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Hay Bales and Life Tales: Dad Edition

Jesse and Dr. Leah Steffensmeier

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Jesse and Leah reflect on the invaluable lessons learned from their fathers that have shaped who they are as farmers and as people. Despite being busy with hay baling during Father's Day weekend, they take time to honor the wisdom that's been passed down through generations on their family farms.

• Hard work as a foundational value that both sets of parents instilled in them
• Finding balance between dedication and burnout when it comes to farm work
• The wisdom of managing fewer acres excellently rather than many acres poorly
• Putting marriage relationships first as a "sacred union" that withstands farm stresses
• Embracing innovation and new technologies on the farm
• Encouragement to dream bigger and think beyond what's familiar
• The importance of quality over quantity in farming decisions

We'd love to hear what you've learned from your father and how it has shaped your life. Send us a note at farmersgreatestasset@gmail.com and please like and share our podcast on all social platforms.


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Speaker 1

the farmer's greatest asset podcast. We believe the farm's greatest asset is the farmer their knowledge, experience, mind and health. Well, welcome back to the podcast.

Speaker 2

I'm jesse and I'm Leah.

Speaker 1

Well, we're running a little late on the podcast, so we're trying to get it together for you quickly.

Speaker 2

It's been a busy, busy week.

Speaker 1

It's been a little bonkers on the old Stephens Meyer homestead Yesterday. We got a lot of small square hay baled, so it was a busy day yesterday. But it's Father's Day weekend this weekend, so we want to talk a little bit about our fathers and some of the things that we have learned from our fathers.

Speaker 2

One of the most important things that I learned from my father was One of the most important things that I learned from my father was hard work and determination. I learned it from my mother as well. Both of my parents are hard workers and place incredible value in hard work. But that definitely led me to where I am today, and I was just having a conversation with my one of my aunts last night and I said you know, I really do like to work, I, I, I do like to work.

Speaker 1

We do like work.

Speaker 2

I do. I especially like, if you would consider gardening work, like I don't know, that there's something else that I really enjoy doing outside as much as gardening, except maybe hiking. I like to hike, but hard work is definitely, uh, the one of the major things that I learned from my father.

Speaker 1

Same here. Hard work is always top of the list, especially with farmers. They have instilled hard work in myself as well.

Speaker 2

Well, I don't know that they would be farmers if they didn't know how to work hard, because if you don't work hard you're not going to make it Right. But there is also another side of that too. I mean, I could see burnout in my dad as I was growing up from all of that and the stresses of the farm.

Speaker 1

Hard work could be a good thing.

Speaker 2

And then it can be too much.

Speaker 1

Could be too much. It's learning where that line is, and I definitely learned that when I was in medicine, so or don't be out until 10 30 at night trying to pick up hay after bailing all day yeah, I think there was a wise woman in your life that tried to tell you like maybe we didn't have to do all of that last night.

Speaker 2

But what does she know?

Speaker 1

Just me, and when I bale hay I want to get it picked up, and especially small squares. It was some of the prettiest hay I have ever baled and I wanted to get it picked up and under roof because it's pretty stuff.

Speaker 2

Primo was the word you used. Primo.

Speaker 1

The comment also come out about how it would make a dairy cow bloat. It's pretty good stuff. Yeah, we tend to cross that line, but that's okay, we'll come come back around. So another thing that I have learned from my dad he would always say that it's better to do the best that you can on less acres rather than spread yourself too thin or have too many acres and just do a subpar job on all those acres, so um that too is a, is a dance, a balance it is for sure, especially as you expand and and grow and getting your team on board Right.

Speaker 1

And I believe you have to grow, but sometimes you can outgrow yourself too quick. So, yes, it's learning that dance and how you can manage it all. It takes equipment and manpower.

Speaker 2

But on the farm, growing doesn't always mean more acres.

Speaker 1

Right.

Speaker 2

Diversification is another important tool in the arsenal.

Speaker 1

Right, but that was always a good thought for me because I was pretty hungry in trying to expand on the acres, so it made me realize how you need to manage your ground and don't grow too fast on the acres, on the acres.

