Becoming Unstoppable - Rise, Thrive and Lead with Impact
Becoming Unstoppable is the go-to podcast for fierce female entrepreneurs ready to expand their empires with unapologetic growth, energy mastery, and bold, soul-aligned strategy. Hosted by mindset coach and manifesting queen Rachel Jackson, each episode delivers big energy, real talk, and magnetic tools to help you scale with purpose and become truly unstoppable.
Becoming Unstoppable - Rise, Thrive and Lead with Impact
Stop Forcing, Start Flowing: The Manifestation Shift No One Talks About
Have you ever felt like you're doing all the things—the visualisations, the affirmations, the strategies—yet still not seeing the results you deeply desire? You're not alone, and you're not doing it wrong. There's just one powerful piece most people miss: surrender.
In this deeply transformative masterclass taken from inside the Becoming Unstoppable Sisterhood, I’m lifting the veil on one of the most misunderstood parts of manifestation—the sacred art of surrendering to your soul’s guidance.
We often hear about being in flow, following joy, and trusting the process—but what about the contrast? The moments of discomfort, doubt, or desire for more? These aren’t signs you’re off track. They’re sacred clues. Your soul is constantly gathering data—every frustration, every 'this isn’t it', every moment you crave more—and using it to refine and align your path.
In this episode, I share how I’ve built a business (and a life) not from spreadsheets and strategies, but by listening deeply and acting on intuition—even when it made no logical sense. From launching offers on a whisper to flying to New York on a soul nudge that landed me on a Times Square billboard, this way of living and leading creates results far beyond what the mind can plan.
The real shift? Moving from belief to deep knowing. When you know something is meant for you, you move—even if the path isn't yet clear. And that’s when the magic unfolds.
✨ Inside this episode:
- The energetic difference between pushing and allowing
- The 357 Switch technique to reprogramme limiting thoughts
- Why your ‘too big’ desires are exactly right
- How to live and lead from soul—not stress
If you're ready to stop forcing and start receiving, this episode will completely shift how you manifest, lead in business, and navigate life.
💫 Want to go deeper and surround yourself with women who are doing the inner work to create unstoppable success?Join us inside the Becoming Unstoppable Sisterhood at www.racheljackson.uk and start aligning with your next-level reality—today.
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in this week's podcast episode I am sharing something super special with you. I do an energetic business masterclass every month for the girls in the becoming unstoppable sisterhood, and this month you get to share in the magic too. The powerful recording of the masterclass is this week's podcast episode. So have a listen, enjoy and if you want to come and join the incredible sisterhood, I will pop all the links in the show notes. But please let me know what inspired action you want to be taking after this week's podcast, because this one is such a good one. I hope you enjoy it.
Speaker 1:Hi, ladies, so tonight we're going to be diving into how to tune into flow. Now, this is a topic that most people talk about and it's very high vibe and very flow is that energy where everything just goes right and it's full of synchronicities and it's full of that wonderful feeling where you just feel completely tuned into the universe and that's amazing and that is how it happens. But also there's the other side of flow. That is the bit where you really are shooting off your rockets of desire and sometimes that energy that makes you feel stuck or stagnant or makes you feel a little bit unbalanced or a bit wobbly our natural mind can make us feel like we're doing something wrong. And what I want to start to help you with today is tune into that surrender. How do you live your life according to your soul and that connection to the divine and allow that to guide you, versus trying to do everything through your logical, human mind? Because when we surrender to the floor, we get the best of both worlds. We get to be able to move through the energy that feels sticky and negative and pulls us down in a fast way, in a way that doesn't make us feel like we're doing something wrong or make us feel like we're punishing ourselves. But then we get to enjoy all the other side as well and we get more of that. So we're not in the negative emotion for as long and we're also in the higher emotions for a longer period and it becomes more natural. We don't then think, oh, we're off track. Suddenly our world's falling upside down when we feel a negative emotion, and I'll show you how to embrace that and how to use it to your advantage, because there's always a purpose to those negative emotions.
Speaker 1:So there's a little bit to say it's flow, when really it's surrender, complete surrender, and I don't think this is the part of manifestation that people talk about enough, because they don't fully understand how it works. They don't fully understand that part where you just give everything over, all of that control, all of that idea that you know best, all of that idea that you need a plan and a structure and a strategy. You hand it over completely and that is where it can feel scary and people don't know how to articulate that and how to stay in that frequency for longer periods of time. So it seems to be the bit that it does get skipped over a lot. But one thing that I do and you might have noticed, my business can be quite sporadic and that is because I run my business from this state. I don't run it from a strategy logic point of view, even though my background is leadership coaching. I let that go and I let my intuition guide every step of my business and what I'll do. I'll help you understand how I know that's always the right thing to do, even though sometimes it looks like madness which to the outside world people don't get.
