Fairy Tea
Fairy Tea is a deeply personal podcast where I share the raw, honest messiness of life—exploring how to break free from societal expectations and follow the heart’s calling. Blending storytelling, spirituality, folklore, and self-discovery, Fairy Tea is both magical and real, whimsical yet grounded. It’s a space to embrace uncertainty, face challenges without fear, and stay curious about the possibilities ahead. Through my own experiences, I invite listeners to see that a new way of living is possible—one that is intuitive, soulful, and uniquely their own.
Fairy Tea
Let’s All Be Firefighters of Love
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Welcome back to Fairy Tea, where I explore the enchanting world of spirituality and self-discovery. In this episode, I'm thrilled to have my friend Sarah, an intuitive astrologer, join me for a chat about the magic of astrology, the power of ancient wisdom, and the journey of aligning with our true selves. Join us as we sip on the ethereal wisdom of the stars and uncover the secrets to living a life full of love, connection, and authenticity.
Highlights:
- Sagittarius season brings heightened emotions
- Aligning ancient wisdom with modern astrology insights
- Authentic financial practices vs. dark sales psychology
- Embracing lifelong learning and courage
- Shifting from ego to community empowerment
- Following intuition over algorithm-driven content.
Guest Bio:
Sarah is an Intuitive Astrologer and Human Design Projector who walks in rhythm with the stars. Her approach to astrology is deeply intuitive, blending ancient wisdom with modern insight. She sees astrology as a mirror of the soul - a living, breathing map that reveals where you are being called to grow, release, and return home to yourself. Through 1:1 consultations, natal chart write-ups, and The Celestial Current (her monthly subscription) - she offers guidance designed to align you with your highest frequency and remind you of your innate connection to the universe.
Find Sarah: Instagram, Website
This episode was produced by six-two.studio
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Fairy Tea is a deeply personal podcast where I share the raw, honest messiness of life—exploring how to break free from societal expectations and follow the heart’s calling. Blending storytelling, spirituality, folklore, and self-discovery, Fairy Tea is both magical and real, whimsical yet grounded. It’s a space to embrace uncertainty, face challenges without fear, and stay curious about the possibilities ahead. Through my own experiences, I invite listeners to see that a new way of living is possible—one that is intuitive, soulful, and uniquely their own.
Instagram: @fairytea.podcast or @akayourfairygodmother
Sophie (00:00) Welcome to Fairy Tea, where we sip on the ethereal wisdom of the fairy realm and uncover its ancient secrets for healing, pleasure and rest. I'm your host Sophie, here to sprinkle a little enchantment into your everyday life. Think of this as one great unfolding experiment. An invitation to dance with magic, trust the unseen and let curiosity lead the way.
Hello everybody, hello little fairies. Welcome back to Fairy Tea. I'm so your fairy godmother. Today's episode is about spirituality. I don't know yet where we're gonna go exactly. This is also due to the fact that I have a guest here with me. Tonight, I'm here with Sarah. Hello, Sarah.
Sarah (00:59) We're so excited to be here. I say we, my spirit team and I, we're so excited.
Sophie (01:04) I love that. I'm so happy to have you here. It's such an honor. Sarah is an intuitive astrologer. She has a wonderful approach to astrology, in my opinion. I love how she combines ancient wisdom and modern insight, which I feel like is so powerful because it
goes back to envision a future and to proceed into the future, we have to connect with the past, right? We cannot go into the future without honoring our past. And I feel like that is such a beautiful aspect. And Sarah is by far...My
Sophie (01:58) Favorite astrologer in the world, I absolutely love your content. I love your approach to astrology. I really feel like you make every single sign in the zodiac feel so special.
Sarah (02:15) Yeah, they're all equal.
Sophie (02:18) And I feel like what I perceive from your ideology is that we need all of them. We need every single one of them and every single one has its specific teachings. And only combined we can really evolve and learn and grow. Sarah Sarah Moody Official on Instagram. And I can go follow her.
Sarah (02:48) my gosh. I gotta tell you, Sophie, I think we have the same love language, you and I. And we have similar signs. have that Sag and Leo in us. And we wanna see the best in everyone. Like, that's what it comes down to. That's our love language and...
