Jaden Ivy, Colin Kaepernick & the situations that define men.

What do Jaden Ivey and Colin Kaepernick have in common—and what do their situations say about men today?

In this episode, we break down the realities behind both of their situations and use them as a starting point for a bigger conversation about expectations placed on men. From public perception to personal responsibility, we’re talking about how different paths can still lead to the same pressure—especially when it comes to providing and what society expects from men.

Are men judged by what they do, what they have, or what they can provide? And has that standard ever really changed?

This episode goes beyond headlines and gets into the deeper conversation.

🎙️ Topics we cover:

•  The situations surrounding Jaden Ivey & Colin Kaepernick 
•  Public perception vs reality 
•  The pressure on men to provide 
•  Expectations placed on modern men 
•  What these situations reveal about masculinity today 

💬 Let us know in the comments—What do these situations say about men today?

#AtwillPodcast #Masculinity #ModernMen #JadenIvey #ColinKaepernick

Transcript

SPEAKER_14 0:00

It to prove that it was clean, and people was like, ah, hex no, I'm not believing that.

SPEAKER_16 0:03

They was in the shabby situation.

SPEAKER_01 0:09

Hey, man. I'm crying. I'm done.

SPEAKER_16 0:12

Bullshit.

SPEAKER_01 0:13

Okay.

SPEAKER_16 0:15

I'm just joking. No, Corey, but this. You answer your own question, man. Hey.

SPEAKER_03 0:32

Welcome back to At Will. It's me, your host, Antoine Williams, the dude, here with my bros.

SPEAKER_06 0:38

What's the deal, man? It's Jay Pryor, man. We're back in the cut, back with another episode, man.

SPEAKER_03 0:42

Yes, sir. Gang gang. That's what you gotta say. That's it.

SPEAKER_16 0:46

He said they know who he is.

SPEAKER_03 0:48

That's good. That's it.

SPEAKER_16 0:49

Announce yourself, man.

SPEAKER_03 0:50

I don't need to announce myself. They know who I am. Somebody, man. Who's that dude who's running this show? The showrunner. Who's that? You gonna say my name enough? Oh. Alright, dude. Pause.

SPEAKER_16 1:04

Hey, he ready to get got to him.

SPEAKER_07 1:07

No, that is. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_16 1:12

That ain't for me, man. Ain't no boy. I ain't taking it. You don't make me say it.

SPEAKER_07 1:16

I've been referring to you though.

SPEAKER_16 1:19

Pause, man. Anyways, man, we back for another episode, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:25

Man, how y'all we been, man?

SPEAKER_16 1:27

Oh, wait, wait, wait.

SPEAKER_03 1:29

We start the episode. You know we start. Nah, man. Nah, man. She's not a guest. She's family. She is part of the At-Wheel crew.

SPEAKER_12 1:38

Behind the scenes.

SPEAKER_03 1:39

Yes, she's behind the scenes. But we got our favorite lady, part of the crew. Sierra. CP, the other CP.

SPEAKER_14 1:48

Here we go.

SPEAKER_03 1:48

Prior.

SPEAKER_14 1:49

Hello, y'all.

SPEAKER_03 1:51

Entrepreneur.

SPEAKER_14 1:54

Oh, Lord.

SPEAKER_03 1:54

We're gonna talk about that later. You know what I'm saying? Co-founder. No, I'm not gonna say co-founder, the founder of God's hands on me.

SPEAKER_13 2:03

Shout out to the brand.

SPEAKER_03 2:04

Yeah, shout out to the brand. But yeah, how you doing?

SPEAKER_13 2:08

I'm doing great. Phenomenal week. Productive week. Productive week? Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 2:12

Yeah. What about you, man?

SPEAKER_06 2:13

I had a smooth week, man. It was pretty. It went by quick for real. Yeah, we're gonna talk about your week later. Yeah, we got a little story. I'm gonna we talked about it earlier, but I'm gonna bring it up because I want the world to know. I ain't gonna say no names though, but yeah. Overall, though, my week was smooth though. I'm on that first ship now, so I've been getting up at the me too, man. I love crack of dawn. I'm a morning. But it but it I ain't gonna lie, it's been working out though for real. Like I get to get out once I leave work. I'm already up. I'm getting some stuff done after work instead of just sleeping the whole day, getting up late. It's definitely better. I definitely like first shift way better.

SPEAKER_03 2:45

You get your good your right amount of sleep, do you feel?

SPEAKER_06 2:49

Nah, I feel like I I'm still waking up a little tired for real, but I I'm I'm up though. I'm I'm functionable. Yeah, you be up too late. I do. I gotta get up early, though. Sometimes I gotta get I'm not used to getting up that early. I know. Even when I was in school, I used to I used to always be late. I ain't gonna lie. Last minute. For real.

SPEAKER_03 3:06

I ain't gonna lie. For real. What about you, Deuce? How was your week, man? No, guys. I was chilling. Oh, he was. Chilling. All right, so first Friday, well, we had last day was the school was Thursday. I'm bugging. Yeah. Uh then we had no school Friday. So then Friday, me and Ari went to Pitts, Pittsburgh. Like a day. I had a nice time. A day and a half. It was fun. Uh, and then came back, and boy, when I tell you, I was chilling. Yeah. I was chilling. Shout out to all y'all. I was able to sleep in, my boy. Yeah. How long you got off? I'm going night time uh Monday. The whole week. Yeah, yeah. Whole week of uh extra day. Relaxing. Yeah. And gaming. You ain't sleep like that in a minute, huh? Not I ain't been ever sleeping like that in a minute. I stayed up whenever I wanted to. Yeah. They had no alarm clock you had to wake up to. Yeah. Nah, everything was turned up. Yeah, you needed that because you're gonna sleep, man. You only sleep like four hours a week.

SPEAKER_15 4:08

Oh heck, nah.

SPEAKER_03 4:10

That's how you you know. That's your brother. But nah, man. That is true. Yeah. Yeah, we all had I had a good week too, man. Same thing. Just chill. I mean, I had a very productive week for sure. Like, eating-wise, I stayed consistent with my eating, working out, all that stuff. I had a good week at I feel down. I know I'm down. I know I'm down. I did weigh myself. I ain't gonna put my stuff out there because I don't want to put it out there.

SPEAKER_06 4:37

Hey, it's about to be that time where you about to say you take your shirt off. Cold plunge.

SPEAKER_03 4:42

We in April right now, man.

SPEAKER_12 4:43

Cold plunge.

SPEAKER_03 4:44

We in April right now.

SPEAKER_14 4:45

We still waiting on that cold plunge.

SPEAKER_06 4:47

Exactly. What's going on with that?

SPEAKER_03 4:49

Why do you have to bring it up?

SPEAKER_09 4:50

I'm sorry. Dang.

SPEAKER_06 4:54

I have to come up with a different punishment, bro. Because you getting done.

SPEAKER_03 5:00

All I'm saying is, because you know we got this trip coming up in July. We do get the trip. That's what he told us. That's what he told us. Shirt is off. No, no. I don't want to see it.

SPEAKER_05 5:11

But I didn't say pause. Pause. I didn't say it's going to be for you.

SPEAKER_04 5:18

I said, I don't want to see it. I'm not taking the shirt off for you to see. Hey, I'm saying you should be comfortable, Roger.

SPEAKER_03 5:26

I'm gonna be comfortable. Cody.

SPEAKER_04 5:27

Oh my gosh. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 5:29

Yeah. Shirt off. Just be I'm just you got four months.

SPEAKER_14 5:33

Oh, three months, technically.

SPEAKER_03 5:38

We're gonna lock in on details, man. I'm a well, I know you say you have to do your three months, but yeah, I give you those details.

SPEAKER_06 5:44

No, I still got I still got my uh my PTO days. You just gotta let me know as soon as possible. I got the days for you. I need them. Hey SAP. I got you. All right, bad.

SPEAKER_03 5:53

We're gonna get some footage too, eh? I'm gonna get footage for sure. We're gonna show y'all.

SPEAKER_13 6:00

I'm gonna get footage. I don't know about you.

SPEAKER_03 6:05

It's been a crazy week this week, though, man. Especially like that uh Jada Ivey situation, though. Yeah. What y'all think about that, man? Dang, is this career over? Nah.

SPEAKER_06 6:16

No, I don't think so. It's gonna be a while until he gets something going, though.

SPEAKER_12 6:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 6:21

I feel like it's it's definitely at a heart for sure. No, because he's in the media too much for the wrong reasons.

SPEAKER_09 6:26

He's gonna lie too much.

SPEAKER_06 6:28

For the wrong reasons. Usually when you in like, usually when you in like when you high in sports like that, like you ain't really supposed to have that much connection with the media unless you like the face of the league. You know, yeah, unless it's like and it's it gotta be something positive.

SPEAKER_14 6:43

It can't be in the media for the wrong reason.

SPEAKER_03 6:46

They're all figures though. They all think it does.

SPEAKER_06 6:49

But you gotta look at how the NBA is and the NFL is. They uh you know they a big brand, so they're not gonna have nobody that's gonna be. So if we talk about something else and we steady paying you and keep, you know, yeah, having you played, that means we that's gonna look at them to that as if they represent that too. And they're not doing that because they the ones making all the money for real. They paying him. So yeah, he had a heart for many.

SPEAKER_14 7:11

I feel bad. I feel bad for him.

SPEAKER_06 7:12

Why do you feel bad?

SPEAKER_14 7:13

It's because just like the scope of how the NBA is as a conglomerate of how what they tolerate and what they don't tolerate. And I mean, we all know the do's and don'ts, like we know, and we're not inside the league, but it's just like there's certain areas that you cannot touch on from a certain standpoint because that's what it is. Like you can't talk about certain things and then think like there's no gonna be no repercussions from it. Like you saw the whole thing that happened with Kyrie Irving, like that was a a mess. And now you see what he Jaden's doing. Like to me, I this is just my personal opinion, it is due to some type of mental health, and like you know, like especially with him dealing with his injury and then him recovering from that, then getting traded, and now he's in a whole lot of.

