Survivor Chronicles: Free Them All

Survivor Chronicles: Tami and LaQuintae's Story

Survived & Punished NY

As a heads up, this episode contains mentions of sexual violence, suicide, and abuse.

In 2025, Tami Eldridge—who’s 25 years into a sentence of 57 to life—was invited to speak at Chief Judge Rowan Wilson’s State of the Judiciary. When she found out they wanted her to attend in person and wear a suit, she initially balked: “I'm not putting on no fake face, like I'm gonna go home one day.” But after speaking to her daughter LaQuintae Bradley on the phone, she had a change of heart. LaQuintae wanted to see her mother dressed up, in nice clothes. Tami reconsidered, “I think I need to wear the clothes so they'll know what I look like before I die and be in a coffin and wear a real suit.”

This is one of the countless ways Tami and her eldest daughter LaQuintae have reached for each other over the years. This episode tells the story of how against all odds, miles apart and separated by prison walls, they formed a profound and loving relationship even though Tami has been incarcerated since LaQuintae was 4 years old. Or as LaQuintae puts it, how they’ve learned to walk the walk of incarceration together.

Inside prison, Tami is revered. She runs a step team for college students, built a library, teaches nutrition, and is earning her second master’s degree. She started a journey of personal transformation in large part motivated by her desire to show up for her children and other women at Bedford as a mother and mentor. Not out of a desire to win her own freedom, at least not at first: “I know that I might never leave Bedford Hills, but others will, and so I help everyone…I am choosing my own way in a place where I was sent to die. I choose to do things to try to repair the harm that I have caused and to love my daughters and to lift up others.”

Since the State of the Judiciary, however, hearing how her story has inspired so many others and seeing her daughter’s faith in a future for her outside of prison, Tami is beginning to envision a future beyond Bedford Hills for herself. She’s imagining freedom. And she’s working on a clemency application. Without a commutation from the Governor, she won’t be eligible for parole until she’s 83 in 2056. But Governor Hochul could release Tami today, with the stroke of a pen.

  •  Watch Tami speak at the 2025 State of the Judiciary.
  • Learn more about LaQuintae’s business here.
  • Read more about Tami’s case and sign her petition for clemency.

Written by Linda Luu, Nathan Yaffe, and Jade Abdul-Malik. Produced and narrated by Jade Abdul-Malik.