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Stereotypes Exposed: The Real Talk They Don’t Want You to Have | ALL IN ONE: Real & Authentic Podcast

October 12, 2025 • AIO REAL AND AUTHENTIC • Season 1 • Episode 9

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Stereotypes Exposed | The Real Talk They Don’t Want You to Have — ALL IN ONE: Real & Authentic

Ever been labeled before anyone even knew your story? In this explosive and unfiltered episode, Arya and Unc dismantle stereotypes that society, family, and culture still refuse to talk about. From being judged by appearance to the unspoken rules of identity, this conversation is about breaking free from boxes and redefining what real and authentic truly means.

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Welcome to All in one, ladies and gentlemen.

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This is the podcast where we keep it real, we keep it authentic.

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Tonight we're going to jump right into the subject.

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We're talking about stereotypes, so let's get right to it.

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All right., so

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I would say like, there

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are definitely a lot of different

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stereotypes, even within our own community community.

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Like even if we don't think about other communities, like in the black communities

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from my experience, there are just so

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many stereotypes that I grew up watching

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that I didn't even realize was a thing until as I got older and

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people would be like, we're taking your black card away.

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I don't even think I own a black black card anymore.

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So it's

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been taken away so many times because I don't

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get so many references.

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But then I like go online and I watch videos and

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I'm like, but I understand that.

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You know, like coming home, you know, with the street lights on.

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Like, I get that.

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I was in that, in that roomm.

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And I don't know if that's a like

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a black thing or a white thing or it

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was just like, this is what we were doing in the 70s and the 80s and 90s, you know.

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And then all of that just went away with this new generation.

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So I did that.

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I do, I do know,

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like, one, especially being,

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especially marrying, like, into

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a white culture family

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Like my my culture is pretty much mixed,

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but when you go diving directly

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into that type of family, one thing that I I

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know notice so much of is like the closeness

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of a black family versus a white family.

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I'm like, y'all don't don't have family reunions.

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Like, why you'all don't have no family reunions?

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And like, I' was like, y'all don't love each other.

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Like, it's literally, it's just the

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immediate family when it comes to a lot of white families that I've encountered with.

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Even my white friends.

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Like, it's just

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them.

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Like, there's, they, it's like they don't have a cousin.

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Like, how do you want to have a cousin cousin?

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Like, where are your cousins there?

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Because where I grew up, cousins were everywhere.

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Your cousin lived down the street.

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You got a cousin up the street, around the corner.

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You always at your cousin's house.

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Like, that's what it was.

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It was like, oh, where are you?

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I'm going to my cousin's house.

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Oh, what y'all doing this weekend?

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Are we going to be at my cousin's house?

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Like, it was just that.

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You played with your cousin.

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You were always hanging out with your cousins, and y'all have family reunions.

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Like, I don't understand why white people don't have cousins.

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Like, y'all ain't got no sisters

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and brothers that had babies.

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And then y'all was related.

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Like, Dudeo's people not exist.

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Like, I'm literally trying to figure that out.

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I don't know why.

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It's just so weird to me that, you know, that dynamic.

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I literally, the guy I'm like talking to or whatever

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he was like, oh, I'm hanging out with my cousins.

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I was like, oh, y'all got a cousin?

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You got a cousin?

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For real?

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Like,

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I was like, really shocked.

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Because like ain't never, ever, ever, ever, ever

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heard white people talk about cousins because they don't exist.

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They just don't exist.

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Right.

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And I think about it in our culture is like, like you said, our

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cousins are, hell, our first friends.

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like, those are the ones that you, you come up around,

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you play with, you fight with, the whole nine yards, you know what I'm saying?

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It's like,

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at least for me, my cousins, man, or everything for

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me growing up, you know, like, the

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jokes and everything, you know, like I said, we called it cracking back in the day, you know what I'm saying

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And now you're roasting, folks

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or whatever the case, but it's like, same thing.

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We grew up with that.

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The family, like quit comebacks.

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So it's like, my whole family, if you do not, if you're sensitive,

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we ain't the ones that you want to start joking with.

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like, we would go deep and we're going to cut.

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We're going to cut deep.

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And it's going to be funny as hell.

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And.

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So, yeah, that's one of our stereotypes.

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I know for certain, like, with us

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For me, you know, I grew up my profession.

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Let's do it that way.

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So my profession was in cybersecurity, MIT.

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And the buildings and some of the places

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that I worked in were, you know, I literally was the minority.

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and everybody knows how to do your job better than you

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I remember going over one time and I was helping

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somebody else with an issue that they were having,

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they couldn't log into a system for whatever reasons, whatever the case, right?

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So I go over, I look at

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the computer and everything and I look at it and I'm like, hey, ah, shit, you don't need me.

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You just need to change it to the clock.

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And then somebody from behind me

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is like, I don't think that's going to work.

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So, you know, I'm leaking at everybody

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knows how to do your job better than you.

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So, and I'm talking like we were going

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back and forth to the point where I literally

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just got tired of it and just started going in on this person

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like jabs, though.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, I was like, oh, are you signal?

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You know how to do IT?

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It's like, no, but I got a master's degree.

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Yeah, me too.

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With a 4.0 GPA.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Did he taste more some other crazy shit?

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Actually, what he said to me was like, nah

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I'm not IT, but I use a computer every day.

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I'm like, I drive a car every day, but that doesn't make me a mechanic.

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Now does it

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You know, like my comeback's real quick.

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But it kept going from there.

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It's like the dude wouldn't let up.

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So then he came

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out to the point where he was talking about he has a master's degree.

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And I'm like, hell, me too with a 4.0 GPA

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You know what I'm saying?

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As if to say, you're not smarter than me.

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Stop it.

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But everybody knows your job

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better than you, especially if you're black and OT.

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They just naturally assume you don't know anything.

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And it came to the point where I told that motherfucker that, look,

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bro, I'm certain I've forgotten more about IT than you actually fucking

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know.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, you keep coming at me, like, stop.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, I'm telling you how to fix it.

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Toe to do what to do.

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And then he's telling me it's not going to work.

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And of course, dude does what I tell him to do

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And you know me.

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And I got to stick it in a twist on you.

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And this is why I do IT and you do

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whatever the fuck it is that you do.

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And I walked on.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Because it's it'd be those type of situations where it's like,

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and I and I'm imagining that you're having those same type of issues being an educator

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you know, where other

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teachers may feel that they know more or whatever the case or that

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your style of teaching is not adequate or whatever the case.

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I mean, however it may be.

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So, I mean, when I'm playing for right now will come back around for a circle on it, though.

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I think too, like, there

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are just some, there are some negative stereotypes

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that carry out, especially for like,

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black women when it comes to specific subjects.

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And science is one of those

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you know, and it's almost,

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it's almost like, oh, you teach science.

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Like, why are you into science?

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And like, how'd you get into science?

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That's weird.

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You know, it's like, no, actually, it's not weird, you know.

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It's just like any other person with any other, you know, idea.

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We have women that are doing all kinds

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black women specifically, are doing all kinds of jobs now.

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We have black women that are astronauts.

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We have black women that are scientists.

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We have black women that are veterinarians and biologists

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and in every realm of science.

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it's like, what do you mean?

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Where have you?

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My question would be, where have you been?

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Like, that you didn't know that there were black women out here that are doing this?

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And it's always

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like, oh, I'm always like, you know, what do you want me to do?

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What do you think I'm supposed to do?

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Like, I want to know what is the average black woman, quote unquote, job is?

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Like, explain to me what that is, you know, because I would love to know.

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You think I'm supposed to be walking around doing hair all day?

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Is that what you think?

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I'm supposed to be in cocontology

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or I'm supposed to be home there foot and pregnant?

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Like, is that what I'm supposed to do?

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You know?

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And so some of those I don't like.

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Some of those I don't like.

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Right.

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I'm with you on that one.

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So my ex, she actually had a PhD

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And one of the things for her is like she would always put a title on anything.

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It didn't matter what it was.

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She could have ordered a pizza.

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And this has actually happened once, you know what I'm saying?

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Oh, my God.

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She ordered a pizza, it came to the house.

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There was this elderly Caucasian

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woman that was delivering the pizza.

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And then she's like, well, I'm looking for doctor

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song-so-so, right?

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And I'm like, and then she's like, is this the location?

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I was like, yo, this is it.

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And she's looking around like, well, where's Dr. So-so-so?

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You looking for somebody else.

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Like, so then I called my ex,

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Like, you know what I'm saying?

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Like, come to the door because apparently she doesn't believe this pizza

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is for this black person.

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And, you know what I'm saying with the title of Doctor.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, I guess if we're a doctor, we're Dr. Dre or Dr. Pepper or some type shit, you know what I'm saying?

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It's like

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like, we can't have education too.

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We we can't, I mean, let's be real, you know,

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it's not, and I'm not trying to turn this into a race thing or anything at that nature.

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I'm just saying that these types of stereotypes actually happen.

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and they fall on deaf ears and eyes sometimes, you know, blind eyes.

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And it's like, we can't be this

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naive that we don't seem to think that people people can ascend or get passion

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things.

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Another stereotype for me is Kool-Aid.

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Oh, my goodness.

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So, um.

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And it's not just the flavored drink.

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It's more or less the quote that goes along with it.

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You need to drink the Kool-Aid.

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Ooh, that got on my skin in certain environments.

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Because, you know, it's like of

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all the racist ass shit you could have said to me.

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So for me, personally, I don't drink Kool-Aid.

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I don't drink coffee, but you know what I'm saying?

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It's like, for whatever reasons

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that phrase, you know what I'm saying?

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Like when somebody's trying to get you to manipulate you and to

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get you to buy into something that they're actually doing, they tell you that you need to drink and poule.

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And, man, I don't know why.

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I do not know why.

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it triggered me to the point where,

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you know, it was just, I would have to say something.

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Right.

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It's like, and that's just been one of the things I'm vocal.

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Yeah.

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But also another thing is

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like black people with attitudes and things of that nature.

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Oh, man, I have so many stories.

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This right here could go on forever.

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That one.

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But I remember being in Virginia,

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actually, and I was at the grocery store.

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I'm coming down one way.

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and I'm not going to call out her name, but this lady was coming down

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from the other side with her cart.

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I got a little basket.

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You know what I'm saying?

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I'm only picking up a couple things.

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So as you see me get ready to turn onto

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this aisle, you decided to speed up,

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cut me off, and then walk maybe

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three, four feet into the aisle and then just stop.

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Literally just stop.

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Just like, I guess I was in your way.

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I, you know what I'm saying?

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Technically, I have to write away.

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But at the same time, it's like, and I was on the phone at the time.

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And this is one of the things that came out for me at this point

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It's like people are quick to judge other

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people based upon a reaction that happened, but they never take

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into account their action

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had you not speeded up to cut me

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off, I would have made that turn and kept going.

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But instead, you turned and stopped in front of

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me, and of course, people come to the other direction. direction.

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So now I'm sitting here waiting and I'm mad

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not mad, mad, upset, mad, but mad enough that I'm going to say something.

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I'm not, I'm passive aggressive at this point.

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I'm already on the phone.

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It's like, boy, people always talk about

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how, you know what I'm saying, Black people are always doing this and that, and they quit the anger.

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They never take into account their actions.

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But if I say something, then I'm the angry black man.

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Mm hmm.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Not that you' the privileged person that just had to cut me off, even though you saw me coming.

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You couldn't wait three seconds for me to turn and then go, but

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it's my fault because I said something, not your acc. that you cut me off and then stopped.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, it'd be stuff like that and just kind of get onto my skin.

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It's like, can we all just get a loan?

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we just treat people with the same dignity

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and respect, then that wouldn't be so much turmoil in the world.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like people can get along

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Another thing that I was just talking to one of my homeboys

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day before yesterday, actually.

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And we were talking about, we're all military.

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So we were talking about being in certain environments

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and how certain people tell certain jokes

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and those jokes are inappropriate.

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And then he told me the joke.

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And I started laughing.

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He was like, wait, man, you can't be laughing at that.

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I'm like, why not?

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This shit was funny.

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He was like, nah, it was racist.

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It had a sense of racism on it, but then I brought it back full circle.

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So basically, he was saying that

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there was this Asian person in the office and

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they had children in the office with him.

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I mind you, military, no don't have children in the office

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So somebody, one of the officers that was in charge came

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out of the office and started asking who kids these were.

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And then somebody said something, and then

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he was like, oh, I thought you was about to start up a sweatshop or something.

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Like they was working in your basement type shit.

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Oh.

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Get in now.

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I still laughing.

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The shit's funny to me.

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You know what I'm saying?

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And then he's like, bro, that shit was insensitive.

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You can't do that.

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And I was like, bruh, I'm thinking back about Dave Chappelle and

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and the little things that he had and he was talking about, I think it

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was an episode where he was talking about he got with Oprah or something

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and he started talking about his shoes and everything like that everybody talking about these shoes, just that the third.

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Like, nah, I got my own sweatsh.

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And then he opened up.

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You know what I'm saying?

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These Asian women in that work, this shit was funny.

348
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You know what I'm saying?

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I laugh at things that are funny.

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I get it.

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I can understand that it is offensive to other people.

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You know what I'm saying?

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And then from that, that turned into the conversation about how

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I follow these guys on TikTok.

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Black guy, white guy.

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Funny as hell.

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You know what I'm saying?

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You can tell they've been best friends all their life.

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So it's one of those, my best friend is black.

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Of course he's late to, you know what I'm saying?

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You know what I'm saying?

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Whatever he saying.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, my, you know what I'm saying?

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My friend is white, da, da, da.

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And then some of the things like, for instance, one of the jokes I

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was told was my best friend is black.

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Of course she stood in the line for hours to get a new pair of shoes

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And then the black guy was like, I still in the line for you.

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He was like, yeah, but you still still in there.

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That's funny.

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Right.

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That's's funny.

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You know what I'm saying?

375
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It's comedy.

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You know what I'm saying?

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I just feel like some people just get uptight real quick about, you know what I'm saying?

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Things that could just be easily brushed off.

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But again, I get it.

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It's

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we got certain things because if you drop an end bomb,

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the whole situation just changed, especially if I don't know, especially if I don't know you like that.

