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You're spending your last 300 Ghana cedis on someone who won't even text you back.
When does attraction cross the line into obsession? That's the question we tackle in this raw and revealing episode about relationship dynamics that can consume our thoughts, drain our wallets, and sometimes lead us astray.
Our guests Nanakwame (aka Skinny) and Abimu share candid stories about their experiences with obsession, including the now-infamous tale of spending the last 300 Ghana cedis – money meant for family food – on an elaborate date at Labadi Beach. These personal confessions spark a deeper conversation about what drives us to become so fixated on someone that rational thinking takes a backseat to emotional impulses.
Throughout our discussion, we explore the psychology behind obsession, distinguishing it from genuine love while acknowledging how the two can sometimes intertwine. Is obsession merely a temporary phase of attraction, as one guest suggests with his "two-week maximum" rule? Or can it become a permanent fixture in your emotional landscape, as another guest claims? The contrast in perspectives reveals how uniquely we each experience romantic fixation.
We also dissect the qualities that trigger obsession – from physical attraction to less obvious traits like "common sense," "peace," and "vision." These insights offer listeners a chance to reflect on their own relationship patterns and recognize when healthy interest might be tipping into unhealthy preoccupation.
The most valuable takeaway might be our conversation about red flags that kill obsession – those wake-up calls that eventually break the spell. From poor communication to excessive demands, these warning signs serve as natural regulators that protect us from prolonged emotional investment in incompatible connections.
Have you ever been completely obsessed with someone? What's the most extreme thing you've done in the name of attraction? Share your stories with us and don't forget to subscribe for more unfiltered conversations about real-life relationship experiences.
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Speaker 1:And I'm back on your screen to another episode of what happened on the streets of my podcast show. And today is the next thing. And today I'm here with two amazing personalities. Yeah, we are about to discuss about some crucial topic. Yeah, like some very, very crucial topic, but before I delve in, I'd like to, you know, make my guests introduce themselves. So, starting from my right, who am I here with today? And on my left. Ladies and gentlemen, my name is Nanakwam. You can call me skinny or fat bone. Okay, so today we are here with Abimu Amunimu and skinny, and today Our topic for today is Obsession in relationships.
Speaker 1:Relationships yeah, today we are speaking About obsession in relationships. Relationships, yeah, today we are speaking about obsession relationships. But like, wait to why? Why are you guys laughing? Immediately I mentioned obsession in his own crazy way, crazy feeling. Hey, give me some crazy feelings. They ring my head plenty. Really. I thought so crazy, some crazy feeling. They ring my head playing tea. Really, I tell you some crazy thing. But what makes it crazy? Why do you think it's some crazy thing? See the obsession anchors. I don't know if it's one crazy thing like make addicted to the person too much, too much. You know, if you bring anything without that, so much into the person that you can't even think twice. Really, if you want to do something, you have to ask for the person.
Speaker 1:Same content because, like, everybody has been obsessed before, but like your definition or your perception of obsession is really is what's really getting me, you know? Because, hey, maybe addiction, so, so, so, john, if I'm supposed to listen to you, are trying to tell me that you've been obsessed to the extent that you can't do anything without a girl. Oh yeah, you're a sultan like that mom. Yeah, you read some time we like, oh god, so many things are doing on the streets of them, as so many things is going on in the streets, if it happen, you know that'd be how you did. If they have. How you know, charlie, you did the way you know here from the girl safe. You know the flow key. If you don't get at times, if you for bored and call them, then check up you for borrow, then you know you know Charlie, okay. So so I would like to know the definition of obsession.
Speaker 1:How do you define obsession? Well, obsession, go back to your kind of country, okay. So, omar Edo, tell me how do you define obsession? It just be addiction, addiction. In that way, it just be addiction, addiction. Even though it just be addiction, you're addicted. You're just addicted to something.
Speaker 1:That view Well, I think I get it now Like you're so much into someone that you can't do without them. They are like they become an attachment to you Really. Yeah, for instance, you've not heard from the person that you are so much into and, uh, you get worried. Get worried. Yeah, you feel some way. You feel some type of way you're not okay. Wow, so you are so obsessed with what is going on with the person. Hey, adding, you are so obsessed with what's going on with the person so you need to check up on the person. So I feel like something like that. Oh, I see, I see. So someone is like, um, when you're addicted, someone who is like when, uh, you don't feel okay when you don't hear from the person, and all that. It's much more emotion, emotion really.
Speaker 1:But personally, I see obsession from the angle of you know, beauty, where like See nice girl with nice figure, yeah, the sunshine of my eye, the sunshine of my eye. It's about relationship. Nobody have a normal girl with the past, with a big backside. Now, bro, oh, okay. So, um, oh, my idol, I'd like to ask have you been obsessed with a girl before? Nah, I'm not sure. Yo, he's coughing because before, yeah, before you go start, it is it levels things. Before you go start, no, he said let's do it. He make a, let's do it. I said I will borrow airtime till I call you. It will never happen. You will not borrow airtime till I call you. That would be me. Oh, why do you feel like you will not borrow airtime till I call you the whole thing?
