"Rage Out vs. Crash Out" Ep.8 Men and Women Are Equally Emotional

We explore the distinctive line between "raging out" (expressing angry thoughts) versus "crashing out" (actually taking regrettable actions) while discussing how to process intense emotions in healthier ways.

• Distinguishing between intrusive thoughts and harmful actions
• Challenging the notion that men aren't emotional – anger counts too
• Questioning the sincerity behind asking "how are you" in casual conversation
• Importance of being present when connecting with others
• Benefits of learning to be comfortable alone with your thoughts
• Dealing with unsolicited advice from people who just want to hear themselves talk
• Unpacking emotional baggage before it weighs you down

Listen to Erykah Badu's "Bag Lady" to understand the message about trauma. Deal with your baggage so you don't miss out on opportunities and relationships meant for you.

The song mentioned above is a mf SLAP too!!! WE love yall!

Transcript

Opening Banter

Speaker 1 0:01

Please turn your volumes down , because I'm gonna start yelling here in a second .

Speaker 2 0:07

Yeah .

Speaker 1 0:09

Can you tell what song I'm about to do ? I's been known you for a long time , but fuck .

Speaker 2 0:16

It never crossed your mind . But tonight I seen something in ya that made me wanna get with ya .

Speaker 1 0:25

You ain't been nothing but a friend to me . I don't know what she said .

Speaker 2 0:33

So I will never , ever cross the line One more time . Tell me again .

Speaker 1 0:42

We should've pulled a lyric . Tell me again my baby should have pulled a lyric . Tell me again , my baby , I'm in love with a friend . Oh , it's a good look , baby .

Speaker 2 0:53

Oh , yeah , tell me again , make sure you're right . Oh , before you leave .

Speaker 1 1:01

I'm in love with a friend .

Speaker 2 1:04

Came in hot on that one , didn't you ?

Speaker 1 1:05

sure did lord . Well , listen , if you haven't recognized , it's uh , it's fat daddy and the company by sweets , the goddess we back here getting tired as fuck oh , lord , yes , yes for episode eight . Oh , I think this number means new beginnings .

Speaker 2 1:25

Maybe Number 8 , feeling great .

Speaker 1 1:29

Yeah , and that's cap .

Speaker 2 1:31

Feel like shit , but we here .

Speaker 1 1:33

We feel like dog shit , bro , excuse this . We will check the box before we post this episode that says explicit content If this is becoming too much for your weary little heart for y'all sweet little virgin ears unsub man hell , we all , we cuss like this on all that I know y'all be saying nigga bitch , hoe cunt whatever the hell you say at home by yourself , be acting , sanctify holy ghost field , holier than thou . And then you get on here and be like oh my gosh , they're so filthy . Where is the soap ?

Speaker 2 2:07

oh , shut up , shut up I hope my voice sounds okay and clear check . I ain't gonna hold y'all . I'm super slumped trying to get this shit out you should see what she look like right now .

Speaker 1 2:18

That's the beauty of doing this without a camera , because what the hell do y'all need to know what we look like super slow .

Speaker 2 2:24

What even is posture ?

Speaker 1 2:26

it's non-existent , I don't even know what's going on right now . Forever I'm like delusional . But I do know that we had some things we wanted to talk about that we didn't quite get a chance to finish because we only gave y'all two on episode seven which , by the way , if you're listening to this , I hope that you listen to them in sequential order . But you know , I think we should just get right into it . This is episode eight , and I was telling Sweets that I'm raging out , and then she said that I need to explain to y'all what the difference is between raging out and crashing out , and I'm going to make this real simple and we ain't about to make

Raging vs Crashing Out Explained

Speaker 1 3:06

this long drawn out . Crashing out is the act of smacking the hoe . Raging out is the premonition , the thought , the premeditated part of it , you know , so you think it . This person is talking to me crazy .

Speaker 1 3:21

I should punch him in his Adam's apple and make him swallow his whole thyroid section got you .

Speaker 2 3:26

I mean , crashing out is actually doing , yeah , crashing out is actually doing the thyroid what I consider doing to people .

