Canaries in the Coal Mine

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Adult Life

Shannon Season 1 Episode 10

What if your panic attacks... your insomnia... your people-pleasing—weren’t quirks, but survival instincts?

Childhood trauma doesn’t end when we grow up. It lingers—in our relationships, our nervous systems, and our sense of self.

In this video, we’ll unpack how trauma rewires the brain and body, why high-functioning adults still feel unsafe inside, and what healing actually looks like. We’ll explore:

- How trauma rewires the brain and nervous system
- Emotional flashbacks (aka why small things feel so big)
- Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn in adulthood
- The connection between trauma and our adult relationships
- What healing actually looks like—practically and compassionately


🔄 NEED A NEXT STEP?
Watch this powerful follow-up:
→ 10 Narcissistic Behaviors You Were Taught to Call Love
https://youtu.be/ibfMhXyqMmg

Or try this video next:
→ What Being a ‘Cycle Breaker’ Really Means
https://youtu.be/UQuw9pgf03E



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💬 LET’S TALK...
What’s one way your childhood still shows up in your adult life—physically, emotionally, or in relationships?
Leave your truth in the comments. 💛



📄 MORE FREE GUIDES:
The HSP Survival Map – 7 Tools to Protect Your Energy
https://www.thecanariesinthecoalmine.com/b3d41t3hp2

9 Tools to Set Healthy Boundaries
https://www.thecanariesinthecoalmine.com/9fm4dggzsl

What Counts As Trauma?
https://www.thecanariesinthecoalmine.com/7p5rqdzs20



⚠️ DISCLAIMER
This video is NOT sponsored.
Some links may be affiliate, which means I may earn a small commission if you choose to buy—at no extra cost to you.



⏰ TIME CODES
0:00 — What if your trauma is still running the show?
0:30 — Childhood homes that “looked fine” but didn’t feel safe
1:31 — Emotional flashbacks & nervous system triggers
2:55 — How trauma reshapes your brain and body
4:38 — Trauma’s impact on adult relationships
6:45 — Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn: how they show up now
8:17 — Coping, numbing, and the myth of being “too much”
9:18 — What real healing looks like
11:14 — A message if this video hit you deeply



💛 ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
This space is for the cycle breakers.
Highly sensitive people.
The deeply feeling.
The ones who wonder if they’re “too sensitive.”

You’re not.
You’re wired for truth—and your healing matters.

New cinematic episodes every other Sunday.
Tools for nervous system healing, not quick fixes.



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