Why Some Dogs Get “Fired” From Grooming Salons

Your dog got turned away by a groomer and now you’re wondering what you did wrong. We get it and we want to take the shame out of it. When a salon says they can’t safely continue, it often has less to do with a “bad dog” and more to do with fear, the grooming environment, and whether the shop is actually equipped for your dog’s needs.

We talk through what “fired” means in the grooming world, why anxious and reactive dogs can be mislabeled as aggressive, and how a groomer’s confidence and handling approach can change everything. You’ll hear why loud dryers, tight spaces, slip leads, and even stormy weather can push a dog over threshold. We also unpack our guiding idea: humanity over vanity. For many senior dogs, special-needs dogs, and first-timers, the best dog haircut is the one that keeps them comfortable and makes regular grooming possible, even if that means a shorter, simpler style.

We wrap with practical options if your dog struggles in a traditional salon. We share how to spot patterns, what to say when you call around, and the exact questions to ask about staffing, time, and low-stress handling. We also touch on sedated vet grooming, when it may be appropriate, and why it isn’t always the default solution.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:03

Welcome to Tale Talk Grooming Chronicles with Health Therapy, the podcast where we talk all things pet groups, daycare, academy, and more. Hosted by Shannon and Tony of Health Therapy, serving pet owners across North Texas. We're here to share expert tips, hilarious pet stories, and the inside scoop on keeping your furry friends happy and healthy. Our motto, humanity over vanity. And don't worry, we don't fight. Let's get started.

SPEAKER_01 0:40

Some dogs get labeled difficult, but what really leads a groomer to say we can't safely continue? Today, Shannon and Tanya pull back the curtain on the real reasons behind Salong firings and why it's not about being a bad dog. Welcome out back, everyone. I'm Sophia Yvette, co-host and producer back in the studio with Shannon and Tanya, professional groomers at Hound Therapy. Hi, ladies, how are you both doing today?

SPEAKER_02 1:08

Oh, we love our time with you, Sophia. We're great.

SPEAKER_01 1:12

Aw, same here. Well, today we are tackling a question a lot of pet parents don't even realize exists. Why do some dogs get fired from grooming salons? I'd love for you both to open up this one. And what does fired really mean in the grooming world?

Fear Signals And Handling Approach

SPEAKER_02 1:30

So it doesn't, fire doesn't always mean what you think it means. Um we have to get down to what we're really talking about here from the groomer's point. Uh sometimes it's it's just a behavioral issue or and it's an environment issue. Um more often it means the dog needs a more experienced handler. Um it could be the situation requires more advanced time and skill. Uh it could be that the salon just isn't equipped for your type of dog or the age or um height or size. Uh there, there's there's a lot of things. Um, not every salon is built for every dog. So uh that's probably a really good thing to for for for me to say again. Uh not every salon is built for every dog. So you need to find the salon that's built for your dog. Um we we need to make sure that um whoever is handling a dog that has got special needs, that is elderly, that um, you know, it it's maybe labeled uh aggressive or it does some things that uh it it people are nervous if it makes a person nervous to do your dog, they're not gonna be a good fit for your dog. That dog can feel the nerves. 100%. And I will say, like, different groomers have different approaches. Uh it could just be that your dog did not like that specific groomer or they didn't get along with that specific groomer. It doesn't mean that the groomer at the next table probably gonna be could be perfect. Yeah. So it's it it's sometimes it's the person and sometimes it's it's the shop or it's the environment. Sometimes it's the weather. I'm I let's talk about it. Oh my goodness. This week has been terrible. It's rained all day and uh it's rained all week here. So we've had a lot of dogs that have really been acting uncharacteristically than they're than their norm. They're they're not behaving normally. Yeah. Um, and you know, they've been kept up, they can't go outside, they come in with wet matty paws, uh, they've got allergies going on. I mean, there's just a lot of things that are happening right now. So um, you know, fired is is it's it's not always what you think. It just might mean that you need a better fit. Um it would be my my my best um answer for for that, you know, moving on. And I've had fired with like air quotes around it. Yeah, because it's not it's it's just it's just not a good fit. And it could be that that person's having a bad day. Uh your dog might be having a bad day. Try again on another time. Uh for sure, don't give up the first time you've got in. If you have a bad feeling, uh, or if you're afraid of your own dog, um, then you know, those are that's gonna carry on. If you're afraid to enter the salon, uh if you're if you've got some uh emotions that have been happening at your house with you going on, your dog is definitely gonna pick up on those vibes too. So um I I would be cautioned and cautionary of look at the whole picture.

SPEAKER_01 4:23

Yes, yes. And what I hear you saying, Shannon, is a lot of this seems like it comes more down to fear than true aggression from these dogs. Is that correct?