Speaker 1 3:32

Boy , if there was a um , a felony charge for what I think about , oh , I'd be oh my god , I'd have been locked yeah , for sure .

Speaker 2 3:41

I'm glad that it's not like that I'm scared of my own thoughts sometimes Yo them joints be dark , it's really dark .

Speaker 1 3:49

I'm pretty dark , but my thoughts are dark . D-a-w-k .

Speaker 2 3:53

But see what , if I have like crash out thoughts , is that still considered raging ?

Speaker 1 3:57

Okay , listen , let me clarify a little bit more . Raging out is the expression of those thoughts to who you believe is a safe space , right ? So you say y'all I'm thinking about smacking this motherfucker and they'd be like yo don't do it bloodbath . You know , I'm saying maybe the ones that can talk you down . You're like nah , bro , you got to convince me , because if you don't say it in the right way , I'm walking straight over there . This , the raging out part , is the hennessy . The hennessy Y'all know what it is . You drink it and you be like why he looking at me like that I should go smack this motherfucker right now .

Speaker 2 4:30

He think you pussy , yeah , he testing you , he testing you .

Speaker 1 4:32

Gangsta , go fucking stab him . He be like whoa , whoa , hold on Time out , wait a minute . This is like the angel and then the devil on your shoulder . If y'all psychology dweebs in here , the ed ego , super ego .

Speaker 2 4:43

Yeah , all that conflict conflict and we were getting locked up for our thoughts . Some of the things that I've thought because I was angry , raging or heinous . I told you before that I thought about setting old people on fire , not that I would do it for damn what are you ?

Speaker 1 4:59

what are you ? Frank lucas , I'm man . Look , you remember how that joint started .

Speaker 2 5:04

Yeah , yeah , the movie started out , Shot that man in the diner right .

Speaker 1 5:07

No , no , no , you in the middle of the movie oh , that's the middle . No , the beginning started out with a dude tied up in the chair .

Speaker 2 5:13

Oh , yeah , yeah , yeah , he covered him doused him in gasoline . That's right . And flicked a cigarette , the lighter , I think , and then shot him while he was burning yeah , see , yeah you talking about that .

Speaker 1 5:29

But old people , why specific ? We just talked about on episode seven how like they get wisdom and gems it's not even that I have anything against old people .

Speaker 2 5:34

You just ever been so mad . You just want to do some real heinous shit . Not that you would .

Speaker 1 5:38

You just think about it like you ain't ever thought about putting a kid before uh , yeah , off at the top of a building , absolutely not saying that I would .

Speaker 2 5:44

I was . I was about to say this . This is gonna come off crazy . Thought about punting a kid before .

Speaker 1 5:46

Yeah , off at the top of a building , Absolutely Not saying that I would . I was about to say this is going to come off crazy .

Speaker 2 5:50

I would never do it . This is why we can't do late night pods .

Speaker 1 5:53

Because they're going to be like yo .

Speaker 2 5:54

hold on , man look everybody's had some unhinged thoughts before . That's like the equivalent to you ever been driving over a bridge and like what if I make a sharp left off the bridge ? Yeah , yeah , what if I just yeah , what if I just everybody's had those moments or you'd be standing on top of something real high , like up on a balcony , like what if I , just what if I just dive off this shit ?

Speaker 1 6:15

okay , I can't even say anything , because I have had all of those thoughts it's impulsive , you can't help it . You're human I don't know if I like that part about me . I mean , I accept it , but like the things that I think about doing to people , I would hope that y'all understand now what the difference is between raging out Because I haven't done any of those things that I thought about .

Speaker 2 6:37

You wouldn't be here .

Speaker 1 6:37

Boy , would I be under the jail . That's what my mom says . You know you would be up under the jail and they wouldn't even have a room for you in that drink . You would be up under that . They would bury you alive .

Speaker 2 6:50

They would just give me the death penalty .

Speaker 1 6:51

I already know they wouldn't even have to Can you imagine thinking something like that and the next thing you know it's like open up and you're like damn , I just thought it , how did you know ? Damn it , damn . And like it's supposed to indicate that it's not connected to the wi-fi , but like if you say some shit the wrong way , you'll like piss it off . Did you know ?

