How to Become RARE to a Masculine Man By Using Feminine Energy

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Let's be honest about what a lot of men are dealing with when they're dating women these days. They're dating women who have a lot of chaos, bring a lot of drama into their lives, or they're dating women who are, immature or insecure, or who are constantly trying to prove themselves to men. It's no wonder that you have a lot of men now deciding to just check out of dating altogether. Which is causing a huge issue in the United States and the Western world in general. So in this video, we're gonna be talking about how to actually become rare in a man's eyes, because once a woman learns how to become rare, which. I'm gonna be honest with you, ladies, the bar is in hell based on what I'm hearing from the men, so it shouldn't be too hard, but I'm still going to lay it out for you in this video because what I don't want to happen is that you end up falling into the trap of what a lot of these, um. Basic women out here are doing because the men are tired, the men are very tired, uh, of dealing with these types of women. So if they notice that you are not one of these types of women, they're gonna swoop you up. Pretty quickly. Hi, my name is Amanda. Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you want in life with all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to. If that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single video that we have coming out on this channel. We've got multiple videos coming out weekly. We've got live streams we're starting to do, and the chat and the comment section is. On fire and if you like this video, please go ahead and give it a like, because it helps us get it in front of more people. A lot of the feedback that we've been getting. From the women says, thank you for making sense of feminine energy. I've been on a spiritual journey for a long time. I haven't understood how to do all these things. Uh, but now with your channel, a lot of these things make sense because you laid it out in a path I could follow. And we're also getting a lot of thank yous from men who are like, thank you for explaining our psychology, uh, to the women so they can understand what is going on. So our goal here is to help men and women understand each other. Better. So you can help us do that by giving this a like, and as always, if I have any, uh, trainings or resources available for you, then I will make mention of them throughout the video. However, we do have something really special going on this week for Black Friday, all of our courses. Whether it's business, money, mindset, or our relationship and polarity courses are 50% off now through December 2nd, you just have to use code black at checkout. You can find the links to everything that we have available below so you can get more information. And people already started buying up these courses. So we already have students in our student portal. They saw the announcement, they started using the coupon code yesterday. So thank you to those of you who've already started purchasing. For the rest of you, you can find all of them linked below and just use Code Black at checkout in order to get 50% off. I know some of you have been waiting until some of these trainings and courses go on sale to get the next training. So here it is. Okay, so let's get into what actually makes a woman rare. As I mentioned, uh, men are tired. A lot of them are opting out of dating. A lot of them are choosing to opt out of marriage. Uh, there's a lot of women also choosing to opt out, which is really interesting but I've already done other videos on that. Right now I just want to talk to you about what we're hearing from men who are commenting on this channel. Um, and also what I heard from high performing men for six to seven years. So in case you missed it, I've been coaching women in different areas of their lives for 15 years and for six to seven of those years, I was around a lot of high performing men because they were my. Business mentors at the time. So I was always hearing from the high performing men what they were dealing with when it came to women. And a lot of them are just tired. As I mentioned. A lot of them, um, are starting to think it's not even worth it at this point anymore. So. I've already gone into some of the reasons why they're dealing with women who are cannot regulate their emotions. They're dealing with women who are very chaotic. They're dealing with women who do not understand masculine psychology and how that works. They're dealing with women who are very, uh, masculine. They're dealing with women in survival mode. Um, they're dealing with women who get all their relationship advice from TikTok, which is a terrible place to get relationship advice. That's what they're dealing with. Or they're dealing with women who come off as very insecure and then they don't find themselves getting, uh, emotionally connected to these women. So here's thing number one about a rare woman. A rare woman is. Energetically discerning, what on earth does that mean? What that means, number one, is that you have to stop being emotionally available to just anyone. Part of what's going on in modern culture in the West right now is with this whole free sex thing that's been going on for a long time and casual dating and casual relationships is