SPEAKER_03 8:03

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_14 8:04

But but then now him in a whole different area and just still like battling that and recovering, and then for this to happen is just unfortunate. I don't know what he was battling with, like, you know, through that, but he's been open about it, like he struggled with it, and then of course he found his faith in it, and of course, you declaring that faith, you come up with your own. Like when you're brand new into the faith, you start discovering things, learning things that may not be true, or you know, you're discovering, you're still in that. But once you start becoming more vocal about it, you have to be careful because, like we said, all eyes are on you once you're in that situation. And unfortunate, it's like once you're in the NBA, it's sad, but you're now held to a different standard than your average Joe. So you can't just say anything you want because now it's a billion-dollar product, and you're like, now you're representing us, we don't want that, so we're cutting ties with you. And even though we all have our opinions of like what the NBA is today, because of what they will tolerate of that's in the league, that players done domestic violence, been caught in so many different cases, and yet they're still playing, like they'll tolerate that. But of course, Jaden didn't cause any harm to anybody but verbally, supposedly. So, therefore, it's just like it's it's a sad situation. I don't think his career is over, but like Jermaine just said, I think it's at a halt.

SPEAKER_03 9:23

It's at a big halt, but I I okay, so say what do you guys think his motive was? I mean, I think I think it's often like ignorance. I think I I think it's like it's off of his ignorance.

SPEAKER_14 9:38

He's in a mental state right now that's not healthy.

SPEAKER_03 9:41

But you said something you said something like how we all kind of experience it, especially being new. Yeah, new in the faith.

SPEAKER_14 9:47

Like I know multiple people who have experienced that before where they finally they're new in the faith and then they start exploring things and everything's to the extreme. Like, for instance, like drinking, you can't drink, you're a sinner. Yeah, you can't do this, you're a sinner, you can't do this, you're a sinner. Like newsflash, we're we're all sinners, regardless if you like it or not. Like we can profess the faith all we want, but we are sinners. We have to repent daily. Like everything. So, like one thing that I saw that he commented that someone said, like, I'm praying for you, and he's like, God doesn't hear sinners' prayers, and I'm like, bruh. Like so that right there let me know where he was mentally and uh where his posture was faith in faith. So I'm just like, Oh, we're dealing with that. So to me, I'm not gonna say he was dealing with a religious psychosis type of situation, but you can tell he's dealing with a lot, and it's just unfortunate because of where it's now leaving him at and talked about as.

SPEAKER_03 10:39

So I mean I the part I didn't like about it is how he calling out other people. Basically how he called out Steph and about his I I just don't like that. That's what your own story.

SPEAKER_06 10:53

Yeah, I feel like with that, like he just making it worse on himself.

SPEAKER_14 10:56

You making it worse, and you like And that's why you say you're gonna be in that hall, because you can't be talking about main people and think they're just gonna like it's uh what they call the Good Boys Club, in a way, like you start talking about one of their main bigger products.

SPEAKER_06 11:07

Talking about the you know, and then you in the you in you in all the wrong blogs, like you're in all the wrong ones, you're making the headlines for the wrong ones.

SPEAKER_03 11:15

Yeah, and that's the reason why I think his career is it is over.

SPEAKER_06 11:18

It could be, but it kind of like reminds me, it's not the same scenario, but it kind of reminds me of like in the NFL with like Colin Kaepernick, like when some stuff he has some stuff going on, but you just but you look at he him now, like he's still not doing nothing. So it might it might be like he can't he got paid, that's why he settled.

SPEAKER_03 11:40

He settled, but the the but you brought to that man kneeled, all he did is kneel. It was suggested to him by soldiers.

SPEAKER_06 11:48

Yeah, but it's it's your opinion, though.

SPEAKER_03 11:50

You under that big that big big brand or that big you offended the right people.

SPEAKER_14 11:55

Yeah, there's certain groups you cannot offend.

SPEAKER_03 11:58

And and it's unfortunate career done. Cap yeah, that that was his only that was his victory formation. What year was that?

SPEAKER_14 12:06

That was 2017. No, it was over with after that. No, no, it was 16. That was 16. I was I was in college still.

SPEAKER_03 12:15

Okay, yeah, so yeah, man.

SPEAKER_14 12:19

It was trying, but I I think he's he's we all know that once you settle with the like once you settle with uh entity. I mean that's that's that's that's over with anyway. That was a long time.

SPEAKER_06 12:28

I remember game check. I remember that.

SPEAKER_08 12:31

You're paid.

SPEAKER_15 12:32

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 12:33

I remember that because that's when I was still in high school, and people was like, they had the you had the option to, you know, kneel or you had the option to stand during that time. Yeah, that was that was. I was still in I was still in high school during that time.

SPEAKER_14 12:44

It was still a like a weird time around sports because then everybody now and during that phase, like during like the basketball games, even track meets, football games, any sporting event, like everybody started looking around like what are people doing during the national anthem?

SPEAKER_03 12:57

Who's dealing?

SPEAKER_14 12:58

It was like who's kneeling, who's not paying attention, who's sitting down, who doesn't have their hat off, who doesn't have their hand across their chest, who's paying like it was just it's all optics because I always tell it, like, we always say, like, people who make a big deal out of the national anthem really are just like to me crazy. Because it's just like, do you think everybody in that stadium, like people are out who are not inside, like they're in the stadium, but they're not, they're in like the concourse, but they're not actually on like you know, the stadium part. Um, do you think all those people in the concourse are stopping when they're playing the national anthem and putting their hands over their hearts? And you know what I mean? They're not. Like people are still walking, talking, drinking, doing the eating, like like that's why I said y'all, y'all not serious. Like, people people are at home watching the city.

SPEAKER_03 13:39

Life go on regardless, bro.

SPEAKER_14 13:40

Yeah, yeah, so that's just the thing with that, but it's why you say why you say that, though, Correct.

SPEAKER_03 13:48

Because people think that you need to just honor the flag and honor our country, and da da da. Like, bro, it's just a symbol. Nobody cares about the symbol. It's not what it actually is. Like, you know, like the flag does nothing for either of us, it's just a symbol of what the country is. Supposed to represent. Right. It's not something that you're supposed to just celebrate and all this other stuff. Like, it is what it is. They'll paint a picture about you if you don't honor.

SPEAKER_06 14:15

But I feel what you're saying, though. Like, with Sierra, she said, like, people still walking around doing their daily thing. You know what I mean? But it's other people that want to be seen, you know, might take a near, you know, not maybe respected or whatever.

SPEAKER_03 14:26

So it's so y'all think Capital did that for attention?

SPEAKER_14 14:29

No, he did it for to me, he did it for the right reason. He did it too. The thing is, his peaceful protest was meant to bring attention to what he was doing it for. Was again the state of the country for African Americans with police brutality. So it's just like he got your attention right, but then the people who's like, how dare he, like, it got turned into something that it shouldn't have. But again, that's just the what you say, the consequences of playing, like playing that game. Like, it's a dangerous game to play. Once you start hitting into political topics, social topics, you you have to just understand there are risks that come with that. And to me, like with the Jaden situation, you opening your mouth and like religious thing is a religious discussions per se is a dangerous topic to talk about, especially when it attacks certain communities. So it's just like we all do have our beliefs, but again, once you start attacking that said belief of a different community, then you gotta understand there's risks.

SPEAKER_03 15:28

That is course.

SPEAKER_02 15:31

We're not gonna go there, man.

SPEAKER_03 15:32

We're not gonna go there. You ain't gonna get us.

SPEAKER_06 15:35

You're not gonna get used to that. I feel like if yeah, if he wasn't under that, if he wasn't under the NBA, if he was No, he it would have been no problem. It wouldn't have even blew up like that.

SPEAKER_14 15:43

It wouldn't even that do rants like that every day again. It's just because again, you have to understand who there's a certain standard that comes when you're with a part of a certain business or entity. Like it's the end of the day, you can't say certain things. And it's unfortunate, I agree. It's just like they always say, like, well, it's different with the presidents and now, but it's just like you can't say certain things, you can't do certain things. Same thing with like how pastors are, they can't do certain things, they can't say certain things. Yeah, same thing with uh if whoever you hold in a high regard, for instance, they just they're they're gonna be seen in a different view. Like you can't do certain things, and that's what's happening with him. It's just like this happens every day, but due to who you are and who you're a part of, we have to cut ties.

SPEAKER_03 16:26

That's what I didn't understand about it. It's like, man, dude, it's it's nothing special that he was doing. It was like, man, like like she said, you can look online, you can see this type of rant. All types. It's like, man, where's it coming from? And why would he risk his career?

SPEAKER_06 16:40

But do you feel like maybe he just he wanted his word to be heard though? Or do you feel like it wasn't, it wasn't, it wasn't, it wasn't important for what he just gave up?

SPEAKER_03 16:48

Man, he was trying to exercise that first amendment, bro. Amendment, bro. Stop speech. So you're gonna defend the bullet.

SPEAKER_14 16:55

The thing is, again, you can do whatever you want. Us as humans can do whatever we want, but just know there will be consequences regardless if you like it or not. Not saying you can't do it, but just know there's gonna be a consequence to it. And that's its consequence. Again, if you're associating with an entity, best believe we have every right to cut ties with you. Not saying, like, hey, we love you, but for the brand's sake, right?

SPEAKER_06 17:19

We can't, yeah, yeah, we're not, we're not gonnao many billions to be to be risking for that.

SPEAKER_14 17:24

We got we got certain uh sponsors and people who are part of that community and they ain't feeling it. It's just like how we always said the other community that you can't talk about. The whole Kai, y'all know Kyrie situation. Y'all saw what happened to Kanye. Like you can't talk about certain things because they they're the ones who's controlling the checks.

SPEAKER_03 17:40

All I'm saying, why can't black folk get like those two communities, bro? You're right. Get that get that support, get that, yeah, get that backing.