Speaker 1 7:15

that you can piss alexa yo , alexa will like go and like it turns red I don't know what it means outside of like it's not , it's not connected to wi-fi . So when you say something and it's red already , it will say something like please fix your whatever what's that mean ?

Speaker 2 7:30

it's like already listening to you , yeah bro .

Speaker 1 7:32

See , I'm not . That's why . That's why bro will go to the top and push the mute mic part and it'll be yellow and that indicates that the mic's not on . But if it's ever red and like talking back to you , that motherfucker is listening and you said something that is pissing alexa off I like it and this is all speculation , but I've noticed it before where alexa will be , like you know , please connect your wi-fi or fix the router issue or whatever . And then sometimes it's like I'm sorry , can you repeat that ?

Speaker 2 8:01

and I'm like okay these days somebody's gonna piss their legs off so bad she's gonna lock them out the house you know she's gonna hack all her shit we gotta do the uh , the ?

Speaker 1 8:10

what is it the ? What is the stuff called the that people think about hypothetical ? Hypothetical no , no , no , not the hypothetical . It's what , what , who , who be thinks about it's who be right oh my pops , oh , what is it ? Yes , we gotta do a conspiracy , but that that's for like season two , when it's subscription only because they might shut our shit .

Speaker 2 8:27

That's a whole rabbit hole , but I'm willing to go down if you are . I don't know . I mean , they're already listening .

Speaker 1 8:35

I mean , who the hell cares ? If y'all want to do conspiracies , please let us know . We are not going to do that without y'all's say so . We need the green light .

Speaker 2 8:43

I quite enjoy a good conspiracy . In me personally we have the tism . That is embarrassing .

Speaker 1 8:50

I'm so sorry go right now we have the tism . That is embarrassing . I'm so sorry y'all . So the difference between raging out is the thought and crashing out is the , the smacking , the poking , the burning , the actually burning the house Like Lisa left eye , that's crash out Like I may or may not know someone who like tried to hit someone with your car , like Lisa , left Eye that's Crash Out Like I may or may not know someone who , like tried to hit someone Like Michael Jackson dangling the baby over the balcony . That's Crash Out .

Speaker 2 9:19

I don't think he meant anything bad by that he didn't .

Speaker 1 9:21

but dog , why would you ever ?

Speaker 2 9:23

He wasn't crashing out , he was just . He wasn't thinking . Rest in peace .

Speaker 1 9:25

Michael Jackson . But like , come on , bro , I the other day and I was like what was he thinking ?

Speaker 2 9:29

wait side note did you watch his memorial service on tv ? No okay , you ever seen like those celebrity memorial services on tv ? Yeah , I watched nips , it's like you actually went to the service I watched nips and I watched kobe's I cried so hard watching michael's . I remember when whitney died I knocked on my mom's door for something and she cussed me out . So bad she's like can't you see ? I'm in a service right now you're right .

Speaker 1 9:51

I said excuse me yeah , you don't interrupt that , bro .

Speaker 2 9:54

I'm grieving right now that's basically what she's saying . Like ,

Dark Thoughts and Digital Eavesdropping

Speaker 2 9:57

yeah , like what are you ?

Speaker 1 9:58

interrupting that , for do you don't you see this gangsta tear right here ? Get out , get out get up oh , you know what we gotta have ? Uh , kids , do the darndest things , my daughter is a liar . I love her to death .

Speaker 2 10:21

I ain't going to put her on blast , but she's recently been lying on people . Why did you push ? Yeah , she be saying people pushed her .

Speaker 1 10:26

I'm like sure ain't nobody touch you . I'm like man , go to hell . I don't even mean that , but I'll be like bro , who are you ? Why would you ever say some shit like that to me ? Do you know what I think about ? You know ? You know what I work hard for ? Is you ? Why would I push you ?

Speaker 2 10:41

Like , actually like that's what kids are good for . You know , my son asked me the other day . He asked me why my legs were so fat . How do you answer some shit like that Other than nigga , fuck out my face ?

Speaker 1 10:53

See this goes back to fucking kids . What did you say actually ?

Speaker 2 10:57

I didn't have a . I didn't have a comeback for it .