you have a lot of women out here who are not discerning about who they are choosing to share their bodies with. And they're also not being discerning about who they are choosing to be emotionally attached to. And then of course that's causing a whole mess of issues in society because you're getting with a bunch of women who are getting oxytocin and flooding the brain and then their discernment is like shot because they've got all the feel good hormones going through their brain. And then you've got men who are becoming addicted to dopamine. So it's created this huge mess in society. And what women need to learn how to do is they need to learn how not how to, you know, stop being so emotionally available to literally anyone, just because you want a man. I saw something on Facebook the other day that was so crazy to me, but this is a really great example. There was a woman, she was complaining. She's always complaining about how she's never in a relationship. Woe is me. Everything is terrible. First of all, why are you putting this stuff on social media? Publicly for everybody to see. I've been saying for a long time to the women, please stop putting, go. Go find a paper journal, not Facebook or TikTok. Like, please go find a journal or a diary with a lock and use that or go talk to your therapist, or don't go talk to your coach. Don't be putting all your relationship drama on social media. So she was doing this crazy thing where she's like, oh, all the men are trash. It's terrible. I'm so lonely, blah, blah, blah. Then she was supposed to get married, didn't get married. Trash the guy publicly for not getting married. Then like five weeks later she's married and then now announcing that she goes, only, only certain people are going to understand our craziness. I'm like, oh, you are crazy. Alright. But this is what men are used to, um, dealing with. They're used to dealing with women who are just kind of emotionally unhinged. They're used to dealing with women who are emotionally, um. Not well to be sharing all this stuff all over social media. And what happens with a lot of women is when they start getting into relationships, and men too, but this is a video for women, is they're letting all these emotions dictate their decisions, right? So they're letting the emotions and the chemistry and the hormones dictate the decisions rather than actually being discerning about who they are allowing, um, into their environment. And it's causing a lot of craziness. And then not only are they. Letting their emotions take over all their decisions in their relationships. And then they're posting about it publicly on the internet, which also looks emotionally unhinged, right? So just don't do that. Um, get a hold of your emotions and start learning how to be energetically discerning. Start learning how to regulate. Your emotions regulate your nervous system, which I talk a lot about on this channel all the time. Because a feminine woman is regulated in her nervous system and her emotions, that is what allows her to be present. In relationships. Um, and then in addition to that, you know, have a better lens of discernment with who you are choosing to give your energy to or give your body to. Like you shouldn't even be sleeping with people unless you're committed to them. That's like crazy. It's wild and there's lots of reasons why it doesn't work, and it's caused a lot of issues. If people understood how powerful their sexual energy was, they wouldn't be so. Loose with it, let's put it that way. Loose with it, right? So what happens, right? And another way in which this shows up in which women are not energetically discerning is when they're trauma dumping on somebody. On a first day when they are oversharing con. Which I just gave a perfect example of something I saw on Facebook literally in the last few weeks. And I was like, that would be an example of oversharing and you look crazy. Okay? Don't do that. Um, and you are emotionally not altogether. If you are doing that. Um, and the thing is right, you have to, a woman eventually needs to get to a point, and this is what makes her rare, is that she's done enough work on herself to be like, okay, I am regulated and I have a better lens of discernment. And that means that not every man deserves access to my softness, my wisdom, or my time. And not every person on the planet needs to know all my dirty laundry, right? So that's another way in which women, uh, can become. Rare because when you have energetic boundaries, when you have discernment, when you value yourself in that way, men feel it. And it's part of what makes you rare because they're used to dealing with these emotionally unhinged women who are running all over the world right now. And if you wanna learn more about that, in our Hustle to Harmony masterclass, I cover a lot more, um, nervous system regulation and in high value woman transformation. I talk a lot about, um. How to have more of those boundaries and how to communicate them. They, you can get them both at 50% off this week, use code black at checkout. All the links are below. So here's the second part. Rare women have a life that turns them on. What happens to most women is they have a life like this is literally it, right? They go to work and they're obsessed with. That's it, that's their whole life. You know, oftentimes when, um, I do a lot more private