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Mindful Success Path
A channel about enhancing your divine feminine energy so you can attract masculine provider men and any desire you have. We also cover feminine energy inner work, law of assumption, masculine and feminine energy and more.
Amanda is an entrepreneur and international coach with 15+ years of experience helping women master business, finance, and marketing. Featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, and Business Insider, she has guided thousands toward success. After burnout in 2022, Amanda embraced feminine energy, manifesting her husband, relocating to Mexico, and co-founding Entrepreneur Expat, a venture helping entrepreneurs move abroad and invest globally. Today, she blends business strategy with embodiment practices to help women magnetize opportunities, manifest their desires, and create success with freedom, joy, and authenticity.
Mindful Success Path
SECRETS of Divine Masculine Energy Revealed
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💫 Learn the four step process Amanda uses to regulate her nervous system, expand her capacity and manifest more with the Hustle to Harmony Masterclass: https://www.mindfulsuccesspath.com/harmony
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WHAT TO WATCH NEXT:
Why Women Need Provider Men
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4HtxELsQlg&list=PL2RZXKe4KrQI0pQN4CQhyfgFhMQj0gaC0&index=2
How I Manifested My Husband By Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MsyS86ZefQg&list=PL2RZXKe4KrQI0pQN4CQhyfgFhMQj0gaC0&index=4
What Masculine Energy Looks Like In a Woman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ern54mBnm2w&list=PL2RZXKe4KrQI0pQN4CQhyfgFhMQj0gaC0&index=8
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I have oftentimes told the women that I work with that if they want to really understand what healthy masculine behavior is, that they should go ask a man. And today, that's exactly what we're going to be doing. I've brought my husband, Justin Keltner, otherwise known on YouTube as Entrepreneur Expat, to come on and share his perspective as a healthy masculine man about what is going on here in the world of relationships and dating. So, thank you, my love for coming on and, and saying, you know, I wanna come on and I wanna talk about some of the things that women need to know about men. Happy to be here and happy to be sharing, uh, this with your channel. This is gonna be fun. Before we get into it, my name is Amanda and on this channel we talk about how to manifest what you want in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to. Lately we've been talking a lot about relationship dynamics, feminine energy, masculine energy, and everything in between. So if that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single video that we have coming out on this channel. Thank you for reminding me. Please give it a like, uh, as well because that helps us get it in front of more and more women. So many women have been reaching out, uh, in the emails or in the comments section saying, thank you so much for talking about these things. No one ever taught me these things. Now dating and relationships and marriage and men are making a lot more sense to me. So you can help this, help us get this in front of more women. By giving it a like, and it's always, if we have extra trainings or resources to go deeper into the content, uh, of today, then I will make mention of those, uh, throughout the video. But let's, let's get into it, because a lot of the women have been asking some very juicy questions, and I've been noticing some interesting things, uh, in the comments section that when I pointed it out to you, uh, you were like, Hey, Amanda, um, I would love to come on and talk to the ladies that you're talking to and just kind of share it from a, a man's perspective. And I'm so grateful to you that anytime something like that happens, and this is a very healthy masculine behavior, you immediately wanna jump in and you wanna help and you wanna help, uh, solve problems and give mentorship. And you're not just doing this here. You also do it on your own YouTube channel mm-hmm. And with your own businesses. So in case people don't know, I know some of you already do, um, you already follow him on YouTube, but for those who Dunno who you are, can you just kind of give like a quick little brief synopsis?'cause I think it gives a very, uh, interesting global perspective to the conversation that we're going to be having today. Absolutely. So most recently I am most known as the entrepreneur, expat. And in that business we help a lot of people from all over the western world, the us, Canada, and other countries, move to places like Mexico, move to places like Eastern Europe, Southeast Asia, get residencies, get second citizenship. So we're really helping people that are kind of fed up with what they're doing right now, uh, in their home country with what's going on politically with what's going on economically, and they're looking for better opportunities. And then I have also a background for over 15 years in technology and systems. As well as in marketing and business training. If any of you have had a tech issue with the membership portal, Justin is the one being that would be me making sure it gets fixed and it gets, uh, fixed very quickly. Uh, our joke in our relationship, which is a really great metaphor for masculine and feminine energy, is that I am the water. I am flowy, I am creative. Maybe a little erratic sometimes or a little bit not as organized. And you're the cup. So you're the one that gives the containment, um, and the structure, which I think is a really great mm-hmm. Place to start because giving that containment and structure is healthy masculine energy. So can you speak a little bit, uh, to that, because I just see you doing it in every area of your life. Yeah, so I think that's a really good analogy, right? You're, you're the water, you're flowy, you know, you, you are just sort of connecting with different energies and it sounds a little woo woo, but it's actually not, it's just kind of the nature of, of how you are and the nature of feminine in general. And what I do a lot of, I guess, just naturally is, is a lot of that containment. So you might come up with a really brilliant idea, like, Hey, people are asking us about what's going on with expat stuff. You know, let's start a channel, or, uh, hey, let's, let's start leaning more into products, or, Hey, let's focus on this, this group or this audience.'cause you have more of those sort of divine downloads, right? You're starting to just get energetically feel into things and, and connect and be really intuitive. You're, you're an extremely intuitive woman, and women overall tend to be more on that intuitive, energetic side than men. Connected women are exactly connected women, but you particularly are very well connected inside and, and with. Your spiritual connections and everything else, which I think increases your intuition. And then I think of myself as like the, the same way that I'm a systems person in business, kind of the systems person here, Amanda lovingly calls me her tech daddy. Um, but that's, that's part of that containment. So you'll go and be like, okay, well we're gonna do this and we're gonna do that. And sometimes maybe you, you move fast and break things. And then I create the structure behind all of that so that when somebody does buy on the membership site, they actually get the stuff that you, that you created or making sure we're following up or, you know, we, we've got the content and you're putting, you're, you're helping a lot on, even on my channel with the content ideas and with, with some of the, the strategy and like big picture and then I'm obviously recording and then doing a lot of the optimization and then looking at it and saying, okay, how do we, how do we sort of 10 x this? Like, how do we take everything at the next level? We've got the content, we're getting eyeballs, we're getting attention. How do we then. Start running ads and build the pipeline to be even more functional and more effective and all these other things. So it's a very collaborative relationship. Mm-hmm. Uh, which I think is really important because, uh, we've had this conversation on both our channels, me with Shaman Patrick, uh, and then you with, uh, some of your clients that you were just interviewing for, entrepreneur Expat that you helped them with their, uh, residency here in Mexico. And one of the things that has come up over and over and over again is that couples, once they're together, we'll talk about dating in a little while, but once you're together and you're married and you're like lifeing together, uh, you really need to learn how to collaborate. In that way. And sometimes it takes a little while to figure out, so do you have any tips for the married couples who are watching this? And you're like, wait a minute. We're just constantly fighting all the time. Like, we run businesses together, or I can't get my husband to be ambitious, or we can't get on the same page. That's, that's the big one. Do you have any, any tips, uh, in that regard for the women and, and also the men? Yeah, we do have some men who watch. I think a lot of it is, is understanding what it is that you're, that you're doing, what it is that you're working on that's bigger than you. Uh, I'll, I'll pull from a second. I'll pull in a second from more of a spiritual angle on this, but just practically speaking, and this is why the divorce rate is so much lower with, with couples that are running businesses together, for example, compared to like everybody else, or maybe the general population, because they're working towards a common goal. So if you're running a business with your spouse, like you're already ahead of most people in terms of the likelihood of that marriage working out. But in terms of the, the collaboration when you are working on projects together, I think it's about just understanding the, the bigger picture. That's number one. Like understanding what your larger goals are that are pulling you towards maybe putting aside some of your differences or putting aside some of your feelings. I know with us, I mean, it's not perfect. Like sometimes we step on each other's toes. Uh, sometimes that might say something where I'm like, Hey, we should, you know, we should change the way that we're doing this thing in business, but you might take it a little bit more critically and we've, we've both been getting better at that or vice versa. Right. That is something of the feminine, that is one of our shadow sides is that we'll take stuff is criticism. And then one of the shadow sides of men that they need to learn about women is how do we express in a way where, where they don't take it critically. Yeah. Where the woman's not gonna feel criticized. Yeah. It's that's true. Yeah. That, that, that's something I'm working on too. Yeah. So that is one of the, one of the things we talk a lot about on this channel. We haven't really done the reverse, but we've talked a lot about how women can speak to men, uh, to inspire them and get the message across. Uh, but we haven't done much of the reverse yet. Yeah. Because men also need to learn. Uh, how women take in information and, and the psychology of women and, and how all that works. Yeah, and I, I think we should definitely go into that. One thing I'll just finish with on, on that initial topic though, is that from a, if you are, if you are spiritual, and you know, we're not religious, but we, we study spirituality and energy and shamanism and, uh, plant medicine and homeopathy and so many other things, and there's always this through line that the way, I mean, even if you just take it from a, like a purely pragmatic standpoint, if you are connected with something and they have this in the 12 step programs and everything else as well, if you are connected with something that's greater than yourself, then you're a lot more likely to actually achieve your goals and to succeed. Right? And do it in a way where you're not burning yourself out. So from a spiritual standpoint. You take God or universe as this sort