Speaker 1 10:59

I bet you , he fried you up .

Speaker 2 11:01

He fried me by a five-year-old and he called my legs fat . He made me feel like I had . You know what those are ? No , that's when you got . Have you seen people with those fat lumps or fat pockets in their legs ? That's good fry by a five-year-old and that's not the first time he lives to to fry me .

Speaker 1 11:20

Yeah he don't . He don't be frying me . He be trying to , but give him time to warm up for all the folks in here that don't have kids um , what I will say is don't let this deter you from having kids .

Speaker 2 11:32

Just know you about to be um gangsta tested kids are brutally honest and most times I thought you can't even be mad at them because you're like , you know , that's funny , that's , that's actually a little funny .

Speaker 1 11:43

Yeah , you got me and you know this will be a great segue , because , no matter where you go , everybody will glorify and glamorize your children and they will never ask you how you're doing Yep .

Speaker 2 11:55

Good segue into the next segment .

Speaker 1 11:56

I know I'm like that .

Speaker 2 11:57

The next segment is how are you ?

Speaker 1 12:01

And the reason why this is a segment on this podcast is , I feel like this is the most asked question . I think we should Google that after this podcast , or maybe y'all can fact check me , but I just don't think there's any more common of a question than how are you ?

Speaker 2 12:17

Hey , how are you ? Yeah , it goes along with that .

Speaker 1 12:19

It's like the sandwich , right ? And then I'm like how many of the people who actually ask that question mean it and would do something if you said I'm not really doing too well ?

Speaker 2 12:32

That's a good question .

Speaker 1 12:33

I want to be able to figure out how to collect data on that , because I think it's all bullshit . I don't think people actually care . One time I asked a lady that , while I was a cashier at Food Lion , shout out to all my East Coast folks that know what Food Lion grocery chain is . Before I became a produce associate and eventually a shift lead and manager , I used to ask the cat the customers that came through how they were doing . This lady went on a whole monologue about how she lost her cat . She's getting evicted , her car got repoed and she has some baby daddy drama . I never heard that one before , but like now I had to take time out and turn my light out at the register because , like I'm not about to rush that you know , because for me if I ask you how you're doing , she's like well , you know , my cat died and personally I don't fucking care about cats at all , bro , I would , I would literally burn them all .

Speaker 1 13:22

But for her I was being empathetic , you know , and I'm like , all right , let me just hear her out . She was at my register for about about a good 35 minutes and boy did she feel better after that . You know , sometimes people just need a bit . But what I mean by that is like why ask the question if you don't actually care about how people are really doing ?

Speaker 2 13:42

like , if you're saying it in passing , you're a hoe yeah , I feel like a lot of times people just say it because they feel like it's the right thing to say or it's like , or it like checks the box for them like yep , I'm , I'm here checking boxes and shit .

Speaker 1 13:52

Hey , you don't even mean it , they just do it together . Hey , how you doing . And you be like , yeah , I'm good . Every time they say that that is cap , you know they are not good .

Speaker 2 14:00

I will say , though , on the other side of the coin , when you have people that actually know you and when they ask you like , let's just say , say you're , uh , you're in shambles and you're hanging on by a thread and somebody that you know very well will look at you . But yo , how are you ? Like ? Even the tone of like yeah , how are you , are you ? Okay , I don't know about you , but I'm immediately falling into pieces , like I might hit you with an initial like yeah , I'm fine .

Speaker 2 14:24

Oh , it's only with people that you , you know people that I know are even like sometimes people could just see something in you that you're really not okay . So when they sincerely ask yo , how are you , I don't know , it just hits a little different . And nine times out of ten you're going to get the initial I'm fine . And then they'll ask it again how are you really ? And then up here it comes I'm not okay , I'm not all right , I'm going to crumble every time they hit you with the Kevin Hart .

Speaker 2 14:51

Yeah , try to bring it in , give you a hug or something . No-transcript every time . I know I'm not the only one there's nothing wrong with that , I think .