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Oh my God.

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I just saw a video with the guy that did that,

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set up the whole like inword

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like back and forth with his friend.

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And it said, when you hire your black friend

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to use the N-word, so it was a white guy and

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a black guy there' having a conversation, but then there's a black guy standing next to the

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white guy and the black guy was like, you owe me money.

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When you going to pay me back?

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And he was like, well, when you going to pay me back?

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And then the black guy says the N word.

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And he just kept going back and forth.

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I was dying.

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I was like, oh my God, that is so funny, You know?

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And it's like, I understand that.

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Like that kind of, that kind of thing for me is comedy.

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Like it's, it's funny. to me.

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I know how it can be offensive or whatever.

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I personally don't use the word, you know,

402
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but it in the sense of like,

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when it's comedians or when it's in a like comedy or

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comedic session or whatever

405
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to me, I mean, I just laugh about it sometimes, you know?

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Right.

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And I mean, that's what it's there for.

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You know what I'm saying?

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It's like, get together and laugh.

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I saw one of the funniest things, the Mean.

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All right.

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So they had all the Power Rangers in these boxes, right?

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And then

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so, obviously they started with like green, blue, yellow, red.

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And of course, the black and the white guy was at the end.

416
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Okay.

417
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So it's green power, red power, yellow power.

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It.

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The black guy's in front of the white guy.

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It's like, he better not.

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And so of the end for the white guy, for the white ranger, it's like, hi.

422
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You know what I'm saying?

423
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It's like, I'm not even saying, to me, that's funny.

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Yeah.

425
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Some people would get offended by that.

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But to me, that was funny.

427
00:19:23,416 --> 00:19:26,958
You know, so it's like, it's certain stuff that, you know what I'm saying?

428
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,000
I don't get offended by it.

429
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Like on that same episode where I was talking about the black guy, and the white guy being friends, it's like,

430
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one of the stereotypes.

431
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Black people smoke detectors.

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Batteries, you know what I'm saying?

433
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The batteries get low, they beat forever.

434
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Let me tell you, I hate that so much.

435
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That annoys me.

436
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I'm like, I was talking to this guy once.

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The crazy thing is, this is supposed to be like a professional setting.

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Like, he's supposed to be talking to me about like a professional thing.

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Like, we're talking about doing business together, whatever.

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And

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he's, he's black and he's like just going on and on.

442
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And I'm like, what, what?

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Wait a minute.

444
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Did I just hear

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your smoke detector go off?

446
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We're in a Zoom meeting.

447
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And he's like, what?

448
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And I'm like, I'm pretty sure I heard your smoke detector.

449
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And he was like, I don't know.

450
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So went off again.

451
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And I heard it.

452
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I just heard it again.

453
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And He was like, I don't know where you're talking about.

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I said, bro, do you want me to go to the dollar store for you?

455
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Because you know, you could just go to the Dollar Tree now and put a battery in there.

456
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Trust me, I got them in all six of mine in my house

457
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and I've had them in there since

458
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like January, January, February.

459
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And they still going?

460
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Do you hear any beefing in my house off

461
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of a dollar tree, $1.25

462
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battery?

463
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Do you hear anything.

464
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You must have got that expensive pack of rail Vax.

465
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No.

466
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I paid $1 $11.25 for

467
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these cheap Dollar Tree batteries.

468
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And I put them in all six of mine.

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And you don't hear it beeping.

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Not yet yet.

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Give it about another week or so.

472
00:21:31,041 --> 00:21:33,041
Yeah, okay.

473
00:21:33,041 --> 00:21:34,666
That is not.

474
00:21:34,666 --> 00:21:37,333
And even still, like I said, I got it in like January.

475
00:21:37,375 --> 00:21:39,375
Like I got it at the beginning of the year.

476
00:21:39,375 --> 00:21:43,541
So here it is September and they still good.

477
00:21:43,541 --> 00:21:47,041
And I'm just like, it's my point is like, it's

478
00:21:47,083 --> 00:21:49,333
such a small thing to do.

479
00:21:49,375 --> 00:21:52,166
But it's like black people don't even hear it it.

480
00:21:52,166 --> 00:21:54,166
Like,

481
00:21:54,166 --> 00:21:55,541
I was, I could not sleep.

482
00:21:55,541 --> 00:21:58,541
I literally, I literally could not sleep

483
00:21:58,541 --> 00:22:00,791
because I kept waking up.

484
00:22:00,833 --> 00:22:04,041
Like when I heard, when I

485
00:22:04,041 --> 00:22:06,666
was, I was at a friend house or something.

486
00:22:06,708 --> 00:22:08,708
I spent the night

487
00:22:08,708 --> 00:22:12,083
and I kept waking up and her alarm kept going off.

488
00:22:12,083 --> 00:22:14,208
And I was, are you freaking getting me?

489
00:22:14,250 --> 00:22:16,500
You' like, we just need to go to the store.

490
00:22:16,541 --> 00:22:18,541
We need to unplug them or something.

491
00:22:18,541 --> 00:22:21,166
Like black people just sleep through it.

492
00:22:21,166 --> 00:22:23,166
I can't I can't sleep through it.

493
00:22:23,166 --> 00:22:24,833
That is so annoying to me.

494
00:22:25,250 --> 00:22:27,250
chir.

495
00:22:27,375 --> 00:22:29,375
Black people don't hear white noise.

496
00:22:29,375 --> 00:22:31,333
Right.

497
00:22:31,333 --> 00:22:33,208
And that's exactly what the smoke detector is.

498
00:22:33,250 --> 00:22:35,250
It's white.

499
00:22:35,250 --> 00:22:35,708
That's exactly.

500
00:22:35,708 --> 00:22:38,458
That's exactly what it is, because they sleep through it.

501
00:22:38,500 --> 00:22:41,583
They just running through their home,

502
00:22:41,625 --> 00:22:44,125
have no clue that the thing is going off

503
00:22:44,833 --> 00:22:48,291
And then, like, I'm pointing it out to the guy and

504
00:22:48,291 --> 00:22:50,750
he was like, oh, that's is that what that is?

505
00:22:50,750 --> 00:22:54,208
Bro, you don't even know if

506
00:22:54,250 --> 00:22:57,583
that's what that sound means, is that your battery is

507
00:22:57,583 --> 00:23:00,125
dead and it's telling you to replace it.

508
00:23:00,583 --> 00:23:02,583
Gosh.

509
00:23:02,583 --> 00:23:06,166
I don't I don't even know what to say.

510
00:23:06,166 --> 00:23:08,625
Okay.

511
00:23:08,625 --> 00:23:11,666
Yeah, it's crazy, because like I said, we do it.

512
00:23:11,708 --> 00:23:13,708
I've been guilty of it.

513
00:23:13,708 --> 00:23:15,083
It's been about three days.

514
00:23:15,083 --> 00:23:16,916
It went off about three days.

515
00:23:16,916 --> 00:23:18,583
And before I actually got

516
00:23:19,333 --> 00:23:22,541
because, you know, you don't have the batters and it's like, all right, I got to get battes.

517
00:23:22,541 --> 00:23:25,875
And then you'll go out and you'll forget the battery.

518
00:23:25,916 --> 00:23:29,000
And then you get back and like, I forgot to get the battery.

519
00:23:29,041 --> 00:23:31,041
I get it next time I go out.

520
00:23:31,041 --> 00:23:34,041
And then, like I said, that went on for like three days for me.

521
00:23:34,083 --> 00:23:36,416
And, yeah, so, yeah, you got to do that

522
00:23:37,125 --> 00:23:40,166
Definitely got to change those batteries out

523
00:23:40,208 --> 00:23:44,791
because it's annoying to everybody else around you, except for the people that live in the house, apparently.

524
00:23:44,833 --> 00:23:46,833
Nobody.

525
00:23:46,833 --> 00:23:48,375
Yeah, definitely annoying.

526
00:23:48,375 --> 00:23:52,500
Like, it's funny because too, like, just other thinking about

527
00:23:52,541 --> 00:23:54,541
stereotypes.

528
00:23:54,541 --> 00:23:56,875
I'm like, when you were talking about being late and stuff like that.

529
00:23:56,916 --> 00:23:58,208
I'm like, you know what?

530
00:23:58,208 --> 00:24:01,833
It used to just be CP time, but but

531
00:24:01,833 --> 00:24:05,333
now it's like, or it's BP time and CP time.

532
00:24:05,375 --> 00:24:08,125
So black people time and color people time.

533
00:24:08,166 --> 00:24:12,416
Because they all do the same thing. don't't matter if you're Hispanic,

534
00:24:12,416 --> 00:24:16,458
black, whatever y'all late, all the freaking time.

535
00:24:16,500 --> 00:24:19,041
What is going on with people being late?

536
00:24:19,083 --> 00:24:21,083
I have to tell my mother

537
00:24:21,333 --> 00:24:23,333
if she's listening.

538
00:24:23,333 --> 00:24:25,166
You know I'm telling the truth.

539
00:24:25,166 --> 00:24:28,458
I got to lie to the lady and be like, oh,

540
00:24:28,500 --> 00:24:32,791
instead of us having dinner at seven, we're having dinner at five.

541
00:24:32,791 --> 00:24:34,791
It's at seven.

542
00:24:34,791 --> 00:24:37,000
I'm not going to tell her it's at seven.

543
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,000
I'm going to tell her it's at five because she's not going to be

544
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,875
ready until like 6.37 o'clock.

545
00:24:42,875 --> 00:24:45,208
But that's fine because that's when dinner starts

546
00:24:45,666 --> 00:24:47,666
So...

547
00:24:47,666 --> 00:24:48,666
Yo.

548
00:24:48,666 --> 00:24:50,666
So I lie.

549
00:24:50,666 --> 00:24:52,625
I lied to everyone.

550
00:24:52,625 --> 00:24:55,500
I'd be like, Lordord, forgive me, but I'm

551
00:24:55,500 --> 00:24:59,875
not telling nobody to come to my house on time.

552
00:24:59,875 --> 00:25:01,875
That's.

553
00:25:01,875 --> 00:25:02,750
Nobody.

554
00:25:02,750 --> 00:25:03,291
I'm not, we're not meeting up on time

555
00:25:03,708 --> 00:25:05,708
We're not going nowhere on time.

556
00:25:05,708 --> 00:25:08,333
If I tell you, we going somewhere, I'm going to lie to you.

557
00:25:08,333 --> 00:25:10,333
You got to know your people.

558
00:25:10,333 --> 00:25:12,000
That's crazy.

559
00:25:12,041 --> 00:25:14,041
Now, that's a stereotype, but that's true, though.

560
00:25:14,041 --> 00:25:15,958
That one is true.

561
00:25:15,958 --> 00:25:17,791
Yo, I saw this shit on TikTok.

562
00:25:17,791 --> 00:25:20,166
I think I might have shared it with y'all.

563
00:25:20,583 --> 00:25:23,750
One of them one was like, uh, hey, we're

564
00:25:23,750 --> 00:25:26,000
going to have a barbecue. barbecue star at six.

565
00:25:26,041 --> 00:25:30,875
And then you had that one, the black card, the dude that got his black card pull.

566
00:25:30,875 --> 00:25:34,083
It was like, and so, dude, like.

567
00:25:34,708 --> 00:25:36,708
open the door.

568
00:25:36,708 --> 00:25:37,875
Like, what you doing?

569
00:25:37,875 --> 00:25:40,125
Yeah, yeah,

570
00:25:42,125 --> 00:25:46,541
like, well, you said, it was you said the boy keep started at six.

571
00:25:46,541 --> 00:25:50,375
The next thing a know bro was on the phone, you know, on the phone.

572
00:25:50,375 --> 00:25:52,375
He't even got the food or nothing.

573
00:25:52,375 --> 00:25:56,083
Not The shit that tripped me out was the grill was still covered.

574
00:25:56,083 --> 00:25:59,125
He still had the cover of the grill, bro.

575
00:25:59,166 --> 00:26:01,166
And he's talking shit to everybody.

576
00:26:01,166 --> 00:26:02,666
I was like, yeah, man, the food actually showed up.

577
00:26:02,666 --> 00:26:04,500
That's it.

578
00:26:04,500 --> 00:26:05,041
Really, he got here is 559.

579
00:26:05,041 --> 00:26:06,666
You know what I'm saying?

580
00:26:06,666 --> 00:26:07,625
It's off, bro.

581
00:26:08,166 --> 00:26:11,083
It's funny because I'm the complete opposite.

582
00:26:11,083 --> 00:26:14,166
So whatever you tell me that I'm

583
00:26:14,208 --> 00:26:17,125
going to be there around that time or a little bit early.

584
00:26:17,166 --> 00:26:22,083
Like, I have friends, I have some friends who are always late all the time.

585
00:26:22,083 --> 00:26:24,083
They're

586
00:26:24,083 --> 00:26:26,416
well, they're a mixed couple because the husband is

587
00:26:26,458 --> 00:26:29,250
black and white and then the white is Puerto Rican.

588
00:26:29,250 --> 00:26:32,958
And let me tell you, these people are always late.

589
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,916
And they threw a party one day

590
00:26:36,583 --> 00:26:39,375
and they were still setting it up.

591
00:26:39,416 --> 00:26:41,416
It was at a building or whatever.

592
00:26:41,416 --> 00:26:44,250
And I came on time.

593
00:26:44,250 --> 00:26:47,250
So someone can't, someone comes

594
00:26:47,250 --> 00:26:50,166
over to the front who was helping them set up and stuff.

595
00:26:50,208 --> 00:26:52,208
And they were like,, um

596
00:26:52,375 --> 00:26:54,458
somebody's here.

597
00:26:54,458 --> 00:26:57,875
You know, in the background,

598
00:26:57,875 --> 00:27:00,791
they're like, oh, it's just probably Aria.

599
00:27:02,083 --> 00:27:05,083
That's fucked up.

600
00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:07,166
They already know you going to be on time, buddy.

601
00:27:09,291 --> 00:27:12,750
And so she lets me in, I go in,

602
00:27:12,750 --> 00:27:15,666
and I was like, oh, yeah, I knew it was me.

