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WHAT HAPPPENED ON THE STREETS OF TEMA Podcast
Tema Chronicles: Navigating Dating Expenses in Ghana's 24-Hour Economy
Money, dating, and relationships have always been linked, but in Ghana's challenging economic landscape, the dynamics have become increasingly complex. As your host Nats explores in this raw, honest conversation, the streets of Tema are witnessing a fascinating power struggle between romantic expectations and financial realities.
The episode dives deep into the phenomenon of "expensive dates" culture, where young people feel pressured to spend beyond their means at high-end establishments like Kempinski, when equally meaningful experiences exist right in their neighborhoods. This financial pressure has given rise to what Nats jokingly calls the "Tema Broke Boys Association" – a testament to the struggles many face while navigating modern dating scenes in a tough economy.
What happens when someone casually requests funds for maintenance that amounts to your entire monthly salary? How should we interpret contradictory statements like "I don't need your money" when actions consistently prove otherwise? Nats doesn't hold back in addressing these questions, offering both humor and wisdom for listeners struggling with similar experiences. The conversation particularly examines how social media platforms like TikTok have accelerated unrealistic relationship expectations through showcased gift-giving, creating a distorted view of what healthy relationships should look like.
Whether you're currently dating, in a relationship, or simply curious about modern romance dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights into finding balance – appreciating partners who support you through financial struggles, showing gratitude when possible, and building relationships founded on mutual growth rather than material expectations. Join the conversation by subscribing, leaving a comment, and sharing your thoughts on these complex dating economics!
Guy man, why you too wicked, plus your money like that. Yes, see, you see money buy seafood for girl, but today you don't see money buy food. We go see for you today. Wagwan, my people, this, your boy, nats, made it and I bring to you another exciting episode of what Happened On the Streets Of Temma Podcast Show. Today I'm going to talk about some very, very, very, very important topic. Where did the street top? Where did the streets of tema top? I'm going to discuss it because my sister girls know I'm up a billion pound and the boys are also paying. Boys to mooch. Yeah, they are paying. Oh mooch yeah, yeah, oh mooch, yeah.
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Speaker 1:Yeah, so expensive dates. You people they call your girlfriends, they go, expensive dates. Hey, where put a final this morning in this hardship, in this economy, in this 24-hour economy? Hey, like you put a try, like you didn't try, you guys be doing the most, but like how you put it, find this money. So go for me and tell you, wow, expensive, this for where? A moving pick? And I am from a kempiski. Wow, you see, recently some guy we carry in in in fine shape, in fine shape, good date with a girl girl, nico bonica 7k, and a boy in the film I'm sure the boy be tema boy. Hey, girl, if you're looking for the boy, anyway, the boy is in tema, coming for him in tema. So go, charlie, tema, broke boys, association members on doors, like the members, be plenty.
Speaker 1:I'm not saying to my, to my boys are broke, but you know we get association too for that. Hey, you go see the rich boys for inside the broke boy friends, that kind of level. Don't be deceived though. Yeah, but girls we love the call boys broke boys, broke boys. What's up like?
Speaker 1:If you're not broke girl, why all you be calling me a broke boy? You cannot be, you cannot be rich and calling me a broke boy. If you are broke, you're not broke girl. Why will you be calling me a broke boy? You cannot be. You cannot be rich. And calling me a broke boy if you are broke, you're also going to call me broke because broke people see broke people. Yeah, and there's no lie about it, there's no crap about it. Yeah, my mom pay billions too much. Yes, you know that the boys, we cannot do what your father cannot do for you. I'm speaking on behalf of all the boys, all the boys. You cannot do what your father like yo, yo, yo. But the boys to challenge this guy, why, if you don't, you know, say you don't get money but you go take this fan shit.
Speaker 1:Maintenance can't person. You know I'm free. Where do you want her to get a maintenance money from? Because she cannot go and see. Oh, mommy, I need, I need money to go and buy, you know a bone straight way. You know 22 inches wake. It's like five thousand. Now she cannot, she cannot go and do that. Bro, one average is up to you to pay or leave it, but it comes to the price. It comes to the price. It's going to have the feeling of the zozi, a feeling of the zozi. It's so like, it's so interesting how these old things have been going on in the street because, hey, you can be there.
Speaker 1:No, why should you know your thousand city out? You have worked for it for the whole month. No, no, bf, right now. Baby, I need it urgently. I need it. I need it for maintenance. I've worked 30 days in a month and you need my monthly salary for maintenance, just maintenance.