Speaker 1:It is simple, girls, when you rush your body small, when they make you do over two things in your body, yeah, if you go out of your way me, that will be how they train me. Hey, I don't know, I don't know if you've got extra I'll give you, really, because we don't marry you, just be relationship dating. So if you marry the other, what's gonna happen? So I have to take them small, small, step by step. That'll be the thing, okay. So I'd like to know have you been obsessed with a girl before? Yeah, yeah, but Charlie, I don't call you Charlie. Charlie, okay, so do you mind sharing your experience with us, like how this whole obsession journey came about, how I don't call you the ups and downs in your obsession journey and all that?
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, charlie, there was this girl living in East Ligon. You let me name her Abba. So I saw Abba and I was like damn girl, you're really from heaven. Hey, charlie, you're a girl, now Don't be here. I was so obsessed, charlie, when I go to approach, I talk to her normally and things. I take her number, I take her snap handle. I do chat to her. I call chat time at the column number busy number business. I will you see where the obsession is. Yeah, so, like now feeling gone, it's like you, you are really into the girl. I like her vibe, you know.
Speaker 1:But it got to the point where he started, you know, trying to reach out to her she wasn't really responding. You know she'll be last in a way. Last was inside, yeah, yeah, so you really had some, you know, kind of sexual desire for the girl will be normal. But now I'm obsessed. There'll be two different things. Last end of obsession. There'll be two different things. Yeah, oh, I, I, I will not say it'll be two different things, but but I was higher than the last, you know. Yeah, so, but you, boom, abim crowns a guy, no car, no car, I mean.
Speaker 1:So, like this, this video, you're already done like you're trying to you to this fine girl, your hood, or trying to to this fine girl. Then all of a sudden, no, this really drive jley or something. Then, jay, you mean, they think my stick, my own, my easy gs, everybody can't make me figure out you, please, they take my attention watching this video, everybody, they do force, you know force, you know try, madam, you answer that you want to shut up unless you need my, she go. But esther, you know force, hey, esther, esther, they are man by radio. You go, come back. This one here, one zero. This one there, one zero. Right now, you for married, they make you make one one. One. One bro was broken, okay.
Speaker 1:But john, tell me, tell us about your obsession journey. I want to know really, be obsession, just be. I would talk to you. Be last with, okay, no, you know, yes, that makes you come off with it. Oh, man, just be some small last, because Then I refuse to, even if you know Work out, I will get another person. Then I refuse to Options day. So, whatever she go, do, be a, you know, go touch me like that Really, but then it just be Few weeks Me that be on my own day. No, it just be for Like some Temporary period. Yeah, something like that, because me, less than two weeks after two weeks, I know the ccb obsession, I just will forget about you. That's fast, it's okay, it take long, but my mom's, I just was in a.
Speaker 1:I don't know what classifies obsession. You know what classify us as obsession? Oh, I see. So um me for my obsession experiences. So, like, I had this obsession experience where, like like always, I want to see the girl. Yeah, I want to see the girl. So sometimes I feel and just go buy what that's called. I just want to see the girl. Like, why is the dude doing, oh my god, you should have a mouth and a hand. You are a pussy, charlie, you won't see that girl alone. You make a cocky, nah man.
Speaker 1:Like the fact that, and what made the obsession so genuine and it was always growing was that anytime I go past where she see me, she go, holla at me, she go, she go try and stop me there and try and have a conversation with me. That would, she will see you, oh, I can't stop me there and try and have a conversation with me. That was I can't hear you, oh, I can't hear me there. Why did you do this? So, like, that was what like boosted my obsession, because you know any type of you see, yeah, so this was the kind of things and I, like, I can, I can just buy a gift, like in charlie, we'll trim cacao, then I'll just buy something and go and give it to her because yo, I just, I just want to be seen make a question.
Speaker 1:You see the new giggle guys from like, saying, get girl. If you see girl, the girl, hey, like, what are they talking about? The girl? They be like the girl, they be where they go to, they give you mind. You see, they go to, they give you mind. So you two, you are trying to, you know, you are trying to prove your point of yeah, we don't end up session check, like, catch me one.
Speaker 1:The obsession. Oh, I remember, I remember. Okay, so, like, um, let's see, if you're obsessed with a girl, for how long can you keep the obsession? For how long is it until you propose, or maybe maybe the girl go and they fuck up. Then eventually you're just going to, you know, um, brownie or something.
Speaker 1:How long do you think your obsession lasts for a girl? Two weeks maximum, yeah, two weeks minus two weeks maximum. It depends if the girl fuck up to her like she do, I don't care, I don't care the hrly less than one week, not every minute, okay, so make a boss your brain. So me, ma me, I don't know the kind of person I'll be, but my obsession feel last until see, like you, you actually, man, you see my news someday, you know, see my matter, what you know, if you get them.