of, not just motivation, but something that you're allowing to flow through you as you're creating. And also you realize that it's not just about you. Like, what are you actually here to do? What's really your purpose on this planet? Because it's really easy to get caught up in the day to day of, oh, like I gotta do four sales calls today and I don't know, I don't know where my next client's gonna come from. Or managing a household or managing the kids or, or managing the house or, or any of that. Like, you're stressed about work, you're stressed about finances, you're stressed about clients, or a project's not going the right way or what, whatever. And it's, it's easy to take that out on yourself and then of course on, on your spouse as well. But when you have something greater and you're like, this is all part of a much bigger plan, then it, it becomes much less important. You attribute a lot less importance to. Those little things on the human level that don't seem to be going well. And you might even laugh at them at some point and say, wow, that's really silly. Or laugh either the, the thing or the situation or better laugh at yourself. It's good to, to just be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself seriously. But when you realize that there's something much bigger out there than just you, or even then just your relationship, that's why your, your mom said this rightly so. It's like you put God first and then your relationship, right. But God or universe or whatever it is that that comes first and then the human aspect of how you relate, and then the business or the friends or, or, or anything else, the kids, right? You know, all that stuff. And a lot of couples that I've seen as well, when they're, when they have a family, when they have kids, they make the mistake of saying, okay, my kids are number one. I have to put them before everything else. It's like, no, you need to put yourself first and then your kids, because it's like the oxygen masks on the airplane. You have to put yours on first. You have to make sure that you are actually okay first, because if you don't. How on earth are you gonna be responsible in making sure that other people are okay? Yeah. And there's this interesting thing that happens that we now know a lot of times when couples only put their, their kids first, um, and they've made their whole life, their kids, then what happens? The kids grow up, they go to college, they leave the house. Uh, maybe not as quickly in some of the countries that we hang out in. Mm-hmm. But at least in the western world, they leave the house at a pretty young age. And then you, like a lot of, uh, couples are finding themselves not even knowing what to talk about. Mm-hmm. When their kids are adults and their marriage just falls apart and the marriage falls apart because they made their whole marriage, their kids, and now their kids are not in the house. And that goes back to like why maybe running a business or at least having projects with your spouse is so important is because you wanna have something in common. If you only get into relationship for good sex and for the high, the chemicals. Yeah. The romance, the brain chemicals that come from that. Your relationship isn't gonna last very long, or it's gonna be very tumultuous. And I would say, because I know there's a lot of single women and even some single men watching this, the way that you are able to get into a relationship and later, even a marriage where you have things in common, is you find things that you have in common in the first place is you're dating. And that's the filter. It's not the, you know, the physical attributes necessarily. It's not, you know, am I feeling emotionally charged around this person all the time? It's, which by the way, also, actually a lot of that comes from a place of toxicity, not from a place of genuine, like healthy, I guess love, right? Yeah. It comes from a toxic placement. All you're feeling is that that emotion, uh, that energy, that charge, that the ups and the downs, that fire exactly, that, that comes from a, comes from a very toxic place. And it tends to come from a place where you're, you're, uh, attachment styles are like. Opposites. Right? That's not healthy. Or trauma, right. Or trauma, exactly. But trauma usually causes those issues with attachment styles, but that's how we're taught to love. Instead of that, why don't you actually go and join a club doing something you like to do? Um, in my case, maybe my hobbies are very, very techy, so perhaps I don't have this, you know, if we weren't, weren't married, like if I, if I was out there and single again, maybe I wouldn't have as much of a, of a dating pool if I went just around those. Like, I like servers, I like technology, uh, I like, you know, things like that. But, you know, hey, get into something that maybe it some point was really interesting to you, even if it's not like your favorite thing in the world. But I enjoy, let's say, okay, you like gardening, uh, you like animals, you know, you can go and volunteer at an animal shelter, things like that where you can find somebody that's got those common interests, or at the very least, the common value. Yeah. Um, there's so many places I wanna go with this.'cause you mentioned such, such good stuff here. So in the high value Women transformation program, uh, I teach them in one of the modules how to expand their social circles so they can find high value men. And that's literally one of the things that I said. I'm like, what are your hobbies, girl? Like, what are you doing? Because some people literally just like, go to work, go home, repeat, go to work, go home, repeat. There's, there's no life. Um, outside of that, and I know that if you're watching this from the United States or Canada or parts of Western Europe or Australia right now, things are just a little bit intense, uh, where people, and we can get into what's going on there as well because you have this really interesting, uh, global perspective that I'd like to talk about, um, as well because we are getting people from all over the world commenting. But that's one of the things I talk about. I'm like, what do you like to do? So for example, in our case, uh, we met through a business group. Through a networking group. Mm-hmm. Uh, a networking group for six and seven figure entrepreneurs. We both liked business. Uh, you had to pay to get into that group. Yeah. Which meant that there was a higher caliber of person. I don't know any other way of saying it. That's, that's, that's what I would say. Yeah. I mean, there's a, there's a higher barrier to entry. Yeah. So when you just do stuff that's free or that, you know, might apply to anyone, there's no, there's no filter. Yeah. Right. But when you're, you're doing something, and it's the same thing with business. When you're networking, why would you go to a free Chamber of Commerce event? Figure out how you can, even if you don't necessarily pay, but it figure out how you can get invited to a party. That's really difficult to get into for business people. A party or an event, or like, you went to Grant Cardone's things on a yacht. I think some you got invited to, or some you maybe bought a program and you were able to get to that and you got to people that were like, literally some of the people on that boat were rebuilding Haiti. Yeah. Right. Like Yeah. Some of the, the women connect there, some of them were selling. Yeah, exactly. So, so they're. You wanna create filters because otherwise you're gonna spend your entire life using your own filtering system instead of just borrowing other people's filters. Well, to your point, I also mentioned that in the program where I'm like, Hey, you know, if you wanna go find like high value ambitious men who wanna provide, I mean, when I went to Grant Cardone's events and say what you want about the guy, I know that, you know, it's a love or hate relationship with Grant Cardone, he's a very polarizing figure. Mm-hmm. But I was in Miami, I knew a lot of people who worked for him. Uh, I went to a lot of those events and I remember having a, an employee back in my previous business before you came into the picture. And we would go to those events and that's where I started learning a lot about, um, kind of like healthy masculine behavior, was actually going to those events full of high performing businessmen. Because when I would ask them like, Hey, you know, and I would come from a place of curiosity. Which I encourage all women to do. Like when you're approaching men come from a and this whole like dating thing and polarity and come, um, approach it from a place of curiosity. Mm-hmm. I spent six or seven years before I met you in those circles, just asking the men like, Hey, why do you do what you do by the way? And do you know what they would tell me why I'm doing this for my wife and kids, or I'm doing this for my future wife and kids. And I remember having an employee and she went to the event, she goes, why are all the men here so hot? Like, how do I get one of these? Right? Because there was this energy, oh hi Mia. There was this energy of these men want to provide, these men are ambitious, these men are fighting for something. And then do you wanna know what else those men would tell me? And I know you used to have a, an issue with this in your past relationships. They said one of their biggest problems in relationships was the fact that they were either married to or dating a woman. Who would complain about how ambitious they are and how hard they work. The irony there, it's like you girl, you literally, you literally are, are looking for a man who's ambitious, who's hardworking, who's gonna take care of you, who's gonna be able to help you raise a family. But then you complain when he does the activities that make that happen make it make sense. They were so confused because they'd be like, why is she so upset? I'm building this for her. Yeah. You know, I'm doing it for her. I'm doing it for the kids. And I did have a problem with that. Yeah. With past relationships where they wouldn't understand why I was always traveling, why I was going to events, why I was going to conferences, why I was doing personal development. They weren't about it. And then on top of that, like, oh, you need to spend more time with me and I need your attention and all this stuff. And you're never really like that. Well, because I understand what it takes to run businesses and Yeah. Um. I also understand that part of the masculine and especially high achieving, high performing men, yeah, ladies, they work a lot, but they're doing it for you. I'm working 10, 12 hours a day sometimes. I mean, you've seen me the last week, for example. We, we were, for any of any of you guys who are in tech, we got approved for names IPV four and six namespace. So we've got our own basically, uh, real estate on the internet essentially, but at a very high level. And so I was learning how to do these BGP protocols and configure our routers and set up stuff so that when we go to Miami. In a couple months here and we're about to put our servers in a data center there.'cause we're, we, we have a lot of people going to our sites. We have a lot of hosting clients, whatever. How long was I obsessed with that for? I think probably three, four days. Just nonstop. I mean, I basically didn't sleep. Yeah. I was talking to chat GPT at night under the covers. Yeah. And then, and I was asking a questions and trying to figure things out. And I was at my computer and I was up till 3:00 AM And then on top of that, you're filming content. You've been on interviews for your channel recently. You were just booking our plane tickets for real estate, uh, not real estate. A research and development trip to Albania. You were figuring all the logistics out. Then I got a hell of a deal too. You did, right. You were figuring all that stuff out. And that also is a part of the masculine is like this planning and thinking toward the future and figuring out the logistics, uh, and all those kinds of things. A lot of women, and I'd like to hear your perspective on this complaint to me, that they're, it's, it's like opposite Yeah. In their marriages. Like they're the ones who