Speaker 1:So there's two parts of us, and one part of us is our inner self. Our inner self is your soul. It's the part of you that come down to this planet. Soul, it's the part of you that come down to this planet and I say down, we talk about it coming down. It came into this planet in your body to experience life, and your soul has had many lifetimes and its job and its purpose in this life. It does have a mission. There is something that it's here to experience and there's something that it's here to do, and often it will be your biggest struggle. So whatever you have really struggled with and whatever you have really had to work on through your life is the thing that it wanted to come to overcome. So sometimes we feel like our struggle is our detriment. It's the thing that's kept us stuck.
Speaker 1:But your soul chose to. It chose your family, it chose the place you were born. It chose all them things because it knew that would give you the best platform to skyrocket to where you need to be. Because if you felt the discomfort from certain things through your past whether it's through family, whether it's through friends, whether it's through where you lived, your upbringing, whatever level of discomfort you felt, that made you want to do something different or made you want to be a certain way. That is what it chose because it knew going through those types of things is going to shoot off those rockets of desire for you and get you to where you're meant to be. So your soul has a plan, but it also wants you to experience as much as possible.
Speaker 1:So your soul and the inner self is always working. It's not something that's left dormant, it's not something that's sat there not doing anything and leaving it over to the human self. What your soul is doing is connecting to all of the energy of the universe. Your soul is a massive creator. It basically shapes all of the energy around you in order to bring you what you want, and your soul's only desire is to work through life, you experiencing what you want. So everything that you desire is possible, and your soul is like the worker bee. Your inner self is this worker bee that is off knowing exactly what you want. Often we worry have we asked correctly, and I'll tell you how it finds out what you want as well. So your soul and your inner self is off manically trying to line up everything for you energetically, absolutely everything. So all it focuses on is you and your happiness, you and those dreams, and it is off getting it for you. So everything is possible. There is no limits to it, absolutely no limits.
Speaker 1:Now, your human mind, the conditioned self, the self that goes through all of those things that your soul chose and makes beliefs and stories about it and rules about how life operates and rules about your worthiness and your deservedness, is over here and this version of you, it's what's living, feeling things, it is your soul's way of touching life, experiencing life, feeling it. Now your soul knows that it is completely worthy, it is completely deserving. There is absolutely nothing standing between your human self and all of your desires. And the way it operates, the way it communicates to you, is through frequency, because everything is energy. So if you think of energy, it's all frequency based, it's all a wave form. As soon as we start to observe energy, it comes into a wave. So your soul is off trying to get everything for you, trying to get everything lined up, and the way it knows what you want is through your human experience. Your human experience has said all of the things that you don't like.
Speaker 1:When you're having those moments where you're complaining, when you're in a rut, when you're feeling down, we think we are pouring energy into what we don't want, which we are, but also what we're doing is we're shooting rockets of desire Because your soul's watching this and going all right, she doesn't like that, so that means she wants the opposite. So absolutely everything is going into that, asking Absolutely everything. So even if you are in that place where you are in a rut, where you're feeling like I don't want this life just isn't working and we make ourselves feel bad, as if I'm gonna ruin my whole life, my manifestation is gonna go to pot, it's really not. Your soul is collecting all that data. Your inner self is collecting it because you are shooting off rockets of desire. So every time you get into that low place, do not worry because even if you don't know fully what you want, your soul has documented what you've been saying over years and years and years, years and years.
Speaker 1:So imagine when have you ever manifested something random but quite big? And it's you. When you look back, you're like, oh wow, I thought about that a couple of years ago, or I thought about that, and then I just put it to one side. Has anybody had that? Nod your head, yeah, and it's because everything is getting documented. Everything your soul wants for your highest best is being documented and sorted out and brought to you, so we don't need to worry about the asking. The asking is completely taken care of, so there is no wrong way to ask. It knows everything and it's documenting everything, but the difference is it talks to us in a way through frequency.
