P’s In A Bucket

EP. 28 Aliens vs robots?? Our family's generational curse; how we all were raised

Natrone Patterson Season 1 Episode 28

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SPEAKER_01

Um welcome to another episode of the peas in the bucket. Why can't sound like that? Wait, hold on.

SPEAKER_00

Like a little bit.

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Like a little. What is that?

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Hold on.

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What is his name? The chipmunk?

SPEAKER_00

No, it's not a guy. What's his name?

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Why did it do that?

SPEAKER_00

You still hear it?

SPEAKER_02

Welcome welcome to Peace. I'm keeping that in there. That was weird.

SPEAKER_00

I'm like, what? Sound like Kevin Hart.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. It is. That's what it's out of.

SPEAKER_00

We start talking, it sounded like Kevin Hart.

SPEAKER_02

Anyway, yeah, so welcome to another episode of Peace in the Bucket Podcast. Um, oh, how you doing? Let's talk about how you doing every time.

SPEAKER_05

How you doing?

SPEAKER_02

Good. We had a so it's a lot of things going on in the world, but we're not gonna let it, you know, hinder what we do. You know, we we come here to try to bring positivity. Is it too loud? Oh, okay. We come here to bring positivity and try to, you know, steer you away from what's going on in the world. So here we are, and we got a lot of things to talk about. So even though they got corrupt, not corruption, is it corruption you want to call it in the world? It's a lot of things going on in the world.

SPEAKER_00

Confusion, corruption. It's a lot.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

The world is upside down right now. Right. So um it's turned.

SPEAKER_02

But we're not gonna hinder that, hinder what we came in to do, which is entertaining.

SPEAKER_00

No, it's not, right.

SPEAKER_02

So we we came in to make y'all laugh and I guess give y'all stories too.

SPEAKER_00

Yep.

SPEAKER_02

Well, she got stories. Yep. So um we at war.

SPEAKER_00

We at war.

SPEAKER_02

Let's go. We at war.

SPEAKER_00

Who's at war?

SPEAKER_02

United States and who else?

SPEAKER_00

Not we. United States is at war. Oh, they at war. Not we. Stop saying we, because we are not, we didn't ask for the war.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, but when you say us, it's no, we are not.

SPEAKER_00

It's United States at war. We part of United States. With who? I'm not. I'm not in the I'm not in no way.

SPEAKER_02

So where are you from?

SPEAKER_00

I'm I'm in right here in um Riverdale. It's in Atlanta. In Atlanta. It's in the United States. Again, we did not ask for the war. I'm not at war. We we are not at war. You're not at the end.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so the white people are at war.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. All your politicians and all your billionaires at war. Okay. Okay. We just rephrase that. Because we're not at we not at war. No, we are at war. With these high-ass gas prices and high food prices going up and they messing with the food. Yeah, we at war.

SPEAKER_02

So with with that being said, I had a solution to the war. Instead of them, you know, having a draft, I think Elon Musk needs to build a lot of robots and fight in war.

SPEAKER_00

They could be the that's right. It'd be part of United States military. They could be the robots. The robots could be army, navy. You could put anyone you want. That's who needs to go at war. Leave our black men alone. Not even our young men too.

SPEAKER_02

No, just just citizens, period.

SPEAKER_00

Citizens, leave them alone.

SPEAKER_02

Because if they do a draft, they're gonna put anybody in the in the war. And I don't think we need that. We don't need a lot of people dying.

SPEAKER_00

So uh I and I must start making some more robots. You make you making them to serve food and you're making them go in these restaurants. Now you need to make something to go at war. We need some military robot for the fight this war in Iraq.

SPEAKER_02

Now, what about military policemen?

SPEAKER_00

Military policemen, if they gotta go to Iraq, send them, get make something for that too.

SPEAKER_02

Now, I know y'all got a history of making them making the robots run and fall. When they be running, they be falling. So yeah, make sure these robots are strong and they know how to defend the country.

SPEAKER_00

Yes. If not, y'all really gonna be at war.

SPEAKER_02

Huh?

SPEAKER_00

And they're gonna really be at war with no no um military. Because they're gonna have robots.

SPEAKER_02

I know, but that's the that's that's uh military.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

That's supposed to be the military, it's gonna be the robots.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. Eli Musk, get to work, please. Make some more uh robots for the uh fight Iraq, please. We need some fly fly planes. We need to make a uh on the fight fly the planes, want to go into the uh the submarines to go in the water for your navy.

SPEAKER_02

So we need some so you know if you do that, you're gonna take like a lot of jobs from people that's you know that actually do that. Like the people that's in the submarine.

SPEAKER_00

That's okay. That's who needs to go to war. They need to make them to go to war.

SPEAKER_02

What the robots?

SPEAKER_00

The innocent um put people don't need to be going to war.

SPEAKER_02

I know. So what you gonna do about the people that got jobs that do that?

SPEAKER_00

They can take a break, go on vacation. Take a vacation, go on break. They need to go on break. They probably stretched out anyway with the military.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

So let them take a break and get the robots to do everything they did.

SPEAKER_02

What has been going on? Oh, the airports.

SPEAKER_00

The airport then had two bombs. One in New York.

SPEAKER_02

No, they had well, it was not a bomb. Stop saying it was a bomb.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, the threat, bomb threat.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, it was they say it was a bomb threat, but the first man said he was setting his timer because he wanted to pray at a certain time.

SPEAKER_00

He happened to be and they arrested him off the plane, they put they took him off the plane. Yeah, they didn't arrest him though. They took him off the plane in Georgia. Yeah. New York.

SPEAKER_02

Well, I I you gotta talk about that one. I ain't hear about that one.

SPEAKER_00

I don't know about that one. I heard about it. Okay. They had a bomb threat in New York. That's all I heard. I didn't hear anything else like the one here in Georgia.

SPEAKER_02

But it seemed like what was that last year when they had all them planes fall out of the sky? Mm-hmm. It's like lately you ain't seen no plane fall of the sky.

SPEAKER_00

I wonder why. But they're still on, they're still on furlough.

SPEAKER_02

Uh huh.

SPEAKER_00

Uh federal, I mean everybody, all you federal government employees, they're still on furlough.

SPEAKER_02

On what?

SPEAKER_00

Furlough.

SPEAKER_02

What is that?

SPEAKER_00

They're um they're not um they're not working.

SPEAKER_02

So what you call it?

SPEAKER_00

Furlough.

SPEAKER_02

Furlough. I don't know what that is. You know what it is. I ain't never heard that.

SPEAKER_00

They're on um, what what it what what what what now what happened?

SPEAKER_02

The government shut down. So they're not getting paid. They're not getting paid.

SPEAKER_00

That's what I'm gonna say. The government shut down. They had a government shutdown last year, now they got a government shutdown this year.

SPEAKER_02

Can you do me a favor? Can you chew your food and eat before you start talking about microphones?

SPEAKER_00

I'm sorry. I'm so sorry.

SPEAKER_02

If y'all want to know she's eating Chick-fil-A, they ain't their business. Well, okay. Don't eat on the microphone.

SPEAKER_00

I'm finished.

SPEAKER_02

All right. What else has been going on? Oh, you heard about the school shooting there? I think so. I don't I I I was listening to it this morning, but somebody had um drove their truck in the school, like in a college.

SPEAKER_00

Mm-mm. I just heard about those those teenage girls that jumped one girl, Jada.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, you talk about the black girl who got jumped in uh Villarica? Villarica in Douglasville.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, and um, this girl's been was bullying her for a long time. The daddy and mom went to the school and reported all that, but this was really sad because she was she was new in the area. She was new in the area, you knew it was a little bit of a ship. But she didn't have no friends. No friends. So these girls was start bullying on her, start bullying her rather.

SPEAKER_02

I feel like it's most of that story.

SPEAKER_00

Well, if they got off the bus at the same bus stop.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but it I this this is what I don't believe. So I used to go to school. I don't believe kids will pick on some a a new person just because they knew in the area.

SPEAKER_00

So you think it's more too?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

Like, I don't know if like the girl trying to be friends with them, but she won't be their friends, and then they felt some type of way.

SPEAKER_00

She just started in the school in the school. That's what I'm saying. Oh, what about a boy? Could it be a boy?

SPEAKER_02

Oh, she probably like one of their boyfriends.

SPEAKER_00

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_02

It could be anything. It's just most of that story that they're not saying.

SPEAKER_00

But the part that got me, it was three of them jumped her.

SPEAKER_02

Well, yeah. Usually when you when you got a lot of friends at your school and that wasn't, but that wasn't fair though.

SPEAKER_00

That's that she didn't have a chance. Because what happened, it was they just kept on following her. She said, Y'all want some of this? So, you know, it's like the way the way it happened.

