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A big part of living in feminine energy and having more ease and flow in your life is to get really good at receiving. And for those of you who are asking, well, how do I attract a masculine provider man? Or, how do I get my current husband to step up? Well, you also have to get really good at receiving. Here's the thing. If receiving from a man feels uncomfortable to you, then this is the part that no one told you. It's not that you're too independent. It's not that you're bad at relationships, it's that your body does not feel safe being supported. So instead of relaxing and learning how to expand your container for receiving, you take over you control, and instead of receiving, you start to give or you start to feel guilty and without realizing it. You start to block all the things that you say you want, and in this video, we're gonna dive deeper into it. Hi, my name is Amanda. Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you want in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to, if that's something that you are interested. And make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single video that we have coming out on this channel. We've been talking a lot about. Feminine energy, polarity in relationships, manifestation, nervous system regulation, metaphysics, A lot of really juicy things. So again, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification button if you like this kind of content. Also make sure to give it a like, because it helps us get it in front of more people. We are on a mission to elevate the collective consciousness, especially women. Right now because I honestly believe that when women start to understand feminine energy and come back to a place of empowered feminine energy, we will absolutely change the world because we have so much influence over all the people around us. And if you're new to this conversation about feminine energy, polarity, and relationships. Then I have a free gift for you. Make sure to sign up for our free, enhance your Feminine Energy Guide. It's a quick guide and it will walk you through some rituals and things that you can do over the course of the next week to start bringing more feminine energy into your life, in your relationships, in how you make money. So you make money in a way that's more pleasurable and so much more, you can grab that for free below. So let's talk about something that changes absolutely everything in your relationships, and quite frankly, not just your relationships as a woman. This will change everything in your life if you learn how to do this, and that is your ability to feel. Safe receiving from masculine men. Many of you have mentioned in the comments below when I've talked about this before, that you feel very uncomfortable receiving. You've gotten a lot of negative stories, uh, from family members about receiving, most of which were rooted in survival. You feel guilty, you always feel like you have to give back. You start to feel very uncomfortable. And when I've been on one-on-one coaching sessions, uh, with some of you who've done private coaching with me before, or perhaps you got a. Coaching calls a bonus from purchasing our magnetic woman transformation bundle. Uh, it's the same thing I start telling you guys about the divine masculine energy experiment where you allow yourself to receive from the men all around you, and immediately your bodies go like this. You start bracing for impact, which tells me that your body doesn't feel safe, uh, receiving from men. Receiving from men isn't just about understanding it, and it's staying in your head and it's all intellectualized. And it's also not just about watching it. You all say that you want it. It's about actually feeling it in your body because you can know all the feminine energy concepts in the world. You can watch these videos until the cows. Come home. But if you're, if you don't feel safe, if your nervous system and your body and your mind don't feel safe, you will still close yourself off. You will still try and control and be the puppeteer and manipulate everything, and you will still over give constantly, all of which has the opposite effect that you say that you want. So here is where we begin to shift it, and we're gonna do it gently. We're gonna do it honestly, and we're gonna do it in a way that your body can actually hold. So let's go into what receiving. Really is because receiving is not necessarily about being passive or being a doormat, or being a wallflower. It's not about sitting back and doing nothing. It's not about losing your voice. A lot of people talk about feminine energy online. Uh, people who have no idea what they're talking about and they think the woman, you know, just shuts up and looks nice. It's not about that at all. Receiving is about openness. It's about allowing someone to give without. Bracing against it, which is what many of you do. It's about allowing yourself to receive without questioning it, without feeling like you have to give something in return without feeling immense guilt, because the feminine doesn't force right. The feminine remembers who she is and the feminine remembers that she is worthy of being met and supported, and many of you just don't think that you are worthy of being met. And supported. So let's go into why it feels unsafe for so many women to receive from