Speaker 1:So our whole journey is meant to be moving our inner self, all this stuff that's been created, and moving it to moving our human self to that inner self. It is meant to be joining the two up, so we're meant to be traveling and moving through things to get to all the stuff that your soul already has ready and waiting for you. Now that sounds easy. Why doesn't it just happen? And that's because we are human and we've been told that everything needs to have a structure, everything needs to have a plan. We need to know the next 10 steps, we need to know how everything's going to work out before we believe it. How many people say I'm going to believe it when I see it, whereas actually you're not going to see it until you move towards it, until you become it.
Speaker 1:So our whole purpose is becoming. It is becoming that next version of us, it is becoming that person who has that energy of the desire we want and, as well our desires, are constantly growing, evolving and changing. You are never meant to stop this cycle. So, even though we're all often looking for the big place where we're going to be completely happy and fulfilled and we're going to be a millionaire and we're going to have the business of our dreams and we're going to have all this freedom and all this success, you are going to want more. You are still, even at that place, going to want more, because that is the whole purpose of your soul To come, to have it, to experience it, and then to want the next thing and to grow and evolve and this constant loop of becoming. So we've got to get out of our own way and stop trying to work towards this big bang thing, because one we're missing the whole journey along the becoming and we're wasting our energy and time waiting for this thing to make us happy, when you might have that thing for six months and then want to move on. So that's why you've got to start to make yourself happy throughout the journey and the becoming, knowing that you are going to get what you want and you're going to want more and you're going to get more. So you've got to learn to enjoy, be happy, embrace, but be expectant that it is all going to work out and you are always going to get what you want. So if that isn't a rule inside your head that you always get what you want it needs to be something now. You need to take that on. To take that on.
Speaker 1:So when we're becoming, this is where it can get a little bit tricky. So our soul and our inner self works on frequency. So it will not give you a step-by-step plan. It will not write you a five-year strategy. It will not give you the next 10 steps at all. It will not tell you how your business is going to unfold at every level.
Speaker 1:And, like I said, I run my business from complete flow and that is why, if somebody asked me, what is your business going to look like in five years? I could not tell you today. I could not answer that question in five years time and I don't want to answer that question because it will put my business into a box that my human mind can only comprehend and not what is possible for me. So you've got to start letting it show you through frequency, and this is where your emotions are your energetic dial. So your emotions are the frequency.
Speaker 1:That is how you tune in. Does it feel exciting? Does this feel bad? If something feels bad, you don't feel the fire and keep touching it. But as a human, we feel the fire and we don't just keep touching it, we stay in it, we stand in it, we make it work for us, we make ourselves feel like we can stand in the fire. It's okay, we should stay here, it's what we wanted all along. We make ourselves stay in these uncomfortable situations and, worse, we actually make ourselves feel like we should make it work or we should be grateful for it, even though it makes us feel bad and uncomfortable. So we stay in places, situations and relationships for far too long, by not recognising the energy and the emotion that's being given to us, not feeling into.
Speaker 1:What is that telling me? Every emotion is a messenger. It's a messenger from your soul saying does that feel good? Do you want to continue with that or does that not feel good? And when it doesn't feel good and it's something you really don't want but you're trying to make yourself want it you're actually shooting off rocket of desires to your soul. So your soul's off trying to get you out of that situation. And the longer you stay in something, you're just pulling and making that distance further between who you're meant to become. So this is why we get ourselves in that out of alignment, feeling things aren't working. We're getting all this stagnancy because we're not listening to the messages that are coming through to guide us to where we need to be.
Speaker 1:And it comes with it being frequency, the angel numbers. That's a sign. All of that. Numbers are frequency based. So, if you think of anything, how do we measure frequency in hertz, which is numbers. So when you're seeing numbers, when you're getting the signs, what are they saying? They're not just a nice to have, they're giving you a symbol, they're giving you a message. They're telling you you're on track or you're off track. They're guiding you towards it. Songs on the radio, things, instagram quotes that you just constantly seeing, seeing, seeing the messages from your soul, the messages to keep you on track or to move you to something else. So if you're seeing quotes and symbols about moving, about changing, about embracing who you are, about stepping away from something, take the hint like a step away from something, from something. Take the hint like a step away from something. Move away from something, because not everything is meant to be. On your journey for long periods of time, things shift, things move, because your desire keeps evolving and changing and growing. So.