have to resolve everything and the guy's not, that's weird. Resolving. It's really weird. Too much. Yeah. Like, I mean, I, I, I understand where you're coming from because you've mentioned this before, but maybe for the benefit of the audience and also to give me even more context about where you want to go with that. Like, what do you mean? What's an example of that? Because I, I'm sure a lot of the people watching can relate, although I, I think maybe if you give some specific examples mm-hmm. That'll help me as well. Yeah, of course. I think a typical example is the woman who is splitting half the bills with a man, which I know you have thoughts on. Mm-hmm. Um, it's a woman who's doing that. She's working her butt off at a job. She's managing the household, she's managing most of the kids. I mean, we saw it. When we did a lot of the, the business consulting stuff and groups that we used to run before, a lot of the stuff that you do now when you were doing business consulting, I mean, we literally saw it. There were women who would show up on the calls and suddenly they would have some sort of like physical sickness or breakout or some autoimmune things start coming up. And when we started asking questions, we would come to find out she's paying all the bills, she's managing the kids husband, perhaps was going to school, quit now isn't doing much of anything. And then we're like, well, of course your body's freaking out. Yeah. Um, being under all of that amount of stress. So, I mean, that would be an example. So I, I will preface it with this. Um, especially in the West right now, in the US and the in, in Canada and Australia and the UK and a lot of countries where like cost of living and things are getting outrageous, which by the way. If you wanna get outta those places, talk to us, because we can, we can help you with that too, um, through our entrepreneur, expat brand. But in places like that, where cost of living is just absolutely out of control, you sometimes need to have two adults in a family working full time to be able to make things work. I'm not even gonna say that it, that it's not unreasonable that both people are working. It's, it's very difficult to raise a family right now on one income unless your husband's rich or like very, very successful in business. It's, it's, it's difficult. Like, it's not like it was 10 or 20 or 30 years ago. Here's the real issue, and this is, I think the, where, where it gets to the core of what's wrong is that from, well men, I'll start with that perspective. It, it doesn't make sense for a man to say. You need to work, but you also need to raise the kids and you need to make sure that the house is clean.'cause you, you may or may not be paying somebody to do that. Even here, I mean, we're both kind of doing our own thing. I'm bringing in the majority of the money. I'm paying bills, I'm handling all the finances. But you're, you've got a business as well. You love doing what you're doing. You, you're also bringing in some money. And I, I wouldn't have it any other way because you, you love to, to do your thing. Right. I'm glad you brought that up'cause there's a lot of women who feel like that. But I'm not asking you to clean, I'm not asking you to take care of all those things. We don't have kids. Like, that's also very different. And also, I'm not asking you to work, you are just choosing to work because you love what you're doing and it's more of a vocation for you. The issue is when they're asking their wives to do all that plus more, it's, that's not balanced. Yeah. You know. Yeah. I'm glad you brought that up actually.'cause I know, and we'll get into to what the women are saying, but, um, I've noticed that one of the fears that women have when you talk about masculine energy, feminine energy, letting a man be a provider will get more into that. Mm-hmm. Is that they feel like they're gonna be like, Susie Homemaker back in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant. Right. And I'm like, actually no, there's lots of different ways of doing this. Uh, so for example, like you said, like you don't ask me to pay bills. You take on all the responsibility of that. You like taking on the responsibility of that, which we'll get to. Mm-hmm. Because most men do ladies. Um, but in addition to that, it's something that I enjoy doing. And then at the same time, it's not like, Hey, you have to go, you know, clean the house and cook every meal. We have help that comes Yeah. Uh, twice a week, which we can do in Mexico. It doesn't in, it doesn't cost lot of money in the us That would be thousands of dollars a month. Yeah. Which still would be worth it, but. Here, it's a lot more accessible. Um, but what's the energy behind that? Because in my mind, the way that I see it is, you know, from a logical perspective, a part of it is definitely like, Hey, Amanda has skills that can either help me amplify my life and my business. Or she has skills where she can go do some creative project that she loves to do, and you've seen it happen where I have an idea and then like in a week it's making money. It's not even about the fact that does it make money or does it not make money? It's the fact that I think number one, that's really important that this, this goes back to a lot of energetic, uh, and this goes back to a lot of energetics, and it's not obvious on the surface, right? But women, because they're intuitive, they're the ones that are actually inspiring their men to greatness. That's one of those things that's like just so undervalued. Because men don't understand a lot of the time that having a woman by their side not only increases their value in society. You look at any president except maybe one or two, they were all married. Yeah, right. Even Trump and Melania, although who knows if there's anything between them anymore, I don't know. Or if it's, you know, for show or whatever, but they're all, you know, they're all married. It increases your status in society, but much more importantly, having a woman by her side who's connected to herself, who's intuitive, who's in touch with her feminine nature, actually helps you. She's bringing you ideas. She's a lot of the time connecting you to people.'cause women are the ones that are really good connectors. She's doing all these things that maybe aren't necessarily like, oh, go out. And it's just weird. It's a very low value thing to be like, oh, you, you need to help pay rent. So go out and get a$50,000 job working. It's like, no, you, you're literally are talking to like the queen of your house who's this energetic powerhouse who can inspire you to greatness, who can help you make multiple times more money. And you have, by the way, I mean, speak more to that. Yeah. Because I think, uh, number one, I don't think women understand that about themselves is what I've noticed. Like they don't understand the power that they have in feminine energy to do that for a man. Um, or there's a distortion that happens that they get with a man who has, uh, shown no signs of being able to be successful. And it's like. Uh, has a carrot stick of a dream, and then she's like, bankrolling the whole thing. Uh, that's a distortion, right? Um, but it's either like women don't understand that or they get into the distortion version of it, which is let me bankroll this man and support him while he tries to chase a rap career or something. Um, or goes back to school or, that usually doesn't end well. Mm-hmm. Uh, for the women, uh, that's not what we're talking about. Or I find that a lot of men don't understand that about women and about themselves. So can you kind of give, like, for example, give concrete examples on how I haven't like, told you what to do necessarily. Like you need to go make more money, which is like what most women will do with their men, which by the way does not work. Hi Daisy. Uh, but instead inspired you and then that's turned into more success and more money for you because I think both parties. Don't understand the power of a symbiotic relationship. And what's interesting is that most religions and spiritual traditions talk about this. Yeah. It's, it's exactly right. It's the yin and the yang. Yeah. You can't have yin without yang. You can't have dark without light. There's different qualities that make men, men that make women, women, there are different things that each do in a relationship that are their strengths. So why would you want to play to your weaknesses? Mm-hmm. Because I think that's what women are doing in a big sense when they're like, you know, I wanna, it's not that you shouldn't have your career, that's not the point. The point is you are better at a lot of those things that are in a relationship with people might consider the soft skills or the, or. The intangible. The intangible. Exactly. Yeah. That's what it is. It's, it's that intangible, but it benefits a man. You bring the inspiration to the table, you bring a lot of the, a lot of the, the connection or the connectedness. You've helped me get back in touch with my spirituality, which has helped a ton. You do magic and witchy stuff. Like we have a, what is that? Some kind of incense going, I don't even know what the hell the, the flavors or the sense or whatever are or what they do, but I know they work.'cause every time you light a candle, we end up landing a$15,000 deal. It sounds ridiculous, but like, I'm a numbers guy. I'm a data guy. Even the astrology and things like that. You've sold me on a lot of that. Mm-hmm. Because every time we travel or we try to do something complicated with business or with technology during mercury retrograde, it's always gone poorly. I didn't, but I wouldn't have even know You have. Yeah. We, we decided to push back our, our trip to Albania. Because we were looking at the dates and we're like, nah, let's, let's do it a couple weeks later instead, because it's always a disaster when we travel during, it's a disaster. Even FedEx has it marked on the calendar, right? Yeah. I knew some FedEx employees who had it marked on the calendar. Yeah. So you, you bring all that intangible that, but it's wisdom and it's not just wisdom necessarily from what you learn. We're gonna get a little woo woo here, but what you learn in this life and what you have just mentally access to what you've studied, it's also the intangible in terms of the energy that you channel in the relationship that even on paper, and again, I'm a, I'm an analytical guy. I used to be a software engineer. I'm, I'm very into the data and the numbers and the structure and the systems, and it's proven very, very effective. All the, all the stuff that you've done, which I didn't even know was something that was like part of a woman's role in a relationship because I don't think I've had that level of that type of contribution before. But it's worth a lot more to me for you to be channeling the energy and, and the intention and even resting because when you rest, you get some of your best ideas. Yeah. And they, they might bring in money through your channel. They might help me bring in money through my channel. They, they might just help me get aligned with things and make more money because of that, but they're super valuable. Yeah. Why do you think most people don't see that? Like, for example, and let's, let's get into like, you helped me with a video on this channel about the four types of men, women should not date. Mm-hmm. You're the one who helped me with that channel. Uh, because you, you have a history where, and I say this as a, as a message of hope. For the women. Right. You have a history where you did not always think this way. Mm-hmm. Like by the time you met me, you kind of were already thinking this way, like you'd already come to a lot of conclusions and done a lot of healing and inner work around masculinity and stuff like that. But you did not always think this way. So why do you think it's difficult for, um, men these days, particularly in the western world, to comprehend this? Because, uh, you're Ukrainian on one side. Mm-hmm. You're eastern European. I, and I'm Latin American, you know, and in those parts of the world, although they're not perfect, there's no perfect country. There's no perfect part of the