masculine men. If receiving feels uncomfortable, there's a very good reason for it. At some point, your body associated receiving with something unsafe. So maybe it came with expectations in your household. Maybe it came with control in your household, maybe it came with a lot of disappointment for me, that's what it was. It came with a lot of disappointment. So now even when a healthy masculine man shows up and wants to give to you, your body doesn't. Fully trust it. It thinks there's something going on. Someone's trying to manipulate the situation. That's what many of you think. And instead of relaxing, you actually begin to tighten. You take over. You stay one step ahead. You try and be the little puppet master, you try and give back. You start feeling guilty in your body. Um, and you basically wreck the whole thing is what ends up. Happening, and it's not because you're necessarily being difficult, it's because your nervous system is just trying to protect you. Because at some point it picked up the story that it's not safe to receive. And when I say not safe to receive, in this video, we're talking about men specifically and masculine men, because many of you tell me that you want masculine provider men. But I can tell you that across the board, I've been coaching women for 15 years in different areas of their lives. I used to just. Exclusively coach in business. And it was the exact same thing when it came to receiving money and receiving support from team. And I've experienced all of it across the board because I too had that story that it was not safe to receive or that I was not worthy of being met. So here's some of the signs. That you do not feel safe receiving. And these are simple. Number one, you deflect compliments. Number two, you feel uncomfortable when men pay for you. Many of you say that you want that, but then you go on a date and it happens and you're immediately whipping out your wallet or you're trying, you're like, the anxiety is just crazy, or you just start feeling very guilty. You rush to reciprocate so you don't feel like you owe. That's a very big one. Many of you were told that that was the polite thing to do, that if someone gives to you that you immediately have. To reciprocate. Another way in which it shows up is you overexplain your needs instead of simply just expressing them, or you feel the urge to control the pace. This is particularly in relationships instead of allowing him to lead, and underneath all of this, there's a tension in your body, and that tension is that you cannot fully relax and be held.

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So now let's transition into the role of safety and feeling safe in your body and your nervous system before you can really relax into softness. Because the truth is that you cannot force yourself to receive, trust me, I tried. You can also not mindset your way into softness. Trust me, I've tried. Your body actually has to feel safe. And when I went through my massive spiritual awakening where I lost an almost seven figure business and I was down on my knees and I felt like my entire life was falling apart, um. One of the things I ended up learning during that process was the importance of regulating your nervous system, the importance of rewiring your nervous system, um, and the importance of learning how to do that so you're not constantly in fight or flight. A lot of women who have trouble receiving are like, I was, you were constantly in fight or flight, and the reality is that your body has to start to feel. It's safe, right? So again, a lot of you have a lot of mental energy. I've talked about this before. We have to start getting back into our bodies, feeling safe in our bodies, trusting ourselves in our bodies. Many of you are just completely numb in your body. Right now. And softness in that relaxing of a woman's body actually responds to safety. It's not a strategy because what happens is when you learn how to give yourself safety and you learn to regulate your nervous system, you start to regulate your reality. So instead of asking yourself, how do I receive better? How do I receive more? Ask yourself the following question Instead, what would make my body feel safe right now? What would make my body feel safe? When you start feeling that crazy anxiety and that guilt that comes up when someone's trying to give to you, ask yourself, what would make my body feel safe right now? And then use that as your pattern interrupts to not immediately go into these behaviors or these, uh, that. Cut off the desires that you say that you want. So here's how to actually start feeling safe. Receiving start simple, right? You can start by slowing down your responses when someone offers you something, instead of letting all those emotions take over. Pause, let it land before you react, because that is the space where receiving begins. I do this all the time because my husband gives to me so much. It was just my birthday and he took me out to my favorite restaurant. I said that I was feeling the urge and the desire that we want to be able to purchase our own home so I can like. Decorated any way I want, basically. Right. There's no like logic in it whatsoever. It's just like a completely emotional thing, uh, or intuitive thing. So he took me to go see a house, um, that was up for sale in our area to start, go checking it out. And then in addition to that, he got