Speaker 1:So the way that you start to tune into this is it isn't about building your belief, because if I said I believe I have a brown top on, then that's a bit iffy. Yes, I can see it, I believe I've got it on. There's still a little bit of doubt. It would be like, well, gemma, do you believe I've got a brown top on? Or that picture of that dress where everybody sees blue or everybody sees pink. It just leaves a little bit of ambiguity.
Speaker 1:So we all work on our beliefs, but do we work on our knowing? I know I've got a brown top on, I know my future is all mapped out and got to work out perfectly. And when I talk about my business, that vision I see for my business, that vision I see for my life, I know that it's happening. I know my soul is working on that. And every step I take because I'm choosing to work from flow, every step I take is taking me to that point. The timeline is none of my business. The how is none of my business. All that's my business is the becoming. Who am I at that point? Who am I going to be and how am I going to be operating as that woman? That's my business. That's the bit I start to work on and change the knowing I've done. I 100% know that is my future.
Speaker 1:So if you don't 100% know and you're still doubting or you're still thinking, is it working, is it happening? Is this for me? That's the bit you need to work on, not the strategy, not the looking for the how, because the universe has already got that lined up. Once you get out of your head and out of your way, so once you start to know, then you take action with that knowing. You see the next step, you take it. You feel the next step. That feels good. You take it. You don't sit and wonder, oh, is that the right thing to do? The right thing to do? Because that's where we start to get stuck.
Speaker 1:So, to give you an example, I got a real strong download to launch Visibility Queen. It literally come through me and it was out there within a day or so. Now, as that launch has been going, there's been something playing about with my energy, there's been something not sitting fully right. So I've sat with it, I've went through my journaling, I've done my meditation and I've been doing the energy work I haven't been looking at. Do I need to do it as a funnel? Do I need to do this? Do I need to do that? That would be in my head, and what's actually happened during it is it's got bigger. So visibility queen has actually come through me as a new name, even though I'm still in the launch. It's come through me as becoming unleashing her because it's a like a powerful reclaiming of her, and then what started to come through that is my power, and what I've been sat on for too long because I think I mentioned this on one of our calls is the academy relaunching and the academy being different pathways and then elevated off the back of that. Now I'm getting ready to launch them. Visibility queen still sitting there, but what's actually happened is that unleashing her, just allowing it to generate, is flowing into a book.
Speaker 1:Now, if I didn't take the first step of putting Visibility Queen out, I wouldn't have boosted into the bit of giving me the oomph to start the academy and getting all that out again, and it wouldn't have brought out this idea of this book and what's happening so you can start to look at. Oh well, visibility, queen, I shouldn't have put it out that early. I should have sat and I should have thought about it and I should have done this and I should have done that. That would have been human self. But actually that has lined up so many things, which is so much bigger, because I've been asking for this big, big dream for so long and I've been sat procrastinating and it just took that one course to think boom starts a new thinking, new way of being stepping into different energy.
Speaker 1:But if you don't take the original first step and be okay with it changing, even when you're still launching something, you are not going to be able to get to the bit. That really is the message that's trying to get out. Because if they'd have told me at the beginning this unleashing her book and all of this, I'd have went. I'm not ready, I don't feel it, but going through that journey, going through that process of this last month, has went. Yeah, I'm on it Like I want to get it. I want to get to writing it.
Speaker 1:So really, you've got to stop thinking in your logical brain that we've been taught to do and you've got to stop judging yourself when things change. You've got to allow yourself to change your business and one not worry that it has a detrimental effect on you and what you're perceived as. There is no part of me that does that and go. Oh well, she doesn't know what she's really doing Like what is happening, and I share my ins and outs of how my business flows so that you can start to see it isn't meant to be linear and it isn't meant to make sense to someone who is like structured. You are meant to take these leaps because that is the becoming.
Speaker 1:If I didn't do that original first step and just go wholeheartedly in it, I wouldn't have got to the bit where I went. Yes, I can write that book. My energy, my mindset, everything just wouldn't have been there. So you've just got to start to go with the flow over these and not worry about changing your mind. Not worry about backtracking on something, not worry about how it looks, because it's not about that specific action. It's always about getting you to that highest desire for you and that's your soul's job and it's always doing it. So work on your knowing because what that will do, it will allow you to take that inspired action at every step. It'll allow you to stop judging your actions and knowing that even something that doesn't feel like it works out is working in your favor. And what is it giving you? Because we have to have the bits that don't feel so good in order to shoot those rockets of desire and get you to where you need to be. So what I want to do is just talk you through how those negative emotions do feel and what's actually coming up for you.