world. It doesn't exist. We can tell you from having lived in multiple countries and studying multiple countries because of, because of your work on entrepreneur expat. But it's like a totally different way of viewing relationships and family and, and spirituality. All that stuff. Then perhaps what we're seeing now in the United States, in Canada, in Australia, in Western Europe, which by the way is where we get the most comments from on this channel. And then interestingly enough, on your channel, you hear from men from those countries who are saying they can't find feminine women. Yeah. So we have the women on my channel on those countries saying they can't find masculine men. And the men on your channel from those countries saying they can't find feminine women, help me move to another country. So like, what do you think is going on here? Why is everybody so confused? I think there's a lot of parts to it, but number one is that the society in the west right now is kind of collapsing, and that's having a really, really big toll on dating because the things that women want, for instance. Are very different than the things that they're told by society that they want or that they should want. And that in and of itself is a recipe for disaster. And then you take something like the red pill movement and pick up and I was involved in that for a while. We'll get into that. We'll get into it. But you take things like that, there are response to things like the later waves of feminism telling women that they want something that biologically, psychologically, like every, everything else, even societally, are not what they really want and are not even in their best interest. That's the part'cause it too far, that's the part that's the part that's crazy is whatever wave of feminism we're on right now, and this is what I tell women or it's not actually in the interest of women. No, it's not really feminism. And most women go into dating situations these days negotiating against themselves. Yeah. I'm like, imagine starting a relationship where you start splitting the bills 50 50 from be from the beginning. And then you're, you end up marrying the guy and now you're exhausted. Well girl, you set the precedent. Yeah. You negotiated against yourself in the name of equality. Yeah. It's crazy. And then on the flip side with men, what you have is like the red pill stuff being, uh, they call it, uh, when, when I studied a lot of dating and psychology concepts, they call it this, this thing, the polar opposing insecurity compensation, the POIC. Right. That's when you have a pendulum. And the pendulum has swung so far to the other side from their reaction to feminism and their reaction to a lot of how Me Too and things like that have just gone too far, especially in the west. And then that causes them to want to use women for sex, to want to, to not have to have commitment, to want to just get whatever it is that they want. Short term. It's damaging for everyone. It's damaging. Yeah. And it's because long term it's almost like not worth it. To these men anymore to really pursue women and try to have a relationship because what's the benefit? You know, they're, they're, they're being accused of things that they didn't do. In a lot of cases, the men are, uh, they're also being seen. I mean, even just now it's like this, maybe we'll put this ad up that I saw, if I can find it, but there was like an ad on the, the subway in London that said that, that looking at somebody with a sexual intent is now harassment and it's illegal and that you need to report it to the police. I'm like, okay, so we're not allowed to approach a woman on the street or in a coffee shop because that's assault somehow now. Mm-hmm. We're not allowed to look at somebody on public transport, which, by the way, the west has gone too far in terms of all that and free speech and so many other areas. But I won't go down that rabbit hole. You can follow Entrepreneur X stack for that. Yeah, we, we talked about that a little bit there. Yeah. Uh, but the issue is that. It's, it's going so far where, where like men are afraid to, to make any move and to, to have any semblance of masculinity. Of masculinity that they show because they're gonna be reprimanded or worse locked away. Yeah. I mean, doesn't, and that's one of the reasons that you're seeing these women complain about having men that don't approach them anymore. Yeah. That aren't masculine. What do you think is different being Eastern Europe about eastern European culture in this regard? Because for example, um, I saw an Eastern European woman talk about this the other day. Mm-hmm. And she was saying, you know, in Eastern Europe, and I showed you the viral TikTok about, uh, asking the American men versus the Russian men about whether or not they go 50 50. Relationships and you started, oh God, there's another one where it's like, where she says, uh, oh, I, I, I can't pay my half of the rent anymore. I can't pay my mortgage. Right. But I showed you these tiktoks, um, and the one with the American men versus the Russian men. You chuckled being Ukrainian and also have Russian ancestry. Um, so what is different between the east eastern European mindset, for example, and the western mindset where they seem to be having a relationship crisis?'cause I will tell you one thing I've noticed from being married to an Eastern European and learning more about the culture and things like that, number one, not that different than Latin America in terms of like family. Mm-hmm. Really, really important structure. Uh, and they take that very seriously in Eastern European cultures. Uh, but number two, I noticed that the women have a respect for masculinity. And then the masculinity intern respect exactly the feminine. In Eastern Europe, you do not have this pussy behavior of men saying, uh, women pay 50 50 and she raise kids and she clean house and what are you talking about? Men provide men go to work, men go kill bear. If men need to kill bear, that is what we are doing. That is what we are here to do. And the women appreciate. Yeah. Yeah. Whereas when you asked the American guys on that TikTok, if they wanted, if the women should go 50 50, I mean, it sounded like they were lacking testosterone because they were like, they are, they, they're, there's a lot of very, very feminized men. And a lot of what I saw in that red pill community, unfortunately, was very feminized men that also came from a lot of trauma like I did in, in my childhood and lack of a strong father figure. And, and they're, they're both retaliating against what society is doing and what they feel that women are doing to them. And also they're, they're, they're scared of saying the wrong thing. They're scared. Yeah. They're like, whatever She. Yeah, exactly. Which to women is well actually unsexy. And, and, and you either like with the red pill or with other things, you either go one way, which is these men become very, very feminized and now women don't find'em attractive. But yet somehow the women end up getting in relationships where they're paying all their bills because they don't value the themselves enough. The women don't. And then on the flip side, you have those men that are basically switching from a very anxious attachment style, right? Where, where maybe they didn't get, get enough love, they didn't get enough attention, especially from their mother. And so they're, they're like anxious and they're the ones who are like constantly, you know, texting a girl or like try, you know, asking her after the date, like how, basically how it went and like, uh, just all these like very weird supplicative behaviors. So they go from that extreme or they're not even getting dates at all and they don't know how to talk to a girl. I mean, I was like that in high school. I didn't really date, uh, women at all until like after high school. So they go from that to then being these like pickup artist types that just want to have this massive harem and keep everybody sort of on a, on a string. But they're not really setting proper boundaries. They're using manipulation a lot of the time, emotionally, and they're not typically having healthy relationships. And I'm not gonna say that, like not having a monogamous relationship is bad. Right. Do whatever you want. I'm not criticizing that or saying anything about that, although I don't know if it's as effective. It's definitely not effective for, uh, you know, family and things like that. But the way that people are going about it is unhealthy. It's toxic. It's manipulative. And so you're going from someone who was, it's essentially like going from someone who is a victim, or at least internally in your own mind, you were a victim all the way to now. You are the oppressor, the predator, you're the oppressor, you're the predator, which we can argue. It happens a lot in society and in the world. Right? Yeah. What are some of the ways that, uh, unhealthy men manipulate women? Because what I find from the women is there's a lot of confusion as to what healthy behavior is versus what it's not. And interesting point. You know, a lot of the things in the western world that are demonized in men end up being like healthy, normal, psychologically healthy male behaviors. Like we saw a thing about mansplaining the other day from Adam Lane Smith, and I was like, I have never felt mansplained in my life, but I would see a lot of other women complaining about it. But it's because I understood that men like to solve problems and fix things and mentor the people around them. It's one of the ways in which they give, most women don't know that, so they think every man is mans, um, to them. Yeah. I mean, so, so men definitely do have work in a lot of areas, as, as I did, certainly in, in communication and saying things in a way where. You're talking a woman's language, that's something that sometimes isn't easy to learn because you have a, a worldview and an understanding that may be very, very different and that's okay. But men can practice that shirt. So a, a component of that definitely is that they need to have a better understanding and just have female friends, because when they have female friends, they're gonna get more of that context and understand how women think and what their needs and desires and everything else are. And vice versa. And vice versa. A hundred percent. Which is part of what you do in your courses and everything else, which is amazing because women need this and men need this, and maybe there's, there's more speaking to men that I get to do. In fact, we're working on another brand there, so we'll probably put the details down below this video, uh, when we do create some of those content pieces. But back to your question of, you know, what, what is it that that kind of does that it's, it's the fact that, so yes, there's that communication discrepancy. But more of it, again, is what it's society saying, Hey, this thing is bad. You shouldn't let a man, you know, walk you through this thing step by step because oh, open your door, pay your bills. Well, that too, that's, that's a whole other issue. But even on the concept of what you were saying, mansplaining at you, it's, it, it's like, do do you want an answer or not? Yeah. Can some men be condescending? Can some men purposefully be controlling? Yes. But that's not most men. Yeah. Most men are just genuinely trying to be helpful. So it's giving them the benefit of the doubt. And I think that a lot of the stuff that's coming down from, from society and from what other people are telling you, number one, it's not coming from healthy people. Number two, it's probably coming from people that have a vested interest in manipulating you. Correct. So let's get into the ones that have a vested interest in manipulating you. Um, because when you were very young, in your time it was called pickup. Mm-hmm. Now it's called red pill. You got into that red pill space and you've seen the comments. Well, they'll start arguing with me in the comment section. You're like, that's crazy. What kind of a grown man argues with a woman? Like, you're just so confused at the comments that I get from the red pill guy. I won't enter an elevator with a female and stuff like