Humanity Over Vanity Grooming

SPEAKER_02 4:35

100%. Absolutely. It's fear, an aggressive dog is usually an afraid dog. And it's a dog that is nervous for whatever other reason. Coming into a salon, dogs are not afraid to get haircuts. Dogs are not afraid, they're afraid of loud noises, they're afraid of thunder, they're afraid of um being backed into a corner, they're afraid of being approached, you know, around their neck with a slip lead. So approaching your dog in the proper manner um is going to cause less fear for your dog if you approach it correctly from behind with confidence, um, you know, being able to touch your dog. Uh sometimes it's uh this dog is afraid you're going to attack their owner. Uh so, you know, removing that situation, grabbing the lead from the owner and saying, you know, let me take control for a minute. And then that dog kind of relaxed because you're like, okay, well, you know, she's handed me off. I don't, I can, I can relax now. There's there's a lot of reasons that dogs um are seeming to be aggressive or labeled aggressive. And it's our job to kind of figure out what's causing that. How do we alleviate that for them? How are we able to um put that person at ease? It's it's no in no different than you know, going in for surgery and having that one nurse come into you and being like, you know what? I do these all the time. You're gonna be kind of palms you. It's my first surgery, but it's her, you know, 100th. So it's that that's kind of what we're that's our spin that we're putting on it. It's it's not our first time. Um it it might be your first time and it might be your dog's first time, uh, whether it's here or for grimming in general. But they're usually, there are usually uh a lot of ways to approach that. And and that takes more time. It takes a salon that has the dedication to do that. It takes a well-versed grimmer or person who wants to um uh allow for that time for your dog because it sometimes it takes a minute for them to warm up. Um, not every dog can be maintained fluffy and long, you know. Uh, we use that humanity over vanity. If your dog is one of those fearful dogs, well, we're not worried about it looking fluffy and cute. We want it to have a cut. We want your dog to be comfortable that you can sustain uh and groom on a regular basis without them being so afraid every single time they come. So we're gonna take some steps and some precautions to let's let's do let's limit the fear, right? This isn't fear factor. We're not we're not trying to win a game show. We're we definitely want to introduce fear in a nice, healthy way and kind of face our fears versus um you know, just scare you to death. And kind of redirect that fear into making it something positive. That's a much better way of saying that. Uh I got you. Working with anxious or reflective dogs, um, you know, reactive is is different than than mean. Um prioritizing low stress handling is something that we do. Um, you know, we're honest. We have realistic outcomes here. Uh we did a dog today that uh I've been bit four times by the same dog. Uh and it's in the same group. Got one eye he can't hear. Uh the one eye he does have, he doesn't see robot, but he's got all his teeth and he's very, very strong. And he's very old. And he doesn't mean to, he's just a little crazy. He's and he's mean and he's strong. Um and the owner walks in, you know, with some three feet in front of him, and because she knows he's mean and nobody wants to get bit. But he bites everyone. But I mean, he still has to be groomed for his own hygiene. So You know, the fact that he's still here at 18 and he's going strong, he's not giving it up. Uh so we do a lot of those. But he's not fluffy. He was short. He's he's, you know, one holds the mouth down, somebody else holds the back feet. And, you know, we're giving him his eyes are matted, and the one eye he can, you know, maybe we've got to clean it up and somebody's gotta do it. And uh, you know, we we we don't mind it. Uh it's it's something that we feel is a necessity, and we try to approach it with good humor and um, you know, a lightheartedness about it. And we're like, oh god, you know, like it's that's let's do that. I I know you want to bite me, buddy. I know you want to, but can we not for just like two seconds, please?

SPEAKER_01 9:00

My final question is what options do pet parents have if their dog is struggling in a traditional salon environment?

SPEAKER_02 9:09

Um, first I would be aware that if you if you know that, right? And you've got if if more than one person has told you this, if you're seeing a trend or a pattern, the problem is is probably you and the dog versus not the groomer. So take that on, uh, you know, own it and be like, look, I may not have done uh the best job or my dog is old. I do understand that, you know, we need special needs. Uh recognize that you have a problem. That's that's number one. That's one one once you do that, find out what salon is going to be a good fit for you. Make some phone calls, call, say, hey, look, this is what other groomers have said, this is what my vet has said, this is the realistic view of what I've got. This is what I'd like to have, but I'm willing to take, you know, what I can get and and and be thankful uh that you know there are people out there that are willing to do it. Because we aren't the only ones. There are many people that that want to help um, you know, older, struggling animals or that are are misbehaved. I mean, we're seeing this more and more, as we've talked about before, you know, our COVID dogs that that don't have as much um, you know, pizzazz that they needed behind them. They didn't get that that socialization. So there's a lot of people out there, but just asking the right questions. Will you do that? Do you take the time? Uh how many people are at your shop? Do you do these these? Because some people will say, no, we don't know them. I don't want to know. I mean, I know plenty of groomers that don't. Um, and a lot of big box stores will they they can't tell you, hey, just go get another groomer. Um, they're trained to tell you to go get a sedated groom of the vet, and that's not always the answer. Um, I'm not saying that, you know, that's for every case out there. Some dogs do need it. Yeah. Um, but that's not the case. Just call around and see who does them. We're not the only ones. Add to advocate for your dog. And your dog's not the only one with those problems. So yeah, and and rest easy. Don't don't ever be afraid of saying, Hey, my dog did this, because I promise you, there are are you are much worse dogs. Yeah. We like the people that are up front. Yeah. And we'll say it again a thousand times. Be honest with your rumor. It's easier for us to help you. Yeah.

Closing And How To Book

SPEAKER_01 11:24

Wow. Well, Shannon and Tanya, thank you so much again for breaking that down with so much clarity and compassion, as you both always do. Now, that was such an important conversation for us to have today and for every pet parent to hear. We'll see everyone next time.

SPEAKER_00 11:45

That's a wrap for this episode of Tale Talk with Hound Therapy. Ready to book your pet's next groom daycare stay or grooming academy tour? Call us at 469-367-0009. That's 469-367-0009 to schedule an appointment. Or visit us online at www.houndtherapy.com, serving North Texas with expert back care. Until next time, keep those tails waxed.