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Ep 63 - Dr. Ken Holloway: The Barker Of Bulldog Nation

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You’ve heard a loud gym before, but you haven’t heard Sikeston until you’ve heard The Barker. Ken Holloway is one of the most familiar faces in Bulldog Nation, and his bark has become a rallying point that players and fans recognize instantly as support. We sit down with Ken to learn how a pastor from St Louis ends up in southeast Missouri, finds his place in the community, and turns a simple idea into a tradition that helps define the game-day atmosphere. 

Ken walks us through the real story, from being invited to preach at West End Baptist Church to meeting Maxine and building a life that makes Sikeston home. He also shares why small town community feels different than big city life, how neighborly accountability shapes kids, and why having one high school can create a rare kind of school pride and togetherness. If you love high school basketball, small town culture, and the way sports can bring people together across every difference, this conversation hits deep. 

We also talk faith and purpose, including the moments that shaped Ken’s calling, plus his years working at Ford and the unexpected way that job became ministry too. The big takeaway is simple and challenging: community doesn’t happen by accident, it’s built by committed people who keep showing up. Subscribe, share with a Bulldog fan, and leave a review so more people can find The Doghouse.

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Welcome To Bulldog Nation

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Alright, Bulldog Nation, it's time to get in the doghouse. This is where Sykes and Pride lives, where we tell the stories that make this town special. From the legends of the past to the faces shaping our future. Whether it's basketball, community, or just that good old Bulldog grit, we've got you covered. You're listening to The Dog House, the voice of Psyched. What is up, Bulldog Nation? Episode 63 of The Dog House is now underway. Thank you for listening. This is season two also and episode 21. Yeah. Yep. And you are Micah Harris. I'm Matt Tanner. We are the host of The Dog House. We appreciate you checking in with us again this week. And we have an unbelievable guest lined up.

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Oh, it's awesome.

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So we actually, yeah, we it's a little bit flip-flop. We we recorded his first, and now we're doing our our paying bills, as we say. Right.

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And talk a little bulldog.

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And talk some bulldog uh sports. And so but just uh stick with us here just a little bit. We will get to our guest. He is he's terrific. What an unbelievable human being.

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A blessing.

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He is an absolute blessing to all of us. He sure is. Mr. Mr. Ken Holloway, the barker, we're so glad to have him on. Tell his story, and I think you're really going to enjoy it. He's and yes, we did capture the bark. So yes, just stay tuned. Stay tuned with it.

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It looked like it said $40 an hour, $500 stipend for living, living. Right. It says it on the post.

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And I think it's like 60-day contracts is what it said. Yeah, could be extended beyond that too.

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Right, right. They are they've got 'em all over the place. So if you're looking for steady work, they are your folks. Also, shout out to Greengrass guys, D. Bizzle, David Bizzle. I went to the junior high game, baseball game. Aaron and I did. We went to Tuesday and I mean yesterday. Yesterday, yeah, this is Wednesday. They absolutely, by the way, smoked East Prairie 16 to nothing. Tyler Morgan hit a home run, a double, and a single, and as a thank you very much, through a no-hitter.

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Really?

SPEAKER_01

Complete game no hitter. Sure did. And that was five innings at or whatever it was. So the the dogs put it on the Eagles, and as I told somebody today, they might be the largest junior high team. I mean, we've got kids 6'3, 6'4, 6'2.

SPEAKER_00

We were talking about that the other day at the baseball game. I mean, like, it was compared to Perryville.

SPEAKER_01

But uh, but this is junior high. These are seventh and eighth graders. I mean, these we got some big kids coming. I said all that to say this. I was standing there and yeah. And I went actually I was standing with Coach Brian James and Coach who Tyler is his, as he says, nephew. And uh Coach Hollifield, we were just standing there, and I meant, man, look at this grass. And then it was on the softball field behind us, and I said, Coach, do you think that was D? And he said, I'm sure he had a hand in it. Well, I texted D while we were standing there, and he said, What do you think about that? And I was like, Man, it looks terrific. I have never seen that junior bay brew field look as good as that is.

SPEAKER_00

I have to go by and see it.

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It I I mean it's worth the drive. And then the softball field, I say behind it, just right beside it, look unbelievable. It just looked fantastic. So if you get a chance, tell D, thanks for doing that. It it looks great and it is noticed. They can do the same for your yard as well. Give them a shout, and they can work it, make it look like like carpet.

SPEAKER_00

Yours are looking good.

SPEAKER_01

Thank you. It the it needs some rain. We haven't turned on our irrigation yet, but hopefully we'll get a little God's rain this weekend.

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It's better for it anyway.

SPEAKER_01

Exactly. I totally agree. And it will uh continue to be green. Shout out to uh Luke for our for our audio or for our visual visual stuff on our TV, which we had a little problem with, but that's okay. We'll figure that out. We'll have to get a probably have to get a new computer. That that one's it's a Mac, but it's uh it's got some, as I say, it's long in the tooth. It's got some age on it, so we'll have to redo that. Shout out to Luke for that. Shout out to Aaron. Thank you for giving us time to do this. And she's off preparing for Easter. She's practicing her piano for Easter Sunday. So, and if you I guess we might as well say it, if you don't have a church home, I would say Sunday is a terrific time for you to go to church. It's uh celebrating the resurrection of our Lord and Savior. So I would say it's time to go to church.

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I think so too.

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Yep. Shout out to Justin, our general counsel and general nuisance.

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General pain in the neck. I would say I haven't seen him. He must be really busy or something, man. I saw well I know he's here yesterday, but I I didn't see him.

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So yeah.

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No, yeah, yeah, it was yesterday.

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Yesterday. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And well, he blew into town and blew right out. But they'll be hopefully here. They'll be here Saturday, I think. Right, right. They said he was coming back Saturday. So general nuisance. I came up with that one off the top of my head. That's pretty quick. Like Maddie Grinch. Yeah, exactly. Shout out to uh Tucker Cheney, his help with our video editing has been very, very important and allowed us to do me to do several things with that. And uh very appreciative and get these things on YouTube. Shout out to uh Derek James, Brian James again for their their sports knowledge and their history and their the stats and sort of the the lore of Southeast Missouri sports. We appreciate all that. And finally, last but not least, Tyler Anderson, Twisted Arrow Woodworking for our doghouse sign on the wall. If you need some woodworking done, Tyler is your guy. Again, like excuse me, don't forget to like, share, follow the doghouse on Facebook, TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. And you can catch our podcast on Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Our Heart Radio, and a whole host of other podcast mediums. And you can also listen to it on our website at thedoghouse.buzzsprout.com. There is an embedded player on there that you can listen to all of the ones that we've got loaded on there. And this is episode 63. We've started so on our pot, excuse me, on our website, it's from episode 15 to episode 63. There's a link on our Facebook page to an Apple podcast that's got all of them from the very first when Richard and I were doing it the first 14. So we've got all of those on there. I finally apple just uh it's just Apple. And so it beats the tall drum. It does, and I've asked for help. And but anyway, it's you can now access all of them. But if you can if you want 15, episode 15 through the current one, you can get it on our website again. The doghouse.busbuzzsprout.com. And you can again if you need to reach out to us, doghouse.syston at gmail.com, send us comments, lit new guest, anything, anything like that. And if you're interested, or maybe if you're interested in partnering with us, right?

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Correct.

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Spring Sports Updates And Scoreboard Talk

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And as we talked about a while ago, the baseball team, varsity team is off to a five and one start.

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I want to start supposedly like the best record since 2011.

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I think that's what you said the other day. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

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Off to a great start. Micah and I were there Monday. It was Monday.

SPEAKER_00

We've been to two games, actually. We went and watched them play Charleston. Charleston. And then we watched them play Perryville.

SPEAKER_01

It was cool that day, wasn't it?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. Charleston. Charleston was a little cool. Monday was it was breezy, but it was not cold. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

No.

SPEAKER_00

But it was a it was a good game. Supposedly, I mean, Blaine Sadler pitched a shutout. He did. Complete game shutout. I think it's one of Coach Pratt's first as a as a head coach. Yes. Somebody said that. I don't know if that's probably.

SPEAKER_01

And I saw Blair, that was like the first complete game since like 2018 or something like that. That's cool. I mean Yeah. That's eight years ago.

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Yeah.

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Sophomore blame pitched great.

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Didn't wasn't a good mixture of sophomores, seniors.

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Yeah. A few juniors. Wasn't in a lot of trouble and scattered a few hits and I think before you got there in the first inning, that bases got loaded.

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But but he got out of it.