that. Um, they've gone way off the deep end, the ones that are commenting that. But to your point, there are men out here who will manipulate women and I'll tell you the types of women they manipulate and then you can tell them how they do the manipulation. Yeah. So the type of woman, number one that gets manipulated is what I call, um, the, um, wounded maiden. Right? So she's like the victim. She's like the one we see in the no. Right, right. This just very toxic woman who makes everyone's life a living hell and a disaster. And these red pill guys think every woman is that. And that's where a lot of the, the philosophy comes from because maybe their mom, uh, was like that. Yeah. And they saw their mom destroy their dad. So I understand. Been there in order to have compassion, I can relate. The other type of woman that they look for is, and that woman's also very insecure. Mm-hmm. So they will target that woman. The other type of woman that they target, I've noticed is the next level up, um, which is the awakening warrior is what I call her, which she is starting to take a lot of responsibility for her own life. She's no longer in that victim consciousness, but she goes way into hyper independence. Mm-hmm. And she's still in this kind of like in-between stage where she perhaps hasn't, she's learning how to take care of herself, which is great. Uh, because it won't put her in desperate situations like the victim, but she usually gets targeted as well because she still has insecurities. And I noticed that she'll get targeted by men like the other TikTok that I showed you about, a homeless man teaching other homeless men on TikTok, how to find a woman that'll pay all their bills for six months. And they're usually like working in hr. They're usually six figure earners. Like they usually have own a house, like they're usually doing well for themselves and they'll target these women. I remember my mom telling me that one time, um, where she's like, yeah, I'm not, I mean, she obviously changed this, but she goes, I, I wouldn't buy you a house because men will target you. Like bad men will.'cause you have something. Yeah. Because you have something. So those are the types of women I've noticed, right? It's like those first two stages of what I call the divine feminine stages. They will get targeted. By unhealthy men. I want to hear from you since you were on the inside. Mm-hmm. Right? Uh, again, you got over this way before you met me, and then we can talk about how men can get out of it.'cause I do feel like there's more men waking up from the red pill stuff. Um, how do these men manipulate women for, am I right in my, in my assessment of who they target? No, I mean, I think it's all of them. Okay. I think it's, I think it's really all of them at different levels, but for most of what I've seen in that pickup space, and some of it isn't even like conscious manipulation. You just sort of think that, hey, I'm, it depends on the level, right? When I started to get to a level of uncomfortability where I'm like, oh, maybe I'm actually not being authentic. Maybe I am being manipulative here. That's when I would usually like not do that because I had a little bit better defined moral compass and I wasn't perfect and I am sure I hurt a lot of people's feelings. Through the process because whether or not you're doing something consciously that doesn't actually change how it, it works. And I think that a lot of these men, I'm not gonna say that they're innocent, but they're coming at it from a place of not necessarily trying to screw women over or, or purposefully control or manipulate them. They're, they're coming at it almost from a place of, this is just how things are, so this is how you have to play the game. So I don't think it's necessarily that they're even a hundred percent of the time being bad or evil, but there is a small percentage, and maybe that's 5%, maybe that's 10%. And this isn't necessarily even just people in the pickup space. This is also people in the kind of adjacent space where they just like don't care at all for anyone's feeling that that's, that's like the sort of sociopath level where they don't care at all, at all for anybody's feelings. They only care about their feelings. They don't care how many people they have to hurt. In order to get what they want, whether that's love, whether that's a relationship, whether that's sex, whether that's, uh, having a harem of women. But I, I will say though, that it's, that's a very small percentage, but that tends to be what the leaders of a lot of those groups are either promoting or the place that they're coming from, or they're coming from a place where they're so kind of delusion by the entire game or by themselves or by their own ego that they can't actually see that they're being manipulative or cruel or whatever it is. That's even, even, again, in, in the leadership and the people that are, that are speaking most in those spaces, I think most of them are not trying to lead men astray from a, from that standpoint where they're just trying to hurt them or hurt the women, or both. But there's a couple percent for sure where it's, you know, no, we don't care what, what the women's Experie is at all. Mm-hmm. And they're actually manipulating men to get them to give them money and to, to boost them up and build their own egos. Mm-hmm. Power, respect, whatever it is. They're more in it because they want to either build a business or like put themselves almost to the point of like being a demigod. Mm-hmm. That's a lot of what I've seen. So it's not, I mean, guys, it's really not like, Hey, these guys, all of them are just in it because they just wanna, they're, they're just, I think misinformed. They're coming from their Don't them though. No, no. They're not ready to date. Don't date them. Yeah. But it realize that it's not just because they really want to cause damage to you, it's because they're probably hurt themselves. They're dealing with their own insecurities and they didn't have a strong father figure to show them how to talk to women. And they think that the only way, for example, that they can get a, a woman to have a relationship with them is that they have sex quickly with that woman. Otherwise they're gonna be seen as a loser, which is so damaging. Which, yeah. But that's like one of one a very big tenant is what they say is you have to, you know, sleep with this woman quickly, otherwise you're, you're, you know, they're never gonna respect you. That's literally like one of the most common things you'll hear there. It's interesting. I'll do a video on this, on how that actually screws with a woman's brain. Mm-hmm. If she does that well, it does, but it gives the man control. Yeah. So it's sort of like a, you know, do the, do the ends justify the means sort of thing. And in a lot of the red pill stuff that they don't really care as much about the means or they're misguided into thinking that the very, very insecure, not self-aware women is are, are all that there, are there, yeah. That there are no secure self-confident women, by the way, or they're all crazy. Yeah. Or by the way, the ones that are secure, the ones that are self-confident, they already see those men and they're like, they don't, they're not even, they don't even respond at like, what is wrong with this person. Yeah. Which is why a lot of the girls that I attracted with. Some of that methodology were not healthy, secure, confident women. Yeah. That had their own stuff going. Yeah. Right. I was always like, it's so funny how like the hyper independent women who are talking about like six pack and, and six, six figures. Six pack pack, uh, what was the other one? Six feet? Six. Yeah. Six feet. Do you know what, what actual like, percentage of men even make six figures. I forget the exact number, but it's already like a percent or a couple, a few percent or something like that. Then, oh, they have a six pack and they're six feet. Like, that's almost zero. It's a very small percentage of men, but everybody wants that. So the, the, the scales economically are not, they're not tipped in your, well again, that goes back to women not knowing what actually matters. Yeah. In a relationship either and also not, and men also No. Not knowing what matters. No.'cause men think, okay, she's attractive. The sex is gonna be great. She's hot, she's hot. It's good. That's gonna be a good re. That's all that your relationship is about. I mean, that's a recipe for, for disaster. For disaster. What are a couple of the other ways that these men will, uh, manipulate women? Because I got ladies out here who are dating. Okay. Yeah. I need them to know. Yeah. Trying to sleep with you really fast. I mean, that's typically a red flag, right? Because it probably doesn't mean that he actually likes you. For you, he doesn't know you if, if it's the first or the second or the third date. I'm not saying never Right. Have sex on the, on the second or third or whatever date. That's not the point. But if you feel the pressure to do that really early on, it's not really a good sign. Right. That's one way, for sure. Another way is if you start to get really emotionally involved because of the, the sort of energetic dynamic, especially if it reminds you of maybe an insecure. Experience that you had with your father or even with your mother, you feel that pattern being repeated, that's a huge red flag. And if you feel it being repeated very early on, there's a non-zero chance that he's picking up on your patterns and he's using those to be able to influence you in a way that's not good for you. What is nagging? I heard you try and explain nagging to me one time and, and unhealthy men will do that, uh, to women to try and get them to, I don't know, sleep with them. I guess. What is nagging? Yeah, so that's basically nagging is basically when you give a woman a backhanded compliment, that's also an insult. Because what you're doing is you're sort of preying on those insecurities to say, oh, this is really nice, but this other thing, because what's that? What that's doing is essentially lowering her self-esteem so that you can come in and you're like the source of any additional self-esteem that she does have. It's a very, it's a very like, bad thing to do psychologically to anyone, but essentially, here's an example. Uh, oh my God, Amanda, I really love your nails. Are those real? Um, where like, they're obviously not real. You see what I did there? Mine are real, but yours are. Yeah, but I'm saying if if they weren't, yeah. If they weren't, yeah. Yeah. Okay. That's really interesting. And that is supposed to work. How, like what's the logic behind that? The logic, and it does work on insecure women, the reason it works is because you, well, there's a few reasons. Number one, you're taking them on an emotional rollercoaster. So a lot of the time what these red pill guys will do. They're trying to spike their emotions. Now, you reminded me of a few other things that I'll mention about, you know, some of these tips and tricks that they, that they get passed down to them. Uh, but with nagging, you're taking them on an emotional rollercoaster. So the idea is you're always like boosting their emotions. You're, you're getting them in a heightened emotional state. So what you're doing is you're taking them on an emotional rollercoaster. You bring'em up, then, oh, by the way, you're, oh, okay. You're bringing them down. You're creating like this sort of false sense of hope, almost like an emotional addiction. Yeah. I think, I think if I had to analyze it,'cause I never really analyzed it that deeply psychologically, because it was just like, oh, okay, this is interesting. You know, we're, we're learning a thing at this seminar from this coach or whatever, and I thought, that's just how you talk to women. That's just, you know, how you communicate with women because I didn't know any better. But yeah, if you, if you really look at it from a psychological perspective. No, don't. No, leave your sister alone. Daisy. The the children are here joining us on camera. They're wherever we are. Yeah. They, they love us. They, they love to be make little cameos. Yeah. So as I was saying, they use these things to, to sort