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EP. 28 Aliens vs robots?? Our family's generational curse; how we all were raised
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Um welcome to another episode of the peas in the bucket. Why can't sound like that? Wait, hold on.
SPEAKER_00Like a little bit.
SPEAKER_01Like a little. What is that?
SPEAKER_00Hold on.
SPEAKER_02What is his name? The chipmunk?
SPEAKER_00No, it's not a guy. What's his name?
SPEAKER_02Why did it do that?
SPEAKER_00You still hear it?
SPEAKER_02Welcome welcome to Peace. I'm keeping that in there. That was weird.
SPEAKER_00I'm like, what? Sound like Kevin Hart.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. It is. That's what it's out of.
SPEAKER_00We start talking, it sounded like Kevin Hart.
SPEAKER_02Anyway, yeah, so welcome to another episode of Peace in the Bucket Podcast. Um, oh, how you doing? Let's talk about how you doing every time.
SPEAKER_05How you doing?
SPEAKER_02Good. We had a so it's a lot of things going on in the world, but we're not gonna let it, you know, hinder what we do. You know, we we come here to try to bring positivity. Is it too loud? Oh, okay. We come here to bring positivity and try to, you know, steer you away from what's going on in the world. So here we are, and we got a lot of things to talk about. So even though they got corrupt, not corruption, is it corruption you want to call it in the world? It's a lot of things going on in the world.
SPEAKER_00Confusion, corruption. It's a lot.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00The world is upside down right now. Right. So um it's turned.
SPEAKER_02But we're not gonna hinder that, hinder what we came in to do, which is entertaining.
SPEAKER_00No, it's not, right.
SPEAKER_02So we we came in to make y'all laugh and I guess give y'all stories too.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_02Well, she got stories. Yep. So um we at war.
SPEAKER_00We at war.
SPEAKER_02Let's go. We at war.
SPEAKER_00Who's at war?
SPEAKER_02United States and who else?
SPEAKER_00Not we. United States is at war. Oh, they at war. Not we. Stop saying we, because we are not, we didn't ask for the war.
SPEAKER_02I mean, but when you say us, it's no, we are not.
SPEAKER_00It's United States at war. We part of United States. With who? I'm not. I'm not in the I'm not in no way.
SPEAKER_02So where are you from?
SPEAKER_00I'm I'm in right here in um Riverdale. It's in Atlanta. In Atlanta. It's in the United States. Again, we did not ask for the war. I'm not at war. We we are not at war. You're not at the end.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so the white people are at war.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. All your politicians and all your billionaires at war. Okay. Okay. We just rephrase that. Because we're not at we not at war. No, we are at war. With these high-ass gas prices and high food prices going up and they messing with the food. Yeah, we at war.
SPEAKER_02So with with that being said, I had a solution to the war. Instead of them, you know, having a draft, I think Elon Musk needs to build a lot of robots and fight in war.
SPEAKER_00They could be the that's right. It'd be part of United States military. They could be the robots. The robots could be army, navy. You could put anyone you want. That's who needs to go at war. Leave our black men alone. Not even our young men too.
SPEAKER_02No, just just citizens, period.
SPEAKER_00Citizens, leave them alone.
SPEAKER_02Because if they do a draft, they're gonna put anybody in the in the war. And I don't think we need that. We don't need a lot of people dying.
SPEAKER_00So uh I and I must start making some more robots. You make you making them to serve food and you're making them go in these restaurants. Now you need to make something to go at war. We need some military robot for the fight this war in Iraq.
SPEAKER_02Now, what about military policemen?
SPEAKER_00Military policemen, if they gotta go to Iraq, send them, get make something for that too.
SPEAKER_02Now, I know y'all got a history of making them making the robots run and fall. When they be running, they be falling. So yeah, make sure these robots are strong and they know how to defend the country.
SPEAKER_00Yes. If not, y'all really gonna be at war.
SPEAKER_02Huh?
SPEAKER_00And they're gonna really be at war with no no um military. Because they're gonna have robots.
SPEAKER_02I know, but that's the that's that's uh military.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_02That's supposed to be the military, it's gonna be the robots.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Eli Musk, get to work, please. Make some more uh robots for the uh fight Iraq, please. We need some fly fly planes. We need to make a uh on the fight fly the planes, want to go into the uh the submarines to go in the water for your navy.
SPEAKER_02So we need some so you know if you do that, you're gonna take like a lot of jobs from people that's you know that actually do that. Like the people that's in the submarine.
SPEAKER_00That's okay. That's who needs to go to war. They need to make them to go to war.
SPEAKER_02What the robots?
SPEAKER_00The innocent um put people don't need to be going to war.
SPEAKER_02I know. So what you gonna do about the people that got jobs that do that?
SPEAKER_00They can take a break, go on vacation. Take a vacation, go on break. They need to go on break. They probably stretched out anyway with the military.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So let them take a break and get the robots to do everything they did.
SPEAKER_02What has been going on? Oh, the airports.
SPEAKER_00The airport then had two bombs. One in New York.
SPEAKER_02No, they had well, it was not a bomb. Stop saying it was a bomb.
SPEAKER_00Oh, the threat, bomb threat.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, it was they say it was a bomb threat, but the first man said he was setting his timer because he wanted to pray at a certain time.
SPEAKER_00He happened to be and they arrested him off the plane, they put they took him off the plane. Yeah, they didn't arrest him though. They took him off the plane in Georgia. Yeah. New York.
SPEAKER_02Well, I I you gotta talk about that one. I ain't hear about that one.
SPEAKER_00I don't know about that one. I heard about it. Okay. They had a bomb threat in New York. That's all I heard. I didn't hear anything else like the one here in Georgia.
SPEAKER_02But it seemed like what was that last year when they had all them planes fall out of the sky? Mm-hmm. It's like lately you ain't seen no plane fall of the sky.
SPEAKER_00I wonder why. But they're still on, they're still on furlough.
SPEAKER_02Uh huh.
SPEAKER_00Uh federal, I mean everybody, all you federal government employees, they're still on furlough.
SPEAKER_02On what?
SPEAKER_00Furlough.
SPEAKER_02What is that?
SPEAKER_00They're um they're not um they're not working.
SPEAKER_02So what you call it?
SPEAKER_00Furlough.
SPEAKER_02Furlough. I don't know what that is. You know what it is. I ain't never heard that.
SPEAKER_00They're on um, what what it what what what what now what happened?
SPEAKER_02The government shut down. So they're not getting paid. They're not getting paid.
SPEAKER_00That's what I'm gonna say. The government shut down. They had a government shutdown last year, now they got a government shutdown this year.
SPEAKER_02Can you do me a favor? Can you chew your food and eat before you start talking about microphones?
SPEAKER_00I'm sorry. I'm so sorry.
SPEAKER_02If y'all want to know she's eating Chick-fil-A, they ain't their business. Well, okay. Don't eat on the microphone.
SPEAKER_00I'm finished.
SPEAKER_02All right. What else has been going on? Oh, you heard about the school shooting there? I think so. I don't I I I was listening to it this morning, but somebody had um drove their truck in the school, like in a college.
SPEAKER_00Mm-mm. I just heard about those those teenage girls that jumped one girl, Jada.
SPEAKER_02Oh, you talk about the black girl who got jumped in uh Villarica? Villarica in Douglasville.
SPEAKER_00Yes, and um, this girl's been was bullying her for a long time. The daddy and mom went to the school and reported all that, but this was really sad because she was she was new in the area. She was new in the area, you knew it was a little bit of a ship. But she didn't have no friends. No friends. So these girls was start bullying on her, start bullying her rather.
SPEAKER_02I feel like it's most of that story.
SPEAKER_00Well, if they got off the bus at the same bus stop.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but it I this this is what I don't believe. So I used to go to school. I don't believe kids will pick on some a a new person just because they knew in the area.
SPEAKER_00So you think it's more too?
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02Like, I don't know if like the girl trying to be friends with them, but she won't be their friends, and then they felt some type of way.
SPEAKER_00She just started in the school in the school. That's what I'm saying. Oh, what about a boy? Could it be a boy?
SPEAKER_02Oh, she probably like one of their boyfriends.
SPEAKER_00Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_02It could be anything. It's just most of that story that they're not saying.
SPEAKER_00But the part that got me, it was three of them jumped her.
SPEAKER_02Well, yeah. Usually when you when you got a lot of friends at your school and that wasn't, but that wasn't fair though.
SPEAKER_00That's that she didn't have a chance. Because what happened, it was they just kept on following her. She said, Y'all want some of this? So, you know, it's like the way the way it happened.