SPEAKER_01

He that's right. He got he's he worked out of it. But after that, I don't recall a ton of base runners being there.

SPEAKER_00

He had to pitch a pretty good game because I mean like sophomore count. I mean, I don't I don't I don't know.

SPEAKER_01

I think it was ninety-five is what weren't you stand well you can you could I think as a s I think it's like in the 80s for well that's what that's what we thought, but I saw Coach Will Pratt at the junior high game, and he's we were we just started talking about that and he's I thought he said 95.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Either way, he was it was at like 60 something pitches or 70 or what it maybe even less than that. So he wasn't close, but he was under the pitch limit. And what we're talking about, Misha sets a number a certain number of pitches. You can only throw this number of pitches. I think if you're like if underclassmen lower than than upperclassmen, right. But I think let's say, let's just for whatever, let's say the number's eighty, and if you're I think you can finish that hitter, like if you hit number eighty and it's the second pitch of the at bat, I think you can finish that hitter, and then you have to come out. Correct. And then if you max out You gotta sit four days. I was gonna say, I think you have to sit four days, and if you Under so many one to twenty, you don't have to sit, and if it's you know twenty-one to whatever, it's one day or whatever.

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They've Which is not a bad word.

SPEAKER_01

No, they've got it spelled out. Use it used to be innings back when I played, you know, you could pitch so many innings per week or so many innings per so many days, but now it's an actual pitch count. So it that puts a little bit of work on the one of the coaches to track the pitches, and I'm sure each team tracks pitches for for the pitchers uh for the opposing team, just so if they're really good, you're like, hey, it's time for him to get out, kind of thing. So I'm sure they both sides keep it and and it keeps each other honest, right?

SPEAKER_00

Was it six to nothing or was it seven to I can't remember six or seven?

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Uh thought it was seven. Seven, it might be seven, yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

And that I mean, pretty good game.

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. And that was against Perryville. And the dogs are supposed to play next. I'm pulling this up.

SPEAKER_00

Saturday against Eastbury at Eastbury. I think it's a double hitter, but weather-wise, so like maybe by the time this podcast is out, they should be playing.

SPEAKER_01

Right. I mean, I'm not sure. And I want to pull up the Misha. Right, that's what I was looking at.

SPEAKER_00

I think they play New Madrid maybe next week.

SPEAKER_01

They play New Madrid at home on Monday, that's correct. And then on April. Oh, Varsity, okay. Here we go. Varsity plays on Monday at home against New Madrid. Junior High plays at Malden on Monday as well. Then they go to Popper Bluff varsity does on Tuesday. I was going to mention the girls' soccer because they have started off well. Let me look at their because I know well they're one and two, and I one of the games, Kennedy scored like seven goals or something like that. Kennedy Sims, yeah. I I read that somewhere. I mean, goodness gracious. That's pretty good. I'd say wow. But shout out to our Spring Sports. I d I I don't have the finished golf and track.

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I mean, right.

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Right, right. I don't have any of anything to report. I know it's out there. I don't I don't have any standings. I do know I can mention this, our loyal and longtime listener, Mr. Jack McGill, shot an 84 in that daggum hurricane on Monday. I'm telling you, I I play golf. 84 and that wind. That was a great round. I mean, I that that win will add five to seven shots at least. I mean, that number eight, which is a par five, was dead into the wind, and it's five hundred and fifty yards, probably played seven hundred yards into the wind. It's as a brute of a hole in into that win.

SPEAKER_00

And so I know he I talked to him a few times, like I guess up at Parquetos, he was talking about. He's like, he's really getting into it and loving, yep, loving golf.

SPEAKER_01

His his dad told me shot in 84, and his grandpa told me shot in 84. They were very well. So Sam was playing baseball, and Andy and uh Rick both told me they watched Jack. When he got done, they got over here to the baseball game. So they had started a little bit earlier. I think they got there in the first inning or second or something like that. So they didn't really miss anything. So they were they were there to watch. So shout out to our again, our baseball team 5-1, junior highs 1-0. Baseball's looking up, just like the rest of it.

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I'm telling you, from baseball, all of it's coming up.

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All of it is on the rise.

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Yep. I mean soccer. Yep. You got football. Yep. In the fall.

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And tennis. I don't know how we've done yet with tennis. I haven't seen any, I haven't seen anything. Nope. Nope. Haven't seen anything yet.

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No, that's girls' tennis.

SPEAKER_01

No boys' tennis. Boys' tennis. Boys' tennis. Girls playing a fall. Yeah. That's right. Girls is in the fall. That's correct. Well, listen, we will we will get out of the way right now and just stick with us through this break. We'll be right back for our guest, and you will not want to

Meet Dr. Ken Holloway The Barker

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miss this. Hey, thanks for sticking with us past the break, and we're going to move on to our VIP today, our terrific guest. He is in the house, and we are well, Micah, we're just blessed to have him because he's he is a blessing. As we told him before, he is a blessing to our community and to the kids that he's involved with at the school or that that he that he supports along with the rest of us.

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Very familiar face when you if you go to any kind of sporting event mainly.

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He's absolutely he's gonna be there. In the community. Right, right. And so we are we are so fortunate to have him and uh thankful for his time. And without further ado, I'm going to read his intro. Our guest this week is one of the most recognizable voices and biggest supporters in Bulldog Nation, Ken Holloway, better known as The Barker to many. Ken originally came from to Sykston from St. Louis, but somewhere along the way, this community became home and he has been all in ever since. A retired pastor and retired Ford Motor Company employee, Ken brings a perspective built on faith, hard work, and a deep love for people. Around Sykston, he's become known for his energy, his loyalty, and the way he shows up for his town and his teams. He may not be native to Sykston, but there's no question he's one of Bulldog Nation's own. We're excited to have Ken Holloway, the Barker, on the Dog House. Welcome to the Dog House.

SPEAKER_03

Well, thank you. Yes, sir. It's good to be here.

SPEAKER_01

We are so happy you're here. I know we've we've talked about this for a while, and we just hey as my dad said, he goes, I can't believe I'm this busy not working. I can't. And so you're retired and you're as busy as anybody. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

It it keeps us busy with the grandchildren. Yes. And then with the community involved. There's always something to do. Right. People think that when you retire, that's it. You don't do anything. I have a full schedule.

SPEAKER_01

And I best mi I bet Miss Maxine keeps you on your toes. Oh, she does. I know. I can tell. I can see the way you guys interact. I know what's going on there. Well, that's great. And so we we've already got a little bit. We we talked about a lot, or say not a lot, we talked about a few things off the air, but we want to kind of come back to that. And one of the things we talked about was you're a St. Louis guy. You're you're a

From St Louis To Sikeston

SPEAKER_01

big city guy. Yeah. There's nothing wrong with that, but you're in rural southeast Missouri now. Yeah. So tell us how you got here from from St. Louis. From St.

SPEAKER_03

Louis to Sykeston. Yeah. I got invited down to preach at the West End Baptist Church. Okay. And I got here. Well, the first time I came, it had snowed on the highway. Well, it was clear. And when I got into town, you could tell that it had snowed because they had cleared the streets. Well, when I got to the church, it was packed because that was the only church that was open across the tracks. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And so when I got there. So everybody went to church there that day. Everybody went to church that Sunday. Okay. And they they kept asking, where's the preacher from St. Louis? Where is he? Well, if service starts at 11, I'm not going to preach at 11. Right. So I get there and everybody's like, wow, he's here. So we preached. Well, when I first came in, they said, That's a little boy. I'll never forget that. But you were single then, right? So you were not married? No. Okay. Not then. Okay. And so what had happened is after we got done with the service, they said, Oh, that's a man. And it was funny from that point on. Well, we came for that particular service. Okay. And they invited me again because of the snow. They said we want you to come back. Okay. Well, my schedule didn't permit because I was at the time I was a national evangelist. Okay. I was traveling quite a bit. So when I did get an opening, I contacted them and I said, Well, listen, I can be there this Sunday. Okay. And I think that Sunday that was in April, so this was probably September or October.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_03

That's how busy I was. Oh, sure.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And so we came back and they were like, oh, we've got to have you.

SPEAKER_01

I said, Well, we'll have to see. So when you say have you, you mean like be the pastor.

SPEAKER_03

Be the pastor.

SPEAKER_01

So they didn't have a pastor.