We're always trying to spiritually bring people up all the time. And yeah, every sign is the same. It is a circle that just creates 360 degrees of lessons of the stars. Like, Earth is receiving all of the stars. We're made of stars. I mean, of course we're...
We're all just little, I always call us like, we're just like little cosmic blobs. We're, cause when you look at the birth charts, a circle, and it's got the 12 pieces of pie, and the planets are always gonna be, we're all gonna have the same amount of planets and asteroids. We are just a snapshot of where they're arranged. We're all the same, we're just arranged differently.
Any sign you don't like is the part in yourself you don't like about yourself. That's all that it is. Typically, that's what I find the trigger back to in my readings. And I've had over like hundreds and hundreds of readings. I've met with a lot of people. I have a psychology degree. And I'm always just studying up on all of it. Human design. we all, like, come on, we're all the same. We're just arranged differently.
So if I can just explain the truth of what a sort of ⁓ like untangled way of looking at it could be like something to sort of come back to is like a system that works. I don't want to help teach that system. And that's the Sagittarius. They just want to teach the system, which I am Sagittarius. And you...
do the same thing as me. That's why I say like we have the same love language. We just wanna teach and connect with spirit and raise consciousness and raise the vibration because we know that like that's like the most powerful thing we could do. I said this before we hopped on to the podcast today that
I knew that we were kindred souls, like when we met and I saw your chart.
Sophie (05:44) Everything you just said, it just lit my heart up. And I think you're so right when it comes to how we have the same love language. And I think that's why a lot of what you're saying and a lot of what you share resonates with me so much because whenever I see someone, I see a piece of art. ⁓ Every person is its own piece of art. And I'm just like so...
curious to see how they express themselves, what makes them unique, what their magic is, what their lore is. And that's kind of like how I approach every single person everywhere all the time. And also what you said in terms of like the stars, right? I always like, and I think that is very interesting because we have the same Leo rising, right? So.
Sarah (06:26) Yeah.
Sophie (06:39) like shining brightly is definitely within our constitution. But I never in my life did I want to shine, outshine anyone. Like that never was a goal of mine ever. Like I want to shine as bright as I can, but I want to shine, like I want to have all the stars around me to shine with me. Like I want all the stars to shine as bright as they can. think that's something that.
Sarah (06:43) Yeah.
That's so good.
Sophie (07:10) And that is something that I work towards. is why I do everything I do is to be able to shine with as many stars as there are.
Sarah (07:19) Yes. my god. I love that. I think you and I both at this point in our lives realized that we're like a lot more optimistic than a lot of the collective when it comes to our faith. Because your moon is in Sagittarius, right? Yeah. So it's in your Cancer Sun. So it's just like, and my sun is in
Sagittarius fifth house and I also have a Leo rising. So like we're on the same Mission it might be arranged slightly differently depending on just you know, the other planets that are different but Like that's why I say our love language is the same like those Leo rising sort of have our houses ruled by the same signs like when you meet people with the same rising side as you like they are part of your soul tribe like
That means that most of their planets and houses and signs, mostly just the houses and signs are all going to be lined up. So like, it's just similar philosophies. And I think that when you can meet someone who has those similarities to you, might not be like the most challenging relationship you've ever had. It's going to be very easy.
But it's actually really cool because it's kind of rare and we can finally see ourselves, especially if like the qualities you love in me and are so enamored by, like that exists in you and like what you're enamored by within yourself. And I feel the same way. Like the way that we both describe each other is so similar. Okay. I want to pull some cards. We're going to pull some tarot, not with the Moracle. We're going to pull some tarot. And
This is sort of what I think we should talk about today. I already know what it's going to be about, but I'm just wanting confirmation on it.
Sophie (09:24) How you're just like, you're here and we can witness you in your element. It's just so beautiful. Thank you so much.
Sarah (09:34) So
happy. I'm playing right now. All right. So we're going to pull some cards for the collectors. I'm going to close my eyes, kind channel back in and kind of feel what needs to be talked about, what Mercury and Sagittarius wants to focus on tonight and get us to collectively talk about. Oh my God. I literally already knew what it was going to be about.
Okay, so the first card that we pulled is the Queen of Pentacles in reverse. Reverse is the key here. We're gonna talk about that. Then we have the Eight of Cups. And the last card that came out is the Page of Swords. So, so many things. Sit down, are you ready? I'm about to like pop off here right now.