coaching or consulting, I oftentimes have to tell women, I say this lovingly. I'm like, please, go get a life. Please go get a life. Please go get a hobby. Please go read some books. Please go learn a new language. Please go do something. Right. Go start a business. Like do something other than going to a job you can't stand, which puts you in a miserable state. And then coming home and obsessing about men, or more specifically obsessing about one man, usually that's how they come to me. Uh, that you never had anything going on there to begin with, right? So I tell women all the time, please go have a life. Please build a full life, please. Um. Find those hobbies. Please find a passion project. Please find something where you're building a full life. Because when you have a full life, number one. You automatically become more attractive. And number two, you're not gonna find yourself obsessing over men. And when you're not obsessing over men, then you make better decisions. And when you're making better decisions, that goes back to 0.1 about having better energetic. Discernment because rare women don't sit around wondering why a guy hasn't texted. They're not sitting around over analyzing something. A guy told them six months ago, they're not, uh, they're sitting around wondering why something didn't work out. They're out there creating a life that lights them up. I'm currently married. Right, and I still created this project. This, this YouTube channel was a passion project. It was something that I'd been working thinking about for a long time, many years. It was not exactly easy for me to get to this point. I've had a lot of initiations and trainings and things like that, and then my husband was like, why don't you start doing it? I was like, you know what? You're right. So this started as a passion project, this YouTube channel. This gives me something to do, right? It gives me an outlet, right? So, um. That's what I advise to a lot of women build a life. Before I met my husband, I was out at events all the time. I had a business, like I had stuff going on. You know, and a lot of women just don't. They just don't. They just go to a job. They can't stand and then spend their, all their free time obsessing over some dude. So you have to get a life, right? You have to figure out a purpose. You've add some rituals to your life. Rituals are so important. I was reading a book, um. Oh, I forgot what it's called but it's about shadow work and it's about how there is, uh, this presence of evil in the world and, um, there's a collective shadow and how it comes out in all these different ways. Um, and it's, it's was put together by a, uh, Jungian cycle. Um, psychoanalyst. It's so interesting on kind of like the role of evil. Throughout time. And one thing that's really interesting is that pre-modern tribes and traditions had rituals. They had rituals for a reason. A lot of those rituals were meant to keep our egos in check. A lot of those rituals were meant to keep our emotions in check. A lot of those rituals were meant to, uh, help people transition into different phases of life. And part of what's gone on in modern culture is we don't have these freaking rituals. Anymore as a part of the, the collective, right? For the most part. Maybe in some cultures they do, but in the western world, we definitely don't. Um, absolutely not. So maybe you need to create some rituals. And all the training programs we have, we talk about rituals, and that's the reason why it keeps our egos in check. And that is how pre-modern tribes would use rituals. Otherwise, your grandiosity starts to take over. The stories in your head start to take over. If you're angry, your anger starts to take over. So those rituals were put in place to regulate ourselves. That's what they were for. So bring some rituals into your life. Find things that bring you joy. Uh, find things that, that give you depth for me. I love to read. My husband gave me a Kindle. I'm obsessed with the freaking thing. I have a goal of 10% of a book every single, uh, night. It's my favorite thing in the whole world. I just go deep into these books and I learn stuff, right? So it doesn't even have to be like. That complicated. It could literally be as simple as, I love to read, I'm a bookworm. Let me spend some time reading and learning new things. It could literally be that simple. And when you build this full life, your energy is not hooked on whether or not you're getting attention from a guy. And when your energy is not hooked on whether or not you're getting attention from a guy, guess what happens? You become rare in a man's eyes because most women are running around. Hooked. Right? Most women are running around obsessing over some guy who doesn't even want them. That's what most women out here. Are doing next one is rare women are unapologetically expressed. Rare women know how to express their emotions. They know how to express their desires and they know how to do it in a feminine way. Uh, so it actually lands in a man's brain and they also know how to do it in an emotionally regulated way. They know how to communicate in healthy. Ways. Now here's the key. A woman who is very unapologetically expressed. She's not trying to be liked, she's committed to being real. Um, and the reality is that most women out here, they shrink. They try to be the cool girl or they try to be the people