603
00:27:15,708 --> 00:27:19,166
It's like, look, you know all they want that show up on time.

604
00:27:20,208 --> 00:27:24,583
And meanwhile, a party doesn't start for like an hour and a half later.

605
00:27:24,583 --> 00:27:27,125
A whole hour and a half later.

606
00:27:27,166 --> 00:27:30,375
See, I learn to stop doing that because when you show up on time,

607
00:27:30,416 --> 00:27:32,666
you end up setting up and all that stuff there.

608
00:27:32,708 --> 00:27:34,708
That is true.

609
00:27:34,708 --> 00:27:38,125
Well, they didn't ask me to set up because they had hired somebody to do that, but

610
00:27:38,458 --> 00:27:40,791
I was like, is there anything I can do to help?

611
00:27:40,791 --> 00:27:42,791
Because I'm sitting here.

612
00:27:42,791 --> 00:27:43,750
I'm just like, I got nothing to do.

613
00:27:43,791 --> 00:27:47,666
I'm just sitting here waiting for this party to start.it.

614
00:27:47,708 --> 00:27:49,708
If I want them.

615
00:27:49,708 --> 00:27:52,208
I would be like, shit, I't I'm not hiring nobody next time.

616
00:27:52,250 --> 00:27:54,250
I know her ass going to be here on time.

617
00:27:54,250 --> 00:27:55,916
I got three to

618
00:27:56,083 --> 00:27:59,500
No, for real.

619
00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:02,500
Because I'm just like, don't tell me 6 o'clock

620
00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:06,375
because I'm going to be there probably like around 530.

621
00:28:07,375 --> 00:28:10,375
6 o'clock 8, 830.

622
00:28:10,375 --> 00:28:12,375
Yeah.

623
00:28:12,375 --> 00:28:13,916
You know that, right?

624
00:28:13,916 --> 00:28:14,708
6 o'clock me like 8, 830.

625
00:28:15,875 --> 00:28:19,708
To me, 6 o'clock is 6 o'clock. start

626
00:28:19,708 --> 00:28:23,333
until like 10. 10,30, 11 o'clock.

627
00:28:23,375 --> 00:28:26,458
But I have I have learned,

628
00:28:26,500 --> 00:28:30,916
and that's why now, even if I make an invitation for a party

629
00:28:31,666 --> 00:28:35,250
like my um, like my graduation party,

630
00:28:35,250 --> 00:28:39,000
I literally wrote on the invitation five o'clock.

631
00:28:39,041 --> 00:28:42,041
I didn't want nobody here at five o'clock.

632
00:28:42,041 --> 00:28:45,041
But then I was like, oh, I forgot to remind my

633
00:28:45,041 --> 00:28:47,125
other friend, who is just like me

634
00:28:47,708 --> 00:28:50,333
And she's Arabic, though.

635
00:28:50,333 --> 00:28:53,958
So got the same mindset, though.

636
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,000
You got to be on time for stuff.

637
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,916
So she came on time time

638
00:28:58,916 --> 00:29:02,083
and I was like, oh, my God, I forgot when the doorbell

639
00:29:02,083 --> 00:29:06,208
wrong, I literally was like, I

640
00:29:06,208 --> 00:29:08,666
already know this is.

641
00:29:08,708 --> 00:29:10,916
I already knew what it is.

642
00:29:10,916 --> 00:29:13,166
I was like, oh, my God.

643
00:29:13,208 --> 00:29:15,208
And then I opened up the door.

644
00:29:15,208 --> 00:29:17,125
Sure enough, I'm like

645
00:29:17,125 --> 00:29:19,833
And what's funny is I called it

646
00:29:19,833 --> 00:29:23,125
in the morning, because when I woke up, it was the

647
00:29:23,166 --> 00:29:25,291
very first thing that I thought about.

648
00:29:25,291 --> 00:29:29,041
And I was like, oh my goodness, I forgot to tell somebody

649
00:29:29,875 --> 00:29:32,541
that they shouldn't come on time.

650
00:29:32,583 --> 00:29:36,083
And I was like, oh, well, maybe she won't.

651
00:29:36,125 --> 00:29:38,791
And I'm like, but she usually always does.

652
00:29:38,791 --> 00:29:41,791
And then I thought about calling her and it

653
00:29:41,791 --> 00:29:45,291
slipped my mind because I had so many things to do or whatever.

654
00:29:45,333 --> 00:29:47,333
And

655
00:29:47,333 --> 00:29:48,583
I forgot to call her.

656
00:29:48,583 --> 00:29:52,708
And then, sure enough, rings the doorbell.

657
00:29:52,708 --> 00:29:56,875
And I'm like, oh my God, I know that's who that is. y, it was her.

658
00:29:56,916 --> 00:29:59,125
I was like, my bad.

659
00:29:59,166 --> 00:30:02,250
I said, so, you know, give yourself like two hour grace

660
00:30:02,708 --> 00:30:06,041
the next time you get an invitation to

661
00:30:06,041 --> 00:30:10,833
anything that I do do, two hours from whatever time that is.

662
00:30:10,833 --> 00:30:13,625
So if it says five, it really means seven.

663
00:30:13,666 --> 00:30:15,666
Right.

664
00:30:15,666 --> 00:30:17,166
Right.

665
00:30:17,166 --> 00:30:18,416
That part.

666
00:30:18,416 --> 00:30:19,458
Like, do not show show up on time.

667
00:30:19,500 --> 00:30:21,500
Why are you here?

668
00:30:21,500 --> 00:30:23,916
I know, and it sucks because she ended up having to leave early

669
00:30:24,416 --> 00:30:26,416
because she came early.

670
00:30:26,458 --> 00:30:28,458
Well, that was the whole point.

671
00:30:28,458 --> 00:30:31,000
I'm going to get here early so I can go early.

672
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,000
And if I show up to anything early, that means I

673
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,083
really planned on spending about 15 minutes.

674
00:30:36,125 --> 00:30:38,875
If you got me in that 30 to 45 minutes, you did good.

675
00:30:39,666 --> 00:30:43,250
Hey, look, at this age now, I

676
00:30:43,250 --> 00:30:46,750
would literally get dressed, go somewhere.

677
00:30:46,791 --> 00:30:50,791
Walk in this motherfucker, spin the room and get the fuck out.

678
00:30:50,791 --> 00:30:52,791
Like, I show my face.

679
00:30:52,791 --> 00:30:57,166
That's all I came to do, and I'm gone, because I don't, I don't know, that.

680
00:30:57,166 --> 00:30:59,166
It's just, I don't know.

681
00:30:59,166 --> 00:31:00,416
No, I get it.

682
00:31:00,416 --> 00:31:01,625
I've been there.

683
00:31:01,625 --> 00:31:03,833
Like, sometimes I call myself an MDvert

684
00:31:03,833 --> 00:31:06,750
because I'm more like really in the middle.

685
00:31:06,750 --> 00:31:08,750
I kind of

686
00:31:08,750 --> 00:31:12,166
I'm super extrovert when I'm around people that I love

687
00:31:12,166 --> 00:31:17,083
being around and that literally feed me with good energy.

688
00:31:17,083 --> 00:31:20,375
But then there's like some people I'm just like,

689
00:31:20,375 --> 00:31:22,833
I don't know what she was she about.

690
00:31:22,833 --> 00:31:24,833
So

691
00:31:24,833 --> 00:31:28,166
if I don't feel like doing something and I said I was going to do it

692
00:31:28,458 --> 00:31:32,833
What I do is I'm going to keep my word.

693
00:31:32,833 --> 00:31:35,875
I'm going to show up I'm going tiptoe

694
00:31:35,875 --> 00:31:38,958
into the water and you ain't gonna see me.

695
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,000
I'm going to sneak out so fast.

696
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,000
You won't even notice that I'm gone.

697
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,000
Right.

698
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,125
Like, hey, man, I'm finna go out here and smoke.

699
00:31:46,458 --> 00:31:48,541
I got a phone call.

700
00:31:48,541 --> 00:31:50,541
I got to go take.

701
00:31:50,541 --> 00:31:52,083
I don't even be doing that.

702
00:31:52,125 --> 00:31:57,333
Sometimes I just be like, you know, it's other people here that can take up the time.

703
00:31:57,375 --> 00:31:59,375
And it's funny because I'll get a text message.

704
00:31:59,416 --> 00:32:01,416
Oh, where'd you go?

705
00:32:01,416 --> 00:32:04,041
Oh, man, I, I would be, I went home

706
00:32:04,458 --> 00:32:06,458
I'm tired.

707
00:32:06,458 --> 00:32:09,208
They were like, they'd been like, oh, you left?

708
00:32:09,250 --> 00:32:11,250
When did you leave?

709
00:32:11,250 --> 00:32:13,791
The fact that you didn't even know that I left.

710
00:32:13,791 --> 00:32:17,833
just shows you how many people you

711
00:32:17,875 --> 00:32:21,208
got here and everything that you got going on was

712
00:32:21,250 --> 00:32:24,125
enough for you and too much for me.

713
00:32:24,666 --> 00:32:27,958
So what do you think about the stereotype

714
00:32:27,958 --> 00:32:32,541
or where they're talking about certain classes or certain races can't drive?

715
00:32:33,958 --> 00:32:38,541
So...

716
00:32:38,583 --> 00:32:42,291
First of all, I'm going to say in

717
00:32:42,291 --> 00:32:46,250
the state that I live in, in Florida,

718
00:32:46,958 --> 00:32:51,458
There's a lot of women that can't drive.

719
00:32:51,458 --> 00:32:54,458
And like,

720
00:32:54,458 --> 00:32:58,291
in any race, I see women all the time.

721
00:32:58,291 --> 00:33:03,125
Like, it's so weird because I'm always like, especially

722
00:33:03,875 --> 00:33:07,041
especially when I see women doing

723
00:33:07,083 --> 00:33:11,916
makeup, I'm like, what are you thinking?

724
00:33:11,916 --> 00:33:14,958
Like, what's really going through your head that you're driving

725
00:33:15,875 --> 00:33:17,875
and you're doing makeup?

726
00:33:17,875 --> 00:33:21,250
Like, I would be terrified of

727
00:33:21,291 --> 00:33:25,666
poking my eyes out or like, anything.

728
00:33:25,666 --> 00:33:27,666
Like, that's just so weird to me.

729
00:33:27,666 --> 00:33:29,583
And I see women do it all the time.

730
00:33:29,583 --> 00:33:31,458
And I see women like,

731
00:33:31,625 --> 00:33:36,541
you know, I think there's two different drivers when it comes to men and women.

732
00:33:36,541 --> 00:33:41,750
So women, I think they are very easily distracted.

733
00:33:41,750 --> 00:33:44,750
I think that's what their main issue is.

734
00:33:44,750 --> 00:33:47,416
And it's because that women try to multitask everything

735
00:33:48,166 --> 00:33:50,166
I don't know why.

736
00:33:50,166 --> 00:33:52,541
I think it's just maybe genetics, you know, it's

737
00:33:52,541 --> 00:33:55,291
in our DNA to always be on the go.

738
00:33:55,291 --> 00:33:57,291
Men

739
00:33:58,083 --> 00:34:01,250
are bad drivers because they feel like they

740
00:34:01,250 --> 00:34:06,375
need to go 100 plus miles an hour to get anywhere.

741
00:34:06,416 --> 00:34:08,416
Like, everywhere.

742
00:34:08,416 --> 00:34:10,083
I'm like, bro, slow down.

743
00:34:10,083 --> 00:34:11,833
Where are you in a rush to go?

744
00:34:11,833 --> 00:34:13,625
Like, literally,

745
00:34:13,625 --> 00:34:16,500
it's always the men.

746
00:34:16,541 --> 00:34:19,958
It's always the men that's driving really fast and speeding

747
00:34:19,958 --> 00:34:22,708
and swerving through lanes.

748
00:34:22,708 --> 00:34:24,708
Yeah.

749
00:34:24,708 --> 00:34:28,041
Here, in Florida, I beg to differ.

750
00:34:28,083 --> 00:34:30,083
I begged to differ.

751
00:34:30,083 --> 00:34:31,250
I lived in Florida for a couple of years.

752
00:34:31,250 --> 00:34:33,125
I know better.

753
00:34:33,125 --> 00:34:34,166
Yeah.

754
00:34:34,166 --> 00:34:35,166
They be balling out here.

755
00:34:35,208 --> 00:34:37,333
And I'd be like, where are you going?

756
00:34:37,375 --> 00:34:39,375
Like, where are you speeding

757
00:34:39,375 --> 00:34:44,083
And then they get mad at you if you're not going just as fast.

758
00:34:44,083 --> 00:34:47,291
And I'd be like, bro, I'm going 10 over.

759
00:34:47,333 --> 00:34:50,333
How much faster do you want me to go?

760
00:34:50,333 --> 00:34:52,416
See, I'm the opposite.

761
00:34:52,416 --> 00:34:55,833
I will get in a slow lane and I will do the speed limit.

762
00:34:55,833 --> 00:34:57,833
I've gotten enough tickets in my best

763
00:34:57,833 --> 00:34:59,833
that I don't want anymore, right?

764
00:34:59,833 --> 00:35:02,625
But I notice that

765
00:35:02,625 --> 00:35:06,250
if I'm doing the speed limit, and let's say I'm in the right lane, the

766
00:35:06,291 --> 00:35:09,583
far right lane, I got people that will be in the left lane or

767
00:35:09,583 --> 00:35:12,666
the middle lane, and they'll want to ride up and cut

768
00:35:12,708 --> 00:35:14,708
right in front of you and then keep going.

769
00:35:14,750 --> 00:35:16,750
It's like

770
00:35:16,750 --> 00:35:17,833
like, I'm holding up track.

771
00:35:17,875 --> 00:35:19,875
No, I'm doing the speed limit.

772
00:35:19,875 --> 00:35:21,291
Right.

773
00:35:21,291 --> 00:35:22,875
You know, I think women get

774
00:35:22,916 --> 00:35:24,916
a bad rap for driving

775
00:35:26,166 --> 00:35:28,958
And I'm just going to say, to be honest with them.