Speaker 1:Hey, in this hardship, this economy. But you know my people today, blockholders. You know I'm so more, but then go pay. Um, yeah, it's just a piece of shit. You know it's just a piece of shit. You know a piece of change. You know I'm better. Yeah, I'm very easy, I'm out.
Speaker 1:So if you ain't got it, you just have to take your time. You know, yeah, but you know my temaboy is in dear, my temaboy is need. Yeah, they don't care. Once you're fine, you're fine. We want to hang out with you. You know you want to swim your ocean. We just want. You know we want to have a feeling of you. But we don't understand that you can't see the prize. It's a billion idiot. Or about your car you up, you'll cut you off.
Speaker 1:So expensive. This, no, but no. But me, man, my mom, be expensive dates. Because if you are in Tema, well, well, danny, kempiski, yo, everything is in Tema. Why should I take you on a date to Kempiski Me? My mom, me say KH, my chef, you go to me out of Coviana City and go and have some shots of te tequila or seven kisses. You know some catfish bee. You know some nine school dates. You know if, if my jika crowds were starbite? So some honey dip chicken with some red wine bee, some cool, nice, romantic gates.
Speaker 1:But after that, where are we going to? You go climb bed or you don't go climb bed? Yeah, that's the question you are supposed to ask yourself, because everything shen, shen, shen, shen, ti oda anu, shen, shen, shen, it won't be good. Everything that glitters is not good. You have to have that in mind, my people. You just have to have that in mind, because my breath from the sicker I am, I need to get the wealth of my money. Yeah, hey, we have the, what we have the sims too.
Speaker 1:Sims, you know, sims, you know Sims, you know you guys are simping too much. You are overdoing it this time. You just go and sim, you just pee, pee, pee, pee, pee, pee, but last last, last, last, last last. You are not getting that. What? You are not getting that? What, cookie? I don't know. Though you know, charlie, I show them watching this and I don't want to. You know, I don't want to use certain words, sorry for that. You know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:So the Sims 2, you know, almost someone will meet you. They'll make you feel like you're not doing anything. Yeah, they want to meet you again, spoiling hair, you know, standing on expensive dates and shopping and things, and at the end of the day, they'll make you feel as if you're the only one. But you are doing something. You are doing something, but there's always another guy. There is always another guy. Have it in mind. Guy man there. You have to know that there is always another guy. Yes, and that guy is there. That guy is the one who is doing more than you. If you don't know, today I'm telling you, tell my boy, me, bro, updates. No, I'm bringing you the updates. Yeah, that boy, I'm here. That boy, I'm bringing you this show. What's happened on the streets of tema? Yes, I'm bringing you this show. Yeah, the girls too.
Speaker 1:You know, I don't need your money. I don't need your money. Hey, I don't need your money. Hey, you don't need whose money? You don't need whose money? Is it my money or our money? You don't need? Yes, I don't need your money.
Speaker 1:But last, last, last, last, last last Obagi Bill. No, you will take the bill. Forget it, bill, need the Obagi. I don't need your money. I don't need your money. No, last last, you better pay. You know, are you playing? Stop playing, stop playing. You better pay.
Speaker 1:Hey, I don't need your money. I hate those. I don't need your money, girls, you know, I don't want to pay you more. You know, if you tell me like you need to pay, like I don't want to pay you back, you need to pay. Wow, I don't want. I don't want, I don't want, I don't want, because normally if a girl is not in for your money, you go see her. She's not going to talk, just some non-challenged girl doing her own shit, doing her own shit. But, charlie, I don't need your money for you. They are going to disappoint you in the end. Forget it, just forget about it. It's all about disappointment.
Speaker 1:But yeah, one thing I can't realize about the boys who they pay, most of them the nice thing they know't realize about the boys who they pay, what most of them then they deny, say they know they pay but actually they pay. Argue, let's argue. Yeah, you people, always you, they say oh, I know they pay. Oh me, they mean to you. Oh me, oh no, forget me. Mean to you, but you, people, they pay, you people, you, they pay.
Speaker 1:Pass those with it, like those they claim to be in the pain. I'm not ashamed, not almost a hundred. But those who, oh me, I know they pay. Hey, you, young boy who do, baby, I want to iphone 13, I'm a girlfriend. Hey, what the fuck are you trying to tell me?
