put up, shit, build a whole house for you, literally.

938
00:43:07,500 --> 00:43:10,666
And it's like, one of the things that I will say about

939
00:43:10,666 --> 00:43:13,958
this right here and that I have actually witnessed,

940
00:43:13,958 --> 00:43:17,250
it's like, they are going to pool their money.

941
00:43:17,250 --> 00:43:20,333
They might have three or four families in that one house and it might

942
00:43:20,375 --> 00:43:23,166
look like shit on the outside, but that's by design too.

943
00:43:23,500 --> 00:43:25,500
You go inside.

944
00:43:25,500 --> 00:43:27,916
If you ever go inside of it, they got crown molding

945
00:43:27,958 --> 00:43:30,083
and all the best of the best of the best.

946
00:43:30,125 --> 00:43:33,708
The house on the inside looks nothing like what it does on the outside.

947
00:43:33,708 --> 00:43:35,708
I can promise you that much.

948
00:43:35,708 --> 00:43:39,458
You know, so don't be too quick to judge that book.

949
00:43:39,458 --> 00:43:41,458
You know what I'm saying?

950
00:43:41,458 --> 00:43:42,125
cover because

951
00:43:42,125 --> 00:43:44,708
I might be surprised, but I'm not a opposed

952
00:43:44,750 --> 00:43:47,833
to going over to one of those dick box stores and

953
00:43:49,833 --> 00:43:54,208
Contractors do it all the time because I watch them come in.

954
00:43:54,208 --> 00:43:56,833
They grab their tools and all that stuff like that.

955
00:43:56,875 --> 00:43:59,958
And they talk, they talk to us, you know, because, you know,

956
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,791
we're the pretty girl in the, you know, cashiers or whatever.

957
00:44:02,791 --> 00:44:04,791
And they'd be telling us all their business.

958
00:44:04,791 --> 00:44:08,041
They'd be like, yeah, we, we came here early this morning.

959
00:44:08,083 --> 00:44:10,083
You know, we're back again.

960
00:44:10,083 --> 00:44:11,583
We came and got our people.

961
00:44:11,583 --> 00:44:15,291
It'd be like, they are hired

962
00:44:15,291 --> 00:44:19,291
like four or five, you know, Mexicans or whatever and

963
00:44:19,291 --> 00:44:22,875
brought them with them to these, like a lot of these buildings and

964
00:44:22,916 --> 00:44:25,125
condos and stuff in Orlando.

965
00:44:25,125 --> 00:44:27,125
Like a lot of contractors went and got them

966
00:44:27,875 --> 00:44:31,750
brought them downtown to build these condos.

967
00:44:31,791 --> 00:44:34,833
And, like, people think, like, I'm like,

968
00:44:34,833 --> 00:44:40,500
I don't know what y'all think is going to happen deporting, but who gonna do it?

969
00:44:40,541 --> 00:44:42,750
You might as well find the people that's going to do the work.

970
00:44:43,250 --> 00:44:46,250
Well, you know, speaking of which, I don't know

971
00:44:46,250 --> 00:44:51,875
if we should actually talk about it, but, you know, it's like we have politicians.

972
00:44:51,875 --> 00:44:56,958
I'll leave it that way and keep it broken broad that have towers

973
00:44:57,583 --> 00:45:00,458
named after them.

974
00:45:00,458 --> 00:45:02,458
Right.

975
00:45:02,458 --> 00:45:04,250
That were that use

976
00:45:04,250 --> 00:45:09,333
that ch cheap labor, that quote unquote, cheap labor and never paid.

977
00:45:09,333 --> 00:45:11,541
There's articles about stuff like that.

978
00:45:11,583 --> 00:45:13,583
You know what I'm saying?

979
00:45:13,583 --> 00:45:17,458
Like, you got the best of the best for the cheap labor and you didn't even pay these people.

980
00:45:17,458 --> 00:45:19,458
You know what I'm saying?

981
00:45:19,458 --> 00:45:20,458
So to me

982
00:45:20,458 --> 00:45:23,500
that's where it gets, you know what I'm saying?

983
00:45:23,500 --> 00:45:27,666
It gets messed up at it because if you're going to use them, if he's giving what it's worth.

984
00:45:27,708 --> 00:45:29,708
Right..

985
00:45:29,708 --> 00:45:33,166
Another thing that I will say to people is that if you are going to use in labor

986
00:45:33,958 --> 00:45:36,833
you need to learn how to speak the lingo.

987
00:45:36,833 --> 00:45:40,541
Oh, learn how to speak the language or give you some translation earbuds.

988
00:45:40,541 --> 00:45:42,541
Mm.

989
00:45:42,541 --> 00:45:44,333
Because they will literally sit there in front of you talking

990
00:45:45,291 --> 00:45:47,375
and talk shit about you.

991
00:45:47,375 --> 00:45:49,375
And, you know what I'm saying?

992
00:45:49,375 --> 00:45:52,541
And in their native tongue, their native language.

993
00:45:52,541 --> 00:45:56,416
And if you can't speak it, because I speak a little bit, you know what I'm saying?

994
00:45:56,458 --> 00:45:58,666
I know enough to get around, I can survive.

995
00:45:59,250 --> 00:46:01,250
Right?

996
00:46:01,250 --> 00:46:03,208
So I used to date a Hispanic woman, a

997
00:46:03,208 --> 00:46:05,333
couple of Hispanic women back in my day.

998
00:46:05,375 --> 00:46:08,250
And so I picked up.

999
00:46:08,250 --> 00:46:10,583
I picked up more cuss words and I picked up anything else.

1000
00:46:12,125 --> 00:46:14,125
Always cuss words.

1001
00:46:14,125 --> 00:46:19,291
I can cuss y' in Spanish real quick..

1002
00:46:20,875 --> 00:46:25,583
But, it's like, damn, where was I going with that?

1003
00:46:25,625 --> 00:46:28,625
It's like you have to learn here to

1004
00:46:28,625 --> 00:46:30,958
understand what it is because we will try and get over.

1005
00:46:30,958 --> 00:46:32,958
Oh, yeah, for sure.

1006
00:46:32,958 --> 00:46:33,833
Was they're no different than anybody else?

1007
00:46:33,833 --> 00:46:35,750
Because

1008
00:46:35,750 --> 00:46:36,791
Black folks, we try and get over on people.

1009
00:46:36,833 --> 00:46:38,833
You know what I'm saying?

1010
00:46:38,833 --> 00:46:41,958
Like, if I can get something for a cheaper price, yeah, I'm going to go for that cheaper price.

1011
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,833
I'm not going to just to go out here and try and spend the top dollar when I, you know what I'm saying?

1012
00:46:45,833 --> 00:46:48,083
I can negotiate and, you know what I'm saying?

1013
00:46:48,125 --> 00:46:50,125
Bring the price down.

1014
00:46:50,125 --> 00:46:51,083
So I'm so, you know what I'm saying?

1015
00:46:51,083 --> 00:46:52,791
Everybody's just saying.

1016
00:46:52,791 --> 00:46:53,958
Nothing wrong with that.

1017
00:46:53,958 --> 00:46:54,916
Nothing wrong with that.

1018
00:46:54,916 --> 00:46:56,208
You know what I'm saying?