SPEAKER_02

But think about this. When you used to go to school, y'all used to have a lot of fights. We had a lot of people. So when y'all got into a lot of fights, it it was it always one-on-one?

SPEAKER_00

No.

SPEAKER_02

So people always jumped in, right? That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_00

Right, right.

SPEAKER_02

It is it's always like that. It ain't never fair.

SPEAKER_00

Because when I was going to Booger T, there was five girls gonna jump me. And they said, three o'clock, we're gonna get you on a on a black, gonna see you on a black top. Okay. And it was five of them gonna jump me. So Mavis and Sheila said if they're gonna fight you, they're gonna fight you one by one. We will be there on a black top.

SPEAKER_02

So who won?

SPEAKER_00

The girls didn't show up. I wasn't by myself.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. Oh, they wanted you by yourself. Since you weren't by yourself, they they didn't show up.

SPEAKER_00

They didn't show up. Because they heard the word the word got out. Booger team, Calio project. Yeah, but the word got out that if you're gonna fight them, you're gonna fight them one by one.

SPEAKER_02

That's fine.

SPEAKER_00

They're not gonna jump you because they're jumping, we're gonna jump in. Right. So that that was my that's how it was when I was coming up.

SPEAKER_02

Every time I seen the fight at Riverdale, it was never one-on-one. People always used to jump in.

SPEAKER_00

Wow, on one person?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, not even on one person.

SPEAKER_00

It's gonna be a group.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, it's always a group because when when it's one-on-one, this group fighting this group. Oh, they try to fight this one person, but then they group come in and start fighting each other.

SPEAKER_00

Well, this girl was by herself with three girls. And like I say, by her being. So and like I said, she had she died? She died.

SPEAKER_02

Oh Lord.

SPEAKER_00

She died. She hit her head on the concrete. It's something to do with the um brain. Her brain was dead. Yeah, she died. She she had the fight with that Thursday. She died that Sunday in the hospital. They had her, yeah, rest in peace. Rest in peace to her. Rest in peace, Jay. My heart go out to you and um your family.

SPEAKER_02

You've been talking about that all week.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, because it bothered me because I saw it. It's been, it's like, she's only 12. She didn't have a chance. 12?

SPEAKER_02

That's that middle school?

SPEAKER_00

Middle school. It's middle school. And so she didn't have a chance.

SPEAKER_02

So that means them other children that jumped on her, they're gonna get charged like an adult.

SPEAKER_00

They're gonna be charged on the dog. I I hope they do. Now, if they don't have no pictures, no evidence. No, somebody was some one of them, her friend was recording it.

SPEAKER_02

Who?

SPEAKER_00

Uh uh uh her friend, they got a one of who friends? Jada.

SPEAKER_02

So she do got friends. So why was she recording her? No, no, no, not her friend. Oh.

SPEAKER_00

One of them recorded it. Oh, okay, I got you. One of them recorded it. Right there, she's gonna be involved with recording. And those other girls that jumped her, they're gonna charge them.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Just like they charge them them boys with that little girl. Three black boys with that little girl. They charge them with as an adult.

SPEAKER_02

What are you talking about? This is another story.

SPEAKER_00

It's another story.

SPEAKER_02

I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_00

But anyway, I saw that too. But he they they're gonna charge him. They had them um in the court right now. They were 12, 13, and 14.

SPEAKER_02

And how old was the girl? Eight. Eight.

SPEAKER_00

Yep. But they say that she was twelve, but she was eight. Yeah. The girl lived though. She lived.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, where was that?

unknown

I don't know where was that.

SPEAKER_00

Well, how could I find out? I I that's another story that I kept following too. I was following that one. And this one here with Jada. Oh my God. That was so sad.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I remember about the one in Jada.

SPEAKER_00

I ain't hear about the one that got it was three bla three black boys.

SPEAKER_02

I can't say that one.

SPEAKER_00

13, 14, 15. And they're gonna be tried as an adult. Yeah. Mm-hmm. They they they didn't quote right now. They showed them right now. So that's another story. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

Who you think will win in the fight in the war? Aliens or robots?

SPEAKER_00

Who I think will win?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, aliens or robots.

SPEAKER_00

Robots.

SPEAKER_02

Why?

SPEAKER_00

Because they're gonna have them build them. They're gonna build them strong.

SPEAKER_02

So what about aliens?

SPEAKER_00

Aliens.

SPEAKER_02

Now think about this aliens. You don't know what they got.

SPEAKER_00

Don't know what they have. But the robots are strong. They're making them what they can do.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but what if they got aliens that is stronger than the robots?

SPEAKER_00

Well, that's gonna be a tough one. What you think about who if you if they put um TI and 50 Cent in the ring, who you think will win?

SPEAKER_02

Lloyd.

SPEAKER_00

That's a good one now.

SPEAKER_02

Everybody would say I don't I don't think we need to talk about that. Oh because that that could for real get bad. Okay. On both sides. Who you okay, who you think then? Since you won't be dramatic.

SPEAKER_00

Who I think will win? Yeah. T.I. son.

SPEAKER_02

No, that's not that so that's not the question you asked. You say who will win the ring between T.I. and 50 Cent.

SPEAKER_00

Who will win the ring? I don't know TI and 50 Cent.

SPEAKER_02

That's what you said.

SPEAKER_00

Uh that's gonna be a hard one. I I don't know if 50 Cent could fight. I don't know. I think I know T.I. can fight. Because he came out the hood. 50 Cent, I don't know nothing about him. So he might lose. I think I think But you gotta think about this.

SPEAKER_02

TI is too old now.

SPEAKER_00

50 Cent old too. They're about to say. Yeah, but 50 Cent works out. Oh. And T.I.

SPEAKER_02

I don't think T.I. works out like that.

SPEAKER_00

Well, King could take his place.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so you wanna do King versus 50 Cent?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. Who you think? Uh out of them two.

SPEAKER_02

King is still a little boy.

SPEAKER_00

But he's but he's younger. He's much younger than 50 Cent now. I think he can take 50 Cent down because he's younger. I don't think I don't know if he worked out now. I don't think he just made a little baby. That's it.

SPEAKER_02

I don't I don't think we need to get into that.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, but anyway, I have this feeling.

SPEAKER_02

If they really was to get into a fight, it'll be bad. That's why they don't that's probably why they don't want to do verses because they know it's gonna get bad.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_02

Epstein, not Epstein.

SPEAKER_00

Oh Epstein, I'm so I'm I'm I'll be glad when they do something with this case. I'd be so cuz I'm I'm I'm sick of hearing about Epstein and the children and the island that he's still alive and oh Lord, he's not really dead. He got on another island. I tell you what.

SPEAKER_02

Somebody said a stupid joke about Epstein.

SPEAKER_00

What'd it say?

SPEAKER_02

No, no, they they said um that picture you showed me. What picture? Oh, the $20 bill.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02

So check this out. If y'all got a $20 bill, look at a $20 bill and then look at a picture of Epstein. Tell me that don't look like Jeffrey Epstein.

SPEAKER_00

A $20 bill.

SPEAKER_02

The new $20 bill.

SPEAKER_00

That head, that head look like they got the same head shape and nose and everything.

SPEAKER_02

And mouth.

SPEAKER_00

It looked like Epstein.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

That was everything.

SPEAKER_02

If you look at a real picture of like Andrew Jackson, the real president who's supposed to be on a $20 bill, it don't look nothing like him.

SPEAKER_00

It looked like Epstein to you? It looked more like Epstein. That little funny head. I know that. I see the head after him. Interesting. On a $20 bill. $20 bill. Hmm. Anything about Jess McCrocker? You heard anything about her?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, she lost. She was running for what? Senate? Senate something in Texas, but she lost. She lost to another Democrat. It was like a Democratic run for a Senate.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

It was between her and some white man, and the white man won. They don't want no black woman in power nowhere.

SPEAKER_00

Because they speak out.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

And they're very outspoken. And then when they do speak, they speak the truth. That's number one. Yeah. And men don't like women to be over them.

SPEAKER_02

Not even that. I just don't. I just don't think a lot of white people like when black people is outspoken. Not just what women too, but they don't like when black black people is outspoken.

SPEAKER_00

That's correct. They think we are smart niggas. Yeah. And I feel like we are smart. Smarter than them. Yeah. But they don't like that. They won't give us that credit. So she wasn't going to win because she's an outspoken. Right. So she wasn't going to win. I thought she was.

SPEAKER_02

She was winning at one point, but then it's the next day she said she lost. I don't understand that.

SPEAKER_00

That's interesting. Well.

SPEAKER_02

Like I don't know. They they probably done cheated.