SPEAKER_03

They didn't have a pastor at that time. Okay. Okay. And so we came and pastored. Okay. I think we were there a little over a year, okay. Maybe twelve, thirteen months. Okay. And I told them, you know, my schedule it won't permit it at this time. And so I left. That was in 89. Okay. Ten years later, they contact me again. They kept your number, Hamlet. They kept my number. That's that's crazy. Insane. So ten years later, we're talking 1999. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_02

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03

They called me to come back and To just preach or To just preach. And then they said, Well, can you pastor us? Can you at least keep us together? If you're not gonna pastor, can you keep us together until we get a pastor? Okay. So an interim basically, if that's an interim. Okay. And so I stayed for a minute and finally they got somebody. Okay. And it was it was remarkable.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. So is that what kept you here then? And no. Oh, so there's more to the story then. Oh, yes, there's more to the story. Okay. I went to a funeral.

Meeting Maxine And Making A Home

SPEAKER_01

Oh yeah. I heard this part. In Charleston. Now we the rest of the story.

SPEAKER_03

So now we know. And so I see this lady in this olive green dress that had black checks in it.

SPEAKER_01

For for those that don't know, that's Miss Maxine. It's coming up.

SPEAKER_03

And she had this green jumper. Mm-hmm. And I'm like, who is that? That's what guys do. Yeah. And I met her, and here's the funny part. I asked her for a telephone number, and she told me no.

SPEAKER_01

She did. She did. Hang on, wait a minute. She did, man.

SPEAKER_03

Miss Maxine? She told me no. No.

SPEAKER_01

Miss Maxine has never been mean to anybody. She wasn't mean. She just told me no.

SPEAKER_03

She just said no. She was just assertive. She was assertive. And so what I said, I said, God, I don't have time for games. Okay. So I called her. Any hold on. How did you tell the story? Oh, I'm sorry. I called her. I called her. She said, hello. I said, hello. She said, who is this? I said, who does it sound like? She said, how did you get my number? I said, I'm Pastor Holloway. I can get anybody's number.

SPEAKER_01

And so the rest is history. So you you obviously just threw your charm and wit on her, and that was the end of the story.

SPEAKER_03

I had to work for her. But but the comical thing is that she said, she said, You a preacher. I said, look closely. I'm a man.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's right. Even more. Yeah, that's right.

SPEAKER_03

And so That's great.

SPEAKER_01

So was that in like 2000 or something?

SPEAKER_03

That was in. That was probably in Yeah, probably 2000. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Well it was meant to be. It was, obviously. The Lord put you to, you said you were at a you weren't passed from the funeral, you were at a funeral. Yeah. They put you there.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. And he did say upstairs that that's the reason he's incident.

SPEAKER_01

That's right. That's the reason I'm here. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

It happens up. It happens to the best of us. Yeah. And so and in November of this year, it'll be 25 years. And it doesn't seem like it's been that long, man. Right. It really doesn't.

SPEAKER_01

Congratulations. Thank you. You well, you know how we feel about Miss Maxine. We think she is She's a Jewel. Of course she is. One of a kind. Yes. I was going to say Peach. Jewel. Jewel's even better. We think she's something else.

SPEAKER_00

So the question I gotta have is who coordinates the outfits? You or her?

SPEAKER_03

That's the question everybody wants to know. It's it's it's crazy because I'll ask her, what color are we wearing? And then I'll look around and it's already laid out. Okay. Once in a while I get to, she said, Well, what color do you want to wear? I said, What's today? You know, uh like today. I mean, this was already laid out, so I put it on.

SPEAKER_01

I said, That's what I'm supposed to wear. Right. Well, you when you guys you came to see me, was that the summer? When did you come? You and Miss Maxine came by. You just came by, just wanted to say hello. We hadn't seen each other before basketball season, right? Was that the summer? When was that? It was can't even recall. But were y'all, I think y'all both wearing your must have been football season because you're wearing your dolphins stuff. Right. It was getting we we were getting ready to go that week. That's what it was. That's exactly Indianapolis. That's right.

SPEAKER_00

So you're a Dolphins fan.

SPEAKER_01

My nephew got drafted by the Miami Dolphins. His nephew played for they played for Michigan. Yeah, Kenneth Grant. Kenneth, I was gonna say Robert. Kenneth Grant. He was a starting offensive lineman or defensive? Defensive linemen. Defensive lineman for Michigan when they won the national title.

SPEAKER_03

Oh yes.

SPEAKER_01

Oh yeah. Oh yeah. And they both had on their coordinating Miami Dolphins. And I'm like, where what is going on? They're like, we're going to Indianapolis. I went, I should have known.

SPEAKER_00

You know, Charleston's got ties to the Dolphins. There's a Charlie Babb. Charlie Babb played for the no-name defense in 1971. Oh, really? Yeah, he played, I think,

Dolphins Pride And Family Ties

SPEAKER_00

free safety. Like kind of is what he played. So he's from Charleston and plays for played on the no-name defense, the undefeated Dolphins.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, wow. That's great. And so I know you're obviously very proud of him. Oh, yes. That's uh that's a great thing.

SPEAKER_00

I want the I've always wanted the Dolphins to win. I really have.

SPEAKER_01

I mean, like talking about Don Shula going way back in the day. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

I'm talking about re like in I mean like even back to Dan Marino when he was there. I was like, just win a championship. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

They haven't they hadn't won one yet, have they? No. No. Well, they got a good they got a good one there with him. Is it was this was he a rookie? That was his first year this year, correct? Okay. Yes. Okay. And he's he doing good? He's doing good. I guess they're they're probably getting ready to do their mini camps and all that stuff and coming up. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Well, right now they're focused on the draft. So well, I guess that's true because that's that.

SPEAKER_01

That should be soon. I was gonna say it's coming up in the next couple of years. I think it's the last week in the April. Yeah. So was there So you met Miss Maxine, y'all got married in 01. So if you're gonna if it's 25 years this year. When was there a time kind of through that? What when did it really feel like home? I mean, I know you you built a home with Miss Maxine, but is there when do is there something you're like, man, this is home now to me. Well, when we got married. Okay.

SPEAKER_03

This is as large as she wanted to be.

SPEAKER_01

The city wise city wide, so this was home. And she is a a Matthews girl, right?

SPEAKER_03

Matthews girl, yes.

SPEAKER_01

So she went to high school probably in Matthews. At Matthews High School.

SPEAKER_03

And then when it became New Madrid County Central, I think it was right at her senior year or something. Okay. And but she went to trade down there or something. Okay. Okay. Okay.

SPEAKER_00

She graduated from around 82, I think, when when I was trying to remember because 70s, early 80s. Yeah. Well, I know they had like a they had a state run in like 81, 82, somewhere around that basketball, I think.

SPEAKER_01

Well, there was a New Madrid and then there was Matthews, and then it became New Madrid County Central because there was a Howardville for a long time, I think, too. Right? There were several schools that can that merged or consolidated and became New Madrid County Central. Okay.

SPEAKER_00

Back in late 80s, early 80s, late 70s. Yeah. So I I don't recall the exact time, but you can go down there and look at the pictures because they I think they've got every graduating class on the wall up there.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, back kind of behind the gym, back toward their cafeteria in the high school. They've got all those pictures up there. Okay. So there's a bunch of them in there. What so so you came here? When did you become start like going to games and stuff like that? In 2006, Michael Porter was playing ball. He was a freshman that year.

SPEAKER_03

That's right. And I I got to go to a game. Okay. Just randomly or randomly. Because they were planning. I'm like. Because see, in the city, they played on Saturdays. Oh. And so, you know, on a Saturday morning, you couldn't get in the gym because all the schools were crowded. And especially if Sumner played Vashan or O'Fallon

Why The Bark Started

SPEAKER_03

and Sumner or Soul Dan and Sumner. You know, they were rivals on a Saturday. And I'm like, during the week? I think this was like on a Tuesday night. Probably. Because games are typically Tuesday and Friday. And I thought, wow. And then they had a game, I think, that Friday. And I was like, really? So I got a chance to come. Well, when Ford closed up, I retired. So that was 2006. Okay. So you were living here and driving to St.

SPEAKER_01

Louis to work?

SPEAKER_03

Yes. That's why I that's why I appreciate my wife so much. Right. Because my brother had a house in St. Louis. He said he was not going to rent it out to anybody because people wouldn't take care of it. Right. He said, but you, I know you'll take care of it. Right. So I would I would go to work. I'd come home every day up there. And then Saturday morning when I got off, I would get two glazed donuts and a Mountain Dew, and I'd get on the road and come home.

SPEAKER_01

Well, that must be all you eat, because you sure don't look like you ate donuts and don't a Mountain Dew. Oh, I I I love to eat. Right. I know how to eat. Oh, for sure.