1019
00:46:56,208 --> 00:46:57,000
It's just that they're going to go the other way.

1020
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,750
Man, I saw one

1021
00:46:58,750 --> 00:47:01,291
I saw one video.

1022
00:47:01,291 --> 00:47:03,291
What is a mechanic.

1023
00:47:03,291 --> 00:47:07,375
There was an older guy that was standing over the left.

1024
00:47:07,416 --> 00:47:10,833
That was a mechanic that was standing in the middle of the car.

1025
00:47:10,833 --> 00:47:12,833
The hood is up.

1026
00:47:12,833 --> 00:47:14,708
And then there was a younger person that was coming back and forth

1027
00:47:15,333 --> 00:47:18,333
And then so the mechanic looks

1028
00:47:18,333 --> 00:47:22,291
over to the left and stays something about, you know what I'm saying?

1029
00:47:22,291 --> 00:47:25,333
Like, this is how you get over on the dumbasses or some shit like that right there,

1030
00:47:25,375 --> 00:47:28,666
not realizing that the person that they're talking to is

1031
00:47:28,666 --> 00:47:31,333
the actual person, the owner of the vehicle.

1032
00:47:32,166 --> 00:47:35,333
Are you basically talking about how you finna raise the prices up to

1033
00:47:35,333 --> 00:47:38,125
the person that's finished it up here and buy shit from you?

1034
00:47:38,166 --> 00:47:40,166
You know what I'm saying?

1035
00:47:40,166 --> 00:47:41,166
It's like, hey, that's what you know what I'm saying?

1036
00:47:41,166 --> 00:47:44,625
Like, I'm that talking about, but people do that.

1037
00:47:44,625 --> 00:47:46,625
Right.

1038
00:47:46,625 --> 00:47:47,291
We all do it.

1039
00:47:47,291 --> 00:47:48,375
You know what I'm saying?

1040
00:47:48,375 --> 00:47:49,041
To try to get the

1041
00:47:49,041 --> 00:47:52,708
cheapest price possible, especially with the as high as.

1042
00:47:52,708 --> 00:47:54,708
Everything is.

1043
00:47:54,708 --> 00:47:55,750
Everything is.

1044
00:47:55,750 --> 00:47:58,875
Like, everybody's looking for that, that

1045
00:47:59,916 --> 00:48:01,916
break, if you can.

1046
00:48:01,916 --> 00:48:03,041
Mm.

1047
00:48:03,041 --> 00:48:03,916
So

1048
00:48:03,916 --> 00:48:09,375
that brings us up to like what, like we have age-based stereotypes.

1049
00:48:09,375 --> 00:48:11,375
You know what I'm saying?

1050
00:48:11,375 --> 00:48:13,916
Like certain people, once you hit a certain age, they just feel like

1051
00:48:13,916 --> 00:48:16,250
you're basically over. the hill.

1052
00:48:16,250 --> 00:48:21,208
I rock a whole lot of gray nowadays, but my mindset

1053
00:48:21,666 --> 00:48:24,416
my body, eh.

1054
00:48:24,416 --> 00:48:28,791
Yeah, I feel old sometimes, but my mind, I'm still young.

1055
00:48:28,791 --> 00:48:31,833
You know, I'm that cat that will

1056
00:48:31,875 --> 00:48:35,166
go into a store, come up with a shopping cart, and I'm riding

1057
00:48:35,166 --> 00:48:38,791
it back across the parking lot like it's a scooter.

1058
00:48:38,833 --> 00:48:42,041
And people be looking at me with my old ass graybeard the

1059
00:48:42,041 --> 00:48:46,583
whole nine yards, and I'm on the back of this shopping cart, just riding it like I did when I was 12.

1060
00:48:46,916 --> 00:48:48,916
You know what I'm saying?

1061
00:48:48,916 --> 00:48:50,041
Like I was seven or what of them.

1062
00:48:50,041 --> 00:48:53,250
But living my best life, having a great time.

1063
00:48:53,291 --> 00:48:56,291
But when it comes down to it, at the same time, you

1064
00:48:56,291 --> 00:48:59,458
look at people that's older and you feel like they can't do certain jobs.

1065
00:48:59,458 --> 00:49:02,500
And then there are certain people that will only hire, they won't hire people

1066
00:49:02,500 --> 00:49:04,583
that's younger because they feel like they're lazy.

1067
00:49:05,708 --> 00:49:07,708
You know what I'm saying?

1068
00:49:07,708 --> 00:49:09,291
So there, there's opposites in that as well.

1069
00:49:09,291 --> 00:49:12,291
Like, you feel like the older person might not be able to

1070
00:49:12,291 --> 00:49:14,416
pick up whatever it is is that's going on.

1071
00:49:14,458 --> 00:49:16,458
You know what I'm saying?

1072
00:49:16,458 --> 00:49:17,041
They might not be able to learn the processes.

1073
00:49:17,083 --> 00:49:19,083
And then you have

1074
00:49:19,083 --> 00:49:23,625
the younger people that they just feel like are lazy and not going to do the things properly.

1075
00:49:23,625 --> 00:49:28,625
So it depends on who that hiring manager is when it comes down to it.

1076
00:49:28,666 --> 00:49:32,083
But have you ever been discriminated against based

1077
00:49:32,083 --> 00:49:35,416
upon your age or the fact that you look young?

1078
00:49:35,833 --> 00:49:37,833
Oh,, absolutely.

1079
00:49:37,833 --> 00:49:40,166
People think I think I'm a child a

1080
00:49:40,208 --> 00:49:43,416
lot of times until I start talking and they're like, how old are you?

1081
00:49:44,875 --> 00:49:46,875
Okay.

1082
00:49:46,875 --> 00:49:48,000
Okay, okay.

1083
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,208
And then I'm like, you don't look like it.

1084
00:49:52,250 --> 00:49:55,291
You don't look, I'm like, okay.

1085
00:49:55,333 --> 00:49:59,041
But, you know, had you known how old I was at the beginning

1086
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,208
we wouldn't have this problem, you know?

1087
00:50:02,208 --> 00:50:04,208
It's, I don't know.

1088
00:50:04,208 --> 00:50:08,250
It's like people always feel like, oh, well, you're too young.

1089
00:50:08,291 --> 00:50:13,125
You're not going to understand this, you know, And I'm like, try me.

1090
00:50:13,791 --> 00:50:15,791
Right.

1091
00:50:15,791 --> 00:50:17,791
Try me.

1092
00:50:17,791 --> 00:50:21,875
Because that I said, I I'm more than likely going to understand what you're talking about, you know.

1093
00:50:21,916 --> 00:50:23,916
It's funny because

1094
00:50:24,791 --> 00:50:28,083
I never really thought like I looked that young,

1095
00:50:28,083 --> 00:50:31,541
like at all until

1096
00:50:33,166 --> 00:50:38,083
actually like going on the TikTok live platform.

1097
00:50:38,083 --> 00:50:40,458
Because like people would be like, oh, you look young.

1098
00:50:40,500 --> 00:50:42,500
How old are you?

1099
00:50:42,500 --> 00:50:43,291
Or whatever?

1100
00:50:43,291 --> 00:50:44,375
But they never just assumed.

1101
00:50:44,416 --> 00:50:47,083
So it's like the people that I meet in real life

1102
00:50:47,916 --> 00:50:52,416
they don't really just assume they just ask me, you know, how old am I or whatever.