Speaker 1:I've not really had that kind of experience because, charlie, me, if you point and catch, I'll go away. I'll point this fish. I definitely have to catch this fish. Catch and kill you. Don't do it like that. You see the vibe. Yeah, wow, yeah. So, once you see your mind, my obsession never dies. That'd be me to my own. So even if it be six months, it never dies. Ah, then it'd be good Yours be wild. My dreams will depress you like that. So, okay, what about yours? How long does your obsession last? I would say it depends. But what type of fuck up Will make your obsession last?
Speaker 1:Then get some behaviors within them, like, maybe you won't go out with them. Then they'll be giving excuses, charlie. Then things oh, come over, oh, let's go, like I'll go out plus you. Then the rest, my money. They say, oh, make I see you self. Oh, make I see you. Then make you talk. Oh, my mom says this I'm going to see someone. Like, the excuses you play we'll put out. You know, oh, charlie, my wife, my wife didn't pass through that. It'd be like they don't know, they feel you, they get to feel your vibe, but it's mean the point's blank into no, just say.
Speaker 1:Or the first side side, my brother, what did they talk to me? You know I will send this video, make no worry, we'll take some down there, master, every safe, when it's one time you know you go to see, you know the girl she don't make interested so you just fall back off. Really, yeah, but okay for me, before I could make interest, uh, before I could make obsessed with you, that means I've seen some level of interest. I mean I've seen that you are building some level of interest to me before I I feel obsessed. But and yeah't, think you don't worry yourself as you talk, maybe she fuck up or something. What if she detests you? But how you go test by fucking us, maybe you won't take out. I won't go that vibe.
Speaker 1:Some some detests too, my boy. They go through the same thing. You should say detests. I won't go that vibe song, charlie, that thing. You know, my boy, they go through the same thing. He be test. He sure say be test. He has this, say Wait, then the test Time, like every time they want to take the girl. Come on To the girl Be like you know Me, they send them go Accra. She go Pick something. Come oh me. You maybe go across that one to be out there. You go talk to me. So like you know so many ways to kill a cat, so like you know so many ways to kill a cat.
Speaker 1:So what we saw, the fact is we think a delete to your obsession in girls. What do you think maybe a girl do this? Or if a girl looks like this? Or maybe the fact is we think lee makes you obsessed with girls. My green flags, you know, if he didn't take my green flags, tell me something. We go like no, so maybe there's some girl out there. We like she could try. Like one girl get vision like this yeah, like I seen the head day house, that'd be one. Calves know, really they need me like that. Just get common sense. Common sense would be the first one common sense. Girls forget common sense. If you get common sense. They forget to kill me with that. Yeah, then give me peace, that'd be all. Then she give you what peace? Oh, ok, so common sense, peace and what? Then? She give vision like go for a lot of vision, charlie, only vision. Actually, the obsession level will be down.
Speaker 1:As I said before, um, I don't can be obsessed with you. That means you hit. So I do. You know. Yeah, beauty means oh, you don't. Don't like what we will, criteria, like what, what we, the factors would lead you to. Your says it ago. Oh, as my brother said, vision, vision, yeah, you need to have a vision and you have to be educated and cute, yeah, so we stop stop you. Sexual so cool, you need to get some sets. You know no-transcript, so, like that was yesterday I was on live, tick, tock, live, yeah, and this was what we're basically talking about. Yeah, yeah, um, about boys, pain and all that. Even with my recent video it was talking about boys with a p and all that.
Speaker 1:And this guy was like he paid the guy the girl's remedials, what? After the girl passed the girl got nursing, he paid a girl's nursing fee after paying the girl's nursing fee, or sometimes she has to pay the whole store fee. Meanwhile, the guy you know what he did he sold food for counter. I retract my statement, charlie. You know what I mean. You are not educated. You are telling me a kind story, charlie. You know the guy actually sold food for counter. He paid the girl admission. I should say pay the girl in remedial, pay the girl in worst of you. But we don't know whether he's making mama proud or not. He did it out of love and maybe maybe he's making mama proud, I know so, so. So so you try to talk me. See, you try to talk me.
Speaker 1:You wouldn't go there, shama, for a girl you're obsessed with. So, okay, tell me what is the farthest you've gone for a girl you're obsessed with. You can see, you can see Love that bastard Say maybe I go buy him two or something. Say maybe you go buy him two. Yeah, that would be the best. Go buy them two, yeah, that'll be the best. I will feel good, that'll be the best. You go feel good, yeah. But you see, some people they will feel go and buy, sell. Hey, oh yeah, people, they do. Wow, you feel, buy, sell, they buy, test. Go to the level of buying phone, phone. Oh well, well, no, no wonder now girls have big phones. A lot of them use the big phones. I mean it's not all, okay.
Speaker 1:So so you only say you go buy food, give you a job, um, then something passion related, something else, okay, okay. So like, maybe you go give her one, you, you release new collection, or then you're nothing make you wear. So okay, I'll make you go give her one, you, you release new collection, or then nothing make you wear. So okay, I make you know the picture, the gucci, then the channel. Nah, hey, no, no, no, don't do that. Hey, no, no, no, I just be my girl by upstairs the test. Yes, so I probably tell you. See me, I know that category inside, you know there is category.