pleaser, or they sugarcoat or they fawn, um, because they're terrified of being rejected again'cause they're obsessing over a man because they don't have a full life. But the woman who stands and she's rooted in her power. She's the one who gets to choose at the end of the day because she's the one who's gonna have men attracted to her, and she's the one who's gonna have men fixing a bunch of problems for her all the time, and she's the one who's gonna have men naturally coming to her because she's not afraid of expressing herself. I've done lots of videos on feminine communication. You can go find them on this channel. Uh, you can also go find it in, uh, there's three courses where I talk about this. So Feminine Magnetism mastery, uh, magnetic commitment program, and also in high value woman transformation. And once again, everything's 50% off use code black at checkout, and you can get them for, for 50% off until December. Second, and here's the final one. Rare women do not build men. Now, I recently did a video on the difference between supporting a man and building a man. So I'm gonna amend this a little bit. Rare women know the difference between building a man and supporting a man. Building a man, which is the trap that a lot of women fall into, is getting with a man who has no future, no career, no proof that he can take care of you. Uh, no vision, no plan, no nothing. Right. So I will give an example.'cause I heard this story the other day. You may have seen the video that I did about the. A woman who, uh, lost a lawsuit and now has a$1.75 million judgment against her, uh, for being a homewrecker basically. And more has come out about the, the marriage that she broke up. So in the marriage that she broke up. And this is a prime example of building a man. The wife screwed up. Right. And the wife screwed up because she was young and nobody told her any better. So basically what happens in the marriage, um, the wife, the wife is the one who sued the mistress. She got with the, uh, man in question who. Wasn't shit. If you saw that video she got together when they were very young. She got pregnant ver uh, pretty quickly and when she got pregnant, she ended up getting herself in a position where he's trying to chase some football career in college, and then she's got two little kids and working two jobs while he chases a football career. That is building a man. That is building a man. And in her case, again, she was young. She didn't know, nobody told her, did he end up becoming a football player? No. Right. And then he ended up leaving her for a crazy woman, right. Who broke up the whole marriage. And uh, now they've been sued and, oh,$1.75 million. Right? So that would be an example. Of, uh, building a man, supporting a man is totally different, right? So I've said this before, most men do not reach their earning prime until their late forties, early fifties. That's just the psychological development of a man. So you're, you might be coming in, most of you. Um, it. When a man is in his grinding phase, what does that mean? He can still provide the basics for you. You're just not gonna be at five star restaurants and things like that, and most of you don't even want that. Most of you just want a good man who will allow you to be at home and do your creative projects. That's it. That's what most of you want at the end of the day anyway. That's what most of you are focused on. So, but when he's not in his peak yet, there is support that takes place. Right? Maybe the support looks like, uh, managing the house, maybe the support looks like, um, you know, coming in because he's asking for your counsel. Maybe the support is emotion more than anything. Men, more than anything, want more of like the emotional support, right? And being that soft place to land, that safe place to land, that's what they want more than anything. Really at the end of the day, and know that somebody believes in them and has confidence in them and somebody has their back. But once again, totally different doing that with a man in his thirties and forties who's in a grind phase and has a plan and is going after it and is ambitious and is going for it and can still provide the basics versus getting with a 20 young, 20 something year old trying to chase like a dream of a football career and then knocking you up and now you gotta go work two jobs to. Sustain the whole family because he's not, he doesn't have a job. That's the difference. That is the difference. Most women don't know that, but rare women. Know that. And um, I recently did a live stream on the different forms of provision. Rare women know about all the different forms of provision that a man provides. And when I did that live stream, many of the men were in the comments saying, thank you, thank you, thank you for explaining this to women. So they finally get it. So. Go check out that live stream. Um, if you have not, because it'll give you a lot of context about what I just said. And then finally, rare women are a vibe, not a performance. So I oftentimes say this, that for the feminine, um, for the masculine, a lot of the work that's done is like outward going out into the world, going out, you know, and, and, uh, penetrating the world. And that's how some people say it. Do they have to do internal work? Of course, everybody does. For the feminine, it's more of an energetic internal