of give them an emotional rollercoaster and then to also essentially be the source of any of those positive emotions while taking them down a notch psychologically and playing on their insecurities. Another thing, and this isn't called this anymore, I don't think, but you have things like DHV where you're demonstrating higher value, which like makes sense. You, you want to, to present yourself in a good light. Yes. Right? But not only is it toxic because it's done in a contrived way where you're doing it to make her think that you're someone that you're not. A lot of men will actually go and lie about those things. Like there's literal manuals where you memorize a six hour routine stack. I'm not making this up. I'm sure you're not. Yeah, yeah. You memorize this like six hour routine stack where you're telling them other people's stories about their successes. Like, oh yeah, when I had my stripper ex-girlfriend in Monaco and blah, blah, blah, and then this happened, and then I got into this fight and then this. You're like creating these sort of emotional triggers that play into evolutionary psychology, which do work, right. That's the thing. It's not like this stuff doesn't work. It does. And then men think that that's the way that they need to do it because they've had success getting into relationships, physical or otherwise, short term or long term, but most of them don't get far enough that they actually have a sustainable relationship or their relationships will evaporate very quickly. Or maybe they will be dating that woman that they attract with all these manipulations and techniques and whatever. They will be dating her for a few years or get married to her. But then what is that relationship based on? Lies, insecurity, manipulation, trauma, insecure attachment styles. Yeah. It's not healthy. Yeah. It's the same thing as women who are taught to be gold diggers, where it's like a lot of manipulation and all, and I know a lot of the provider man content gets inflated with the gold digger stuff. It's not, they're different. Um, but the, but when you go to the other extreme of how women are taught to manipulate men,'cause I tell people this all the time, there's shitty manipulative people all over the world. Of course, right? On both sides. Yeah. On both sides. Men and women. It's, but it's a smaller percentage than most people think. I think it's just like 10%. Mm-hmm. Uh, is what I heard actually have some sort of personality disorder. Not everybody's a narcissist, right? Because I know that likes to get thrown around, um, a lot. It's maybe 10% of the population that does actually have. Some sort of like personality disorder or something like that from what we know. Um, but the other thing is that, you know, I try and tell people this all the time. Most people are just confused. Yeah, that's, that's exactly, that's exactly it. I mean, I didn't think I was doing anything wrong. I didn't think I was being hurtful to women and I did my best not to be. Yeah. But you either do end up hurting them or best case scenario you don't, but you're attracting a person that's not healthy, that's toxic, that's insecure, that's not gonna be good for you. You're not respecting your own value because you're going out and, uh, intentionally or otherwise attracting these women into your life and having relationships with them when they're not right in their own mind. Right. And in their own self. If there's a man watching this right now, I doubt a red pill guy got this far into it. But if there is a man watching this right now, because we do have many I'm They did. I'm sure they're gonna be in the comments. Yeah. What would you say to a man who is watching this and hearing you say that? He's starting to wake up to the fact of like, oh, wait a second. There's something else out here. Maybe I've been lied to mm-hmm. About the nature of women, or maybe I've been lied to about how relationships work and Oh, actually I have been feeling really icky. Yeah. They wouldn't use the word icky, but I've been feeling like something's not right. Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's not that all relationship coaching or even all dating coaching or dating coaches are bad. I don't think that that's the case at all it's picking and choosing, and this is something I, this is something I'm even talking about here because I feel called to like share my own story and my own message a little bit because I think that even if I don't end up turning into some sort of business at some point, I, I, I know that I'm helping people and that's like enough for me. So there are good coaches out there, just like there are good business coaches, just like there are good life coaches, but. They're not all created equal. And whenever you start to hear content that goes against common sense. Although there's a lot of weird things that society today calls common sense that it's not, or that they're they're touting is the correct thing that's not. So you have to be discerning. And the way that you be discerning, by the way, is to ground yourself spiritually and emotionally. Correct. I'm not saying go and join the church, right? But you want to meditate. You want to understand what's authentic to you and what isn't, and use your body to determine, you know, what is and isn't. You see how you're feeling if you're going up to that nightclub and you're, you know, to a woman there and you're spouting lines that aren't even you, and you're making things up and you're acting in a way. Let's say that you're really introverted and you don't like going to clubs, but you're, you're a red pill coach or trainer or somebody on the internet. Some YouTube video you're watching says you gotta, you gotta go out and do night game, you gotta practice, you gotta go and talk to. A hundred women, you know, at a, at a nightclub. Granted there's a time and place for that. Like if you're really insecure, you're shy, you wanna move a little bit more towards being extroverted, it's not a bad idea to go out to a bar with your friends. Mm-hmm. And meet people and be social. But there are also a lot of other better ways to do that, arguably. Right. But if you find yourself like regularly in an environment like that, that's not who you are, that's not authentic, where you're meeting people that aren't the kinds of people you just wanna be around at all. Stop doing that. That's why I left Vegas. I'm like, I don't want to be in Las Vegas anymore. Just going out. And I didn't even get drunk. I mean, I, I would go out pretty much sober. I mean, sometimes we'd have a drink or two before we went to the club just to kind of get in the mood. But I wasn't buying drinks at the nightclub. We weren't, even when I had friends that had tables and bottle service and whatever, I mean, we weren't really drinking maybe a little bit, but I wasn't going out there because I wanted to get drunk because I wanted to party. I was going there because I thought it's how I would meet quality women. And I'm not saying that quality women aren't in nightclubs, but. Chances. Most of them. The chances. Yeah, exactly. So, so that's the main thing really, is when you start to feel like whatever you're doing, whatever you're saying, whoever you're being is inauthentic. It feels icky in your body. It feels icky in yourself. When you hear somebody say that, even if you try it and it works, it doesn't mean that it's authentic to you. What I had to do a lot of, because I, I was coming from a place where I was a maybe more of a nice guy, even though I wasn't a nice guy in the manipulative sense. I was a nice guy in that I was introverted. I had never really been exposed too much to, to women or talking to women. I didn't have a father figure to show me the ropes, so to speak. I was coming from that place on one side of the pendulum, and then I started looking at the pickup stuff and I'm like, okay, well this is on the totally opposite side. Maybe there's something here that I need to learn. And there was, and I did learn a few good things. I'm not throwing it all away. Uh, but overall, a lot of it was coming from a very inauthentic place. And to be honest, it's hard to know who to trust and who to listen to. It's not always, it's not always black and white. Right, right. All right. Let's get back to the ladies. That was the message for the men. This is something that comes up in the comment section quite a lot, or in the emails. A woman has been with a man for many, many years. There is no ring in sight. She really wants a ring. And I try to tell the women, Hey, it doesn't take men that long to figure out whether they want to marry someone. If you like it, then you should have put a ring on it. Yeah. So in your experience, and that's what I've heard from several men including you, that it didn't take that long to figure it out. What message do you have for the women who are in that situation where they're with a man and they've been dating him for years? It's not, and they wanna get married, it's just not happening. I have my theories as to why that happens. Yeah. My theory as to why that happens, usually the woman's a bit more insecure. Mm-hmm. Um, so he, and she's trying, or she's trying to play it Cool. She's not trying to be too much or too demanding, but basically in trying to play it cool. She did not, at some point in the beginning say, Hey, I'm looking for marriage and kids. Yeah. Again, I wouldn't say that it's that men are necessarily being sinister. If they've been dating you for months or years and they're not marrying you, they might just be really insecure or they might be afraid that that's, that's something that happens is that they're, they don't, like in my case, right. I grew up in a childhood where there were a lot of things that my mom did and I that with my dad that I, I wouldn't say are very, very healthy things, and the relationship ended, uh, badly. And it was just, it was not a good example of a healthy, it was painful, yeah. Marriage and it was painful and maybe men are dealing with that, but that's why you want to screen for healthy men to begin with, and men that actually are secure in themselves that have done work, whether it's therapy, whether it's personal development. Not men that are broken that are with you because they're trying to fulfill some unmet need that they're not meeting like within themselves. Right? Yeah. You wanna bring a hundred and a hundred, not 50 50. I also warn women that with the psychology of men, if you give him everything, uh, he will get, he, he will start seeing you as a convenience. Yeah. Uh, you, you didn't cook for me before we got married. Hell no. I did not. I, you told me you didn't know how to cook and now I understand why. Yeah. It so funny story, right. I do know how to cook, but when we were, uh, not married yet, I did not tell him that I knew how to cook. Right. In fact, I may have, um, embellished how much I do not know a, a lot. Yeah. And then you made me this pad Tai. That was like from a. Thai restaurant basically. And I'm like, wait, what? How? But you don't know how to be barely, you can barely fry an egg. Amanda, how did you, and I was, I was really confused. I thought you just had a screw loose or something. Because I just figured like, maybe, maybe you know how to cook this one very intricate foreign recipe, but then you don't know how to fry a chicken breast. And it was just really, and I was like, I was trying to put two and two together and I was very confused. It's like, what's wrong? What's going on here? Yeah. Well, I knew that about male psychology, right. Which is if you start giving a man everything and you become too convenient mm-hmm. Even after marriage, but that's another conversation. Uh, he will not put a ring on it. Yeah. He will not. Right. Um, and but back to the thing, like how long before you knew, because you had told me even before we had started dating, you had an inkling. Uh, I knew you were a serious person Very early on, in fact. And I, I didn't know. I didn't even know that you liked me until probably after I was like, wow, would I actually consider being with this girl? I'm like, I, I really like her. We were, and it wasn't just like this emotional thing. I mean, it, we, we didn't even