SPEAKER_02But think about this. When you used to go to school, y'all used to have a lot of fights. We had a lot of people. So when y'all got into a lot of fights, it it was it always one-on-one?
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_02So people always jumped in, right? That's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_00Right, right.
SPEAKER_02It is it's always like that. It ain't never fair.
SPEAKER_00Because when I was going to Booger T, there was five girls gonna jump me. And they said, three o'clock, we're gonna get you on a on a black, gonna see you on a black top. Okay. And it was five of them gonna jump me. So Mavis and Sheila said if they're gonna fight you, they're gonna fight you one by one. We will be there on a black top.
SPEAKER_02So who won?
SPEAKER_00The girls didn't show up. I wasn't by myself.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. Oh, they wanted you by yourself. Since you weren't by yourself, they they didn't show up.
SPEAKER_00They didn't show up. Because they heard the word the word got out. Booger team, Calio project. Yeah, but the word got out that if you're gonna fight them, you're gonna fight them one by one.
SPEAKER_02That's fine.
SPEAKER_00They're not gonna jump you because they're jumping, we're gonna jump in. Right. So that that was my that's how it was when I was coming up.
SPEAKER_02Every time I seen the fight at Riverdale, it was never one-on-one. People always used to jump in.
SPEAKER_00Wow, on one person?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, not even on one person.
SPEAKER_00It's gonna be a group.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, it's always a group because when when it's one-on-one, this group fighting this group. Oh, they try to fight this one person, but then they group come in and start fighting each other.
SPEAKER_00Well, this girl was by herself with three girls. And like I say, by her being. So and like I said, she had she died? She died.
SPEAKER_02Oh Lord.
SPEAKER_00She died. She hit her head on the concrete. It's something to do with the um brain. Her brain was dead. Yeah, she died. She she had the fight with that Thursday. She died that Sunday in the hospital. They had her, yeah, rest in peace. Rest in peace to her. Rest in peace, Jay. My heart go out to you and um your family.
SPEAKER_02You've been talking about that all week.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, because it bothered me because I saw it. It's been, it's like, she's only 12. She didn't have a chance. 12?
SPEAKER_02That's that middle school?
SPEAKER_00Middle school. It's middle school. And so she didn't have a chance.
SPEAKER_02So that means them other children that jumped on her, they're gonna get charged like an adult.
SPEAKER_00They're gonna be charged on the dog. I I hope they do. Now, if they don't have no pictures, no evidence. No, somebody was some one of them, her friend was recording it.
SPEAKER_02Who?
SPEAKER_00Uh uh uh her friend, they got a one of who friends? Jada.
SPEAKER_02So she do got friends. So why was she recording her? No, no, no, not her friend. Oh.
SPEAKER_00One of them recorded it. Oh, okay, I got you. One of them recorded it. Right there, she's gonna be involved with recording. And those other girls that jumped her, they're gonna charge them.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_00Just like they charge them them boys with that little girl. Three black boys with that little girl. They charge them with as an adult.
SPEAKER_02What are you talking about? This is another story.
SPEAKER_00It's another story.
SPEAKER_02I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_00But anyway, I saw that too. But he they they're gonna charge him. They had them um in the court right now. They were 12, 13, and 14.
SPEAKER_02And how old was the girl? Eight. Eight.
SPEAKER_00Yep. But they say that she was twelve, but she was eight. Yeah. The girl lived though. She lived.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, where was that?
unknownI don't know where was that.
SPEAKER_00Well, how could I find out? I I that's another story that I kept following too. I was following that one. And this one here with Jada. Oh my God. That was so sad.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I remember about the one in Jada.
SPEAKER_00I ain't hear about the one that got it was three bla three black boys.
SPEAKER_02I can't say that one.
SPEAKER_0013, 14, 15. And they're gonna be tried as an adult. Yeah. Mm-hmm. They they they didn't quote right now. They showed them right now. So that's another story. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Who you think will win in the fight in the war? Aliens or robots?
SPEAKER_00Who I think will win?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, aliens or robots.
SPEAKER_00Robots.
SPEAKER_02Why?
SPEAKER_00Because they're gonna have them build them. They're gonna build them strong.
SPEAKER_02So what about aliens?
SPEAKER_00Aliens.
SPEAKER_02Now think about this aliens. You don't know what they got.
SPEAKER_00Don't know what they have. But the robots are strong. They're making them what they can do.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but what if they got aliens that is stronger than the robots?
SPEAKER_00Well, that's gonna be a tough one. What you think about who if you if they put um TI and 50 Cent in the ring, who you think will win?
SPEAKER_02Lloyd.
SPEAKER_00That's a good one now.
SPEAKER_02Everybody would say I don't I don't think we need to talk about that. Oh because that that could for real get bad. Okay. On both sides. Who you okay, who you think then? Since you won't be dramatic.
SPEAKER_00Who I think will win? Yeah. T.I. son.
SPEAKER_02No, that's not that so that's not the question you asked. You say who will win the ring between T.I. and 50 Cent.
SPEAKER_00Who will win the ring? I don't know TI and 50 Cent.
SPEAKER_02That's what you said.
SPEAKER_00Uh that's gonna be a hard one. I I don't know if 50 Cent could fight. I don't know. I think I know T.I. can fight. Because he came out the hood. 50 Cent, I don't know nothing about him. So he might lose. I think I think But you gotta think about this.
SPEAKER_02TI is too old now.
SPEAKER_0050 Cent old too. They're about to say. Yeah, but 50 Cent works out. Oh. And T.I.
SPEAKER_02I don't think T.I. works out like that.
SPEAKER_00Well, King could take his place.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so you wanna do King versus 50 Cent?
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Who you think? Uh out of them two.
SPEAKER_02King is still a little boy.
SPEAKER_00But he's but he's younger. He's much younger than 50 Cent now. I think he can take 50 Cent down because he's younger. I don't think I don't know if he worked out now. I don't think he just made a little baby. That's it.
SPEAKER_02I don't I don't think we need to get into that.
SPEAKER_00Okay, but anyway, I have this feeling.
SPEAKER_02If they really was to get into a fight, it'll be bad. That's why they don't that's probably why they don't want to do verses because they know it's gonna get bad.
SPEAKER_00Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_02Epstein, not Epstein.
SPEAKER_00Oh Epstein, I'm so I'm I'm I'll be glad when they do something with this case. I'd be so cuz I'm I'm I'm sick of hearing about Epstein and the children and the island that he's still alive and oh Lord, he's not really dead. He got on another island. I tell you what.
SPEAKER_02Somebody said a stupid joke about Epstein.
SPEAKER_00What'd it say?
SPEAKER_02No, no, they they said um that picture you showed me. What picture? Oh, the $20 bill.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_02So check this out. If y'all got a $20 bill, look at a $20 bill and then look at a picture of Epstein. Tell me that don't look like Jeffrey Epstein.
SPEAKER_00A $20 bill.
SPEAKER_02The new $20 bill.
SPEAKER_00That head, that head look like they got the same head shape and nose and everything.
SPEAKER_02And mouth.
SPEAKER_00It looked like Epstein.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00That was everything.
SPEAKER_02If you look at a real picture of like Andrew Jackson, the real president who's supposed to be on a $20 bill, it don't look nothing like him.
SPEAKER_00It looked like Epstein to you? It looked more like Epstein. That little funny head. I know that. I see the head after him. Interesting. On a $20 bill. $20 bill. Hmm. Anything about Jess McCrocker? You heard anything about her?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, she lost. She was running for what? Senate? Senate something in Texas, but she lost. She lost to another Democrat. It was like a Democratic run for a Senate.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02It was between her and some white man, and the white man won. They don't want no black woman in power nowhere.
SPEAKER_00Because they speak out.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And they're very outspoken. And then when they do speak, they speak the truth. That's number one. Yeah. And men don't like women to be over them.
SPEAKER_02Not even that. I just don't. I just don't think a lot of white people like when black people is outspoken. Not just what women too, but they don't like when black black people is outspoken.
SPEAKER_00That's correct. They think we are smart niggas. Yeah. And I feel like we are smart. Smarter than them. Yeah. But they don't like that. They won't give us that credit. So she wasn't going to win because she's an outspoken. Right. So she wasn't going to win. I thought she was.
SPEAKER_02She was winning at one point, but then it's the next day she said she lost. I don't understand that.
SPEAKER_00That's interesting. Well.
SPEAKER_02Like I don't know. They they probably done cheated.
SPEAKER_00They probably cheated.
SPEAKER_02They'll find ways for her to lose.
