Epi 3: Bonding, Breastfeeding & the Neurodivergent Mother 🧠🤱 - Struggling to bond after birth? Feeling disconnected during breastfeeding?

Struggling to bond after birth? Feeling disconnected during breastfeeding? You’re not alone—and there’s a reason. In this powerful episode, we explore why ADHD, sensory sensitive, anxious and autistic mothers often feel overwhelmed postpartum, and how hormones like oxytocin, dopamine, and prolactin affect bonding, mood, and sensory overload.

Learn how neurodivergent traits show up in early motherhood and why your bonding moment will come—even if it takes time. This episode is packed with science, compassion, and validation.

In this deeply personal and educational episode, we explore the often unspoken struggles of bonding and breastfeedingas a neurodivergent mother. 💬

So many women today are receiving late diagnoses of ADHD, autism, or sensory processing differences, and for many, these traits are only fully revealed through the intense transformation of motherhood. Hormonal shifts, sensory overload, and emotional dysregulation can make bonding and breastfeeding feel confusing, overwhelming—or even impossible.

I open up about my own experience with feeling disconnected after birth and the intrusive thoughts that followed, and we unpack the real science behind it all: from oxytocin and dopamine to serotonin, prolactin, estrogen, and cortisol. You’ll learn why your brain might be responding the way it is—and that you are not alone.

This episode is for the mama who feels like something’s missing, who’s wondering why everyone else makes it look so easy. This is your reminder: your bonding moment will come, and you are exactly the mother your child needs.

✨ Listen in for validation, science-backed insights, and a gentle reminder that understanding your neurodivergent brain is the first step toward healing and embracing your unique motherhood journey.

🎧 Topics covered:

• ADHD, autism, and the postpartum experience
• The role of oxytocin and dopamine in bonding
• Hormonal shifts & sensory sensitivities after birth
• Intrusive thoughts, emotional numbness, and the truth behind them
• Why breastfeeding can feel overwhelming for ND moms
• How late diagnosis is often tied to the motherhood transition

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