Speaker 1:Once you obsess the, I think you should, you know, go the extra mile for the girl. You've already think for back. You've already think for back Things like this. They think they can't move. That'd be you. They are simple, simple. Two weeks, we study, you, you go work out, move to the next. Hey, okay, so tell me what would be the extra mile.
Speaker 1:You've gone for the girl, I, you've gone for a girl, yeah, um, I was hungry, right, and I had 300 cds on me, charlie me. My plan is to make a tour. Um, I think that time there was kfc 18 junction, even though sense from me, but I don't know where in fact I bought finish and address charlie, if they watch I'm sorry, it's not my fault, but it shows they, charlie, nana, this girl, call me. No, I'm hungry, I want to buy pizza. Can you believe? 150. I told you this video people.
Speaker 1:You see, we were too over caring. You know, If my sister they watch, I, they beg you to you. How many years is this? Yeah, if my sister watch, I'll beg you, make you stop me from house. It's not my fault. Yeah, if I understand, you know, food not their house. Stop, stop, stop, charlie. How many years is this? Oh, 2023 too. Now 150. Back then, every morning, I money, you have a case mission. You last last now, the woman each other he took off, he obsessed with a girl into. No, yeah, I was too care. You, you sent, you sent your money.
Speaker 1:Well, you know, I go by to some quencher, joloful, hey, yeah, how you, good one, and turkey have seen, if you say so easy, instead of you to feed the family, you, this guy didn't feed the family, but he gave them one. Hey, don't see me why I ask you. My name is Tess. I'm very sorry, I apologize. He just forgot to tell the bread man. Yeah, you know, I think I said mine from the beginning, though, but okay, so One time, not a devil's tale.
Speaker 1:The beginning, though, you know. But okay, so one time in our deal stories, you know, my do still be like adamu, adamu, my last 300. I don't know why it was 300, 300, my last 300. Really, charlie, I won't impress this girl, I just won't impress this girl. So, charlie, same thing, we carry this girl go la body beach. You did that. The girl should be understanding, should be understanding. We take church. Oh, my god man.
Speaker 1:So like, see something, I started by a strap, I'm a strap, you, charlie, my hey, my hey, the girl can't wait for my story, my strappy, I was really obsessed with this girl, like your name be lizzo, yeah. So like I was really upset and I'm a strappy, charlie, and that girl know her, though I feel I'm saying, oh, she text me, say like she won't go to the beach. She see the vibe. I say, oh, okay, cool, so do you want us to go? So I, now I know if it really be planned or something.
Speaker 1:So, charlie, my last three, oh, yeah. I say, oh, charlie, nah, this girl I forgot I am go out to see the vibe because this is my only chance. I know, do I'm right now? And yeah, I know, if you do, I'm again, yeah, so ah, I do it. I call him with this girl now me, I want to send her money, she pick taxi, come, and we still share. I call him now she say I shouldn't bother to send her the money, she'll come. And so where she, so she carry money, pick taxi, come, and we still this kind of doesn't feel, you know. So she come when she come and see me, she went make a bad finish there. So, oh, challenge, she didn't see the room inside. I go by if you have strap your spirit. We challenge. And I hear it more yeah, the two.
Speaker 1:So so you know, see, if you did the asphalte. Uh, you for what? Go open glow before you go get car. You damn work, me damn pick taxi, but the taxi don't go drop before we drop, before the gates. Yeah, we will walk from that side, go. So as you go.
Speaker 1:Now they try book boats, but the prices forget car, know the car, and they save you. Oh, thank god, yeah, I say the body car comes. That's the body car, come on actually. So, like I'm, the boss is not coming, you see. Oh, yeah, yeah, sure, because I was even about to tell you that you should pick trust key. Yeah, yeah, understand your girlfriend. Oh, so like, yeah, actually, you call me normal, normal me. I just go, I, I they, I call the waiter, you don't say much, you go out, the waiter go escort you, so one waiter escort you, so as the waiter see me.
Speaker 1:Then the girl know oh, we have cocktail, we have this, we have this. You call me, we have cocktail price. I give you 1.8. Eh, eh, we will crack 300, what's the name? Wait, wait. So that be the girl.
Speaker 1:See she, they suck alcohol. You know we, the girl say she, they suck alcohol. And now when the girl talk with him, nah, she know they suck alcohol, but she suck alcohol before he. See the girl say confirm the cocktail. You know that they put weed in alcohol. You're supposed to wear a where the girl say weed, I like to try. I said no, no, it's not good for you right now. If you try it, I will not be able to take you home. See the girl say okay, okay, okay, no, no problem, no problem.
Speaker 1:I say midi, I like to take soda when I come here because I really like the coke and stuff. So you know you can drink more. We are other coke too, other coke too. So, as I order the coke too, we don't bring a one. With 20 ghana, we don't carry can, so 40 ghana of the budget. So as I ordered the coke too, we had to bring out 120 ghana, we had to carry it. So 40 ghana of the budget.
Speaker 1:So the girls see the horse, she make happy. Hey, look at the horse, look at the horse, look at the horse. Yeah, I do it too. Yeah, so we like to go for a ride, all of them. Now they do a glacier, they do a glacier. You see what she did.