SPEAKER_03

All you have to do is feed me.

SPEAKER_01

As as Coach Hollyfield says, one of his he's got a lot of sayings. He said, You should eat to live, not live to eat. He says, Yeah. That's exactly yourself, basically. And that's all you need. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

I got that mixed up.

SPEAKER_01

Right. He's talking from two thin guys from from him and Coach Hollyfield, two thin guys stand over telling people how to eat, right? So that be that became the the moment when you said I'm gonna I'm gonna go all in on the board. Support the team and 'cause we were we were good that well we made it to State We did we sure did. We sure did. It was a lot similar to to this season.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly. And and and the thing of it is that I had to I had to figure out a way how I could enjoy the game and save my voice. To preach. Exactly. See, basketball is something I enjoy. Preaching is something that I'm commissioned to do. That's right. You're called to do that. And I wasn't gonna get in trouble with the Lord on a Sunday morning. I'm up there saying, and they said, We can't hear you. So I've always been a bulldog. I was a Sumner Bulldog.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, I didn't realize they were the Bulldogs. Look at that.

SPEAKER_03

And so then the Sykeson Bulldogs, and they go, He's not a Bulldog. I've always been a Bulldog. I love that. And so what happened is I think we scored. And I barked. Did you do that at Sumner? No. It just It just this was something that I could do and save my voice. Everybody's yelling and you hear them, they can't talk. Oh yeah. And I started barking. And after that, that particular game, I would come and I would bark at the games. Every time they would score, I would bark. Right. And people didn't know who who it was. This is my one of my favorites. And so I'm in the stands and I bark, and people are turning around, and I turn around, everybody's turning around looking up.

SPEAKER_01

You're like a ventriloquist. You were throwing them off, weren't you? Exactly.

SPEAKER_03

And for years, no one knew who the barker was.

SPEAKER_01

I know. I I'm one of them. I am one of them. And I I can't recall how we figured it out. We're like, who is that? Right. Because I before I was doing the games on TV, I would sit basically right behind you, but toward the top. Because Erin told me, she says, as much as you yell, you need to be away from the floor so they don't throw you out. And so she won't even sit with me. She sits on the other side with her girlfriends. Uh-huh. So we would be sitting up there and we're like, who the hell is barking? Yeah. And we're, and of course, in a crowd of 2,000 people, it's just hard to pinpoint that. And I don't recall how you don't like use your hands or nothing.

SPEAKER_00

Like you just bark.

SPEAKER_03

I just bark.

SPEAKER_00

I bark.

SPEAKER_03

It was so funny. Now, barking, Michael Porter's mother was sitting in front of me. And I was barking, and she put her hands up around her mouth, and people thought it was her, and we laughed.

SPEAKER_01

We laughed. So you even threw more people off your scent by doing that. It was crazy. Oh my God. And they're thinking, Kathy, how do you get your voice that deep? Yelling at those kids. Well, I was gonna say, she yelling at all them porter boys. She probably does have to raise her voice sometimes, but she's not a she's not a She's not a very loud loud person.

SPEAKER_00

No. She's not.

SPEAKER_01

She's not at all. She is. She's a very nice lady. Well that that's that's great to me. So when you So when you do that, that it just that just came to you, obviously, like you said, for saving your voice.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly.

SPEAKER_01

So I gotta know what was Miss Maxine's reaction to it. She looked at me. Did you startle her as much as everybody else?

SPEAKER_03

And then she would go, woof, woof, woof, and then I would bark because that was egging me on. And you know how dogs do. Oh, yeah. One goes and they start going back and forth. And it was so funny. But she supported me, and she said, Wow. And then people started barking. Barking. Mm-hmm. And I would and they they would keep barking and I would bark. And it it was we had fun.

SPEAKER_01

Right. Exactly. We had fun. You became you and that was part of the experience, too. And tell if you don't mind, tell the story, or not the story, but just what some of the kids say after they go to school and come back. I love that. Okay.

SPEAKER_03

I love this. You know, because barking and and and they're out there playing, and they it's something about hearing the dog, and this is what they told me, and I and I didn't realize the impact that we had on them. Yeah. And they said, sometimes when we hear you barking, it encourages us to do better. And I was like, really? And I'll give you an example of what happened. They were playing in the St. Dominic tournament. Okay. And they were losing, and it was like the third quarter. And I'm like, what are they doing? And so I started barking, and they took off and they won that game. Yeah. Yeah. So that when the kids go off to school, they'll come by the house or they'll see us out no matter where we are. And they say, we really appreciate you barking because now we're off to school and we don't get that.

SPEAKER_01

Yep.

SPEAKER_03

And I thought, wow.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. That's the impact that that you can have on a on a on a on a young kid's life. Just the not just, I shouldn't say just, but the support and being there and being in their corner for them and supporting them and cheering for them.

SPEAKER_00

Oh yeah. Fred even talked about that on the podcast with us. Oh yeah. Fred Thatch. He was like, you can't match the atmosphere of you know the field house.

SPEAKER_03

Oh God. I tell you, it's an experience. And if you've never been in the field house, you have to come during the SEMO conference. Yes. It is unbelievable. I remember when Dickie Nutt was at SIMO. At SEMO, he came in, he was looking around. He said, Is this a high school game? I think we were playing Charleston. Oh. No, it was crazy. Exactly. And you you have to get early. And we tell people, they say, Well, why do you go early? Because I want to get a seat.

SPEAKER_01

That's right. I want to there's a spot I want to sit. Right.

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SPEAKER_03

And it's an event too, man. Exactly. I'm telling you. And and we come out and we support. That's right. And it's always been. I remember going to Formington, we were playing, and this couple, they were trying to find out who the Barker was. They were walking all around. They were not watching the game. They're walking all around the arena trying to find out who the Barker was. And somebody said, See that couple right there that's dressed alike. He is the Barker. And so they came over and they met me and they go, Oh, it's such an honor to meet you. You are a legend.

SPEAKER_01

That's exactly right. Thank you. I didn't know what to say. That's exactly right. You are it is it is a blessing for those kids to have your support and our all of our support, frankly. And that's I can't, that's just so vital to what we do and what and what Greg's helped build here, basically, right? Yeah, I I love that. So tell us tell us about your time in the ministry. I don't even know this part. I'm just gonna throw this out there. I bet you do you were you called as a little kid? Did you felt like at a certain age you were called and said you're gonna be a I got the call at age 14.

SPEAKER_03

Okay. I and very common story that I and I told God I can't preach. I did. I'm like, Yeah for real? Me?

SPEAKER_01

Mm-hmm. You know. But did you finally you obvious did you? You obviously surrendered at some point.

SPEAKER_03

I did at age 17. Okay. But that three year span, a lot of things happened in the three years. At age fifteen, I heard a bullet whiz by my ear. And if I would have turned my head, I would have been dead. At 16, I got my eyeball cut. June the fourth, nineteen sixty-nine. June the second, nineteen sixty-nine, and God put it back together June the fourth, nineteen sixty-nine, on a Sunday. When I woke up Monday morning and I could see Yes, it's I could see clearly. Tuesday, I was supposed to go back to the doctor. They s they flew in this specialist from Chicago, Illinois, and my medical records are at Washington University Medical Center at Barnes Hospital. And they said, We don't understand this. On Friday, your eyeball was cut. I could see three people. Look, I could I could see you three times. What? Twice out of this eye and once out of this eye. What? And so when they saw it, they said, We've s we what happened? And I said, God put my eye back together. Okay, but I still didn't preach.

SPEAKER_01

I was playing basketball. We're gonna start calling you Noah. I was playing basketball.