Speaker 1:This is a three-step approach. When you're in that space where things just don't feel completely right, how you can navigate through it. One thing I haven't got on here, which I want to add in as an extra step, is stop making negative emotions about something in you personally. Stop bringing negative emotions into your identity. So we often do it. So if, for instance, if we make a mistake, it becomes oh, I never do anything right. Or if, for instance, something doesn't sell as much as you hope, oh, I'm awful at selling, I just can't market properly, I can't talk about my sales, I can't do this and you bring it into your identity.
Speaker 1:So your identity is just your human form, what you are telling yourself you are, but what you're telling yourself you are if it's not aligned to your highest desire. You are just distancing the self between where you are and where you really want to be. So you've got to stop talking down to yourself. You've got to stop making everything negative about you and start to see how worthy you are.
Speaker 1:You're worthy of everything in that desire pot, we'll say, that little bank that's unfolding over here. You are worthy of every single one of those desires. Whether it's billions of pounds, it doesn't matter. You are worthy of every single thing. And really, however much is in that bank, however much is in that pot, it doesn't matter. It's all energy, everything is energy. So the only rule you are putting on it is how much your human self believes it can have or believes how hard it is to get. It isn't hard for the universe to get any form of energy. So your soul, your inner self, has already created massive amounts of wealth that sat there waiting for you.
Speaker 1:The difference is you're sat over here in your human self telling yourself I've got to work hard for money, or I've got to get my business up and running, or I've got to learn how to do this first. You're putting all the rules around how money can get to you. But because you had the desire, your soul has already gone and got you it. You just need to align your knowing with the fact that you can have it. It doesn't need to come in a rule of a business or a rule of a job, or a rule of you being deserving enough for it, or you having to have a hard life so that you can say you can have money, or you having to give to millions of charities just so that you can justify that you're going to be a millionaire. None of that is actually true. So stop allowing your human self to tell you all of these negative things about your worth and your deservedness, because none of that is true. It's just conditioned beliefs throughout the years. So I just want to add that one up front.
Speaker 1:But the other thing is, when we're feeling the negative forces that come in, the negative emotions, like I said, the messengers. So it's a chance to sort through what it is. It's telling you, to sort through what it is it's telling you, firstly, it might have brought you a form of the desire and it might just be trying it on for size. So imagine you've walked into a shop. You picked up lots of clothes. You thought, oh my God, that dress is amazing, how lovely is that? You get into the changing room and then suddenly you're like, oh my God, this is horrible. Is that you get into the changing room and then suddenly you're like, oh my God, this is horrible? Like no, that does not suit me at all. And it's exactly the same with your desires. So you might get something and you might try it on and you're like it's not quite right, I want it a bit more like this. So the negative can be that you're just sifting and sorting. You might just not feel like that's not quite right. I've tried to emphasize but next time we'll do it like this, or we'll add this to it to make it a bit better, or we'll add a scarf that will make it look nice. So allow yourself to sift and sort.
Speaker 1:Not everything's got to be perfect first time. When you attract money, it might not be the millions that you want, but it's like could be a thousand pounds, and then you're like, oh my god, this is amazing. I've attracted all this money and thank you. I know there's so much more next time. So it's like you can start to build that excitement and that energy through this sifting and sorting, rather than thinking I've only attracted this so that only attracted this, sits you in lack, which makes you feel bad because it's like, oh, I wanted five thousand pounds and I've only got a thousand. Or I wanted ten clients in that and I've only got two. It puts you in that energy of lack straight away. And once you feel that energy of lack, it's like right, sift and sort. Was it what you wanted? Do you want more next time? How do you get your inner being to accept more, to receive more? Was there something in your belief around you didn't think you could handle 10 clients? Just a little bit of like, sifting and sorting, see what's going on, seeing where the negativity is coming from, but not making the lack about yourself. It's just a chance to sieve things out.
Speaker 1:The next reason why you might be feeling negative is staying too long in an old desire. We are constantly in this loop of desiring more, getting what we want, moving on. Desiring more, getting what we want, moving on. But the bit that we do because we're human and we connect to things and we think we should be grateful because it's something we wanted 10 years ago we stay in it. We stay in jobs. We stay in relationships, we stay in situations for far too long that make us feel uncomfortable and we try and make it work and we try everything we can, but actually it's telling us we need to release the thing, whether that's family, whether that's friends, whether that's husbands I've been there, done that. Whatever it is, it needs to go because it's making you feel bad. And the reason it's making you feel bad it is not the other person's fault, it is not the situation's fault. You have just energetically moved on and you want more for your life and there's nothing bad with that. And that's where we've got to stop again making that into bad, making yourself feel guilty for it, making yourself feel shame for it, making yourself feel like, well, oh God, you're spoiled. You know you should be grateful with what you have. No, we're meant to keep moving on. We're meant to keep moving upwards and onwards. So people have a choice in that they come with you or they don't, and they might join your journey again at a later stage.