I'm charged up right now. Fire is the key tonight. And passion, passion. That's the word tonight. Passion. Desires. Following your passions, following your desires, feeling the momentum, all the things. We are sort of like the Sagittarian teachers of this world.
And we are currently sort of experiencing like this like apocalypse of like the dark web of salesperson spirituality. That's what we're talking about tonight. We need to talk about the Queen of Pentacles.
So Queen of Pentacles is the first card that came out reversed. Holy mackerel. So, okay. So the way that I pull tarot cards is I don't pull like a past, present, future. I pull a body, mind, spirit card to kind of like get the body, mind, and spirit of the collective right now. So Queen of Pentacles is in reverse. So when the Queen of Pentacles is upright, she's the Queen of...
earth. She is the queen of money. She is the queen of exchange of investment, of career, ⁓ of time, energy, money, power, all the things. And she's a queen and she's generous. And when she's upright, she's rather quite beautiful. Like she's, she's, you know, you can kind of see, but she's got her, her nice robe. She's very abundant. She spreads to all.
fairly and it's very positive. But when it's in reversed, it's talking about queens, not kings. So we're talking about spirituality. We're talking about feelings and we're talking about money and we're talking about it in reverse. Something is not right right now. I'm going to put this into like the best words possible. But when you look at sort of like the spread of these
I don't know if it would be easier if I just quickly explained them and then we talked about it. But I pulled the body card. This is sort of the tangible manifestation of what's going on in the spirit. That's what we're trying to figure out here. But this is mostly what's going on in the world right now. It's reversed, so it's not positive. And we will talk about that, but I think it would be easier to just kind of briefly go over them and then get deeper into it.
So we're going to get into the mind next. So we have the eight of cups and this is about leaving something. It's leaving something. It's sort of unfinished business. It's an intuitive feeling that it's not right. It's an intuitive feeling that it's not healthy anymore. It's emotionally draining, literally. And we're leaving it. We're making like the conscious decision to follow the moon, follow our intuition.
Follow the waters and go on that journey because there is just something that when someone's leaving at the aid of cups, it means that something either left too soon or is just not emotionally working out for us anymore. And that's the mind. That's sort of the mind of the collective. What we're kind of thinking about right now and that's sort of the divide that I am going to preface. When then at the spirit is the page of swords.
And the page of swords is like the student. It's the student that has the sword in hand. And swords is like, how we're, it's the air, right? It's an air element swords and it's communication, it's sharing ideas, it's new approaches. It's thinking outside of the box. It's being more progressive. And we are sort of in this age of Aquarius right now, Pluto.
moving into this 20 year long journey through Aquarius. Like we are getting outside of the box. Like we are moving outside of the box. But this is just something that's kind of been weighing on my heart and me being a full-time content creator, astrologer, this is something I see every day and it's my job. And it's also my own unique perspective.
that I'm kind of ready to open up about. And I wanted to kind of use this platform as a opportunity to venture into it. I knew it was going to be about this, but we're going to talk about women earning money. And when I say woman, I just mean feminine energy. I just mean the feminine energy and however that wants to be tangibly identified with. I'm talking about like the divine
feminine right now. The divine, and my boyfriend has divine feminine energy in him. So like, it's there, we talk about this. So the queen is the divine feminine. And we're talking about money. We're talking about the selling of something. And I'm going to stop beating around the bush because the SAG season
And I'm going to jump right in. I was about to go into today's podcast and I was scrolling through my social media as one does with this job. And I came across this woman whom I got an icky feeling from. not going to name names, but I'm a very energetic individual and I do see the good in everyone. But I do feel when I say ick, I mean like I want to hug her.
and calm her nervous system down and tell her, like, honey, you're in fear mode. This is not truth for you, you know? I want to bring you up right, but I know you might bite my hand first while I'm trying to flip you up, but I promise you, this is where my words are coming from. I want you right side up. So I want to preface with today's message, not trying to hurt anyone's feelings. I don't see anyone as bad.
I just think like communication, kind of coming in with the page of swords energy here. I'm just trying to offer a new perspective. So I was scrolling and I see this woman and she sets her camera up and she starts talking about the dark psychology of sales is what she called it. And she is a big creator and she has lot of followers.
