Magnetic & Messy

Things I Wish I Knew in My Early 20s (So You Don’t Have to Learn the Hard Way)

Jazzy Season 1 Episode 19

Episode 19: Things I Wish I Knew in My Early 20s (So You Don’t Have to Learn the Hard Way)

In this episode of Magnetic & Messy, I’m basically giving a love letter to my younger self - and to any 20-something who feels like they’re spiraling while trying to figure it all out.

We’re unpacking the lessons I desperately wish I knew earlier: from dropping unrealistic timelines and releasing the pressure to “have it all together,” to navigating relationships, self-worth, and identity pivots with more grace and way less guilt.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too much, too emotional, too confused, or too behind - this one’s for you. You are not broken. You’re just becoming.

Inside this episode:

  • The myth of timelines (and how they mess with your head)

  • Releasing the pressure to prove your worth through relationships

  • Why changing your mind is growth, not failure

  • How to prioritize yourself without guilt

  • The magic of moving through fear when it’s also exciting

Plus: subconscious reframes, real-talk lessons, and prompts to help you step into your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and compassion.


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