10 Ways to Tell If Your Online Date is Just Looking for Validation

He's all charm and emojis online. Suggest meeting up and he vanishes. You're not imagining it. 📱🚩

👉 In this video, women's relationship coach Sascha Haert breaks down 10 ways to tell if your online date is actually interested in you or just using you as his personal confidence boost. Once you see these signs, you cannot unsee them.

If you've ever felt like you're the one keeping the conversation alive, noticed his energy only spikes when you pull away, or watched him go online and leave your message unread for hours, this video names every single pattern and how to stop letting it cost you your time and energy.

As a women's relationship coach, Sascha calls out all 10 signs with zero sugarcoating:

✔️ Always fishing for compliments… real interest is about connection, not collecting validation
✔️ All talk and no action… Mercury retrograde, sick dog, broken screen, always an excuse, never a date
✔️ Disappears and reappears on a cycle… not a scheduling issue, that's a strategy
✔️ Energy only goes up when you start pulling away… he's not afraid of losing you, he's afraid of losing your attention
✔️ Noncommittal about everything… "just going with the flow" means perks without effort
✔️ Surface-level only… engaging just enough to keep you around, never enough to actually invest
✔️ Online but not for you… responding hours later like nothing happened
✔️ Dodges every real conversation about feelings, intentions, or where things are going
✔️ Flirty virtually, pulls back the moment you try to build something real
✔️ You feel like you're chasing him… if you're the audience, he's not looking for a relationship

💡 It's not that you're not enough. He may simply never have wanted more in the first place. His goal was never to build something real. It was a self-esteem boost at your expense.

⚠️ You deserve someone who is emotionally invested in you. Save your energy for that person, not for someone who treats your attention like a resource to tap whenever he needs it.

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Which of these 10 signs have you experienced? Drop it in the comments.

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