And she sells selling courses. And this is not the first woman I've seen do this. That type of community of like selling how to sell. And they started talking about like the dark psychology of sales and the word dark before sales psychology is just like reversed energy.
It's blood is rushing to her head as she speaks. Like she is upside down. Like this is not going to end well. Like you might be powerful for a second. Like it is queen energy. Like you are getting money, but it's not like an ethical way. It's not an, it's not authentic money. It's not money rooted in love and truth. It's prying on, you know, people who are broke and you're telling them how they can get
Sophie (18:38) .
Sarah (18:46) rich. And the reason why I word it that way is because she explained how there's like the main pillars of like the dark psychology of sales. Number one, a man's lust for a woman, she says, which is also very traditional. Then she says, woman needing to be more beautiful and making broke people think they can get rich.
And that is literally what her entire page is. And she has a ⁓ caption in her bio saying, click here to download my selling course. And she's literally explaining how she's using dark psychology on them to like, that's how you do it. And she goes, and you just make like a free course that you don't have to put a penny into.
And if you can get enough people to believe you, can sell dog shit. She says, and they'll take it and they'll, they'll take it every time. And then at the end of the video, she goes, but don't sell dog shit. but it's like, you just completely outed like what you're doing. And people are just like, here's my money. Like they're not even seeing like the paradox of like, they're funding her.
crying on innocent people and like getting money only from telling people she has a trick but it's not like it's just to get them to like that's what's feeding but do you see what I'm saying here? Like it's like this energy and like I don't know what it is Sophie but I am seeing this so much. Buy this course to get this, buy this course to do that and she's like
explaining how she goes, the human population, they just want to feel like they belong. So if you can paint a picture for them to make them feel like they could have something that they don't, you're powerful. You can get money from them. And I was just like, this is so messed up. now when we look deeper, so the first card I pull is always like, what is tangibly going on right now? What is actually going on in the world?
Now, what is sort of going on under another layer that we can't see? What's the invisible layer? And I see the eight of cups and the eight of cups is like walking away from that and like following intuition. And I just posted a video the other day saying the new algorithm is intuition. That is like where we're heading. The North node is going to be in Pisces until next July. We just had.
Neptune go back into Pisces. just, had Saturn going into Pisces. Like we have a lot of energy right now that is like telling us to like create and connect from intuition. And I was explaining to my boyfriend when I saw, you know, sort of this description about like how to sell to people who are
innocent. I was like, my astrology is free what I post. And it's genuinely just to remind you how beautiful you are. And to remind you that you're equal to everyone and you're not better or worse than anyone. And we're all the same. Like all I'm trying to do is squash people together to be on a spectrum.
instead of a hierarchy. I'm just trying to stretch the feeling of competition because it doesn't work up and down. It works here. Like it stretches this way. And I'm never above someone trying to pry them or lie to them. I wouldn't do that. I care so much about what's in their best interest. And it's the get rich quick pyramid schemes.
that are just like taking the world by storm. And I'm here to show a different way to explain things. I'm here to share my ideas. You know, I used to be on TikTok and I was getting millions and millions and millions of views and brand deals and meeting cool people, flying here, doing this, doing that. And...
It was really ⁓ so unaligned for me and I knew that and it was driving me crazy. Everything felt unaligned and I felt so like in fear and I kind of felt like I was in this energy. It didn't feel like money from my highest self and I could feel that deep down. So I left. That's part of my astrology journey is like
I left TikTok for a while and I started getting like way less views and I went fully over to Instagram because I just feel like there's a better sense of community on Instagram. feel like it's so hard to get a hold of you guys on TikTok because it's so like global and like there's the for you page and it's not as like community centered and like community based. And it was a pretty isolated year for me. It wasn't till like as of recently.
I've kind of gotten my fire back, I would say too, with just astrology and creating from my truth and sharing my sort of wisdom, my sort of insight. If it cuts through you and helps you, thank God. But I just felt in my intuition that there is like this new wave of content creation and
It's very like, come to America for the American dream and come to Hollywood where your dreams can come true. And that's starting to feel like what social media is like right now. And like only certain people will like take off. And it's just this like extremely like rat race type of energy. And like everyone's chasing it so like oppositely. They're chasing it in like such a
inauthentic way. And it's not going to change itself. It's going to change through creators like you and I, Sophie, who are leaving that. We see the truth. Like, we're not going to complete these cups here and go to the 10 of cups. Like, we're leaving that. Like, I'm sorry, I'm not. And I did take a hit. I took a hit. I lost a lot of followers on like TikTok. I mean, not that many, but like enough for me. Like, yeah.