Speaker 1:But actually the camera girl paid for the church office, she paid for me down. Oh, wow, yeah, you didn't go, such a kind girl, you did. You squad d, oh no, no, no, she, no, my girl, no, but I felt my, true, oh, you know, we didn't split the bill like that, but she was really showing some consent. So so, like um, as we uh, we see them with the horses come dances we she was admiring the horses I said would you like to take a ride with you? See, so I mean, I caught a horse guy. Oh, charlie, my mom said she won't do it, she won't ride the horse, um, so what's up? He said okay, I'll go for the car. You have to go, that's okay, no problem. So the horse guy. Oh so, normally me, a guard was in shorts, one, two, now yes, but again Korean, go on. So me, me, africa. So the guy in a field, a girl that way. So the boy will carry the girl.
Speaker 1:I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where is the girl? I said where privacy? Then get long and short. That's it why you know, talk me long and short, we can go long.
Speaker 1:We say oh, charlie, I won't make a girl feel you see the vibe. I say I won't make it feel me, I'm not gonna pay 100 cd, I'll give you 50. We say no, go, take charlie, I check my pockets inside 100, 103. We do inside every mass canyon co. We assist on rastam and be them play the drum. Give you a, then we, I give them five city for inside right. Then give me change, I'll give you the horse rider this one. Uh, your friends in 50 ghana, so 50 ghana, 55 city, go for the budgets inside. So, oh, with the chat, with the chat, oh, no more chats. Oh, you see the vibe, no more chat. Oh, don't forget, I buy the coke too. So, like 40 guys, like 90, 90 ghana girls, right, yeah, 200. So right now, no, hey, I'll be charlie, 95, we saw them.
Speaker 1:Since it's for chop, we usually say you know that thing, be out. And then get food for coming. They get some fries before the labad jn, but yeah, they feel the labuma fries, you know. But I now want to try the labadry fries. So, as I buy the fries, they give them free acts. They, they can't see. Oh, charlie, you know me. So they can't see. Um, they can't see she could chop us. Okay, cool, we are doing, we are.
Speaker 1:Other one point eight we didn't carry come. Yeah, the fries. 1.8. We didn't take a salad. They'll put fries on. We're loading the salad, cabbage, the chicken, chicken kill, that's it. Oh, my mafia. Yeah, so no problem, we had a job at the top, that's in plenty, you know, for trouble, 1.8, 1.8 it's me to me, money because I'm, because I'm not saying I'll go because 300 million I'm in your bottom money, like, if I get it like I'll go take some help and smoke stuff then. So, like the whole back effort of the service, I the campus, my mommy sent me money for the week 300 ghana, I do it. I will blow up the video for it. If you need a cat the spot, I won't take you in one year. I think the girl go, I think the girl go the the big side. But oh, honestly, oh, we took some nice pictures. She told me she really felt it, she would like to go On another one with me. Oh, she knows the, she knows the Charlie, that one, he said, but I was going one day, you know, they do. You see, but After me, like Normally Before, as a girl, before I get obsessed with you, charlie, also, you for no book? Yeah, I said yo, if you don't know book, yeah, it go hard. How the comfort with it? Yeah, as I was saying, yeah, me, I don't like nothing. Yo, how are you doing what's up? Nothing, yo, if I tell you what's up, I'm literally, I literally want you to give me the whole rundown of your thing. I want to test you Like you know, talk to me Like tell me how you were trying to wear your shoe and it couldn't fit. How can I tell you that what's up? And you be like nothing? That means you are literally telling me that you cannot spark a convo and that's the total turn off. You know, I can literally be talking to this girl and you know she's literally giving me. If I had given one instance, she'd give me like three instances of how the whole thing, how a whole day was. You know that. Imagine you were here like oh, like yo, interesting stuff. But we text you like what's up, nothing, nothing. You probably should have shot me in the mouth. That would be a red flag, a full red banner. Cancel out, cancel out. So, after the Labade beach, you carry on going to Oshibos. Oh, oshibos, you know right. So we pick Madina. Yeah, why won't it happen for one? So we picked Madina. So I picked where I drove. It's kind of sad. So I walked from Rokunglua to the diaspora, where the girl was. She continued to go to Madina, where she went. So as I reached, I got rice for them already. So, charlie, I collapsed To see new money come. No, charlie, I'm not going to do anything. You're not going to go free, you're going to let the girl go free. Oh, man, man, nothing gone. No, hag, nothing. Oh, charlie, hag, yede, hag, yede, hag, yede. I'm normal. What did you say, kakra? You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it. You said it, you said it. You said it. You said you.
Speaker 1:Nah, this guy is going to take your cash. You actually, you actually have to send the KFC money. He's in the, he friends the inside, he friends the inside. That'll be one fight, but it won't be. I won't be, I won't be, I won't chill. So we can take, I'm saying me, I chill. I'm saying me, where is it? By you, by you, your sister, stop saying I'm sorry, I'm sorry, they do much, but you know, as you're so toxic and you're hungry, you don't send the money. You don't send the money, you take the girl. So, as you take the girl, finish what's up.