776
00:35:28,958 --> 00:35:31,416
A lot of times they just can't see over the staring wheel.

777
00:35:31,416 --> 00:35:34,416
And if you can't see what's really in front of you,

778
00:35:34,416 --> 00:35:38,000
like you can see what's out, but you can't really see what's in front of the car.

779
00:35:38,041 --> 00:35:40,041
You know what I'm saying?

780
00:35:40,041 --> 00:35:40,875
So

781
00:35:40,875 --> 00:35:45,000
if you're in that type of situation, people tend to hit curves a little bit more.

782
00:35:45,041 --> 00:35:47,041
I notice that a scrape up.

783
00:35:47,041 --> 00:35:48,958
Now, that's one thing about me.

784
00:35:48,958 --> 00:35:51,041
If you if I ever let you drive my car.

785
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:56,416
If I come back and I got any scruff marks on my rims.

786
00:35:56,458 --> 00:35:59,000
So it.

787
00:35:59,041 --> 00:36:01,041
It's going to be a rough night.

788
00:36:01,041 --> 00:36:03,958
So let me tell you, I'm so mad because

789
00:36:03,958 --> 00:36:06,500
my brand new car

790
00:36:07,375 --> 00:36:09,375
I accidentally hit the curp.

791
00:36:09,375 --> 00:36:12,333
So they have a little, um, it's a weird dip or

792
00:36:12,333 --> 00:36:15,625
something like over here by my house.

793
00:36:15,666 --> 00:36:18,541
And I didn't even notice that it was there.

794
00:36:18,541 --> 00:36:21,833
But for some reason, like,

795
00:36:22,291 --> 00:36:25,375
the way that they made the drain,

796
00:36:25,416 --> 00:36:29,166
it's instead of it just being like a regular slope

797
00:36:29,208 --> 00:36:32,791
like most drains have, this one has a

798
00:36:32,791 --> 00:36:35,833
huge dip, like a huge one.

799
00:36:35,875 --> 00:36:37,958
And I didn't know because I never street park

800
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,041
I only did it this once because

801
00:36:42,041 --> 00:36:46,208
I actually had, you know, a lot of people come to my house.

802
00:36:46,250 --> 00:36:48,250
So I was like, you know what?

803
00:36:48,250 --> 00:36:51,750
I'll street park and I'll just let people fill up my driveway and

804
00:36:53,625 --> 00:36:55,625
you know, whatever.

805
00:36:55,625 --> 00:36:57,250
And then the rest of the people will have to street park.

806
00:36:57,291 --> 00:37:00,708
So I pulled my car out and

807
00:37:00,708 --> 00:37:03,333
then I also have, you know, the

808
00:37:04,625 --> 00:37:07,625
the guides or whatever like that, because

809
00:37:07,625 --> 00:37:10,291
most of these new cars, they have the guides or whatever like that.

810
00:37:10,291 --> 00:37:15,000
And so I can see the curb. and I can see where I'm driving.

811
00:37:15,041 --> 00:37:18,125
And I have like the green, I'm in the green.

812
00:37:18,166 --> 00:37:21,625
I'm not in the red or the yellow that's telling me I'm too close to something

813
00:37:22,250 --> 00:37:26,541
And if my tired and go in that dip thing

814
00:37:28,791 --> 00:37:31,833
and hit the side of the curb,

815
00:37:31,833 --> 00:37:34,750
I are you fucking kidding?

816
00:37:34,791 --> 00:37:38,416
I'm trying to help other people out,

817
00:37:38,458 --> 00:37:41,666
and I ended up getting my tire scuff.

818
00:37:41,666 --> 00:37:43,750
I was so pissed.

819
00:37:43,791 --> 00:37:45,791
So I never did it again.

820
00:37:45,791 --> 00:37:47,416
I never drove on the curb or whatever.

821
00:37:47,458 --> 00:37:50,791
And then I had a friend and

822
00:37:50,791 --> 00:37:53,791
he drove over to the house or whatever.

823
00:37:53,791 --> 00:37:56,875
And I don't know why he did

824
00:37:56,916 --> 00:38:01,583
not park in the driveway. because I had space in my driveway,

825
00:38:02,166 --> 00:38:05,625
but he decided to park on the side of the road.

826
00:38:05,625 --> 00:38:10,125
And he hit that same little, d.

827
00:38:10,125 --> 00:38:14,083
And he's like, he comes in the house and he's like, man', I'm so pissed.

828
00:38:14,083 --> 00:38:16,083
I'm so pissed.

829
00:38:16,083 --> 00:38:17,041
I'm like, what happened?

830
00:38:17,041 --> 00:38:19,166
He's like, man, I don't fucked up my rims.

831
00:38:19,541 --> 00:38:21,541
sticking whoops?

832
00:38:21,541 --> 00:38:23,416
He was like, he was like, yeah.

833
00:38:23,458 --> 00:38:27,041
He was like, he was like, you' you're a solidwalk.

834
00:38:27,041 --> 00:38:29,041
It's like a dip or something.

835
00:38:29,041 --> 00:38:32,291
And I was like, oh, dang, I should have warned you about that.

836
00:38:32,333 --> 00:38:34,333
I was like, why didn't you park on the driveway?

837
00:38:34,333 --> 00:38:36,166
He was like, I don't know.

838
00:38:36,166 --> 00:38:37,541
I just didn't to park in the driveway

839
00:38:38,041 --> 00:38:41,250
And I'm like, so I'm not the only one,

840
00:38:41,250 --> 00:38:44,416
but it's so weird how that dip is.

841
00:38:44,458 --> 00:38:48,333
And I'm just like, was this an afterthought?

842
00:38:48,333 --> 00:38:51,916
Like, was did John not like, think

843
00:38:51,958 --> 00:38:56,791
about how somebody's tire can actually slide in this wholeole?

844
00:38:56,791 --> 00:38:58,791
Because that's what it is.

845
00:38:58,791 --> 00:38:59,875
Forget it being a slope.

846
00:38:59,875 --> 00:39:01,583
It's a damn hole.

847
00:39:01,583 --> 00:39:03,625
I'm sure it didn't start out that way.

848
00:39:03,666 --> 00:39:05,666
You know what I'm saying?

849
00:39:05,666 --> 00:39:08,250
Like, erosion, water coming through, you know what I'm saying?

850
00:39:08,250 --> 00:39:10,916
The sink hole type thing, you know what I'm saying?

851
00:39:10,958 --> 00:39:15,666
All of a sudden stuff starts cracking off and then it's gone, Especially if it rains a lot.

852
00:39:15,708 --> 00:39:17,708
You know what I mean?

853
00:39:17,708 --> 00:39:18,708
So What is new?

854
00:39:18,708 --> 00:39:21,333
This whole community is not even a year old.

855
00:39:21,333 --> 00:39:23,333
Okay.

856
00:39:23,333 --> 00:39:25,458
I have nothing.

857
00:39:25,500 --> 00:39:28,791
I have nothing.

858
00:39:28,791 --> 00:39:33,625
They literally just killed a bunch of trees and put these houses up.

859
00:39:33,666 --> 00:39:35,666
Like I said, sinkholes.

860
00:39:35,666 --> 00:39:37,583
You never know.

861
00:39:37,583 --> 00:39:38,166
Florida is good for that one.

862
00:39:38,166 --> 00:39:39,291
No, that's true.

863
00:39:39,291 --> 00:39:40,875
Oh my gosh.

864
00:39:40,875 --> 00:39:41,916
My school has one now.

865
00:39:42,208 --> 00:39:45,416
It's funny because where

866
00:39:45,458 --> 00:39:48,458
I used to park, I was like, you know what?

867
00:39:48,458 --> 00:39:51,916
I'm not parking over there anymore because it's always hard for me to get out.

868
00:39:51,958 --> 00:39:56,500
I was like, I'm going to park at the front because all I have to do is pull out into the street or whatever.

869
00:39:57,041 --> 00:40:00,250
And so the new teacher that's

870
00:40:00,291 --> 00:40:05,083
there this year, she's parking where I was parked at.

871
00:40:05,083 --> 00:40:08,083
And like two, three weeks

872
00:40:08,083 --> 00:40:11,708
ago, whatever, we saw it and we, I

873
00:40:11,750 --> 00:40:16,041
called her and I told her, I was like, oh my God, did you see the sinkhole by your car?

874
00:40:16,083 --> 00:40:18,083
And she's like, what?

875
00:40:18,083 --> 00:40:19,458
So we went outside.

876
00:40:19,458 --> 00:40:20,958
I showed it to her

877
00:40:20,958 --> 00:40:23,750
And she was like, oh, oh no.

878
00:40:23,750 --> 00:40:25,750
You right.

879
00:40:25,750 --> 00:40:26,958
I'm not parking here again.

880
00:40:26,958 --> 00:40:29,041
I was like, yeah, girl, don't park your car.

881
00:40:29,083 --> 00:40:31,083
I was there.

882
00:40:31,083 --> 00:40:31,458
I was like, we be at school.

883
00:40:31,458 --> 00:40:35,250
My daughter own business, teaching our classes. and she come back out and her car not there.

884
00:40:35,250 --> 00:40:38,125
Right. 20 feet on the ground.

885
00:40:38,458 --> 00:40:40,458
or whatnot.

886
00:40:40,458 --> 00:40:41,208
I'm like, oh, my God.

887
00:40:41,208 --> 00:40:43,166
So they did report it.

888
00:40:43,166 --> 00:40:45,875
So hopefully they get that taken care of soon.

889
00:40:45,875 --> 00:40:48,875
But I'm like, I would not be

890
00:40:48,875 --> 00:40:51,375
parking there because if the sinkhole happened

891
00:40:52,500 --> 00:40:55,958
like I was in Miami and witnessed a

892
00:40:55,958 --> 00:40:59,041
whole building come down because of the sinkhole.

893
00:40:59,083 --> 00:41:01,083
Yeah.

894
00:41:01,083 --> 00:41:05,000
It sounded like a shot, like a shotgun or explosion or something.

895
00:41:05,041 --> 00:41:07,041
Like it was crazy.

896
00:41:07,041 --> 00:41:08,166
I was like, what the?

897
00:41:08,166 --> 00:41:09,375
And then people

898
00:41:09,375 --> 00:41:11,083
talking about a song, oh my God.

899
00:41:11,083 --> 00:41:13,083
It was like a LA fitness, too.

900
00:41:13,083 --> 00:41:17,250
So to bring this back full circle right now, right?

901
00:41:17,250 --> 00:41:19,250
Yeah.

902
00:41:19,250 --> 00:41:20,541
So we're talking about buildings and stuff that collapses.

903
00:41:20,583 --> 00:41:22,833
Because here's another stereotype.

904
00:41:23,458 --> 00:41:25,458
when we're talking about building stuff.

905
00:41:25,458 --> 00:41:28,250
Have you ever been guilty of saying that you

906
00:41:28,250 --> 00:41:34,041
was going to go over to the Home Depot to get contractors?

907
00:41:35,041 --> 00:41:38,916
You know, so I

908
00:41:38,916 --> 00:41:41,375
haven't, but I just thought it.

909
00:41:41,375 --> 00:41:44,541
I didn't say it out loud, but

910
00:41:44,583 --> 00:41:48,958
I thought it because I used to work at Home Depot, and I used to be there

911
00:41:49,708 --> 00:41:52,875
6 o'clock in the morning when it opened.

912
00:41:52,916 --> 00:41:57,583
And those people, they be ready.

913
00:41:57,583 --> 00:42:01,583
Four or five o'clock in the morning, you go out there,

914
00:42:01,625 --> 00:42:06,958
they are ready and they don't charge much of anything

915
00:42:07,708 --> 00:42:12,000
You know, you go out there, you can tell them, hey, I need this, this, that, and the third.

916
00:42:12,041 --> 00:42:14,125
And so with this new house,

917
00:42:15,833 --> 00:42:17,833
I've thought about it.

918
00:42:17,833 --> 00:42:19,583
I haven't mentioned it to anybody.

919
00:42:19,625 --> 00:42:21,625
I haven't said it.

920
00:42:21,625 --> 00:42:23,125
This is my first time actually saying it out loud.

921
00:42:24,666 --> 00:42:29,666
I'm not opposed.. need some stuff put up.

922
00:42:29,666 --> 00:42:33,125
And they are very good at what they do.

923
00:42:33,166 --> 00:42:35,166
So, you know what I'm saying?

924
00:42:35,166 --> 00:42:37,541
And the labor prices is affordable.

925
00:42:37,541 --> 00:42:39,541
Let's do it that way.

926
00:42:39,541 --> 00:42:40,916
You know what I'm saying?

927
00:42:40,916 --> 00:42:41,666
It's so I don't see a read.

928
00:42:41,666 --> 00:42:43,583
I mean, is it a stereotype?

929
00:42:43,583 --> 00:42:45,375
Yeah

930
00:42:45,375 --> 00:42:49,125
But at the same time, it's one of those ones that's kind of true.

931
00:42:49,125 --> 00:42:51,125
It's late.

932
00:42:51,125 --> 00:42:54,583
It's like black folks being late and having our smoke tack is going on.

933
00:42:54,583 --> 00:42:56,583
That shit true.

934
00:42:56,583 --> 00:42:57,625
I don't get mad at them that are true.

935
00:42:57,666 --> 00:42:59,666
You know what I'm saying?

936
00:42:59,666 --> 00:43:02,916
You have some great skill carpenters,

937
00:43:02,916 --> 00:43:07,458
people that put up, shit, build a whole house for you, literally.

938
00:43:07,500 --> 00:43:10,666
And it's like, one of the things that I will say about

939
00:43:10,666 --> 00:43:13,958
this right here and that I have actually witnessed,

940
00:43:13,958 --> 00:43:17,250
it's like, they are going to pool their money.

941
00:43:17,250 --> 00:43:20,333
They might have three or four families in that one house and it might

942
00:43:20,375 --> 00:43:23,166
look like shit on the outside, but that's by design too.

943
00:43:23,500 --> 00:43:25,500
You go inside.

944
00:43:25,500 --> 00:43:27,916
If you ever go inside of it, they got crown molding

945
00:43:27,958 --> 00:43:30,083
and all the best of the best of the best.