Speaker 1:That money, that money isn't legit because, hey, in these hard times, in this hard time but I understand that you know the economy is so, you know, fucked right now and we need to. You know, have a side hustle, have a side hustle, but oh, your side hustle if they make you billions, charlie, remember, say you know, charlie Do billions. No, you didn't do it secretly, but, charlie, you go and buy the 13 promos and put it in money bookie. Oh yeah, now, I'm sorry, we post to a tick tock to talk love, tick tock, love. Now, when I guess there one about come on, pray, I'm gonna try a team pray, say, hey, look at somebody. They did fight girlfriend, somebody. Oh god, baby, do you know? Do you know where he got his money from? And what is vanity? Money bouquet is six, six, six, six. You don't know money bouquet is six, six, six, six. I'm telling you. I'm telling you, look at my face, I could have killed a lot. Money bouquet is six, six, six, six.
Speaker 1:My people, child, don't forget, like I don't get the whole point where, like um, girls just hop on TikTok and they see things. They see that, yeah, some boys have bought their girls cars, phones and stuff. But, charlie, do you know what a girl had to do to get the money? Or do you know what a girl had to do to get that thing? You don't know. Maybe she's doing. She's doing a job perfectly well.
Speaker 1:You know it's not all about all about spreading it. It's not about spreading it. But you know we're having something called responsibilities. If you are able to help me manage my finances, if you're able to take care of me as a man, give me that financial advice, help me to multiply, then why not? I'm just going to spoil you Because you were there for me and finally I became rich. I got the money. Why don't I waste it on you? I didn't say that I'm a balker. I'm a balker, I'm going to do that. I'm going to do that.
Speaker 1:So, please, ladies, just don't go and hop on TikTok, that whole TikTok love, and feel like that's it. No, it doesn't come on a silver platter. If you like, just go do your research, your documentaries. You're going to know that all those kind of things, they don't come on a silver platter. No, they don't. They fucking don't. So, please, please, just relax for us, grow with us if the time is right. Remember this.
Speaker 1:I know that there's this whole analogy of oh, he's gonna get a money and he's going to spend it with someone else, but no, forget it, forget it. That's not the issue. Baby see, get the money with me and see what I'll not spoil you. I, I'm a good boy with that. I'm a very good boy, no doubt about that. No doubt about that. Yeah, and we also the girls, yes, hey, this issue, the girls, um, I'm having a boyfriend, but I think we can try something.
Speaker 1:That's statements if, if, if. That states if you're a boy, if you tell my boy, where that girl do make that statements to you forget. I don't say tell my boys, you guys to the few, oh, charlie, somebody in girl, just to see how. But you should be very careful out there, cause no, yeah, but you're still, you're gonna, you're gonna, you're just gonna, you know, take advantage just because it is, it is, it is there, it's available. But the girls you got you, you guys are really selling that. You guys are really selling the cookie. Because you guys are really selling that. You guys are really selling the cookie. You guys are selling the cookie. You're selling the cookie. You're actually selling the cookie.
Speaker 1:You have a man. How can you tell me that? You know I can try, you can try what. You literally know that you have a man. What do you want to try with me? What do you want to try with me?
Speaker 1:Finally, let's go to the tema broke boys association group, that group. If you want to sign up, I'll just send me a dm or just comment your name, your ig handle or something under the comment section and I'm going to. You know, I'm going to. I'm going to send you the link and the form. The form is just, you know, for a prize. I'm not going to disclose the price, but the the form is for a prize. Yes, we just dm you. I I'll add you to the to my book boss association, because me and I'm a ceo ceo, no, charlie, you initiate by charlie dbi, and I'm not clubbing no puppy, you know, and you can't complain.
Speaker 1:You can't see me, then can't stress me about it. It's my lifestyle and me I'm sick. You can't do anything about it. You know. You girls, stop billing us too much, I beg you, I beg you. We, we men, are natural givers. Men, we are natural givers. When we want to give you, we'll give you. We will spoil you, but suicide will be.
Speaker 1:Then the power struggle sets in, the tension sets in and it's very bad. Please, I beg you, you girls should relax. But if you're having a woman, if you're having a woman and she's trying for you, please at least Some nice gifts be now their manner, so that she'll feel appreciated, you know. But girls, now my love language, your gifts, you know. So it's also a red flag. If someone has not told you, I'm telling you, how can your love language be gifts? I think so if somebody else gives you more than I'm giving you, that means you're going to spread it. You're going to spread it 180 degrees, please, please, yeah. So this was another exciting episode of what Happened on the Streets of Tema Podcast Show. Thanks for watching. Don't forget to like, subscribe and leave a comment. I'm going to catch you up on the next episode. Thank you.