Speaker 1 15:02

I think what we okay , what I'm realizing this is a quick tangent that we failed to realize and mention is these emotions that we talk about like fear , right , that that's an emotion . And then I talked to guys about that , and they don't acknowledge fear as an emotion . You know what else they don't acknowledge as an emotion ? Anger , it's an emotion , right ? Yeah . So when men say things like women are the most emotional creatures , I argue , encounter that with no , I would agree that we're both emotional , we just express it in different ways . Women feel everything else , but men are . We're kings at being angry , are we not ? So wouldn't that mean that we're both emotional creatures ? Guys get pissed off , like really quick , yeah , and that's an emotion . Fear is an emotion , jealousy is an emotion , envy is an emotion . You know , all these things that people don't like to look at as emotions are emotions . I just wanted to put that out there because I feel like when I heard the episode seven , I was like we didn't talk about how . You know , like , yes , don't let your emotions run .

Speaker 1 16:06

You Men have y'all seen Unhinged ? That is an emotional man . Yeah , that's an emotional man . I don't care what y'all think he might be gangster to you . Oh , what a way to go out .

Speaker 2 16:17

Y'all seen Scarface All these things , he things definitely emotional yeah , bro , he went , it was an apology yeah , why he's got his heart on his sleeve forever .

Speaker 1 16:27

So for the fellas out here that are that are emotion bashing women , just know that arguably , men might be the most emotional creatures out there . Because what's the first thing we default to brothers ? You get pissed off . How about that ? Chew that over gay guys and that is nothing . Dang it . Our lgbtq plus community is gonna hate us for that , but I don't mean like that . I just you know , it's a derogatory term for something that's bad . That doesn't mean that people who like the same sex are bad . I gotta say that because y'all are sensitive . Stop being pussies . If I say some shit gay , that's what I mean . All right , I ain't talking about people who like other people that is almost the equivalent .

Speaker 2 17:11

Let's just say , like I don't know , people are comparing fucked up shit to black . That's some real black shit to do it and it is black .

Speaker 1 17:17

Is it not a fact if I said some black shit to be late to something ? Is that fact or is it offensive ? I mean it's offensive to whoever the fuck it offends . But like , do I actually care ? No , stop being stupid , stop being soft . Kobe would have called you off soft like Charmin . We wipe shit with that . And if it , man , man , if that offends you , unsub . We don't want you here . We don't Excuse me , let me speak for myself . Fat daddy does not condone people who take things personal . So , uh , don't give a damn what we got next . Oh , no , no , no , hold on , hold on before before we leave the how are you question . Stop asking that shit .

Speaker 1 17:55

If you don't actually like want to invest time into helping somebody out , don't , don't just say it because you feel like it's the right thing to say be present , and what I mean by that is not actually just being there , but like being engaged . Being engaged , turn your phone off . Or if you don't want to turn your phone off , put it on . Do not disturb and move that thing away . Some people put their phones in jars , like I feel like that's a little bit extreme . Just just put your phone somewhere and leave it there . All you got to be on all the time . Y'all have no discipline with just being with somebody for real , looking them in the eye , reading their body language . Your head is down . That's why y'all necks is fucked up , whole posture be jacked because you don't know nothing else but to sit hunched over and have your neck like this . You looking like Notre Dame with the hunchback .

Speaker 2 18:42

The hunchback , yeah , quasi .

Speaker 1 18:44

Qu you looking like Notre Dame ? The hunchback Quasimodo built ass Because you don't know how to put your phone down .

Speaker 2 18:48

I feel like being present . It kind of goes hand in hand with what we talked about last episode , with being okay , with being alone by yourself .

Speaker 1 18:56

Everybody is weird , I'm sorry .

Speaker 2 18:57

Being able to be alone with your own thoughts .

Speaker 1 18:59

Y'all are weird .

Speaker 2 19:01

I just feel like it's a I don't know . Sometimes it y'all are weird . I just feel like it's a I don't know . Sometimes it's just a certain level that people have to get to . They have to .

Speaker 1 19:07

They have to get to that point some people never get there , some , some people don't listen .