SPEAKER_00

They probably cheated.

SPEAKER_02

They'll find ways for her to lose.

SPEAKER_00

Mm-hmm. They probably added some more people in their voting poll and they changed the numbers and put paper. Yeah, yeah. Like I said, sometimes when it comes down to voting, it doesn't make sense if they're going to cheat. We shouldn't even have to vote if they're going to cheat. I don't see no purpose of voting, I'm saying. Excuse me. I don't see no I don't see no purpose of I don't see no purpose of voting if they're going to cheat. Okay. Okay. So that right there is a waste of time. And I just feel like play fair. Play fair.

SPEAKER_02

I wouldn't say it's a waste of time. It's just that more people need to go vote.

SPEAKER_00

Well, they need to be packed fair though. They still need to go be fair with us. Yeah. We got a president, we didn't vote for them. Okay, so I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but a lot of people did. I'm just a lot of people voted for me. A lot of people voted for him, but a lot of people didn't vote at all.

SPEAKER_00

And that's where the votes went. Yeah. Okay. That makes sense. Yeah. The absentee voters went to him. Yeah. But um, the Latinas still out there want us to come out there. It's not our fight, darling. I'm sorry. We're not coming out. It's like we're not gonna do this war. We didn't ask for that neither. We didn't ask for this, and we are not getting involved. We done did our share.

SPEAKER_02

I'm trying to wait till you get done talking about politics.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. Also, let me tell y'all something. Everything is gone is going up so damn high. I think it's ridiculous. The gas is going up. Oh Lord. The food is going up. But I still gotta eat. But it's okay. We gotta say, I'm here. We're gonna we're gonna make it. We're gonna make it. Okay. So we we we're not gonna talk about it.

SPEAKER_02

I know we're gonna make it. Why you say like we not?

SPEAKER_00

Well, you say, oh, I don't know, about a month. That's all about okay. So anyway.

SPEAKER_02

I I haven't been working in the past, what, three days now? Two days. This whole week I ain't been working. You work. This is the whole week I've been working.

SPEAKER_00

You work Monday?

SPEAKER_02

Sunday. Sunday. Sunday I came back Monday. So Monday when they told me I had to take the physical.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. So you're on vacation. You on vacation and enjoy your vacation. That's what you do.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. So I gotta figure out what I want to do. I want to go to New Orleans while I'm on vacation.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

Speaking of New Orleans, you want to talk about uh voodoo and generational curse?

SPEAKER_00

Yes, let's do that.

SPEAKER_02

Alright. So we already had a conversation about generational curse in the previous episodes, but you know, you got stories that you want to talk about as far as generational curse.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

So generational curse.

SPEAKER_00

I feel every family have a generational curse. Right. Every family do have that.

SPEAKER_02

So you want to talk about what you saw as far as our family having generational curse?

SPEAKER_00

Okay. I feel like.

SPEAKER_02

So you want to talk about the uh the snake lady?

SPEAKER_00

Uh I feel like so when you when you you can say names.

SPEAKER_02

I'm just gonna bleep it out.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. I feel like let me start with Okay. Because he's the first grandson, and I'm gonna tell you something about him. I feel like there was some courage brought to him.

SPEAKER_02

You can say names. It's okay.

SPEAKER_00

Alright. I feel there was a generational courage brought to on him because on his daddy's side, they believe in voodoo. When my sister got pregnant for him, he was married. Mama. With another woman. With another woman. He was married with another woman and had children. She had children for him at the time.

SPEAKER_02

And the woman is the one who does voodoo on her side.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, on her side was her, it was her mother. Right, okay. The girl, okay, the wife, mother, was to do voodoo. So his mama-in-law. His mother-in-law. Gotcha. So she did voodoo. So what I saw because of that, that's evil. And I just feel like there was something brought on to because of that. If my mother said leave him alone, she didn't do that. She was, she was disobedient. Right.

SPEAKER_02

So you're trying to say your mama, so she saw something in him that she told to leave him alone. Right.

SPEAKER_00

But she didn't. She didn't. She got pregnant for him at 18 and he was already married.

SPEAKER_02

So when did K have his uh MD?

SPEAKER_00

He stopped walking at nine. Nine years old? Nine years old. Okay. But at birth, he used to walk around. And when he got when he got to be nine, um, he started walking. They took him to Walter L. Reed Hospital. He used to fall down a lot. So they went to Walter L. Reed Hospital in DC and they cut a muscle out the back of his leg. And they said that he has MD. That is not on and and and the doctor said this is a white disease and it fell on the daddy.

SPEAKER_02

So the so hold on, his mama was white? Uh the mama.

SPEAKER_00

Somewhere down the line they had white in the family.

SPEAKER_02

From the mama-in-law.

SPEAKER_00

From on his daddy's on his from his side. So his mama's side. So his wife is one thing and him is another thing.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

So if the mother-in-law believed in voodoo, there's something she could have put in on him through generations. Through generation. Right, right, right, right. Like I said, she was he was married to her already before. And when he got pregnant for him, he was already married. So he he couldn't marry her.

SPEAKER_02

But okay, so you wanna know what the what the crazy thing is? Never had children. So that that generational thing kinda died out.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, okay.

SPEAKER_02

And then never had no more children.

SPEAKER_00

No, she had no more children.

SPEAKER_02

So was pretty like he was like the last one.

SPEAKER_00

He was the first grandson. He was the oldest.

SPEAKER_02

He was also the last one.

SPEAKER_00

He was the last one. So he his side, he couldn't, he couldn't he couldn't carry on that name. Right. Because he was the only boy. That that name died. Yeah. But but um, like I said, people do things to cause evil into families. And and and it works. Voodoo works. Yeah. Voodoo works.

SPEAKER_02

It works if you're deep in it.

SPEAKER_00

If you're deep in it, we don't know how I don't know how deep she was in it, but I do know my mother said leave him alone. Right. And she didn't. And when you be disobedient to your parents, that's even worse. Honor thy mother and thy father. So when you just when you did that, that was a curse right there, brought on you. Because you didn't do that. You left you still mess with him. And if she would have, if she left him alone, I don't think she'd have had a child like that. I don't think she would have had a child like that.

SPEAKER_03

Interesting.

SPEAKER_00

I really don't. So I feel like the curse from the curse came down generation from him.

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Yes.

SPEAKER_02

From his mom-in-law.

SPEAKER_00

Yes.

SPEAKER_02

Well, it's that's not from him, that's his mama-in-law. This thing comes from him.

SPEAKER_00

Not mom-in-law, mother-in-law. Same thing. What?

SPEAKER_02

It's the same thing.

SPEAKER_00

No, it's not. Mama in law. Okay, mom in law. If you say mom-in-law, it's it's the same thing. Okay, so I feel like that generation curse came down. From his mom-in-law. All right. And his daughter asked since he's been dead. What happened to your mother? And didn't your mother, your grandmother did voodoo? That's why that's why I said she he she asked his daughter that right.

SPEAKER_02

And what she said.

SPEAKER_00

She said, I was young. I don't know nothing about that.

SPEAKER_02

So wait, so is the mama still alive?

SPEAKER_00

Her mama dead.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, okay. So when did she die?

SPEAKER_00

He died before.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

So I'm saying something new for her to ask this girl that this girl was a child.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

So why would you bring this up now? What happened between and your your daddy and your and her and your mama? Right. She she actually since since been dead. So to me, that's something she knew.

SPEAKER_02

So do you think that energy rubbed off on I th I feel so.

SPEAKER_00

I think so. I think so. I think some of the voodoo did because for her to bring it up, dead. Why you bringing it up now about what not even.

SPEAKER_02

I'm just talking about like her because growing growing up, she was always like stand out.

SPEAKER_00

I think I think I think it's in her. Yeah. I think she got something.

SPEAKER_02

Because she never wanted to be around nobody.

SPEAKER_00

She didn't want to be around her family. She didn't like her family. And anytime, anytime a person has something against their family for no reason, something wrong. Right. And she's the oldest out of seven of us. Right. And she have never she had something with she had something against all of us. Because she would talk to one and stop talking to somebody. You know, the thing she did is to tell me it was evil.

SPEAKER_03

Right.

SPEAKER_00

And so right now, her husband's going and her son's going. So she's by herself now. So it's like, okay, so why are you asking this girl this her daddy's dead? He was young. And to me, that's to me that's something that's a generational encouragement, I would say. Because it was seven of us, all of how many was it?

SPEAKER_02

You Oh he's about to cut like y'all. Yeah. All y'all sibling sons.

SPEAKER_00

Right. All our siblings' sons never had that disease.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

So I feel that was a generation of curse.

SPEAKER_02

From his side. From his side.