embodiment. The feminine is all about embodiment. She's not performing femininity. She is femininity. And what happens with a lot of women these days is all their energy is neck up. That's it. Right? And I've worked with a lot of women over 15 years. I can sense it, I can feel it. I'm very intuitive, I can tell. And I can usually tell by certain behaviors that a woman, all a woman's energy is all up in her head, but from the neck down, she's dead. And I can tell from how she. Expresses herself. I can tell by how she's behaving. I can tell by how she's talking. I can tell by what she's talking about. I can tell right. I'm working with them, and if I can tell you bet your bottom dollar a man can tell. So what, when, where women have learned how to be embodied in their femininity, a lot of women will go out here. I was talking to a woman several months ago and she goes, yeah, I'm taking these classes on how to improve my tone when I'm speaking, how to sound more feminine. I'm like, okay, great. But I was looking at other areas of her life. And I'm like, okay, well what about cleaning this up and cleaning this up and cleaning that up, and then cleaning up all these stories internally where you think men ain't shit and aren't reliable. Because if you think men ain't shit and aren't reliable, you speaking in a higher tone isn't gonna do anything. That's what I mean. Uh, by embodying them, uh, rare women know how to be soft. Again, this has a lot to do with expression. I cover that in the high value woman transformation program is where I cover the most of that. So again, 50% off use code black. And she's not trying to impress a man. She's not doing all these things to try and get a man. I know this is very confusing, but let me explain. A lot of women will come to this channel that are obsessing over a particular man. That's what they do. There is a particular man that they have in mind where things are not necessarily working out. I'm talking about the single women, um, right now. And what happens is they'll start googling all these videos and they'll be like, how do I talk to this man to get this man to turn around and see? That he should marry me or this man to turn around and see he should commit. To me, that's what most women are out here doing, and they don't realize that when you embody feminine energy, it's just who you are. It's not just with one man. It's not to get a particular result. It's just who you are. I hope that made sense because that's the best way I can figure out, um, how to explain it in a way where it might land. Um. And resonates. So what happens is when a man meets a woman who's embodied in her feminine energy, it changes him. He is stunned. There have been moments with my husband, right where, because he. Was a man dealing with a lot of the women that I mentioned earlier, uh, in the video. And a lot of my mentors over the years who've been men, had a lot of the same complaints. A lot of the men in the comment section have a lot of the same complaints when they meet a woman who's really embodied in feminine energy, who knows how to communicate from a place of feminine energy, uh, who has a life that lights her up. They're stunned. They're absolutely stunned because that has not been their experience with women up until that point. So remember, rare is not about being unavailable or cold. That's what a lot of these YouTube channels out here will have you doing. It's about being so rooted in your values, your roots, your vision, and your feminine energy that you become absolutely unforgettable in a man's eyes. Again, he is stunned because that's just not been his experience of women up until he met you. And when you're able to do that and you're able to stun a man like that, he will. Absolutely move quickly and commit to you, not because you chased him, not because you performed, not because you tried to get him in particular, but because you became the very thing that men are looking for. So check out the description below for all the courses and classes that we have available. They are all 50% off until December 2nd. Just use Code Black. And if you'd like to join our email list. Um, you can do that for free below as well, and then you'll get our free, enhance your Feminine Energy Guide. When you get added to our email list, you'll be the first ones to know when we have sales and things like that. So students, uh, and email lists. Subscribers are the first ones to know when we have sales or new programs or anything like that. Plus they get insights that I only share in those containers. Um, so everybody else, you're the last ones to find out, right? So if you wanna be one of the first to find out, then make sure to sign up for the email list. It's totally free, and you'll get the enhance your Feminine Energy Guide, as a free gift. So thank you so much for giving me your time today. It is an honor to be your teacher. Um, I, I love the, the feedback you guys have been giving me has been so helpful in refining this message even further. Um, I feel like I went through a three year period of refinement just to even be able to do this channel and this kind of content and do it in a way where it's actually serving the collective. And, uh, your feedback has been very helpful in me refining it even further. So thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. And I will catch you on the next one.