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Episode 13: How Porn Constructs Gender — Power, Stereotypes & the Scripts We Don’t Realize We’ve Learned

Season 1 — Pornography in Context

What if porn isn’t just reflecting gender roles — but actively teaching them? What if the way bodies, power, pleasure, and desire are portrayed is shaping how we see ourselves and each other long before we realize it?

In this expansive, thought-provoking episode of Complex Sex, Dr. Mallorie Sorce breaks down how mainstream pornography constructs, reinforces, and sometimes subverts gender. From the male gaze to BDSM misrepresentations to racialized sexual stereotypes, Mallorie explores the cultural forces embedded in porn — and how they seep into sexual identity, self-image, and relationship expectations.

This episode is the first of a two-part deep dive into how pornography constructs and reflects gender, sexual orientation, and identity. Part 1 focuses on gender; Part 2 will move into queer identity, orientation, and representation.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How pornography acts as a cultural text, not just entertainment
• Why porn mirrors and amplifies gender norms, beauty standards, and power structures
• How the male gaze shapes what is seen, valued, eroticized, or erased
• Why mainstream porn centers male pleasure and positions women as objects or recipients
• How female-targeted porn softens the script but still reinforces gendered expectations
• Why dominance and submission are often portrayed as “natural” gender roles
• How BDSM is misrepresented in mainstream porn (and why real BDSM is built on negotiation, trust, and consent)
• The four major sexual archetypes assigned to women: virgin, agent, slut, and loser — and how race shapes their portrayal
• Why Asian women are often coded as submissive virgins, and Black women as hypersexual “agents”
• How these stereotypes reinforce racist and patriarchal narratives
• Why mainstream porn highlights female bodies while minimizing male faces — keeping men as “proxies” for the viewer
• How viewer preferences (like internal ejaculation over facial ejaculation) reveal a desire for intimacy that porn rarely portrays
• Why porn sells fantasy, not authenticity — and why that disconnect matters
• The rise of ethical, feminist, and queer porn, and how these creators challenge traditional porn scripts
• How awareness helps viewers differentiate genuine desire from conditioned arousal

Perfect for listeners who want to understand:

• How gender roles in porn shape real-life expectations
• Why women and marginalized bodies are stereotyped in erotic media
• The psychology of desire vs. the social construction of desire
• How representation affects identity, shame, confidence, and belonging
• The difference between porn fantasy and real, consensual sexual dynamics
• How to become a more conscious, empowered, and discerning consumer of adult media

Mallorie’s message is clear and liberating:

Gendered scripts in porn are learned — not natural. They can be questioned, unlearned, and rew

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmalloriesorce

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mallorie-sorce-8729a1122

Learn more at: https://www.healingheartscounseling.co