Speaker 1:What happened? Oh, I've been around the back doors. You know what's the back doors. I'm talking what happened. I'm doing yawa, I'm not doing anything. So you tell me what happened.
Speaker 1:It happened after a month. Then me to my mom go happen. After 2 months you think it go happen. Me need to go happen. Yet you say no happen. Yet Me to my mom go happen, she come over. I can't go somewhere when it happen.
Speaker 1:I don't know what I'm talking about, but see me in my life. See, watch me, look at my face. We went to prison in my life. If my parents or any of my family members, they, I never would choose girl. We have obsessed it over them. I am wicked, but I can never.
Speaker 1:We all learn from our mistakes. Some mistakes, mistakes, mistakes are not for helping. Some mistakes are very easy. How your siblings literally told you that, brother, we are hungry, we need to eat. Where you do it to, you send the money, give girl and she go buy pizza. You see, when you time some girl to chair for sacrifice, for sacrifice, what? Go buy pizza. You see, when you time some go to chair before sacrifice, before sacrifice, what Family fest, bro, yeah, family fest. Now I've learned my mistakes. I'm correcting this gradually, okay, okay. So when you go there, you text Ryan and he still goes saying you text him. Yeah, I swear to God. Hey, okay, okay.
Speaker 1:So I would like to know what would make your obsession die off? Oh, hey, don't talk about the reaction, talk about them bouncing. No girl bounce me. Hey, any girl bounce me. Make a comment for the comment section. No girl bounce me. You know, if you want to test, you have to test first before you put your leg for a show. If she goes bouncing, you have to be clear and humorous. So if she's literally making the strings very hard to pull, that means you're going to oh, yeah, I'll back off, I'll just leave you to be. So that one if they make you obsessive.
Speaker 1:Apart from that, what again? As he said, girls with the rush, yeah, put around too much. Yeah, saying yeah, that means the vibe. No, good pick, you know. If you vibe self, but you know some girls did it originally you're gonna say you're not meant to be. You see the vibe, but you have to try. I mean, anything can happen. Oh, yeah, down there, you need to try. But but you know, good, life told me I'm not making my own story. Or you could like to tell that story. Okay, I will tell you later. I will tell you later. I will tell you later. I will tell you later. Ok, then what again? Ok, my red flag is too big. If they take that red flag, call on the oh Gen Z, shit about red flag, red flag, red flag.
Speaker 1:But the girls in Statham, they won't finish give them. So, like them with in Statham, we start down, we won't finish give them, hey. So like them with them, start down, we, like you, won't finish give them. Wow, okay, interesting, very interesting. So, um, tell me what, what it kill your obsession.
Speaker 1:Um, as I said, yours, who? They were over demanding. Not, you can demand, but you are over demanding, like the 1.5, like the cb over demanding, oh, 1.5, I spent 300. But the way you do the 1.5, where they make you, you know the money you convert and fuck what it is. 3 million, 3 million, wow, but you see, you see, you learn your mistake.
Speaker 1:But I don't trust you to say you learn your mistake. But I mean, I don't trust you say you learn your mistake, 100. But what's me? I would like to tell you, be see, if you're not choose girl by family the girl, get in family the girl, stop, go to see family by you. Oh yeah, it be mistake. You know the girl, the girl, the girl. She go be talk. You say in, mommy, send him so she not go go. Then she go come here there. She not go feed you, that no, no, no, she not go do. But what you? You? You sent money that you see your siblings go feed them, cook food.
Speaker 1:I was over caring, you know, I was over caring over caring, and your class on adrian one. So I'm so, did you know? Okay? So, um, so can obsession also be called love? Ah, there'll be two different things. There are two different things but there are two different.
Speaker 1:In a way they match. Oh, they work in hand. You say love me. You do like you did film. Some way we have been. Ah, you, the first thing they love. You do like you did fill them. So we wait.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you need to see if they love you back, like she didn't feel you back. But it's actually different. Just me one corner and then you pay be obsessed with a person, that addiction, you pay the feeling. But yeah, yeah, sometimes if you didn't say it'd be only you, mostly be only you. Yeah, if you didn't say it'd be only you, but sometimes, maybe, if you didn't say the girl is also obsessed with you. No, but I want to. Then that one will be love. Yeah, maybe two weeks.
Speaker 1:Hmm, who said I mean two different things, but it's just a obsession with dying a relationship, oh yeah, oh yeah. He loves how the feet die, why, you know good that way. So so you, you know that phase of a relationship where, like if you see a girl in pictures of the ball, like by you, people are still in a relationship, like sometimes, if it works out, you know how to hold them, like maybe we're in a fair way, maybe the girl knows the beat. I think you know the girl in the group picture. You follow Tambrou. No, no, no, here some day they take on just fat. Yeah, conjure, I don't take on your spot. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, I know, I don't know, I don't think I just take you, conjure, I don't know that, you don't know, see you, squad. But you there, you know, see, um, so now I eat you down the walk. I know if you hold down, that'd be the thing, like in public, yeah, so holding as, yeah, so you all agree to say it gets to a point in a relationship where your partner, they bore you, like you don't want to see him at all, because me, every time I won't see you. I have not experienced that before. Every time I won't see you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I remember around 10 pm, cry the chat plus some way. I say what should they do? She say, oh, nothing. I said I had to go to the camp. She said okay. I said no, I had to call the local government. 90 Ghana cities also have 120 cities. I just told them, hey, what is the new thing? Hey, darling, what is the new thing? Oh, I said no, from where? Yeah, from no, yeah, from the local government, oh, yeah, from no, yeah, yeah, some things they need.