SPEAKER_03

On a Saturday morning in Marshall Schoolyard. Okay. And that particular day, everything I shot went in. And this guy said, if you hit another one, I'll blow you in the middle of next week. And that's being mildly. Yeah. And so he was checking me, and I just went straight up and the ball went in. He came out of his pants with a 38 and put it to my heart and went click and it didn't go off. And I told God, here I come for real. You were stopped messing around. You hear me? I I promise you. That was it. Yeah. But sometimes and I tell people, I said, When the call of God is on your life, He'll create situations to make you come to Him.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, sure He will. You know. Oh my gosh. He you sound like your stories sound like that deal where you know the there's a flood coming and they come by in a truck, and then they come by in a boat and a helicopter, and like, Lord, you didn't help me. He goes, Well, I sent a boat, a truck, and a helicopter. Exactly. It's kind of one of those stories, right? Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

But you know, did that? Yeah, I did. I I told God, I'm sorry, and I cried, man. Because I could have been out of here. Sure. And I'm thinking, because I go back to when the bullet, that's how close I was to death. A bullet, he let me hear it whiz by my ear. Yeah. It's got to be. See, that's why I know that God is real. I'm not talking about the book God. Right. You know, I'm talking about I know that God is real. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Oh my gosh. I've never heard those stories. Yeah. Holy cow. Yeah. So it's a little different growing up in the city. It is. And and I mean, I grew up in real game times where I used to see people get killed every week. It's not normal, but it becomes normal. And that's bad when that's the norm. Yes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

You become almost immune to it. Yeah. That's right. Yeah. Callous, whatever. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And it's just oh my gosh. And that's why I'm I'm thankful today that you know he chose me to stand before his people and tell the truth. Yep. Yeah. You know. That's right. And people still, well, no, this is real. This is real. And you have to get a personal relationship with him to understand that. I was talking to one guy and he goes, I don't believe there's I don't believe in God. I said, okay.

SPEAKER_00

He believes in you.

SPEAKER_03

That's it. I said, okay. I said, so let me ask you this question. Since you don't believe that God is who I said he is, hold your breath until I get done talking. He said, I can't do that. I said, I know you can.

SPEAKER_01

That's exactly that's exactly right. I heard I heard uh something the other day, and I'm gonna butcher this, but basically it said I'm not the the what we have, everything is set to order so perfectly. I mean the way the earth is tilted just at the right angle, if we go too far, we burn up. If we go too far the other way, everything's frozen.

SPEAKER_00

We go any less, we spin off, we go any faster, we spin off.

SPEAKER_01

Right. And that happened just because? No way. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03

No way. So the scripture tells us that he gives us new mercies every day. Yes, sir. So I said to him, I said, the mercy that you had for Saturday expired at midnight. He goes, huh? I said, because he gave you a new one on Sunday. Yes, that's correct. And that expired at midnight. That's great. And now today is Wednesday, so the mercy that I have for Tuesday expired.

SPEAKER_01

I love that.

SPEAKER_03

And I have a new one. And I get to enjoy this until midnight. Then I get a new one on Thursday.

SPEAKER_01

I love it. That's great. That's great. I've never heard it put like that. Have you, Micah?

SPEAKER_00

Not quite. Not quite.

SPEAKER_01

Well, he he's got away with words.

SPEAKER_00

He does. There's always for sure. And mercy, man. That's that's something that many people don't really understand, though. Right. I mean, it's because we think we have to earn it.

SPEAKER_03

But you can't earn mercy. No, you can't. It's because he loves us so much. He does it.

SPEAKER_00

You know, the closest thing on earth that we have to that is a child. You know, when you have a child, you love them unconditionally. There may be a lot of things they don't like about them. But I mean, you love them. There's not many things that kids can do that will make their parents stop loving them.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. You know, and that's the closest thing on earth that I can think of. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And and they'll they'll do whatever they can for the child. And that's how God is. No matter what we're going through, He knows how much we can handle. And He's not gonna let us go over the limit because He's there to support us.

SPEAKER_00

He provides a way. He does. Yeah. Every time. Scripture tells us that. That he will provide a way.

SPEAKER_01

So how long did you work for Ford? What so did that was that the one was that in Hazelwood? Was there one out toward Fenton? That was Christ. Oh, okay, that's right. That's right, that's right. And so you started with Ford in the 70s, 80s?

SPEAKER_03

No. Oh it's it's crazy because when I tell you this, you'd be like, really? I started at Ford at age forty one. Okay. I turned forty-two. I started on the sixth, I turned forty-two on the eleventh. Okay. Ford announced that they were closing up in mid-decade. Okay. Okay, so this was like 2000. Okay. They closed up in 2006 because mid-decade is 2005, so they gave us another whole year to get your affairs in order. How many jobs really do that? They don't. It's usually out the door. Exactly. So what happened was simply this. They said, because I had 11 years in. Okay. So they said people that are fifty-five, with 10 years or more, they had a package for them. Okay. I was 53. I was thinking you were just a little short there. So then they came back the next day

Ford Retirement And Ministry On The Line

SPEAKER_03

because so many people from 50 to 54 had 10, 11, 15, 20 years in, and but we were too young to retire. So what they said was if you're 50 with 10 years or more in, we're going to retire you. Wow. So I retired at 53. I went there at 42. Oh, and he blessed me to retire at 53.

SPEAKER_01

Oh my God.

SPEAKER_03

Because that's what he does. Of course he does. Because I'm like, are you sure I'm supposed to be here at 42? I wasn't, you know, really looking for a job. And so the Lord opened that door. Now I understand what my mission was to be at Ford. Yeah. Yeah. Because no bo no one knew I was a preacher. Because I was there and I was working on the line, and that was by choice. Yeah. Yeah. You put in your 10 hours and you go home. Right. Well, what happened is a young man had bought a brand new vet and he had an accident and the car rolled over. Oh man. Well, at his service, the people from the job went. They gave us that day off. Okay. And we all went. Well, I knew the pastor. And he says, Dr. Holloway, will you speak on behalf of the ministers? I go. Yes. And that's when they found out I was a preacher. And one guy says, Man, he said, that's why I enjoy working on. He said, because in your area it was always peaceful. Uh-huh. He said, I go work in other people. And he said, and there was confusion. But every time I worked in your area, it was always peaceful. So he said, I want to work over by you. That was crazy. Well, that's great. And so from that point on, you know, people would come over for prayer. Sure. And, you know, encourage them. And it was, I was like, okay, God, so this is what I'm supposed to do. This is why I'm here.

SPEAKER_00

Right. Well, I mean, like, even the transition of closing down these people's livelihoods.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

I'm sure it gave you opportunities to.

SPEAKER_03

It did. And I shared too with them because people said, Oh, well, we've always heard that Ford is going to close down. Okay. Who said it? Bill Ford. What's the name on the building? Ford. He's giving you time to get your affairs in order.

SPEAKER_01

Not just. Usually they'll tell you mid-decade and close next year. Exactly. That's the opposite of what a lot of people do. Yeah. Well, that is, that's a blessing. Yes, sir. So I I we try to ask this a lot. I'm from here, Micah's from Charleston, which is well, whatever. Fairly close. It's close enough. He's from this area. What do you think, being from, as we say, the big city and coming down here, and obviously you're integrated into our town. You're one of us now, as as we would say, what do you think makes Sykston different or unique or special? Now I know your bride's here. Obviously, that that has a lot to do with it, I understand. But out outside of your beautiful wife, what what else would you say?

SPEAKER_03

I think being involved in the community, because in Sykston, they are community-oriented. Yes. In the big city, it's about individualism. That's what happens in the big city. You get you get lost in transition. Okay. And and everybody's, it's like survival. You're in survival mode. Well, here in Sykston, because it's community involvement, they're not gonna let you f fail.

SPEAKER_01

I've never heard it put like that. I I we've asked, I don't know that we've had a perspective on here, Micah. Like his. I'm trying to think from from a big city, so to speak.

SPEAKER_00

We've had other people from Shannon and all the and Coach Coach May and all them come on here.

SPEAKER_01

I've never heard it described like that from how the how the big city is different than that. But that makes sense. That you're you may have when you were little, but did you know your neighbors? I mean, like

What Makes Sikeston Different

SPEAKER_01

here, we feel like we know, you know. Okay.

SPEAKER_03

I grew up in a neighborhood. I could tell you everybody lived on the block. Okay. Okay. Can they do that now though? No. And you know why? Because people don't know each other. All they know is someone lives next door to me. Or they drive a truck or they drive a car or they've got three children. Okay, boys or girls. I don't know, they just got three kids. I see them in the van. Where when we grew up, if I did something at your house, your mother and your daddy whooped my behind. And if I passed your house and your mama saw tears in my eyes, she added to it. That's how I grew up. That same here. And and everybody in the neighborhood knew everybody, and you just couldn't do anything because I was brought up like this. Grown people don't lie. So if your mother said I did it, I did it. If I said I didn't, oh, you calling me so-and-so a lie, until you're really gonna get it. So that's why I got along with the older people. I learned early, fellas.

SPEAKER_01

I'm telling you. I'm telling you, I I don't blame you, but that's how it was here, too. It's kind of the thing. Oh, you got trouble at school? Well, guess what? You're gonna get it at home, too. Exactly. That's the way that's now.

