They Come With Instructions

Parentified: Carrying Secrets, Raising Siblings, and Finding Healing

René Anderson Season 2 Episode 20

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Some children lose pieces of childhood long before anyone realizes it.
In this powerful episode of They Come With Instructions, I sit down with Jasmine Cox for one of the most remarkable interviews we’ve had to date.
Jasmine shares her journey of growing up in the shadow of addiction, carrying responsibilities far beyond her years, protecting family secrets, and stepping into a role no child should have to carry. As the oldest daughter, she became more than a sister — she became a caretaker.
But this episode is not just about pain.
It is about resilience.
It is about forgiveness.
It is about learning to release the guilt carried by a little girl who believed far too much rested on her shoulders.
Together we talk about parentification, recovery, faith, emotional healing, family dynamics, and the courageous work of making peace with the child version of ourselves.
Jasmine’s story is honest, brave, and deeply moving.
And yet, what makes Jasmine’s story so remarkable is not only what she endured — it is who she became. 

Behind the calm, poised, and beautifully refined woman is humor, warmth, strength, faith, and a quiet resilience that points back to God.
This episode also speaks to the power of church community, spiritual family, and the relationships formed among the saints. Jasmine shares how faith, connection, and the presence of God became part of her healing journey — reminding us that restoration often happens in community.
If you have ever been the strong one… the responsible one… the oldest child who grew up too fast, this conversation is for you.
And if you have ever wondered whether God can restore what life tried to take…
This story is proof that He still heals.
🎙️ Listen. Share. Be encouraged.
Because sometimes the child carrying everyone else… still needs someone to carry them.
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