SPEAKER_00Mm-hmm. They probably added some more people in their voting poll and they changed the numbers and put paper. Yeah, yeah. Like I said, sometimes when it comes down to voting, it doesn't make sense if they're going to cheat. We shouldn't even have to vote if they're going to cheat. I don't see no purpose of voting, I'm saying. Excuse me. I don't see no I don't see no purpose of I don't see no purpose of voting if they're going to cheat. Okay. Okay. So that right there is a waste of time. And I just feel like play fair. Play fair.
SPEAKER_02I wouldn't say it's a waste of time. It's just that more people need to go vote.
SPEAKER_00Well, they need to be packed fair though. They still need to go be fair with us. Yeah. We got a president, we didn't vote for them. Okay, so I'm just saying.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but a lot of people did. I'm just a lot of people voted for me. A lot of people voted for him, but a lot of people didn't vote at all.
SPEAKER_00And that's where the votes went. Yeah. Okay. That makes sense. Yeah. The absentee voters went to him. Yeah. But um, the Latinas still out there want us to come out there. It's not our fight, darling. I'm sorry. We're not coming out. It's like we're not gonna do this war. We didn't ask for that neither. We didn't ask for this, and we are not getting involved. We done did our share.
SPEAKER_02I'm trying to wait till you get done talking about politics.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Also, let me tell y'all something. Everything is gone is going up so damn high. I think it's ridiculous. The gas is going up. Oh Lord. The food is going up. But I still gotta eat. But it's okay. We gotta say, I'm here. We're gonna we're gonna make it. We're gonna make it. Okay. So we we we're not gonna talk about it.
SPEAKER_02I know we're gonna make it. Why you say like we not?
SPEAKER_00Well, you say, oh, I don't know, about a month. That's all about okay. So anyway.
SPEAKER_02I I haven't been working in the past, what, three days now? Two days. This whole week I ain't been working. You work. This is the whole week I've been working.
SPEAKER_00You work Monday?
SPEAKER_02Sunday. Sunday. Sunday I came back Monday. So Monday when they told me I had to take the physical.
SPEAKER_00Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. So you're on vacation. You on vacation and enjoy your vacation. That's what you do.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. So I gotta figure out what I want to do. I want to go to New Orleans while I'm on vacation.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_02Speaking of New Orleans, you want to talk about uh voodoo and generational curse?
SPEAKER_00Yes, let's do that.
SPEAKER_02Alright. So we already had a conversation about generational curse in the previous episodes, but you know, you got stories that you want to talk about as far as generational curse.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02So generational curse.
SPEAKER_00I feel every family have a generational curse. Right. Every family do have that.
SPEAKER_02So you want to talk about what you saw as far as our family having generational curse?
SPEAKER_00Okay. I feel like.
SPEAKER_02So you want to talk about the uh the snake lady?
SPEAKER_00Uh I feel like so when you when you you can say names.
SPEAKER_02I'm just gonna bleep it out.
SPEAKER_00Okay. I feel like let me start with Okay. Because he's the first grandson, and I'm gonna tell you something about him. I feel like there was some courage brought to him.
SPEAKER_02You can say names. It's okay.
SPEAKER_00Alright. I feel there was a generational courage brought to on him because on his daddy's side, they believe in voodoo. When my sister got pregnant for him, he was married. Mama. With another woman. With another woman. He was married with another woman and had children. She had children for him at the time.
SPEAKER_02And the woman is the one who does voodoo on her side.
SPEAKER_00Oh, on her side was her, it was her mother. Right, okay. The girl, okay, the wife, mother, was to do voodoo. So his mama-in-law. His mother-in-law. Gotcha. So she did voodoo. So what I saw because of that, that's evil. And I just feel like there was something brought on to because of that. If my mother said leave him alone, she didn't do that. She was, she was disobedient. Right.
SPEAKER_02So you're trying to say your mama, so she saw something in him that she told to leave him alone. Right.
SPEAKER_00But she didn't. She didn't. She got pregnant for him at 18 and he was already married.
SPEAKER_02So when did K have his uh MD?
SPEAKER_00He stopped walking at nine. Nine years old? Nine years old. Okay. But at birth, he used to walk around. And when he got when he got to be nine, um, he started walking. They took him to Walter L. Reed Hospital. He used to fall down a lot. So they went to Walter L. Reed Hospital in DC and they cut a muscle out the back of his leg. And they said that he has MD. That is not on and and and the doctor said this is a white disease and it fell on the daddy.
SPEAKER_02So the so hold on, his mama was white? Uh the mama.
SPEAKER_00Somewhere down the line they had white in the family.
SPEAKER_02From the mama-in-law.
SPEAKER_00From on his daddy's on his from his side. So his mama's side. So his wife is one thing and him is another thing.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00So if the mother-in-law believed in voodoo, there's something she could have put in on him through generations. Through generation. Right, right, right, right. Like I said, she was he was married to her already before. And when he got pregnant for him, he was already married. So he he couldn't marry her.
SPEAKER_02But okay, so you wanna know what the what the crazy thing is? Never had children. So that that generational thing kinda died out.
SPEAKER_00Okay, okay.
SPEAKER_02And then never had no more children.
SPEAKER_00No, she had no more children.
SPEAKER_02So was pretty like he was like the last one.
SPEAKER_00He was the first grandson. He was the oldest.
SPEAKER_02He was also the last one.
SPEAKER_00He was the last one. So he his side, he couldn't, he couldn't he couldn't carry on that name. Right. Because he was the only boy. That that name died. Yeah. But but um, like I said, people do things to cause evil into families. And and and it works. Voodoo works. Yeah. Voodoo works.
SPEAKER_02It works if you're deep in it.
SPEAKER_00If you're deep in it, we don't know how I don't know how deep she was in it, but I do know my mother said leave him alone. Right. And she didn't. And when you be disobedient to your parents, that's even worse. Honor thy mother and thy father. So when you just when you did that, that was a curse right there, brought on you. Because you didn't do that. You left you still mess with him. And if she would have, if she left him alone, I don't think she'd have had a child like that. I don't think she would have had a child like that.
SPEAKER_03Interesting.
SPEAKER_00I really don't. So I feel like the curse from the curse came down generation from him.
unknownYes.
SPEAKER_02From his mom-in-law.
SPEAKER_00Yes.
SPEAKER_02Well, it's that's not from him, that's his mama-in-law. This thing comes from him.
SPEAKER_00Not mom-in-law, mother-in-law. Same thing. What?
SPEAKER_02It's the same thing.
SPEAKER_00No, it's not. Mama in law. Okay, mom in law. If you say mom-in-law, it's it's the same thing. Okay, so I feel like that generation curse came down. From his mom-in-law. All right. And his daughter asked since he's been dead. What happened to your mother? And didn't your mother, your grandmother did voodoo? That's why that's why I said she he she asked his daughter that right.
SPEAKER_02And what she said.
SPEAKER_00She said, I was young. I don't know nothing about that.
SPEAKER_02So wait, so is the mama still alive?
SPEAKER_00Her mama dead.
SPEAKER_02Oh, okay. So when did she die?
SPEAKER_00He died before.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00So I'm saying something new for her to ask this girl that this girl was a child.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So why would you bring this up now? What happened between and your your daddy and your and her and your mama? Right. She she actually since since been dead. So to me, that's something she knew.
SPEAKER_02So do you think that energy rubbed off on I th I feel so.
SPEAKER_00I think so. I think so. I think some of the voodoo did because for her to bring it up, dead. Why you bringing it up now about what not even.
SPEAKER_02I'm just talking about like her because growing growing up, she was always like stand out.
SPEAKER_00I think I think I think it's in her. Yeah. I think she got something.
SPEAKER_02Because she never wanted to be around nobody.
SPEAKER_00She didn't want to be around her family. She didn't like her family. And anytime, anytime a person has something against their family for no reason, something wrong. Right. And she's the oldest out of seven of us. Right. And she have never she had something with she had something against all of us. Because she would talk to one and stop talking to somebody. You know, the thing she did is to tell me it was evil.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_00And so right now, her husband's going and her son's going. So she's by herself now. So it's like, okay, so why are you asking this girl this her daddy's dead? He was young. And to me, that's to me that's something that's a generational encouragement, I would say. Because it was seven of us, all of how many was it?
SPEAKER_02You Oh he's about to cut like y'all. Yeah. All y'all sibling sons.
SPEAKER_00Right. All our siblings' sons never had that disease.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00So I feel that was a generation of curse.
SPEAKER_02From his side. From his side.
SPEAKER_00And it fell on my it fell on him.