SPEAKER_03

And and since you brought up school, yeah, I'll tell this. You know, yes, foop me at school, just don't give me a note to carry home. You can foot me all day. If I brought a note home, first thing my daddy, see, and he told me this. He asked me, What was my name? And I told him. He said, You didn't get that name from me. Sir, I got that from my father. And he got that from his father. So look how many people you are representing when you go out here. If you get in trouble, you these this is your lineage. This these are the people that you're representing. Wow. And you're acting and you're acting a fool. I'm looking back now to see if there's anything left.

SPEAKER_00

But anyway, there may not be. That's about like me. I just never wanted my name to be on the front page of the paper. Oh my god. I didn't want my mom to find out anything. I'm with you.

SPEAKER_01

But you know what? Before cell phones, I could do something, and my mama would know before I got home. Oh man. And we didn't have, we had no cell phones and have nothing. And I'm like, I was just standing with her out here in the street. You're like, she didn't yell, she didn't beat me to the house. No. And my mom knew. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03

Isn't that amazing? The intuition that they had.

SPEAKER_01

That was a lot of it.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. And they knew when you did something. And and and that mama committee, too, because they started calling mamas. Oh, yeah. I'm telling you.

SPEAKER_03

You cannot do. I remember this friend of mine, you know, he lived across the street from me. His grandmother came to school unannounced. And he was acting up. She pulled his pants down and wore him out and pointed to me and said, How is he acting? Oh my yes. Oh yes. Yes, sir. Yes, sir.

SPEAKER_01

That was the old school. Oh, I'm telling you. And how old was he then?

SPEAKER_03

He was he was nine.

SPEAKER_01

Oh boy.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. They did. I mean, enough to embarrass him. They did not play. Right. And you're acting a clown in class? You're here to learn not to act silly. And how was he acting? I'm like, she better tell the truth today. That's right.

SPEAKER_01

You said grown folks don't lie. Right.

SPEAKER_00

Don't hesitate. Right.

SPEAKER_01

Don't stop. Don't do that. Don't give them no reason. Oh my gosh. So we this is another question that we talk about or another thing that we talk about. Why do you think our school pride and our town pride is is so widespread or so run so deep here? Why do you think that is?

SPEAKER_03

There's one high school. Yep. And because there's one high school, you can put all of your efforts together. I love that. When I was in the big city, there were 11 public high schools, not counting the private schools or Catholic schools. And it was widespread. But here there's a cohesiveness that brings us together, be it football, wrestling, tennis, baseball. I went to the soccer game. PJ Foreman was playing soccer. And I saw the number of soccer people out there. I'm like, so it's just not basketball. It's just not football. These people are committed. And I was impressed. Of course, when they scored, I barked.

SPEAKER_00

Of course you did. You had to. You gotta think about Sykeston's kind of unique, even within Southeast Missouri. Most of its school is made up of people in Sykston. Like we don't have like Charleston, you got Wyatt, Anniston, all these other little towns.

SPEAKER_01

Sykston is made up of Sykston. That's a good point, too. I haven't really even thought about that. Even New Madrid has kids, Howardville, Lilburn, Matthews,

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SPEAKER_01

kind of the other small towns around that.

SPEAKER_03

That's a that's good.

SPEAKER_01

That's a great point. I never even considered that. But that the the one eleven in what a 10-mile range or 20 mile deal there, I guess. No, no, in St. Louis. You said 11. How how close were that?

SPEAKER_03

That was just in the inner city. In the inner city. I see. Okay. Okay. Yeah. I'm a baby boomer. Yep. There were there were a lot of kids. Yep. Yep. In my freshman year, there were eleven hundred freshmen.

SPEAKER_00

So you're talking 4,000 kids in a s in a school.

SPEAKER_03

In your high school? Yes. In my freshman year, there were 1,100 kids. Now, when I graduated in 1971, we had 385 graduates. People died, people moved. Oh my God. A lot of things happened. Yeah. And that's what I try to encourage children. Stay focused on your goal. Your goal is to get your high school diploma. That's right. A lot happens from kindergarten to high school. A lot happens from middle school to high school. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01

Mm-hmm. A lot happens from freshman year to senior year. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03

It does.

SPEAKER_01

Wow. Gosh, I you the diet thing, when you said that, that kind of hit me different. Yeah. And people move away. You know, they, they, they, they leave the state. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Oh my gosh. City's kind of fluent a lot. You know, I mean, like people move in, move out. Exactly. You know, and then you probably, you know, dropping out wasn't that. Yeah, dropout rate. I didn't think about that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, it's I mean, when you look at 1,100 to 385. That's crazy. It is.

SPEAKER_01

That's a third of it or a fourth of it, basically, or what?

SPEAKER_03

And when you when you tell people they go, what?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. That's a short.

SPEAKER_00

I mean, like you were probably in air when like Vietnam. I mean, like. So you probably had people that end up. Going there. Oh, yeah. I mean, like I thought my dad proved.

SPEAKER_01

Well, you were in the service. I was in the service. When when was that? And thank you for your service, by the way.

SPEAKER_03

I went I I spent nine years in the reserves. Okay. Okay. That's great. I I put my time in because I couldn't go active because of the ministry. But I put my time in into the reserves.

SPEAKER_01

You spent nine years? Nine years. In was that in St. Louis at one of the. St. Louis. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Okay. At the reserve center. Army.

SPEAKER_00

Like the Army. Yes, Army. Okay. Thank you. Oh, you're welcome.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. Yeah. Well, last year when Kelly, Knight, Marks, signed you up for I I didn't even I guess I because I saw I mean it's at our bank. I don't I guess I didn't see your name on there. And you showed up and I went. What the heck? Yeah. And that was, well, that was a blessing for me, of course. But that's great. Yeah. That's great. And we hope you come back this year.

SPEAKER_03

Yes. Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Okay. Sound like we got a winner. I'll tell Kelly in the morning. Make sure he's on the list. Yeah. But that's great. So what do you what do you enjoy the most about supporting and and and and bringing your energy to the to the to the games, to the kids?

SPEAKER_03

It's a family. It I I promise you, this is a family. Now I'm going to talk about you and what you did to me. Oh no, what I am. We went to Hillsborough. What did I do? We went to Hillsborough. We got there at 920. And he says to me, You're late.

SPEAKER_01

Normally you beat me there.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. Because that's what we do. We get there and we relax and we talk. Yep. I mean, because this is family. I agree with you. And it only lasts for a couple of months. And then it's over. And we don't get to see each other until the next basketball season.

SPEAKER_01

You know, I it's funny you mention that. Because after even we had an unbelievable season, right? We were 29 and 3, second in state, like we talked about. And I felt myself that Sunday afterwards when we got home just kind of feeling blue almost. And I'm thinking, why am I sad? And I thought about it for a while, and I thought, why am I why would I be sad? I mean, we had an unbelievable season. We did. But it's the relationships that we build

Basketball Season As A Family

SPEAKER_01

during that.

SPEAKER_00

Not to go all biblical on that, but you think about God created man in our image, meaning the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit. That's a community. Of course. That's the way that we're designed. Yes. Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And I I I just thought, why? Because I was thinking, well, I I may not see you guys for a while. Or I may not see Andon, who I do the games with, or I may not see, may not see Coach for a while, or may not see whoever for a while. And I I've thought about the family thing because Aaron and I talk about this, and they're like, well, your son already graduated. I know, but there are kids. Right, exactly. Now they don't belong to me. Right. But I mean, as far as they're not my blood, but they're my family. Those kids are. It's funny because people would ask us, no, we see you all at the games all the time.

SPEAKER_03

Who do you have out there? Right. I said. You know what? All of them are our kids.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's right. That's right. I don't even know if the kids realize the blessing that they are to us. Oh, right. Yes. I don't I don't know that they do.

SPEAKER_03

You know when they do, it's when they graduate and then they come back. Yeah. Because for them to stop by my house or see me out in the yard and they'll tell us how much they appreciated our support, you're like, wow. We do it because we enjoy it and we love it, but we didn't realize the impact that we had on their lives.

SPEAKER_01

We really didn't. That's right. Well, but even again, the impact they've had on our lives, right?

SPEAKER_00

Yes, yes. They've given us Hey, the Daisy probably gets you out of bed. You know what I mean? Oh, sure. Got a game to do that. That's it.

SPEAKER_01

When we up at Park Hills when we were up there. Yeah. I mean, the game was at one. Was it one? We rode out of town at like 8 30, like some crazy, like some nuts.

SPEAKER_00

We rode in at like, I think we got there at like 10 50, and there was already people in the building. Yeah. I think y'all came in about the same time we did. We did.