see each other. We meet in person until basically months after we started dating.'cause we were living in different countries. Yeah. Uh, but I already had an inkling because of just who you were and how we had connected. And the fact that we already had, were both running our businesses, we were both successful in our own right. I was helping you with your business just kind of as a colleague, as a friend, and you were helping me a lot with mine. And I'm like, I already started to see, oh wow, there's something happening here. We're actually like contributing to each other's lives and there's something bigger here. And also something that I hadn't really felt in any other relationship that I'd been in. It was very different. Yeah. If you wanna learn more about what he felt, and we'll get into it a little bit, momentarily check out the Feminine Magnetism Mastery program because what you were feeling was feminine energy. Because I like maybe a few months before meeting you was when I really started getting into that and really started understanding it, um, one of the things that you have said to me, which is, uh, a part of what I call the feminine stages. Mm-hmm. Once a woman gets to what I call the emperor stage, she becomes rare. And when a woman becomes rare in a man's eyes, he's gonna swoop her up quick, which is pretty much what happened with you. Yeah. Especially if he has experience dating other women. So, and I had experience dating a lot of other women. Yeah. So, in your eyes, what is it that makes a woman. Uh, rare because I've heard that from other men before where they're like, oh, I knew it was her because I had dated a lot of other women before and I knew that she was different. She was rare. There was something different about her. And I've noticed that that's when men commit quick. Yeah. Is when they think that you are rare. The main thing was just that you actually were able to create your own success in the world and that you knew what you were talking about. And, and actually it's, it's beyond that, what really stood out for me was I think exactly what you're, you're pointing your finger on now, so I know you talk a lot about this in your Feminine Magnetism Mastery course, but it's, it's that energetic thing and I didn't know if it was just sort of you being into spirituality or you being into. The energetic work in general, because you were also into that and, and the way that you talked about even sales and actually coached me in some ways on sales and, uh, around how to think about a few problems I was having at a very high level in business that I'd never heard from anybody else. It wasn't just the, it wasn't just the pragmatic parts of it. It wasn't just the strategy of it, it was where you were coming from energetically. And it wasn't until actually recently when you started getting into this work, and I hear you recording all your courses and stuff all the time.'cause we share an office where I'm like, oh. So that was it. But it was the energy that you brought to it, that feminine energy that you brought, that was a totally different perspective than I would've heard from any of my male colleagues. Mm-hmm. Because we were, we were just sort of business friends at the beginning or anything remotely similar to any of the energy that I experienced or the contribution that I experienced for me, even women that I had been dating for years, it just totally stood out. There was like this sort of, it was a spark.'cause I did feel that chemistry with you very, very early on. I mean, even the first time meeting, I was like, what? Okay, there's something here. Right? And it was also what you were bringing to the table. By the way, men never ask a woman, what are you bringing to the table? Because if you don't know what she's bringing to the table, by the time you're sitting down in front of her, I mean you have a, you have a problem there. Mm-hmm. You never wanna ask, ask that. But you were, you were bringing a lot of value already there. And it wasn't just anything tangible, it was all the intangible stuff. What does it feel like from your perspective, because I can. I can explain it to women, right? Mm-hmm. And I'm like, Hey, here's the, the structure. Like one of the, one of the, some of the feedback that we got, uh, you were helping one of the students with a tech issue. Thank you. I would be lost without you, uh, on all the tech things. But one of the, the, some of the feedback that she came, uh, brought to us about the Feminine Magnetism Mastery program was the fact that it was very well structured. Yep. So I can take on that masculine, uh, teacher role, uh, for the women here and kind of, uh, explain it to them in a way that makes sense for the women, for their brains, especially women from western culture where they've been told, uh, intellect and, and your brain. And, you know, I got physicians, engineers like, I, I need to talk to them in a certain way for them to get it. I get it. Yeah. And a lot of the women you are, you are attracting, are in accounting, they're in hr, they're in tech, like all across the board. I need to make it make sense. Mm-hmm. Right. But what does it feel like? From a man's perspective, and I know that maybe it's not gonna be the easiest thing to describe because it is a lot more intangible, but try your best. Yeah. What, what it looks like is that I had a lot of the tactics and a lot of the hard skills and I couldn't see my experience through the perspective of the soft skills and the people and the connections. We had one call about sales where you, you know, you had given me some feedback after you listened to a recording of one of my calls that ended up being like a 15 or$20,000 sale, and then another two or three where I applied the same thing. Like, Hey, just follow up more and just say this'cause it's pretty obvious he needs what you're selling. This was after he asked me for help, by the way, which is very important. Yeah. For women to understand. Don't go to your man and start coaching him. And we were friends at this point, we weren't dating yet, we were colleagues, but I was still applying the same principle. Mm-hmm. Which is, unless you asked me, I didn't say anything. That's very important for women to understand because a lot of women will go into relationships or with their husbands and they'll start like nitpicking or yelling at him or criticizing him, uh, or trying to like find a solution to a problem like immediately. And then that's, that's pretty much a turnoff to men. Um, yet they complain when men do it, yet they complain when men do it. And they call that mansplaining. And they call it mansplaining. But that's what men are supposed to do, is they're supposed to guide, teach, tutor, mentor. It's one of the ways in which they protect. It's one of the ways in which they give. Um, and I can do other videos on that. Let me know in the comments if you would like to understand the psychology behind all of that. But, uh, I even still to this day, unless you ask me for my opinion or my advice or my counsel, I don't typically Yeah. Interject it because men typically see that as disrespectful. Mm-hmm. Like, or like, you don't trust him. So I just wanted to make that clear in case there was some confusion because I know when it comes to this feminine energy stuff of like, what to say when, and the energy gets very, very confusing for people. So I just wanted to pinpoint that in there. You had asked me, yeah, that's, that's for definitely helpful. I had, and it was, it was a different kind of energy that you brought and it solved a lot of my problems. And you, you helped me make, and again, this is what, this wasn't like you bringing me a client or you bringing me money or you giving me money or you buying, even paying for my, my service or anything like that. Like you literally just in a few minutes of talking through something and understanding the situation better than I did from that energetic perspective, from that feminine energy perspective, you were able to put the, just help me like DaVinci, right? Help me put those pieces together that were already there because I already had the skills. I, I knew how to deliver on the project. You, I already had the connection. I knew how to make money, I knew how to close deals, but there were a few things. Landed an extra$30,000 in my lap in like three weeks. Yeah, that'll definitely get a man's attention. Yeah. It was not my, but it was the way you did it. It was the fact that I, I felt like, wow, you're contributing and I have someone here that's really on my level versus feeling like I always have to pull everybody in my life, including the women I'm dating up. Mm. That was a big part of it. Can you explain that for the women who might be confused about that, like feeling like you're pulling them up? I feel like a lot of them are in a situation where they feel like they're pulling the men up, uh, when they're dating. Yeah. But can you talk a little bit about that? Sure. So here's the difference between a man wanting to just be with a woman that could split the bills or pay half of the bills, versus wanting to be with a woman who contributes. Because when you're like, Hey, I, I wanna, I want to date a woman, but she better pay half the bills. You're almost asking for like a roommate. Or a platonic friend. Mm-hmm. And it creates a dynamic that to the woman is not very attractive at all. Versus when you're coming at it from the perspective of I want someone who's able to contribute. It's not always gonna be 50 50, but she's a lot of the time contributing things that you don't see right away. She's contributing a lot of value in otherwise, like you did with me, where you it, it's not like I looked at that and I'm like, oh, you can make a lot of money, so if I have a relationship with you, I know you're gonna have, be able to pay half the rent. It was the, the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. And more importantly, I don't feel like I'm gonna have to pull you up like you're, you're carrying your own weight, but it doesn't have to look like what society or feminism might say. It's, it's not pulling the same weight that a man pulls. It might be more, it might be less. Yeah. But it's in a different way. It's a different kind of weight. It's a different type. It's a different style. Yeah. It's the nuance. That's the thing that a lot of people miss, especially a lot of these, these coaches, whether it's for men, for women, red pill, blue pill, whatever, it's like they miss the nuance. Mm-hmm. Because there's a lot of nuance in human communication. There's a lot of nuance in human dynamics. Mm-hmm. Why should women not feel guilty when men want to give to them? So there's an interesting paradox I've noticed in the comment section, which is that women want provider men. They want men who will pay the bills. Uh mm-hmm. A lot of them are getting called gold diggers by men in the west if they say that. But you explain why. Men have gone to his place. Yep. Don't date those men just understand how they got there and what's going on. Um, so interesting paradox is they say they want provider men, but then when a man provides, they don't wanna receive, they don't wanna receive either money, or a lot of women also don't, or they feel guilty receiving. They feel guilty. That's common. Yeah. Or they get mad. Right.'cause for example, a man giving them advice pisses them off. But that's, that's one of the ways that a man does provide that is provision. Yeah. Why, why would you not want someone to help you with the situation you're in now? You have to actually listen too. The challenge is when men don't listen and a woman talks about her day and they immediately jump to solve the problem, which if you're talking to a man, makes sense. Oh, oh yeah. Sure bud. Like, I know exactly how to do this. Let me show you. You don't wanna necessarily do that with a woman in the same way. And that's, that's maybe one of the origins of that conflict. Of that conflict and of what they call mansplaining. Mm-hmm. Right. But then, then as with everything, society takes it too far, the pendulum swings too far. And then anytime a man tries to give you advice, it's mansplaining. And it's bad. And it's