SPEAKER_06 17:51

They don't click up like that.

SPEAKER_14 17:53

It's well, the thing is, they don't stick together like that. But if you think about it, we are the minority in this cut in this country, first off.

SPEAKER_03 17:59

See, we are the majority. We we everything is ran on black success.

SPEAKER_14 18:05

You hear me? I'm talking about numbers-wise.

SPEAKER_03 18:07

Okay, okay, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_14 18:08

I'm talking about numbers-wise. At the end of the day, we do have a lot of cultural influence. We influence a lot, but again, as soon as that person can flip that coin and you know, claim their community, we're outnumbered. Period. Like, we don't control the majority. We do have some, you know, power, but at the same time, when it comes, numbers are everything. You have to think about it. It's just logistics, and you have to think about that. Like, we're outnumbered.

SPEAKER_03 18:32

Man, we need to start acting up like France be acting up.

SPEAKER_14 18:35

Like here, go up across, go to the motherland, then we good. Right.

SPEAKER_03 18:39

Right, you know. Well, if you go over to France, the way they be protesting, but they get stuff done. They be lighting buildings on fire. They be lighting buildings on fire. Everything we'll do that here. We weak, we weak. Oh, oh yeah, we go, we are going to jail.

SPEAKER_13 18:53

They don't go to jail over there? No, it's they get it done. Like it's so many. France?

SPEAKER_14 18:58

No, they're they're like radical.

SPEAKER_03 19:00

Their whole country comes together and does a protest or riots.

SPEAKER_14 19:04

What was the protest they did with the river cord?

SPEAKER_03 19:07

Oh, yeah, during the Olympics, bro.

SPEAKER_11 19:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 19:08

They uh they they shat.

SPEAKER_11 19:11

In the river.

SPEAKER_16 19:16

He did not, he did not, he did not. He said shat he shat on him.

SPEAKER_14 19:21

No, the river, like remember the river was the river was a just a color. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 19:25

What? No, they legit filled the river with poop for months.

SPEAKER_07 19:29

No way.

SPEAKER_14 19:30

They shouldn't go for real.

SPEAKER_16 19:32

Yes, they shouldn't look for real, man.

SPEAKER_14 19:34

No, look it up. Because they were talking about that on Twitter, and then um they also began to talking about it again. I'm around the Olympics, and then I remember because they said Brant then uh invested like millions of dollars to clean it, and then they said that's when was it the president or who is it, a prime minister, whatever it is, they swam in it to prove that it was clean, and people was like, ah, hex no, I'm not believing that.

SPEAKER_16 19:57

They was in the shabby situation.

SPEAKER_01 20:02

Hey, man. I'm crying. I'm done. Bullshit. Okay.

SPEAKER_16 20:08

I'm just joking.

SPEAKER_03 20:12

No, Corey, but you asked your own question, man. Hey, why do you think black people don't get the why why can't our community come together like that? Because the world hates us. Wow. I want to distracted that.

SPEAKER_14 20:28

Yo, what's up? Why can't we come together? I mean, the thing is sometimes everybody has to be on one accord for people to come together about something. And uh in our community, unfortunately, we have like a we have a lot of different silos. We do. Like, for instance, like you have the colorism issue of amongst ourselves. We have um the No that is the colorism.

SPEAKER_03 20:50

Oh, the light skin, light skin, light skin, light skin.

SPEAKER_14 20:53

Like we have those, and then of course we pin against each other in a lot of those areas, and then the socialism aspect about you know, the impoverished and then the one that's making it, and then again, we also get upset about like if we think those that who did make it are not giving back enough, or you know, it's just a lot of back and forth within. So until we all can come to a um agreement about something, then we're not gonna move forward in the way that we should be moving forward.

SPEAKER_03 21:17

And people fall for that hush money.

SPEAKER_14 21:20

That's what it is, man.

SPEAKER_03 21:22

Hush money, man.

SPEAKER_06 21:23

I just feel like you gotta benefit everybody for everybody to come together. You gotta benefit everyone. Sometimes it's what they say, too logical. You're not finna just go out and protest if it ain't if it's not benefiting you.

SPEAKER_03 21:32

Oh, for sure. Oh, yeah, yeah. Everybody You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_06 21:35

So it got it got it gotta it gotta it gotta relate to you for you to do it. So you know everybody, everybody's different. Everybody's yeah, it is selfish, but everybody's their self. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_03 21:45

And you're not I mean, so is that a good or bad thing?

SPEAKER_06 21:48

Uh it could be good and bad.

SPEAKER_03 21:50

It's that we get something out of it, even though it if we don't if we don't necessarily get something out of it, but it it it can make a big impact on the world. But you don't

SPEAKER_14 22:00

People are not willing again. Sometimes people just say, I just worry about my household. If it ain't got nothing to do with my household, I'm not putting ourselves in that predicament. And some people, literally, I know some people who are full throttle, like protest in it. I'm just speaking for myself. You won't catch me really unless it's like really pertaining to me. I'm not the type two forthcome and do certain stuff unless it really pertains to me. If I'm not affected by it. But you have those who who are really for the general pop and will, you know, take that step forward for people who can't.

SPEAKER_03 22:33

So that police brutality. That's uh that was a big one. I mean because it can be any. Shout out to George Floyd.

SPEAKER_11 22:42

Rest his soul.

SPEAKER_03 22:43

Yeah, rest his soul. He made it come together. He did bring he did bring black girls together. Shout out to George Floyd.

SPEAKER_06 22:48

No, that was definitely a crazy error.

SPEAKER_03 22:50

It wasn't necessarily him. He was just a victim of what happened. But it was that was a crazy error.

SPEAKER_14 22:59

And I actually after, I don't know how long ago, how long after it was, but I went down there to the memorial because I went to uh Minneapolis. Was it Minneapolis, right? Yeah. Yeah, and saw the memorial, like the painting and just like where all the stuff that happened there, like the looting. Yeah, then the the murals and stuff like that. Like they had like it was for the moment, I don't know if it's still there, but it was like a memorial in a way for people to come there, like pay their respects, and just like it was other things they had there too, for people to just you know to take time and reflect to see like what's happening in the world and where we should be. So it was it was beautiful, but at the same time it was kind of just sad that it's still happening and prevalent in this world. So and that's just what the thing is, that's just what was publicized and televised. Like it's happening every day.

SPEAKER_03 23:45

Is that the worst case of uh police brutality you've seen? No.

SPEAKER_14 23:50

What's his name?

SPEAKER_13 23:50

Uh Rodney King. I mean, I ain't see that, but I saw about it yesterday.

SPEAKER_03 23:56

Yeah, yeah. Y'all probably wouldn't, none of y'all was probably here about it.

SPEAKER_12 24:00

I'm a 90s baby.

SPEAKER_03 24:01

Oh, shit.

SPEAKER_12 24:02

That's when it happened. 95.

SPEAKER_03 24:03

Yeah, right. I don't think I know about that.

SPEAKER_06 24:05

You don't know nothing about Rodney King? I don't think so.

SPEAKER_03 24:08

The LA riots. Oh, yeah, that LA went down.

SPEAKER_06 24:13

I probably have seen it. I probably just can't remember that name. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 24:16

Maybe I was young. They got talking about their things now. Man, I experienced some Rodney King back in my day. No, I know. I ain't gonna lie. No, I I had some bad experience with police, as we know. Okay, let me let me discuss my week. Another thing that happened my week. We we just discussed it. I don't know, man.

SPEAKER_14 24:34

Pray for 20.

SPEAKER_03 24:35

Hey, don't don't don't judge me. Listen, okay. So, long story short, because it's gonna I had some fraud situation with my cards or whatever with my so I was in the process of getting a new one. Of course, with the banks, you gotta have some types of forms of ID, right? So I had, of course, I carry my license every day like everybody else. But I also had to give my social security card, have my social security number, of course, to prove who I am. Hush, man.

SPEAKER_09 25:06

Go ahead.

SPEAKER_03 25:07

No, the only reason why I want to cut you off. Let me finish the story. Let me finish the story. Let me finish the story. So, anyways, okay. So, yeah. So I had I had a I think I'm so clever, you know. I I created a copy of my social security card, had it on me in my wallet, which got the process going. I got I I and to say, guess what, guys? I got my card. Okay. But uh, yeah, so yeah, I showed it to the bank. The next day, my wallet was stolen.

SPEAKER_14 25:43

Stolen or you misplaced it. Like there's a difference. I didn't misplace the C. How did somebody steal your wallet? How do you say somebody stole your wallet? You know for a fact. I because you're not gonna be able to do it. You misplaced your misplaced.

SPEAKER_06 25:54

No, I did not this no, you know why I'm laughing, though. Cause this is not the first time you didn't it's not the first time.

SPEAKER_03 26:01

No, this ain't the first time I dealt with fraud. But stole the wallet didn't get the first time.

SPEAKER_06 26:05

Stole the wallet, but like on the fraud tip, like man, somebody just never stole the money. Somebody just took some money off my account, man.

SPEAKER_05 26:11

Like I remember having a conversation with you about that. Nah, it's the fraud too much.

SPEAKER_03 26:17

The real question is, why is it that you deal with fraud so much? I know where you go with that.

SPEAKER_16 26:25

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 26:27

What's catchy side?

SPEAKER_05 26:31

First of all, no. Why don't you a Holy fan?

SPEAKER_03 26:46

That man Twine got an account, man. I think it was the banks I was dealing with, or whatever. Or I don't know.

SPEAKER_14 26:55

Keep going.

SPEAKER_03 26:56

Nah, I don't I don't know. I just want to know. Man, hush, man. Where what where you where you into you going to sketchy gas stations? No, no, sketchy stations. I don't go to sketchy gas stations. It gotta be one of the cleaner ones, the better ones, the bigger ones. That's I'm sorry. I'm very picky on my gas station.

SPEAKER_06 27:12

So they're stealing your card information from there.

