Becoming Her

258/365 - Fear & Control – Letting Go of the Illusion

Kimberly Season 1 Episode 258

🎙️ Episode 258: Fear & Control – Letting Go of the Illusion

✨ “I am free in Christ. I release fear, control, and anxiety, and I rest in the truth that God is in control and I am held by His peace.”

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📖 Key Verse:
Jeremiah 17:7–8 (CSB) –
“The person who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence indeed is the Lord, is blessed. He will be like a tree planted by water… its foliage remains green, and it will not worry in a year of drought or cease producing fruit.”



In today’s episode, we talk about:

💡 Why control is a fear-based response disguised as strength
💡 How letting go invites deeper peace—not passivity
💡 What happens when we stop clinging and start trusting
💡 Why the Proverbs 31 woman is fearless not because life is perfect, but because she’s rooted in truth

Control feels like protection—but it’s actually pressure.

We think if we can just do enough, plan enough, be enough… we’ll be safe. But real safety doesn’t come from control—it comes from trust. Letting go isn’t giving up; it’s putting the weight into stronger hands.

You were never called to be the glue holding everything together.
You were called to be rooted—unshaken by drought, anchored in peace, and fruitful in every season.



📖 Verses to Highlight:

​ Matthew 6:27 – Control doesn’t extend your life; it exhausts it.
​ Exodus 14:14 – Stillness is a weapon of trust.
​ 1 Samuel 12:16 – God moves when we surrender.

🎵 Song: “Open Hands” by Laura Story
A beautiful reminder that peace begins where control ends.



🧠 Final Thought:
You don’t need a tighter grip—you need deeper roots.
You are becoming her: a woman whose peace flows from trust, not control.