946
00:43:30,125 --> 00:43:33,708
The house on the inside looks nothing like what it does on the outside.

947
00:43:33,708 --> 00:43:35,708
I can promise you that much.

948
00:43:35,708 --> 00:43:39,458
You know, so don't be too quick to judge that book.

949
00:43:39,458 --> 00:43:41,458
You know what I'm saying?

950
00:43:41,458 --> 00:43:42,125
cover because

951
00:43:42,125 --> 00:43:44,708
I might be surprised, but I'm not a opposed

952
00:43:44,750 --> 00:43:47,833
to going over to one of those dick box stores and

953
00:43:49,833 --> 00:43:54,208
Contractors do it all the time because I watch them come in.

954
00:43:54,208 --> 00:43:56,833
They grab their tools and all that stuff like that.

955
00:43:56,875 --> 00:43:59,958
And they talk, they talk to us, you know, because, you know,

956
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,791
we're the pretty girl in the, you know, cashiers or whatever.

957
00:44:02,791 --> 00:44:04,791
And they'd be telling us all their business.

958
00:44:04,791 --> 00:44:08,041
They'd be like, yeah, we, we came here early this morning.

959
00:44:08,083 --> 00:44:10,083
You know, we're back again.

960
00:44:10,083 --> 00:44:11,583
We came and got our people.

961
00:44:11,583 --> 00:44:15,291
It'd be like, they are hired

962
00:44:15,291 --> 00:44:19,291
like four or five, you know, Mexicans or whatever and

963
00:44:19,291 --> 00:44:22,875
brought them with them to these, like a lot of these buildings and

964
00:44:22,916 --> 00:44:25,125
condos and stuff in Orlando.

965
00:44:25,125 --> 00:44:27,125
Like a lot of contractors went and got them

966
00:44:27,875 --> 00:44:31,750
brought them downtown to build these condos.

967
00:44:31,791 --> 00:44:34,833
And, like, people think, like, I'm like,

968
00:44:34,833 --> 00:44:40,500
I don't know what y'all think is going to happen deporting, but who gonna do it?

969
00:44:40,541 --> 00:44:42,750
You might as well find the people that's going to do the work.

970
00:44:43,250 --> 00:44:46,250
Well, you know, speaking of which, I don't know

971
00:44:46,250 --> 00:44:51,875
if we should actually talk about it, but, you know, it's like we have politicians.

972
00:44:51,875 --> 00:44:56,958
I'll leave it that way and keep it broken broad that have towers

973
00:44:57,583 --> 00:45:00,458
named after them.

974
00:45:00,458 --> 00:45:02,458
Right.

975
00:45:02,458 --> 00:45:04,250
That were that use

976
00:45:04,250 --> 00:45:09,333
that ch cheap labor, that quote unquote, cheap labor and never paid.

977
00:45:09,333 --> 00:45:11,541
There's articles about stuff like that.

978
00:45:11,583 --> 00:45:13,583
You know what I'm saying?

979
00:45:13,583 --> 00:45:17,458
Like, you got the best of the best for the cheap labor and you didn't even pay these people.

980
00:45:17,458 --> 00:45:19,458
You know what I'm saying?

981
00:45:19,458 --> 00:45:20,458
So to me

982
00:45:20,458 --> 00:45:23,500
that's where it gets, you know what I'm saying?

983
00:45:23,500 --> 00:45:27,666
It gets messed up at it because if you're going to use them, if he's giving what it's worth.

984
00:45:27,708 --> 00:45:29,708
Right..

985
00:45:29,708 --> 00:45:33,166
Another thing that I will say to people is that if you are going to use in labor

986
00:45:33,958 --> 00:45:36,833
you need to learn how to speak the lingo.

987
00:45:36,833 --> 00:45:40,541
Oh, learn how to speak the language or give you some translation earbuds.

988
00:45:40,541 --> 00:45:42,541
Mm.

989
00:45:42,541 --> 00:45:44,333
Because they will literally sit there in front of you talking

990
00:45:45,291 --> 00:45:47,375
and talk shit about you.

991
00:45:47,375 --> 00:45:49,375
And, you know what I'm saying?

992
00:45:49,375 --> 00:45:52,541
And in their native tongue, their native language.

993
00:45:52,541 --> 00:45:56,416
And if you can't speak it, because I speak a little bit, you know what I'm saying?

994
00:45:56,458 --> 00:45:58,666
I know enough to get around, I can survive.

995
00:45:59,250 --> 00:46:01,250
Right?

996
00:46:01,250 --> 00:46:03,208
So I used to date a Hispanic woman, a

997
00:46:03,208 --> 00:46:05,333
couple of Hispanic women back in my day.

998
00:46:05,375 --> 00:46:08,250
And so I picked up.

999
00:46:08,250 --> 00:46:10,583
I picked up more cuss words and I picked up anything else.

1000
00:46:12,125 --> 00:46:14,125
Always cuss words.

1001
00:46:14,125 --> 00:46:19,291
I can cuss y' in Spanish real quick..

1002
00:46:20,875 --> 00:46:25,583
But, it's like, damn, where was I going with that?

1003
00:46:25,625 --> 00:46:28,625
It's like you have to learn here to

1004
00:46:28,625 --> 00:46:30,958
understand what it is because we will try and get over.

1005
00:46:30,958 --> 00:46:32,958
Oh, yeah, for sure.

1006
00:46:32,958 --> 00:46:33,833
Was they're no different than anybody else?

1007
00:46:33,833 --> 00:46:35,750
Because

1008
00:46:35,750 --> 00:46:36,791
Black folks, we try and get over on people.

1009
00:46:36,833 --> 00:46:38,833
You know what I'm saying?

1010
00:46:38,833 --> 00:46:41,958
Like, if I can get something for a cheaper price, yeah, I'm going to go for that cheaper price.

1011
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,833
I'm not going to just to go out here and try and spend the top dollar when I, you know what I'm saying?

1012
00:46:45,833 --> 00:46:48,083
I can negotiate and, you know what I'm saying?

1013
00:46:48,125 --> 00:46:50,125
Bring the price down.

1014
00:46:50,125 --> 00:46:51,083
So I'm so, you know what I'm saying?

1015
00:46:51,083 --> 00:46:52,791
Everybody's just saying.

1016
00:46:52,791 --> 00:46:53,958
Nothing wrong with that.

1017
00:46:53,958 --> 00:46:54,916
Nothing wrong with that.

1018
00:46:54,916 --> 00:46:56,208
You know what I'm saying?

1019
00:46:56,208 --> 00:46:57,000
It's just that they're going to go the other way.

1020
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,750
Man, I saw one

1021
00:46:58,750 --> 00:47:01,291
I saw one video.

1022
00:47:01,291 --> 00:47:03,291
What is a mechanic.

1023
00:47:03,291 --> 00:47:07,375
There was an older guy that was standing over the left.

1024
00:47:07,416 --> 00:47:10,833
That was a mechanic that was standing in the middle of the car.

1025
00:47:10,833 --> 00:47:12,833
The hood is up.

1026
00:47:12,833 --> 00:47:14,708
And then there was a younger person that was coming back and forth

1027
00:47:15,333 --> 00:47:18,333
And then so the mechanic looks

1028
00:47:18,333 --> 00:47:22,291
over to the left and stays something about, you know what I'm saying?

1029
00:47:22,291 --> 00:47:25,333
Like, this is how you get over on the dumbasses or some shit like that right there,

1030
00:47:25,375 --> 00:47:28,666
not realizing that the person that they're talking to is

1031
00:47:28,666 --> 00:47:31,333
the actual person, the owner of the vehicle.

1032
00:47:32,166 --> 00:47:35,333
Are you basically talking about how you finna raise the prices up to

1033
00:47:35,333 --> 00:47:38,125
the person that's finished it up here and buy shit from you?

1034
00:47:38,166 --> 00:47:40,166
You know what I'm saying?

1035
00:47:40,166 --> 00:47:41,166
It's like, hey, that's what you know what I'm saying?

1036
00:47:41,166 --> 00:47:44,625
Like, I'm that talking about, but people do that.

1037
00:47:44,625 --> 00:47:46,625
Right.

1038
00:47:46,625 --> 00:47:47,291
We all do it.

1039
00:47:47,291 --> 00:47:48,375
You know what I'm saying?

1040
00:47:48,375 --> 00:47:49,041
To try to get the

1041
00:47:49,041 --> 00:47:52,708
cheapest price possible, especially with the as high as.

1042
00:47:52,708 --> 00:47:54,708
Everything is.

1043
00:47:54,708 --> 00:47:55,750
Everything is.

1044
00:47:55,750 --> 00:47:58,875
Like, everybody's looking for that, that

1045
00:47:59,916 --> 00:48:01,916
break, if you can.

1046
00:48:01,916 --> 00:48:03,041
Mm.

1047
00:48:03,041 --> 00:48:03,916
So

1048
00:48:03,916 --> 00:48:09,375
that brings us up to like what, like we have age-based stereotypes.

1049
00:48:09,375 --> 00:48:11,375
You know what I'm saying?

1050
00:48:11,375 --> 00:48:13,916
Like certain people, once you hit a certain age, they just feel like

1051
00:48:13,916 --> 00:48:16,250
you're basically over. the hill.

1052
00:48:16,250 --> 00:48:21,208
I rock a whole lot of gray nowadays, but my mindset

1053
00:48:21,666 --> 00:48:24,416
my body, eh.

1054
00:48:24,416 --> 00:48:28,791
Yeah, I feel old sometimes, but my mind, I'm still young.

1055
00:48:28,791 --> 00:48:31,833
You know, I'm that cat that will

1056
00:48:31,875 --> 00:48:35,166
go into a store, come up with a shopping cart, and I'm riding

1057
00:48:35,166 --> 00:48:38,791
it back across the parking lot like it's a scooter.

1058
00:48:38,833 --> 00:48:42,041
And people be looking at me with my old ass graybeard the

1059
00:48:42,041 --> 00:48:46,583
whole nine yards, and I'm on the back of this shopping cart, just riding it like I did when I was 12.

1060
00:48:46,916 --> 00:48:48,916
You know what I'm saying?

1061
00:48:48,916 --> 00:48:50,041
Like I was seven or what of them.

1062
00:48:50,041 --> 00:48:53,250
But living my best life, having a great time.

1063
00:48:53,291 --> 00:48:56,291
But when it comes down to it, at the same time, you

1064
00:48:56,291 --> 00:48:59,458
look at people that's older and you feel like they can't do certain jobs.

1065
00:48:59,458 --> 00:49:02,500
And then there are certain people that will only hire, they won't hire people

1066
00:49:02,500 --> 00:49:04,583
that's younger because they feel like they're lazy.

1067
00:49:05,708 --> 00:49:07,708
You know what I'm saying?

1068
00:49:07,708 --> 00:49:09,291
So there, there's opposites in that as well.

1069
00:49:09,291 --> 00:49:12,291
Like, you feel like the older person might not be able to

1070
00:49:12,291 --> 00:49:14,416
pick up whatever it is is that's going on.

1071
00:49:14,458 --> 00:49:16,458
You know what I'm saying?

1072
00:49:16,458 --> 00:49:17,041
They might not be able to learn the processes.

1073
00:49:17,083 --> 00:49:19,083
And then you have

1074
00:49:19,083 --> 00:49:23,625
the younger people that they just feel like are lazy and not going to do the things properly.

1075
00:49:23,625 --> 00:49:28,625
So it depends on who that hiring manager is when it comes down to it.

1076
00:49:28,666 --> 00:49:32,083
But have you ever been discriminated against based

1077
00:49:32,083 --> 00:49:35,416
upon your age or the fact that you look young?

1078
00:49:35,833 --> 00:49:37,833
Oh,, absolutely.

1079
00:49:37,833 --> 00:49:40,166
People think I think I'm a child a

1080
00:49:40,208 --> 00:49:43,416
lot of times until I start talking and they're like, how old are you?

1081
00:49:44,875 --> 00:49:46,875
Okay.

1082
00:49:46,875 --> 00:49:48,000
Okay, okay.

1083
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,208
And then I'm like, you don't look like it.

1084
00:49:52,250 --> 00:49:55,291
You don't look, I'm like, okay.

1085
00:49:55,333 --> 00:49:59,041
But, you know, had you known how old I was at the beginning

1086
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,208
we wouldn't have this problem, you know?

1087
00:50:02,208 --> 00:50:04,208
It's, I don't know.

1088
00:50:04,208 --> 00:50:08,250
It's like people always feel like, oh, well, you're too young.

1089
00:50:08,291 --> 00:50:13,125
You're not going to understand this, you know, And I'm like, try me.

1090
00:50:13,791 --> 00:50:15,791
Right.

1091
00:50:15,791 --> 00:50:17,791
Try me.

1092
00:50:17,791 --> 00:50:21,875
Because that I said, I I'm more than likely going to understand what you're talking about, you know.

1093
00:50:21,916 --> 00:50:23,916
It's funny because

1094
00:50:24,791 --> 00:50:28,083
I never really thought like I looked that young,

1095
00:50:28,083 --> 00:50:31,541
like at all until

1096
00:50:33,166 --> 00:50:38,083
actually like going on the TikTok live platform.

1097
00:50:38,083 --> 00:50:40,458
Because like people would be like, oh, you look young.

1098
00:50:40,500 --> 00:50:42,500
How old are you?

1099
00:50:42,500 --> 00:50:43,291
Or whatever?

1100
00:50:43,291 --> 00:50:44,375
But they never just assumed.

1101
00:50:44,416 --> 00:50:47,083
So it's like the people that I meet in real life

1102
00:50:47,916 --> 00:50:52,416
they don't really just assume they just ask me, you know, how old am I or whatever.

1103
00:50:52,416 --> 00:50:55,833
Whereas like people that I see online,

1104
00:50:55,875 --> 00:50:59,083
they just assume and don't even ask.

1105
00:50:59,083 --> 00:51:01,208
And I'm just like,

1106
00:51:01,875 --> 00:51:03,875
what do you mean?

1107
00:51:03,875 --> 00:51:06,708
Like, I mean, I can I can understand the same thing.