Like it's not, it's just not, it's not for me anymore. If I ever post something, it's going to be like completely authentic and I want it to be shared with the community and that's it. So yeah, I just threw a lot of you, but how does any of this like resonate with sort of like your content creation journey? I know we kind of talked about this before though too. Do you remember that?
Sophie (26:25) I remember that, I mean, that was at a time where it was not at all clear. And I think it actually rooted in something similar, you know? But let me preface this and just say, like, thank you so much for sharing all of this and for opening up like this. Like, I know that is not, you know, takes a lot of courage to be like in this day and age, particularly for what you just said.
to be candid about your own opinions and to be like, this is where I stand and I'm not gonna get corrupted by, you know, five minute fame or whatever. I think it takes a lot and just goes to show again why I have so much admiration for you because I feel like, and that's what I sense. And I think that's probably also like something you and I have very much in common is you can
You see content and you can feel so much. And it's seductive, right? It's seductive to like just go the cheap way. But the question is like, what are you chasing here? Like where are we trying to go? And I feel like, and this goes back to what you said in the beginning, like female energy, female embodiment, like we're at this end stage capitalism.
point of no return where we're basically like scattered in all directions and like we don't know where we're running to anymore like we have no idea we're just kind of like we're all kind like trying to
Sarah (28:07) world still. Like the Queen is upside down. Like we're not truly embodying feminine energy if we're giving a get rich quick pyramid scheme booklet for $10,000 a month. Like it's just not feasible.
Sophie (28:24) The crazy thing that comes to my mind in that regard is to create all of that, that also takes energy. Like you might as well invest the same energy into something that is actually aligned with you, with your heart. And in that sense, it actually like perpetuates energy, perpetuates love. Cause love and even money, like I believe that money is an abundant resource. I don't believe that money is a scarce resource.
Sarah (28:54) It's a consciousness, like it's its own consciousness. It's so loving actually.
Sophie (28:58) And like in
so
loving and imagine if you can choose between making money from a place that is aligned and that doesn't... And I think it plays a role that we're still in this very much entrenched in this hustle culture that everything we want, we have to fight for it so hard. have to... It needs be technical. Yeah, we have to exploit ourselves. We have to exploit others.
Otherwise we can't, we can't get what we want. And to me, that's just like, like I'm such a similar point in my life, as you explained, just like in a different, obviously not as a content creator per se, or at a different stage of that, because I've yet to figure out, I mean, everything that I post, I don't even, like I don't post in a moment of when I feel sad or.
You know, just when I feel like I'm at a point where I would need approval or I would need, like, obviously it's like, there's like this seductive moment of like, yeah, I could just post something and then I get the likes, but I don't do that because I feel like it never, like, it's not the energy that I want to give out. whenever I...
Sarah (30:06) And that's
Reductive is a good word, I feel it.
Sophie (30:26) Whenever I pose, it's really like, it's at a moment where I feel so much love. You know, where I feel so much love for myself and the world, which is essentially the same, right? Because we're all one. So I feel this oneness, this big love, and then it's kind of like overflowing. And that's kind like when I went to pose. Because I want to give out that love and I want to spread that love and I hope for this love to take on. But honestly, like what I've been doing,
consciously in the past couple of months, it is not something that, or I have not really, you know, gained any followers from that. Not even like, I've had posts where I had like three or four likes, but it was fine.
Sarah (31:16) That's so cute, like imagine you sitting around like a table with those people and like they like what you're saying.
Sophie (31:23) If
they'll, yeah. And you know what? Every single one of those likes, I really know that they fully received the love and the message that was. That's perfect. And I know I was fully aligned with, with who I am and with what I wanted to give out. but it, it took me some courage to build up. I don't know about you, but like, I definitely had to like detach from this whole like define myself over.
Sarah (31:31) Perfect.