SPEAKER_03 27:14

I think they did.

SPEAKER_06 27:15

I think so. Which one did you know? You said now.

SPEAKER_14 27:17

Because you know they did have that thing at the gas. They said beware of gas stations where you don't enter your car, like, but because they can like tear off the thing at the gas pump or whatever. I haven't seen it. I just seen it online.

SPEAKER_03 27:27

Yeah, so I'm thinking that's again.

SPEAKER_14 27:29

But how do you know somebody stole your wallet? You didn't misplace it.

SPEAKER_03 27:32

Nah, I'm gonna say somebody stole your wallet. Did you retrace it? The reason why I'm saying somebody stole it, because this never happened to me. And I never lost my wallet my entire life. So, but you know, so what if it just pops up, but you got frauded? Would you feel stupid? I got fraud. That's that's me, that's smarter than those guys are smarter than me. Whoever's cyber, you know, whatever, they they smarter than me. I'm not technology savvy or whatever like that. Technical. So whatever. But nah, I never lost my wallet, man. I always had my ID, and I just happened to have my a copy of my social security card. So I was a little nervous this week.

SPEAKER_14 28:06

I'm just mad you had, okay. But you said, but you gave a reason why your sex isn't there. That should have came out immediately.

SPEAKER_03 28:12

I know, I didn't take it out immediately. I was, you know. So whoever got that, hey, whoever got that, yo. Hey, I'm broke.

SPEAKER_10 28:24

Come on, I'm not about to play with you, bro. I just don't get it though. You have you have to.

SPEAKER_03 28:28

So let me let me pose a question to you.

SPEAKER_06 28:30

Y'all never carry two forms of ID on y'all? That's the wrong form of ID, man. You could have you could have carried you you the only ID I would have to do. I mean, mine would be my CPL, but I don't have that yet. You should. I'm oh I'm about to. I'm gonna need it.

SPEAKER_03 28:47

Hey, one thing I will say though, uh, for a fact, is that you know, either you have two forms of identification, so either your license or something else, or just bring your passport. I should have brought my passport too. I love it. Two or one passport. And at that point, you should have just took your passport. I should have just took my passport. I wasn't thinking, I was just like, all right, man.

SPEAKER_14 29:07

Like it's okay to bring that like just take it out immediately.

SPEAKER_03 29:11

I didn't do it.

SPEAKER_14 29:12

That's one form of ID you don't carry around on a regular Y'all don't judge me in the chat.

SPEAKER_03 29:18

Please don't judge me. I made a mistake. You being judged hard over here. Yeah, I can deal with these modes over here.

SPEAKER_14 29:27

I mean, some people feel the need to carry extra forms of ID. I say no, but you know, in the today's times, they always like carry two forms. No, I'm not doing that. Right.

SPEAKER_03 29:38

They said that.

SPEAKER_14 29:39

Just my driver's.

SPEAKER_06 29:41

I say like what I would do is I would like I I got like a picture of it, you know what I mean?

SPEAKER_14 29:45

Like, you know, sometimes I do. I pull right up on my uh I used to do it.

SPEAKER_06 29:49

It was sometime hard copy, you got something else.

SPEAKER_14 29:54

My roster picture. I was like, just click my name, you'll see my picture pops up. That's me right there.

SPEAKER_03 29:59

Your roster.

SPEAKER_14 30:02

Oh Michigan State roster for track.

SPEAKER_02 30:05

Chill out. I thought you were talking about your roster. Relax. I'm about to say, dang.

SPEAKER_10 30:10

Don't y'all. Next question. Next question.

SPEAKER_03 30:15

There is no roster. Let's just dive into that, man. Let's talk about this. This man Twan got a roster, y'all. I don't have a roster. You see how they you see, I don't have a roster. I'm I'm too focused for that. We got Melanie, Stephanie, Serena, Keisha.

SPEAKER_11 30:33

They call it hefany.

SPEAKER_03 30:36

You after the show. Pause.

SPEAKER_05 30:42

Anyway, man. You can't say nothing about these dudes, man. Y'all fucking.

SPEAKER_02 30:48

Let's talk about that, man. Let's talk about what? What? Wait a minute. He couldn't wait to get me in there.

SPEAKER_00 30:54

Come on, man. Oh, the story he told us? Yeah, come on.

SPEAKER_06 30:57

I should have waited to tell y'all for real.

SPEAKER_00 30:59

No, that was good though. Yeah, yeah. Very good.

SPEAKER_06 31:02

Trying to figure out how to start it off again.

SPEAKER_16 31:07

Play a player.

SPEAKER_06 31:08

Yeah, my week was smooth though. You know what I mean? To that, to that, to that. Stir it up a little bit. Trying to figure out how do I come on, bro.

SPEAKER_03 31:21

They want to know.

SPEAKER_06 31:22

Camera one. Alright. Trying to figure out what's perspective I should put this in. Should I put this all over? Should I put this in my point of view?

SPEAKER_15 31:36

Your point of view, because this is my point of view. Don't hold back. Let's go, man. Let's get it out there. Give me your story. His story.

SPEAKER_06 31:43

Alright, anyway. Long story short. Alright. We're gonna cut it down short. Alright. There you go. Anyway, uh, so I was talking to this person, right? Yeah. Come on, man. Later, man. Do they watch? Yeah, that's what I'm trying to, huh? Nah. We go. Alright, so anyway, I was talking to this new person, right? Yeah. Feel me? She bad, you know what I mean?

SPEAKER_03 32:09

We ain't putting no names out there.

SPEAKER_06 32:10

Nobody knows who you're talking about. So anyway, uh I never I have met this person before, but it's been a long time. It's been some years, you know what I mean? So social media kind of communicate through social media.

SPEAKER_03 32:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 32:22

Eventually started being on the phone a little bit or whatever.

SPEAKER_03 32:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 32:26

Ain't had a date, ain't went out, ain't seen each other, you feel me? In at least years, like two, three years. You know what I mean? So anyway, we on the phone for a couple days, stuff starting to get, you know what I mean? We started to get to know each other a little bit. You know, like the ice, the ice didn't broke over the phone a little bit. You know what I mean? Ice didn't broke. Yeah, ice didn't broke it a little bit. So look comfortable on the phone, you feel me?

SPEAKER_03 32:47

Now a quick question are you better? Do you love talking on the phone or are you like texting? Are you on the phone?

SPEAKER_06 32:52

No, I'd rather somebody call me. I'm bad at I'm bad. I'm bad at texting.

SPEAKER_03 32:57

Yeah, and the young, yeah, right. That's what I'm saying. I'm bad at texting. Okay, it's hard for me to hold a conversation.

SPEAKER_06 33:02

Texting all day, every day. It's hard for me to do that. Or voice notes for me. Yeah, facts. So anyway, uh this new person, right? Ooh, so long story short, this person, you know, think that I'm don't say think, Manny. Just big balling, big ballin'. Yeah, so this person thinks I'm yeah, I'm mad like that or whatever. So this woman decided to just, you know, ask me for some money. You feel me?

SPEAKER_14 33:30

How did she have how did she ask you, Manny?

SPEAKER_06 33:32

She just requested it. She just requested it.

SPEAKER_03 33:35

Like I'm being serious. Do you think she really do you? I mean, I'm gonna let you feel the shit.

SPEAKER_06 33:41

You feel me? If it was a need, you feel me? I got you. You feel me? I don't think it was. I don't know. Okay. Only reason it threw me off though is because I can see it just my girl. I can say, okay, well, you know what I mean? And the amount always matters. You know what I mean? You know what I mean? Amount always matters. I ain't I ain't I ain't never feel me linked up with this person. We ain't never not to eat, you feel me? The mount, the mount basically took it.

SPEAKER_03 34:04

We ain't laid up together. Huh? Is it the amount of situation you're about to enter? Enter. Did you have a mount?

SPEAKER_07 34:13

No, I didn't know amount down there. No, I didn't know a mount. Let's just say, let's just say wasn't lucrative.

SPEAKER_09 34:20

Let's just say three figures.

SPEAKER_06 34:26

Let's just say this is just a couple dollars.

SPEAKER_11 34:29

A couple dollars. There we go. We'll say a couple dollars.

SPEAKER_15 34:32

Yeah, this is a couple dollars. Times how much?

SPEAKER_14 34:37

That's okay, mami.

SPEAKER_06 34:39

No, but it just threw me off because I don't know.

unknown 34:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 34:42

This while I said this, but this this why, this why, this why, no, because it goes back to yeah, the man's supposed to take care of this, this, the, this is the moment. Let's go, let's go. Let's go. This is how a man's supposed to leave, you know what I mean? This is this is the energy that I'm supposed to be throwing out. Yeah, but when I got, I don't know, I got I got hit with it and I'm just like how long has this been going on? I got hit with it, I'm just like, uh I sat on it for a little minute. I sat on it for a little minute.

SPEAKER_03 35:10

So how was you feeling when you sat, was you like, when you skeptical about it, how do you how was you feeling? Was you like, man, is this good work to us?

SPEAKER_06 35:17

The reason why I felt like this is because the episode that we had, I don't know if it was two episodes before this, but we was talking about men that just paying for stuff and they just you feel me? I thought about it like I thought about it, I thought about it and I'm like, man, we might not even work out. You feel me? We not might, we might not even, it might not, it might not even go far. It might not even go farther than this. She trying to, if she trying to get down on me, you feel me? She think I'm I was thinking about it. I ain't know.

SPEAKER_03 35:43

You was thinking about actually sending it.

SPEAKER_13 35:45

Yeah, I was thinking about sending it because you feel me.

SPEAKER_06 35:47

He likes her in a and some this is like, I don't know, as as you're interested. Yeah, so quick question before you go to the book. And then in the man's the man's about to ask point of view, you don't want to be looked at as you, you not having, you broke. You know, I don't want that on my name.