SPEAKER_00

And it fell on my it fell on him.

SPEAKER_02

Gotcha. That's okay. You told me another story about your other sister. So that you're gonna cut that out. I'm gonna cut it out.

SPEAKER_00

Um her husband.

SPEAKER_02

So he he said you said he was he was messing with a dancing lady?

SPEAKER_00

A a snake lady.

SPEAKER_02

No, no, you said had a snake lady.

SPEAKER_00

No, no, no, no, no, no. I have no snake lady.

SPEAKER_02

No, the mama in law was a snake lady.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. No, no. Was dating a snake lady.

SPEAKER_02

Okay. You said dancing lady.

SPEAKER_00

No. What she was dancing with a snake. It's okay. She was a dance with a snake. Okay. The lady danced with a s okay. Had a girlfriend. That does with dance with a snake. Okay. Okay. Now don't mix that up now. Two different things. I know. Okay. So he he was dating a snake lady. He was dating a lady that danced with a snake.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

Snake is evil, number one. Um, I feel like my sister was very educated. She had a degree into business and she was very smart. And the thing she started doing, I just thought it was evil. And I felt like that came along down the road road with the snake lady. Put in my sister's home.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

Because of her husband messing with her snake lady.

SPEAKER_02

So while he was messing with a snake lady, she he was also talking to your sister.

SPEAKER_00

They was married.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so he was married and he was still talking to your sister.

SPEAKER_00

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Because they went to school together. Okay. I didn't know that. I found that out later. Right. When he when she came to the funeral. The snake lady went to school with her to cover her. And the snake lady, when it wasn't there, used to go to the house. And that told me right there, that woman, you don't know what the woman was doing in the house.

SPEAKER_02

Right.

SPEAKER_00

She could have done something, but she wasn't there. She was working. So he was at the snake.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, so she was at the house?

SPEAKER_00

She wasn't there.

SPEAKER_02

No, the snake lady. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

She would go visit him at the house while she's at work.

SPEAKER_02

So she could have put something in there, in the in the in the house.

SPEAKER_00

And and her. Because doing different things.

SPEAKER_02

She started doing evil things.

SPEAKER_00

Evil things like embezzlement. Uh uh using doing things with my daughter. It's like, wait a minute.

SPEAKER_02

Because your daughter used to work for well, my sister used to work for ATU.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, so she started doing evil things, and you don't do that to your family. And like I said, I feel like she was doing those things because it was evil. Those things is not something that you do to your own family. Right. Okay? So it's like when my daddy died, we had got every one of us got a check. The check was 800. My daddy had every little last one of us with a check. And she's gonna pay for daddy's funeral. So she's not tech sign her over, that's hard. And my daddy was in the military, which was right. She could have had everything paid for in the military. The military would have paid for everything. So we kept that money. So we multiply that time seven.

SPEAKER_02

So she kept all your money?

SPEAKER_00

She kept everything. She said y'all didn't sign a check and give it to me. Everybody else wanted us f because she's not doing it.

SPEAKER_02

So she kept her money?

SPEAKER_00

Kept her check. She said no.

SPEAKER_02

So everybody else gave it to me.

SPEAKER_00

Everybody else gave it to me.

SPEAKER_02

And then y'all never got that money?

SPEAKER_00

No. No. No, we didn't get it. So I got six.

SPEAKER_02

So what she what she do with the money?

SPEAKER_00

Good question. My daddy, the funeral his funeral cost three thousand dollars. She didn't even pay it. So they put him in a potty field.

SPEAKER_02

Oh who?

SPEAKER_00

Potty field.

SPEAKER_02

What is that?

SPEAKER_00

They throw him somewhere in the dirt. They just took they can throw him somewhere.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, so he ain't he he didn't go under like in the casket?

SPEAKER_00

That's what happened. Yeah. Chicago.

SPEAKER_02

I don't know what that is.

SPEAKER_00

But if they take the body and throw it way up there and then it's a bunch of dirt, it's a bunch, it's a field with nothing, nothing, you just unmarked. It's unmar unmarked field.

SPEAKER_02

Okay. Okay. So in the desert.

SPEAKER_00

It's in it's in it's a little place in New Orleans. Gotcha.

SPEAKER_03

Don't nobody be there.

SPEAKER_00

Nobody be there. Nobody there. You ain't gonna know where they at because it's a storm.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

It's an unmarked grave.

SPEAKER_04

Gotcha. Okay.

SPEAKER_00

But they throw people back that on pay.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

So that right there made me thought, well, wait a minute. What you gonna do with that money? Because all of us should have kept that check. Yeah. We was young. I didn't know. First of all, I knew that my dad was in the military. He just wanted the money. I don't know. But when you start doing things to your own family, that's evil.

SPEAKER_02

That came from somewhere though.

SPEAKER_00

It came from somewhere because she wasn't like that.

SPEAKER_02

Right.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. So with this snake lady, her husband dealing with this snake lady, we don't know what he put in that house. What came on my sister to be that way? She wasn't like that. We wasn't raised like that. Everybody thought we had money. I wonder how. She didn't. We can't we came from the same parent. So how she got more money if we don't have the money. That tell me right there's something wrong. She was doing something wrong right there. Yeah. So I I guess I love my sister, but the thing she did wasn't right.

SPEAKER_02

Because of him.

SPEAKER_00

Because of him. Because of him. And like I said, on his side of the family, there was problems. But he had a daddy that beat his wife up. All the boys. Oh yeah. All the brothers on his side, they beat their wives up.

SPEAKER_02

And then he started beating up on Auntie.

SPEAKER_00

And he started beating up on homes. And his son does the same thing. The son does the same thing to his his ex-wife. And he did it to the second wife. So that's a generation curse right there. Because if it came from the grandfather and the trick it down to the son, now to the grandson, that's a generation curse. So you could call it what you you know, I'm just saying that that's a generation of the curse.

SPEAKER_02

So let me ask you this. So since you think it's a generational curse, where can it be broken at this point, as far as that part? Like use him for example.

SPEAKER_00

Well, like being the male.

SPEAKER_02

He already did it. It's already in him.

SPEAKER_00

He's gonna have to teach his son's gonna have to break it. Yeah. Because right, because he got two uncles, one of them dead.

SPEAKER_02

Cool.

SPEAKER_00

One of uh uncles is dead. So he oh, okay, from his side home. Oh, uncle. Gotcha. Yeah. So he's dead, and he got a brother dead. So two of them dead. Okay. So his son had to break that.

SPEAKER_02

But he got his son gotta understand what the curse is, though.

SPEAKER_00

And guess what? I gotta tell him as a dad. Like I said, long time ago.

SPEAKER_02

But okay, so do you think I don't understand what generational curse is? Do you do you do does he not that slow, is he? I know, but do but some people it don't it's not about being slow. It's about not being education uh educated to what generational curse is. Okay, I don't know. Because if he's not gonna know what it is, he's not gonna talk to his son about it.

SPEAKER_00

Well, I don't think he knew I don't think he he had it. There was a generational curse. I don't think he looked at it like that. I don't think he did. Yeah. We looking at it like that. Right. But I don't think he looked at it like that because that's a generation of curse.

SPEAKER_02

You never had a talk uh conversation with him? No. Would you want to have a conversation with him about it?

SPEAKER_00

I can ask him. Do he know? First of all, I want to question him first. Do you know what a generation of curse is?

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

Because it was on his daddy's side. Generation of curse. On his daddy's side, there was a generation of curse. Because if the grandfather did it, the uncle, his uncle, and then his daddy. That second gotta be broken. Because it is in that family. Right.

SPEAKER_05

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_00

It's in that family. So every family got different generation of curse. Right. You got some families very secretive. It depends on how they was raised. Whereas, okay, you're gonna say certain things, then you're gonna hold certain things in. To me, that's a generation of curse, too. When you know something in the family, but you're not gonna say nothing.

SPEAKER_03

Right.

SPEAKER_00

My grandma, my mama used to hide things from us. She didn't want, like people say, Well, how old are you? Oh, you can't I don't want to tell you how old I am. That's to me, that's secretive. Why you secret? I mean, that at that time they didn't believe in telling the age. That's how it was.

SPEAKER_02

Y'all don't do that now anyway.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, I do that. I'm proud to say how old I am, baby. I'm a proud 69, honey. I would tell them I'm seven, maybe seven this year.

SPEAKER_02

I'm about to say, 'cause some people don't like to say what their age is.

SPEAKER_00

Men and women, some women, some men don't like to say the age.

SPEAKER_02

Everybody, everybody don't like to say the age.