1103
00:50:52,416 --> 00:50:55,833
Whereas like people that I see online,

1104
00:50:55,875 --> 00:50:59,083
they just assume and don't even ask.

1105
00:50:59,083 --> 00:51:01,208
And I'm just like,

1106
00:51:01,875 --> 00:51:03,875
what do you mean?

1107
00:51:03,875 --> 00:51:06,708
Like, I mean, I can I can understand the same thing.

1108
00:51:06,708 --> 00:51:10,166
I'm I'm probably more smarter than you think I am.

1109
00:51:10,208 --> 00:51:12,208
I'll be trinking people.

1110
00:51:12,208 --> 00:51:14,875
The space going back to

1111
00:51:14,875 --> 00:51:17,208
black women can't be scientists

1112
00:51:17,833 --> 00:51:21,041
Like, I' a gthmora of things that

1113
00:51:21,041 --> 00:51:23,375
I can talk about when it comes to that, you know.

1114
00:51:23,416 --> 00:51:29,708
I feel like too, it gets weird sometimes when you

1115
00:51:30,458 --> 00:51:33,875
try to teach older people things

1116
00:51:33,916 --> 00:51:39,291
because they feel like they're older and they're wiser and they know more.

1117
00:51:39,291 --> 00:51:41,416
And I literally just had this conversation

1118
00:51:42,375 --> 00:51:45,375
not long ago with my

1119
00:51:45,375 --> 00:51:49,000
godsister and I was telling her, like, I

1120
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,541
feel like it can go both ways.

1121
00:51:51,583 --> 00:51:54,750
Like older people can learn things from younger people

1122
00:51:54,791 --> 00:51:58,291
and younger people can learn things from older people.

1123
00:51:58,333 --> 00:52:00,333
You know,

1124
00:52:00,333 --> 00:52:01,208
it goes both ways.

1125
00:52:01,208 --> 00:52:04,250
I'm never going to say, I'm smarter

1126
00:52:04,250 --> 00:52:07,750
than you because I'm five, 10 years older than you.

1127
00:52:07,791 --> 00:52:09,791
I never I'm not going to do that.

1128
00:52:09,833 --> 00:52:12,916
Because you very well could know some

1129
00:52:12,958 --> 00:52:15,041
things that I don't know.

1130
00:52:15,041 --> 00:52:17,041
You could be smarter in an area

1131
00:52:17,333 --> 00:52:19,583
more than myself.

1132
00:52:19,625 --> 00:52:22,708
You know, I can be more educated in an area more than you

1133
00:52:22,750 --> 00:52:26,375
and you're 20 years older than me.

1134
00:52:26,416 --> 00:52:28,416
You know what I'm saying?

1135
00:52:28,416 --> 00:52:30,500
So there's give and take, you know, so I never,

1136
00:52:30,541 --> 00:52:33,750
I always give people, you know, the benefit of the doubt now, a child that's different

1137
00:52:34,333 --> 00:52:37,375
you know, a child is a child and

1138
00:52:37,375 --> 00:52:39,833
I'm going to keep a child in a child's place, you know.

1139
00:52:39,833 --> 00:52:43,125
But when it's like you're, you know, an adult, you're

1140
00:52:43,125 --> 00:52:48,666
older, you know, and wiser, I feel like I'm going to talk to you to figure out where you are

1141
00:52:49,666 --> 00:52:54,625
you know, maturity wise and what kind of conversations you can hold.

1142
00:52:54,666 --> 00:52:59,166
And then based off of that is where, you know, where I kind of play you.

1143
00:52:59,166 --> 00:53:01,166
Right.

1144
00:53:01,166 --> 00:53:02,000
Understood.

1145
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,250
So on the story, I might,

1146
00:53:04,250 --> 00:53:06,333
I was working, like I said, I was an IT.

1147
00:53:06,708 --> 00:53:09,708
And we were, I was sitting in

1148
00:53:09,708 --> 00:53:13,750
the computer lab one day and I'm

1149
00:53:13,791 --> 00:53:18,208
sitting there and I'm, I'm working on some of the updating some of the computers and everything.

1150
00:53:18,250 --> 00:53:20,708
And there was a couple other people that was in there.

1151
00:53:20,708 --> 00:53:25,125
And then they started this conversation and obviously it was about education and and

1152
00:53:26,708 --> 00:53:30,333
you know what I'm saying for the kids and things of that nature.

1153
00:53:30,375 --> 00:53:33,875
So then they started talking about, like,

1154
00:53:33,916 --> 00:53:37,083
if you, if your child had an opportunity to go pro.

1155
00:53:37,083 --> 00:53:42,083
And I think this is where it came into play because there was there was literally two black people

1156
00:53:42,541 --> 00:53:45,416
two white folks in in this room.

1157
00:53:45,416 --> 00:53:47,416
Right?

1158
00:53:47,416 --> 00:53:50,208
So they're talking education and we're preaching education education.

1159
00:53:50,208 --> 00:53:53,375
So the thing the

1160
00:53:53,416 --> 00:53:57,125
thing that came up was, if your child had an opportunity

1161
00:53:57,666 --> 00:54:01,000
to come out of college early and go pro,

1162
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:05,708
would you encourage them to go pro or would you encourage them to stay in college?

1163
00:54:05,750 --> 00:54:11,250
And depending on who you asked, there were different answers.

1164
00:54:12,041 --> 00:54:15,125
Obviously, the black folks are saying, go pro.

1165
00:54:15,166 --> 00:54:18,875
The white folks are saying, get the education.

1166
00:54:18,916 --> 00:54:20,916
Yeah.

1167
00:54:20,916 --> 00:54:21,666
That's what I want.

1168
00:54:22,750 --> 00:54:25,541
I'm butting in like, go pro.

1169
00:54:25,541 --> 00:54:28,083
The obvious answer is to go pro.

1170
00:54:28,125 --> 00:54:30,125
But what?

1171
00:54:30,125 --> 00:54:31,875
Why is it obvious?

1172
00:54:31,875 --> 00:54:33,583
Because that's an opportunity of a lifetime.

1173
00:54:33,583 --> 00:54:35,583
It doesn't always come around.

1174
00:54:35,583 --> 00:54:37,500
But if you stayed in college

1175
00:54:37,625 --> 00:54:41,208
and you got injured, your draft,

1176
00:54:41,208 --> 00:54:44,125
your stock pick is up high this year.

1177
00:54:44,166 --> 00:54:47,208
Next year, you may not have a great season.

1178
00:54:48,291 --> 00:54:51,791
So my thing was, and

1179
00:54:51,833 --> 00:54:56,000
this is where this lady called me cynical.

1180
00:54:56,041 --> 00:54:58,041
She told me I was cynical.

1181
00:54:58,041 --> 00:54:59,541
My thing was

1182
00:55:00,291 --> 00:55:05,250
people go to college to get a better education so that they can get a better paying job.

1183
00:55:05,291 --> 00:55:07,750
At the end of the day, it's always about the money.

1184
00:55:07,750 --> 00:55:11,083
They tell me, no, it's not about the money.

1185
00:55:11,083 --> 00:55:13,083
And I'm like, really?

1186
00:55:13,083 --> 00:55:14,458
It's not.