Speaker 2

So another thing I learned from my father was the importance of putting your marriage relationship first. I remember, when I was younger, a conversation that he had that nothing could get between his relationship with my mom. That he had that nothing could get between his relationship with my mom and because he saw it as a sacred union. And I think that that's a beautiful way to think of marriage that you have to have a sacred union and be in covenant with that other person. Otherwise, during the ups and downs of life, things can get really messy and you have to really hold on to somebody.

Speaker 1

Right, so you can lean on them. Maybe I'm not going to lie, knowing your dad. I mean that he says that that is amazing and that is great. But I'm not going to lie when you said that the other day.

Speaker 2

When I told you the full story.

Speaker 1

Right, it was. Shocking it's like wow, okay, it took me. I was taken aback a little bit, but that's good.

Speaker 2

Well, there you go. Now you know where my devotion comes from, sweetheart. Yeah, I shouldn't say that my mom's very devoted to my dad, especially as he has not been feeling well over the last few years.

Speaker 1

Well, that's what marriage is. It's supposed to be right Sickness and health.

Speaker 2

So they say let's just keep it on the health side for a while, babe.

Speaker 1

Working on it.

Speaker 2

Yeah, can we do that?

Embracing New Farm Technologies

Speaker 1

Working on it, working on it. So, um, something else that I kind of learned from my dad in his younger days. He was always willing to try new things or new equipment on the farm, um, and maybe we had a little bit of an in or advantage. So my mom's family started the John Deere dealership in our little town and so that my uncles ran the store and maybe dad knew that they were getting a new piece of equipment in or something, and so we always were trying new things and different things and, um, he was always willing to try them and we adapted a lot of new tillage tools. When drilling your beans became popular, we were one of the first ones to start drilling beans and stuff like that. To this day, I try to keep up to date on all the technology and stay ahead of it, and if something comes out, I'm generally going to adapt it, because for me it's about efficiency and just getting done, using the technology properly and stuff.

Speaker 2

You also are an experimenter. I do Like the science comes out. You also are an experimenter, I do Like the science comes out.

Speaker 1

I do like to experiment.

Dreaming Bigger and Father's Day Wishes

Speaker 2

I like it too, so I think it's good, and we kind of push each other with that yeah, which is good. So the last key thing that I learned from my father was to dream bigger, think bigger. Um, I would never have gone to medical school. If it wasn't well, I guess I shouldn't say I would never have gone to medical school, but my dad definitely put that thought in my head.

Speaker 2

Um, I was thinking about nursing and your mom is a nurse, my mom, is a nurse and my dad and my mom both kind of pushed me a little to think outside of just what I knew. So they both were like, well, why don't you just become a doctor? And my mom, what my mom really said was Leah, you like to give orders more than you like to take them. Maybe you should become a doctor.

Speaker 1

That's probably she's so right.

Speaker 2

Oh shoot, she knew me better than I knew myself at that point, I think.

Speaker 1

I believe so.

Speaker 2

Oh man, I am really good at giving orders. I am, I am very good.

Speaker 1

Maybe that's why you and I butt heads sometimes, because we both like giving orders.

Speaker 2

Well, I think that's why we have a lot of head butting in the house. We have five chiefs living in that house.

Speaker 1

Oh baby, yes, we do.

Speaker 2

They all like to be in charge.

Speaker 1

Yeah, but that's a good thing too.

Speaker 2

Yes, yes, we are growing leaders. I like that.

Speaker 1

So, yeah, this weekend is Father's Day. Go out and enjoy your Father's Day, if you're a father. So, yeah, this week end is father's day. Um, go out and enjoy your father's day, if you're a father, and tell your father's happy father's day and that you love them because, um, everybody's clock is ticking and you need to enjoy every minute you can with your family and your loved ones.

Speaker 1

So, these are just a few little quick things that we said. We have learned from our fathers and it has kind of shaped our lives. So we'd love to hear from you guys what has kind of shaped your life and how has your father done that for you. Send us a note at farmersgreatestasset at gmailcom.

Speaker 2

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