me an at-home massage and facial. He got this mic set up for me. Uh, so I could do these things more easily, set up the whole thing for me, and he got me a pair of binoculars because he knows I like to sit on the back porch on our mountain and, you know, bird watch or stargaze, and look at the planets and stuff like that. So that's just for my birthday, right? Like the man gives to me so much all the time that I've had to learn. When I start to feel uncomfortable or when I start to feel guilty and pause in that moment and just be like, oh. This is good. I'm receiving, this is good, this is great, and learn to receive that rather than giving into my emotions of guilt. You also wanna learn how to let it be enough that you don't have to match everything. You don't have to give back immediately. And receiving doesn't necessarily. Create a debt. In fact, it does not create a debt with masculine provider men. It creates connection with masculine provider men because they want to give to you and they want to put a smile on your face. I'll give you another example. Um, I'm basically a stay at home housewife. Now I do have this project that keeps me entertained. Um, but I basically like manage the household. We do have help for the house, so I basically manage the help, uh, for the household. And like every once in a while my husband might need my assistance at his office or something like that, or he has an event or, or he's got clients in town and things like that. But he's basically like. Got his whole business, like handled on his own. Um, so I have a lot of time to myself and I'm basically a stay at home housewife with this particular project. And I was starting to feel really guilty about it last week because last week I just had one of those weeks. Where I was like, what do I feel like doing this week? What do I feel like doing today? And rather than being like super regimented like I used to be in a past, my past life, as I call it, my awakening warrior life, I was very regimented. I just allowed myself to flow with what I was feeling. And I started to feel the guilt and I started to feel like, wow. My husband goes to the office every day. He worked so hard. Um. You know, he's training team. He's got these, uh, he's juggling multiple things and, and he's doing very well in business. I mean, he literally just sent me a message that, um, all the properties that he has under management in this area, they're all getting completely booked right now. So there's like passive income coming into me and my husband and our house, like literally while I'm doing this and just having a lot of. Fun and only God knows all the other ways in which it's coming in right now. And I started to feel guilty and I started to feel bad because I was like, I just spent like an hour belly dancing and then I did something creative and then I took a class that I wanted to take and I started to feel guilty and I had to realize, and I had to catch myself in that moment and be like, girl, allow yourself to receive, okay, your husband loves doing this. Your husband loves being the provider. Your husband loves it when you're relaxed, right? Because he knows that when I'm relaxed. I get very good ideas. I get really good ideas that make everybody more money or have more fun. So he wants me relaxed. He wants me to be in that feminine energy, but I had to catch myself because I was the one starting to feel very guilty. And some of you who've purchased our Magnetic Woman transformation bundle have emailed me saying that you, uh, experienced similar things like you're with good men. Right. And they're like, Hey babe, just stay home and take care of the kids, or take care of the house, or just do whatever you want. And you're like, what? And you start to feel very uncomfortable. Um. About it. So you have to remember that when masculine men give to you, it's actually creating connection. It doesn't create a debt, but many of us have been programmed to believe that it creates a debt. So we have to learn to stay in our bodies and notice when we start overthinking and then gently come back to our breath, gently come back to the truth, gently come back to the truth in that moment, which is that masculine provider men, healthy men love to give and that you are worthy. Of it. The next thing you might wanna learn how to do, and this is for those of you who are dating specifically, is allow for small moments. This is where I talk about, um, my, uh, divine masculine energy experiment that I did. And within four months, I manifested my husband. I just let men give to me in all ways. Whether it was opening the door, letting men plan things, letting them support me in little ways. I had a lot of male colleagues at the time in my previous business. They constantly wanted to solve my problems and help me solve my problems or help me or, or, um, you know, help me make more money. All those kinds of things. And I just allowed it. I received it. I mean, I had male colleagues taking me out to French restaurants and just telling me, order whatever you want on the menu. And I would just like, allow it to happen, you know? And I, and I would receive that. I had people. Um, uh, male businessmen, um, giving me free mentoring and free advice, I would receive it. My dad would go fix a tech problem for me. I would allow it. I would receive it. So I would, all the men that were around me, I would just experiment