SPEAKER_03 36:04

So it's like so do you do you think, and according to jump in, do you think a man should uh should pay the request? Hell no. Why? Why? What do you mean? You're not with you gonna say we're not together. Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 36:27

Okay, I'm not gonna do anything for you until you do something for me, too.

SPEAKER_03 36:30

So see, okay it's it's small pieces that go back and forth before you start doing that.

SPEAKER_04 36:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 36:36

So see, what what is it is that a play for women to test out for is the man a sip?

SPEAKER_06 36:41

Oh or is he uh yeah, so let me tell me how, tell me like, yeah, Sierra, tell me how I was supposed to, yeah.

SPEAKER_14 36:48

It's it's the dynamic. Obviously, I I don't know y'all's dynamic or what you may have said to where she may have felt emboldened to or inclined to send a request. Listen, if you have that type of like sometimes you can have dialogue, friendly dialogue, to where he may hint, like, if you need something, I got you, just send the request. Like, there have been conversations where men literally will just straight up and tell you, like, like in that dialogue. But if y'all never had that dialogue, you know, maybe she just depends. But is it is it a thing that women regularly do? I'm gonna say I know some who do.

SPEAKER_03 37:33

Well, also some guys who like to trickle women like that.

SPEAKER_14 37:35

Very true as well. That they they they are ego driven with that cash. Like, oh, I did XY, I spent oh yeah, I sent her some bread, I did it. Like, it's not you know, cause some men literally find that to be a confidence builder for them too, to flaunt their money. Like, I don't say most women, but some women are very uh turned on by that, like, oh, he got money, he can do this, this, this, and this. Like, you know, they view him of a value according to his dollar, which should not be that, but depending on what type of woman you are, and if that's how you, you know, rock with certain dudes and you just cause I know some who literally can send a certain request to five dudes and they will all be paid.

SPEAKER_03 38:15

Five bills.

SPEAKER_14 38:18

But it's just like no, you to me, if you're at the beginning stages and a conversation has not been had or dialogue that has been had between y'all two to where she could just do that, absolutely not. Like, what are we doing?

SPEAKER_03 38:35

Hey, I gotta I got some words. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, talk. As I like the quote Oh God, future always say.

SPEAKER_07 38:41

Oh god.

SPEAKER_03 38:42

No, then Kuto, I can't even speak. Don't get too comfortable.

SPEAKER_07 38:47

Don't get too comfortable.

SPEAKER_03 38:49

That's what it is. I was trying to blake but blake out the cuss words, and my guy chucked up in my words. But don't get too comfortable. But here's the thing some people that determines the next level of No.

SPEAKER_14 39:01

No, it's not.

SPEAKER_03 39:02

No, no, no, no, I'm saying that's their plate.

SPEAKER_16 39:04

That's their plate.

SPEAKER_14 39:05

There, that's not healthy. That's not an okay. That's not healthy.

SPEAKER_03 39:08

Some women you will use that.

SPEAKER_14 39:12

No, don't ever put yourself in a situation to where if a girl, if she, if that's the only thing that is a deal breaker for her, if I'm sending a request and you don't pay it, and all of a sudden that tells me everything about you. No, absolutely not. Because there are some horrible men who got some bank and can send you bread's not bank is not nothing to them.

SPEAKER_08 39:29

Right.

SPEAKER_14 39:29

So that doesn't tell you anything. But again, communication is key. So if you're if you many, I don't know if you said something, they may have inclined her to like, you know what? Let me let me see what he's talking about. And if, you know, I'm a young dummy. Because if it's random, then kudos to her, because that's bull.

SPEAKER_03 39:50

But she got big calling for real.

SPEAKER_14 39:53

But you know, especially for that amount. So I'm just like, like I said, it just depends. Like, me, I couldn't see myself like talking to somebody, and we're just now getting to know each other, and then randomly I'm like, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 40:04

Request, request a financial.

SPEAKER_14 40:06

Because I know some people who who may have, like, if I wanted to, you know, like I could. But me as a person, like, I don't, I don't need out. Like, yeah, you know what I mean? Like, plus that, I mean, uh, it just somebody did you say something to her?

SPEAKER_03 40:19

Well, that's what we want to know. Yeah.

SPEAKER_14 40:21

At this point, it's like, what where did she why is she feel inclined to do that?

SPEAKER_03 40:26

What entice her to do? Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 40:27

I don't know. Maybe it was like the way I told her.

SPEAKER_03 40:32

Told yourself. You need it, I got it. What you think you said?

SPEAKER_06 40:35

You know it would be spinning a little game. I think I was trying to spit a little game. You know, when when you first start talking to somebody, you need some groceries.

SPEAKER_04 40:48

Your laundry, your laundry don't work. I'll take it to the laundromag.

SPEAKER_14 40:54

But you know what else I just thought about too? Even what some people post, because it was a conversation I was having with some friends before, and they were like, he be posting X, Y, and Z, like little memes and get like stuff like that, like scenario stuff. Like, he be posting it, so I'm gonna see if he can actually go on, you know, open what he be posting about. Like as well. Yo, nails messed up.

SPEAKER_16 41:11

I'm gonna give you private chain.

SPEAKER_14 41:13

They be seeing that private chain. No, so that's what I'm saying. Like, if you if you're if you are that's how I think it went about, like, you know what I mean?

SPEAKER_06 41:20

Certain certain people got high standards, you know what I mean? Some people like certain things, you know, certain materialistic things might see as money.

SPEAKER_14 41:29

So but especially if she thinks that you like her too. So it's just like if he likes me, then of course he'll do it.

SPEAKER_03 41:35

He can, oh, he of course he looks like that. He wear that, yeah.

SPEAKER_14 41:39

If a girl thinks a boy likes her or a man likes her, of course. Why wouldn't I?

SPEAKER_03 41:44

Why would you push the why wouldn't I?

SPEAKER_14 41:46

Why wouldn't I? Test it. Test it out. Let me take her a test right now.

SPEAKER_03 41:51

Hey, Tom. What's up? You like white toes, pay for them, get them done.

SPEAKER_14 41:58

But that's what I'm saying. You gotta be careful. I tell other people all the time. That's one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not, I repeat, do not tell me you're gonna do something. Like, tell me you're gonna do something and not do it. Like, don't, like, people, I hate that's like a pet peeve. Even like, even with brand.

SPEAKER_06 42:15

Women have a weird way of doing that though, because they be like they tell you, my nails just broke. I need to go get my nails done and instead of talking to you on the phone. You can't say that in your head. You know you need your nails done. I gotta know about it.

SPEAKER_03 42:31

Or you get a relationship that always come about.

SPEAKER_14 42:35

But listen, yeah. The thing is, you you have to learn how to navigate those type of situations. When you when when it's art, it's literally a conversational art.

SPEAKER_06 42:44

Look, you like my hair, pay for it to get done next time. They come in bubbles.

SPEAKER_03 42:54

Hey, look. Okay, all I'm saying is, right? Some some women crazy. Yeah, yeah. You better be careful. That's for it. They got they got all their whatchamacallits, all they need, all they all they services, maintenance, services.

SPEAKER_13 43:12

We call it maintenance course.

SPEAKER_04 43:13

Right, right, right, right.

SPEAKER_03 43:15

Yeah, what you about to say, huh?

SPEAKER_04 43:16

These males out here paying for that. They keep all their take home from their jobs. They stacking up because they got sins out here paying for it.

SPEAKER_14 43:23

That's facts. I I I know.

SPEAKER_03 43:25

She got multiple incomes.

SPEAKER_14 43:27

Yes. She got someone paying for her nails, someone paying for her hair, someone paying for if she gets like med spots.

SPEAKER_03 43:33

So her her own job, her take home is stacking up every week because her business is giving dead hair. Yep. Okay, now okay. So my question is for nope. Sorry. So women that says like 'cause some women play, their play is How you not gonna pay for this? Hey, look, and the next thing she's gonna ask me, pay for this BBL I'm about to get. Court. Okay. So hey, hey man, hey, I gotta one of these episodes.

SPEAKER_06 44:09

I feel like some stuff gets led as a joke and then it becomes serious. Oh, sure.

SPEAKER_14 44:14

You know how they say like there's a little there's a little truth behind that joke?

SPEAKER_06 44:18

Yeah, I I I de I definitely feel like it's that for real.

SPEAKER_03 44:21

Yeah. There is. You think she you think she's joking, but she's what you said? That wasn't.

SPEAKER_06 44:27

I'm not talking about my situation. Oh, you just talking about the situation.

SPEAKER_03 44:31

Okay, okay, yeah, yeah. Because I'm thinking, like, okay. How y'all feel? How y'all feel, fellas? Like, if a woman is coming at y'all like, yo, this is what I have to offer. I mean, is that a woman you're gonna pursue? Is that a woman that you see that's I mean, that's valuable for you?

SPEAKER_13 44:48

Of your standard?

SPEAKER_03 44:49

Yeah. At first, yeah, but looks only go so long.

SPEAKER_06 44:55

That body only gonna last so long. That's true.

SPEAKER_03 44:58

So the qu the question is, okay, what is it that they offering? Yeah. No, what is it? Oh, what is it?

SPEAKER_14 45:05

Oh, women, some women. No, I think his original question was like how it's like this is this is my regular. Are you like basically that like this is the thing for me? This is my standard. And either you go meet me at the standard or go above it. Like I knew what he meant when he said that.

SPEAKER_03 45:24

Oh, you're talking about with the maintenance? Yeah, yeah. Oh, you're talking about the women that be like, I need my man to make 200k. Yeah.

SPEAKER_11 45:34

200k plus.

SPEAKER_03 45:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_11 45:36

You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_03 45:36

Yeah. And they well put together. No, absolutely. They well put together because it drew you. You like, dang, yeah, she's bad.

SPEAKER_07 45:43

Oh, this is a high-value woman.

SPEAKER_14 45:46

The thing is, I always tell people, you have to go after what you at least mentioned it before on the other podcast, too. It's like what you can afford, honestly. Like, unless that's a dynamic that y'all talked about and she doesn't mind. You know what I mean? Like, there's some people who make women who make more money.