SPEAKER_03

We did. And and here's the thing that impressed me. They were open. Oh, that's exactly right. They were open and they let us in. That was a first. I think they got the memo from Formington.

SPEAKER_01

Like these crazy people are gonna be hours early. Sykeson gonna be there?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. Yep. Open up early. You better go ahead and do that. And because I remember one year when Formington did not let us in. Well, I keep telling people, we spend money. We're gonna eat. Yep. We're gonna buy concessions. We're gonna do it. So Formington didn't let us in. You remember that? And they ordered pizza?

SPEAKER_01

Yep.

SPEAKER_03

Yes. And after that, they said, oh, Sice is coming. It's it's it's funny.

SPEAKER_01

That was very nice. As a matter of fact, we after the game, we told we told the a couple of folks that were like, hey, we appreciate you guys opening that up and letting us in. Because there were people there even before we were. Exactly. And we were parked. We went to the wrong parking lot, didn't we? We were all sitting there. There was about five or six cars sitting there, and we're like, Mike, if you can't get it, it's all right. Okay. The this computer, we may have to throw this one out and start over again. No, no, no, no. No, it's all we can we're still going. We're still that it's I was just talking about that. It's no big deal. Don't worry about it. And we'll get it.

SPEAKER_03

And I said something to the people too. I told them, We we really appreciate you all allowing us to come in. Yeah. And the lady said, Yeah, because we don't get up this early.

SPEAKER_01

And you know, one thing that I I I went back and I've I've seen pictures. After we beat Viani, we look like it looked like a family on the floor. Hugging. Yeah. It didn't matter. That's what we did. I know. Yeah. And that's what we've talked about that so much on here recently for I don't know why, but it just comes up. It didn't matter where you went to church. Exactly. It didn't matter who you voted for. Who you voted for. It didn't matter what you believe. It didn't matter where you lived. We at that point we were a family. We were all. I think that's what Jesus and I think that's what how He wants us. Yeah. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. All that stuff is silly.

SPEAKER_03

It is. And and people get hung up on things that they can't explain.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Yeah. Well, I don't. Don't like you. Why? Right. I don't know. I just don't, right? You voted for the wrong person. But what's that got to do with anything? I know. I know. We've all felt trapped to it at times before, right? Yeah. And it's wrong. It's just wrong. It is. It's wrong. And people get out here and they trip.

SPEAKER_03

That's right. Why are you tripping? If you're tripping, you can't walk straight anyway.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. It boils back down to one thing. We all become selfish.

SPEAKER_03

That's it. That's true. And once you relinquish your selfishness, then you can love it.

SPEAKER_00

That's what Christianity is about.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly. That's what it's all about.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. Yep. A couple other things. What do you what do you want the kids to see in you whi while you're supporting them? What do you what do you obviously you're it is your support, but what do you hope they see through you?

SPEAKER_03

I hope that they see that when lose a draw, we're gonna support you.

SPEAKER_01

We t when Aaron left before about the time we came down here to record and she she we we were talking about that. Yeah, I mentioned that. What she told you. Yeah. If you remember when after they after the championship game at got second place at at state, there was she said 300. There may have been 500 people. Yeah. There were a lot of us. Still standing around waiting for the kids to show them that we still supported them, we cared for them. Exactly. Unbelievable season. Of course, Aaron said, I didn't see you or Miss Maxine. But when the door opened, she said, I knew where he was then. He started barking. She said, I knew exactly where he was. And that's that that support and the fact that I hope what they see with me, and I I've told my son is that you want to be proud of where you're from, right? And I I think it's it's important for us to. I think you even said it last week. We're proud when we walk into Mizzou Arena or Park Hills where we were when we beat Viani. We all had our Sykston stuff on, right? I mean, we walked with our shoulders back, right? Not too good for anybody, right? But we were proud to walk

What Ken Wants Kids To Feel

SPEAKER_01

in there and like, hey, this is who we are. We are our Sykston. We are. That's right. Man, I love that. That is so good. I that's such a big deal for for us. And I I hope I hope the kids see it, but you're right. I think it's after they graduate when they really go, man, that really they really appreciate it.

SPEAKER_03

Because right now, all they know is, hey, the fans are gonna be there. Yeah. Yeah. And and we show up. Now, you know what really impressed me? The farm system that Sykston has. I agree. Seventh grade, eighth grade. And I'm thinking, man, when I saw that, I'm like, wow. Mm-hmm. The city doesn't have that. They don't. They do not. No, they do not. Really? They have AAU. They do not have the system where seventh grade, eighth grade, you have you have multiple high schools. So how can you have a form system? That's true.

SPEAKER_00

And you don't even have grade schools that feed the high school, do you? I mean, like they can kind of they don't have an assignment, like they go to this school, they go to this school in high school.

SPEAKER_03

They don't anymore. When I was coming up, I went to Turner Middle. Okay. Sumner High School is right across the street. Okay. So that's where then you went to high school then. Exactly. Okay. But it's not like that. It's not like that now. You might go to whatever the middle school is, and you have choices. Here's a high school there, there's one there, and there's one over there. Where we were homegrown. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. You know, the elementary school I went to was John Marshall. Okay. And that was like five blocks from my house. The the middle school was like three blocks from my house, and the high school was three blocks. Because the middle school was like here and the high school was across the street.

SPEAKER_00

But I do know. I know like now, I think grade school, you don't necessarily go. I mean, I'm sure there are schools that feed certain schools just by location.

SPEAKER_03

But usually not. They're bust. You can live in the city and you get bust to the county.

unknown

Really?

SPEAKER_00

That started in the 80s, didn't it?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. That started in the 80s. Started in the 80s. Or late 70s. I I was out.

SPEAKER_00

I remember talking about bussing kids when I was younger.

SPEAKER_01

Well, that just messes up all the community.

SPEAKER_03

You have no community with that. Exactly. And that's why when I say the cohesiveness of Sykes, I mean that. Uh-huh. Because there is a togetherness and then there is a link. Yeah. You know, the middle school transitions to the high school. Yeah. Yeah. Ah.

SPEAKER_01

I I didn't realize that that they didn't do that any longer in the city.

SPEAKER_00

Not as often. It was not.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Even well, even like the Catholic schools, they don't have like St. Dominic's a high school.

SPEAKER_03

Right.

SPEAKER_01

I don't think hopefully I'm not speaking out to but I don't think they have a junior high. So they could go to grade school in I don't know, I guess Clayton, and then drive out to O'Fallon for high school.

SPEAKER_00

Well even like Catholic school. Or wherever. You think about a Catholic school here, it is kind of, I mean, if you go like if you're going to go to Catholic school, you may go to St. Henry's or St. Dennis, you know, like St. Or St. Francis here. St. Francis. And then you feed up to to to Notre Dame. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. And maybe they have that, maybe they have something similar to that in the city. I I don't know. That's why I said maybe I'm speaking out of school, but I know as far as I know, St. Dominic is just a high school ninth through twelfth.

SPEAKER_03

Because it's like I know people that went to Catholic high school that did not go to Catholic elementary school. Catholic elementary. Right. That's right. They they went to a secular school, and then the parents said, you know what? I'm tired of the city. I'm tired of the public schools, and we're gonna enroll you in the Catholic school.

SPEAKER_01

Sure, sure. Yeah, I I I totally understand.

SPEAKER_00

I don't think like like St. Mary's doesn't have like I don't think they have a feeder school.

SPEAKER_01

They don't. Oh, St. Mary's. It's yeah in St. Louis, they're we did you go there when was that? Two years ago. Two years ago. St. Mary's South. Yeah, yeah, South Side. Right there on Grand. That's right.

SPEAKER_03

In the heart of South St. Louis.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. Yep. We went there. Well, they came here this year. Okay. So yeah.

SPEAKER_00

They went there the year before.

SPEAKER_01

We went there and we played that we played freshman, JV, and varsity. And that's what they did here this year. I remember that. That's right. That's right. That was probably, of course, I give him a hard time about this. He was with his grandson. And but we were like, where were you? You're not here. Oh,

Lightning Round And Favorite Memories

SPEAKER_01

we're supporting our grandson. I'm like, okay.

SPEAKER_03

This is this is wild since you brought that up. Yeah. A friend of my wife's lives in I want to say Nashville. It's either Nashville or Texas. Her sister called her and said, listen, have you heard from the Holloways? We haven't seen them this season. Uh-huh. See if they're all right. Or give me the number so I can call them. I promise you.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, I'm you you it is noticed when you aren't there. That's for sure. That's for sure. Okay. News flash. We told you all last year. I know you did. So you're still missed. You're still missed. I know. You told us that, and you said, now our grandson's gonna be a freshman. I said, Well, it sounds like he needs to be a bulldog so you can do all of it at the same time.