Speaker 1:I know there's a lot of us have those issues with family. I broke away from my family due to outgrowing and being in that different space, and they weren't feeding my energy in the way that was good for me. I broke away from them and what's happened now is we've formed a relationship that's so much healthier because I'm not dependent, I'm not needing that validation, I'm not in that space where love me you know like what I do. I'm in a different space. They're family and I know what I get from them and I'm okay with that. So breaking away allowed me to have a relationship with them in a better space. But if I hadn't have broke away and I'd have stayed, I'd have stayed small Because I'd have stayed in an old place. So don't be afraid of letting things go, because it's always for the best and it's always for that journey of the highest good and it's always for that journey of the highest good.
Speaker 1:And the third reason you could be feeling bad is you are shooting rockets of desire. So you are in the space where you're like this is just not working. I'm not feeling good, I'm feeling dragged down, my energy is not right and you are in that space of saying what you do want to the universe, saying what you do want to your inner self, and it's listening. So the action with that is start to follow the frequency, start to follow the energy. That's the next right step. When we're in that space, the worst thing that we can want is somebody to come and save us, something to come and miraculously work in order to move out of it. We've just got to start following the next best step, because that idea of where you want to be has already been generated, it's already been asked. Your inner self, your soul, is off working to get everything lined up for you. The only way to get out of that space is not to sit there and look for a logical plan. It's to start taking bold, scary action. That feels uncomfortable but, for whatever reason, your inner knowing knows it's the next right step. You don't have to justify it to anybody, you don't have to work it through.
Speaker 1:Think of me with Visibility Queen. I had a knowing, I put it out there and it's led to something so much bigger. I did exactly the same when I went to New York on my own. I got an invite to apply for a space in this workshop in New York, had a knowing it was for me. I did it. Didn't think about how I was gonna get there, how I was gonna pay for it, all the money. It was in three weeks and could I go to New York? Blah, blah, blah didn't let any of that go into my head and I just had a knowing and I went with it.
Speaker 1:Now, the week before that invite come through, I seen it was one of the movie stars the Australian one. I can't remember her name. It was one of the movie stars, the Australian one. I can't remember her name, blonde hair, australian. She's lost a lot of weight. Anyway, she was on an Instagram reel and she was like, oh my God, I'm on a New York Times Square billboard. And at that point I watched that and I was like I'm going to be on one of them one day. Within a week, I got the invite to apply for this place in New York. I got the place within three weeks. I was there and I was on a New York Times Square billboard. My face was on that billboard.
Speaker 1:So do not underestimate this knowing. It is crazy and you are never going to be able to map the steps or even contemplate how it can work out for you. So you just have to go with it and you just have to take the next step. And you know the next step. We always go. I need clarity. No, you don't. You know the next step. You've got it in your heart already. It's already popped in. You're just too scared to take action on it because you don't know where it's going to lead. And that's the bit, that is the bit of your becoming that you have to start surrendering and trusting and taking that next step, whatever that's calling you to do, and you'll get all the signs. You'll get the angel numbers, you'll get the quotes, you'll get the songs, like the feathers, the butterflies, they'll all be buzzing around you and you'll be sat there ignoring it if you don't take that next step.
Speaker 1:And what that happens when you stay in that place, if you don't take it, you're just going to feel more uncomfortable, more out of alignment, because your inner self already has that sat-nav set. You've said you want this. You've said you want this. You're still saying you want this because you sat there and you're uncomfortable and you're not happy. So I know that you want this thing. Come on, come on, come on. And it's like a buzzer going off constantly. You'll feel it and you're like I just know there's something, but I'm not doing it. No, you're not taking the action. So it's like the universe comes and slaps you. So it really is.