SPEAKER_03 46:01

What if it's dude, we can afford the regular, but he wanted to look like Don't play stupid games.

SPEAKER_14 46:09

You can't you can't make somebody like you.

SPEAKER_03 46:11

I know, I'm just saying, I I I know guys like that.

SPEAKER_06 46:14

What do you mean? How do you know what you can afford? Um as in what she likes.

SPEAKER_03 46:18

Oh man, you know what you afford. Yeah, you know what you can afford.

SPEAKER_06 46:21

Like as in materialistic things? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 46:24

That's right. Yeah, that's right.

SPEAKER_14 46:25

What's what's on the outward? Like, for instance, if you know she's like, let's be let's be for real. You have a you could have your regular dagular schmegler, but he's not gonna go after a woman who's basically you could say like career driven. Uh, you see that she basically listen, she has she's doing everything for herself. You know how most guys, like I've had one before who tried to like, I could up your life, I could do this, I could do this, I could do this. I'm like, hey girl, I did this already for myself. What are we talking about? You know what I mean? Like some people like to some men value a woman like, oh, I want to up her, or I want to, you know, meet where she's at, and I can provide said X, Y, and Z. But for me, it's just like what I say, you you have to know what you can afford based off of knowing who the woman is. It's simple. Like if she's um, like we talked about it, if she's a regular traveler, if she likes to go out the country a lot, if she likes to explore, if she likes fashion, if she likes the arts, if she likes um uh very self-care stuff, people that stuff is not cheap. Oh, yeah, facts.

SPEAKER_03 47:34

And especially that's why she said mainload everyone. You said she's going out of the country and stuff, but what if another dude paying for that?

SPEAKER_06 47:44

I ain't gonna lie, women got it made easy. If you keep it. Women can manipulate this. Oh my if nope, pause. Pause my stuff for that. But if I was a woman. What would you do? What would you do? What would you do if you were?

SPEAKER_11 48:01

Baby's gonna be tricking.

SPEAKER_06 48:02

Pause myself again. I'll be selling feet pics and stuff, man. I'll be doing all types of stuff, man. That's that's your that's your job. Man, they can do whatever they want. Back when we said a couple episodes goes, man, it's it's really dudes out here just so you get caught into that.

SPEAKER_03 48:17

Well, it's the feet, everybody don't defeat, now they want to see more. Nah, it's always a market for feet.

SPEAKER_06 48:23

It's a market for feet.

SPEAKER_03 48:25

You should, bro. When I when I tell you, it's a market for feet. I'm not saying that I'm in that market, but let's put it out of that market. But put it like this. I was on I was on Instagram, right? And just randomly. And just randomly. That's right. This person put pictures out there. It was like they had like a quiet, like a choir picture. They had like selfie, them doing something, da da da. And they just randomly put their feet in it. You know how you could comment on Instagram stories now. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 48:57

When I tell you those stories, bro, they was going crazy for the feet.

SPEAKER_03 49:02

I said, What the what is I've never been to somebody's feet? I mean, don't get me wrong, I don't want no custody. Yeah, yeah, but she's like, I ain't never known.

SPEAKER_14 49:12

I never knew until a few years ago, like how it was a big of a thing. Like a men have a true fetish for me.

SPEAKER_06 49:18

It's crazy. Telling you, women got it made. Women uh What you said? They don't have to work as hard. Nope. No, at all. Women, I ain't gonna lie. Y'all got a lot to do. Um, I'm not gonna just say it like y'all life is easy. I'm not gonna say it like y'all like easy.

SPEAKER_14 49:33

If you are put together nicely, it comes a little bit.

SPEAKER_03 49:37

If you do y'all, do y'all take offense to that? That we that's uh that's how we see it. Y'all don't have to work as hard as we have.

SPEAKER_14 49:43

I don't take offense to it. Okay. Because just of societal norms. Yeah. Like it'd be different if, you know, the roles were reversed and like we were the I don't want to call us predators, but for instance, like, you know, we are the ones pursuing at the same time. Like to me, it's like, you know how they say, like, you're just like the the cheese in the trap, basically the mouse is coming to you in the way. So it's just like you're you all you do is just sit there. It'll come. You just gotta sit there and be pretty. They it'll come. It's like the fish of the net, like how you had dangling that bait. Like, there it is. Yeah, he's oh, they're coming all right. Like you just gotta just relax, just chill, they'll come. So that's the thing. Like that's a crazy analogy. But you get it, I painted it for you.

SPEAKER_03 50:24

How do you feel about women being the aggressor though in the chase?

SPEAKER_14 50:27

I mean, I know some, and I and I applaud them. Couldn't be me. Like, I don't see it because I mean that's just not how I'm put together in that capacity. But I mean I've known men who who absolutely loved it. They said it turns them on when uh a person is a woman is pursuing them because it's like, let's keep my job a little easier.

SPEAKER_05 50:45

Yeah, it's a different thing.

SPEAKER_14 50:46

They said make me want to love it because it's a good thing. And then also, too, who was it? Someone told me before they said, I've used like a competition now, like she outdoing me. Like he said, he said, but I like it though. It's like a friendly flirt. So mainly like it.

SPEAKER_06 51:00

I feel like it's just matching energy. You feel me? It is. Uh that's how Yeah, the man is supposed to chase the woman. Yes. That's how we're supposed to go. Yes, that's how that's how it's that's how it's supposed to go. But dang, I gotta chase you a mile, three miles.

SPEAKER_14 51:14

It's a two-way street. Simple. But also, too, many, if you're going, that means them there might not be true interest there, though, if they're just letting you linger. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_06 51:23

That's what I'm saying. So when it's the yeah, when you see that, it's called the attention driver.

SPEAKER_14 51:28

Well, what we say, read read the room. You gotta read that room.

SPEAKER_03 51:33

I'm not gonna I'm not gonna specify and say women, but even males, they love attention. Love attention. Oh, for sure. No interest, they like the attention that they're getting because it makes them feel like they're important.

SPEAKER_14 51:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 51:43

So they're gonna keep it. It's just like when people post pictures, it's the most important thing.

SPEAKER_14 51:47

They said, You do what you was doing. Like, I I always get all the time when I post a picture or something like that, and I get a random comment. You knew what you was doing when you posted this. I'm like, I just smile, I just started laughing. I'm like, because I know what they meant.

SPEAKER_06 51:58

Yeah, because y'all throw out women throw out just a little, you have a little analogy. You just said the little thirst trap.

SPEAKER_08 52:04

Yeah, the little thirst trap.

SPEAKER_07 52:05

The little mouse trap with the cheese and the mouse, the mouse trap trying to go out the cheese and get caught in the trap.

SPEAKER_06 52:12

Yeah, that that little thirst trap you're gonna do. The little thirst trap you put on there, you just slid up on it. Hey, got the bait, and then got him. And then you let them even look at it and then he's looking for the bait, so you let him know.

SPEAKER_14 52:25

A funny story, though. It was so funny. Like, me and my friends did it, it was a couple years ago. We were talking about something. I was like, because it's like we like we knew we could call it to like a T I cut. I'm like, I know who's gonna comment on the story, yeah. Who how many, who, and what they gonna say.

unknown 52:40

Dang.

SPEAKER_14 52:40

I put it to the dollar. I was like, I'll put money on it, and it happened, and I was like, pay up. I told him who it was gonna be. Uh I said, I can post anything, and it was certain individual. It's it's like it's a given, like, because I can say predictable, but it's predictable.

SPEAKER_03 52:52

Like this is covered up. So disappointing, but how can we win it?

SPEAKER_04 53:00

How can we win? This is a conclusion.

SPEAKER_06 53:02

Look how they bait you. Look, this is how they do it. They bait you like that, they looking bad. So they do it.

SPEAKER_08 53:06

They're looking bad.

SPEAKER_06 53:07

So they they got you. You looking at this on your phone. It's not because you know you're gonna look at it. Sometimes it happens. You let it nine, you by yourself. Then they let you know all these standards to you.

SPEAKER_03 53:19

They get to the point where it's like, you predictable, my dog.

SPEAKER_14 53:22

Yeah, you're predictable. You gotta switch it up.

SPEAKER_15 53:28

Are men easy? Easier than women, for sure.

SPEAKER_16 53:35

It's not a good thing. Oh my god, I can't make it.

SPEAKER_07 53:40

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_16 53:41

That's terrible, man.

SPEAKER_03 53:44

The women always got that little advantage of all the people.

SPEAKER_14 53:50

It's typically say who it is.

SPEAKER_03 53:52

I'm not saying not specific people, but the type of people. Okay.

SPEAKER_14 53:55

So usually it's men who have a lot of value to offer. Facts.

SPEAKER_06 53:59

Like cool. I'm sorry. As in value, what do you say? Money.

SPEAKER_14 54:05

You can say money, status of some compet of some degree, or even career. Occupation. Career. Yes. Okay. Because at that point, they gotta be wise who they're bringing into their life or their lifestyle. Like, if you like, for instance, like once you read a certain status, sometimes, like, even it believe it or not, NDAs are involved. Like, hey, I'm gonna need what goes on here stays here, sign this paper. I've been in um surrounding uh circles where that's happened before.

SPEAKER_06 54:33

And hold on. Let me start getting NDAs involved for real. Okay.

SPEAKER_14 54:39

I signed up. Don't look at me. I mean, unless you're work while I signed up.

SPEAKER_03 54:43

So say say you say you get Mr. Wright.

SPEAKER_14 54:46

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 54:46

And he comes to you, y'all, y'all want to go to the next level. He's like, hey, you need to sign his prenug, though.

SPEAKER_13 54:52

You're talking about marriage? Yeah. Tony, I can't answer that right now. I'm I'm just okay.

SPEAKER_03 54:58

As in science, he's a high value man.

SPEAKER_14 55:01

You would I sign it?

SPEAKER_03 55:02

Would you sign it?