SPEAKER_00

I don't have no problem. I'm proud of it. Because you know why? I feel like the Lord spared my life to be here at that age. Everybody don't live to see that age. You got people die young. So I'm proud to say my age. I'm still standing. And I just feel like people that have secrets in their family, they need to, they need to break them secrets. I don't care what it's gonna take. Sit down and talk to your siblings, talk to your family, because it needs to be out. Everybody, like you said, everybody don't know about no generational curse. But every family got one. Every family done been through something with a generational curse and didn't realize they was they had a generational curse.

SPEAKER_02

Right.

SPEAKER_00

That's what it is. Nobody didn't know.

SPEAKER_02

So you got you got nine more ten more years to be the life expectancy.

SPEAKER_00

Ten more years?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, so the life expectancy in America is like 79 years old.

SPEAKER_00

For a woman.

SPEAKER_02

It's safe for everybody.

SPEAKER_00

Men and women? Yeah. 79. Okay. So how many more years do I got?

SPEAKER_02

10.

SPEAKER_00

I'm gonna be here longer than 10. I'm generational.

SPEAKER_02

I hope so.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I hope so too. But if I'm not, you remember your mama.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, you I mean you go you on the podcast now, so even if you go, AI is gonna take over your voice and it's gonna spread over the whole world.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, but um like I say, some families got one generation of curse, some some families got more than one. Yeah. And I feel like we got more than one. Mm-hmm in in my family. Okay?

SPEAKER_02

So um So but it's up to us to like figure out what it is and try to break it.

SPEAKER_00

Try to break it. Somebody needs to break it. Um when it comes down to people going to jail, that's a generational curse. My brother went to jail. Now he got two sons in jail. And he got a daughter in jail. So would that be a generational curse, you would say? Because he went. Now he got two sons in there. And he got a daughter in there. I don't think what about fighting? Fighting, just vi being violent. Because my brother used to be violent.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, I th I think being violent will be a generational curse.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, because his daughter fights.

SPEAKER_02

So what about his sons?

SPEAKER_00

They fight too. So that's a different thing.

SPEAKER_02

So what where that came from? Did okay so did did your dad used to fight?

SPEAKER_00

Nope.

SPEAKER_02

Did your mama used to fight?

SPEAKER_00

No.

SPEAKER_02

So where that fighting come from?

SPEAKER_00

Well, when you got a behavior problem, think about it now. You got a behavior problem.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

It don't have that that can come in, it can skip generation. You don't have to come on from the dad and mama. Right. It can fall. But you don't know where it came from the child. You don't know where it came from. Fighting?

SPEAKER_02

Just the No.

SPEAKER_00

I don't know where the where the violence comes from. Um, but I do know on my mama's side that it is behavior problems. I don't know if that causes the fighting, um, mental illness. I don't know.

SPEAKER_02

I think the f I think no, I don't think the fighting part is the is the curse.

SPEAKER_00

It's not a curse.

SPEAKER_02

I think the misbehaving is a curse, but the fighting was just uh a defense mechanism to how to cope with certain things.

SPEAKER_00

So your children would get that same thing and do the same thing and they can't cope with life periods.

SPEAKER_02

Right. So they only re they only result to fight no being violent. That's what I think. Okay. I don't because the fighting thing, I just think that's they that's their way of like defending uh defending, not defending themselves. It's it's a way of them to try to cope with what they got going on in them.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, gotcha. Okay. So when a person got something going on in them, instead of talking about it, they're gonna fight and be violent. The behavior changes. Okay. That's where the that's okay. That's kind of generation of curse. The child can't express itself. Maybe they need to have some kind of thing.

SPEAKER_02

Or not be not being not being able to know how to express themselves could be the curse. So they express themselves by fighting and being violent instead of talking to somebody.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_02

That could be the curse. Not you know, the being secret apart, not telling nobody nothing. Okay. That's the being secret.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, I don't know. That's that's what I was doing what that makes sense.

SPEAKER_00

Makes sense. But I just feel like a long time ago, everybody was raised different.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

And it was raised stupid to me.

SPEAKER_02

You said raised who?

SPEAKER_00

Stupid. They was raised stupid because I feel like when you have children, you're supposed to explain things to them so they can know what's going on when they get a certain age. Okay. So if you wasn't taught that when you was coming up, because it was so secret in the family, your mother and your father were secret, then how you gonna teach your children when you have kids? You can't teach them anything because you don't know nothing because your mother and your father was secreted. Or they didn't believe in, or they didn't talk to you.

SPEAKER_02

It's a lot of families like that.

SPEAKER_00

Like, yeah, but that was stupid. Again, because when you got children, how you gonna teach somebody that if you don't know nothing, you can't teach your children nothing. That's what I'm talking about.

SPEAKER_02

That comes from the generation before you. Because the generation before you when before me.

SPEAKER_00

Like my sister, my sister, my sister. No, like who before me?

SPEAKER_02

I guess your dad. Like your dad generation.

SPEAKER_00

My daddy wasn't like that. My mom was.

SPEAKER_02

I ain't seen it. Hold on. That generation.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

I feel like I don't I don't wanna say they didn't know how to like teach nobody, but they wasn't taught. They they wasn't taught, so they're not gonna teach their children because they wasn't taught by their parents.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, you see what I'm saying? Okay, now I agree with that when you're a certain age. When you are young and your parent if your parents didn't know how to teach, how to tell you different things. But when you become a young man, a man or a woman, that's when it's still your place when you have children. At least tell them something that you learn as you being adult.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, but what if if nobody taught them, they're not gonna taste it the ch the children, the child.

SPEAKER_00

No, no, no, no, no, no. I say once you become uh okay, your parents, my parents, I'm gonna use me for example.

SPEAKER_02

Use me for example. Or do you want me to use me for example?

SPEAKER_00

I'm gonna use me for example because my mother and my father didn't teach me anything.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so but you you still teach your children.

SPEAKER_00

I had to learn the hard way from the street or somebody older. Somebody taught me older. What I would learn thing I I taught somebody older.

SPEAKER_02

So since your parents didn't teach you nothing, are you teaching your children and stuff, right?

SPEAKER_00

Thank you. Okay, so so when you become an adult, it's no such thing because you wasn't taught, you don't tell your children.

SPEAKER_02

But you but that's two different people though. Like you you the way you taught the the way you was raised, it could be okay. Go ahead. The way you was raised was probably different from somebody else. But I guess that's just the person you are. Like you want your children to be good in the world, right?

SPEAKER_00

Well, first of all, if you're a person that don't talk and you don't say nothing, then you're not gonna say you're not gonna know nothing. You're not gonna know nothing. You're not gonna know a damn thing if you keep your mouth shut. Right. You learn from experience, you learn from talking, communicating. That's how you learn. Okay, when you just sit back and don't say nothing, it's like things. No. First of all, I was the type of person, I was observative and I like to talk.

SPEAKER_02

Right. So you're gonna eventually you're gonna teach your children something because even though you wasn't taught and you like to talk and you like to, you know, you like to share things with people. When you have children, you're gonna teach your children. Right. Whereas on the other end, the that person who who they they never taught them, like nobody never taught them. So they're not gonna teach nobody because they was never taught, but they also don't like to talk.

SPEAKER_00

But but when they become older, when they became a young man, you think don't you think they know it they learned something?

SPEAKER_02

They learned something, but I don't think they're gonna they I don't think they're gonna know how to teach the next day child.

SPEAKER_00

That's when you got a problem.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

That's a serious problem. Yeah, that's definitely a serious problem because my family, my parents didn't teach me nothing.

SPEAKER_02

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_00

When I got older, I started learning to do it.

SPEAKER_02

But you're different from that other person. You way different from the other person. Or maybe that other person just don't.

SPEAKER_00

I thank God.

SPEAKER_02

I may maybe that other person just not grown up yet or grew up yet. I don't know.

SPEAKER_00

It ain't gonna never grow up then. It's they're too old to grow up now. If they don't know, if they didn't learn nothing like uh then and and they don't know it now, they're never gonna learn. They're gonna stay down. So like I say, because first of all, when you become a certain age in your life, there are steps in life you take. There's there's things in life that you learn, you pick up. Because as you get older, you're not gonna stay in the kindergarten, you're not gonna stay in the first grader, you're gonna go up. You go up to higher grade. So those things, when you become when you first start walking, when you're first a child, you gotta crawl before you walk. So you start crawling, then you start walking or talking, and as you get older, you gotta go to your teen, your young, your youth, um, your child, then you go to your next stage. It's a it's uh a juvenile or teen. A juvenile to a teen. I'm gonna put it to a team. I'm gonna put it like a just say teenager. A teenager, you're gonna be a teenager. When you become a teenager, there's things you're gonna be wanna know. You're gonna be able to. You're gonna experience, are you gonna it's it's gonna you're gonna think about it. Right. And as you become a young man or a young woman, that's things gonna the body start changing. You your mind starts changing, you're gonna be different. So at some point in your life, you're gonna ask questions because if you don't know, you don't know. And a person that asked questions.