SPEAKER_02Gotcha. That's okay. You told me another story about your other sister. So that you're gonna cut that out. I'm gonna cut it out.
SPEAKER_00Um her husband.
SPEAKER_02So he he said you said he was he was messing with a dancing lady?
SPEAKER_00A a snake lady.
SPEAKER_02No, no, you said had a snake lady.
SPEAKER_00No, no, no, no, no, no. I have no snake lady.
SPEAKER_02No, the mama in law was a snake lady.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. No, no. Was dating a snake lady.
SPEAKER_02Okay. You said dancing lady.
SPEAKER_00No. What she was dancing with a snake. It's okay. She was a dance with a snake. Okay. The lady danced with a s okay. Had a girlfriend. That does with dance with a snake. Okay. Okay. Now don't mix that up now. Two different things. I know. Okay. So he he was dating a snake lady. He was dating a lady that danced with a snake.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00Snake is evil, number one. Um, I feel like my sister was very educated. She had a degree into business and she was very smart. And the thing she started doing, I just thought it was evil. And I felt like that came along down the road road with the snake lady. Put in my sister's home.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00Because of her husband messing with her snake lady.
SPEAKER_02So while he was messing with a snake lady, she he was also talking to your sister.
SPEAKER_00They was married.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so he was married and he was still talking to your sister.
SPEAKER_00Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Because they went to school together. Okay. I didn't know that. I found that out later. Right. When he when she came to the funeral. The snake lady went to school with her to cover her. And the snake lady, when it wasn't there, used to go to the house. And that told me right there, that woman, you don't know what the woman was doing in the house.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_00She could have done something, but she wasn't there. She was working. So he was at the snake.
SPEAKER_02Oh, so she was at the house?
SPEAKER_00She wasn't there.
SPEAKER_02No, the snake lady. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00She would go visit him at the house while she's at work.
SPEAKER_02So she could have put something in there, in the in the in the house.
SPEAKER_00And and her. Because doing different things.
SPEAKER_02She started doing evil things.
SPEAKER_00Evil things like embezzlement. Uh uh using doing things with my daughter. It's like, wait a minute.
SPEAKER_02Because your daughter used to work for well, my sister used to work for ATU.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, so she started doing evil things, and you don't do that to your family. And like I said, I feel like she was doing those things because it was evil. Those things is not something that you do to your own family. Right. Okay? So it's like when my daddy died, we had got every one of us got a check. The check was 800. My daddy had every little last one of us with a check. And she's gonna pay for daddy's funeral. So she's not tech sign her over, that's hard. And my daddy was in the military, which was right. She could have had everything paid for in the military. The military would have paid for everything. So we kept that money. So we multiply that time seven.
SPEAKER_02So she kept all your money?
SPEAKER_00She kept everything. She said y'all didn't sign a check and give it to me. Everybody else wanted us f because she's not doing it.
SPEAKER_02So she kept her money?
SPEAKER_00Kept her check. She said no.
SPEAKER_02So everybody else gave it to me.
SPEAKER_00Everybody else gave it to me.
SPEAKER_02And then y'all never got that money?
SPEAKER_00No. No. No, we didn't get it. So I got six.
SPEAKER_02So what she what she do with the money?
SPEAKER_00Good question. My daddy, the funeral his funeral cost three thousand dollars. She didn't even pay it. So they put him in a potty field.
SPEAKER_02Oh who?
SPEAKER_00Potty field.
SPEAKER_02What is that?
SPEAKER_00They throw him somewhere in the dirt. They just took they can throw him somewhere.
SPEAKER_02Oh, so he ain't he he didn't go under like in the casket?
SPEAKER_00That's what happened. Yeah. Chicago.
SPEAKER_02I don't know what that is.
SPEAKER_00But if they take the body and throw it way up there and then it's a bunch of dirt, it's a bunch, it's a field with nothing, nothing, you just unmarked. It's unmar unmarked field.
SPEAKER_02Okay. Okay. So in the desert.
SPEAKER_00It's in it's in it's a little place in New Orleans. Gotcha.
SPEAKER_03Don't nobody be there.
SPEAKER_00Nobody be there. Nobody there. You ain't gonna know where they at because it's a storm.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00It's an unmarked grave.
SPEAKER_04Gotcha. Okay.
SPEAKER_00But they throw people back that on pay.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00So that right there made me thought, well, wait a minute. What you gonna do with that money? Because all of us should have kept that check. Yeah. We was young. I didn't know. First of all, I knew that my dad was in the military. He just wanted the money. I don't know. But when you start doing things to your own family, that's evil.
SPEAKER_02That came from somewhere though.
SPEAKER_00It came from somewhere because she wasn't like that.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_00Okay. So with this snake lady, her husband dealing with this snake lady, we don't know what he put in that house. What came on my sister to be that way? She wasn't like that. We wasn't raised like that. Everybody thought we had money. I wonder how. She didn't. We can't we came from the same parent. So how she got more money if we don't have the money. That tell me right there's something wrong. She was doing something wrong right there. Yeah. So I I guess I love my sister, but the thing she did wasn't right.
SPEAKER_02Because of him.
SPEAKER_00Because of him. Because of him. And like I said, on his side of the family, there was problems. But he had a daddy that beat his wife up. All the boys. Oh yeah. All the brothers on his side, they beat their wives up.
SPEAKER_02And then he started beating up on Auntie.
SPEAKER_00And he started beating up on homes. And his son does the same thing. The son does the same thing to his his ex-wife. And he did it to the second wife. So that's a generation curse right there. Because if it came from the grandfather and the trick it down to the son, now to the grandson, that's a generation curse. So you could call it what you you know, I'm just saying that that's a generation of the curse.
SPEAKER_02So let me ask you this. So since you think it's a generational curse, where can it be broken at this point, as far as that part? Like use him for example.
SPEAKER_00Well, like being the male.
SPEAKER_02He already did it. It's already in him.
SPEAKER_00He's gonna have to teach his son's gonna have to break it. Yeah. Because right, because he got two uncles, one of them dead.
SPEAKER_02Cool.
SPEAKER_00One of uh uncles is dead. So he oh, okay, from his side home. Oh, uncle. Gotcha. Yeah. So he's dead, and he got a brother dead. So two of them dead. Okay. So his son had to break that.
SPEAKER_02But he got his son gotta understand what the curse is, though.
SPEAKER_00And guess what? I gotta tell him as a dad. Like I said, long time ago.
SPEAKER_02But okay, so do you think I don't understand what generational curse is? Do you do you do does he not that slow, is he? I know, but do but some people it don't it's not about being slow. It's about not being education uh educated to what generational curse is. Okay, I don't know. Because if he's not gonna know what it is, he's not gonna talk to his son about it.
SPEAKER_00Well, I don't think he knew I don't think he he had it. There was a generational curse. I don't think he looked at it like that. I don't think he did. Yeah. We looking at it like that. Right. But I don't think he looked at it like that because that's a generation of curse.
SPEAKER_02You never had a talk uh conversation with him? No. Would you want to have a conversation with him about it?
SPEAKER_00I can ask him. Do he know? First of all, I want to question him first. Do you know what a generation of curse is?
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00Because it was on his daddy's side. Generation of curse. On his daddy's side, there was a generation of curse. Because if the grandfather did it, the uncle, his uncle, and then his daddy. That second gotta be broken. Because it is in that family. Right.
SPEAKER_05Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00It's in that family. So every family got different generation of curse. Right. You got some families very secretive. It depends on how they was raised. Whereas, okay, you're gonna say certain things, then you're gonna hold certain things in. To me, that's a generation of curse, too. When you know something in the family, but you're not gonna say nothing.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_00My grandma, my mama used to hide things from us. She didn't want, like people say, Well, how old are you? Oh, you can't I don't want to tell you how old I am. That's to me, that's secretive. Why you secret? I mean, that at that time they didn't believe in telling the age. That's how it was.
SPEAKER_02Y'all don't do that now anyway.
SPEAKER_00Oh, I do that. I'm proud to say how old I am, baby. I'm a proud 69, honey. I would tell them I'm seven, maybe seven this year.
SPEAKER_02I'm about to say, 'cause some people don't like to say what their age is.
SPEAKER_00Men and women, some women, some men don't like to say the age.
SPEAKER_02Everybody, everybody don't like to say the age.