Sophie (31:54) a certain amount of likes or like, know, in general, like being scared of putting out who I am because of the lack of resonance.
Sarah (32:06) Yeah. Yeah.
Sophie (32:08) And I really hope it will come back.
Sarah (32:10) Yeah, there's sort of two ways like we can kind of go about all of this as creators is like, this is such an interesting conversation. Like it's talking about sort of this new age of like careers and technology and psychology and money and spirituality. It's just like, it's so...
It's so like futuristic. It's pretty crazy stuff we're talking about here. ⁓ but yeah, there's like a couple of ways to go about it. And I think the most common way people are going about it is sort of like the upside down feminine. So going against your own intuition, going with an algorithm, being in that Virgo self node energy that we're all collectively in. Cause Virgo is the self node right now collectively and Pisces is the North node.
So it's literally a battle of like, and also Virgo is an earth sign and it's pentacles, which is earth. And Pisces is water and we got cups. So there's the Virgo self node, which is what the collective is in right now. It's holding so tightly onto trends and numbers and being critical when you post. And then there is like the system of the algorithm.
posting at a certain time, making sure like you look good, making sure, you know, everything is like perfect, right? That's the Virgo. And overthinking before posting and then deleting once you post, like literally Virgo, crazy Virgo ⁓ in her shadows. And I can say crazy Virgo in her shadows, because I'm not calling Virgo crazy, I'm calling the upside down, unhealed Virgo, that crazier energy. ⁓
Sophie (34:05) Yeah, we all have this.
Sarah (34:06) That was right. And then the Pisces North note is like, come here, walk away, come to the moon, come to the waters, come to the intuition, feel what you're going to post, be intentional. It is energy. And I know we're talking specifically about content creation, but you know, this literally applies to everything.
Sophie (34:36) brief.
Sarah (34:36) We
could be talking about, you know, relationships. We could be talking about friendships. We could be talking about jobs that don't align with you, that are causing you to be a little bit more critical. It's just about following your intuition right now. It's following your heart center. It's following love right now. It's following the Pisces spirit. And like I said, there's two ways we can go about it, right? So the Queen of Pentacles, the South Node Virgo,
But the way that, and I've heard you say this word a couple of times tonight, you said courage. It takes courage. It takes courage, you've been saying. And the page of swords is so adorable. Like they literally have their little sword and they're like, all right. And then there's like the knight and the king and the queen like beyond the page. The page is like this student is trying something kind of new. It's the novice. It's taking on.
the wisdom of the shaman. like, courage, it's the courage of new ideas. It's the courage of the student. It's the courage of thinking about doing something differently. It's shaking it up. It's that Aquarian energy too of like, let me be a pioneer and actually do this differently and show that success can be from the heart. Why don't I have courage and show them that?
Sophie (36:04) I love this so much because I mean, this is the whole, like the core of this podcast, the core of me reclaiming my fairy essence, right? Is like saying like, hey, I'm a fairy in a human world. I'm not doing this anymore. I'm not like, I don't know how much I told you, but I'm originally a lawyer. I did this whole, you know,
rat race, trying to be better than everyone. And it felt so wrong. And I felt so exhausted and empty. And even though I had success on like paper, I felt so hollow. I, I felt just so, I felt.
yearning for love and connection and co-creation and joy and beauty. And I do believe that we can live in a world that is, like, just when I was at the beach last weekend, like we live in a literal paradise. Like we have everything. It's all out there. We're so encapsuled in, or so many people are so encapsuled in.
that survival mode that we're incapable of seeing what's out there. like my podcast is literally like the documentation of me being like,
Sarah (37:35) No.
Sophie (37:36) I'm not doing this anymore. And it's like, it's, I constantly have to reassure myself that this is the right thing. And like the only compass that I have is my heart. Like I have no one, to tell me you're doing the right thing and everything is going to be all right. The only thing I can listen to is my heart. And I, I just know I can get somewhere where I can sustain myself in it.
in a loving way without having to exploit my body. let me tell you, like taking care of your body, I don't know about you, but I need a half a day to just take care of my bodily needs.
Sarah (38:20) Literally. Mind, body and spirit. Yes. Like if I want a good set up day, like I'm like, this is so much time.