1187
00:55:14,458 --> 00:55:15,958
Because I can learn the same thing YouTube

1188
00:55:16,625 --> 00:55:19,666
Google, I can have the same knowledge, but I go

1189
00:55:19,666 --> 00:55:24,625
to college so I can get that documentation that says that I am certified.

1190
00:55:24,666 --> 00:55:27,541
I actually know what it is that I say that I know.

1191
00:55:28,416 --> 00:55:31,458
So if college is not really important

1192
00:55:31,500 --> 00:55:35,000
and it's not about the money, then why, why bother go

1193
00:55:35,041 --> 00:55:38,375
to school when you can get the exact same education,

1194
00:55:38,416 --> 00:55:42,000
you can learn the same things just by visiting social sites.

1195
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,000
So like I said, YouTube or Google.

1196
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,625
Right.

1197
00:55:45,625 --> 00:55:46,916
So, and that's what she called me cynical.

1198
00:55:46,916 --> 00:55:49,250
And it's like, it's not about being cynical.

1199
00:55:49,250 --> 00:55:51,250
It's about

1200
00:55:51,250 --> 00:55:52,083
just having the, you know what I'm saying?

1201
00:55:52,125 --> 00:55:55,166
Again, that opportunity, they consider it a

1202
00:55:55,208 --> 00:55:57,833
one lifetime opportunity for a reason.

1203
00:55:57,833 --> 00:55:59,833
You know what I'm saying?

1204
00:55:59,833 --> 00:56:01,541
So, yes, take it, go.

1205
00:56:01,541 --> 00:56:06,375
If something happens, if it doesn't pan out, at least you made the money that you were going to college to make

1206
00:56:06,916 --> 00:56:08,916
anyway.

1207
00:56:08,916 --> 00:56:09,750
And you can always fall back on college.

1208
00:56:09,791 --> 00:56:11,791
You can always come back to college.

1209
00:56:11,791 --> 00:56:13,916
You can go to college while you're out there playing.

1210
00:56:13,916 --> 00:56:15,916
You can do classes online.

1211
00:56:15,916 --> 00:56:17,708
There are so many different things that you can do.

1212
00:56:17,750 --> 00:56:20,125
So I don't understand why you have to stole it.

1213
00:56:20,833 --> 00:56:22,833
You know what I'm saying?

1214
00:56:22,833 --> 00:56:25,125
So it's like, go get the money because that's why you went to college.

1215
00:56:25,125 --> 00:56:28,875
You went to college so you can get the degree so you can get a better paying job.

1216
00:56:30,291 --> 00:56:32,833
At the end of the day, it was about the money.

1217
00:56:32,875 --> 00:56:35,250
So, I don't know.

1218
00:56:35,291 --> 00:56:37,291
You know what I'm saying?

1219
00:56:37,291 --> 00:56:39,166
Does that fall under a stereotype that black people are always trying

1220
00:56:39,166 --> 00:56:43,125
to push their kids into entertainment or sports or things of that nature

1221
00:56:44,083 --> 00:56:47,250
whereas other races, Asian

1222
00:56:47,291 --> 00:56:52,291
preach, you know what I'm saying, education first, you know?

1223
00:56:52,333 --> 00:56:54,333
And so

1224
00:56:55,125 --> 00:56:57,125
you know what I'm saying?

1225
00:56:57,125 --> 00:56:57,875
Like, where do you draw the line?

1226
00:56:57,875 --> 00:57:01,083
Because if it's all about making money, because that's what we really do the things for.

1227
00:57:01,125 --> 00:57:03,125
We don't go.

1228
00:57:03,125 --> 00:57:06,041
Anybody who says they have a job, first and foremost,,

1229
00:57:06,041 --> 00:57:11,375
you have that place of employment simply so that you can pay bills.

1230
00:57:12,416 --> 00:57:14,416
That's a job.

1231
00:57:14,416 --> 00:57:15,750
I got a career.

1232
00:57:15,791 --> 00:57:17,791
You have a career.

1233
00:57:17,791 --> 00:57:20,125
There's a different terminology, which

1234
00:57:20,166 --> 00:57:25,416
means that no matter what it is, I don't, I'm not jumping from one place of employment to the next.

1235
00:57:25,416 --> 00:57:27,416
Right.

1236
00:57:27,416 --> 00:57:31,291
But if I am going to leave, then this next place, I'm going to be doing the exact same thing

1237
00:57:31,666 --> 00:57:33,666
They're just going to pay me more to do.

1238
00:57:33,666 --> 00:57:35,416
Right.

1239
00:57:35,416 --> 00:57:36,083
You know what I'm saying?

1240
00:57:36,083 --> 00:57:37,166
So

1241
00:57:37,750 --> 00:57:40,666
how do you counterbalance thatereotype?

1242
00:57:40,666 --> 00:57:43,958
Because if we're saying that we push our children towards

1243
00:57:43,958 --> 00:57:46,291
sports and entertainment,

1244
00:57:47,583 --> 00:57:51,708
you know what I say, as opposed to the education..

1245
00:57:51,708 --> 00:57:54,750
First of all, is it a true stereotype?

1246
00:57:54,791 --> 00:57:58,500
Or is it just one of those ones that just kind of stuck?

1247
00:57:59,416 --> 00:58:02,500
I mean, I feel like it

1248
00:58:02,500 --> 00:58:05,708
could be in a sense a

1249
00:58:05,750 --> 00:58:10,583
stereotype because even when you, when a lot of,

1250
00:58:10,625 --> 00:58:12,958
I can't tell you how many people

1251
00:58:13,625 --> 00:58:16,708
that I meet in person and they

1252
00:58:16,750 --> 00:58:21,333
want to ask me, did I play basketball?

1253
00:58:21,375 --> 00:58:23,500
Like,

1254
00:58:25,333 --> 00:58:27,333
hands?

1255
00:58:27,333 --> 00:58:30,083
No, I did not play basketball.

1256
00:58:30,125 --> 00:58:33,333
And first of all, I'm not even, it's so weird because

1257
00:58:33,375 --> 00:58:36,000
I don't even consider myself a tall person.

1258
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,541
But then I guess when I look at every

1259
00:58:39,250 --> 00:58:43,500
friend that I have, I am tall.

1260
00:58:43,500 --> 00:58:47,625
And it's so funny because I was going through some of my photos in

1261
00:58:47,625 --> 00:58:49,750
my phone yesterday.

1262
00:58:49,791 --> 00:58:52,166
And I was like, dang.

1263
00:58:52,875 --> 00:58:54,875
I guess I am.

1264
00:58:57,833 --> 00:59:02,916
They always be, even when we take pictures, they always be like, "Arya, you take it?

1265
00:59:02,916 --> 00:59:04,916
You got long arms.

1266
00:59:04,916 --> 00:59:06,958
They literally will say that and it blow.

1267
00:59:06,958 --> 00:59:09,750
It goes right over it goes right over my head.

1268
00:59:09,791 --> 00:59:11,791
I don't think about it.

1269
00:59:11,791 --> 00:59:13,333
Wow.

1270
00:59:13,333 --> 00:59:16,541
Well, the average height for females or what, like 5'2 to 5?

1271
00:59:16,541 --> 00:59:20,375
Yeah, 5'4, something like that.