SPEAKER_00I don't have no problem. I'm proud of it. Because you know why? I feel like the Lord spared my life to be here at that age. Everybody don't live to see that age. You got people die young. So I'm proud to say my age. I'm still standing. And I just feel like people that have secrets in their family, they need to, they need to break them secrets. I don't care what it's gonna take. Sit down and talk to your siblings, talk to your family, because it needs to be out. Everybody, like you said, everybody don't know about no generational curse. But every family got one. Every family done been through something with a generational curse and didn't realize they was they had a generational curse.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_00That's what it is. Nobody didn't know.
SPEAKER_02So you got you got nine more ten more years to be the life expectancy.
SPEAKER_00Ten more years?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, so the life expectancy in America is like 79 years old.
SPEAKER_00For a woman.
SPEAKER_02It's safe for everybody.
SPEAKER_00Men and women? Yeah. 79. Okay. So how many more years do I got?
SPEAKER_0210.
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna be here longer than 10. I'm generational.
SPEAKER_02I hope so.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I hope so too. But if I'm not, you remember your mama.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, you I mean you go you on the podcast now, so even if you go, AI is gonna take over your voice and it's gonna spread over the whole world.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but um like I say, some families got one generation of curse, some some families got more than one. Yeah. And I feel like we got more than one. Mm-hmm in in my family. Okay?
SPEAKER_02So um So but it's up to us to like figure out what it is and try to break it.
SPEAKER_00Try to break it. Somebody needs to break it. Um when it comes down to people going to jail, that's a generational curse. My brother went to jail. Now he got two sons in jail. And he got a daughter in jail. So would that be a generational curse, you would say? Because he went. Now he got two sons in there. And he got a daughter in there. I don't think what about fighting? Fighting, just vi being violent. Because my brother used to be violent.
SPEAKER_02I mean, I th I think being violent will be a generational curse.
SPEAKER_00Okay, because his daughter fights.
SPEAKER_02So what about his sons?
SPEAKER_00They fight too. So that's a different thing.
SPEAKER_02So what where that came from? Did okay so did did your dad used to fight?
SPEAKER_00Nope.
SPEAKER_02Did your mama used to fight?
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_02So where that fighting come from?
SPEAKER_00Well, when you got a behavior problem, think about it now. You got a behavior problem.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00It don't have that that can come in, it can skip generation. You don't have to come on from the dad and mama. Right. It can fall. But you don't know where it came from the child. You don't know where it came from. Fighting?
SPEAKER_02Just the No.
SPEAKER_00I don't know where the where the violence comes from. Um, but I do know on my mama's side that it is behavior problems. I don't know if that causes the fighting, um, mental illness. I don't know.
SPEAKER_02I think the f I think no, I don't think the fighting part is the is the curse.
SPEAKER_00It's not a curse.
SPEAKER_02I think the misbehaving is a curse, but the fighting was just uh a defense mechanism to how to cope with certain things.
SPEAKER_00So your children would get that same thing and do the same thing and they can't cope with life periods.
SPEAKER_02Right. So they only re they only result to fight no being violent. That's what I think. Okay. I don't because the fighting thing, I just think that's they that's their way of like defending uh defending, not defending themselves. It's it's a way of them to try to cope with what they got going on in them.
SPEAKER_00Okay, gotcha. Okay. So when a person got something going on in them, instead of talking about it, they're gonna fight and be violent. The behavior changes. Okay. That's where the that's okay. That's kind of generation of curse. The child can't express itself. Maybe they need to have some kind of thing.
SPEAKER_02Or not be not being not being able to know how to express themselves could be the curse. So they express themselves by fighting and being violent instead of talking to somebody.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_02That could be the curse. Not you know, the being secret apart, not telling nobody nothing. Okay. That's the being secret.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02I mean, I don't know. That's that's what I was doing what that makes sense.
SPEAKER_00Makes sense. But I just feel like a long time ago, everybody was raised different.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And it was raised stupid to me.
SPEAKER_02You said raised who?
SPEAKER_00Stupid. They was raised stupid because I feel like when you have children, you're supposed to explain things to them so they can know what's going on when they get a certain age. Okay. So if you wasn't taught that when you was coming up, because it was so secret in the family, your mother and your father were secret, then how you gonna teach your children when you have kids? You can't teach them anything because you don't know nothing because your mother and your father was secreted. Or they didn't believe in, or they didn't talk to you.
SPEAKER_02It's a lot of families like that.
SPEAKER_00Like, yeah, but that was stupid. Again, because when you got children, how you gonna teach somebody that if you don't know nothing, you can't teach your children nothing. That's what I'm talking about.
SPEAKER_02That comes from the generation before you. Because the generation before you when before me.
SPEAKER_00Like my sister, my sister, my sister. No, like who before me?
SPEAKER_02I guess your dad. Like your dad generation.
SPEAKER_00My daddy wasn't like that. My mom was.
SPEAKER_02I ain't seen it. Hold on. That generation.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02I feel like I don't I don't wanna say they didn't know how to like teach nobody, but they wasn't taught. They they wasn't taught, so they're not gonna teach their children because they wasn't taught by their parents.
SPEAKER_00Okay, you see what I'm saying? Okay, now I agree with that when you're a certain age. When you are young and your parent if your parents didn't know how to teach, how to tell you different things. But when you become a young man, a man or a woman, that's when it's still your place when you have children. At least tell them something that you learn as you being adult.
SPEAKER_02Okay, but what if if nobody taught them, they're not gonna taste it the ch the children, the child.
SPEAKER_00No, no, no, no, no, no. I say once you become uh okay, your parents, my parents, I'm gonna use me for example.
SPEAKER_02Use me for example. Or do you want me to use me for example?
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna use me for example because my mother and my father didn't teach me anything.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so but you you still teach your children.
SPEAKER_00I had to learn the hard way from the street or somebody older. Somebody taught me older. What I would learn thing I I taught somebody older.
SPEAKER_02So since your parents didn't teach you nothing, are you teaching your children and stuff, right?
SPEAKER_00Thank you. Okay, so so when you become an adult, it's no such thing because you wasn't taught, you don't tell your children.
SPEAKER_02But you but that's two different people though. Like you you the way you taught the the way you was raised, it could be okay. Go ahead. The way you was raised was probably different from somebody else. But I guess that's just the person you are. Like you want your children to be good in the world, right?
SPEAKER_00Well, first of all, if you're a person that don't talk and you don't say nothing, then you're not gonna say you're not gonna know nothing. You're not gonna know nothing. You're not gonna know a damn thing if you keep your mouth shut. Right. You learn from experience, you learn from talking, communicating. That's how you learn. Okay, when you just sit back and don't say nothing, it's like things. No. First of all, I was the type of person, I was observative and I like to talk.
SPEAKER_02Right. So you're gonna eventually you're gonna teach your children something because even though you wasn't taught and you like to talk and you like to, you know, you like to share things with people. When you have children, you're gonna teach your children. Right. Whereas on the other end, the that person who who they they never taught them, like nobody never taught them. So they're not gonna teach nobody because they was never taught, but they also don't like to talk.
SPEAKER_00But but when they become older, when they became a young man, you think don't you think they know it they learned something?
SPEAKER_02They learned something, but I don't think they're gonna they I don't think they're gonna know how to teach the next day child.
SPEAKER_00That's when you got a problem.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00That's a serious problem. Yeah, that's definitely a serious problem because my family, my parents didn't teach me nothing.
SPEAKER_02That's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_00When I got older, I started learning to do it.
SPEAKER_02But you're different from that other person. You way different from the other person. Or maybe that other person just don't.
SPEAKER_00I thank God.
SPEAKER_02I may maybe that other person just not grown up yet or grew up yet. I don't know.
SPEAKER_00It ain't gonna never grow up then. It's they're too old to grow up now. If they don't know, if they didn't learn nothing like uh then and and they don't know it now, they're never gonna learn. They're gonna stay down. So like I say, because first of all, when you become a certain age in your life, there are steps in life you take. There's there's things in life that you learn, you pick up. Because as you get older, you're not gonna stay in the kindergarten, you're not gonna stay in the first grader, you're gonna go up. You go up to higher grade. So those things, when you become when you first start walking, when you're first a child, you gotta crawl before you walk. So you start crawling, then you start walking or talking, and as you get older, you gotta go to your teen, your young, your youth, um, your child, then you go to your next stage. It's a it's uh a juvenile or teen. A juvenile to a teen. I'm gonna put it to a team. I'm gonna put it like a just say teenager. A teenager, you're gonna be a teenager. When you become a teenager, there's things you're gonna be wanna know. You're gonna be able to. You're gonna experience, are you gonna it's it's gonna you're gonna think about it. Right. And as you become a young man or a young woman, that's things gonna the body start changing. You your mind starts changing, you're gonna be different. So at some point in your life, you're gonna ask questions because if you don't know, you don't know. And a person that asked questions.