Sophie (38:30) This is so much fun. And I was, I have no idea how I tried to squeeze this in with eight hours of work and like two hours of commuting every day. We're bound to fail. And it's crazy to think that this is possible. And it's also crazy to think that it's necessary.
Sarah (38:51) Yeah.
Sophie (38:53) We have to put ourselves first, but not in an egoic way. And I think that's such a core message for today's episode. was like, how can we put ourselves first and take ourselves seriously? I mean, otherwise you can't even hear any intuition, right? You need to have a regulated nervous system. need to be somewhat safe.
within yourself. it's like, how can we put ourselves first, but not in an egoic way? Because what we're doing out there and what we're trying to achieve out there is like very much ego driven, right? Because that's kind of the only thing that we've learned how to do is like show everything off, show the best that you can be. And I think what we ultimately all long for
And a lot of people even do those distorted things because they're secretly yearning for love and connection and safety, but have just no idea how to access that. And so let's stop and try a new approach.
Sarah (40:04) Yeah.
Literally. It's not working anymore.
Sophie (40:16) It's
not working, it's no fun, like especially us as such a terrious people, need fun, need joy, we need pleasure.
Sarah (40:27) Yeah. And like, another thing is too, it's like a queen, when she's upright, she's humble. There's no ego. She's helping her community because she has the power to do so. But when a queen, a feminine energy is upside down, she's saying, I'm the queen. You feed me like you, you're my minion kind of energy. It's an upside down matriarch. Like that's
it's sort of villainous. There's a villainous energy online right now and we needed to get the hell out of there and try to like pull that feminine energy back up right into what you said a place of non-ego and like true matriarch of wanting to give back to all of her people. Like Mother Earth wants to feed everything, you know, like that's the feminine energy. And even in astrology, I see it like there's a lot of
Fear-based astrology, it's just prying on individuals to feel fear and that kind of creates a linear connection of like a big following for some astrologers is talking about like, if you have these signs, like, don't do this this month or...
watch out if you have these signs, like don't be around these signs during this month because so and so, you know, it's just like individualizing astrology and placements. And like we talked about at the beginning, everyone's so equal and I don't know, I feel like people don't realize like they have all 12 signs. Like does everyone realize that? Like everyone, we are just a ball of constant like.
where everyone is like, oh, there is Sagittarius. It's like, they have their son in Sagittarius, but like, you have Sagittarius too in your chart. It rules the house of yours somewhere. Like there's 12 houses and there's 12 signs. Like we all have the same.
Sophie (42:31) I
did not know that. So you have every sign on.
Sarah (42:36) Yes, we all have
Sophie (42:38) That's such a beautiful metaphor, isn't
Sarah (42:40) Yeah, not to make anyone feel less special. You should feel proud of your unique arrangement. You know, that is what makes us so different. I was just
Sophie (42:50) going
to say like this is like we're all like being the same is actually the most special because we're all uniquely configurated, but we're all within this all the same. that like remembering that and coming back to that also allows for true connection. Right. And I do believe that we can, instead of like trying to outrun each other and trying to compete with one another, we can come together like you and I and co-create something that.
Neither you nor I could be creating on our own. Look how beautiful that is. mean, and it's so much fun also. like, it just, to me, is just a no-brainer.
Sarah (43:34) Yeah. And you want to know what like is also kind of fun to think about too. Sense are all just made of stock cars and we're just different configurations of the same stuff. Like literally we all have even the same planets. Like we're literally just dancing differently. We have different dance moves. Like that's it. Like we just have a certain dance move. And like when you walk into a room, we're so intuitive. We can feel everyone, even someone who's like
I'm an atheist. I don't believe in anything. They have friends. I'm sure an atheist has a friend. That means their configuration in a synestery reading, which just means two configurations dancing with each other. Like you have that dance move, I have this dance move, and this is how we dance together. Some people are not good dance partners. Some people are good dance partners.
That's a matter of aspects. That's a matter of squares. That's a matter of oppositions. That's a matter of trines and conjunctions. Like there are so many things that go into the dance, but like that's what you're doing through life is you're dancing with the stars.
Sophie (44:52) And I think it's so interesting what you said also about what was the third card again? What do you call it? The spade?
Sarah (45:00) the page of swords.