SPEAKER_14 55:03

I'm gonna say today I would.

SPEAKER_03 55:05

But come that moment, would you be offended? I can't answer that question.

SPEAKER_14 55:08

Would you be offended? No.

SPEAKER_03 55:09

Okay. Some people get offended by it.

SPEAKER_14 55:11

I mean, I get it because the notion is this is forever. We don't, this is not gonna even be a thing. Like, I get that. But at the same time, me as a person, I plan on having my own too. So it's just like I want to protect my assets as well.

SPEAKER_03 55:23

Switch the feet. Switch the Yeah. For sure, for sure, for sure. If you would you ask God, look, all I'm gonna say, look at Kobe.

SPEAKER_02 55:32

This dude.

SPEAKER_01 55:33

Rest in space.

SPEAKER_02 55:34

Okay, what's it? Kobe's about to lose 150 L's. Kobe about it. Corey. He wasn't with me shooting in the gym.

SPEAKER_03 55:45

Corey. Jesus, man. Lord, man. Let the man rest in peace, man. We already gotta live without him for the rest of our lives, man. Hey, man. He wasn't with me shooting in the peace. Corey.

SPEAKER_14 56:00

It's a sensitive topic now because he is no longer with us. And now his wife. His wife, who's still his wife, who has his children, Corey. Anyway, back to what you were saying.

SPEAKER_16 56:17

No. My bad.

SPEAKER_14 56:19

Don't don't even explore that. This is not a DMZ where we're just putting any story out.

SPEAKER_03 56:25

I'm bl you know who I'm blaming on this.

SPEAKER_14 56:27

Okay, anyway, back to Mr.

SPEAKER_03 56:28

Caitlin Jenner. What is wrong with him, bro?

SPEAKER_11 56:39

Like back to what you were saying, though.

SPEAKER_14 56:44

Look, back to back to the original topic at hand. Yes, at this moment I would.

SPEAKER_15 56:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_14 56:51

But again, that's the convert conversation between like if you presented it, like, sure, yeah, yeah, yeah. But what does that look like? Because everything in prenup, you know, depend on what y'all draw it up as.

SPEAKER_03 56:59

Like, you know, would you would you ask him to sign a prenup?

SPEAKER_14 57:03

Jesus. I mean, I in my mind, I would say no. But I guess honestly though, they tell you though, and your like your lawyers and people, your counsel will tell you, like, business wise, it's smart for you to do X, Y, and Z, like to protect your business, you need to do this. Like, regardless of if like you started this before him, X, Y, and Z, like, do what you gotta do. Like, so yes, that makes sense to protect your assets if he had nothing to do with that. It gets sticky when y'all dating and you produce and stuff, like y'all starting building companies and doing stuff together. Now that's the sticky portion.

SPEAKER_06 57:35

Yeah, 50%. I got a question. Talk to us. How do men become not easy?

SPEAKER_03 57:46

Later, man.

SPEAKER_06 57:46

Are you are you saying that you're easy?

SPEAKER_16 57:50

Later, like, dang!

SPEAKER_07 57:52

Y'all saying all men easy.

SPEAKER_16 57:54

Just saying we're easier than women. We're easier than women.

SPEAKER_02 57:57

Not all men. Not all men, no. I know some men that are strict. We're easier. We will fall before.

SPEAKER_14 58:03

But put it like this. I would say men who are not, who are uh easy.

SPEAKER_03 58:09

Proposition. Okay, what's that? You don't you don't know this, right? Right? Yeah. But looking around the room, let's say Antoine, Jermaine as your cousin, and me as your brother. Could you go around and say what is what? Are we easy or not?

SPEAKER_10 58:28

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 58:30

Could you do that?

SPEAKER_10 58:31

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 58:32

Alright, Antoine.

SPEAKER_01 58:38

I know okay.

SPEAKER_10 58:40

I know my flaw. It's up to an is easy, man. I know my flaw.

SPEAKER_03 58:44

I know my flaw.

SPEAKER_10 58:45

Twan is easy. Look at him.

SPEAKER_07 58:53

Don't do me like that shit. Don't do me like that.

SPEAKER_16 58:56

I like what I like, man.

SPEAKER_07 58:58

Don't do me like that shit.

SPEAKER_14 59:00

May know. To a certain regard, Mayno is strict easy, but he's like a he's like a 7525.

SPEAKER_07 59:13

Oh. Corey, you bugged me, bruh.

SPEAKER_00 59:17

Okay, Corey. Corey, Corey is.

SPEAKER_14 59:29

Do you want me to say this or not? Corey is low-key strict. But the reason why I'm saying this, Corey's, Ari is the first person Corey has ever brought around or mentioned to our family. Period. And I know many people Corey has communicated with that. And has never mentioned to anybody. Like they're like, Corey be like, but Corey got a girlfriend, Corey my girlfriend. And this is years ago. And I'm like, I would never know. Because Corey is strict in a way. So when he did bring Ari around, we were like, Wow. Like she made it past uh?

unknown 1:00:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:03

She passed like five checks of TSA, bro.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:06

Strictly.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:07

We know. We know you put this women do this.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:11

Manie, I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_16 1:00:13

We like what we like, man.

SPEAKER_06 1:00:14

We hey we in that category, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:16

I'm in the I'm in the category. I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:18

But when I say easy, maybe I'm not, it's not a disrespectful.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:23

Not that you pay $2,000.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:25

No, easy is when, like, if something is dangled in front of your face, you make them really do the work to see if they like it. Like you're like, hey, I like it. She looks good. Let me go after it. And then next thing you know, now you're gonna suffer from the repercussions. Why you are guilty. Maybe you are guilty.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:39

No.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:40

I know this. Guilty. I know. Like I have facts.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:47

That's what I said. We got stories. Yes.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:49

But I will not, and on this mic, I will not bring them up. But y'all know what I'm talking about.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:53

I don't think he was jumping.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:54

Exactly. So there are people.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:57

I know.

SPEAKER_14 1:00:57

So yes, easy. When we say easy, meaning like you don't, you're you're more so, I'm not gonna say look driven, but it's just more so like you're not as this is not no shade. It's not as intentional as it can be to go past, as Corey say, TSA, the check markers. Like it's it's it's levels too.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:17

Ain't no pre-check right here. You gotta get tested. Corey gonna he gonna take him through the ringer.

SPEAKER_14 1:01:22

So that's what I mean. It's no shame, Amy. You're still young.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:26

I gotta tighten my program up.

SPEAKER_14 1:01:28

You do.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:28

No, I do. I told him this though. You have to be intentional. I had to do some uh I had to do some yeah, reevaluating.

SPEAKER_14 1:01:36

So but no, that's the thing. So I always tell, I tell all men when they're in pursuit of a woman to be as intentional as possible. Have an expectation before even like and it's okay to be single. Some men can't be by themselves, unfortunately. Like you hop from one to the next to the next to the next. Every time I talk to you, I should not be hearing about, yeah, so I met this new girl or I said this new girl DNS. I'm I'm like, at this point, you're desperate. What are we doing?

SPEAKER_03 1:02:05

Yeah, you don't want to be in that category.

SPEAKER_14 1:02:07

So it's just like you want to for me, this is just me speaking. It's okay to if you just want to date around and that's what you want in your span of life right now, that's you. But for me three at a time. Corey, what did you say?

SPEAKER_03 1:02:21

Three at a time. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_14 1:02:23

So for me, it's just like if you if you are intentionally wanting to date, I always tell people, write, look, I'm a writer, so write down what you like, your do's, your don'ts, and then you have a mental checklist and a read the room, as we always say. Learn how to read that room, you know, and then um if you want to get to know somebody, take it slow, like don't go so fast. Because sometimes you get too too much dip on your chip and you end up in predicaments that you're not trying to be in. Hence people send in cash, I mean sending requests, many.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:56

Why the few story it was your story today, man? It was your story, many.

SPEAKER_14 1:03:01

But it's just more so like if you're going too fast at a fast pace, a fast speed, it's gonna start and you're like, oh shoot, I didn't get to know you for real. I don't even know you. How do you how do we get ourselves in this situation? So it's just like be more intentional, figure out what you want, and take it slow, like get to know that person first. And it's it's not just all on the men, it's on the women too. Like, don't try to force something so you can get some something out of it quickly. Because I it people are guilty of that too. It's just like, let me milk this cow as much as I can so I can move to the next and keep going, keep going, keep going until and that's just how it is. But at the end of the day, it's just intentionality. Figure out what you want to be uh to become what you even and I always say it for myself too, it's just like what I want to desire, I need to become that. So it's therefore like do that for yourself too. It's just like you need to become what you are trying to attract. So if you want a high value woman, be a more of a high value man. If you want to attract uh What is a high value man? A high value man for me is someone who is has like pillars of faith, um, family, uh, financial literacy, and um just self-wellness in general. And self-wellness means like mental mental mental wellness as well.

SPEAKER_06 1:04:19

500k a year.

SPEAKER_14 1:04:22

Ain't nobody saying nothing. You could be crazy, you can be crazy, man. You could be crazy. Hell can be with attached to that body. No, don't please. So a high value man to me is a man who is secure in their manhood, a person who is um not and don't have like no true insecurities about themselves, like they're comfortable with themselves and they value their faith, their uh, so their spirituality, their mental health, uh, their physical uh health. That's what I value as a high value man. It's not always pertaining to finances. Because if you are, you know, some crazy rich people. If you're well in those areas, then you are already a high valued person because somebody can have all the money in the world, but be mentally crazy. Why would you? You are no value to me at that point. You are bringing more hell to my life than anything. Right. So it's just like if you if you find those yourself high in those categories, you are considered a high value man, in my opinion. And in the world as well. So for you, I would say, like, basically for men, become what you want, become what you want to attract. So it's just like if you want a high value woman, become a high value man. And how can you do that again?

SPEAKER_03 1:05:31

It don't happen overnight.

SPEAKER_14 1:05:33

It don't, you gotta put the work.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:34

You gotta put the work in.