SPEAKER_02So let me ask you this. If you don't know, what you gonna ask?
SPEAKER_00If you don't know, okay, I'm gonna tell you what you're gonna ask. Because you're gonna experience something with your body, okay. Okay, if you if something starts bothering you with your body, you're gonna say something. You're not gonna keep like if you start burning below, you start you're gonna ask questions. Well, why is I'm burning?
SPEAKER_02Right, but then you're gonna go to the doctor.
SPEAKER_00Okay, so so don't talk about you can't you don't know what to ask. You know what to ask. Because when the body starts changing, you just question you're gonna have to be, well, why is why is I'm bleeding? Why is I'm showing this? Why is I'm constipated? Why is my stomach hurting? So you're gonna ask questions. Okay, if you're constipated or you or you're peeing, uh, or you're peeing on yourself in in bed or or anything, you're gonna ask questions. And no such thing, you're gonna just sit there and be in pain and and and you don't know what's going on.
SPEAKER_02That is the if some people do.
SPEAKER_00Well, guess what? That's the stupidest thing I ever heard. Because if something is hurting me, you're gonna go to the doctor.
SPEAKER_02Oh, figure. I'm gonna ask questions. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And there's such thing I'm gonna sit there and be hurting and don't say nothing. That's the stupidest thing I say again.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_00Um, if somebody asks me a question, if somebody asks me a question, I'm gonna find a way to find it with an answer with an to answer that question.
SPEAKER_02Okay, now let me ask you this. Let me see if I can ask this question. Because I think this was the conversation you want me to write down that I didn't write down. So, uh teenage is, right? Teenagers. You you start you start being exposed to like sexual activity. Let's say 14, 15. Okay. You was never taught how to how to do nothing, right? Right.
SPEAKER_00All of a sudden, um you get exposed to somebody older or no, not that. Not that part. Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_02You meet a girl. The girl, she starts, she initiates the action. Okay. But you don't know what to do. Okay. Because you was never taught that. So at what age were was you supposed to be taught how to do things?
SPEAKER_00With a girl. Yeah. Um, I feel like a young, a teenager, like 13 is very young.
SPEAKER_02Who should initiate the conversation? The woman with the mom or the dad? Who should tell their child what to do during sex?
SPEAKER_00It depends on if it's a girl or a boy.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so if it's a boy.
SPEAKER_00The daddy.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00The daddy should should tell us what.
SPEAKER_02At what age should the dad tell the son what to do?
SPEAKER_00Puberty hair.
SPEAKER_02Uh huh.
SPEAKER_00When you have when you have puberty, when the boys you reach a certain pu uh thing, when boys reach a certain puberty. Okay. Start growing hair and and starting, I I I mean, I'm I'm gonna be, I'm gonna come straight out with you.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00When boys start that penis get hard.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Well, my mama, I'm not gonna sugarcoat nut. I'm gonna go and tell you just like it is. When the boys start having penis and they like almost having erection, that's when uh that's when a man, somebody should say something. That's when you had it was your place to say something. Why is this happening to me? Because your body's changing. Right. It's like a woman when she becomes a young lady, she has a period. I didn't know nothing about that. So when I became a young lady, I Because you gotta think about this.
SPEAKER_02Oh, I'm sorry, I ain't meant to cut it out, but it's like this. Like some certain uh girls, when they have periods, they they don't know what it is. They they think it's a one-time thing and it's over. Right, right. So they be in it, you know, they they be in the classroom sitting in the chair with the seat red, okay, all bloodied up.
SPEAKER_00Right. And that's when the woman's supposed to be the tallest.
SPEAKER_02So they so the woman's supposed to be telling her daughter.
SPEAKER_00She's gonna become a young lady one day. One day you become a young lady, you're gonna have a period. Right. And that's how a man's supposed to tell a boy, one day you're gonna become a gentleman, and you're gonna have, you're gonna have erection, you're gonna have, okay? That's when a man's supposed to tell a boy. A woman telling a boy that it's not a good thing. I think a man should tell a boy that. And a woman should tell a girl. Because it don't look right. I mean, I don't know how to you might not like for a woman, you might not like for me to tell you about that.
SPEAKER_02So, okay, so what if the dad not in the boy's life?
SPEAKER_00If the dead night in the boy's life.
SPEAKER_02Then the mama's gonna have to say something.
SPEAKER_00The mama's gonna have to say something.
SPEAKER_02Um, I mean, she's gonna have to do the best she can.
SPEAKER_00The best, right?
SPEAKER_02Or the man, the boy's gonna have to learn from his friends.
SPEAKER_00Or the boy's gonna learn the whole way. But they got so much stuff on the app now about sex. So it's no such thing. You could have, you could, you could've Google that.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but I don't even think you could Google that because when boys Google that, they're gonna get addicted to porn. Because when you Google it, that you gonna, you know what I'm saying? It's gonna it's gonna turn into that.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Um, another thing. There was, and when I was going to school, there was such educational classes.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, we didn't have that. I don't think that away with that.
SPEAKER_00So we we had such educational sex educational classes, they had condoms, they used to give us condoms, and they used to give us, they used to tell us certain things. What happened when you be have sex? Okay, well, a woman could get pregnant, a young girl could young lady could get pregnant.
SPEAKER_02That's another thing, because they never taught us that.
SPEAKER_00Okay, they would tell you about that. It was called family plan. And used to, it was a family plan.
SPEAKER_02That's part of home economics? No.
SPEAKER_00No, that's it's part of your education. It's it's like it's almost like a PE. It's all that can fall on the PE. All that home economic home economics. No, sex education.
SPEAKER_02What class was that they had to look you had to carry the baby around every every day? You had to carry a baby dog. That was home economics, wasn't it?
SPEAKER_00That was sex education.
SPEAKER_02That's not home egg.
SPEAKER_00Home Mac is cooking and sewing. Cook home is cooking and sewing. So sex educational, that's what that was. They was trying to show at Riverdale, they had these girls walking around school with a baby.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I thought that was home economics.
SPEAKER_00No, no, that was a sex, it had it had it been a sex educational class.
SPEAKER_02They didn't do that while I was in school. That must have been before when I was in middle school.
SPEAKER_00I don't know.
SPEAKER_02Because I didn't see it.
SPEAKER_00But see, we didn't carry no dog on baby though. They told us really the truth about what happened if you have sex with a boy if you get pregnant. And to protect yourself with condoms. Right. So those things we had in school, but they didn't really come out and say go have sex and all that. They didn't do all that.
SPEAKER_02And they taught y'all about STDs and stuff?
SPEAKER_00They said something about STDs when we were told about the condoms. Like, if you don't wear condoms, you can get AIDS. No, no, no, it wasn't AIDS then. It was uh uh HIV, Herpes, it was herpes and it was uh gonorrhea.
SPEAKER_04Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_00It was gonorrhea and syphilis. Gonorrhea, syphilis, and herpes. Those were these was out. AIDS wasn't out then.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So when AIDS came out, that's when um they start talking about AIDS and stuff like that. They had the educational, definitely uh, they was uh teaching people about AIDS because that was a serious disease. Yeah, but it was killing people. Right. Okay, so you penicillum um cured a lot of disease, but it didn't cure anything.
SPEAKER_02That's the pink medicine.
SPEAKER_00Penicillum.
SPEAKER_02It's pink.
SPEAKER_00But if it's a pill then, yeah. But penicillum, yeah, it's it's it's pink, right? But penicillum cure doesn't cure herpes. It put it in a remission where you, you know, it don't cure it. But when you get an S T D, penicillin will cure that. S T D name that when you say it? Uh chlamydia, yeah, it would it would cure that. It wasn't ki it didn't cure herpes and AIDS. So there was nothing to cure AIDS, AIDS would kill you. So that's that came out later. Uh uh is in it's your is your time. It's coming around your time.
SPEAKER_02So this is No, it came out way before my time.
SPEAKER_00Before your time, I'm just saying, but around my time there was no AIDS. Yeah. It was chlamydia, herpes, and uh STD, you know. Yeah. And when when boys got those, now when a boy got any one of them diseases, key talking, key talking. Their penis were burned when they pee. Okay, so my brother had it, and he didn't know what that was. So my daddy had to bring him to the doctor. He he was burning, it was junior. He didn't know what was what that was.
SPEAKER_02What it was, chlamydia?
SPEAKER_00He had STD. And he's his thing was uh dripping white stuff in there. Uh uh and and then he was pee when he peed with burning. Yeah. So my daddy brought him to the doctor. Now, did my daddy tell him about that? About sex?