with getting very good at receiving. I manifested my husband in four months, um, when I did that. So safety, a lot of times is built through repetition and that's why that divine. Masculine energy experiment worked so well was because I was repeating the experiment every single day and not from a place of pressure. Just from a place of, okay, let's see. Let's see how I respond. Let's see how the world starts to respond to me. Let's play. That's how I was seeing it. Let's play with energy and see what happened. So let's get into trusting healthy masculine energy. So, as I was saying, a healthy masculine man, he wants to give to you. Healthy masculine men find purpose in protecting and providing for their loved ones. They feel fulfilled by it, but he can only step into that when there is space for him to do so. And when he feels received, like, oh, she's. Receiving me. Well, he wants to keep giving you more. That's why my husband's constantly giving me more because I'm so good at receiving. So what that means is he, they don't wanna feel managed. They don't wanna feel controlled. They don't wanna feel like they're being chased or manipulated. They don't wanna feel your guilt. They don't wanna feel like you're constantly having to give something back. Um. Because what they want is a woman who's very good at receiving his masculine provision and protection. It makes them feel good and it wants, it makes them want to give to you even more. So here's the inner shift. This isn't really about him. This isn't really about men. This isn't about any of them, right? It's actually about you. Do you believe that you're actually worthy of being supported? Do you trust that you won't lose yourself? If you soften, that's also a huge fear that a lot of women have that they begin to soften into a relationship and they're afraid they're gonna lose themselves. I know I had that fear. Um. Very common to have that fear. So do you also have that fear? Do you feel safe not being in control all the time? For many of you, the answer is no. You do not feel safe not being in control all the time, because if you don't, if not right, your body is going to keep resisting and it's going to keep resisting the provision and it doesn't matter who you're with. You will find a way to block it, sabotage it. Make it uncomfortable, and this doesn't mean that you need to be perfect. I just gave a ton of examples of how I'm not perfect at this, and I constantly find myself having to expand my container more and more and more. It's not about the perfection, it's about the process. It's about the simple changes every single day. It's about the awareness and then coming back to your body and coming back to the truth. So remember. Surrendering control and allowing people to give to you isn't weakness. It's trust and it's connection and trust is something that your body learns over time, and it learns gradually with repetition through small moments of actually allowing yourself to receive. So through choosing to soften in those moments through choosing to pause in those moments when people are giving to you just a little bit more each time, just like all the examples that I gave you will be able to rewire this and rewire your reality until you start getting better and better and better at receiving. And as I mentioned, when you start getting better and better and better at receiving, people wanna give to you even more. They wanna give to you all the time when you get good at receiving. So if this spoke to you. This is the work. It's not about doing more. It's not about trying harder. It's not about chasing anybody. It's about learning how to feel safe in your feminine again, and if you're ready to go. Deeper into this to actually rewire the patterns and embody this level of softness and receiving. Then I have something for you because I created an experience to help you do just that on a much deeper level so you don't just understand it, you become it. And what it is, it's the magnetic woman transformation bundle where there's 13 different initiations that walk you from being this over analyzing. Guilt ridden. The awakening warrior, as I call her, ready to fight constantly and fight or flight. Everything feels like an effort being that woman to becoming the magnetic woman who starts to attract everything that she desires in life. Whether it's a masculine provider, man, whether it's more money. We talk about money as well, um, and it definitely does help with your physical health as well. When I started going through this process, I naturally regulated my hormones after having. Issues for 10 years, and now that I'm a certified holistic healer here in Mexico, we got trained up on that. We're also doing another training on specific meditation modalities and healing modalities. I know exactly what, what did it? What did it was that I started learning the concepts and the principles that I teach in that particular training. So if you find yourself also perhaps having some issues in the hormone department, as I did for 10 years, that training's really gonna help you Trans. Form that as well, and you can find it in the description and also around here. And the other thing you can do is simply subscribe and follow along for more because this is where everything you've been chasing finally starts to find you. Thank you so much for giving me your time today, and I'll catch you on the next one.