Speaker 1 19:10

Quick , tangent shout out to my mom dude . She taught me the importance of being okay with that . You know , I learned that from my mom dudes , bro , she will go to the movies by herself . She'll go out to eat by herself . She'll go get her pedicure by herself and her manicure by herself , going to drive by herself . She calls a car worship car ministry . Anyways , my mama know how to be by herself and it is okay because , yeah , that's what it's supposed to be . You know what is great about being by yourself ? There's no other variables . No other variables .

Speaker 1 19:42

You never try and go to a movie with somebody and they're like , oh , can we catch the later time , because I got this going on and it's going on now you don't even want to see the movie no more , because you show up and don't piss me off , because you told them to be ready at this time and they're not ready . Now you late . Yeah , you already paid for the tickets and now y'all late . You don't miss the preview . Some of us like to see the preview , you selfish niggas . Some of us like to see the preview , you selfish niggas . Some of us like to see that because we get to see what movies is coming out . Get the popcorn , get the snacks . Now , we missed it . We missed part of the intro to the movie . We don't even know . Stop doing that . You don't got to deal with any of that .

Speaker 1 20:12

When you go by yourself , I'm quick to hoop by myself , eat by myself , cook by myself , cook a meal for myself , a five course meal for me , one portion of everything , just because I want that . This is a solitude week . This is a . Look yourself in the mirror . What did he say ? I look myself in the mirror . Amityville . I ain't seen nothing scarier . I fought like a pit bull . Terrier . Shout out kendrick bro , that is like the best song ever . If you don't want to know what I'm talking about , it's count me out . It's on mr morale and the big steppers , his album he dropped in 2022 , y'all . Yeah , I'm a music

How Are You: When People Don't Mean It

Speaker 1 20:47

library too . They used to call me jukebox . Stop playing with me . If you want a soul search , listen to kendrick . Damn , mr morale and the big steppers , and for sure , for sure , gnx . But y'all ain't ready for that . Y'all ain't ready for that . I'll get into some music stuff .

Speaker 2 21:01

The next episode sometimes you gotta be present to address the shit that you've been suppressing for too long man , you gotta turn that volume up , you gotta say that again sometimes you have to be present in the moment to address the things that you've been suppressing for a while why would anybody want to do that ? That's hard if you want to get over something , you have to allow yourself to feel it . What ?

Speaker 2 21:25

about get through it I mean that's , that's part of getting through it . You gotta , you gotta acknowledge it , allow yourself to feel it and push past it . But when you keep running away from it , you know , ie distractions , social media and all that then it's just one of those things where it's like a , a looming cloud it's gonna keep , it's gonna keep following you .

Speaker 1 21:45

You know that shit's not going to where I think what you said is important , because some people think that they do acknowledge it , but what they do is called compartmentalization . You're good at putting it in a box , tucking it way back in your brain's attic , so to speak , and then you never deal with it , so much so that you you try and forget that it even happened .

Speaker 2 22:08

That's not healing that's a trauma response . We've all done it .

Speaker 1 22:12

We all do it yeah , I mean at times . Yes , harmony , right , there are times where you got to shut off what's going on so you can do your job , be present with your kids , whatever . But when you alone at night late in the midnight hour , for y'all to know what I'm talking about , you gotta deal with that . You gotta pull it back out , drag the box against the dry cracked wood and dust the dust yourself . Yeah that , and open that box up , pick the scab .

Speaker 2 22:41

Deal with that stuff ugly cry if you need to do all that cry in a car .

Speaker 1 22:45

Don't , nobody want to see you do that at work , right time and place . But , like , deal with that , because if not , you're gonna be a little duffel bag boy , little foreshadowing , you're gonna be bag lady . Yeah , y'all will know what that means later , y'all , or maybe you'll you might read about it or something , I don't know . Deal with your baggage , bro . I feel like we need to sing that at the end . Yeah , uh , not the radio . Edit the slow one for y'all . Erica badu , listening people , we gonna sing that on the outro . Let me , let me not forget , let me put that on my brain right now . Okay , what else we got ? Are we cooking ? We're cooking , we're doing all right . Sometimes , let them get it off , all right .