Speaker 1:How do you start to navigate through that so you're not feeling crap for so much longer than you need to be, because that's all we're doing. We're sat in this energy that doesn't feel right. So we've really got to start increasing our knowing versus the belief. So there's three questions that you can start to ask yourself and start to work on giving yourself confidence that you know what to do, and giving yourself confidence and proof that's going to soothe your human self and allow you to see that this really does work, because you'll know deep down when you've took those risks, they'll have paid off, but you won't be able to articulate and prove it and make it all make sense to someone else who's watching, and then that makes you feel like am I the crazy one? Am I the only one who gets this? So it's, how do you up that level of knowing? And so these are three journal prompts that can really help you dive into that and cement this belief that everything works out.
Speaker 1:So when have you done something that was scary and felt really big, but it completely worked out for you? Just let that one sink in, and I'll write these in the group as well. But when have you done something that was scary and it still worked out for you, in your favor. When have you done something that didn't make any sense at all and it still worked out for you? It felt like the craziest thing in the world and it still worked out.
Speaker 1:So for me, I quit my job at 20. I got a really good job in a bank. I was loving it. Just got an urge I wanted to go to Zante. I wanted to live in Zante, Just quit my whole job, packed up, moved from Carlisle to back home while I got sorted. Then went off to Zante for six months, booked a two-week holiday, didn't have a job, didn't have an idea, didn't have a flat, just went, all worked out. It was amazing. It's the best experience. Still talk about it now, 20 years on. Still talk about living abroad. It's still pulling me.
Speaker 1:So it is like that six month of my life. It's one of them things that I'm like. It set me off on a crazy journey of just being courageous and that is one of the things I'm so grateful for doing. But to anybody else, to quit your job and just do that people thought I was nuts, especially when I just got a really good job in a bank, a job for life in your 20s. You know what are you doing going and having the most amazing time and being courageous and setting myself up for the next like, however many years, making big, brave decisions. So you know you'll all have these things that just didn't make any sense but worked out in the end.
Speaker 1:And then look at where have you had the biggest redirection of your life and it just become the best thing ever. So it was the biggest rejection as well, the biggest time that you got knocked back, knocked off your feet, but actually got put on the right path, because that's the universe directing you, moving you away from what it is that you don't want. And when did you end up in a space that was actually your true desire overall? So when you got that rejection, have you ended up in somewhere that feels so much better, so much more aligned and it all worked out? So once you start to acknowledge these three things and start to look at it, you can start to see that there's proof in it.
Speaker 1:And then I want you to start to the fourth journal point that I want you to think of. When have you stayed somewhere too long and it was really detrimental to you. So that could have been a relationship, could have been a situation, could have been a job, could have been a place, but where have you stayed? Somewhere too long and it actually detrimented you, your health, your mental health, your well-being. It won't have knocked you back on your path, but it might have knocked you emotionally and well-being point of view. So have a think of that, because what we're doing here is building the proof that following your gut, following that knowing, works in your favor every time. And actually, when you stay and try and make something work and try and overcome it, that's when you get pulled down further and further and further. So what it is overall, just to summarize, your soul already knows what is right for you, what your desire is, all the most amazing desires, it's literally took them all and went. How do we make this better than ever? And really quick, because you'll notice, when you're in this state of flaw, everything is actually better than you expected and bigger than you expected.
Speaker 1:So, like I said with my business, when I first started off, in my human mind I was like right, I'll get a massage bed, I've got my desk, I've got a couple of chairs, I'll start doing some coaching and some mass um energy work from my house and then you know, like five years on, I'll maybe go online and you know, try and break the online world and do it that way. I never used the energy bed once and like online was right from the beginning, took right off. I took my, my five-year plan into really like two. So who am I? I couldn't have wrote any of that, couldn't have foreseen the podcast, couldn't have foreseen the, the book like. All it took was me following those steps, following my intuition and my higher self. My soul got me there quicker than I could ever have done it. So but if I hadn't went off and bought the bed and done the, the desk and the two chairs and everything, would they have thought I was really serious about it? Probably not.
Speaker 1:So again, it's one of those other things. Take that aligned action. The next step appears. Take the aligned action. Covid appears. I'm not saying I predict like I put COVID out there, but it did speed everything up. So it's your soul knows and it knows how to make it better, bigger and even more jazzy than you could ever think of. So stop trying to make something amazing from your human self, because you're not going to be able to do it.