SPEAKER_02

So let me ask you this. If you don't know, what you gonna ask?

SPEAKER_00

If you don't know, okay, I'm gonna tell you what you're gonna ask. Because you're gonna experience something with your body, okay. Okay, if you if something starts bothering you with your body, you're gonna say something. You're not gonna keep like if you start burning below, you start you're gonna ask questions. Well, why is I'm burning?

SPEAKER_02

Right, but then you're gonna go to the doctor.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, so so don't talk about you can't you don't know what to ask. You know what to ask. Because when the body starts changing, you just question you're gonna have to be, well, why is why is I'm bleeding? Why is I'm showing this? Why is I'm constipated? Why is my stomach hurting? So you're gonna ask questions. Okay, if you're constipated or you or you're peeing, uh, or you're peeing on yourself in in bed or or anything, you're gonna ask questions. And no such thing, you're gonna just sit there and be in pain and and and you don't know what's going on.

SPEAKER_02

That is the if some people do.

SPEAKER_00

Well, guess what? That's the stupidest thing I ever heard. Because if something is hurting me, you're gonna go to the doctor.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, figure. I'm gonna ask questions. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

And there's such thing I'm gonna sit there and be hurting and don't say nothing. That's the stupidest thing I say again.

SPEAKER_03

Right.

SPEAKER_00

Um, if somebody asks me a question, if somebody asks me a question, I'm gonna find a way to find it with an answer with an to answer that question.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, now let me ask you this. Let me see if I can ask this question. Because I think this was the conversation you want me to write down that I didn't write down. So, uh teenage is, right? Teenagers. You you start you start being exposed to like sexual activity. Let's say 14, 15. Okay. You was never taught how to how to do nothing, right? Right.

SPEAKER_00

All of a sudden, um you get exposed to somebody older or no, not that. Not that part. Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_02

You meet a girl. The girl, she starts, she initiates the action. Okay. But you don't know what to do. Okay. Because you was never taught that. So at what age were was you supposed to be taught how to do things?

SPEAKER_00

With a girl. Yeah. Um, I feel like a young, a teenager, like 13 is very young.

SPEAKER_02

Who should initiate the conversation? The woman with the mom or the dad? Who should tell their child what to do during sex?

SPEAKER_00

It depends on if it's a girl or a boy.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so if it's a boy.

SPEAKER_00

The daddy.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

The daddy should should tell us what.

SPEAKER_02

At what age should the dad tell the son what to do?

SPEAKER_00

Puberty hair.

SPEAKER_02

Uh huh.

SPEAKER_00

When you have when you have puberty, when the boys you reach a certain pu uh thing, when boys reach a certain puberty. Okay. Start growing hair and and starting, I I I mean, I'm I'm gonna be, I'm gonna come straight out with you.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

When boys start that penis get hard.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. Well, my mama, I'm not gonna sugarcoat nut. I'm gonna go and tell you just like it is. When the boys start having penis and they like almost having erection, that's when uh that's when a man, somebody should say something. That's when you had it was your place to say something. Why is this happening to me? Because your body's changing. Right. It's like a woman when she becomes a young lady, she has a period. I didn't know nothing about that. So when I became a young lady, I Because you gotta think about this.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, I'm sorry, I ain't meant to cut it out, but it's like this. Like some certain uh girls, when they have periods, they they don't know what it is. They they think it's a one-time thing and it's over. Right, right. So they be in it, you know, they they be in the classroom sitting in the chair with the seat red, okay, all bloodied up.

SPEAKER_00

Right. And that's when the woman's supposed to be the tallest.

SPEAKER_02

So they so the woman's supposed to be telling her daughter.

SPEAKER_00

She's gonna become a young lady one day. One day you become a young lady, you're gonna have a period. Right. And that's how a man's supposed to tell a boy, one day you're gonna become a gentleman, and you're gonna have, you're gonna have erection, you're gonna have, okay? That's when a man's supposed to tell a boy. A woman telling a boy that it's not a good thing. I think a man should tell a boy that. And a woman should tell a girl. Because it don't look right. I mean, I don't know how to you might not like for a woman, you might not like for me to tell you about that.

SPEAKER_02

So, okay, so what if the dad not in the boy's life?

SPEAKER_00

If the dead night in the boy's life.

SPEAKER_02

Then the mama's gonna have to say something.

SPEAKER_00

The mama's gonna have to say something.

SPEAKER_02

Um, I mean, she's gonna have to do the best she can.

SPEAKER_00

The best, right?

SPEAKER_02

Or the man, the boy's gonna have to learn from his friends.

SPEAKER_00

Or the boy's gonna learn the whole way. But they got so much stuff on the app now about sex. So it's no such thing. You could have, you could, you could've Google that.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but I don't even think you could Google that because when boys Google that, they're gonna get addicted to porn. Because when you Google it, that you gonna, you know what I'm saying? It's gonna it's gonna turn into that.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. Um, another thing. There was, and when I was going to school, there was such educational classes.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, we didn't have that. I don't think that away with that.

SPEAKER_00

So we we had such educational sex educational classes, they had condoms, they used to give us condoms, and they used to give us, they used to tell us certain things. What happened when you be have sex? Okay, well, a woman could get pregnant, a young girl could young lady could get pregnant.

SPEAKER_02

That's another thing, because they never taught us that.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, they would tell you about that. It was called family plan. And used to, it was a family plan.

SPEAKER_02

That's part of home economics? No.

SPEAKER_00

No, that's it's part of your education. It's it's like it's almost like a PE. It's all that can fall on the PE. All that home economic home economics. No, sex education.

SPEAKER_02

What class was that they had to look you had to carry the baby around every every day? You had to carry a baby dog. That was home economics, wasn't it?

SPEAKER_00

That was sex education.

SPEAKER_02

That's not home egg.

SPEAKER_00

Home Mac is cooking and sewing. Cook home is cooking and sewing. So sex educational, that's what that was. They was trying to show at Riverdale, they had these girls walking around school with a baby.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I thought that was home economics.

SPEAKER_00

No, no, that was a sex, it had it had it been a sex educational class.

SPEAKER_02

They didn't do that while I was in school. That must have been before when I was in middle school.

SPEAKER_00

I don't know.

SPEAKER_02

Because I didn't see it.

SPEAKER_00

But see, we didn't carry no dog on baby though. They told us really the truth about what happened if you have sex with a boy if you get pregnant. And to protect yourself with condoms. Right. So those things we had in school, but they didn't really come out and say go have sex and all that. They didn't do all that.

SPEAKER_02

And they taught y'all about STDs and stuff?

SPEAKER_00

They said something about STDs when we were told about the condoms. Like, if you don't wear condoms, you can get AIDS. No, no, no, it wasn't AIDS then. It was uh uh HIV, Herpes, it was herpes and it was uh gonorrhea.

SPEAKER_04

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_00

It was gonorrhea and syphilis. Gonorrhea, syphilis, and herpes. Those were these was out. AIDS wasn't out then.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

So when AIDS came out, that's when um they start talking about AIDS and stuff like that. They had the educational, definitely uh, they was uh teaching people about AIDS because that was a serious disease. Yeah, but it was killing people. Right. Okay, so you penicillum um cured a lot of disease, but it didn't cure anything.

SPEAKER_02

That's the pink medicine.

SPEAKER_00

Penicillum.

SPEAKER_02

It's pink.

SPEAKER_00

But if it's a pill then, yeah. But penicillum, yeah, it's it's it's pink, right? But penicillum cure doesn't cure herpes. It put it in a remission where you, you know, it don't cure it. But when you get an S T D, penicillin will cure that. S T D name that when you say it? Uh chlamydia, yeah, it would it would cure that. It wasn't ki it didn't cure herpes and AIDS. So there was nothing to cure AIDS, AIDS would kill you. So that's that came out later. Uh uh is in it's your is your time. It's coming around your time.

SPEAKER_02

So this is No, it came out way before my time.

SPEAKER_00

Before your time, I'm just saying, but around my time there was no AIDS. Yeah. It was chlamydia, herpes, and uh STD, you know. Yeah. And when when boys got those, now when a boy got any one of them diseases, key talking, key talking. Their penis were burned when they pee. Okay, so my brother had it, and he didn't know what that was. So my daddy had to bring him to the doctor. He he was burning, it was junior. He didn't know what was what that was.

SPEAKER_02

What it was, chlamydia?