Speaker 1:Hey, so you, because you're obsessed with this girl, you pick car from tema to his legal house. Charlie, you know you've not fallen in that before. No, but some things like this I already want. Wow, that's not me, especially with tema. Boy, no, no, oh, charlie, that's the reason of obsessed payments. Boy, like you see that building you've already do. Child sick of study. You pick car all the way from Temagomita for East Lake-on-Yale. Will you come that same night or the following day? The following day, oh, okay. So you mean you say you do sleepover? Oh, it was necessary. You call me a sleepover. Hey, call me a cocker, okay, I plan on going. It makes sense, cocker, but still the 1.5%. No, oh, the 1.5%, no, charlie, the 1.5. I'll send you 1.5. I got it, okay.
Speaker 1:So do you have to be obsessed with a girl before you can ask her out? Yeah, you can't just ask her out if you're not obsessed Really. Ask her out, like, how, like, what's your idea for me different? Don't be different. I see, I say out there, you like, see, I just want you, bob, about what you did play them say, bob, he won't do at all.
Speaker 1:Friends with benefits, let's put that away really. Yeah, so you know, been necessary, I forget, obsessed with you before. No, no, okay, they depend, they depend, they depend on the type of girl, but okay, so for me, like, sometimes I can, I can just not be obsessed with the girl, but like now, and they feel up, maybe the other way around. So, okay, so, because you've been in this situation, the girl, she's not really fine like that, but take off something where she do it, they make, they make a funny matter. No, no, no. So I'm just there. They know they're not really be nice at that, they're not really be fine at that, but so, because Some things be what they do, yeah, catch you In a beauty beat.
Speaker 1:Yeah, my father-in-law, my father-in-law, he, no, go catch you. No, me, no, unless I'm obsessed, but he scared for me 10. Yeah, man, one billion, welcome. Hey, welcome, welcome, welcome. What are you going to do? Welcome. I want to know the customs. You know the customs.
Speaker 1:This one is a work of A work of a lot of things, you know. You're going to have to go to the police. You're going to have to go to the police. You're going to have to go to the police. Okay, so you guys agree with me that you have to be obsessed with a girl before you can tell her to be a man? No, not the other side, no. So if you then see a girl, you won't see girl, you know, be upset, but you want me to be your girlfriend. Nah, not a sick girlfriend, she just become she. Be that, be your. I get that. She my girlfriend, that be, oh, okay. But uh, okay, this question may be very crucial and you know it must be answered with care. It must be answered with, you know, uh, some level of thinking and some level of analogy to the hypothetical error and distinguish vague opinions Like a whole lot of analogies coming together to bring the whole evaluation together. So, have you ever been obsessed with a Temagel and what makes made you obsessed with that Temagirl? Temagirl will be red flags off already. Hey, I washed my hand. I washed my hand.
Speaker 1:Temagirls, be what One Momo, every Temag you will meet is via Momo Normal. You don't have to fight. No, you go fit up like Sam. Go Go fit up like Sam. Let me Te Magel first. Momo, don't matter what, leave them, leave them. Leave them, give us content. No braiding hair.
Speaker 1:I meet like two or three and they will tell you I'm not looking nice to you. That's what it affects me. I'm not looking nice, it affects, but I'm looking nice. So if I turn out money, my name is same. I don't know if you are watching or something. You want braid, scared. I beg. I don't know if you are watching or something. You won't breathe. I just my mind will come inside. I watch, he will come. I want to see you two. You look nice, you won't breathe. I don't need scarf, I want some transportation. I will call again. Temak, hey, you have to go to the hospital. Be brave, ah, I will call again. So they say Okay.
Speaker 1:So tell me, have you ever been obsessed With a Temagirl before? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I have. But you know, but you don't say, tem, that my girls are beautiful though. Yeah, every girl they be. Forget every girl they be your way crash. You forget not every girl with a, b. Every girl they be gadu's wife for them. You see gadu's you had before. You see gadu's you had before.
Speaker 1:I do see why before he don't want hype you woman. He don't want hype you woman, don't worry, your time will come. He say Me, me got time. He say he don't want hype you woman. He say he don't want hype you woman. He say he don't want hype you woman. He say he don't want hype you woman. He say he don't want hype you. That was way back in 2018. Or, yeah, your man in life story Daisy, like girls, daddy, oh, I'm a cool boy, gentle boy.