1108
00:51:06,708 --> 00:51:10,166
I'm I'm probably more smarter than you think I am.

1109
00:51:10,208 --> 00:51:12,208
I'll be trinking people.

1110
00:51:12,208 --> 00:51:14,875
The space going back to

1111
00:51:14,875 --> 00:51:17,208
black women can't be scientists

1112
00:51:17,833 --> 00:51:21,041
Like, I' a gthmora of things that

1113
00:51:21,041 --> 00:51:23,375
I can talk about when it comes to that, you know.

1114
00:51:23,416 --> 00:51:29,708
I feel like too, it gets weird sometimes when you

1115
00:51:30,458 --> 00:51:33,875
try to teach older people things

1116
00:51:33,916 --> 00:51:39,291
because they feel like they're older and they're wiser and they know more.

1117
00:51:39,291 --> 00:51:41,416
And I literally just had this conversation

1118
00:51:42,375 --> 00:51:45,375
not long ago with my

1119
00:51:45,375 --> 00:51:49,000
godsister and I was telling her, like, I

1120
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,541
feel like it can go both ways.

1121
00:51:51,583 --> 00:51:54,750
Like older people can learn things from younger people

1122
00:51:54,791 --> 00:51:58,291
and younger people can learn things from older people.

1123
00:51:58,333 --> 00:52:00,333
You know,

1124
00:52:00,333 --> 00:52:01,208
it goes both ways.

1125
00:52:01,208 --> 00:52:04,250
I'm never going to say, I'm smarter

1126
00:52:04,250 --> 00:52:07,750
than you because I'm five, 10 years older than you.

1127
00:52:07,791 --> 00:52:09,791
I never I'm not going to do that.

1128
00:52:09,833 --> 00:52:12,916
Because you very well could know some

1129
00:52:12,958 --> 00:52:15,041
things that I don't know.

1130
00:52:15,041 --> 00:52:17,041
You could be smarter in an area

1131
00:52:17,333 --> 00:52:19,583
more than myself.

1132
00:52:19,625 --> 00:52:22,708
You know, I can be more educated in an area more than you

1133
00:52:22,750 --> 00:52:26,375
and you're 20 years older than me.

1134
00:52:26,416 --> 00:52:28,416
You know what I'm saying?

1135
00:52:28,416 --> 00:52:30,500
So there's give and take, you know, so I never,

1136
00:52:30,541 --> 00:52:33,750
I always give people, you know, the benefit of the doubt now, a child that's different

1137
00:52:34,333 --> 00:52:37,375
you know, a child is a child and

1138
00:52:37,375 --> 00:52:39,833
I'm going to keep a child in a child's place, you know.

1139
00:52:39,833 --> 00:52:43,125
But when it's like you're, you know, an adult, you're

1140
00:52:43,125 --> 00:52:48,666
older, you know, and wiser, I feel like I'm going to talk to you to figure out where you are

1141
00:52:49,666 --> 00:52:54,625
you know, maturity wise and what kind of conversations you can hold.

1142
00:52:54,666 --> 00:52:59,166
And then based off of that is where, you know, where I kind of play you.

1143
00:52:59,166 --> 00:53:01,166
Right.

1144
00:53:01,166 --> 00:53:02,000
Understood.

1145
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,250
So on the story, I might,

1146
00:53:04,250 --> 00:53:06,333
I was working, like I said, I was an IT.

1147
00:53:06,708 --> 00:53:09,708
And we were, I was sitting in

1148
00:53:09,708 --> 00:53:13,750
the computer lab one day and I'm

1149
00:53:13,791 --> 00:53:18,208
sitting there and I'm, I'm working on some of the updating some of the computers and everything.

1150
00:53:18,250 --> 00:53:20,708
And there was a couple other people that was in there.

1151
00:53:20,708 --> 00:53:25,125
And then they started this conversation and obviously it was about education and and

1152
00:53:26,708 --> 00:53:30,333
you know what I'm saying for the kids and things of that nature.

1153
00:53:30,375 --> 00:53:33,875
So then they started talking about, like,

1154
00:53:33,916 --> 00:53:37,083
if you, if your child had an opportunity to go pro.

1155
00:53:37,083 --> 00:53:42,083
And I think this is where it came into play because there was there was literally two black people

1156
00:53:42,541 --> 00:53:45,416
two white folks in in this room.

1157
00:53:45,416 --> 00:53:47,416
Right?

1158
00:53:47,416 --> 00:53:50,208
So they're talking education and we're preaching education education.

1159
00:53:50,208 --> 00:53:53,375
So the thing the

1160
00:53:53,416 --> 00:53:57,125
thing that came up was, if your child had an opportunity

1161
00:53:57,666 --> 00:54:01,000
to come out of college early and go pro,

1162
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:05,708
would you encourage them to go pro or would you encourage them to stay in college?

1163
00:54:05,750 --> 00:54:11,250
And depending on who you asked, there were different answers.

1164
00:54:12,041 --> 00:54:15,125
Obviously, the black folks are saying, go pro.

1165
00:54:15,166 --> 00:54:18,875
The white folks are saying, get the education.

1166
00:54:18,916 --> 00:54:20,916
Yeah.

1167
00:54:20,916 --> 00:54:21,666
That's what I want.

1168
00:54:22,750 --> 00:54:25,541
I'm butting in like, go pro.

1169
00:54:25,541 --> 00:54:28,083
The obvious answer is to go pro.

1170
00:54:28,125 --> 00:54:30,125
But what?

1171
00:54:30,125 --> 00:54:31,875
Why is it obvious?

1172
00:54:31,875 --> 00:54:33,583
Because that's an opportunity of a lifetime.

1173
00:54:33,583 --> 00:54:35,583
It doesn't always come around.

1174
00:54:35,583 --> 00:54:37,500
But if you stayed in college

1175
00:54:37,625 --> 00:54:41,208
and you got injured, your draft,

1176
00:54:41,208 --> 00:54:44,125
your stock pick is up high this year.

1177
00:54:44,166 --> 00:54:47,208
Next year, you may not have a great season.

1178
00:54:48,291 --> 00:54:51,791
So my thing was, and

1179
00:54:51,833 --> 00:54:56,000
this is where this lady called me cynical.

1180
00:54:56,041 --> 00:54:58,041
She told me I was cynical.

1181
00:54:58,041 --> 00:54:59,541
My thing was

1182
00:55:00,291 --> 00:55:05,250
people go to college to get a better education so that they can get a better paying job.

1183
00:55:05,291 --> 00:55:07,750
At the end of the day, it's always about the money.

1184
00:55:07,750 --> 00:55:11,083
They tell me, no, it's not about the money.

1185
00:55:11,083 --> 00:55:13,083
And I'm like, really?

1186
00:55:13,083 --> 00:55:14,458
It's not.

1187
00:55:14,458 --> 00:55:15,958
Because I can learn the same thing YouTube

1188
00:55:16,625 --> 00:55:19,666
Google, I can have the same knowledge, but I go

1189
00:55:19,666 --> 00:55:24,625
to college so I can get that documentation that says that I am certified.

1190
00:55:24,666 --> 00:55:27,541
I actually know what it is that I say that I know.

1191
00:55:28,416 --> 00:55:31,458
So if college is not really important

1192
00:55:31,500 --> 00:55:35,000
and it's not about the money, then why, why bother go

1193
00:55:35,041 --> 00:55:38,375
to school when you can get the exact same education,

1194
00:55:38,416 --> 00:55:42,000
you can learn the same things just by visiting social sites.

1195
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,000
So like I said, YouTube or Google.

1196
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,625
Right.

1197
00:55:45,625 --> 00:55:46,916
So, and that's what she called me cynical.

1198
00:55:46,916 --> 00:55:49,250
And it's like, it's not about being cynical.

1199
00:55:49,250 --> 00:55:51,250
It's about

1200
00:55:51,250 --> 00:55:52,083
just having the, you know what I'm saying?

1201
00:55:52,125 --> 00:55:55,166
Again, that opportunity, they consider it a

1202
00:55:55,208 --> 00:55:57,833
one lifetime opportunity for a reason.

1203
00:55:57,833 --> 00:55:59,833
You know what I'm saying?

1204
00:55:59,833 --> 00:56:01,541
So, yes, take it, go.

1205
00:56:01,541 --> 00:56:06,375
If something happens, if it doesn't pan out, at least you made the money that you were going to college to make

1206
00:56:06,916 --> 00:56:08,916
anyway.

1207
00:56:08,916 --> 00:56:09,750
And you can always fall back on college.

1208
00:56:09,791 --> 00:56:11,791
You can always come back to college.

1209
00:56:11,791 --> 00:56:13,916
You can go to college while you're out there playing.

1210
00:56:13,916 --> 00:56:15,916
You can do classes online.

1211
00:56:15,916 --> 00:56:17,708
There are so many different things that you can do.

1212
00:56:17,750 --> 00:56:20,125
So I don't understand why you have to stole it.

1213
00:56:20,833 --> 00:56:22,833
You know what I'm saying?

1214
00:56:22,833 --> 00:56:25,125
So it's like, go get the money because that's why you went to college.

1215
00:56:25,125 --> 00:56:28,875
You went to college so you can get the degree so you can get a better paying job.

1216
00:56:30,291 --> 00:56:32,833
At the end of the day, it was about the money.

1217
00:56:32,875 --> 00:56:35,250
So, I don't know.

1218
00:56:35,291 --> 00:56:37,291
You know what I'm saying?

1219
00:56:37,291 --> 00:56:39,166
Does that fall under a stereotype that black people are always trying

1220
00:56:39,166 --> 00:56:43,125
to push their kids into entertainment or sports or things of that nature

1221
00:56:44,083 --> 00:56:47,250
whereas other races, Asian

1222
00:56:47,291 --> 00:56:52,291
preach, you know what I'm saying, education first, you know?

1223
00:56:52,333 --> 00:56:54,333
And so

1224
00:56:55,125 --> 00:56:57,125
you know what I'm saying?

1225
00:56:57,125 --> 00:56:57,875
Like, where do you draw the line?

1226
00:56:57,875 --> 00:57:01,083
Because if it's all about making money, because that's what we really do the things for.

1227
00:57:01,125 --> 00:57:03,125
We don't go.

1228
00:57:03,125 --> 00:57:06,041
Anybody who says they have a job, first and foremost,,

1229
00:57:06,041 --> 00:57:11,375
you have that place of employment simply so that you can pay bills.

1230
00:57:12,416 --> 00:57:14,416
That's a job.

1231
00:57:14,416 --> 00:57:15,750
I got a career.

1232
00:57:15,791 --> 00:57:17,791
You have a career.

1233
00:57:17,791 --> 00:57:20,125
There's a different terminology, which

1234
00:57:20,166 --> 00:57:25,416
means that no matter what it is, I don't, I'm not jumping from one place of employment to the next.

1235
00:57:25,416 --> 00:57:27,416
Right.

1236
00:57:27,416 --> 00:57:31,291
But if I am going to leave, then this next place, I'm going to be doing the exact same thing

1237
00:57:31,666 --> 00:57:33,666
They're just going to pay me more to do.

1238
00:57:33,666 --> 00:57:35,416
Right.

1239
00:57:35,416 --> 00:57:36,083
You know what I'm saying?

1240
00:57:36,083 --> 00:57:37,166
So

1241
00:57:37,750 --> 00:57:40,666
how do you counterbalance thatereotype?

1242
00:57:40,666 --> 00:57:43,958
Because if we're saying that we push our children towards

1243
00:57:43,958 --> 00:57:46,291
sports and entertainment,

1244
00:57:47,583 --> 00:57:51,708
you know what I say, as opposed to the education..

1245
00:57:51,708 --> 00:57:54,750
First of all, is it a true stereotype?

1246
00:57:54,791 --> 00:57:58,500
Or is it just one of those ones that just kind of stuck?

1247
00:57:59,416 --> 00:58:02,500
I mean, I feel like it

1248
00:58:02,500 --> 00:58:05,708
could be in a sense a

1249
00:58:05,750 --> 00:58:10,583
stereotype because even when you, when a lot of,

1250
00:58:10,625 --> 00:58:12,958
I can't tell you how many people

1251
00:58:13,625 --> 00:58:16,708
that I meet in person and they

1252
00:58:16,750 --> 00:58:21,333
want to ask me, did I play basketball?

1253
00:58:21,375 --> 00:58:23,500
Like,

1254
00:58:25,333 --> 00:58:27,333
hands?

1255
00:58:27,333 --> 00:58:30,083
No, I did not play basketball.

1256
00:58:30,125 --> 00:58:33,333
And first of all, I'm not even, it's so weird because

1257
00:58:33,375 --> 00:58:36,000
I don't even consider myself a tall person.

1258
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,541
But then I guess when I look at every

1259
00:58:39,250 --> 00:58:43,500
friend that I have, I am tall.

1260
00:58:43,500 --> 00:58:47,625
And it's so funny because I was going through some of my photos in

1261
00:58:47,625 --> 00:58:49,750
my phone yesterday.

1262
00:58:49,791 --> 00:58:52,166
And I was like, dang.

1263
00:58:52,875 --> 00:58:54,875
I guess I am.

1264
00:58:57,833 --> 00:59:02,916
They always be, even when we take pictures, they always be like, "Arya, you take it?

1265
00:59:02,916 --> 00:59:04,916
You got long arms.

1266
00:59:04,916 --> 00:59:06,958
They literally will say that and it blow.

1267
00:59:06,958 --> 00:59:09,750
It goes right over it goes right over my head.

1268
00:59:09,791 --> 00:59:11,791
I don't think about it.

1269
00:59:11,791 --> 00:59:13,333
Wow.

1270
00:59:13,333 --> 00:59:16,541
Well, the average height for females or what, like 5'2 to 5?

1271
00:59:16,541 --> 00:59:20,375
Yeah, 5'4, something like that.

1272
00:59:20,708 --> 00:59:22,708
Yeah.

1273
00:59:22,708 --> 00:59:25,458
And the average is like 5'7".

1274
00:59:27,583 --> 00:59:29,583
Okay.

1275
00:59:29,583 --> 00:59:31,458
Slightly above average.