1272
00:59:20,708 --> 00:59:22,708
Yeah.

1273
00:59:22,708 --> 00:59:25,458
And the average is like 5'7".

1274
00:59:27,583 --> 00:59:29,583
Okay.

1275
00:59:29,583 --> 00:59:31,458
Slightly above average.

1276
00:59:33,666 --> 00:59:36,000
And she running really, really fast in high heels.

1277
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:39,041
So, so it's like, so it's like I'm

1278
00:59:39,041 --> 00:59:41,291
I'm slightly over 5'9".

1279
00:59:41,333 --> 00:59:44,125
So, but I, I'm just like, I'm 5'9".

1280
00:59:44,166 --> 00:59:47,750
But as soon as I throw on heels, it's like, girl, you a giant.

1281
00:59:47,750 --> 00:59:50,208
Just like, 6, 6, yeah.

1282
00:59:50,208 --> 00:59:52,208
Just stop.

1283
00:59:52,208 --> 00:59:56,125
Yeah, you'll be licking down at me.

1284
00:59:56,166 --> 00:59:58,166
I'm like 5'4".

1285
00:59:59,291 --> 01:00:01,291
I'm joking.

1286
01:00:01,291 --> 01:00:03,583
I'm actually 5'10", but, yeah.

1287
01:00:03,583 --> 01:00:05,708
Oh, my God.

1288
01:00:05,750 --> 01:00:07,750
Yeah.

1289
01:00:07,750 --> 01:00:08,708
It's like the the height didn't keep coming.

1290
01:00:08,750 --> 01:00:10,750
I know.

1291
01:00:10,750 --> 01:00:12,583
But that's that's another thing.

1292
01:00:12,583 --> 01:00:15,125
That's another stereotype, too, that like

1293
01:00:15,583 --> 01:00:18,083
black people are tall.

1294
01:00:18,125 --> 01:00:21,125
And what's so funny, one thing that I have noticed

1295
01:00:21,125 --> 01:00:25,416
about some black people is that

1296
01:00:26,500 --> 01:00:29,291
it's not that we're just tall.

1297
01:00:29,333 --> 01:00:31,458
We have extreme.

1298
01:00:31,500 --> 01:00:35,375
And I start started doing paying attention to this, like

1299
01:00:36,583 --> 01:00:40,083
I was obsessed with the fact that I hated

1300
01:00:40,125 --> 01:00:42,250
having such long legs.

1301
01:00:42,291 --> 01:00:45,916
That used to be like a huge thing for me. having long legs.

1302
01:00:45,958 --> 01:00:49,125
And I even used to be like,

1303
01:00:49,125 --> 01:00:51,125
oh, man, long legged freak.

1304
01:00:51,166 --> 01:00:53,625
Like, you know, like that was just me

1305
01:00:54,291 --> 01:00:57,875
And so, um, then I started paying attention.

1306
01:00:57,916 --> 01:01:01,000
I'm like, you know, a lot of black people that

1307
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,041
are tall are nothing but legs.

1308
01:01:04,083 --> 01:01:06,875
Like legitimately nothing but legs.

1309
01:01:06,916 --> 01:01:09,583
Small torso, long legs

1310
01:01:10,333 --> 01:01:13,083
Like, literally, what are those?

1311
01:01:13,083 --> 01:01:15,083
Yeah.

1312
01:01:15,083 --> 01:01:18,583
So getting back to it

1313
01:01:18,583 --> 01:01:20,583
Right?

1314
01:01:20,583 --> 01:01:21,000
With the stereotypes, right?

1315
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,416
Because we do opposite shit.

1316
01:01:22,416 --> 01:01:25,041
If somebody is heavy, heavy in

1317
01:01:25,041 --> 01:01:28,333
the family, you call them like Lightfoot or some shit like that, do y'all do that?

1318
01:01:28,333 --> 01:01:32,875
So we have going back to the tall thing, right?

1319
01:01:32,916 --> 01:01:35,833
So the tallest person in my family

1320
01:01:36,125 --> 01:01:40,000
to date is about six foot six.

1321
01:01:40,041 --> 01:01:43,500
You know what his name is, right?

1322
01:01:43,541 --> 01:01:45,666
Lil.

1323
01:01:45,666 --> 01:01:51,000
It's always, always that get that nickname.

1324
01:01:51,500 --> 01:01:53,500
Always.

1325
01:01:53,500 --> 01:01:54,791
This motherfucker is the tallest person in the family.

1326
01:01:54,791 --> 01:01:59,500
I'm like, bro, if y'all don't drop the lid off this man's name, like, ain't nothing.

1327
01:01:59,541 --> 01:02:01,541
He the tallest person in the family.

1328
01:02:01,541 --> 01:02:03,083
How the hell are you calling him Lil?

1329
01:02:03,083 --> 01:02:04,666
He is not Lil.

1330
01:02:04,666 --> 01:02:06,166
He like Lil What is his name?

1331
01:02:06,166 --> 01:02:07,916
Lil Man?

1332
01:02:07,916 --> 01:02:09,583
Like He is not Lil.

1333
01:02:09,583 --> 01:02:11,333
Lil Quint is the name, actually.

1334
01:02:11,333 --> 01:02:13,000
You know what I'm saying?

1335
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,125
But it's like, because obviously my uncle has

1336
01:02:15,125 --> 01:02:17,458
the same name, so you got Big and then Lil But.

1337
01:02:17,500 --> 01:02:19,833
Lil, it's taller than Big Quint.

1338
01:02:19,833 --> 01:02:24,375
So we was like, you can't keep that man, just call him Q, call him whatever, you know what I'm saying?

1339
01:02:24,375 --> 01:02:26,375
Right, right, right.

1340
01:02:26,375 --> 01:02:28,625
Lil got to get dropped out out of the conversation.

1341
01:02:28,625 --> 01:02:30,625
You know what I'm saying?

1342
01:02:30,625 --> 01:02:32,208
Like Like I said, you have somebody heavy in the family, call them Lightfoot.

1343
01:02:32,250 --> 01:02:36,291
What Lightfoot is, we good at doing shit like that.

1344
01:02:36,333 --> 01:02:39,750
Like going back to nicknames, you know what I'm saying?

1345
01:02:39,750 --> 01:02:41,750
It's like.

1346
01:02:41,750 --> 01:02:42,291
Calling you what you look like.

1347
01:02:42,291 --> 01:02:44,041
Exactly.

1348
01:02:44,041 --> 01:02:47,458
You imprinted on me because whatever you thought about me is what you put on me.

1349
01:02:47,500 --> 01:02:49,625
And then I'm supposed to carry this for the rest of my life.

1350
01:02:49,625 --> 01:02:51,833
That is a stereotype that I cannot say.

1351
01:02:51,875 --> 01:02:53,875
You know what I'm saying?

1352
01:02:53,875 --> 01:02:55,000
So it's like at some point we got to

1353
01:02:55,333 --> 01:02:59,583
have that come to Jesus meeting and we're going to have to get over this right here.

1354
01:02:59,583 --> 01:03:00,625
You know what I mean?

1355
01:03:00,625 --> 01:03:02,208
That's funny.

1356
01:03:02,208 --> 01:03:05,541
So we're going to take it a little bit broader now.