SPEAKER_03

Is he in St. Louis? He's in St. Louis, and he goes to Hazelwood Central.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Yeah, and Miss Maxine, she showed me a bunch of pictures. I'm like, Yeah. That'll look like red and black, Miss Maxine, is all I can tell. No, I obviously you're gonna support your grandson. I understand. And you'll be you'll be at the games when you can. Yeah. I know you burn up the highway. You know it. That's part of it.

SPEAKER_03

Getting up there and getting back here.

SPEAKER_01

That's right. That's right. Got just a few more questions for you. And I we sort of asked this one a little bit earlier. When you're years from now, even won't you still be here? But I mean, if you aren't able to attend games and things like that, what what do you want folks to know about you or to or to have what do you want them to think of you when they think of like Ken Holloway?

SPEAKER_03

That I was committed. And just because I'm not homegrown does not mean I am not part of Sykes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. I think there I think we're a lot of things are coming. A lot of good things are coming. A lot of good things. I mean, and and I I believe that people are gonna want to come here. Exactly.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. Yep. That's it. I'm with you, Micah. I'm with you. I think there are a lot of good things.

SPEAKER_00

And we need to we need to remember that as a community.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Like, and not trying to say that I'm I mean, like, I'm a I'm a way outsider. I'm from Charleston. I mean, like they they literally didn't like me.

SPEAKER_01

Well, what do you say about Sykeston? What'd you say when we were upstairs? You said they hate us.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, they do. I mean, people, you you think I'm kidding. Oh, you you're from Sykston. I am.

SPEAKER_01

Why you got your nose curled up?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. And they they look at us having the sorry. That's the wife. She knows she's not so. But it's just because of our family-like attitude and atmosphere. I think they're jealous. They are because they don't have it. Yep. Yep. And they don't know how to get it. And so when I told them how to get it, they for real, oh yeah. That's how you do it.

SPEAKER_01

And they they didn't want to put in that work, didn't they? Exactly. It's work. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Well, it's I mean, I don't it's I don't say natural is not the word, but I think it's genuine. Oh, it's and it's hard to get that.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

I mean, like, it happened to happen genuinely.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

The way that Sykston is.

SPEAKER_01

And it don't just happen like you can't turn on a switch and it happens.

SPEAKER_03

They just they just do it. It's it's automatic because it's in them. Okay. If if it's not in you, it can't come out of you. Right. That's right. That's right. That's right. Okay. Yep. And so you can see the love that people have for the program. Now, we get we get a new group every year. Yep. Yep. Because seniors are graduating, so parents that have never attended. Yep. Are coming this year be why? Their child is graduating. Uh-huh. Yeah, but and we're glad to have you. Uh-huh. No, but we we've been here for three years. Right, right. Right. But yeah, we do. We get a new group every year.

SPEAKER_00

I mean, you well, I mean, like just that whole process. I mean, you not only get basketball players, you get cheerleaders, you get oh, I didn't think about that. You get managers, you get you know, like your family that brings in peep new people. Exactly. And I I I feel like I feel like Syson does a very good job at at welcoming change. So you need to get that.

SPEAKER_01

We can pause it. Okay. Yeah, we'll pause it. Yeah. And we're back. Yes. Hey, when the boss calls, you gotta take it. You got to. I understand. Yeah. I understand. She called once, then she called back, and we're like, eh, you ain't gonna put that on me saying Matt wouldn't stop it.

Final Bark And Closing Thanks

SPEAKER_01

I've been there, I know better than that. Yeah. Well, that's that's thank you for that perspective. And and that's uh I think that's a great thing. Last few questions. We call this a lightning round. Okay, they're gonna be one after the other. Okay. What's your favorite thing about Sykston? The camaraderie. Love it. I'm one of mine too. I love it. What's your favorite bulldog memory?

SPEAKER_03

2011. We were standing outside waiting to get in. When we left Sitz, and it was warm. It was cold and they were cheering to st to keep warm. And the players heard us from the outside to the inside, and it riled them up.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. Yep. We were just and we won the championship. That's what I'm saying. Let's go. You're right. I remember that specifically. What what do you what do you like more? A packed gym or a packed football stadium?

SPEAKER_03

Packed gym. And the reason being it's enclosed. Now, don't get me wrong. I I enjoy the football feel and outdoors in the fresh air. Yeah. But when the when you're in the gym, it's different.

SPEAKER_01

I agree. Aaron just calls it conditioned air, as she said. It's it's it's or it's it's what she what how does she say that? A controlled atmosphere.

SPEAKER_00

It's it's not too hot, not too cold. My wife will only watch football between the end of September and mid-October.

SPEAKER_03

Really is. I mean, Sykston, you have to be a part of it to appreciate it. Right. They welcomed me, even without saying you're welcome. I mean, they just they just allow me to come in and bark and carry on, and nobody tried to stop me. I'm like, yes, this is the right place. That's right.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. That's exactly right. What is what's uh what's uh the biggest the biggest lesson that life has taught you?

SPEAKER_03

To be patient and to pay attention. If you are patient, you're watchful. But when you get in a hurry, you'll miss something. Okay. I'll give you an example. You ever been in a hurry to go to work?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Okay. It's something you forgot. Oh, for sure. I forgot my wallet or I just did it this morning. Exactly. But if you're patient, that means you've planned. So here's here's here's something that might help you. If you fail to plan, you're planning to fail.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. You are correct. Yep. I do that frequently. That is uh one of my I don't know how I forgot my phone.

SPEAKER_00

I had to turn around and go back and get it. It happens.

SPEAKER_01

It happens.

SPEAKER_00

It does. I think I put it in a different spot than I normally do when I got it up.

SPEAKER_01

What what still what still fires you up today to get get you moving?

SPEAKER_03

To get motivated. Just the fact that my eyes open. Yep. That's motivation enough for me. Yep. And I guess because I'm a preacher, you know, because if God thought enough to open my eyes, there is something else he wants me to get done. That's a great question.

SPEAKER_01

And I'm motivated. Yep. Yep. I love that. I love that. And I'm got two more questions. Okay. What does Sykston mean to you now? This is home. That's what I'm talking about. I'm a bulldog. That's what I'm talking about. You've always been a bulldog, come to find out, right? Yeah. I love that. I love that.

SPEAKER_00

Or were they red bulldogs or maroon and white?

SPEAKER_01

Okay. Okay.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And the last thing for us, give me three people that you would suggest that we bring on the show. Mary White Ross. I know, Miss Mary. What a what a lovely lady. Faison Fobs. Like one of my own. But yes.

SPEAKER_03

Yep, you're right. Have you had Julian Beard yet?

SPEAKER_01

I did, actually. Okay. But I yep. Let's see. And we could we we need to bring him back because he's got some updated stuff. I know he's got girls now, basketball that he's coaching. Okay. He and Chris Appleton. You remember Chris played a couple years back? Because well, so after the state championship game, all of us were standing around. I was talking to Julian, and he had both of his boys there.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And I said, Y'all may not even know what's going on. And they're like, what do you mean? And I said, they just laid the foundation for you.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly.

SPEAKER_01

Because Jaden will be a freshman next year, and Julian Jr. will be an eighth grader. Yeah. And I said, This just laid this for you, BJ, Jerry, and all the kids coming back next year. I said, they just laid this now for you all. Yeah. Now you have to take that and propel it forward. That's it. Yep. And and Julian, well, he's like, I'm ready. Let's go. Let's go. You know how he is. Let's go. Let's go. What a great guy. I think very highly of Julian. Oh, yeah. He is, he's terrific. And he's a he's a big supporter of ours too, of what we do here. So thank you for those.

SPEAKER_00

He's like one of our hottest fans.

SPEAKER_01

Yes. He he yes, exactly. He he likes all of our stuff. He comments on our stuff. He's we we we think very highly of Julian. Okay. Well, right, Ken, thank you. It we can't get off the you have to do. I was fixing to say we gotta get it. You gotta hear it one time before we get off here. All right. Here we go. I'm Matt Tanner. We say go dogs to finish it. Go Dogs. That's gonna do it for this episode of the Doghouse. Thanks for hanging with us and showing love to Sykes, where small town pride runs deep and Bulldog Grit never quits. Don't forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share this with anyone who bleeds red and black. From the heart of the 573, this has been the doghouse. Always have a home.

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