1276
00:59:33,666 --> 00:59:36,000
And she running really, really fast in high heels.

1277
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:39,041
So, so it's like, so it's like I'm

1278
00:59:39,041 --> 00:59:41,291
I'm slightly over 5'9".

1279
00:59:41,333 --> 00:59:44,125
So, but I, I'm just like, I'm 5'9".

1280
00:59:44,166 --> 00:59:47,750
But as soon as I throw on heels, it's like, girl, you a giant.

1281
00:59:47,750 --> 00:59:50,208
Just like, 6, 6, yeah.

1282
00:59:50,208 --> 00:59:52,208
Just stop.

1283
00:59:52,208 --> 00:59:56,125
Yeah, you'll be licking down at me.

1284
00:59:56,166 --> 00:59:58,166
I'm like 5'4".

1285
00:59:59,291 --> 01:00:01,291
I'm joking.

1286
01:00:01,291 --> 01:00:03,583
I'm actually 5'10", but, yeah.

1287
01:00:03,583 --> 01:00:05,708
Oh, my God.

1288
01:00:05,750 --> 01:00:07,750
Yeah.

1289
01:00:07,750 --> 01:00:08,708
It's like the the height didn't keep coming.

1290
01:00:08,750 --> 01:00:10,750
I know.

1291
01:00:10,750 --> 01:00:12,583
But that's that's another thing.

1292
01:00:12,583 --> 01:00:15,125
That's another stereotype, too, that like

1293
01:00:15,583 --> 01:00:18,083
black people are tall.

1294
01:00:18,125 --> 01:00:21,125
And what's so funny, one thing that I have noticed

1295
01:00:21,125 --> 01:00:25,416
about some black people is that

1296
01:00:26,500 --> 01:00:29,291
it's not that we're just tall.

1297
01:00:29,333 --> 01:00:31,458
We have extreme.

1298
01:00:31,500 --> 01:00:35,375
And I start started doing paying attention to this, like

1299
01:00:36,583 --> 01:00:40,083
I was obsessed with the fact that I hated

1300
01:00:40,125 --> 01:00:42,250
having such long legs.

1301
01:00:42,291 --> 01:00:45,916
That used to be like a huge thing for me. having long legs.

1302
01:00:45,958 --> 01:00:49,125
And I even used to be like,

1303
01:00:49,125 --> 01:00:51,125
oh, man, long legged freak.

1304
01:00:51,166 --> 01:00:53,625
Like, you know, like that was just me

1305
01:00:54,291 --> 01:00:57,875
And so, um, then I started paying attention.

1306
01:00:57,916 --> 01:01:01,000
I'm like, you know, a lot of black people that

1307
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,041
are tall are nothing but legs.

1308
01:01:04,083 --> 01:01:06,875
Like legitimately nothing but legs.

1309
01:01:06,916 --> 01:01:09,583
Small torso, long legs

1310
01:01:10,333 --> 01:01:13,083
Like, literally, what are those?

1311
01:01:13,083 --> 01:01:15,083
Yeah.

1312
01:01:15,083 --> 01:01:18,583
So getting back to it

1313
01:01:18,583 --> 01:01:20,583
Right?

1314
01:01:20,583 --> 01:01:21,000
With the stereotypes, right?

1315
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,416
Because we do opposite shit.

1316
01:01:22,416 --> 01:01:25,041
If somebody is heavy, heavy in

1317
01:01:25,041 --> 01:01:28,333
the family, you call them like Lightfoot or some shit like that, do y'all do that?

1318
01:01:28,333 --> 01:01:32,875
So we have going back to the tall thing, right?

1319
01:01:32,916 --> 01:01:35,833
So the tallest person in my family

1320
01:01:36,125 --> 01:01:40,000
to date is about six foot six.

1321
01:01:40,041 --> 01:01:43,500
You know what his name is, right?

1322
01:01:43,541 --> 01:01:45,666
Lil.

1323
01:01:45,666 --> 01:01:51,000
It's always, always that get that nickname.

1324
01:01:51,500 --> 01:01:53,500
Always.

1325
01:01:53,500 --> 01:01:54,791
This motherfucker is the tallest person in the family.

1326
01:01:54,791 --> 01:01:59,500
I'm like, bro, if y'all don't drop the lid off this man's name, like, ain't nothing.

1327
01:01:59,541 --> 01:02:01,541
He the tallest person in the family.

1328
01:02:01,541 --> 01:02:03,083
How the hell are you calling him Lil?

1329
01:02:03,083 --> 01:02:04,666
He is not Lil.

1330
01:02:04,666 --> 01:02:06,166
He like Lil What is his name?

1331
01:02:06,166 --> 01:02:07,916
Lil Man?

1332
01:02:07,916 --> 01:02:09,583
Like He is not Lil.

1333
01:02:09,583 --> 01:02:11,333
Lil Quint is the name, actually.

1334
01:02:11,333 --> 01:02:13,000
You know what I'm saying?

1335
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,125
But it's like, because obviously my uncle has

1336
01:02:15,125 --> 01:02:17,458
the same name, so you got Big and then Lil But.

1337
01:02:17,500 --> 01:02:19,833
Lil, it's taller than Big Quint.

1338
01:02:19,833 --> 01:02:24,375
So we was like, you can't keep that man, just call him Q, call him whatever, you know what I'm saying?

1339
01:02:24,375 --> 01:02:26,375
Right, right, right.

1340
01:02:26,375 --> 01:02:28,625
Lil got to get dropped out out of the conversation.

1341
01:02:28,625 --> 01:02:30,625
You know what I'm saying?

1342
01:02:30,625 --> 01:02:32,208
Like Like I said, you have somebody heavy in the family, call them Lightfoot.

1343
01:02:32,250 --> 01:02:36,291
What Lightfoot is, we good at doing shit like that.

1344
01:02:36,333 --> 01:02:39,750
Like going back to nicknames, you know what I'm saying?

1345
01:02:39,750 --> 01:02:41,750
It's like.

1346
01:02:41,750 --> 01:02:42,291
Calling you what you look like.

1347
01:02:42,291 --> 01:02:44,041
Exactly.

1348
01:02:44,041 --> 01:02:47,458
You imprinted on me because whatever you thought about me is what you put on me.

1349
01:02:47,500 --> 01:02:49,625
And then I'm supposed to carry this for the rest of my life.

1350
01:02:49,625 --> 01:02:51,833
That is a stereotype that I cannot say.

1351
01:02:51,875 --> 01:02:53,875
You know what I'm saying?

1352
01:02:53,875 --> 01:02:55,000
So it's like at some point we got to

1353
01:02:55,333 --> 01:02:59,583
have that come to Jesus meeting and we're going to have to get over this right here.

1354
01:02:59,583 --> 01:03:00,625
You know what I mean?

1355
01:03:00,625 --> 01:03:02,208
That's funny.

1356
01:03:02,208 --> 01:03:05,541
So we're going to take it a little bit broader now.

1357
01:03:05,541 --> 01:03:08,541
So if you've ever traveled, one of

1358
01:03:08,541 --> 01:03:11,625
the things that I've noticed is that going

1359
01:03:11,666 --> 01:03:15,375
out of country, a lot of people people do not like Americans

1360
01:03:16,125 --> 01:03:18,125
They're loud and we're arrogant.

1361
01:03:18,125 --> 01:03:21,458
What do you think about that stereotype?

1362
01:03:21,458 --> 01:03:24,458
You know, it's

1363
01:03:24,458 --> 01:03:26,541
so interesting because

1364
01:03:27,750 --> 01:03:30,750
I and I think it's because

1365
01:03:30,750 --> 01:03:33,083
I'm just a different type of person.

1366
01:03:33,083 --> 01:03:36,583
Like, I naturally just gravitates

1367
01:03:36,625 --> 01:03:40,333
toward people or people gravitate toward me.

1368
01:03:40,333 --> 01:03:42,333
And so

1369
01:03:42,333 --> 01:03:44,750
anywhere that I've gone in the country out of the

1370
01:03:44,791 --> 01:03:50,833
country, I've never had it where they would like badmouth Americans.

1371
01:03:50,833 --> 01:03:53,041
They would be like, oh, you're American.

1372
01:03:53,083 --> 01:03:55,333
And I'm, and I'm just like, you know, yeah.

1373
01:03:55,333 --> 01:03:57,791
And they, you know, oh, where you from?

1374
01:03:57,791 --> 01:03:59,791
And blah, blah, where'd you live?

1375
01:03:59,791 --> 01:04:01,791
you know, you like it.

1376
01:04:01,791 --> 01:04:04,958
And I'm like, oh, I'm near the beach, you know, and I'll have those kind of conversations,

1377
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,333
but they usually kind of leave it at that.

1378
01:04:07,333 --> 01:04:10,625
I've never experienced someone that's like,

1379
01:04:11,541 --> 01:04:14,541
or even overheard someone in another country

1380
01:04:14,541 --> 01:04:18,833
talking about Americans like that, which is crazy because

1381
01:04:18,875 --> 01:04:25,458
opposite of actually experiencing it, I have online

1382
01:04:26,125 --> 01:04:28,125
heard of those things.

1383
01:04:28,125 --> 01:04:30,125
You know what I'm saying?

1384
01:04:30,125 --> 01:04:32,125
So and I, because I

1385
01:04:32,125 --> 01:04:35,875
remember, there were people who

1386
01:04:35,916 --> 01:04:39,125
were saying like Irish people didn't like

1387
01:04:39,166 --> 01:04:41,958
Americans or Europeans don't like

1388
01:04:43,541 --> 01:04:45,541
you know, Americans and things of that nation.

1389
01:04:45,541 --> 01:04:48,208
I'm like, that's scary.

1390
01:04:48,208 --> 01:04:51,208
Because I'm like, one day I'm going to want

1391
01:04:51,208 --> 01:04:53,875
to go out there and I go out there.

1392
01:04:54,750 --> 01:04:57,375
Like I said..

1393
01:04:57,375 --> 01:04:59,375
Right.

1394
01:04:59,375 --> 01:05:01,583
Like I said, it's all about that stereotype because they see

1395
01:05:01,583 --> 01:05:03,666
us as being loud and arrogant.

1396
01:05:03,708 --> 01:05:06,750
And when we go there, a lot of times

1397
01:05:06,750 --> 01:05:09,625
our people do, we do.

1398
01:05:09,625 --> 01:05:11,625
You got to call a spade a spade.

1399
01:05:11,666 --> 01:05:14,041
We are loud and sometimes we are arrogant.

1400
01:05:14,083 --> 01:05:16,750
A lot of times we are arrogant to say how it is.

1401
01:05:17,500 --> 01:05:21,000
But because of that, people

1402
01:05:21,041 --> 01:05:26,000
don't like to deal with us, especially at restaurants and things of that nature.

1403
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,000
You know what I'm saying?

1404
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,125
Where anything in service, let's just do it that way.

1405
01:05:30,166 --> 01:05:34,583
Anything that's in service, we get demand the best and the fastest and the quickest.

1406
01:05:34,583 --> 01:05:39,166
And folks, like, you got to sit back and you got to wait or we're going to get this or we're going to get that.

1407
01:05:39,208 --> 01:05:41,208
But we want it now.

1408
01:05:41,208 --> 01:05:44,541
And that is the American mentality is I want it right now..

1409
01:05:44,541 --> 01:05:46,541
I don't I don't want to wait

1410
01:05:46,541 --> 01:05:50,458
And unfortunately, that one is also a true stereotype.

1411
01:05:50,500 --> 01:05:55,416
I've been to Korea and it's like...

1412
01:05:55,416 --> 01:05:57,416
I mean, it's like that here.

1413
01:05:57,416 --> 01:05:58,708
You don't even have to leave the country.

1414
01:05:58,708 --> 01:06:00,333
It's like that here.

1415
01:06:00,333 --> 01:06:02,666
Everybody is in a rush to do everything.

1416
01:06:02,666 --> 01:06:04,916
Like I was just mentioning the driving, like

1417
01:06:05,250 --> 01:06:07,250
driving so fast fast.

1418
01:06:07,250 --> 01:06:09,125
Like, it's crazy.

1419
01:06:09,125 --> 01:06:12,250
I see people because I'm on the roads early in the morning.

1420
01:06:12,250 --> 01:06:14,250
And I get it.

1421
01:06:14,250 --> 01:06:15,000
The rows are empty.

1422
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:17,666
But just because the rows are empty doesn't mean you have to speak.

1423
01:06:17,666 --> 01:06:20,458
And then it's even worse when the roads aren't empty

1424
01:06:20,958 --> 01:06:24,458
in they're packed and you're still speeding.

1425
01:06:24,500 --> 01:06:28,750
And it and for some reason, this is a slightly off topic.

1426
01:06:28,750 --> 01:06:33,458
Well, for some reason, I always feel like there is never a cop around

1427
01:06:34,208 --> 01:06:36,708
when a cop should actually be around.

1428
01:06:36,750 --> 01:06:39,750
I'd be like, man, I wish

1429
01:06:39,750 --> 01:06:42,666
I was a cop to pull you over.

1430
01:06:42,708 --> 01:06:44,833
I wish I was a cop.

1431
01:06:44,833 --> 01:06:47,041
I have witnessed one time

1432
01:06:47,708 --> 01:06:51,125
one time out of all the years I've been driving,

1433
01:06:51,166 --> 01:06:55,041
I've witnessed one time when there was a convenient

1434
01:06:55,041 --> 01:06:58,500
cop around because we were all stopped

1435
01:06:59,500 --> 01:07:01,500
It was a red light.

1436
01:07:01,500 --> 01:07:05,291
And then, the

1437
01:07:05,291 --> 01:07:09,125
light turned green and there's four lanes.

1438
01:07:09,166 --> 01:07:11,166
There's two to turn

1439
01:07:11,500 --> 01:07:14,541
and there's two, there's one to go straight and

1440
01:07:14,541 --> 01:07:17,000
then one can go straight straight or right.

1441
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:21,291
This person was in the third lane.

1442
01:07:22,416 --> 01:07:25,750
They jump over everybody that

1443
01:07:25,750 --> 01:07:27,958
was in the two third lane.