SPEAKER_00

He had STD. And he's his thing was uh dripping white stuff in there. Uh uh and and then he was pee when he peed with burning. Yeah. So my daddy brought him to the doctor. Now, did my daddy tell him about that? About sex?

SPEAKER_02

I don't think. Probably not.

SPEAKER_00

Probably not. But he did go to my dad and told me he was burning.

SPEAKER_02

At the last minute.

SPEAKER_00

When he was burning. But but but regardless, he still went to him. Like I said, when a when a person have something gone, it'd be maybe at the last minute. If you burning, you gonna sit there and don't say nothing? If you got a if you got crab.

SPEAKER_02

But don't you think a conversation was what should have been had before you started burning?

SPEAKER_00

It should have. Okay, it should have.

SPEAKER_02

But he know your your brother not gonna initiate the conversation. Your dad would have to come to him and like talk to him about that. Like sit him down.

SPEAKER_00

Well he did get, he did get it, he did get a chlamydia, he got something. But the thing was burning.

SPEAKER_02

But it was healable, right? Yeah, he got a little bit of a so he got chlamydia then, because chlamydia you can heal.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, he got he was healed, but he could have got herpes. Yeah, okay, but he got chlamydia because my daddy brought him to the doctor and they gave him some medicine and they went away because every time he kept going to bedroom, he was peeing. I mean he was burning real bad. And my daddy said, I'm son, I'm bringing you to the doctor. You're going to the doctor. He brought him to the doctor. And that's when he found out he had a STD.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

So that's one. I remember that. Now I don't remember anything else for my other brothers. If they had anything, you know. But I remember Junior. He was the one that got the first STD. He the youngest. No, he's not the youngest. He the oldest. He the oh Lord. He was the oldest. And I remember that. And my daddy brought him to the hospital. Charity Hospital, the one I was talking about. Yeah. It was a state hospital.

SPEAKER_02

What hospital I was born out of? Noah General? Charity?

SPEAKER_00

No, he was born at uh Turo.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, Two Row.

SPEAKER_00

He was born at Two Row Hospital on Petania.

SPEAKER_02

Gotcha.

SPEAKER_00

But what I'm saying, no, my daddy did not, he had three boys. He did not discuss to them about So that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_02

Like that generation before y'all, like that generation didn't say nothing to their children. Y'all had to learn on your own.

SPEAKER_00

And like I said, by me getting pregnant young, I didn't know nothing about that either. I got pregnant young. And I was too young to have a baby. But that's another uh conversation because I was my dad was raising me at the time. And um I regret. I I'm not sorry that I have children, I had children young. I regret that I started my life off with children that young. I regret that because that was too young. I didn't know nothing about no taking care of no baby and having a husband. I didn't know nothing about that. I was too young. So I I I I regret that that I went through that. But but I survived. I made it through it. I went through it and I don't think I don't think it's a regret.

SPEAKER_02

I don't think it's a regret. But it was something it wasn't.

SPEAKER_00

I because I could have did I I could have done something else better with my life than have a baby that young.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but you got a child. Yeah. Hey, look look at how your child came out.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

So you can't say that's a regret.

SPEAKER_00

Well, I feel like that.

SPEAKER_02

Okay.

SPEAKER_00

But okay. Um, but I'm I'm not sorry. I'm I have my children. I'm not sorry about that. Yeah. I'm just saying I just regret being so young because I was too young. I get what you're trying to say. That was too young. I didn't know.

SPEAKER_02

So at what age do you think a woman should have a child?

SPEAKER_00

I think a woman should have a child when she's about uh 30.

SPEAKER_02

In her 30s.

SPEAKER_00

Well, first of all, I don't think a woman should have no children until she have a deg have a degree or have a or have a life together. Have a life together. Don't have no children if you're making a if you're working 95 and you're making minimum wages. Because it's hard out here to have children and then be married. Because that's where your problem coming in.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Because the money ain't not right. There's not enough money in the house and you have a baby. No. I think a person should get married at 35.

SPEAKER_02

Married? I think a person should get married at like 40.

SPEAKER_00

Well, if you settle at 35, if you got your stuff together at 35, then yeah. Your life is together, I say 35. Okay. But I don't think a person should get married if they don't have their life together.

SPEAKER_02

Also, I don't think they need to get that. I don't think they need to get married to any just body. They need to find somebody who they they know they're compatible with.

SPEAKER_00

Compatible, right?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, and see if they can get along for the next three years or three, three to five years, and then get married.

SPEAKER_00

You got to be evenly yo. You everybody be want to date somebody, but they don't even compatible. They're not compatible. So what the hell? You always fight. You don't get alone. You don't like this, she don't like this. That is incompatibility.

SPEAKER_02

So how you feel about these other countries that they've they pick they they pick their children made.

SPEAKER_00

That is horrible. That is horrible. And majority of the time the child don't want to be married to them, and then they got some country, they pick old ass men with these young children.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Who wants to be with an old ass man and then young? That is the hard. That is horrible. Why would you send your child marry your child marry an old ass man? Your child is young and beautiful, and this man about the croak.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but he got money. That's probably why. Well, that's the only reason why.

SPEAKER_00

That to me, that that's the worst thing to do to a child.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, but if he died, then she get all the money that he got.

SPEAKER_00

Money is not all that. Yeah, but to them, that's everything. Well, to them, that's that's what that's that's what they look at. Money. Money to people do all kinds, say money, people do all kinds of things for money, okay?

SPEAKER_02

Did we talk is that what we want to talk about?

unknown

Uh uh. We just talk about it.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, we just talking, that's good.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so you want to talk about the money?

SPEAKER_00

Okay, go.

SPEAKER_02

Deuteronomy.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, go ahead.

SPEAKER_02

Is that what we want to talk about?

SPEAKER_00

We just say something about that.

SPEAKER_02

I don't know. I don't know if we talked about that or not.

unknown

I don't know.

SPEAKER_02

How in the Bible it said it's not money is the root of all evil. It's the the love, the things that you do for money is the root of all evil. Like if you do stuff bad for money, that's the evil.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, so that's why I always keep saying it's root money's root of all evil.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, it's not it's not that. It's the love for the money, it's the root of all evil.

SPEAKER_00

Well, you got a lot of people, it's the love for money, and it do some evil stuff. Yeah, it's a lot of people. Okay, it's like the dog on man marrying his daughter off with this old ass man, the daughter got married old man for money. That's evil. Is that evil? I'm asking that ain't her choice. That's compatible.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, what if that's not true?

SPEAKER_00

No, do you think they're compatible? Do you what a compatibility? This man is.

SPEAKER_02

They're not compatible, but if he was to die croak over, she get all his money.

SPEAKER_00

What about her love? What about her?

SPEAKER_02

I don't think they look at that. I don't I don't know. I'm talking about India people.

SPEAKER_00

What about her happiness? You think she's gonna be happy with the one I asked me about the croak? No, she's gonna be the miserable as hell. What what do you think? Okay, it's another question for you. Do you think how do you feel having 10 wives in one house?

SPEAKER_02

That's too much. That's too much.

SPEAKER_00

Ten wives in one house. How do you think you would like to?

SPEAKER_02

That's a headache.

SPEAKER_00

You got 10 wives and all these children, 20 children. What kind of life is that?

SPEAKER_02

So with 10 wives, is each woman doing something different, or are they all doing the same thing?

SPEAKER_00

They're all in one big house.

SPEAKER_02

I know, but are they do they all have a role in this house? Like, so like one washing dishes, one washing clothes, one cleaning the house, one uh sexually pleasing you?

SPEAKER_00

No, they he he got money. They got maid.

SPEAKER_02

That's what huh?

SPEAKER_00

He got a maid, they can go see.

SPEAKER_02

So the wife's not the maid.

SPEAKER_00

No, oh no, they got maids. They could they done he done paid money.

SPEAKER_02

Who you talking about?

SPEAKER_00

I'm just telling you. Oh, is it somebody?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, he's a he's um he has all these wives.

SPEAKER_02

And what do he do?

SPEAKER_00

He he's uh uh uh a tough one, uh he got an earl, he earl of an earl company. Oh, okay. Town, what you call it? I don't know what you're talking about. Well, anyway, he has money.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, so I so I don't know how that works. If if all of them gotta be doing something different in the house.

SPEAKER_00

Well, they all of them don't have to do nothing in the house like cleanup because they got made.

SPEAKER_02

So then what's the point of that?

SPEAKER_00

Somebody cooking and everything. So why you got all those wives?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, what's the point? Because I because I know having one girlfriend is already a headache. So why you got 10 of them?

SPEAKER_00

Good question.

SPEAKER_02

Unless they all doing something different in the house.