1357
01:03:05,541 --> 01:03:08,541
So if you've ever traveled, one of

1358
01:03:08,541 --> 01:03:11,625
the things that I've noticed is that going

1359
01:03:11,666 --> 01:03:15,375
out of country, a lot of people people do not like Americans

1360
01:03:16,125 --> 01:03:18,125
They're loud and we're arrogant.

1361
01:03:18,125 --> 01:03:21,458
What do you think about that stereotype?

1362
01:03:21,458 --> 01:03:24,458
You know, it's

1363
01:03:24,458 --> 01:03:26,541
so interesting because

1364
01:03:27,750 --> 01:03:30,750
I and I think it's because

1365
01:03:30,750 --> 01:03:33,083
I'm just a different type of person.

1366
01:03:33,083 --> 01:03:36,583
Like, I naturally just gravitates

1367
01:03:36,625 --> 01:03:40,333
toward people or people gravitate toward me.

1368
01:03:40,333 --> 01:03:42,333
And so

1369
01:03:42,333 --> 01:03:44,750
anywhere that I've gone in the country out of the

1370
01:03:44,791 --> 01:03:50,833
country, I've never had it where they would like badmouth Americans.

1371
01:03:50,833 --> 01:03:53,041
They would be like, oh, you're American.

1372
01:03:53,083 --> 01:03:55,333
And I'm, and I'm just like, you know, yeah.

1373
01:03:55,333 --> 01:03:57,791
And they, you know, oh, where you from?

1374
01:03:57,791 --> 01:03:59,791
And blah, blah, where'd you live?

1375
01:03:59,791 --> 01:04:01,791
you know, you like it.

1376
01:04:01,791 --> 01:04:04,958
And I'm like, oh, I'm near the beach, you know, and I'll have those kind of conversations,

1377
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,333
but they usually kind of leave it at that.

1378
01:04:07,333 --> 01:04:10,625
I've never experienced someone that's like,

1379
01:04:11,541 --> 01:04:14,541
or even overheard someone in another country

1380
01:04:14,541 --> 01:04:18,833
talking about Americans like that, which is crazy because

1381
01:04:18,875 --> 01:04:25,458
opposite of actually experiencing it, I have online

1382
01:04:26,125 --> 01:04:28,125
heard of those things.

1383
01:04:28,125 --> 01:04:30,125
You know what I'm saying?

1384
01:04:30,125 --> 01:04:32,125
So and I, because I

1385
01:04:32,125 --> 01:04:35,875
remember, there were people who

1386
01:04:35,916 --> 01:04:39,125
were saying like Irish people didn't like

1387
01:04:39,166 --> 01:04:41,958
Americans or Europeans don't like

1388
01:04:43,541 --> 01:04:45,541
you know, Americans and things of that nation.

1389
01:04:45,541 --> 01:04:48,208
I'm like, that's scary.

1390
01:04:48,208 --> 01:04:51,208
Because I'm like, one day I'm going to want

1391
01:04:51,208 --> 01:04:53,875
to go out there and I go out there.

1392
01:04:54,750 --> 01:04:57,375
Like I said..

1393
01:04:57,375 --> 01:04:59,375
Right.

1394
01:04:59,375 --> 01:05:01,583
Like I said, it's all about that stereotype because they see

1395
01:05:01,583 --> 01:05:03,666
us as being loud and arrogant.

1396
01:05:03,708 --> 01:05:06,750
And when we go there, a lot of times

1397
01:05:06,750 --> 01:05:09,625
our people do, we do.

1398
01:05:09,625 --> 01:05:11,625
You got to call a spade a spade.

1399
01:05:11,666 --> 01:05:14,041
We are loud and sometimes we are arrogant.

1400
01:05:14,083 --> 01:05:16,750
A lot of times we are arrogant to say how it is.

1401
01:05:17,500 --> 01:05:21,000
But because of that, people

1402
01:05:21,041 --> 01:05:26,000
don't like to deal with us, especially at restaurants and things of that nature.

1403
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,000
You know what I'm saying?

1404
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,125
Where anything in service, let's just do it that way.

1405
01:05:30,166 --> 01:05:34,583
Anything that's in service, we get demand the best and the fastest and the quickest.

1406
01:05:34,583 --> 01:05:39,166
And folks, like, you got to sit back and you got to wait or we're going to get this or we're going to get that.

1407
01:05:39,208 --> 01:05:41,208
But we want it now.

1408
01:05:41,208 --> 01:05:44,541
And that is the American mentality is I want it right now..

1409
01:05:44,541 --> 01:05:46,541
I don't I don't want to wait

1410
01:05:46,541 --> 01:05:50,458
And unfortunately, that one is also a true stereotype.

1411
01:05:50,500 --> 01:05:55,416
I've been to Korea and it's like...

1412
01:05:55,416 --> 01:05:57,416
I mean, it's like that here.

1413
01:05:57,416 --> 01:05:58,708
You don't even have to leave the country.

1414
01:05:58,708 --> 01:06:00,333
It's like that here.

1415
01:06:00,333 --> 01:06:02,666
Everybody is in a rush to do everything.

1416
01:06:02,666 --> 01:06:04,916
Like I was just mentioning the driving, like

1417
01:06:05,250 --> 01:06:07,250
driving so fast fast.

1418
01:06:07,250 --> 01:06:09,125
Like, it's crazy.

1419
01:06:09,125 --> 01:06:12,250
I see people because I'm on the roads early in the morning.

1420
01:06:12,250 --> 01:06:14,250
And I get it.

1421
01:06:14,250 --> 01:06:15,000
The rows are empty.

1422
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:17,666
But just because the rows are empty doesn't mean you have to speak.

1423
01:06:17,666 --> 01:06:20,458
And then it's even worse when the roads aren't empty

1424
01:06:20,958 --> 01:06:24,458
in they're packed and you're still speeding.

1425
01:06:24,500 --> 01:06:28,750
And it and for some reason, this is a slightly off topic.

1426
01:06:28,750 --> 01:06:33,458
Well, for some reason, I always feel like there is never a cop around

1427
01:06:34,208 --> 01:06:36,708
when a cop should actually be around.

1428
01:06:36,750 --> 01:06:39,750
I'd be like, man, I wish

1429
01:06:39,750 --> 01:06:42,666
I was a cop to pull you over.

1430
01:06:42,708 --> 01:06:44,833
I wish I was a cop.

1431
01:06:44,833 --> 01:06:47,041
I have witnessed one time

1432
01:06:47,708 --> 01:06:51,125
one time out of all the years I've been driving,

1433
01:06:51,166 --> 01:06:55,041
I've witnessed one time when there was a convenient

1434
01:06:55,041 --> 01:06:58,500
cop around because we were all stopped

1435
01:06:59,500 --> 01:07:01,500
It was a red light.

1436
01:07:01,500 --> 01:07:05,291
And then, the

1437
01:07:05,291 --> 01:07:09,125
light turned green and there's four lanes.

1438
01:07:09,166 --> 01:07:11,166
There's two to turn

1439
01:07:11,500 --> 01:07:14,541
and there's two, there's one to go straight and

1440
01:07:14,541 --> 01:07:17,000
then one can go straight straight or right.

1441
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:21,291
This person was in the third lane.

1442
01:07:22,416 --> 01:07:25,750
They jump over everybody that

1443
01:07:25,750 --> 01:07:27,958
was in the two third lane.