1444
01:07:29,916 --> 01:07:31,916
to turn.

1445
01:07:31,916 --> 01:07:34,083
And they didn't see that the cop was sitting at the

1446
01:07:34,125 --> 01:07:37,458
far left lane, so they cut the cop off too.

1447
01:07:38,958 --> 01:07:41,500
and the cop pulled him over.

1448
01:07:41,541 --> 01:07:44,208
I was like, hallelujah.

1449
01:07:44,250 --> 01:07:47,250
A carpet is finally where they need

1450
01:07:47,250 --> 01:07:49,375
to be, when they need to be there.

1451
01:07:49,416 --> 01:07:51,416
Right.

1452
01:07:51,416 --> 01:07:53,250
You know Because I'm like, bro, you literally just cut off two

1453
01:07:53,250 --> 01:07:56,958
lanes of traffic so that way you can beat a light.

1454
01:07:56,958 --> 01:07:58,958
That's crazy

1455
01:07:58,958 --> 01:08:00,291
Crazy.

1456
01:08:00,291 --> 01:08:03,000
Where you want to rush to go to.

1457
01:08:03,041 --> 01:08:05,041
Slow down.

1458
01:08:06,458 --> 01:08:09,958
Any funny thing, I be seeing folks doing that,

1459
01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:13,333
driving all crazy, cutting folks off, zigging and zagging,

1460
01:08:13,333 --> 01:08:17,208
bbing and weaving through traffic, and then stop at down McDonald's.

1461
01:08:18,166 --> 01:08:21,166
No, you know what's funny to me is when

1462
01:08:21,166 --> 01:08:24,208
they're doing all of that and still end up behind you.

1463
01:08:24,208 --> 01:08:26,208
Right.

1464
01:08:26,208 --> 01:08:27,041
Right.

1465
01:08:27,041 --> 01:08:28,416
That part.

1466
01:08:28,416 --> 01:08:29,166
But they do.

1467
01:08:29,166 --> 01:08:31,958
I was like, bro, you still behind me.

1468
01:08:31,958 --> 01:08:33,958
You had to get behind me?

1469
01:08:33,958 --> 01:08:35,208
You did all of that

1470
01:08:35,208 --> 01:08:38,666
Bobing and weav and going through through the traffic, and now you behind me.

1471
01:08:38,666 --> 01:08:42,125
How did that how did that happen?

1472
01:08:42,166 --> 01:08:44,416
Either behind me or right on the side of me.

1473
01:08:44,416 --> 01:08:48,000
I love when they're on the side of me or if I can get on the side of them.

1474
01:08:48,041 --> 01:08:50,583
I'm always like looking at them from the surface.

1475
01:08:52,166 --> 01:08:56,333
You did all had to be at the same red light that we're all still at.

1476
01:08:56,375 --> 01:08:58,375
We're all still at the same red light.

1477
01:08:58,375 --> 01:09:02,750
At the same damn time. coincident.

1478
01:09:02,791 --> 01:09:04,791
What a coincidence.

1479
01:09:06,375 --> 01:09:08,375
Oh, my God.

1480
01:09:08,375 --> 01:09:11,916
So it's just been, it's it's crazy.

1481
01:09:11,916 --> 01:09:16,291
But going back to, you know what I'm saying, America's being arrogant things of that nature.

1482
01:09:16,291 --> 01:09:19,916
And we've seen, even on social media right now, you know what I'm saying?

1483
01:09:19,958 --> 01:09:21,958
Like, especially like places like Dubai

1484
01:09:22,458 --> 01:09:24,958
where they don't play, they don't play that shit.

1485
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:28,083
Like, and then you find out folks

1486
01:09:28,125 --> 01:09:33,208
doing years because you couldn't control your mouth and things of that nature.

1487
01:09:33,208 --> 01:09:36,625
I remember being in the airport in Atlanta.

1488
01:09:38,250 --> 01:09:43,708
And I see the TSA agent and an actual police officer.

1489
01:09:43,708 --> 01:09:46,750
And then you got this woman with the slow

1490
01:09:46,750 --> 01:09:51,416
scroll, and she got the police officer's jacket over her shoulders

1491
01:09:51,458 --> 01:09:53,833
and everything, but you don't see her hands in the front.

1492
01:09:55,041 --> 01:09:57,041
Or she cuffed.

1493
01:09:57,041 --> 01:09:58,291
She handcuffeduffed.

1494
01:09:58,291 --> 01:10:00,541
And they put they just put the

1495
01:10:00,583 --> 01:10:04,833
jacket over her shoulders to, and you know you know it was one of our sisters.

1496
01:10:05,833 --> 01:10:07,833
Man in there, you know what I'm saying?

1497
01:10:07,833 --> 01:10:10,875
Just loud andnoxious for no reason.

1498
01:10:10,875 --> 01:10:12,875
And, you know what I'm saying?

1499
01:10:12,875 --> 01:10:14,458
Entitled.

1500
01:10:14,458 --> 01:10:16,416
And there's certain things that, it's certain words that

1501
01:10:16,458 --> 01:10:18,708
you just cannot say at an airport.

1502
01:10:18,750 --> 01:10:22,333
It's certain conduct that you you just cannot do in an airport.

1503
01:10:22,333 --> 01:10:24,333
Right.

1504
01:10:24,333 --> 01:10:25,250
You know what I'm saying?

1505
01:10:25,250 --> 01:10:26,375
Like, yeah

1506
01:10:26,375 --> 01:10:28,416
But yeah, she was doing a slow scroll.

1507
01:10:28,458 --> 01:10:32,416
She was walking behind the police officer, but she was doing that slow scroll.

1508
01:10:32,416 --> 01:10:35,458
And it's just like, we have to watch what we do and watch what we say

1509
01:10:35,500 --> 01:10:39,333
because not all the stereotypes that they say about us is actual stereotypes.

1510
01:10:39,333 --> 01:10:41,333
We actually do some of this shit.

1511
01:10:41,333 --> 01:10:42,875
You know what I'm saying?

1512
01:10:42,875 --> 01:10:43,916
And a lot of times people don't want to accept that

1513
01:10:44,666 --> 01:10:49,583
But it's all about, like I said, being here, we're real and authentic.

1514
01:10:49,583 --> 01:10:54,000
So we're going to call spades spades and we're not going to trickle coat certain things.

1515
01:10:54,041 --> 01:10:57,208
Sometimes we harden our own situations

1516
01:10:57,208 --> 01:11:01,250
just because of we fall victim to that stereotype

1517
01:11:01,291 --> 01:11:03,625
mentality and we actually live up to it.

1518
01:11:03,916 --> 01:11:08,833
So at times, you just have to reprogram,

1519
01:11:08,833 --> 01:11:12,875
write a different code, I guess you could say, and understand that

1520
01:11:14,125 --> 01:11:16,125
everything is is not cool.

1521
01:11:16,125 --> 01:11:18,791
Everything is not, not coesthetic, you know?

1522
01:11:21,083 --> 01:11:25,208
Another thing, this is one that I get a lot.

1523
01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:28,250
Because again, I am prior

1524
01:11:28,291 --> 01:11:31,166
military retirement military, disabled veteran.

1525
01:11:31,166 --> 01:11:33,166
So I have plates.

1526
01:11:33,166 --> 01:11:34,625
I actually have disabled plates.

1527
01:11:34,625 --> 01:11:38,000
I get, as y'all call it, Princess Parking, everywhere.

1528
01:11:38,375 --> 01:11:40,375
Right?

1529
01:11:40,375 --> 01:11:42,583
So.. most times I won't take advantage

1530
01:11:42,583 --> 01:11:46,000
of it if the parking lot is full or, you know what I'm saying, I'm

1531
01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:50,666
going in and coming out real quick, I might, you know what I'm saying, just park up front and keep it moving.

1532
01:11:50,666 --> 01:11:52,666
Mm.

1533
01:11:52,666 --> 01:11:56,291
On this particular day, I don't know if I told this story, but I was going to the beach one day.

1534
01:11:56,291 --> 01:11:58,291
It was me and

1535
01:11:58,291 --> 01:12:00,333
some couple of people that I was with.

1536
01:12:00,375 --> 01:12:02,375
So we get out the car.

1537
01:12:02,375 --> 01:12:05,500
And then we have this family

1538
01:12:05,541 --> 01:12:09,666
that walked by saying stuff underneath the breath.

1539
01:12:09,708 --> 01:12:11,791
Well, the guy wasn't very,

1540
01:12:13,208 --> 01:12:15,583
the women were low.

1541
01:12:15,625 --> 01:12:17,625
He was loud and vocal.

1542
01:12:17,625 --> 01:12:20,666
So I

1543
01:12:20,666 --> 01:12:23,166
guess parking comes at a premium now.

1544
01:12:24,208 --> 01:12:27,625
You don't look handicapped to me.

1545
01:12:30,166 --> 01:12:34,291
So, you know, and

1546
01:12:34,291 --> 01:12:37,583
me, man, falling into my stereotypes.

1547
01:12:37,583 --> 01:12:40,041
Very short temp.

1548
01:12:41,125 --> 01:12:43,375
I told you, I'm quick with them.

1549
01:12:43,416 --> 01:12:48,000
So if you st one at me, it's coming back fast, but they come in the rabbit fire.

1550
01:12:48,041 --> 01:12:51,041
So the first one, you said, I

1551
01:12:51,041 --> 01:12:55,875
guess parking comes out a premium, I guess being a privileged asshole is still free.

1552
01:12:56,375 --> 01:12:59,250
That part.

1553
01:12:59,250 --> 01:13:02,333
You don't look handicapped to

1554
01:13:02,375 --> 01:13:04,708
me, and you don't look like a fucking doctor to me.

1555
01:13:04,708 --> 01:13:07,708
And if you are, what school did you

1556
01:13:07,708 --> 01:13:10,916
go to that teaches you how to diagnose diagnose somebody

1557
01:13:10,958 --> 01:13:13,333
without actually seeing their chart?

1558
01:13:13,333 --> 01:13:15,333
Mm hmm.

1559
01:13:15,333 --> 01:13:17,541
You should be saving lives somewhere.

1560
01:13:17,541 --> 01:13:20,333
I mean, I'm so quick with them, bro..

1561
01:13:20,375 --> 01:13:22,833
Hey, ladies, y'all smell that?

1562
01:13:22,833 --> 01:13:24,833
That's.

1563
01:13:24,833 --> 01:13:26,750
That frequence is jealousy.

1564
01:13:26,750 --> 01:13:28,208
I didn't know they made it for me, though.

1565
01:13:28,208 --> 01:13:30,000
Well, I'm talking like, I'm going in on the dude.

1566
01:13:30,041 --> 01:13:32,041
Like I'm Wow.

1567
01:13:32,041 --> 01:13:33,208
Rapid fire.

1568
01:13:33,208 --> 01:13:35,750
Rapid fire to the point where he just...

1569
01:13:35,791 --> 01:13:38,833
I'm colored, but you

1570
01:13:38,833 --> 01:13:42,125
changed different colors. couple two, three times.

1571
01:13:42,166 --> 01:13:44,166
You know what I'm saying?

1572
01:13:44,166 --> 01:13:45,333
A Couple two, three times.

1573
01:13:45,333 --> 01:13:47,208
I don't say what I had to say.

1574
01:13:47,208 --> 01:13:48,458
You don't went from being one complexion to

1575
01:13:49,166 --> 01:13:52,625
yeah, you were red by the time I was finished. as

1576
01:13:52,666 --> 01:13:57,083
you're walking and now I'm walking behind you and I'm still keep it going because that's just how I am.

1577
01:13:57,083 --> 01:13:59,083
You know what I'm saying?

1578
01:13:59,083 --> 01:13:59,791
I don't star shit, but.

1579
01:14:00,208 --> 01:14:02,208
don't finish it.

1580
01:14:02,208 --> 01:14:03,291
You shouldn't have fucking with me.

1581
01:14:03,291 --> 01:14:04,666
Should have kept it lit.

1582
01:14:04,666 --> 01:14:05,625
You know what I'm saying?

1583
01:14:05,625 --> 01:14:06,166
Just kept it moving.

1584
01:14:06,166 --> 01:14:08,000
And everything would have been coposthetic.

1585
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:10,000
But no.

1586
01:14:10,458 --> 01:14:12,458
So, yeah, that's one of the things.

1587
01:14:12,458 --> 01:14:14,083
Yeah.

1588
01:14:14,083 --> 01:14:14,333
Do we have quick tempers?

1589
01:14:14,333 --> 01:14:15,458
Yes, sometimes.

1590
01:14:15,458 --> 01:14:16,375
In other times, you know what I'm saying?

1591
01:14:16,375 --> 01:14:18,833
I can look at you and be like, that shit ain't even worth my time.

1592
01:14:18,875 --> 01:14:21,250
Not even working my time.

1593
01:14:21,250 --> 01:14:24,291
So, but yeah, that is a few

1594
01:14:24,333 --> 01:14:27,333
stereotypes that we do fall into, you know what I'm saying?

1595
01:14:27,333 --> 01:14:30,750
And I can honestly admit that I do it from time to time.

1596
01:14:30,750 --> 01:14:32,750
Right.

1597
01:14:32,750 --> 01:14:33,708
You know, it is what it is.

1598
01:14:34,666 --> 01:14:37,041
You want to get it?

1599
01:14:37,041 --> 01:14:39,041
Absolutely.

1600
01:14:39,041 --> 01:14:40,500
You know what I'm saying?

1601
01:14:40,500 --> 01:14:42,583
Well, this has been another episode

1602
01:14:42,583 --> 01:14:46,166
of All in One, where we keep it real, we keep it authentic.

1603
01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:50,083
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1604
01:14:50,125 --> 01:14:52,375
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1605
01:14:52,416 --> 01:14:55,166
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01:14:55,166 --> 01:14:57,916
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1607
01:14:57,916 --> 01:15:01,000
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1608
01:15:01,041 --> 01:15:03,041
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1609
01:15:03,041 --> 01:15:03,666
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1610
01:15:03,666 --> 01:15:05,625
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1611
01:15:05,625 --> 01:15:06,958
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01:15:06,958 --> 01:15:08,166
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