SPEAKER_00

I know they're all in one big house, and they all have to uh get along. Now that was all uh ladies, these are black and these African African, yeah. Their culture is totally different from us, and like I said, people say, oh, oh, they just like uh no, they're not because we don't believe first of all, you can't have that many wives in the United States, it's illegal. Yeah, so that right there, we're not the same because I would not tolerate that. I couldn't American women could not tolerate that. I I I couldn't. I wouldn't want that.

SPEAKER_02

I can't tolerate one girlfriend. Who maybe you think I want 10 wives?

SPEAKER_00

Thank you. That's not me. So I was asking you that question for that reason, see how you feel with that many wives.

SPEAKER_03

No, it ain't gonna work for me.

SPEAKER_00

Oh no. So I just feel like everybody do and it's and it's about money. You probably got money, that's why they did it. And the women have to get along. They got to they gotta be in one big happy family in one house. That would get on my damn nerves.

SPEAKER_02

Now, how you feel about a man having sex with 13 women to have 13 different kids.

SPEAKER_00

Ridiculous. And guess what? I couldn't be up in that one.

SPEAKER_02

Like, what's the point? I don't see the point.

SPEAKER_00

I don't see the point either. First of all, that's too many damn children.

SPEAKER_02

He done had sex with all these different women, that means all these different women have slept with that mean he slept, that means that means all these women slept with each other.

SPEAKER_00

Yes. Thank you. So think about it. If one of them had herpes or one of them had chlamydia.

SPEAKER_02

So that means all of them is spreading through each person. And now if they got a disease, the child getting got the disease they got born.

SPEAKER_00

Right. And just like if you if you got that many wives and somebody got AIDS, that child gonna have AIDS and you're gonna have AIDS and y'all gonna die. So that right there to be, that's too many partners. I don't see the point. What's the point of that?

SPEAKER_02

No, I don't either.

SPEAKER_00

I don't see the point of that because like I said, one person is enough. So why do you have to have that many partners?

SPEAKER_02

And then not even that. Even if, let's say you date somebody, right? And you and that person are not compatible, you don't like don't stay with that person.

SPEAKER_00

Get out of it.

SPEAKER_02

Get out of it and go find somebody new. There's millions of people out here.

SPEAKER_00

Right. So that part right there, but a lot, a lot of people, but you know what else I don't like? People be in a relationship, and when it ends, they want to kill up each other. Oh, yeah. That is horrible. That is horrible. Who wants to go sit in somebody to jail, killing up a man or a woman? That is crazy. Why? You could get out here and find somebody else. You that hurt.

SPEAKER_02

But a lot of people think they can't find nobody like that, like that person.

SPEAKER_00

Because you know why? If you have a low self-esteem, you're gonna be that way.

unknown

Dang.

SPEAKER_00

If you have a low self-esteem, you're gonna be that way. And that's why people go out there and run behind the man and run behind the woman and see who they know they have OJ car chases on the highway. It's time to move on, honey. Life goes on, okay? They got more fishes. You ever heard they got more fishes in the sea? They got more fishes in the sea.

SPEAKER_02

So But they they thought they found Nemo.

SPEAKER_00

Well, Nemo is gone to find out what's the other fish name, maybe that girl fish name, or he's gonna find her?

SPEAKER_02

Dory.

SPEAKER_00

Dory, he's gonna find Dory.

SPEAKER_02

So So if you lost if you lost Nemo, you can find Dory.

SPEAKER_00

Go find, go find yourself. More than one, go find your Dory. Now, now another thing. Anybody that's in a relationship, and when they end the relationship and they hurt, don't go in and get in another relationship. Get out.

SPEAKER_02

No, but hold on. How you feel about how you feel about somebody going into a new relationship, they ending it and they're going back to the old relationship before the one that ended.

SPEAKER_00

They're not even gonna be in it right. That's for a purpose. It's a purpose why they're going back. First of all. You've been hurt, you ain't gonna go back into it. Right. So they it it's more to that. Okay. Um, then you got people get into a relationship with somebody, and then they've been in a bad relationship, but they want to bring that whole old relationship to a new relationship. Oh, yeah. That is the worst thing to do. To bring uh a relationship into a new relationship. That's the worst thing to do. Yeah, because you haven't got over that first relationship. It's time for you to get out of that one first. You need to get out of that one first before you go into another one. Because what you're doing, you you still hurt. And you're gonna bring all that to another relationship, and that person could be the best person for you, but you bringing that to another relationship, and you're gonna mess up.

SPEAKER_02

No, okay, this is the last one, then we're gonna end it. This is this is another situation.

SPEAKER_00

So you're into relationship today for some reason.

SPEAKER_02

No, this notion is.

SPEAKER_00

Well, we're into a lot of different conversations.

SPEAKER_02

This has only been, what, 10 minutes since we talk about relationships?

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, so check this out. What if a woman is married to a man? Or let's say the woman is committed to a man, not married. They've been, they've been they've been together for like, what, four years? Or let's say they've been together for a year or two. They've been together for a year or two, but the man can't please the woman because he got a medical condition. But the woman goes out and try to find somebody else to mess with. So now she got two boyfriends.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

Do you think that's that's doable?

SPEAKER_00

I think that's wrong because she needs to leave the man who got a condition of.

SPEAKER_02

Well, okay, so what if he got money? And the other man that she's dealing with, it could could sex could please her sexually.

SPEAKER_00

Well, she got a motive then. That's that's two different things. Well, you got two men, one could please you, and one got money. Right. So, which one you are you not in love with either one?

SPEAKER_02

No, she's just trying to do things for her own motive. So she's with one man for financial reasons and then the other man for Well, how you how you think the man feel?

SPEAKER_00

You think the man is it's for the same thing?

SPEAKER_02

Exactly.

SPEAKER_00

He's gonna feel something totally different. He's trying to feel something for you, and you worrying about money, and you're worrying about sexual. So if he can't give you the whole package deal, then you won't need to be with him. You don't need to be with him at all. Get out, get out.

SPEAKER_02

Like, go find you somebody who could do both.

SPEAKER_00

Finding somebody that could do both, right? Like don't get in somebody, don't get in a relationship with somebody that got a medical problem, and then you got somebody that got money. You out there for what? What you doing? Because you're gonna run out with something. Keep on. You're gonna get caught with something, keep on messing with these men. Because if if he can't please, you're gonna go to somebody else.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, you might end up with HPV.

SPEAKER_00

AIDS. No, I know HPV A's and penicillum don't work with that. You're gonna die. So all that fooling around, they got so many people, got so many messing around with different people, multiple partners. That is nasty, and that's why you get you wanna know how you get people get AIDS and pass it on. Keep on having sex with all these different people. Okay, you got people that's that's not that's not like that, that's having sex with everybody, but you are, but then you bring in all this to all these people, all this disease around and around different people because you having sex with all these different people. So that tells me right there, you got women like that and you got men like that.

SPEAKER_02

It's majority of women though, because women men but doing it too. I'm gonna say, I know I'm gonna say this. Women in Georgia, they don't know they they be so confused they don't know what they want to do. So when one when one when one man's not giving them what they want, they go find another one and keep both of them at the same time.

SPEAKER_00

These women in Georgia need to go to the Epstein Island. They need to go to the Fall. The women in Georgia need to go to the Epstein Island where they got all these men that's giving them got money for them, and they're gonna turn them out like they want. Okay, they want the money, go to the Epstein Island. Lord that's where these women need to go. That's where all the money, the billionaires at go to the Epstein Island. Y'all women in Georgia, y'all want money? They're gonna you're gonna have all kinds of money. They're gonna turn you out with a lot of money, they're gonna have you go, oh honey, gonna have you a lot of money.

SPEAKER_02

Can I tell you the Epstein Island joke? Yeah, what does Epstein call us island? Kid Rock.

SPEAKER_00

Who?

SPEAKER_02

Kid Rock. Um, it's a white joke. People think it's funny, but I I when I heard it, it was funny, but you never heard it.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I think this is gonna be a good one. All the women in Georgia need to go to the Epstein Island. That's that's that's what they need to do. They want some money. Epstein got a bunch of money. There's billionaires over there. Y'all can get a lot of money. That's where y'all need to go at.

SPEAKER_02

I don't think the island is up no more.

SPEAKER_00

Well, guess what? Then they gonna need somebody gonna make an island, they're gonna have a black island eventually. Just wait, just wait, just wait one minute, ladies from Georgia. They're gonna have another island built with all the black billionaires. So be ready. You're gonna have all the money, you get all the nails and the hair and all the cars y'all want. So be ready.

SPEAKER_02

You done?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

All right, thank y'all for listening to this episode. This is funny. Thank you for listening. All right, stay tuned for the next episode.

SPEAKER_06

Thank y'all.

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