1444
01:07:29,916 --> 01:07:31,916
to turn.

1445
01:07:31,916 --> 01:07:34,083
And they didn't see that the cop was sitting at the

1446
01:07:34,125 --> 01:07:37,458
far left lane, so they cut the cop off too.

1447
01:07:38,958 --> 01:07:41,500
and the cop pulled him over.

1448
01:07:41,541 --> 01:07:44,208
I was like, hallelujah.

1449
01:07:44,250 --> 01:07:47,250
A carpet is finally where they need

1450
01:07:47,250 --> 01:07:49,375
to be, when they need to be there.

1451
01:07:49,416 --> 01:07:51,416
Right.

1452
01:07:51,416 --> 01:07:53,250
You know Because I'm like, bro, you literally just cut off two

1453
01:07:53,250 --> 01:07:56,958
lanes of traffic so that way you can beat a light.

1454
01:07:56,958 --> 01:07:58,958
That's crazy

1455
01:07:58,958 --> 01:08:00,291
Crazy.

1456
01:08:00,291 --> 01:08:03,000
Where you want to rush to go to.

1457
01:08:03,041 --> 01:08:05,041
Slow down.

1458
01:08:06,458 --> 01:08:09,958
Any funny thing, I be seeing folks doing that,

1459
01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:13,333
driving all crazy, cutting folks off, zigging and zagging,

1460
01:08:13,333 --> 01:08:17,208
bbing and weaving through traffic, and then stop at down McDonald's.

1461
01:08:18,166 --> 01:08:21,166
No, you know what's funny to me is when

1462
01:08:21,166 --> 01:08:24,208
they're doing all of that and still end up behind you.

1463
01:08:24,208 --> 01:08:26,208
Right.

1464
01:08:26,208 --> 01:08:27,041
Right.

1465
01:08:27,041 --> 01:08:28,416
That part.

1466
01:08:28,416 --> 01:08:29,166
But they do.

1467
01:08:29,166 --> 01:08:31,958
I was like, bro, you still behind me.

1468
01:08:31,958 --> 01:08:33,958
You had to get behind me?

1469
01:08:33,958 --> 01:08:35,208
You did all of that

1470
01:08:35,208 --> 01:08:38,666
Bobing and weav and going through through the traffic, and now you behind me.

1471
01:08:38,666 --> 01:08:42,125
How did that how did that happen?

1472
01:08:42,166 --> 01:08:44,416
Either behind me or right on the side of me.

1473
01:08:44,416 --> 01:08:48,000
I love when they're on the side of me or if I can get on the side of them.

1474
01:08:48,041 --> 01:08:50,583
I'm always like looking at them from the surface.

1475
01:08:52,166 --> 01:08:56,333
You did all had to be at the same red light that we're all still at.

1476
01:08:56,375 --> 01:08:58,375
We're all still at the same red light.

1477
01:08:58,375 --> 01:09:02,750
At the same damn time. coincident.

1478
01:09:02,791 --> 01:09:04,791
What a coincidence.

1479
01:09:06,375 --> 01:09:08,375
Oh, my God.

1480
01:09:08,375 --> 01:09:11,916
So it's just been, it's it's crazy.

1481
01:09:11,916 --> 01:09:16,291
But going back to, you know what I'm saying, America's being arrogant things of that nature.

1482
01:09:16,291 --> 01:09:19,916
And we've seen, even on social media right now, you know what I'm saying?

1483
01:09:19,958 --> 01:09:21,958
Like, especially like places like Dubai

1484
01:09:22,458 --> 01:09:24,958
where they don't play, they don't play that shit.

1485
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:28,083
Like, and then you find out folks

1486
01:09:28,125 --> 01:09:33,208
doing years because you couldn't control your mouth and things of that nature.

1487
01:09:33,208 --> 01:09:36,625
I remember being in the airport in Atlanta.

1488
01:09:38,250 --> 01:09:43,708
And I see the TSA agent and an actual police officer.

1489
01:09:43,708 --> 01:09:46,750
And then you got this woman with the slow

1490
01:09:46,750 --> 01:09:51,416
scroll, and she got the police officer's jacket over her shoulders

1491
01:09:51,458 --> 01:09:53,833
and everything, but you don't see her hands in the front.

1492
01:09:55,041 --> 01:09:57,041
Or she cuffed.

1493
01:09:57,041 --> 01:09:58,291
She handcuffeduffed.

1494
01:09:58,291 --> 01:10:00,541
And they put they just put the

1495
01:10:00,583 --> 01:10:04,833
jacket over her shoulders to, and you know you know it was one of our sisters.

1496
01:10:05,833 --> 01:10:07,833
Man in there, you know what I'm saying?

1497
01:10:07,833 --> 01:10:10,875
Just loud andnoxious for no reason.

1498
01:10:10,875 --> 01:10:12,875
And, you know what I'm saying?

1499
01:10:12,875 --> 01:10:14,458
Entitled.

1500
01:10:14,458 --> 01:10:16,416
And there's certain things that, it's certain words that

1501
01:10:16,458 --> 01:10:18,708
you just cannot say at an airport.

1502
01:10:18,750 --> 01:10:22,333
It's certain conduct that you you just cannot do in an airport.

1503
01:10:22,333 --> 01:10:24,333
Right.

1504
01:10:24,333 --> 01:10:25,250
You know what I'm saying?

1505
01:10:25,250 --> 01:10:26,375
Like, yeah

1506
01:10:26,375 --> 01:10:28,416
But yeah, she was doing a slow scroll.

1507
01:10:28,458 --> 01:10:32,416
She was walking behind the police officer, but she was doing that slow scroll.

1508
01:10:32,416 --> 01:10:35,458
And it's just like, we have to watch what we do and watch what we say

1509
01:10:35,500 --> 01:10:39,333
because not all the stereotypes that they say about us is actual stereotypes.

1510
01:10:39,333 --> 01:10:41,333
We actually do some of this shit.

1511
01:10:41,333 --> 01:10:42,875
You know what I'm saying?

1512
01:10:42,875 --> 01:10:43,916
And a lot of times people don't want to accept that

1513
01:10:44,666 --> 01:10:49,583
But it's all about, like I said, being here, we're real and authentic.

1514
01:10:49,583 --> 01:10:54,000
So we're going to call spades spades and we're not going to trickle coat certain things.

1515
01:10:54,041 --> 01:10:57,208
Sometimes we harden our own situations

1516
01:10:57,208 --> 01:11:01,250
just because of we fall victim to that stereotype

1517
01:11:01,291 --> 01:11:03,625
mentality and we actually live up to it.

1518
01:11:03,916 --> 01:11:08,833
So at times, you just have to reprogram,

1519
01:11:08,833 --> 01:11:12,875
write a different code, I guess you could say, and understand that

1520
01:11:14,125 --> 01:11:16,125
everything is is not cool.

1521
01:11:16,125 --> 01:11:18,791
Everything is not, not coesthetic, you know?

1522
01:11:21,083 --> 01:11:25,208
Another thing, this is one that I get a lot.

1523
01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:28,250
Because again, I am prior

1524
01:11:28,291 --> 01:11:31,166
military retirement military, disabled veteran.