SPEAKER_02I don't think. Probably not.
SPEAKER_00Probably not. But he did go to my dad and told me he was burning.
SPEAKER_02At the last minute.
SPEAKER_00When he was burning. But but but regardless, he still went to him. Like I said, when a when a person have something gone, it'd be maybe at the last minute. If you burning, you gonna sit there and don't say nothing? If you got a if you got crab.
SPEAKER_02But don't you think a conversation was what should have been had before you started burning?
SPEAKER_00It should have. Okay, it should have.
SPEAKER_02But he know your your brother not gonna initiate the conversation. Your dad would have to come to him and like talk to him about that. Like sit him down.
SPEAKER_00Well he did get, he did get it, he did get a chlamydia, he got something. But the thing was burning.
SPEAKER_02But it was healable, right? Yeah, he got a little bit of a so he got chlamydia then, because chlamydia you can heal.
SPEAKER_00Okay, he got he was healed, but he could have got herpes. Yeah, okay, but he got chlamydia because my daddy brought him to the doctor and they gave him some medicine and they went away because every time he kept going to bedroom, he was peeing. I mean he was burning real bad. And my daddy said, I'm son, I'm bringing you to the doctor. You're going to the doctor. He brought him to the doctor. And that's when he found out he had a STD.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So that's one. I remember that. Now I don't remember anything else for my other brothers. If they had anything, you know. But I remember Junior. He was the one that got the first STD. He the youngest. No, he's not the youngest. He the oldest. He the oh Lord. He was the oldest. And I remember that. And my daddy brought him to the hospital. Charity Hospital, the one I was talking about. Yeah. It was a state hospital.
SPEAKER_02What hospital I was born out of? Noah General? Charity?
SPEAKER_00No, he was born at uh Turo.
SPEAKER_02Oh, Two Row.
SPEAKER_00He was born at Two Row Hospital on Petania.
SPEAKER_02Gotcha.
SPEAKER_00But what I'm saying, no, my daddy did not, he had three boys. He did not discuss to them about So that's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_02Like that generation before y'all, like that generation didn't say nothing to their children. Y'all had to learn on your own.
SPEAKER_00And like I said, by me getting pregnant young, I didn't know nothing about that either. I got pregnant young. And I was too young to have a baby. But that's another uh conversation because I was my dad was raising me at the time. And um I regret. I I'm not sorry that I have children, I had children young. I regret that I started my life off with children that young. I regret that because that was too young. I didn't know nothing about no taking care of no baby and having a husband. I didn't know nothing about that. I was too young. So I I I I regret that that I went through that. But but I survived. I made it through it. I went through it and I don't think I don't think it's a regret.
SPEAKER_02I don't think it's a regret. But it was something it wasn't.
SPEAKER_00I because I could have did I I could have done something else better with my life than have a baby that young.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but you got a child. Yeah. Hey, look look at how your child came out.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_02So you can't say that's a regret.
SPEAKER_00Well, I feel like that.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00But okay. Um, but I'm I'm not sorry. I'm I have my children. I'm not sorry about that. Yeah. I'm just saying I just regret being so young because I was too young. I get what you're trying to say. That was too young. I didn't know.
SPEAKER_02So at what age do you think a woman should have a child?
SPEAKER_00I think a woman should have a child when she's about uh 30.
SPEAKER_02In her 30s.
SPEAKER_00Well, first of all, I don't think a woman should have no children until she have a deg have a degree or have a or have a life together. Have a life together. Don't have no children if you're making a if you're working 95 and you're making minimum wages. Because it's hard out here to have children and then be married. Because that's where your problem coming in.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Because the money ain't not right. There's not enough money in the house and you have a baby. No. I think a person should get married at 35.
SPEAKER_02Married? I think a person should get married at like 40.
SPEAKER_00Well, if you settle at 35, if you got your stuff together at 35, then yeah. Your life is together, I say 35. Okay. But I don't think a person should get married if they don't have their life together.
SPEAKER_02Also, I don't think they need to get that. I don't think they need to get married to any just body. They need to find somebody who they they know they're compatible with.
SPEAKER_00Compatible, right?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, and see if they can get along for the next three years or three, three to five years, and then get married.
SPEAKER_00You got to be evenly yo. You everybody be want to date somebody, but they don't even compatible. They're not compatible. So what the hell? You always fight. You don't get alone. You don't like this, she don't like this. That is incompatibility.
SPEAKER_02So how you feel about these other countries that they've they pick they they pick their children made.
SPEAKER_00That is horrible. That is horrible. And majority of the time the child don't want to be married to them, and then they got some country, they pick old ass men with these young children.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Who wants to be with an old ass man and then young? That is the hard. That is horrible. Why would you send your child marry your child marry an old ass man? Your child is young and beautiful, and this man about the croak.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but he got money. That's probably why. Well, that's the only reason why.
SPEAKER_00That to me, that that's the worst thing to do to a child.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, but if he died, then she get all the money that he got.
SPEAKER_00Money is not all that. Yeah, but to them, that's everything. Well, to them, that's that's what that's that's what they look at. Money. Money to people do all kinds, say money, people do all kinds of things for money, okay?
SPEAKER_02Did we talk is that what we want to talk about?
unknownUh uh. We just talk about it.
SPEAKER_00Okay, we just talking, that's good.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so you want to talk about the money?
SPEAKER_00Okay, go.
SPEAKER_02Deuteronomy.
SPEAKER_00Okay, go ahead.
SPEAKER_02Is that what we want to talk about?
SPEAKER_00We just say something about that.
SPEAKER_02I don't know. I don't know if we talked about that or not.
unknownI don't know.
SPEAKER_02How in the Bible it said it's not money is the root of all evil. It's the the love, the things that you do for money is the root of all evil. Like if you do stuff bad for money, that's the evil.
SPEAKER_00Okay, so that's why I always keep saying it's root money's root of all evil.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, it's not it's not that. It's the love for the money, it's the root of all evil.
SPEAKER_00Well, you got a lot of people, it's the love for money, and it do some evil stuff. Yeah, it's a lot of people. Okay, it's like the dog on man marrying his daughter off with this old ass man, the daughter got married old man for money. That's evil. Is that evil? I'm asking that ain't her choice. That's compatible.
SPEAKER_02I mean, what if that's not true?
SPEAKER_00No, do you think they're compatible? Do you what a compatibility? This man is.
SPEAKER_02They're not compatible, but if he was to die croak over, she get all his money.
SPEAKER_00What about her love? What about her?
SPEAKER_02I don't think they look at that. I don't I don't know. I'm talking about India people.
SPEAKER_00What about her happiness? You think she's gonna be happy with the one I asked me about the croak? No, she's gonna be the miserable as hell. What what do you think? Okay, it's another question for you. Do you think how do you feel having 10 wives in one house?
SPEAKER_02That's too much. That's too much.
SPEAKER_00Ten wives in one house. How do you think you would like to?
SPEAKER_02That's a headache.
SPEAKER_00You got 10 wives and all these children, 20 children. What kind of life is that?
SPEAKER_02So with 10 wives, is each woman doing something different, or are they all doing the same thing?
SPEAKER_00They're all in one big house.
SPEAKER_02I know, but are they do they all have a role in this house? Like, so like one washing dishes, one washing clothes, one cleaning the house, one uh sexually pleasing you?
SPEAKER_00No, they he he got money. They got maid.
SPEAKER_02That's what huh?
SPEAKER_00He got a maid, they can go see.
SPEAKER_02So the wife's not the maid.
SPEAKER_00No, oh no, they got maids. They could they done he done paid money.
SPEAKER_02Who you talking about?
SPEAKER_00I'm just telling you. Oh, is it somebody?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, okay.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, he's a he's um he has all these wives.
SPEAKER_02And what do he do?
SPEAKER_00He he's uh uh uh a tough one, uh he got an earl, he earl of an earl company. Oh, okay. Town, what you call it? I don't know what you're talking about. Well, anyway, he has money.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, so I so I don't know how that works. If if all of them gotta be doing something different in the house.
SPEAKER_00Well, they all of them don't have to do nothing in the house like cleanup because they got made.
SPEAKER_02So then what's the point of that?
SPEAKER_00Somebody cooking and everything. So why you got all those wives?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, what's the point? Because I because I know having one girlfriend is already a headache. So why you got 10 of them?
SPEAKER_00Good question.
SPEAKER_02Unless they all doing something different in the house.