Speaker 1:So you know, say some girls, some temagirls, they were just Temagirls, bunch of them. Say some girls, eh, some temma girls. You go figure I say them with db. But they know, with db they were just um. But you see temma girl with db before we a bunch d, bunch d, enter the 12th inside here now, oh, even, come to four cry. Come to four girls with db, come to four with db, come to four. You know what.
Speaker 1:You know the bad about DB. I don't know if it's DB, but let me say it, you know what. I don't know what DB is. I don't know what DB is. If you know it, you know it. No, no, no, that's not DB. I don't know what DB is. I don't know what DB is. No, db is. If I know you, if I know you, my life will change. Certified DB, we will get a verification badge. We will no, if me there, you there, my life would change. Certified DB, some DBs there, you might get a verification badge.
Speaker 1:So you talk to me, say what made you obsessed with the Temagirl? Oh well, there was this nice girl, we. You see, if you see Temagirl saying you know how them alive, they, how them alive, they Ebi muye, heja, heja, sorry, ebi muye ni suwa shidodu, come here, come know how they're alive, the how they're alive. Maybe we're here, come here, come here, but you go see some other girl that will come for you. Well, I, I have to leave time. You go see some other girl.
Speaker 1:Then this job is different, like the natural cry is different. I saw a new today. We big crowd, one hand on one. So you knew today as well who be San Jose. I mean community, for I've not seen you before.
Speaker 1:Since when we're in, coming from, since when I was born, I'm like oh, wow, charlie, thank you, so like. So my DV, dp vibes, and so bunch of any DB by you know, you know so there's a bunch of fine shits in, you know, and they, you know, especially my old, and they be making me upset. Yeah, charlie, my obsession. I like good things, you know, charlie. Charlie, there be some fine shits. All girls they be, but them girls. Yeah, just a person in japan.
Speaker 1:At the end of the day, what made you lose your obsession for her? Well, like, she's that kind of um, indoor pain, though too much open. So when you cry, I'm asleep. It was a message night to take some long time before she replies me. I want to. I was wasting my time so I had to stop you now. Oh, dengue, dengue.
Speaker 1:You see why I said to my girl's red flag oh, it'll be all of them, one of the red flags that I would take out. I get 101 reasons, uh-oh, 101. My red flag is burnt. Then what am I going to do? Why? Why, only why, why, why. You see, unless I get preference games, he's recreating the rules of love. He's recreating the rules of love, love, to then get, then get rules. We could do another episode. Red flags, we have mentioned already, but. But you lost your obsession Because she was Hijah, hijah.
Speaker 1:No, she was too indoors when you text her, to take a long time For her to reply when you want to see her. But, but, did you have the feeling? Two windows when you text her, to take a long time for her to reply when you want to see her. But oh, oh, yeah, I agree, see, another girl should know the few. I would say. Maybe I'll say boredom to her.
Speaker 1:So I just had to be invested in myself. Oh, no, no, no, no, hey, why is the crowd? We get different types of investment. You know why you put the money, money it's. You know. Girls are all about money. Let's be honest, it's all about the fun, it's not about them, I guess.
Speaker 1:Oh, charlie, me, I did them at top to them with ching to my girls. Why, if you don't get money? Why, if you are not financial, why, as of when they start the team, then you're not okay like that. But you're not okay like that, spread it out and then shake it out. Spread it out, you're back Black Chef 2C being spread out. I don't get this one, you need to shake it out being spread out. I like the bread. What's bread down, what's bread front, anytime, anytime. But charlie, me personally, no, I don't want to promote anything we like.
Speaker 1:At the end of the day, though, say, oh, charlie, not to make this. They do this, not really, they do this. Okay, but, like, I will show you the plug. But I know, charlie, just protect your money, that'd be all right. Yeah, don't forget to use condom. You see the vibe condom. Always use condom.
Speaker 1:If I abstain, self, let go be too married. You know I've been celibate for eight years now. Hey, put your sins back. I'll never touch you. Man, my mommy, start to testify.
Speaker 1:Any girl will go claim she touch and make a comment why, if you lie, what do they get? I'm not a liar, my mommy, stop nosy. Because every time they ask she, they check, she, they check. We get some girls. So, guys, this was a very interesting conversation. She, they check. Like how, that's right, we get some bussing before the house day Every time we come out tonight, you go, swear, you come back and you swear again, you bow. So if you go into your money camera, he's going to strike you. You're a boy, you're a boy, you're a boy, you're a boy, I'm a boy, but you're a boy, you're. So, guys, you know it was a very interesting episode and I was able to, you know, really enjoy the conversation and you know, for now, this is my trial and I think you are going to see us on most of the episodes that we are going to shoot. It was a nice conversation, but don't forget to like, comment, subscribe and share.
Speaker 1:One last thing make you know, send 1.5 million. Oh, charlie, 1.5, unless you get over. But if your family, make you know, do send 1.5, I beg you, it'll be less. You know It'll be less. You, I beg you. Your best goal If you go between 10 bar, hey, charlie, take your L's. You know, take your L's and shout out to all, to my girls, you know. So we love you, I love you, I love you too. I didn't lie.
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