1525
01:11:31,166 --> 01:11:33,166
So I have plates.

1526
01:11:33,166 --> 01:11:34,625
I actually have disabled plates.

1527
01:11:34,625 --> 01:11:38,000
I get, as y'all call it, Princess Parking, everywhere.

1528
01:11:38,375 --> 01:11:40,375
Right?

1529
01:11:40,375 --> 01:11:42,583
So.. most times I won't take advantage

1530
01:11:42,583 --> 01:11:46,000
of it if the parking lot is full or, you know what I'm saying, I'm

1531
01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:50,666
going in and coming out real quick, I might, you know what I'm saying, just park up front and keep it moving.

1532
01:11:50,666 --> 01:11:52,666
Mm.

1533
01:11:52,666 --> 01:11:56,291
On this particular day, I don't know if I told this story, but I was going to the beach one day.

1534
01:11:56,291 --> 01:11:58,291
It was me and

1535
01:11:58,291 --> 01:12:00,333
some couple of people that I was with.

1536
01:12:00,375 --> 01:12:02,375
So we get out the car.

1537
01:12:02,375 --> 01:12:05,500
And then we have this family

1538
01:12:05,541 --> 01:12:09,666
that walked by saying stuff underneath the breath.

1539
01:12:09,708 --> 01:12:11,791
Well, the guy wasn't very,

1540
01:12:13,208 --> 01:12:15,583
the women were low.

1541
01:12:15,625 --> 01:12:17,625
He was loud and vocal.

1542
01:12:17,625 --> 01:12:20,666
So I

1543
01:12:20,666 --> 01:12:23,166
guess parking comes at a premium now.

1544
01:12:24,208 --> 01:12:27,625
You don't look handicapped to me.

1545
01:12:30,166 --> 01:12:34,291
So, you know, and

1546
01:12:34,291 --> 01:12:37,583
me, man, falling into my stereotypes.

1547
01:12:37,583 --> 01:12:40,041
Very short temp.

1548
01:12:41,125 --> 01:12:43,375
I told you, I'm quick with them.

1549
01:12:43,416 --> 01:12:48,000
So if you st one at me, it's coming back fast, but they come in the rabbit fire.

1550
01:12:48,041 --> 01:12:51,041
So the first one, you said, I

1551
01:12:51,041 --> 01:12:55,875
guess parking comes out a premium, I guess being a privileged asshole is still free.

1552
01:12:56,375 --> 01:12:59,250
That part.

1553
01:12:59,250 --> 01:13:02,333
You don't look handicapped to

1554
01:13:02,375 --> 01:13:04,708
me, and you don't look like a fucking doctor to me.

1555
01:13:04,708 --> 01:13:07,708
And if you are, what school did you

1556
01:13:07,708 --> 01:13:10,916
go to that teaches you how to diagnose diagnose somebody

1557
01:13:10,958 --> 01:13:13,333
without actually seeing their chart?

1558
01:13:13,333 --> 01:13:15,333
Mm hmm.

1559
01:13:15,333 --> 01:13:17,541
You should be saving lives somewhere.

1560
01:13:17,541 --> 01:13:20,333
I mean, I'm so quick with them, bro..

1561
01:13:20,375 --> 01:13:22,833
Hey, ladies, y'all smell that?

1562
01:13:22,833 --> 01:13:24,833
That's.

1563
01:13:24,833 --> 01:13:26,750
That frequence is jealousy.

1564
01:13:26,750 --> 01:13:28,208
I didn't know they made it for me, though.

1565
01:13:28,208 --> 01:13:30,000
Well, I'm talking like, I'm going in on the dude.

1566
01:13:30,041 --> 01:13:32,041
Like I'm Wow.

1567
01:13:32,041 --> 01:13:33,208
Rapid fire.

1568
01:13:33,208 --> 01:13:35,750
Rapid fire to the point where he just...

1569
01:13:35,791 --> 01:13:38,833
I'm colored, but you

1570
01:13:38,833 --> 01:13:42,125
changed different colors. couple two, three times.

1571
01:13:42,166 --> 01:13:44,166
You know what I'm saying?

1572
01:13:44,166 --> 01:13:45,333
A Couple two, three times.

1573
01:13:45,333 --> 01:13:47,208
I don't say what I had to say.

1574
01:13:47,208 --> 01:13:48,458
You don't went from being one complexion to

1575
01:13:49,166 --> 01:13:52,625
yeah, you were red by the time I was finished. as

1576
01:13:52,666 --> 01:13:57,083
you're walking and now I'm walking behind you and I'm still keep it going because that's just how I am.

1577
01:13:57,083 --> 01:13:59,083
You know what I'm saying?

1578
01:13:59,083 --> 01:13:59,791
I don't star shit, but.

1579
01:14:00,208 --> 01:14:02,208
don't finish it.

1580
01:14:02,208 --> 01:14:03,291
You shouldn't have fucking with me.

1581
01:14:03,291 --> 01:14:04,666
Should have kept it lit.

1582
01:14:04,666 --> 01:14:05,625
You know what I'm saying?

1583
01:14:05,625 --> 01:14:06,166
Just kept it moving.

1584
01:14:06,166 --> 01:14:08,000
And everything would have been coposthetic.

1585
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:10,000
But no.

1586
01:14:10,458 --> 01:14:12,458
So, yeah, that's one of the things.

1587
01:14:12,458 --> 01:14:14,083
Yeah.

1588
01:14:14,083 --> 01:14:14,333
Do we have quick tempers?

1589
01:14:14,333 --> 01:14:15,458
Yes, sometimes.

1590
01:14:15,458 --> 01:14:16,375
In other times, you know what I'm saying?

1591
01:14:16,375 --> 01:14:18,833
I can look at you and be like, that shit ain't even worth my time.

1592
01:14:18,875 --> 01:14:21,250
Not even working my time.

1593
01:14:21,250 --> 01:14:24,291
So, but yeah, that is a few

1594
01:14:24,333 --> 01:14:27,333
stereotypes that we do fall into, you know what I'm saying?

1595
01:14:27,333 --> 01:14:30,750
And I can honestly admit that I do it from time to time.

1596
01:14:30,750 --> 01:14:32,750
Right.

1597
01:14:32,750 --> 01:14:33,708
You know, it is what it is.

1598
01:14:34,666 --> 01:14:37,041
You want to get it?

1599
01:14:37,041 --> 01:14:39,041
Absolutely.

1600
01:14:39,041 --> 01:14:40,500
You know what I'm saying?

1601
01:14:40,500 --> 01:14:42,583
Well, this has been another episode

1602
01:14:42,583 --> 01:14:46,166
of All in One, where we keep it real, we keep it authentic.

1603
01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:50,083
Thank you guys for coming out, Kicking it with us.

1604
01:14:50,125 --> 01:14:52,375
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1605
01:14:52,416 --> 01:14:55,166
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1606
01:14:55,166 --> 01:14:57,916
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1607
01:14:57,916 --> 01:15:01,000
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1608
01:15:01,041 --> 01:15:03,041
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1609
01:15:03,041 --> 01:15:03,666
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1610
01:15:03,666 --> 01:15:05,625
We're all in

1611
01:15:05,625 --> 01:15:06,958
We're all in one.

1612
01:15:06,958 --> 01:15:08,166
Catch you on the next one.

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