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Red flag 🚩 or Green flag 💚 | With Nyasha Michelle
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n this episode of With Nyasha Michelle, we put real-life scenarios to the test as Nyasha decides whether each one is a red flag 🚩 or a green flag 💚
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Hi Misha. Hi Rihanna, how are you doing? I am well, thank you. How are you? I'm good. This is red flag, green flag. So wave the appropriate flag to match the situation. Okay. So is it a red flag or a green flag if someone replies to a text instantly?
SPEAKER_00Um it's a green flag. But the reason why I said that, I paused is because I am terrible, absolutely terrible with responses, and so I felt guilty. But it's a green flag, guys. It's okay. Please respond back to messages. But then some people think it's a red flag because they feel like that means that someone is too eager. Listen, don't be like that. No, reply instantly.
SPEAKER_01Um, is it a red flag or a green flag if you talk about your ex on a first date?
SPEAKER_00What is wrong with you? It's a it's a red flag. Absolutely, absolutely a no-no. If you are seeing someone, even if you don't know if this is the person that you want to be with, why do we need to bring the past into the present? So, no, do not do that. Red flag.
SPEAKER_01Next one. Is it a red flag or a green flag if someone quits their job every few months?
SPEAKER_00Oh, red flag! Absolutely. What do you mean you can't? That means that you cannot be uh trusted. That means that you cannot commit your faith of commitment. Um, and it also means that you're a walking red flag because why are you just quitting jobs here, then everywhere? You should be able to uh, you know, but but then also at the same time, some people might be in jobs that they don't like, and they are just these people who are like, you know what, I'm not gonna allow uh society to dictate that I must stay in this job. So I guess in a way it's good for you because you're standing on on business, you're standing on what you believe and what you think is better. But honestly, if you know that it's not the right thing for you, then don't go for that job.
SPEAKER_01Okay, great. Is it a red flag or a green flag if someone posts gym selfies every day?
SPEAKER_00Green flag, me. I'm not going to be a hater out here. If keep posting them, it will motivate some of us who need to be in the gym to keep going to the gym, especially especially the baddies, the girls. Like, honestly, y'all be inspiring me. But please don't be posting gym selfies when you know you've also had some work done and making us think that it was hard work that got you in there, but actually was a surgery in Turkey. Nah, bro.
SPEAKER_01Nah. Is it a red flag or a green flag if someone uses Chat GPT for everything?
SPEAKER_00Absolute red flag. What do you mean your brain doesn't work anymore? There's no way you can be using Chat GPT for everything. Like, I mean, we all use Chat GPT, is everybody's friend at this stage. Chat GPT is even my mama's friend, right? But um you can't use Chat GPT for everything, and actually I feel very strongly about it. Like, like legit, let's let's be serious. Because I am very, very conscious of the mind, right? And and and the brain, rather, let me say, in this context, it is important for you to take care of your brain. It means you must exercise it, just as it is important for you to take care of your body. So if everything that you're you need to do, every decision you need to make, every bit of information you need, you're going straight to Chat GPT, then you are not exercising your brain. Um, and then the other thing as well, it's not always correct. It's not always correct. If we're all going to um AI to get our answers for everything, then do we actually have a mind of our own eventually without us noticing? We all kind of fit in a specific box, and maybe that might not be even how how we think. So, no, absolutely not. No, red flag, red flag.
SPEAKER_01Perfect. Is it a red flag or a green flag if someone uses clickbait to get more views?
SPEAKER_00Ah this is when I need uh an orange, but apparently we're not being diplomatic here. Clickbait in order to get views. I think it's a red flag because you need authenticity in this life. I also don't like people lying to me where you have this caption which catches me, or this hook which catches me, and I'm like, wait, hold on, sir, ma'am, where is what you promised me? Um, but also at the same time, let's be honest. We live in an online world now where people need to get is it a need? Rihanna, you have me just getting deep here, but like I don't know. Can I say I don't know?
SPEAKER_01Is it a red flag or a green flag if someone needs to drink alcohol to go to social events?
SPEAKER_00Oh, it's a red flag. Absolutely, because if someone needs alcohol in order to have the confidence, in order to feel like, hey, I can fit in, or hey, I can enjoy myself, or hey, I can actually be somebody in this space, then I think it's an indication of something major, it's an indication of certain things that you're probably not wanting to address, things that you are hiding. Um and and and and it might even be the biggest thing is indicative of the fact that maybe you haven't accepted you for you. So if in your environment or whoever it is that you're hanging out with, you're like, yo, I gotta like drink in order for me to do, hey, you don't need to be there. Maybe those are also not your people, and what we need to be is to be at home and maybe working on ourselves and figuring out what that thing is. There's don't get me wrong, I don't think there's anything wrong with alcohol, but if you have to drink it every time in order for you to be around people, maybe no, absolute red flag, absolute red flag. Um, yeah, be yourself, man. You can have fun out there whilst you're sober. It'll be more annoying when everybody else around you is drunk and they're all they're in their own little drunken world, but yeah, man, be yourself.