Sophie (45:01) The of swords, The page of swords, that energy of like the student, right? We all, we are all students of like the new world. Cause we all don't know where we're going. like, this is also a beautiful energy because we can connect over that. don't like, this is also why I wanted to make this podcast is like, I, there are so many beautiful podcasts out there that teach about
literally anything and everything, right? But I wanted to make a podcast where I teach from a place where I have nothing to teach in the sense of like I teach from the place of being a student. Because being a student can be so scary. historically, like you feel insecure, you don't know where to go, you don't know what to do.
And only once you kind of like master something you're allowed to talk. And I feel like, no, we have to turn this around. We have to turn, we have to change that narrative. Being the student, we're students throughout our entire life. And that's it. And the main, the biggest part of our lives we're learning and only like a few moments where like, ⁓ I achieved a certain thing. I don't want to suffer.
Sarah (46:14) Thank
Sophie (46:26) the major part of my life. want to enjoy every single second and Savior every single second. I want to enjoy that I today don't know as much as I know tomorrow, as much as I know in a year from now. And this is the beauty of it. like, teaching myself, training myself to love, to try out new things, you know, to be like,
I've tried out a thing. That in itself is so cool. So that kind of like overrides all the, the feelings of imposter or like feelings of inadequacy or feeling of like, don't belong there because I just focus on like, Hey, I tried something new and going in with that energy also totally changes how I show up. So there's so many things that I feel like are so important to override in terms of being a student and, and appreciating of being a student and just like.
Hey, let's connect over being all students and trying to figure this thing out and trying to build more amicable world, to build a world that is based on principles of love, of co-creation, of connection, of beauty, of joy, of pleasure. I want this every single day of my life and I want this for you.
And I want this for everyone else in the world. And I do believe it's possible.
Sarah (47:53) Yes, and like there's nothing more I can even add to that. Like that's it. The world kind of sucks right now a lot. Like tangibly, there's a lot that like hurts right now. Like all over the world. There's so much hurt. And like we can't have a podcast and not acknowledge that either, you know. There is so much oppositional energy to anything close to love right now.
And like, my only job here is to combat that through, like I'm a firefighter of like love. Like that fire we're spewing, like is just the water of love. I am fearless to anything that tries to, you know, dim what my purpose here is. And that's just to spread love.
I'm fearless to anything that wants to make me feel small. Like I truly am fearless to that. I really, really trust my intuition and my voice. And I don't feel competitive with anything. I don't really have any ego when it comes to even my own successes. just don't like love is my only measurement of success.
and healing and I just really want to get more people on that bandwagon and I really want to tap into the feminine and ancient wisdom like you said at the beginning. I feel very adamant about all of this stuff. It's really important.
Sophie (49:47) And I can sense that, I can sense your fire within that and it's beautiful to witness. I think I had to smile when you said the firefighter of love because it's such a beautiful metaphor for us also in the sense of having two major fire signs and then one water sign.
the firefighters and then the water and then the love through both of that, right? the fire. Yeah, and then both like the water and the fire is just like to channel as much love as possible. And like even the idea that like we should be scared to spread love, it just goes to show in what kind of like lopsided world we live in right now.
Sarah (50:22) I'm afraid to go into the...
Right. So all of upside is.
Sophie (50:45) I do wholeheartedly believe that what we need is not a revolution in a violent sense because that just perpetuates the cycle. What we need is a revolution of love, which is more like an exodus. This is not working for no one. Not even the richest of the richest. Those people are suffering just as much. This is not working for anyone. Let's wrap this up.
and try out something new.
Sarah (51:16) Exactly. Anyways, you know, it's been so lovely chatting with you today and tonight.
Sophie (51:25) It's been
such an honor. It's been so inspiring. It's so soul and heart soothing knowing that there are other beautiful, powerful souls out there and we're doing this together. We're in this together and I'm sure there are many other people out there that subscribe to a similar mindset that we have. on that note, I just want to
Sarah (51:29) So.
Sophie (51:55) say thank you to all the fairies out there that listened to us, that spent some time with us and sipped on some fairy tea. And let this episode just be a reminder to really question what's going on and to look at it with clear eyes and be like, do I want to be a part of this or are there other options? And there are people out there that have genuine hearts and the
Sarah (52:03) and
Sophie (52:24) The connect our genuine hearts, the more we can grow an alternative all together.
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