Speaker 1 23:25

So , look , this is a . This is a real hard thing for me . I know , I know that , um , it's just not something that I do well with , because I made a tiktok live and I I stole some clips from my own tiktok live to post later in segments and it's about like not listening to people's opinions . That aren't where you want to be , and this is no offense to anybody who's trying to give advice , but if them motherfuckers ain't asked for it shut up , shut up . And then sometimes people just like to hear themselves talk , so they just got to get it off right . And then we , as the person who was like bro , I already considered that , I already thought that through yep , I talked to them , I researched that , I did that you have to just shut up , let them get it off so they can feel better about themselves . Am I , am I getting somewhere ?

Speaker 2 24:12

yeah , because , like that's how I look at it they feel better about themselves . I'll tell you , it's also , in a sense , you're protecting your peace . If you , if you're talking to someone and they give you some unsolicited advice , some shit that you already know , you already thought about it , why exasperate yourself with ? With telling them about themselves or arguing back and forth with them like I already know that , all right , like what's the point ? Just let , just let him get it out . It's like one of those things where why argue with a fool ?

Speaker 1 24:36

give me a f , give me a . Oh , yeah , give me a . Oh , give me a l . You argue with a fool . That's an l every time I'm saying that .

Speaker 2 24:44

That makes you a fool . My youngest niece taught me that .

Speaker 1 24:48

What a wise niece you have , bro . You've been talking about her for a minute .

Speaker 2 24:52

I cannot wait to meet you yeah , she told me that when she was , she was like maybe not even 10 years old , but yeah , she said why would I argue with a fool of the mouth of babes ?

Speaker 1 25:00

that's right , the wisdom that's right .

Speaker 2 25:03

So that's why sometimes you just gotta let people , even though you know better , let them get that shit off , because you're going back and forth with them trying to explain how you know better than them , it's only going to , like I said , further exasperate . Well , I don't protect your .

Speaker 1 25:14

It depends on what side of the bed I wake up on . Sometimes I argue with fools because I like to see them go . You know what , bro , you got it . I like to see that I will fry you for three , four , five , six hours until you realize don't fuck with me .

Speaker 2 25:29

See , that's me . I don't got the patience for all that , I'm like , you know what ?

Speaker 1 25:32

Whatever , I'm a patient panda and I have that for hours for whoever wants to smoke . It's in my bio . I'm never ducking smoke , if I know you wrong . I just I don't even want you to acknowledge that part . I want you to feel embarrassed by how I fry you up . That's it . I think that we can give y'all some takeaways . But how ? How do we want to start this song first ? I want to sing the song before we outro this drink .

Speaker 2 26:02

We gave y'all a little shorter , one Bag of lady , you gon' hurt your back Dragging on a bass like that .

Speaker 1 26:12

Hold on another octave . I guess nobody ever told you .

Speaker 2 26:18

All you must hold on to . Is you ? Is you , Is you One day ?

Speaker 1 26:28

all them bags gonna get in your way .

Speaker 2 26:32

One day all them bags gonna get in your way so . Pack life All right .

Speaker 1 26:40

That's it . That's it , bro pack , like that's the message . End of the end of this discussion . Bro , pack , light what that means . If y'all didn't know , that song is about your trauma . Deal with that , because when you carry all them bags , they're running away . There ain't no room . You about to miss the bus , you about to miss your opportunity . The relationship is for you all . That get the baggage out of the way you come on with your life if y'all don't know what we talking about , go to rapgeniuscom .

Speaker 1 27:12

Type in bag . Lady erica badu should come up , read them lyrics and then , when they got the little gray background underneath the black words , click on it and then it'll open up another window that tells you what it means . It's actually really profound what she's talking about , and there's a there's a book series coming out that I heard about . That's gonna be titled the same thing deal with your baggage , deal with your trauma . This is for the fellas and the ladies . That way you can get right . That is it . That is the message y'all got .

Speaker 1 27:41

Episode eight again and we're not even gonna post it tonight , we're gonna post it tomorrow . We're gonna let y'all chew over episode seven . Fat daddy is checking out .

Speaker 2 27:50

Sweet , sweet about you yeah , um , I ain't got nothing else for y'all chat . I feel like I need to get the fuck up out of here .

Speaker 1 27:59

Okay , bye-bye now . Bye-bye Ciao .