Episode 5 | "He Said He Was 15, He Was 40": A Chilling True Story of Online Grooming

He said he was 15. Then 18, then 25, and finally, 40. In this gripping and essential episode, host Samantha, founder of Funkyfing. Sits down with child protection expert Danie van Loggerenberg, who shares the harrowing, step-by-step true story of how a 13-year-old girl was groomed by a predator on Instagram

This is not just a story; it's a critical warning for every parent. Danie breaks down the manipulative tactics predators use, from creating fake profiles and building trauma bonds to exploiting family vulnerabilities like divorce. We uncover the devastating real-world consequences and discuss the practical, life-saving measures parents can implement today.

In this episode, you will learn:
The shocking story of how an online chat led to a real-life nightmare

How predators slowly gain trust by incrementally lying about their age
The psychological impact on a child, including Stockholm Syndrome and trauma bonding.

Why giving a child a phone is like giving them car keys without a license

Crucial advice for parents on communication, monitoring, and what to do when your child says, "I need to talk".

The rising danger of AI in making online deception

About our Guest:
Danie van Loggerenberg is from the National Center for Child Protection and has been working in the field for over 15 years.

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Link to Guest's Organization:
https://www.facebook.com/nationalcentrechildprotection/

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Welcome to Safe Parenting with Funkyfing, the podcast for parents navigating the challenges of raising kids in a connected world and the landscape of South Africa. Join host Samantha, founder of Funkyfing, as she dives into digital safety, parenting strategies, and expert insights to help you keep your children secure—both online and in real life. Stay tuned for practical tips, real conversations, and the latest trends shaping modern parenting.

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