assault or something. You touched, you touched on an important point, which is, um, feeling guilty for it. And you also said, why wouldn't you want somebody else helping you solve your problems? I can tell you why. Because it makes you weak. Yeah. Or that's what they've been told. It makes you weak, or I could understand how they see that. Or you are now obliged that if he wants sex with you, you have to give him sex. Like, oh, he took me out to dinner. That's, that's, that's exactly the, the thing there, that, that's the incongruence. The fact that a man is giving you something does not mean that you owe him anything. And that's, that's part of what's wrong with both. The feminism movement and the trainings on how to be a gold digger and how to use men and all these other things. And what's also wrong with the red pill, because the red pill teaches, you know, spend and invest as little as you possibly can in a woman and try to get sex as quickly as possible, which then the other stuff teaches the opposite. Ironically, the way that men fall in love with women is by investing in them. Yeah. Whether it's financially or giving them advice or mentoring them, or molding them or protecting them. That is actually how men fall in love is by investing in a woman. But if a woman is unable to receive that, then it just blocks the energy at the door. Then it just blocks the energy of being able to, to fall in love with her, and that's one of the things that makes a woman. Rare because, uh, I've gotten that comment from women all over the world, like across the board, not even just the west. I've gotten that from Asian women mm-hmm. In the comments as well. Right. And I was like, oh, so this is, this receiving piece is like a worldwide issue when it comes to women and women not understanding that when a man gives to you and invests in you, that's what makes him fall in love or it's one of the things that makes him fall in love. It means he cares about you. If a man's not trying to give to you, he does not care. Yeah. If he's just like kicking back and doing his thing and he doesn't notice when you have a challenge, when you have a problem and at least offer a solution, right. In the, in the right timing and in the right way. But if he never do, if he never does any of that, and you're just, you just sort of feel like you have a roommate and you're on your own and your man isn't proactively trying to make your life better, that to me is not a marriage, that's not a relationship. That's you. Being roomies or friends with benefits with someone, and the sex probably isn't even that great either because there's no polarity or not there. Yeah, yeah. We're not there. There's no polarity in that. What are some of the things, final question, right? What are some of the things that are just, um, a man trying to be useful and helpful, because that's what men are always trying to do, that women, uh, may accidentally perceive as he's problematic. I should be afraid of this. One example, and, and I did this a lot with you as, as you did with me, but like when a man would try to, for example, help you with a business problem you're having, I did that with you in the beginning. I,'cause I just really, I saw that you needed my help and vice versa. I mean, you, we, it was a really good exchange of value. You helped me with some of that energetic stuff and the sales, and I helped you with a lot of your tech and, and I enjoyed doing it. This is part of what actually got me attracted to you in the beginning because I was investing and because you were receiving so well now that I, now that I kind of think back, I was like, I'm helping you. And a lot of women would've been like, okay, well let me, you know, how much do I owe you? Or, and that's not to say you just keep, keep on taking from a man in using him. There's, there's a big difference and it's subtle, but you were allowing me to give to you. You would call me, you'd have a problem. Okay, great. I, I, and, and yeah. I mean, I was probably also attracted to you already at that point, and I, I enjoyed this is, you know, maybe I didn't even tell you this before, but, uh, I, I, I really enjoyed just getting to spend time with you. I was like, oh, okay, we're hanging out on Zoom and I'm helping you solve this tech stuff. And I was like, oh, this is really cool. Like, I'm hanging out with Amanda. It was fun for me. So I, I enjoyed just spending time with you, period.'cause you were just a cool person to spend time with. But the fact that I was giving and you were receiving like that was. That was really valuable to me. That was fulfilling because you, you received so gracefully and not a lot of other people would. You just allowed me to like kind of pour into you. So the mistake that a lot of women would make at that level is saying, oh no, like that's too much. She's gonna want something from me. But I didn't want anything from you. I wasn't attached to getting something back or, or anything like that. I just very much enjoyed spending time with you and sharing all of that. Yeah. It's interesting. Uh, one of the comments that I get sometimes,'cause you were a part of my masculine energy experiment that I've talked about on this channel, was I, well, I mean, every man in my life was a part of the masculine energy experiment. And then I met you, uh, within four months. Uh, and you also knew that there were other men who were hitting on me. Yeah. I think you might have played that up a little bit. But you knew I had men all around me, whether it was the events that I was going to, or you knew I'd been hit on by, in a common group that we were in, like you knew. But that's because all the men around me were a part of my feminine energy, uh, sorry, masculine energy experiment where I said I have to get really good at receiving from men. Mm-hmm. Whether it's solving a problem or they wanna gift me something, take me out to a dinner. And I had a lot of male colleagues that, you know, took me out to dinner or helped me to solve problems. And I would learn to receive that, uh, very gracefully. And when I tell women to do this, the pushback that I'll get sometimes is, what if I don't like him? I mean, what, what, what does that even mean? That she's obliged to sleep with him just because she lets him open the door for her. That's crazy. Or that men only give when they want something. I think that that is true in a lot of ways for unhealthy men. And part of the problem is that people on both sides, like both men and women, will conflate the things that are true for a healthy person, emotionally, mentally, whatever of the opposite sex versus an unhealthy person. And they'll, they'll say that, Hey, if I allow myself to receive, I'm gonna attract predators and I'm gonna attract people that just want to give so that they can receive something. And to a certain extent that, that, to a certain extent that might be true. But what you're also doing there is you're completely blocking yourself from being able to have a relationship with healthy men. And that's not a winning game. You're not playing the game to win, then you're playing it not to lose. Right? So the, the way that you play that game is you have to balance. How do I protect myself emotionally, energetically, spiritually, everything else, and have proper boundaries with how do I do the things that will allow me to actually be vulnerable and receive from the right man? And having that discernment and that filter, which in terms of boundaries, we have a whole module on boundaries, on the high value woman, uh, transformation program. So we, we gotta start wrapping this up. Thank you so much for coming on and allowing me to ask you these questions that have been coming in on the channel and Oh, my pleasure. And sharing your perspective. It was, it was my honor. And sharing your perspective, um, for these women guys. I'm serious. Like, as soon as I started showing him some of these comments, he's like, you need to interview me. Right. I wanna go on there. I wanna help, I wanna, I'll take one for the team. Yeah. Um, you know, I wanna help you grow this. I wanna help you get this in front of. Um, more women so they understand. So thank you so much.'cause I don't know, I think I mentioned it on the videos, but I don't know if they really know, like just how much you've inspired, uh, even me doing, am I your muse? Not quite right. I see you as more of a mentor. You're one of the most brilliant business minds. Aw. Uh, that I know. I'll, I'll take the muse. Thank you. I'll take the muse title. Yeah. But for you, I see that's, that's your title. I see that. Right. I'll see this for you. I see. As more of a mentor because I mean, you don't even, guys don't even know how many times I've wanted to quit this channel. How many times I was like, I don't have time between like the his business and the house and everything we're doing. And I'll, I'll help you with the kids more with the fur babies. Yeah. I'll start editing more of my own content and give you more space to focus on the things that you wanna do. Yeah. And on the flip side, for men, it's great too because the more women you speak to, the better the men get because they realize that not all women are crazy and insecure and everything else. So it just moves everyone forward as a whole. Yeah. And I'll end it on this note, which is women need to get really good at taking leadership from men. And I'll give a very concrete example. A lot of y'all found this channel because of the first video I did about Aubrey Marcus. You made me do that video not made me like I did. I guess I did. Yeah. Not made me right. But you were like, you have to go film this now. When that broke out, I was like, are you crazy? We're in the middle of moving. We're in the middle of, and then I, I remember and I said, he's right. He has a brilliant business. Mind. If he's saying this, it's because he knows what he's talking about. And in between packing up the whole house that we had in the, in the, in the city and moving out to the country and all the craziness we had going on, uh, with a move in a country that we are not from, uh, by the way, to add a little bit more complexity to the situation, I took your leadership, I followed your advice, boom. Almost 10,000 views on that video, which is how. A lot of people found me or even moving to Mexico, you know? Mm-hmm. Following your leadership, uh, where you were like, Hey, things are getting crazy in the United States and other parts of the western world. Uh, I mean, we weren't even married yet and you were making sure that I had my residency. You helped me through that whole process that the immigration was good because you were like, even if, I think, I mean, we had already had a talk about commitment and marriage and, and where things were going before I showed up, but I, it was clear to me that even if we did not work out, you wanted to make sure that I was good. Yeah. And I did. And you did still do and still do. You still do. Yeah, you do. I'm very grateful for you. Thank you. Grateful for you too. All right. Let them know where they can find you because you have your own YouTube with really interesting stuff going on. Absolutely. You can check out all the information there in the show notes, uh, and we'll link all that below. Entrepreneur, expat on YouTube and entrepreneur expat official on Instagram. And then we're working on maybe putting together some, some products for men as well. So if there's any men watching this, if we do that by the time this comes out, we'll be sure to link it below. Have the women inspired you to maybe go talk to him? Yeah. Now I'm like, maybe I need to start diving into this a little bit more. Because it's, it's time to see society and people, uh, getting better and making love better and changing this all for the better. So, well everyone, thank you so much for giving us your time today. It was an honor. Um, we'll have Justin back every once in a while if I can pull him away from his busy schedule, uh, to come talk to you guys. If you like this video, please give it a thumbs up. It'll help us get it in front of more women and men, even if they wanna fight us in the comments. 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