Speaker 1:Just know that everything you desire is getting banked, getting banked in that pot, and it's getting ready and waiting for you. Hot, and it's getting ready and waiting for you. All you have to do is follow the frequency, follow the emotions, follow the excitement, allow yourself to feel good along the way and tune in and become that version of you that knows you are worthy of it 100%. That is your job, it is not to doubt. Is it going to happen for me? Is this going to work out? How am I going to do it? None of that is your job, Because it's already happening. You're on the journey now, like whatever point you're on, you're on it now and it's all working towards this point, and then, when you get it, the desire is going to be even bigger. So allow yourself to grow into it.
Speaker 1:And often they bring you the desire before you feel ready, and part of your becoming is having that desire and growing into it. So, just to give you a brief example of that, I got my dream job as a corporate coach in the business that I work in, the nuclear sector Felt oh my God, this is a dream job, absolutely amazing. So buzzing about it, got that job, knew how to do it, didn't feel fully confident. I've been in that role for I don't know six years or something and I am so good and so experienced and so like the expert in my field. So I have become that woman who has that dream job. But that's not my dream now. But during that process of getting the job to where I am now, I have become her, and what I have also become is the woman who dreams the next version and the next version and the next version.
Speaker 1:So you can get the desire before you're even fully ready. You don't need to be ready to have the desire and you just move and grow and evolve whilst you're in it. So it's really not your job to say when you're ready, when you feel okay about it, when you feel like you're going to be the expert, just go and do it scared, because all the rest is the becoming part and the enjoyable bit. So a lot of information, but your job is just to follow the frequency, take the action, keep dreaming, don't get stuck in old dreams, don't get stuck with old people, places or situations that you need to release and start to just keep this cycle of movement. Going because, remember, energy is always moving. It's fluid. You're not meant to stay stuck. You're not meant to stay stuck. You're not meant to stay stagnant. You're not meant to stay in an old dream. You're meant to keep going, and going, and going. So whatever you're dreaming about now isn't going to be what you're dreaming about next year. It's going to be bigger. I hope you enjoyed that episode.
Speaker 1:At this point, I broke off and had some amazing questions coming out from the sisterhood and one of them I want to share with you. I answered in a way that can start to reprogram and change your thoughts around. There was a question around what do you do when people are judging what you do, or you feel like you're always having to justify what you do in business, and when you are running your business from a place of flow rather than logic and perception of what people think you should do? It can open us up to feeling like we need to justify it and if you're in this space, you can start to reprogram your brain and start to reprogram your thoughts in a way that's powerful. So in this next answer, I share the 357 switch, which is how you reprogram the neural pathways, and this can work with anything. Whether you are thinking negative about people judging your business, whether you're feeling negative about your body, whatever negative thought you are having, you can do a 357 switch on it. So listen here to the answer and see how you can adopt this approach.
Speaker 1:One thing I want to share with you, to start, because we could be under actual physical attacks from people. So things people are saying judgment coming in, but often that's not the case. Often it can be our mind creating those scenarios of what if or what are people thinking. So it can be a bit of both. And there's a rule that you can start to do to start to reprogram and rewire your mind. So it's called the 3-5-7 rule. It's the 3-5-7 switch.
Speaker 1:So if you think of, say you're thinking, oh, I'm always having to justify what I do, how do you then say three things that are more powerful than that Flipping the thinking? So if you were going to say, oh, I'm always having to justify what I do in my business, I'm a really successful business owner. I always know what to do in my business. I am always making powerful moves in business. To add the five, every decision I make leads to success. I am so powerful and attractive to other people in my business. So that's five, and then you could add seven. I am the most amazing entrepreneur, even though I'm new to this. I'm absolutely killing it and I am so clear in my decision-making no one ever asks me what I'm doing. Because I am so clear in my decision making, no one ever asks me what I'm doing because I am confident, clear and I own what I do.
Speaker 1:So if you start to switch it every time you feel that negative thought, you do either three, five or seven positive switches you will start to rewire your brain. You're literally rewiring your neural pathways. If you continue to allow it, you're feeding the old version of you. You're feeding the version that doubts. You're feeding the version that doesn't feel good enough. You're feeding all of that, even if people are physically doing it. One't engage, you don't need to justify yourself to anyone and then go do your neural pathways. You're switching your 357 switch. Thank you so much for listening to this week's podcast episode. Tune in next week for more from becoming unstoppable. But if you loved this episode, please pop a review in. And if you want more of these monthly masterclasses, come and join the sisterhood. There's a place with your name on it, and I can't wait to see you in there. Have the best week. Catch you soon. Bye you.
