The Visibility Standard
Ever stare at a post for 20 minutes, rewrite the caption five times, then save it to drafts because "what if people from my real life see this?"
Spiraling over your content because you're terrified of judgment? Sitting with that crushing "nobody cares" voice while your best ideas collect dust in your drafts folder? Tired of hiding behind safe posts and watching other people build the visibility you secretly want? The Visibility Standard is your permission slip to stop playing small online.
I'm Jazzmyn Proctor, therapist-turned-visibility strategist, and I understand the real psychology behind why we hide. The exhausting mental gymnastics of wanting to be seen while being terrified of perception. The paralyzing perfectionism that keeps your most powerful content locked away.
Every Monday, I drop bold solo episodes breaking down the fears behind showing up online—from "what will my family think?" anxiety to the comparison trap that has you posting like everyone else instead of like yourself.
Every Friday, I sit down with founders, visionaries, and healers who are owning their brands unapologetically and shifting the entire social commentary around what it means to be visible. We're talking about the real work of building authentic influence while staying true to who you are.
If you've been waiting for permission to quit hiding your real thoughts behind safe content and actually claim your space in the conversation—this is your sign.
Stop shrinking. Start expanding. Set the standard.
The Visibility Standard
The Unseen Architecture of Visibility: Auditing Your Relationships to Protect Your Creative Field (Part 1 of 3)
Your creative energy is like a sourdough starter—it needs the right ingredients and care to grow. But have you ever considered that the people you keep in your life are part of those essential ingredients?
Welcome to Part 1 of our three-part series, "The Unseen Architecture of Visibility," focusing on the profound impact of your relationships on your creative field and entrepreneurial journey.
In this bold and accessible episode, host Jazzmyn dives into the concept of a relationship audit and challenges you to evaluate who gets a seat at the table of your creative mind.
You'll learn:
- The Sourdough Starter Analogy: Why your creativity is a baking process and how "rotten ingredients" (toxic or unsupportive relationships) can cause it to fail.
- Setting Creative Boundaries: How to conserve energy by deciding what you share and who you share your big visions with—especially when dealing with people who can't meet you where you are.
- The Power of Peer Groups: The undeniable value of intentional peer support, networking, and why you cannot reach your goals alone. Learn about the influence of mentors and colleagues committed to the same level of growth as you.
- Quality Over Quantity: Why you need to know where to bucket people in your life (friend, acquaintance, collaborator) to avoid limited reciprocity and protect your space.
- Depth vs. Frequency: How showing up with intentionality and curiosity in your core relationships allows you the flexibility to be there for them without feeling inconvenienced.
If you're an entrepreneur, creator, or visionary who feels their visibility is hindered by the emotional weight of their relationships, this episode will give you the practical permission and framework to protect your energy and expand without guilt.
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