SPEAKER_14 1:05:36

So that's why I said don't try to chase after people so soon. Get to know yourself, figure out your triggers, figure out your trauma, get that together before you even enter, like pursue or even introduce yourself to somebody because the last thing a woman wants to deal with is a person who's trying to still figure it out, and they low key may already have it figured out and just want you to, you know, y'all want to do life together and build. You shouldn't have to wait on you to get yourself together. And then, like, okay, bet, let's go. It should never get to that. So that's why I said, take your time. Like, if you're not okay to be dating, sit your butt down somewhere and get yourself together to where you can be put in a position because that's just gonna be more stress on yourself. Because now you gotta keep up with her and yourself. And that's not healthy. Fellows.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:19

Hey, what Kevin Hurst say, everybody wanna be famous, but nobody wanna put the work in. Nobody wanna put the work in. Yeah. Hey, facts. That's good advice. Yeah, that's good advice. That's why, that's why we have you on. For sure.

SPEAKER_06 1:06:31

Yeah, I mean, yeah, so long story short, don't be easy like Twan, but uh wow, that's insane.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:41

Hey, don't nobody come ask me for no money. No, no, man. No, no.

SPEAKER_12 1:06:49

Look, look, Tuan might be willingly listen to it. Don't let him, don't let him be checking.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:52

Nah, I don't do that. I don't spend money. You gotta be wifey. You gotta be wifey for me to spend money.

SPEAKER_09 1:06:57

Check his phone.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:58

Check it. Check it. Pull it out. You gotta be wifey.

SPEAKER_09 1:07:01

Where the phone?

SPEAKER_03 1:07:03

Hey, we're gonna get off. Let's get off camera first so we can do that.

SPEAKER_10 1:07:07

You gotta pull the receipts. I don't believe Twine.

SPEAKER_06 1:07:09

No, but I don't believe Twine either. Ain't no way you keep getting scammed.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:15

It's all flipped down to the back. What's that?

SPEAKER_14 1:07:24

It probably was one of his secrets.

SPEAKER_09 1:07:25

There's no reward. No. You gotta hold that card number.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:30

Man, y'all see what we gotta deal with? You be giving out your card number? No, she took that number. I'll tell you, nobody, nobody has access to none of that.

SPEAKER_10 1:07:39

So we so we thought. Alright, whatever. Go ahead.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:43

Anyways, man. So hey, y'all see what we we can do this forever. We do this all the time. So anyways, man. Let's hey. You're gonna be back. You're gonna be back.

SPEAKER_14 1:07:55

Bring me back.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:55

We definitely bring you back. I got some more topics. Bring one of your little ratchet friends. Corey, I got no ratchet. We gotta have some friends.

SPEAKER_14 1:08:01

I have no ratchet friends.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:02

Your bougie friends. The bougie.

SPEAKER_14 1:08:06

Well-rounded women. Amen.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:08

AKA bougie.

SPEAKER_14 1:08:09

Okay.

SPEAKER_16 1:08:10

This guy. Hey, you know they be watching this.

SPEAKER_14 1:08:13

Shout out to the friends. Shout out to the supporters. The subscribers. Bring them around. I want to see them.

SPEAKER_07 1:08:20

Bring them around.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:22

You falling into the phone.

SPEAKER_07 1:08:31

Look at that.

SPEAKER_10 1:08:36

Oh my god. That's why I don't know. Anyways, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:41

You must get more requests, man. Nah, man. Anyways, man. Baby, what you what you willing to do at will this week, man? What you willing to do?

SPEAKER_06 1:08:52

Uh I had a good week this week, man. I just want to continue to stay uh stay blessed, man. I'm all right, man. I'm good, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:00

I'm good. You are blessed. I'm about to apple cash you too. So you feel like you want to get some of those pause. Pause? What you mean? Pause.

SPEAKER_15 1:09:08

Did you hear that, girl? Pause. He's about to apple cash me. He's about to send me some money. What you say we're gonna do? He's about to let Jiman get his nose out of your money.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:29

You said I'm an Apple Cat.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:30

I'm gonna say Apple Request. My bad. That boy Twine. Let me make some money.

SPEAKER_12 1:09:41

You get your nails done. Didn't you say you get your nails done? I can tell you get your nails done. I can see you.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:45

I get my nails cleaned.

SPEAKER_12 1:09:47

Done.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:48

Cleaned.

unknown 1:09:49

Done.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:49

Cleaned. What do you really do? That boy Twan said he's gonna pay for it. Pause, man. Okay, let's relax. I never joke like that, man.

SPEAKER_11 1:09:59

You just he stumbled over his word. Yeah, baby. I'm gonna say embrace. Let's embrace.

SPEAKER_07 1:10:04

Great. Come on, bro. This ain't funny, bro.

SPEAKER_16 1:10:07

What you want? I'm about to say something. I don't want to get us. Yeah, I don't want to get us in trouble, man.

SPEAKER_14 1:10:12

Let's move on.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:12

We go something. Alright. What you willing to do at will this week?

SPEAKER_14 1:10:17

Uh, at will this week is to be more productive. I started working back out, so hopefully I'm gonna try to go. Don't do that.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:24

No, no, no. I keep looking at it. The way you said all was a little bit. No, I'm saying I'm doing the same thing, but I'm just in support.

SPEAKER_14 1:10:31

Yeah. Beautiful. So yeah, hopefully um I'm gonna try to be more active in the gym this week and productive, and then of course, uh finalize a lot of these um tech packs and samples for my spring line. So I'm excited about that.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:46

Hey. Oh my lord.

SPEAKER_14 1:10:49

Yeah, shout out to the beanies. They sat aligned. We love it. Yeah. So yeah, that's basically it for next week. It's gonna be super chill, uh, but busy at the same time. Yeah. Now, what about yourself?

SPEAKER_03 1:11:01

Nah, Corey. Nah, we're gonna get a core. What you willing to do at well this week? Man, I'm gonna shoot. But you gotta get more content than that, man. Come on.

SPEAKER_14 1:11:13

Like video court. I'm like, shoot. I think you're like a meranged.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:16

Yeah, man. They can use this to the court, man. If something happens.

SPEAKER_09 1:11:18

I'm gonna shoot. Oh, wow. Click the clip play.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:22

You know my heart.

SPEAKER_09 1:11:24

You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 1:11:24

You're not making it easier, man. I'm gonna I'm gonna shoot videos. Shoot videos intentionally. Yeah. Hey, man. Hey, congrats to you too, man.

SPEAKER_12 1:11:33

Yeah, he's official. Entrepreneur.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:35

Entrepreneur. I mean, it's been official. Official, man. Yeah, yeah, man. Come on, man.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:39

Come on, man.

SPEAKER_13 1:11:40

Oh, man. Congratulations.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:41

Deuce Media is official. Yeah, so I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna create I'm gonna try to create. Yeah. That's good. What's this up, man? Me? I ain't doing no, no, for real. I'ma uh I'm gonna work on more on more content stuff. I wanna I wanna I find out how to get more passion for like interviews. You know what I'm saying? I like talking.

SPEAKER_10 1:12:11

I like uh that's good, because you usually I like to talk.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:14

For real. No, you you seriously for real. I mean, cause I'm like there's passion for it, so I just want to dive into more of a journalistic background.

SPEAKER_14 1:12:24

Come on, journalism.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:25

Yeah, yeah. So yeah, I wanna I wanna see what I can do then. I'm gonna I'll take you know, speaking classes, I'll do more writing exercises. So I'm diving into it for real, full-fledged, and I want to get into more content creating. I really wanna I see what we are building, I see we can actually build something, especially in our own lanes as well. Like you know, we can do this forever, and we can do something that we love to do for the rest of our life. I'm really trying to we thank God for the nine to five. We really do, but I really don't see that being my favorite. You know what I mean? So or none of us as well, right here. So yeah, so I'm gonna I'm I'm going I gotta watch my language running on it because I ain't getting paused no more. Uh I'm gonna be going all the way. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Right, right.

SPEAKER_14 1:13:23

Oh wow, that was I haven't heard that in years.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:31

Go ahead, Tommy. No, no, I'm going full fledged on things I want to do for the rest of my life. That's good. I'm taking my career and everything, my aspirations, everything. You know, seriously.

SPEAKER_12 1:13:44

So what's the practical steps?

SPEAKER_03 1:13:46

I'm gonna continue being uh I I wanna enhance my look. You know what I'm saying? Come on. So basically work out, you know, eat right. Oh yeah, that shirt's definitely coming off July, man. I might I might I'm gonna be a model in one of your uh catalogs. Not with the shut off, not with shut off, bro.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:03

I just did you see I'm saying, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:07

I'm working, no man. I was jealous of y'all when uh when we posted, I was like, oh yeah, they look good. I'm talking about all the models for her, you know. Meeting. Yeah, yeah, yeah. May not. I know. May not hey Maino, you you you you you I'm I I'm not me saying this. I'm getting hit up about this. I'm getting hit up about they be like, hey, he he's handsome, Tom. They're like, oh, who is he? So yeah, you you get the looks, man. You get the looks. I I had to answer to him who you are. So yeah, yeah. I like that for you, man. Sue, you you young, you hey.

SPEAKER_14 1:14:43

Okay, don't eat. I'm gonna go.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:46

All right, come on. Yeah, yeah, he's gonna get more requests. No, but yeah. But that's what I'm gonna do at will. So that's that's what we're gonna do at will, as y'all see. We're building this is us, this is the core four right here. It's gonna get denied. Anyways. Whatever you do, do your purpose at will. You know what I'm saying? We create, we speak, we live at will. All right, we out of here, y'all.

SPEAKER_11 1:15:15

See y'all.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:15

Let's get out of here before they pause us again.

SPEAKER_11 1:15:18

Pause you again.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:19

Pause me. Pause. Whoa, what was that?

SPEAKER_07 1:15:23

What was that tone, sir? What was that?