SPEAKER_00I know they're all in one big house, and they all have to uh get along. Now that was all uh ladies, these are black and these African African, yeah. Their culture is totally different from us, and like I said, people say, oh, oh, they just like uh no, they're not because we don't believe first of all, you can't have that many wives in the United States, it's illegal. Yeah, so that right there, we're not the same because I would not tolerate that. I couldn't American women could not tolerate that. I I I couldn't. I wouldn't want that.
SPEAKER_02I can't tolerate one girlfriend. Who maybe you think I want 10 wives?
SPEAKER_00Thank you. That's not me. So I was asking you that question for that reason, see how you feel with that many wives.
SPEAKER_03No, it ain't gonna work for me.
SPEAKER_00Oh no. So I just feel like everybody do and it's and it's about money. You probably got money, that's why they did it. And the women have to get along. They got to they gotta be in one big happy family in one house. That would get on my damn nerves.
SPEAKER_02Now, how you feel about a man having sex with 13 women to have 13 different kids.
SPEAKER_00Ridiculous. And guess what? I couldn't be up in that one.
SPEAKER_02Like, what's the point? I don't see the point.
SPEAKER_00I don't see the point either. First of all, that's too many damn children.
SPEAKER_02He done had sex with all these different women, that means all these different women have slept with that mean he slept, that means that means all these women slept with each other.
SPEAKER_00Yes. Thank you. So think about it. If one of them had herpes or one of them had chlamydia.
SPEAKER_02So that means all of them is spreading through each person. And now if they got a disease, the child getting got the disease they got born.
SPEAKER_00Right. And just like if you if you got that many wives and somebody got AIDS, that child gonna have AIDS and you're gonna have AIDS and y'all gonna die. So that right there to be, that's too many partners. I don't see the point. What's the point of that?
SPEAKER_02No, I don't either.
SPEAKER_00I don't see the point of that because like I said, one person is enough. So why do you have to have that many partners?
SPEAKER_02And then not even that. Even if, let's say you date somebody, right? And you and that person are not compatible, you don't like don't stay with that person.
SPEAKER_00Get out of it.
SPEAKER_02Get out of it and go find somebody new. There's millions of people out here.
SPEAKER_00Right. So that part right there, but a lot, a lot of people, but you know what else I don't like? People be in a relationship, and when it ends, they want to kill up each other. Oh, yeah. That is horrible. That is horrible. Who wants to go sit in somebody to jail, killing up a man or a woman? That is crazy. Why? You could get out here and find somebody else. You that hurt.
SPEAKER_02But a lot of people think they can't find nobody like that, like that person.
SPEAKER_00Because you know why? If you have a low self-esteem, you're gonna be that way.
unknownDang.
SPEAKER_00If you have a low self-esteem, you're gonna be that way. And that's why people go out there and run behind the man and run behind the woman and see who they know they have OJ car chases on the highway. It's time to move on, honey. Life goes on, okay? They got more fishes. You ever heard they got more fishes in the sea? They got more fishes in the sea.
SPEAKER_02So But they they thought they found Nemo.
SPEAKER_00Well, Nemo is gone to find out what's the other fish name, maybe that girl fish name, or he's gonna find her?
SPEAKER_02Dory.
SPEAKER_00Dory, he's gonna find Dory.
SPEAKER_02So So if you lost if you lost Nemo, you can find Dory.
SPEAKER_00Go find, go find yourself. More than one, go find your Dory. Now, now another thing. Anybody that's in a relationship, and when they end the relationship and they hurt, don't go in and get in another relationship. Get out.
SPEAKER_02No, but hold on. How you feel about how you feel about somebody going into a new relationship, they ending it and they're going back to the old relationship before the one that ended.
SPEAKER_00They're not even gonna be in it right. That's for a purpose. It's a purpose why they're going back. First of all. You've been hurt, you ain't gonna go back into it. Right. So they it it's more to that. Okay. Um, then you got people get into a relationship with somebody, and then they've been in a bad relationship, but they want to bring that whole old relationship to a new relationship. Oh, yeah. That is the worst thing to do. To bring uh a relationship into a new relationship. That's the worst thing to do. Yeah, because you haven't got over that first relationship. It's time for you to get out of that one first. You need to get out of that one first before you go into another one. Because what you're doing, you you still hurt. And you're gonna bring all that to another relationship, and that person could be the best person for you, but you bringing that to another relationship, and you're gonna mess up.
SPEAKER_02No, okay, this is the last one, then we're gonna end it. This is this is another situation.
SPEAKER_00So you're into relationship today for some reason.
SPEAKER_02No, this notion is.
SPEAKER_00Well, we're into a lot of different conversations.
SPEAKER_02This has only been, what, 10 minutes since we talk about relationships?
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so check this out. What if a woman is married to a man? Or let's say the woman is committed to a man, not married. They've been, they've been they've been together for like, what, four years? Or let's say they've been together for a year or two. They've been together for a year or two, but the man can't please the woman because he got a medical condition. But the woman goes out and try to find somebody else to mess with. So now she got two boyfriends.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_02Do you think that's that's doable?
SPEAKER_00I think that's wrong because she needs to leave the man who got a condition of.
SPEAKER_02Well, okay, so what if he got money? And the other man that she's dealing with, it could could sex could please her sexually.
SPEAKER_00Well, she got a motive then. That's that's two different things. Well, you got two men, one could please you, and one got money. Right. So, which one you are you not in love with either one?
SPEAKER_02No, she's just trying to do things for her own motive. So she's with one man for financial reasons and then the other man for Well, how you how you think the man feel?
SPEAKER_00You think the man is it's for the same thing?
SPEAKER_02Exactly.
SPEAKER_00He's gonna feel something totally different. He's trying to feel something for you, and you worrying about money, and you're worrying about sexual. So if he can't give you the whole package deal, then you won't need to be with him. You don't need to be with him at all. Get out, get out.
SPEAKER_02Like, go find you somebody who could do both.
SPEAKER_00Finding somebody that could do both, right? Like don't get in somebody, don't get in a relationship with somebody that got a medical problem, and then you got somebody that got money. You out there for what? What you doing? Because you're gonna run out with something. Keep on. You're gonna get caught with something, keep on messing with these men. Because if if he can't please, you're gonna go to somebody else.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, you might end up with HPV.
SPEAKER_00AIDS. No, I know HPV A's and penicillum don't work with that. You're gonna die. So all that fooling around, they got so many people, got so many messing around with different people, multiple partners. That is nasty, and that's why you get you wanna know how you get people get AIDS and pass it on. Keep on having sex with all these different people. Okay, you got people that's that's not that's not like that, that's having sex with everybody, but you are, but then you bring in all this to all these people, all this disease around and around different people because you having sex with all these different people. So that tells me right there, you got women like that and you got men like that.
SPEAKER_02It's majority of women though, because women men but doing it too. I'm gonna say, I know I'm gonna say this. Women in Georgia, they don't know they they be so confused they don't know what they want to do. So when one when one when one man's not giving them what they want, they go find another one and keep both of them at the same time.
SPEAKER_00These women in Georgia need to go to the Epstein Island. They need to go to the Fall. The women in Georgia need to go to the Epstein Island where they got all these men that's giving them got money for them, and they're gonna turn them out like they want. Okay, they want the money, go to the Epstein Island. Lord that's where these women need to go. That's where all the money, the billionaires at go to the Epstein Island. Y'all women in Georgia, y'all want money? They're gonna you're gonna have all kinds of money. They're gonna turn you out with a lot of money, they're gonna have you go, oh honey, gonna have you a lot of money.
SPEAKER_02Can I tell you the Epstein Island joke? Yeah, what does Epstein call us island? Kid Rock.
SPEAKER_00Who?
SPEAKER_02Kid Rock. Um, it's a white joke. People think it's funny, but I I when I heard it, it was funny, but you never heard it.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I think this is gonna be a good one. All the women in Georgia need to go to the Epstein Island. That's that's that's what they need to do. They want some money. Epstein got a bunch of money. There's billionaires over there. Y'all can get a lot of money. That's where y'all need to go at.
SPEAKER_02I don't think the island is up no more.
SPEAKER_00Well, guess what? Then they gonna need somebody gonna make an island, they're gonna have a black island eventually. Just wait, just wait, just wait one minute, ladies from Georgia. They're gonna have another island built with all the black billionaires. So be ready. You're gonna have all the money, you get all the nails and the hair and all the cars y'all want. So be ready.
SPEAKER_02You done?
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_02All right, thank y'all for listening to this episode. This is funny. Thank you for listening. All right, stay tuned for the next episode.
SPEAKER_06Thank y'all.
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